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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 30 days have passed since I gave my landlord my deposit, and he is still holding on to it until he gets his back. What are my options? Do I just wait? What's also trou

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1. I'm being given a hard time by my landlord for not giving me my deposit back, and I'm not sure what to do. 2. I'm worried that he's going to

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: 1. Need a story for an anthropology work. 2. I'm in college, i'm doing an antropology work. 3. I'm not looking for an incredible and full of awe

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: I'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life, and i'm looking for some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media but she doesnt respond to anything i say. should i say something, or am i being too clingy? what should i say? any advice

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? dont

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm, lost my job, can't use arms while standing, can't use computer effectively when sitting, don't qualify for disability, what should I do for work? what'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm and can't use it for anything. I have dysgraphia and can't use my arms while standing or sit and am trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal too high? Is it possible to do it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? Could that be the reason I haven't lost weight? EDIT:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1. Helmet straps should always be tucked away from the wheel. 2. If you are going to ride a bike, always wear a helmet. 3. Don't ride a bike if you

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1. I rode a bike today, helmet was hanging down near the wheel, got caught in the wheel, bike stopped, I fell hard and got injured. No head injury though. 2. What are some common

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in shower room and the drill instructor allowed them to stay in the Marine Corps. Do you have any similar stories? EDIT: Thanks for all

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in recruit training and the drill instructor allowed them to stay in the Marine Corps. Do you have any similar stories? EDIT: I apologize

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went out to play football on a field nearby, scored a goal, kicked it hard and hit my friend in the face. His nose started bleeding and he went deep into rage. 2. Played counter

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1) Went for penalty shot, hit friend in face, nose started bleeding, ragequit csgo rank, lost good friend. Funny story. What's your worst accident/situation where you got pi

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro Star Wars toys, all together in a shopping cart, for free, i took them home. What would you have done? Would you have taken them? What would you have done with them

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Star Wars toys, all disassembled, were left in a Walmart parking lot, i took them and put them together. Is this stealing or reassembling? You be the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Should I put a job on my resume that I was fired from? 2) If so, was I fired? 3) If so, should I put it on my resume? 4) If so,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Is it worth it to put a job on my resume if I was set up for failure and had to work extra hard to get things done? 2) Is it worth it to put a job on my resume if

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl that I've been friends with for a long time doesn't have any friends. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with me playing video games and eating pizza? Also don'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16m and 16f, want to hang out with her, but I don't have a car. Do you guys think it's okay to ask her to go out with me? Also have 0 experience with

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days ago a girl I went to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her. We've been flirting a little and I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 16m, used to go to school with, started flirting, don't know when to ask for number or when to ask her out, worried about dating window closing if I don't make a move.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy and 2) I'm not sure what to do about it. EDIT: I'm not sure what to do about the fact that I'm unhappy. I'm not sure

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy with my job. 2) I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application. 3) I'm not sure what to do. 4) I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship, gf refuses to have sex with me despite saying she likes sex. I need advice on how to approach this situation. I feel as though I am being wasted. Help please!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year girlfriend refuses to have sex with me despite claiming to like sex. I need advice on how to get her to have sex with me again. EDIT: I should note that I have tried to be as non

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months in, almost said I love you to my bf. Wondering if it's love or infatuation. What do you think? Is love a feeling or a choice? Can you choose to love someone? Is love

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months with bf, almost said I love you, not sure if love is what I'm feeling, can't tell if it's infatuation or the real deal. Help?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16/m and 16/f have been on and off for six months. She broke it off a few times and just wants to be friends. I'm confused. What do I do? Any chance of saving thi

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 6 month relationship on and off. Girlfriend has broken up with me three times. Just got back together. Just got called up and just wants to be friends. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 year old male realises the chemistry isn't there for him after 4 dates with a girl (22) and wonders if it is wrong to continue seeing her and leading her on if he doesn't see

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 4 dates with a girl, she likes me alot but i don't feel the chemistry for her, should i end it or continue seeing her? I don't want to mislead or lead her on.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: Girlfriend is going on a trip with a single friend who likes to hook up, I am afraid that she will be drawn into the situation and I am not sure what to do. What should I do? Are these kind of thought

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. My gf is going to a trip with her single friend and I am afraid that she will be drawn into the bar/club environment and will be drunk and will not remember anything the day after. 2. What should

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1. I am scared that the girl I am dating will be overly attached to me and I don't know if I should tell her. 2. I don't know how to tell her. 3.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1. Started dating a girl knowing I don't love her, but I am starting to like her. I am scared that she will be overly attached and make me go through a potential horror breakup if I don

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year relationship fading, trying to make objective decision to pursue other girl instead, but feel like I am just looking for an excuse to end relationship. Need advice on what to do. Help pls!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year relationship fading, girlfriend coming back soon, feel attracted to another girl, not sure if I should pursue her or not, stuck, need advice. Help pls!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after being broken up with I lost my virginity to a new girl but I am beginning to not trust her. What can I do to get over my ex and trust this new girl?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship I lost my virginity to a new girl and I am beginning to not trust her. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1. Paid for visa well in advance. 2. Got confirmation email. 3. Didn't print letter. 4. No reply from company. 5. I got my visa. 6

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1) Paid for visa well in advance. 2) Got confirmation email. 3) Went back to inbox and didn't find letter. 4) Tried to contact company and got no reply.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 1. Broke up with long time girlfriend. 2. She was hanging out with her no life stoner friends. 3. I know this was the right decision. 4. How do I move forward?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 3 year off and on relationship ended. I feel better but not sure how to move forward. What should I do?** EDIT: I just want to thank everyone for the supportive comments. I really appreciate it. I'm

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's in a lot of pain but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, what do I do?** EDIT: I'm in the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's in a lot of pain but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, what do I do? EDIT: I'm in the UK

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening fingers. I'm concerned it might be something more than just a non-issue. Need advice on what it could be. Thanks!? :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 y/o female having trouble opening her fingers after making a fist. Not sure if it's a trigger finger or what. Wondering if I should bring it up to my doctor. Any thoughts? Thanks! :)!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 17 year old sister is seeing a 30 year old friend of my father. She says she loves him, and vice versa. Should I tell my father or just let it go? Is it right or wrong? What

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 18F sister is seeing 30M friend of my father, she says she loves him, I'm not sure if it's a good idea, should I tell my father or stop her? What do I do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs are bored all the time when I visit, I want to make them happy. Any games or tricks that will keep them interested? Any ideas? Any suggestions? Any help? Any advice?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs are bored and depressed when I visit, I want to keep them happy and give them something to do. What are some unusual dog games? Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks! :) EDIT

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship, don't talk as much as we used to, unsure how to handle it and if I should stay with him. Help pls! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship, don't talk much anymore, how do I handle this? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Need advice as to how to handle this. Help please! :( :(

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with girl I consider a close friend. She is toxic and I need to end it but I'm afraid she will hurt herself. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need to end it but worried about how she will handle it and if I'm a horrible person for being upset. Need outside perspective. pls help! pls help! pl

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: Is it appropriate to ask a professor to have lunch just to be social? I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: 1) Is it okay to ask a professor to lunch just to be social? 2) If so, what's the appropriate way to go about it? Should I ask her in person or over email? What if she say

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 year old male, unprotected sex with a girl from out of town, she took the first dose of Next Choice 10 hours after we did it, think our chances of not being pregnant are decent

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 17 year old male had unprotected sex with a 18 year old female. She's not pregnant but I need to know if there are any military options for me if I have a child to raise. I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 month relationship, boyfriend's friend let slip that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. Need advice on how to approach this with boyfriend. I come from a very stable family. Help!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 months relationship, boyfriend's mother abandoned their family when he was young. I am not sure how to approach the subject or help him feel more at ease with me. Need advice. Please help! :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1. Moved out, landlord refuses to give me deposit until he gets his back. 2. tenant refuses to give me my deposit until he receives his. 3. what are my options?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1) I'm moving out, and the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. 2) He's from out of the country,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: I'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life, i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: Need a real life story, not a fake one. Need some sincerity. Need to be anonymous. Need to be able to tell the story of someone's life. Need to be able to tell the story

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, should i say something, or am i being too clingy? help pls! pls pl

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I lost my arm, can't use it for anything, and I have dysgraphia. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food st

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my right arm and can't use it for anything. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal too high? Is it possible I am burning more calories than I think? Or am I just

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1) Wore a helmet 2) Got the helmet caught in the front wheel 3) I landed on my knees, left arm, and hip. I'm okay but I'm a little shaken

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1) How do you deal with the pain of a bike accident? 2) What do you do to make the recovery easier? 3) How long does it usually take to recover from a bike accident? 4)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in public and were given a 1 way ticket into the navy where it is deemed normal....Do you have any similar stories? EDIT: I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other in recruit training and the drill instructor told them they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1) Kicked friend in the face while playing football, scored, he went into rage, teamkilled in csgo while playing with me. Rank lost. Still feeling sorry. What's your worst accidental friendship/rom

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went out to play football on a field nearby, scored a goal, kicked it hard and hit my friend in the face. His nose started bleeding and he went deep into rage. 2. Played counter

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro toys, all disassembled, just waiting to be put together, free for whoever wants them. I took them and i'm going to put them together for my niece.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart, for free. What would you do with this loot? What would you build? What do you think i

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Should I put this past experience on my resume even though it was a training/learning experience that didn't go as planned? 2) Will future employers be concerned that I was so dedicated and worked so hard?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Is it worth it to put a job on my resume if I was set up for failure and had to work extra hard to get things done? 2) Is it worth it to put a job on my resume if

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl doesn't have any friends, would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with me playing video games and eating pizza? Also, do you think it's okay to ask her to go

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl who doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with me playing video games and eating pizza? Also have

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days ago a girl asked me if I remember her. I don't know when to ask for her number or when to ask her out. I'm socially inept and self conscious about my body right now

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 19m with 19f that I used to go to school with. She asked for my number. I'm not sure when to make a move. I'm also self conscious about my body right now. I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1. I'm unhappy with my work and I'm not sure what to do. 2. If they offered me a lot of money/extras, I'd consider waiting it out on the condition that several thing

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy and 2) I don't know what to do about it. Thanks in advance for any advice. I really appreciate any help you can offer. I'm just looking for a way out

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship with no sex. Girl refuses to have sex with me despite repeated requests. I feel wasted and frustrated. Need advice on how to deal with this situation. Help please!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship. Girl won't have sex with me. I feel like I am wasting my sexual prime. What do? Thanks in advance for any help. I really need some advice. Any and all opinions welcome. I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months with bf, almost said "I love you" to him, not sure if love is what I'm feeling, need advice. Pls halp. Thanks! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months in, almost said I love you to my bf. Wondering if it's love or infatuation. What do you think? Is love a feeling or a choice? Can you choose to love someone? Is love

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend has broken up with me three times in the last six months. I'm confused and want to know what to do. Help please. :) !!! :) !!! :) !!! :) !!! :) !

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16/m and 16/f been in on and off relationship for under six months. Girlfriend has broken it off three times. Last time was just a few days ago. Very confused. Need help. How do I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 4 dates with a girl, she likes me alot but i don't feel the chemistry for her, should i end it or continue seeing her? I don't want to mislead or lead her on.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 year old me met a girl (22) who i like alot but the chemistry isn't there for me, should i continue to see her? Is it wrong to do so? Thank you! (

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. gf going on trip with single friend who likes to party and hook up, I am afraid that she will be drawn into the situation and get drunk. What else is she going to do? 2. What should

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1) Gf going on trip with single friend. Friend is likely to pursue low energy activities. I am afraid that gf will be drawn into this environment. What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 19m, dating a girl, not sure if I like her, she is way more serious than I am, don't know if I should tell her how I feel, and I am scared she will make me go

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1) started dating a girl knowing I don't love her, unsure about how much i like her, scared she will be overly attached and make me go through a potential horror breakup if i don't stay

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year relationship fading, trying to decide if I should end it before pursuing another girl. Feelings are mutual, but I am not sure if I am looking for an excuse to end it. What do I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year old me and 16 year old her have been dating for 5 years. She moved away and we have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has faded. She is coming back soon and

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship I lost my virginity to a new girl and am starting to not trust her. How do I get over my ex? And am I being irrational? I really like this new

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship with a girl I loved I lost my virginity to a new girl I really like but am starting to not trust her. How do I move on from this? Am I being irr

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1) Paid for visa well in advance. Didn't print letter. No letter. No visa. No flight. Double curses.** 2) Tried to get it replaced. No luck. Got it later

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1. Paid for visa well in advance. Got confirmation email. Didn't print letter. No letter. No visa. Double curses. 2. Went to another website that offers expedited visa

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 2+ years of on and off relationship with girlfriend. Ended it today. Not sure how to move forward. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. Any advice is greatly appreciated. =

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 1. Broke up with long time girlfriend. 2. She was hanging out with her no life stoner friends. 3. I'm not sure how to move forward. 4. Thanks for letting me

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure' but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, advice please? EDIT: Thanks for all the advice,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's happy but im not sure how long I can wait to say goodbye. Help please?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening fingers. Not sure if trigger finger applies. Just want some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. Thanks! (sorry for the formatting). I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 y/o female with possible flexion contracture of her middle finger. Not sure if I should bring it up to my doctor. Thoughts? EDIT: Thanks for all the advice. I'll definitely bring it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 15 year old sister is seeing a 30 year old friend of my father. Not sure if I should tell her to stop, or if I should tell my father. What should I do? I'm really not sure.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 19F sister is seeing 40M friend of my father, not sure if I should intervene, or just let them do what they want. What do I do? What do I say to my sister? What do I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 bored dogs need some entertainment, please suggest games/toys/etc that will keep them entertained for a while. Also, please suggest games that will make them happy for at least a day. Thanks!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs get really bored when I visit, I want to keep them happy for as long as possible. Any suggestions for games that will keep them interested? Any ideas for new games? Any advice? Thanks!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 3-4 days per week, nonstop talking, to now once a week. How do I communicate with him so we can move in together? Should I be worried? Or should I just leave? Help me Reddit! I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship, don't talk much anymore, he doesn't seem to want me around, should I stay or go? How do I handle this? Help please. :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need to end it but worried about her mental health and potential suicide risk. Need outside perspective on situation. Help pls!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need to end it but worried about how she will deal with it and if I'm a horrible person for being hurt. Help please!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: 1. Is it appropriate to ask a professor to have lunch with you just to be social? 2. If so, how should I go about asking her? Thanks! :) EDIT: I'm also interested in hearing about

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: 1) Is it appropriate to ask a professor to have lunch just to be social, even if she's not officially my advisor? 2) If so, what's the best way to go about asking her? Should

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 year old male had unprotected sex with a 19 year old female, she took the second dose 12 hours after we did it. I think our chances of her not being pregnant are decent but

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 year old male, had unprotected sex with a 18/f, took next choice as BC, think we're ok but want input on options if she is pregnant. Plans to start college in the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 month relationship. Boyfriend's mother abandoned their family when he was very young. I am having trouble processing this and want to help him feel more at ease with me. How can I approach this with him? Any help is appreciated

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: My boyfriend's mom abandoned their family when he was young and I found out through his friend. How do I approach this with him? How do I help him feel more comfortable with me? I come from a family where my parent

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1. Moved out, landlord refuses to give me deposit until he receives his deposit back. 2. Tenant refuses to give me deposit until he receives his. 3. What are my option

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 2 months rent, deposit, and now I'm being refused my deposit back until he gets his back. What are my options? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: Need a real human story, no fake stuff, no bs. I'm looking for something like 2 - 3 pages. I'm in college, studying arts in Barcelona. Any help is appreciated. Thanks! /r

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: I'm doing an antropology work and i need a real human story, not a fake one. I'm in college and i'm doing an antropology work. I'm not searching for an incredible and

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me out of the blue, should i say something? or am i being too clingy? help plz :/ :/ :/ :/ :/ :/ :/ :

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I lost my arm, can't use it for anything, have dysgraphia, and I'm not disabled. What should I do for work? What's my next step? How can I get out

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago broke right arm, lost job due to complications, can't use arms whilst standing, can't use computer effectively when sitting, trained in construction and auto maintenance, need guidance on what to do for work. help

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal too high? Is it possible to do this on your own? If so, how? Thanks!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal too high? Is it possible to have a calorie intake goal that is too high?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1. I was riding a bike and got injured. I don't know if I hit my head or not. What do I do? 2. How do I tell if I have a concussion? What are

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 30+ year old male, no injuries, bike accident. Bike stopped, I flew over handlebars, landed hard on knees, left arm, and hip. No head injuries. What are the odd

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other in recruit training and the drill instructor allowed them to stay in the Marine Corps. Do you have any similar stories? EDIT:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other and the drill instructor told them they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Kicked friend in the face, made him bleed. 2. Went out mid, he ragequit the game and we died. 3. Rank went down. 4. Friend got pissed.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1) Went out to play football, scored a penalty shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend in the face. His nose bled and he went into rage. 2) Played counterstrike with him,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro Star Wars toys, all in one cart, free for whoever wants to put them together. What would you do if you found this? What would you do with it? Would you put it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro Star Wars toys, all disassembled, free for the taking, i took them, i'm the only one who put them together, i'm the only one who got to

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1. Should I put a job on my resume that I hated? 2. Was it a good experience? 3. Should I include it in my interview? 4. Should I include it in my application?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Was set up for failure at training job, 2) management was uninvolved and conflicting advice/directions, 3) coworkers always cut corners and do crap work, 4) I stay

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl I've been talking to for a few months doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with me playing video

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl who doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Is it okay to ask her to spend a day with me and my friends playing video games and eating pizza?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days into a conversation with a girl and I don't know when to make a move. I'm socially inept and I'm worried that there is a dating window that will close if I don

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 16m, used to go to school with girl, she asked for my number, I don't know when to make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now. I don't

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy with the way things have been handled at work. 2) Senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position. 3) Things have been so insane lately we haven'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1. I'm unhappy 2. I'm being offered a huge raise/promotion but things at work are so messed up I don't want to stay 3. What do I do? EDIT:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship with girl, we have sex less than 5 times in almost 1 year. She says she likes sex, but she never ever does. Need advice. Help pls!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship, gf refuses to have sex with me despite saying she likes sex and wants to have it. I need advice on how to get her to have sex with me. EDIT: I'm not sure if

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months with bf, almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him, don't know if love is what I'm feeling, can't tell if it's infatuation or the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months with bf and I don't know if I'm in love or infatuated. I've never been in love with a guy before. Need advice. Please help. Thank you. EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 6 month relationship on and off, gf broke up with me, stated she didn't love me anymore, showed signs of affection on date, confused, need advice. Wondering if there is any chance of saving this relationship. Help

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend has broken up with me for the third time in under six months. I'm confused and would like some advice on how to save this relationship. Thank you. I appreciate your time. I really do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 year old who has been on 4 dates with a girl (22) and realised the chemistry isn't there for me. Should i continue to see her as she likes me alot and i enjoy it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 year old guy (me) is seeing a girl 22 (who i like) but the chemistry isn't there for me, is it wrong to continue seeing her? Should i tell her? Thanks in

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. My gf is going to a trip with her single friend and I am afraid that she will be drawn into the bar/club environment and will be drunk and will not remember anything the day after. 2. What should

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. gf going on trip with single friend, I am worried that she will be drawn into the bar/club environment and get drunk. What should I do? 2. Are these thoughts rational? What should I do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 19m unsure if I like girl, scared she will be overly attached and make me go through a potential horror breakup if I don't handle it. Need advice. What should I do? Please help!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1) I am scared that a girl I am dating will be overly attached to me and will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. 2

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year old me and his 16 year old girlfriend have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has faded. She is coming back soon, and I am attracted to another girl. I do not

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year relationship fading, girlfriend coming back soon, feel attracted to another girl, not sure if I should pursue her or not, stuck, need advice. Help pls!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 1 month into a new relationship and I am already having trust issues with the new girl I am dating. What can I do to fix it? How long does it usually take for trust issues to go away? Should I even be having

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship I lost my virginity to a new girl I really like but am starting to not trust her. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1) Paid for visa in advance. 2) Got confirmation email. 3) Went back to inbox and didn't find letter. 4) Tried to contact company and got no reply. 5

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1) Paid for visa well in advance. Didn't print letter. No letter. No visa. No flight. Double curses.** 2) Tried to get it replaced. No luck. Got it later

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 3 year off and on relationship ended due to her friends influence and she is taking no responsibility for anything. How do I move forward? Thanks. =] =] =] =] =] =] =] =] =] =

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 3 year off and on relationship ended. I feel better but not sure how to move forward. What should I do?** EDIT: I just want to thank everyone for the supportive comments. I really appreciate it. I'm

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. What do I do? Keep him alive as long as possible or say goodbye? Advice please? EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's happy but im not sure how long I can wait to say goodbye. Help please?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening fingers. Not sure if trigger finger applies. Just want some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. Thanks! (sorry for the formatting). I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening her fingers. No pain, but I have this week feeling. Looked up trigger finger already not sure if it applies. Just want some thoughts on what it might be. Thanks! :) (

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 18 year old sister is seeing 30 year old friend of my father. Not sure if I should stop it or not. What do I do? What should I do? What should I say to my sister? What should I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 18F sister is seeing 30M friend of my father, she says she loves him, I'm not sure if it's a good idea, should I tell my father or stop her? What do I do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs are bored and depressed when I visit, I want to keep them happy. What are some unusual dog games I could try to play with them? Could I invent some? What are some good ones?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 3 dogs are bored and depressed after I leave them alone. I want to keep them happy for as long as possible. Any ideas? Any games? Any toys? Any anything? Any suggestions?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 3-4 days per week of communication, now it feels like once a week. How should I handle this? Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blag

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 months in, I feel like I have to start conversations with my SO or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with close friend who deals with depression/anxiety. Need outside perspective on how to end relationship as she contemplated suicide. Help pls!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need help ending it without hurting her too much as she deals with depression/anxiety and contemplated sucide. Wondering if I'm being unreasonable. Help

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: Should I ask a professor to lunch? I don't want to do anything that might be seen as inappropriate. Thanks!** EDIT: I've been asked if I'm interested in a relationship. I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: Is it appropriate to ask a professor to lunch, even if it's not for a class? What's the best way to go about it? What's the likelihood of her saying yes? What if she says no

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 year old male had unprotected sex with a 19 year old female, she took the second dose 12 hours after we did it. I think our chances of her not being pregnant are decent but

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 year old male, unprotected sex with out of town female, think she may be pregnant, want options if she is. Any military options for me? ASVAB score decent. Thanks in advance for any input

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 months relationship, boyfriend's mother abandoned their family when he was very young, I'm having difficulty knowing how to approach the subject with him and make him feel more at ease with me. Help please!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 months relationship, boyfriend's friend let slip that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. Not sure how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. Need advice. Thanks! =)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1. Moved out, landlord refuses to give me deposit until he receives his deposit back. 2. Tenant refuses to give me deposit until he receives his. 3. What are my option

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 1 month after moving out, sublettor refuses to give me my deposit back until he receives his deposit back. What are my options? Do I wait? Thanks! Any advice would be appreciated!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: 1. I'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: What is your life story? What do you think about your life? What do you think about your future? What do you think about your past? What do you think about your present? What do you think about your future? What do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, girlfriend started ignoring me, dont know if i should say something or if i am being too clingy? help pls :/ !!! help pls :/ !!! help pls :/ !

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, girlfriend started ignoring me suddenly. should i say something or am i being too clingy? help plz! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago broke arm, can't use arms for load bearing tasks, can't use computer effectively, no disability, what's my next step? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. (And sorry for the wall

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm and lost my job. I can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I