diff --git "a/train.csv" "b/train.csv" new file mode 100644--- /dev/null +++ "b/train.csv" @@ -0,0 +1,13614 @@ +text,labels +"When I stole a book in class and the teacher caught me, the rest +of the class laughed at my attempt.",2 +That I didn't take the time to make an appointment with someone.,5 +Talking to my close friend.,1 +"While skiing in Squaw Valley, I was riding up a chair lift and +right when the chair was above a sheer cliff of rocks, the chair +lift stopped and all the chairs sagged and everything seemed to +creak loudly.",6 +"It is very difficult to relate it to a certain event. I am +familiar with the disgust of Sartre (la nausTe), a frequently +occurring cause may be described as ""the self-assured dullness"".",0 +"Leaving University in 1982 following exclusion and lying to +parents/friends about reasons for leaving, i.e. lying about the +fact of having been excluded.",5 +"A friend of mine, who had repeated a year at school once before, +did not pass the final examination and had to take it again half +a year later.",4 +When I gave birth to a healthy boy.,1 +"A teacher wanted to instill a certain opinion and a certain +behaviour into myself, what I refused. I was afraid when I saw +him.",6 +Maltreatment of children.,0 +"When I stole a packet of cigarettes from a neighbour and the +next day I owned up and returned it.",2 +"I had been caught red-handed having stolen some paw-paw. I was +then taken the elders owning the paw-paws.",4 +"When I saw a film where a black was rapeing a girl while another one was +filming it for a pornographic movie.",0 +"When I was young, about 6 or 7, I did not make it to the toilet +on time. I hid the dirty trousers in the cellar as I feared it +being discovered by my parents.",2 +"For not having succeded in getting the job as a translator that I +wanted.",4 +"I felt sad with the two situations I described before. The cat +and the school. Sadness was intermingled with the other feelings.",4 +"Before a hospital visit prior to a D&C under anasthesia for an +expected miscarriage.",6 +"Borrowing a car, and then having a minor accident (breaking a +headlight).",5 +"I was angry with a person who behaved terribly at a ball +offending her relatives.",3 +"I failed a subject despite the fact that I had studied quite a +lot for it.",4 +"When I realized that not all my friends like the comments that I +pass in their presence.",5 +When I was admitted to the Chinese universiity.,1 +"When I heard the news that my brother had passed away. It was +the first time that I lost a brother.",4 +"Truely, I got very ashamed when my brother was sent out of +Business Machines Limited Company due to improper handling of the +office equipment in Sales Services.",2 +"I felt sadness when I had to get separated from the woman I loved +who had to leave for her motherland.",4 +"When before the last exam I have taken, I went out instead of +studying.",5 +"After my car accident, when I woke up in a heap of stones.",6 +"When my mother met with a serious accident and there was danger +that she would not survive and if she did she would loose +her memory.",6 +"The fact that my mother is getting married again (my mother and +father divorced about 15 years ago) means that she will probably +move to Turku, and our home, which is a one family house, will be +sold (I myself have not been living at home for the past six +years).",4 +When my one year old son gives me a spontaneous kiss.,1 +"When I received my S.Y.J.C results which did not allow me to get +admission in engineering.",4 +"Some boys talking about nicknames of the lecturers, and I was too +afraid of them to stop them.",6 +When I failed an exam.,4 +"At my Summer job a new caretaker had been employed who was my age + but I preferred going out for lunch with the accounts personnel +rather than with him.",5 +"When my grandfather was sick, and died I felt more sad, though, +when he was sick.",4 +"When my friend did not pass the high school graduation +examinations.",4 +"When I got the feeling that I had to do all the housekeeping +while my boyfriend didn't do anything. This happened in a period +of exams when I had to study very hard.",3 +"My friend was pregnant, but lost her child during the second +month. I went to see her at hospital - she was crying. I felt +very sorry for her.",4 +"I had promised to contact a friend about a particular matter by a +certain date, then thought no more about it until the friend +reminded me after the date had passed.",2 +"Discussion with my mother about the way to educate my children. I +felt anger against my mother.",3 +"I was alone at home, a man forced the front door which was +locked, forced and tried to open a window.",6 +When my sister became pregnant at UNZA last year.,2 +When my grandfather died.,4 +"When I found my baby whipped by my Auntie. I was really sad and +up to this moment my sadness is still on.",4 +"The surname of my brother was different from ours. He often +grinned at home and provoked others for the pleasure of it. This +made me angry.",3 +"In a certain occasion I saw a dog in the street eating something +so strange gooey that I wasn't able to eat lunch because I +remembered the scene all the time.",0 +"On New Years eve I drank too much alcohol, so much that I had to +vomit in the presence of other people.",2 +"I had a class-mate who was rather stupid. I did not like him +but I respected him. When he tried to talk to someone, they +would not listen to him and I could not bear seeing this.",0 +"Close friend discovered I had deceived them. Felt shame at having +done it and knowing that they knew.",2 +People hunting animals.,3 +"One day during our clinical practices, we had a very ill patient. +Unfortunately the patient passed away. I had seen him dying and +it was the first experience. During the night I became afraid +fearing the dead body.",6 +"I made an appointment with a friend to drink coffee togehter. +However, for the third time in that week she arrived an hour too +late.",3 +"I was having an argument with my brother on his behavior, then we +started fighting and I got annoyed at him because he started +teasing me.",3 +"My younger sister wanted to take classes to learn a musical +instrument. One Saturday morning my mother asked me to go with +her for the registration. I did not want to go so I said that +there might be many bad people at the club. As a resullt my +sister was scolded by my mother.",5 +I didn't get the job I wanted.,4 +"I bought a possible answer to a homework problem which was +completely inapplicable to the question due to my not having read +about the subject matter.",2 +Postgraduate students talking about girls stupid.,0 +"I cannot remember exactly such a situation. But I know that +once I went to a very dirty lavatory and that disgusted me.",0 +"When the teacher asked me to read my composition that was the +homework I stood up and invented one because I hadn't done it. A +colleague saw that in my copy book there was nothing written and +he accused me and so I was called in the director's room.",2 +"When I secretly tried smoking for the first time, being 12 years +old.",5 +"On my way home in the middle of the night I saw a drunk man and a +woman who were quarreling, beating each other, shouting and so +on. I felt disgusted especially because they treated each other +in such a degrading way.",0 +"Once I was not able to give a relative, who was in a critical +period, a helping hand. Whenever I think about it I feel guilty +for letting down the person who trusted me to give him a helping +hand.",5 +The man I am going around with gave me a very special present.,1 +"I was the reason behind the break-up of my friend's relationship +with his girlfriend. She finished with him.",5 +"I talked with a man who stammered and without controlling myself, +I started to talk imitating him.",2 +"I most joyous moment was the day I got my marks. I was very +happy when I came to know about my marks at the M.Sc (part I) +examination where I got 71.5%. This was the highest marks I have +ever scored in my life.",1 +"When I got grade ""C"" in M160 at the end of my first year at +UNZA. I had expected a ""C+"" or a ""B"" as M160 is easy, going by my +capacity in mathematics.",0 +"Talking to a very good friend who had just had a very bad +experience which was changing his whole way of looking at life +etc.",4 +"After making a joke about a friend's marriage that was too +personal.",2 +"Just arrived in the university, not knowing anybody.",6 +When my love for a guy was returned.,1 +"When my elder brother failed form five in 1968 when I was 5 years +old.",0 +"When my room-mate locked me out deliberately, before an exam due +at 1400 hours.",3 +"My mother and her friends were speaking badly about my father +when they were separated, and my brothers and sisters and myself +were allowed to listen.",3 +"One night during dinner my nephew was naughty, so I quarrelled with my +parents. I regreted this as my nephew was only two years old and I +had to tolerate him ! The quarrel made my father think that his children +may not take care of him in the future (it was a slip of the tongue and +this made me realize that my father keeps his thoughts to himself). I was +still very angry so I dropped my bowl and chopsticks and went to the kitchen +to drink tea and then ran to the other side of the house.",5 +"At rejection / being ignored by a loved person held in great +esteem.",4 +"I dated another boy several times, when I was still ""going with"" +my former boyfriend. This made me feel a little bit guilty towards +my friend.",5 +This I experienced when going around with more than one girl.,5 +"I entrusted a friend with the delivery of some money to my +father, however he misused the money.",3 +I lost my purse that had money in it. I was sad until I found it.,4 +"A brother from one of the Christian fellowship often phoned me +and talked to me for half an hour or more. However there was +nothing important in the conversation and I found the person very +disgusting.",0 +When I saw a big spider from very close.,0 +"I am disgusted with liers, hypocrites, slanderers, flunkeys.",0 +"When I was working as a nurse in a mental hospital, a patient ate +up the contents of another patient's spitoon.",0 +The loss of a close relative who was ill with cancer.,4 +The day I came home drunk after having attended a disco party.,5 +"I was supposed to have done some things for my mother, but just +plain didn't get around to it.",5 +"In a park near our home, a group of young people who were +strangely dressed were seated in the middle of the street. They +began to eat while carressing each other.",0 +"I was very happy when I found out that I had passed with flying +colours and that I had made it to the university.",1 +"That was what I felt when I told my first lie and then was +cought.",2 +The first time I really fell in love with a girl.,1 +Hear my name on the list attending the English lectures.,1 +"I was captain of the school swimming team. The team was only two +points in front before the last relay. We won the relay, which I +swam in, and thus my team won the championship.",1 +"During the exam period I studied in the library alone. A close +friend of mine, who is also a classmate, told me that my +application for a Japanese inter-cultural exchange programme had +been accepted. I was not very sure as I did not know that the +list had been declared. I ran to the board and saw that I was +really included in the list. I was so excited that I smiled all +day long. When I met my classmates and friends I told them the +good news. I was so happy that I could not concentrate on my +studies. +",1 +I was bitten by a dog.,6 +"I was coming home from an exam and I supposed that I had +passed it so I ran to a restaurant for a beer.",1 +When my bosom friend tried to lie to me.,3 +"It was when my friend had stolen my money (K10) and had +disappeared.",3 +Going to a concert.,1 +When a thief broke into my house and stole some valuable goods.,3 +I scolded my sister without waiting for her explanation.,2 +"It was when my father beat my mother while she was ill for three +weeks and now she was recovering.",0 +"I had the window open and the door was shut so that the kitten +would not go out. My partner came in and started talking about +something and I forgot about the window and suddenly I saw the +kitten hanging from the window frame. I was rigid with fright +till I got hold of her.",6 +When I found our my mother didn't have cancer.,1 +"A nuisance used to live in our flat a month ago. I experienced +this feeling when I tried to chase her out.",3 +"When my brother got very low marks in the exams, I was very angry. +I put my studies aside to help him, as every time my brother does +badly at school, my family members blame me as well. + +",3 +"When I was young, I stole some money from my mother's purse. It +wasn't very much, but I can remember when she found it gone I +felt very guilty.",5 +When I broke-down while seeing off my friend.,2 +Two timing - going out with 2 guys at once (secretly).,5 +On my birthday when several good friends came to visit me.,1 +When I got engaged to a boy of my choice.,1 +"During the oral part of my final examination I made a mistake in +speaking so that all the teachers laughed at me.",2 +When I did not get the compound which is known.,6 +"After days or weekends where I did not accomplish the amount of +sudying that I wanted to because of more pleasant activities +which come up.",5 +"I was angry at my brother over an argument we had together. We +do have a few fights from time to time, and also at times I take +out my anger on him.",3 +"When my friends and I were caught with our girlfriends outside +the school grounds when I was at the secondary school. We were +caught by the headmaster.",5 +A drunken man forced me to kiss him.,0 +I shot the decisive goal in an ice-hockey match.,1 +Some students talking when other people are having a nap.,0 +"While watching a religious film, I got very excited and made a +number of comments which were reproached to me by an elderly +person who respected me.",2 +"I was in a sanatorium. In front of me a boy fell down from his +invalid's chair. I could help him but I didn't. I felt like being +paralysed.",5 +"Salo, a movie film by Pasolini. People were misused and tortured +for the fun of a few elder Italian authorities, during World War +II.",0 +"I'm crazy about football. When my team lost a goal in the Paulist +championship, and so it lost the classifications.",3 +Made mistakes in exam.,3 +"At Christmas night there was a good movie on television which I +wanted to see for years. I was whining about it till someone told +me it was very childish. Then I felt shame.",2 +"A boy phoned me at night and wanted to talk to me for 30 minutes +outside. I thought that he would reveal what he felt and would +question me on our relationship. I treated him as a friend and +did not want any misunderstandings. Therefore I refused to meet +him and told him that I would see him the coming day. I was very +unhappy as I feared having hurt him and got him into trouble.",6 +A friend was assaulted by a young man on her way home.,0 +"The editor changed the heading of an article that I had written. +He considered the heading to be derogatory towards the person I had written +about.",3 +The birth of my child.,1 +Winning Queensland Chess Championship.,1 +"I felt sad when a thief stole all the clothes from my friend's +cupboard at school (boarding).",4 +When I was acceptted as a student of psychology.,1 +A situation where I stole a friends wife's wallet.,5 +"A car came very close to hitting me whilst I was crossing the +street.",6 +"When my cousin passed away during the holidays at home. He fell +ill at night and the next day he died in the evening.",4 +When my father was very drunk and raging at home.,6 +"I remember the day my father died. I was 11 years old and my +sadness was so great that until today I remember everything +about that day, from the clothes I was wearing to the reactions of people, +the despair of my mother and brother. It marked me a lot and was +the greatest sadness I felt.",4 +Going to Chico to visit a friend.,1 +At work a boy was injured because of my lack of supervision.,5 +"I wanted to clear up a misunderstanding with a friend that I had +caused. A third person meddled in our conversation, turned my +efforts to ridicule so that I did not succeed in what I had +intended.",3 +"I had a discussion with my wife about an over-weight acquaintance of +our's, about her eating habits and the scars caused by her +pregnancy.",0 +"I had a very good friend in secondary school. The year after our +graduation I prepared to celebrate her birthday and I called off +all my appointments. I got together the other friends and we +were ready to give the entire day to her. However this friend +disappeared on her birthday. When I phoned another friend I +didcovered thay she was busy, I did not call her anymore.",3 +People not resprcting my opinion.,3 +When my uncle died of leukemia at age 35.,4 +"My father died unexpectedly at the age of 53 years. He certainly +would have liked to live longer. I was also said because I was +confronted with the fact that I would die one day too.",4 +When I realized that I loved someone of the opposite sex.,1 +"When I wanted to talk to someone I liked and whom I have been +told likes me (by his brother and even by himself) however he +avoids any confrontation, and is vague.",3 +The disgust I feel towards a certain person.,0 +"[ During a summer holiday a French girl and I had becoe back +home, I felt very sad.]",4 +"The sense of joy comes to me always after a period of depression, +as an organic feeling for an upsurge. I don't exclude the +situative feeling but in this case the reason is not in me, it's +out of me.",1 +"My close friend and I applied to TISS for admission last year, +unfortunately he failed to get admission. We had done our graduation +together and are quite involved with each other, so we had wanted +to do our Masters degree together. However, it did not work out +as we had expected it to and this saddened me.",4 +"When fired unjustly from a job as casual bar-person. Charged with +giving away free drinks. Not done so and had witnesses to prove +it - both patrons and bar staff. Other staff were supportive.",3 +"When I was taken to the place where my uncle had defecated in his +pants after having drunk beer.",2 +"I have done the teachers training course (B.Ed). During our +training I was asked to handle the ninth standard class in a boys +school. I was scared to face the class the first day.",6 +"Once when I was in the cell group (religious activity) I found +that almost everyone in the group read the bible daily and I felt +guilty in my heart.",5 +"When I broke off with my boyfriend after three years. It was +quite unexpected for him and there was no particular reason for +the break up, such as someone else.",5 +When my grandfather died.,4 +"I am not very affectionate and I feel guilty as I do not give as +much affection as I receive.",5 +"When I had stayed abroad for a long time and I had remembered +about my friends and relatives. I felt sad and I wanted to see +them as soon as possible.",4 +"When I was late for work and told my boss that it was due to +transport problem, whereas the truth was that I had woken up +late. I thus cheated my boss.",5 +"After my marriage I received the B.Sc results by post, I was very +happy to learn that I had got very good marks - first class.",1 +"One time I felt guilty when I told one of my previous boyfriends +we were through just because I never felt like having one at that +particular time.",5 +When people harrass me I feel oppressed by their behavior.,3 +"I quarrelled with my brothers (twins) at home on saturday. One +of them studies in a private school and the other one is +repeating his form five. They do not know what they are doing. +They follow every word of their teachers, books and systems. +They always try to rationalize their bad acts by some game and +they are satisfied with their awkward life. I have tried to +persuade them very often but have failed. This time I had a +fight as they have no voluntary spirit (they did not polish the +floor).",3 +When I failed the M.S.C exams.,3 +"My boy-friend came home late one night without having told me +about it before.",3 +"When my uncle found me having sexual intercourse with a distant +relative of mine in the sitting room, on the couch. I failed to +stop and get up, I carried on.",5 +"In my opinion guilt is a feeling which goes together with shame. +Here then I refer to the situation of guilt.",2 +"That day I was alone at home after coming home from school. I did +not know where everyone else had gone, I kept waiting for them to +come back and nobody came. It was getting very late and I was +terrified.",6 +When my mother was robbed in a shop.,6 +My 3 children - each top his class in the final exams 1984.,1 +"When I insulted my young sister for a very little misconduct of +putting on my shoes. She wrote me an apology letter and the +message she included made me feel guilty.",5 +"When my parents separated temporarily and I was left behind with +my father. As I loved my mother I wanted to go with her.",4 +"Earlier, I was afraid of speaking in front of a crowd of people.",6 +"On the way back from Denmark with a friend on a small yatch, +there was a storm and my friend was blown overboard; I was very +scared till I managed to get him back onboard.",6 +When I was sitting in a car next to a man who was masturbating.,6 +Selling my used car.,1 +After receiving the grade on the paper mentioned in FEAR.,4 +When I was studying and someone disturbed me.,0 +Not being able to argue against class leaders.,5 +"I flet shameful when I learnt that I cooked Nsima which was full +of lamps in it.",2 +When I overate at lunch.,5 +When I was at school.,4 +"I heard friends grumbling at me in an adjoining room, although +they had behaved in a friendly way when I was present.",3 +"After I had lived with my boyfriend in a foreign country for half +a year, I saw that it was impossible for me to stay with him (for +economic reasons). We separated although I loved him.",4 +"I found myself involved in a fight in which a person died and I +had to intervene with some risk.",6 +"I felt very frightened when a robber broke into our house and +threatened to shoot my father if he did not part with some money. + I was looking at the man with his hand on the trigger.",6 +A good report card (a scholarship) in primary school.,1 +"When I came across an old friend whom I had not seen for a very +long time.",1 +Falling in love.,1 +"When I am angry at someone without a good reason. Later on it +proves that he didn't do anything wrong.",2 +"When I saw a few people beating a man who seemed to be a +stranger.",3 +"When the week for Exams came. I got afraid as to how I would +tackle the questions.",6 +When I got separated from the man I loved so much.,4 +"When I heard that I was not to be provided with another pair of +medical uniform.",3 +"I felt fear of the purest kind after a car accident. The +incident and images of horror kept coming back to my mind. I +wondered what could have happened to my sister, my friend and me, +though nothing very serious actually happened.",6 +"I accused my husband of being late deliberately when he came to +pick me up from work.",5 +"[ I am quite shameless, not applicable.]",2 +"When I was trying for a girl who I really liked and cared for and +thought she felt the same way too. But she didn't like the idea +and just wanted to stay friends.",4 +"A four year girl ran away from her father straight in front of my +car. I was forced to use the emergency brakes.",6 +"When I was first exposed to the dead bodies, for dissecting +purposes at the school of medicine.",6 +"Getting a terrible exam mark, which I couldn't understand the +reason for, and trying to see a lecturer or tutor, but being +given the runaround.",3 +"During the military service, I lost a part of an equipment; I +accused another person and he was rebuked and punished.",5 +Gave the wrong meal tickets to other people (my classmate).,5 +The loss of a very good friend.,4 +"I felt disgust when I realized that I had eaten something fatty, +and vomited too much.",0 +"The night of a high school dance, I went partying and collided +with another car. Both cars were totalled; people were injured +but not seriously.",5 +Did badly in an examn.,4 +When I first heard that Tage Dannielsson had died.,4 +"Sometime back I came across a certain man who was badly beaten by +some people because he was found raping the wife of the village +headman.",5 +My guilty behaviour was found out by others.,2 +"I was on my way home when suddenly Gule Wamkulu came from the +bush and blocked the road. I was in fear and didn't know what to +do.",6 +Often a dog which is treated very badly by his owner comes to us.,4 +When I knew about my first job.,1 +"I dreamt of my father's death while I was at secondary school. I +was screaming at the top of my voice and was woken up by my +friend. That day I was really sad.",4 +"One dark night with no street lights, a car was obviously +following me.",6 +"I mangled the side of my dad's van on a fence. I did not realize +the extent of the damage until he showed it to me the next day. +The shock on my face was genuine so a friend interceded with a +good excuse which I did not deny. I never clarified the +situation.",5 +"I had to leave an important function early because of family +commitments. Someone else had to complete my job.",5 +"When there was a bomb threat in Tolman Hall. This was the first +time that I felt my life could be in danger.",6 +"My little brother was arrested by the police at the railway station after +he had drunk some beer.",2 +"Once, I accidentally injured a boy in the eye and he almost lost +it.",5 +Managed to run 30 Km on skis fairly simply.,1 +"A friend had promised me to give me a lift to Graz. To be sure I +called her before we went. She told me that she had just promised +another person to give him a lift.",3 +"My current lover and I had been very busy with work and study and +had not had time alone together for almost a month until one +afternoon recently when we made love for hours and then showered +and ate together.",1 +A lecturer in great detail spoke about his sexual experiences.,0 +"I couldn't sleep, and began to remind of my childhood. We are many +sisters and at that time we were spanked a lot and I don't know +why I started to remind of the spanks they and I had had, their +shouts when this happened.",4 +Falling in love although she is my friend (angry with myself).,3 +Death of the family dog.,4 +"I was caught stealing food at my aunt's place. I had tried to +hide the food I had taken from the pantry while my aunt was in +the kitchen, however she went to the pantry and discovered the +stolen package.",2 +A sudden end to the relationship with my first girlfriend.,4 +"When I fought with my sister and said that she had provoked this. +She was very seriously scolded.",5 +"When someone took my writing materials yet I was to write +Examinations in a few minutes.",3 +"I had wasted some time instead of doing something I needed to do +to give to a friend. (Also in the time I wasted I had done some +things I did not consider morally right).",5 +"I was to meet a friend at the bus-stop (he was coming to visit +us) and he did not turn up. After having waited for him for some time +(about an hour) I called him up, to be told that he did not +intend to come as he was feeling tired.",3 +"I stayed at the Coast for a weekend with friends. My brother came +to drive me home, but was rude, and in a hurry to rejoin his +friends. I was embarrassed because the family involved was +extremely nice, and hospitable to him.",0 +"The saddest moment in my life was when I lost my younger sister a +few years back.",4 +"Some people were unfairly treated, because of their +nationality/colour.",0 +I called off a relationship with one girl so I could see another.,5 +"The fridge we had at home had a lock. One day when I wanted +something, I unscrewed the door but unfortunately I was caught in +the act.",5 +When a close friend died.,4 +"One day mother slaughtered a chicken for a brother who had come +back for holiday. In everybody's absence I opened the foodstore +and ate all internal organs of the chicken. When mother +discovered, we were all called and I was found with hands stained +with soup. I was ashamed being the eldest of all in the family.",2 +"When I learnt that a friend of mine had talked about me to +another friend and had said wrong things about my abilities and +attitudes. I was very angry.",3 +"On a mountain tour, my girlfriend and I passed by an inn. Near +the house there was a big dog which began to follow us. As my +girlfriend is afraid of dogs, I had to draw his attention to me. +He jumped towards my shoulders and wanted to play with me but I +really did not like that.",6 +When I was told to attend an operation in theatre.,6 +"My parents claimed me on their income tax after I had been out of +the house for two years receiving no financial support from them. +As result I had to work more during school because they were +expected by the FAO to contribute to my education when they +refuse to do so.",0 +My roommate messing up our room.,0 +"When I came to know that a girl I was fond of already had a +boyfriend.",4 +Being alone at night.,6 +"I have a boyfriend and I am very fond of him. When we had our +""11-months jubilee"", I had forgotten it. But he gave me a red +rose.",1 +"When in the initial interview for the recruiting, I don't know why, +I accepted to do the test for army.",5 +"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had been selected for a +University course.",1 +"My parents do not like my friend and told me to stay away from +him.",3 +Caused a family disturbance.,4 +Not helping other people to do their homework.,5 +"When a close friend of mine maintained a relationship with me +till she needed me and broke it off when she did not need me. +She behaved life a really selfish person. ",0 +Haven't been frightened for ages.,6 +"I was caught doing something bad and I bribed the person who +caught me. Later I felt very bad, maybe I should have paid for +my bad behaviour.",5 +A dark night when I had to go to the outdoor lavatory.,6 +"In a very crowded shop I was distracted and missed my turn in the +queue. A woman who was behind me began to shout at me asking me +either to pay more attention or to leave.",2 +I was wearing a slit tight dress at a disco and it burst open.,2 +"I was caught stealing a box of matches in the supermarket and had +to plead guilty.",5 +"When one has arranged to meet someone and that person arrives +late, in the meantime one starts thinking about all that could +have gone wrong e.g a traffic accident.",6 +"Finding out the great difference between China and the West in +science.",6 +"Slept in a chapel and in the middle of the night I realized that +there was someeone else in the chapel. I never discovered who +it was and why he was there.",6 +"My sister was in a hospital, later in the evening we received the +information that she had died.",4 +Insulted by the class leader.,3 +"[ I speak harshly to my parents though they only mean my own +good.]",5 +Stealing money from my parents when I was young.,2 +"A honest ""sliding"" on the part of a girlfriend of mine. +Terribly crossed I started breaking things and tearing books.",3 +"Getting sent on a company expense trip to another state to work +for a week at that plan.",1 +"I saw a terrible accident happen and I laughed a lot of the +fright and because I was nervous.",2 +"I had to call somebody between 12 and 12:30. As I had no +possibility to call him at this time, I did not do it until 3 +p.m.",5 +"When I was forced to call the telephone company about a bill +concerning a disconnected phone belonging to my landlord. The +bill was four months overdue and in the meanwhile he had been +using my phone, he seemed to have no intention of having his own +phone reconnected.",3 +"I feel guilty as I am not working, and even my studies are not +progressing.",2 +"The same as for SHAME and DISGUST. I was asked to resign my +sorority which I did because I was ashamed.",4 +"[ When bad and disgusting language is uttered by people, or when +someone tries to show what is beyond his own capacities.]",3 +"Last year I had a friend visiting me for several days. The only +thing he did was sleeping, drinking, taking pills and thinking +only about himself.",3 +When my mother scolded me and I argued with her.,5 +"A certain Area Party Secretary came home in the morning and said +we had to leave our home and build somewhere and the reason +being that they wanted to establish a market. The Chairman knew +nothing about it and was very angry.",3 +"On Christmas eve I went to a classmate's home with other +classmates. The next morning when I came out of the toilet she +said something and I did not understand what she was saying. +When she pointed at my trousers I discovered that I had forgotten +to zip them up. I rushed back to the toilet but by the time the +others had guessed what had happened.",2 +[ In an aeroplane.],6 +"When I finished a test type of exam and did not dare to answer +any question, I doubted whether I would pass the exam or not.",5 +"My cat was sick and I had to take him to the vet to be put down - +no one else there to do it.",4 +"Passing (by car) over a bridge where only one car could pass. There +was a precipice on both sides, no protection grilles, and the +bridge was completely muddled.",6 +When my mother was angry with me over my friends and boyfriend.,6 +"When I received the news that my in-laws had passed away. I +depended heavily on them for their guidance and the running of +their daughter's buisness.",4 +Getting ill.,4 +"A colleague asked me to study with her. I could not explain +things as perfectly as she had expected. So she reacted in an +aggressive manner.",3 +"It was when I drunk urine during my childhood thinking it was +water. My friend had urinated in the tin.",0 +"For a drunk man (about 20 years old) that I met one evening, and +who behaved impudently with the girls standing by.",0 +"I felt fear when I sat for one of my exams. Though my fear was +not quite justifiable, I still remember about it.",6 +"Being alone in Europe and having to catch a train and bus to the +airport, then board the plane alone.",6 +A man was unfair to a girlfriend of mine.,0 +"We went to visit my mother at the residence. She was crying and +said that she was about to die. I believed all her complaints +and continously thought of the possibility of loosing her.",4 +My boyfriend made me a proposal.,1 +When I am dirty because I have not had a shower for a few days.,0 +"My girlfriend who had spent 6 months abroad broke off our +relationship by letter.",4 +"When my friends tried to discriminate against my friendship with +certain other friends which they thought was improper.",3 +A close friend of mine had not contacted me for a long time.,4 +"As a kid my mother caught me stealing sugar and giving it to a +neighbour.",2 +"I experienced anger most recently when I had committed a sin +which I had gone a week and a half without doing. I had made a +vow to God and had blown it. Now I had to start all over.",3 +"I was angry at a University tutorial when an ignorant loudmouth +persisted in trying to dominate the conversation.",3 +"[ During my childhood when I could not get what I wanted from my +brother/sister and parents.]",3 +Getting into this university to do medicine.,1 +"When I had exams a relative of ours, who lives in another city, +came to visit us and I felt disgusted at him.",0 +"When I became conscious that men don't wnat anything they don't +have a goal. They have: sex, but this isn't important.",4 +"A member of a religious sect tried to convert me, using really +evil tricks to persuade me. After he had left, I was anxious and +angry for a long time. After the event, I was alone.",3 +"An item which belonged to a friend of mine was missing. I had +taken it earlier and I thought that I had returnrd it so when he +asked me for it I stubbornly refused having it. Later when I +looked for it, I found it in my room.",5 +"At the hardware store, trying to convert Imperial to Metric +measurements, I made a mistake, and didn't buy enough tiles for +the bathroom. I was angry at myself, because I hope to be a Maths +teacher.",3 +"I did not go to the exercises, without any adequate reason.",5 +"A friend of mine goes out with this guy. She sleeps with him but +is quite happy for him to play around - as well as herself.",0 +"I had planned a trip to the South during Easter, together with a +friend. She was very sorry when I changed my mind and decided not +to go after all.",5 +During a fight with my best friend.,3 +"When, for example, my grandfather fell seriously ill. It was +necessary for him to be operated and I felt great fear of losing +him because he is so dear to me.",6 +Always when I meet the person I love.,1 +"I met again a very good friend after a year and realized that +there had grown a certain distance between us.",4 +"Climbing a mountain, I got stuck and realized I could get neither +up nor down.",6 +"Unjust accusations directed at me and my way of acting, by someone close to me. ",3 +I am not doing what I should with this questionnaire.,3 +Getting a low grade on a midterm.,2 +When one lets friends down,5 +"My boyfriend told me that I had very high demands towards him. In +my opinion this was wrong.",3 +When I nearly caused a traffic accident with my car.,6 +"As a little girl, I was sick in the middle of a school day and I +vomitted in the basin of the classroom.",2 +When my beloved grandfather died.,4 +"Finding that a subordinate at work was still not willing to +cooperate after discussions to try and resolve an attitude +problem.",3 +"A certain man went to my parents and told them that I was married +here, when I am here at school. When I went home for holidays my +parents asked me about it and I was angry with that man.",3 +"I got back too late after a Sunday going out without having +called up home to tell where I was. my mother hadn't slept the +whole night.",5 +"A girl in our class was nicknamed ""fatsy"". Later, I heard that +she suffered from diabetes mellitus.",2 +""" I have been hearing rumours that you have not been allowing +people in your room,"" he said. This sentence really shot my +heart. I failed to find the right words, instead I walked away +without uttering a word.",3 +"A fellow player, quite unexpectedly, scores a goal, which means a +draw.",1 +"In a social situation I became interested in a woman. We talked, +we laughed, we enjoyed each other. She desappeared for a few +minutes, and a little after appeared with an other man.",4 +"I spied on my fiancT and was terribly jealous. Later I saw that +there was no reason for that.",5 +"My boyfriend and I were getting dressed up and putting make-up +on to go to a Halloween Party. We were dressing up to be two +mimes. It was very enjoyable and I thought we looked really good, +it was an accomplishment. We were alone in his house.",1 +"I was not able to help my sister to understand that her husband +is a bad man before she was married to him.",5 +"My lovely girlfriend double-crossed me and so that I found her +chatting with another guy.",3 +When my partner was attacked and lost three teeth.,3 +[ When I feel that I have made a mistake.],4 +"My friend was so intoxicated that the police came and took him +away, and they later contacted his parents.",2 +"At school, I had acted against the will of the group, and the +next day they promised to take revenge on me.",6 +"That was what I felt with a teacher who put down quite unreal +marks.",3 +"Yesterday while playing volley ball, there was one person extra +and somebody had to out. A mess worker and I were the +last ones to arrive and we had arrived at the same time. +Rightfully one of us had to opt out of the game, as I was +delaying leaving the mess worker opted out saying that I should +play. I felt ashamed of myself.",2 +"Fear came towards the end of May when the P.T.S. results were out +after hearing the failure of my fellow three friends.",6 +"I feel disgusted with the bootlickers, with helpless people.",0 +"I went for a walk with a very close friend; we were talking about +our problems, I told her lies.",2 +The inability to read a book at college.,4 +"Confronted outside a party by some very nasty character - +gesturing to a car full of mean-acting friends - felt in danger.",6 +"I was very scared when I went to the examination hall for my M.Sc +examination as I had studied a limited partion of the course +thoroughly and I was in great doubt whether that would be asked.",6 +"My mother misunderstood me and prevented me from doing something. + In return I did not talk to her for a few days, only later on I +realized that what she had done had been for my good.",5 +"This happened recently, I was in the dining hall and one of my +friends with whom I was eating called me a fool.",3 +"When, late at night, I discovered that they had stolen my bike.",3 +"My guinea-pig had been ill for a couple of days. One evening, +when I came home I enquired as to how it was doing. My mother's +expression told me that it had died. My knees refused to support +me and I began to weep convulsively.",4 +"Exaggerating certain circumstances, wrong attitude and evaluation +of these circumstances.",2 +My father suddenly fell ill and died.,4 +"A girlfriend ended our relationship in an abrupt and unexpected +manner.",4 +When my wife told me that the refrigerator had stopped working.,3 +"Leaving home to move closer to University. As an oldest child, +this experience was traumatic for both my parents and myself.",4 +"A patient, to whom I had given a powerful medicine, shouted at me +in front of many people. I realized that he did so because he +was very ill.",2 +"I've had three midterms in the past two weeks and I hardly +studied for any of them (like 1 or 2 days) I feel guilty that I +hadn't studied and I got C's on all of them.",5 +Korean judges cheating.,2 +"At school, when the only thing people my age could think of was getting +rolling drunk. They couldn't have a good time without firstly +getting drunk.",0 +"After passing my Malawi Certificate of Education Exam and being +selected to Kamuzu College of Nursing.",1 +Had fear of losing husband.,6 +When I wet my bed at boarding school.,2 +"My father recently having a heart attack - spending a few months +in hospital.",4 +When I whatched a horror film on a Friday 13th.,6 +"Watching ""11 am"". They had a programme on the starving refugees. +Their plight was a source of sadness for me.",4 +"A few days ago I saw two dandy girls of my age. I disliked their +clothes and their way of doing.",0 +When my beloved uncle was shot dead by relatives.,4 +"When my father married a certain lady. The reception was held at +Kasungu town Hall.",1 +"When at very short notice I agreed to work in place of a friend +who was sick, and owner of the restaurant refused to allow me a +drink later in the evening (which is usually always available for +workers), did not thank me, and was generally indifferent towards +me - I felt I did not deserve this.",3 +"At an important moment in a volleyball game we made a point and +by this we won a set from a much stronger competitor.",1 +When I get a hug from someone I love.,1 +"A friend and I were going to have a study session together in +which we quiz ourselves in biology material. Because I believed I +didn't study enough. I feared I would fail.",6 +People not cueing in the dining hall.,3 +"I put my head into the pullover of a girl to see her breasts. The +girl looked at me so that I felt ashamed.",2 +"Unknown person knocking repeatedly on backdoor when no one else +was at home.",6 +"I am a sportwoman as well. I felt joy when after an year of +practice, at a contest, I covered the norms for ""a master of sports"".",1 +"My father won't be so pleased with me as if I was elected ""Three +Good"".",4 +When my mother was proved to suffer from a very serious disease.,4 +"That a friend had been badly beaten and stabbed many times and +the person that did it got away without any punishment from the +law.",3 +"A friend was going to come stay the weekend with me, but +something came up and I cancelled out on him.",5 +Getting into a crowded bus.,0 +"When some of my close friends and colleagues talk about me and +my work and say that I am the brightest student of the college.",2 +I was unaware that I had walked the streets in torn trousers.,2 +"A month ago I turned in an English paper in late after I had +already had a previous paper late and promised not to do it +again.",2 +Being asked to go out by someone I care. ,1 +When I was told that my father had passed away.,4 +"I got my driving licence after they had frightened me with it's +difficulty.",1 +"Being bored in school, not being able to marry and have children.",4 +"Some days ago I fell down at a public place, I came into notice +but thank God I was not mocked at. Though it hurt badly, at the +first moment I felt shame, not ache.",2 +"When my darling found me walking hand in hand with another girl +whom I loved also. ",2 +It was more that fear - anguish -that I felt before my last exam.,6 +"When I slept for the first time all alone in the house where I +live now. A man phoned me at 2.00 am. He wanted something from +me. I was afraid.",6 +Passing away of my father.,4 +"At a certain person's lack of cleanliness, at home and +personally.",0 +When I was accused of neglecting work for the wrong reasons.,4 +"My cousin knocked on the door, looking for me to get her watch +back. I had given it to my girlfriend, Lizzy, as a present.",5 +Being treated unfairly and being hurt by someone I love.,3 +"I took some money from my parent's house without asking them for +it, and I was caught red handed.",5 +"It was when my father caught me with a girl in dark corners and +asked me what I was doing there.",2 +"When I knew that a person who I didn't like, had about me other +feelings.",0 +"When the train taking me to my military service left the station, +on the platform remained relatives, projects and goodtimes. I +had a hard year ahead.",4 +Can't describe any disgust situation.,0 +"When I told a girl that I could not take her out that night as I +was entertaining my mother who had come from home. However, I +later met this girl with another girlfriend at a hostel where I +had taken out another girlfriend of mine.",2 +"My mother was working with a knife and we were all laughing +heartily. She was not able to control the knife and stuck it +deep into her hand.",4 +"When I found a maggot in my food at the dinning hall, all the +food had gone bad.",0 +"A friend of mine remembered me when she needed me and did not +even think about me when she did not need me.",0 +"[ Whenever I put myself in other's shoes and try to make the +person happy, comfort him or make friends and I am misunderstood +and rejected, especially when this person is a family member or a friend.]",3 +When my first child was born.,1 +Someone drove into my car and then denied that it had happened.,3 +Death of a close friend.,4 +"When I had to go to the gynecologist and to sit on that special +chair, I felt ashamed.",2 +"I would have liked to go out to chat with some acquaintances, but +I realized that I was not wanted. I felt hurt, disappointed, +lonely and deserted.",4 +"There was a conflict of interest between me and a close friend of +mine. He only thought about his own interest and not about our +friendship. This behaviour hurt his friends. Another incident +is when a friend isolated himself without giving any reasons.",4 +"The male friend of my mother (a widow) moved in to live with us. +I did not like the man.",0 +"Thinking of the unknown, what happens at the moment of death, +etc.",6 +The event which got me angry got also an aversion in me.,0 +"I had stayed for months without seeing mother because our +holidays were short and my home is far. Some times, mother came to +see me at school, I was very joyful, and I didn't want her to go.",1 +When I did not buy what I had promised to.,2 +"I had a discussion with my girl-friend. After some time we +started to quarrel and at least - to get the upper hand - I said +that she was not as important to me as she might believe. Some +time later I apologized for that.",5 +[ Uncertainty about my own abilities in an exam.],6 +"A certain person whom I respect and esteem a lot pays me no +attention. She keeps up appearances but shows almost no interest +in me.",4 +"A drunk man bumped into me and wanted to grip me. Fortunately I +was able to break loose.",0 +"I was appreciated by others, especially my family members and my +friends.",1 +My last genetices midterm - a decent grade.,1 +"I was out with a friend in a place where it was very, very busy. +When we wanted to go I bumped a person, who dropped his glass +beer I offered a new one but he didn't accept it.",5 +"One night my father suddenly suffered from a heart attack which +lead to breathing difficulties.",4 +"During one year my mother almost had a nervous breakdown and my +father had a serious operation. I was afraid that our family (4 +kids, I'm the oldest) wouldn't hold together. Everything turned +out fine.",6 +"By fun I had a tussle with my sister. Suddenly I obviously hurt +her unintentionally - and she ran out of the room, crying.",5 +"The greatest guilt I felt and I didn't know if it was really +justified is that when I was a child I had a brother very close +to me. He became ill, and asked me to see him in the hospital. +I didn't go, when his situation became worse in the U.I.T. (Unity +of intensive therapy) I went and he died.",5 +"I heard a broadcasting programme about parapsychology. The people +in this programme used very difficult words which I couldn't +understand. They acted exaggerated without showing any feeling.",0 +"One of my class-mates had a disease unexpectedly, he had been in +a coma for six days in a hospital before he died.",4 +Losing my temper with my spouse.,5 +"A child was admitted in hospital with Meningitis. I was asked to +do lumber puncture to obtain Celebral Spinal fluid for diagnostic +purposes. Since the condition was already bad, the child died as +soon as I finished the procedure.",5 +When I had to plunge in a swamp of fetid and stagnant water.,0 +When I knew I had to go out with my mother on some errands.,4 +"When I heard that I had passed Primary School Leaving Certificate +and was selected to go for Secondary education.",1 +"I was afraid of a certain examination although I was relatively +well prepared.",6 +"When I was selected for higher education, i.e grade 7 to formI.",1 +"I felt shame when I was asked by my cousin that I promised to buy +her a birthday present but I didn't buy it for her in front of +friends.",2 +When I failed to answer a simple question.,2 +"When a friend didn't invite her own parents to her Graduation +ceremony.",0 +"I feel this feeling when I am to fill in a questionnaire or a +form.",3 +"When I was curious about it and went to a spiritism session with a +friend. I had already been there other times (many times when I +was younger) but that day, even if I don't believe in +spiritism I was terribly afraid that something would happen to me +(sort of incorporation !).",6 +"It was my mother's birthday. My father and I used to buy a +present together. However, now I had bought something together +with my girlfriend and I forgot to ask my father.",5 +"When I was dismissed unjustly from the firm where I worked, +because there where persons that didn't have problems, and +wouldn't miss in the jobs they occupied if they were dismissed.",3 +Unjust punishment of a friend of mine.,3 +"One night I could not practise my violin as my family was +watching T.V with the lights off, so I wanted to listen to some +tapes. It was dark so I asked my brother to bring me a torch, +however he scolded me. I was so angry that I slammed my violin +on the floor.",3 +"I was working at a certain place and everyday after work dad +would come to pick me up. One day he did not come, it started +getting very dark and I had no money on me and my home was very, +very far away.",6 +When I don't succeed to fulfill a promise.,2 +"A film were a woman was attacked and raped. One did not see the +worst but it had the desired effect - very strong.",0 +When I see the acts and deeds of a blind drunk man.,0 +When my roommate forgets to flush the toilet.,0 +"Arguing with my younger cousin. She is rather a nuisance but I +felt sorry.",5 +Finding a hair in the soup.,0 +"When I saw my 18 year old son grab an oxygen mask as he had +breathing difficulties. I had a bad conscience because I had not +stopped smoking. Medication for the dilation of his breathing +tubes also caused a sense of guilt in me.",2 +"I was spending the week-end with some friends. We were waiting +for another friend and we went to the meet him at the bus stop, a +woman we met there told us that the coach had already left. I +was afraid that I would not see my friend, but at last we found +him.",1 +"I had arranged to meet my friends at a certain place, and I was +with other people. My friends did not arrive and the people who +were with me began to get tired. My friends were one hour late.",5 +My grandmother died during Christmas break several years ago.,4 +My boyfriend decided to make an end to our relationship.,4 +"The inflammation of the ear of my child got cured and the doctor +said that the ear was completely all right.",1 +"When I was about to be bitten by my friend's dog, later on it bit +me.",6 +"When I saw a picture, in the Gothenburg Post, of a totally +demolished car with two fatally injured passengers. The car was +so badly damaged that they couldn't get the bodies out at the +scene of the accident.",0 +"I felt joy when I heard over the radio that I had been successful +in my Primary School Leaving Certificate Examination and was +selected for Secondary School.",1 +Not doing my share of the work for the house job.,2 +"When I shouted and quarrelled and for no reason I had been rude to my +mother and when my behaviour had been influenced by other outward +factors.",5 +When a thunder belt hit the roof top of the building I was in.,6 +When I got very low marks in one of the assignments.,2 +"When a friend tried to back bite me on false grounds. This made +me wonder if he was a really a good friend.",3 +"I felt disgust after watching a picture on television about +torturing political prisoners in India (this happened in the +India of Indira Ghandi).",0 +"When I was on a cave excursion with friends, I suddenly lost them +and was afraid of losing my way in the cave.",6 +"I once proposed my own niece whom I did not know but I discovered +after she was my girlfriend.",2 +"I was very angry when I heard that my brother was beaten by his +friends. +",3 +"Motor failure on a boat outside Gottenburg when we were in heavy +seas and the wind was strong. As we could not steer the boat we +drifted towards the rocks. We did not succeed in attracting the +attention of any passerby until 4 hours had elapsed.",6 +A case of unrequited love.,4 +"On a trip I passed by a cellulose factory. It was a fine day, +beautiful landscape; I observed this factory with disgust.",0 +"I watched the news at the TV, it was a commentary about +""Hainburg"". I felt disgusted when I heard members of the union +speak about the situation.",0 +When I heard that my friend had started drinking beer.,4 +"I had this feeling before my graduation and never dared to speak +to my relatives and friends. Because of this feeling I would +avoid situations, however I do not know the reason for this.",2 +"When thieves broke into my house at night and held my wife and me +on gun-point for at least ten minutes and took away a lot of +property.",6 +"My father suddenly fell ill. He stayed for 3 months in the +hospital: the last month on intensive care of the Academic +Hospital, then he died.",4 +"When they told me that I had been admitted to the faculty of +medicine.",1 +"My elder brother had been expelled from college and he was so +frustated that he attempted suicide - he drank bottle fragments. +I was very sad when I learnt this.",4 +"When I finally got a job after days of wondering whether I would +be hired or not and counting on the money that it would bring.",1 +None.,2 +"My younger brother destroyed and gave away some of the books that +I had intended to keep for as long as possible.",3 +When I had a Latin examination in school.,2 +Finding out I am not chosen for the English lectures.,2 +"When I splashed a child by not slowing down while driving +through a puddle of water.",5 +Insulted by my mother.,4 +"Went to a lecture about Chinese history and hear about the Opium +War.",2 +"Whenever I read or think about the way people treat animals and +nature.",4 +"When a man spoke very sexistly in the company of some friends of +mine.",0 +"We were at secondary school and I was making a lot of noise. The +teacher came to ask us as to who was making all the noise. I did +not own up so the whole class was punished.",5 +Relating to my closest family.,1 +"This happened when I was in the 10th standard. The paddy crops +were in a bad shape as it had not rained and there was no water +in the well, so I was in a very sad mood. I came to the +conclusion that I would ignore the paddy field, just 12 hours +after this it rained for one hour. This was a very tense time +and the rain brought me tremendous pleasure.",1 +"The weather is very bad (fog and slipperiness) the newcast +reports many traffic accidents and my boyfriend is driving home +and still has 60 kilometers to go.",6 +"I was working as a secretary. My boss was to go to give a +lecture, and wanted me to give him the exact address of the +place.",5 +"I never failed my examinations since Standard 1 but I experienced +sad moments when I sat for Standard 8 Examination and I was not +selected for Secondary School education in 1978.",4 +"I met my ex boyfriend by chance. We separated a few months ago +and I am now with a new boyfriend. My ex boyfriend looked +depressed, and I know I am not to be blamed.",5 +"I was sad when my MCE grades were out. I had gone for a football +match a mile away from home. The mail found me there. I was +disappointed and didn't play the other half of the match.",4 +"In traffic I often get relatively angry with other drivers. +Several transgressions make me mad, especially not yielding to +priority traffic (e.g. coming from the right).",3 +"Some boys deliberately played tricks on me in the experiments. +",3 +"During the Summer, at my workplace, a person kept interfering +with my tasks and making unfounded remarks. I felt hatred for +him but it stopped when I realized that he just longed for attention.",3 +Was caught stealing apples in a neighbor's garden.,2 +"I was disgusted with my brother's behaviour when he kept throwing +things away because of his anger, after mum had shouted at him.",0 +"Mr C took my drawing pens, without having asked for my permission +first, and lost them. He did not tell me about it till I asked +him and then did not try to find them.",3 +"When I got to know that the friend I am closest to got engaged, +and she was going away. I was overjoyed for her, but also felt +frightened as I was very emotionally dependent on her. I did not +know what I would do without her.",6 +"When the teacher asked me a question, I did not know the answer +and I just stood still for about a few minutes without saying a +word.",2 +"When I didn't pass the examinations for FUVEST I felt myself +guilty for I should have studied. I had the opportunities, and +I drew them out.",5 +When I was walking on a fairly out-of-the-way street.,6 +"When I was seven years old, I stole a chewing-gum from a big +glass bowl on the counter of a nearby shop, and I got caught.",2 +When I found out that someone close to me was flirting around.,0 +"This week I was phoned by an old friend with whom I lost contact +a few years ago.",1 +"When I realized that my closest friend had said bad things about +me when I was not around and had betrayed me by making friends +with my boyfriend's other girl.",0 +"I remember deceiving my brother, I told him that I was going to +attend the Sunday service, instead I went out to the town with a friend. ",5 +I felt disgust when I saw a dead animal on the roadway.,0 +"I was at home alone, and heard noises on the roof, and doorknobs, +and drawers.",6 +"One Saturday morning I had got ready to go out swimming with my +friends. Unfortunately the weather did not permit it, so we +stayed indoors.",4 +"When I was mistakenly accused of being a thief when I accidently +gave a fake coin at a counter. I realized this before I handed +over the coin, but the man called me a thief and called a +witness.",3 +"Realizing one's desire, an experienced feeling of satisfaction +from the realization of one's desires and aims.",1 +When I have a plain appearance.,2 +"In form three we were taking our mock exams and someone else (a +friend) was making noise when the examinateur picked on me and +said that he would tear up my answer sheet. I got very angry +with the girls involved.",3 +"When a close friend took leave of me, because she went to Israel +for one year.",4 +"Badly chosen words to a vague acquaintance of mine made me feel +ashamed at having given the wrong impression about what I wanted +to say. Thoughtlessness.",2 +On the scenic railway at the fairground.,6 +Being chased in the dark by someone I did not know.,6 +"Before an examination: I had the fealing that I had not learned +enough.",6 +"I was stopped from entering a party while I was at School but I +had an Invitation card with me. This was done because they said I +was too young to join elderly people.",0 +"Some students have been calling lecturers nicknames and I was not +able to find out who they were to stop them.",5 +"When I recently managed to get my first consulting assignment +""myself"" i.e on my own initiative.",1 +When I was given detention at secondary school.,2 +"When I learned that a relative had been spreading rumours about +me.",0 +"We were in a disco and the evening was not at all pleasant. +Despite my not knowing why, I was angry with my companion. I let +him feel my bad humour as I cannot hide my feelings.",3 +"When my brother came back home after staying in hospital. He had +undergone an operation which had been a matter of life or death. +When he came home I could see him smile for the first time after +may weeks.",1 +"When I found out that I could not go to the concert (after buying +the tickets) because of a biology test which occurred the morning +after.",4 +"When a drunkard, in town yelled at me saying that I was a +prostitute.",0 +"When I went for a picnic in Lonavala, I felt full of joy.",1 +When a colleague failed to contact me at the arranged time.,4 +"When I was walking at night, I saw fire suspended in the air and +it was split into several segments by something I could not see. +I suspected that it was witch-craft.",6 +"One rainy day when the streets were wet, and as I was walking down +a slope, I fell down out of my carelessness. There were many +people and they saw me, so I felt ashamesd. Moreover I hurt my +ankle and it was painful.",2 +"After my vacations, one day after a lecture it occured to me to +buy a rose for my mother. We went together to a pub and my +mother told me that she would be getting married next Spring. I +did not known about it and so was all the more glad.",1 +"When I came to know that my grandmother had died. She was very +close to me.",4 +"When my mother and father separated (it was a brief separation +and they are together now).",4 +"When a professor caught me absent-minded and not paying attention +to what he was saying.",2 +"Some students whose English is worse than mine can go to your +lectures (English lectures).",4 +"My sister gave birth to twins, healthy ones.",1 +"At a restaurant I observed how the gypsies tried to get money by +cheating the foreigners i.e non Swedish speaking. My anger had +nothing to do with hatred against foreigners, but it was an +expression of the anger I feel when I see people being used .",3 +When I vomitted a lump of blood.,0 +"I was at the seaside and my brother disappeared for a couple of +hours.",6 +"Several days after my final examination at school, I was sitting +in an airplane on my way to Greece. I enjoyed that moment very +much.",1 +"When I was caught with another man's wife. I had taken the +opportuinty as this man was abroad but he returned that night.",5 +"After a long trip in my dad's van without incident I stopped to +fill the tank with gas and dented the side of the van against the +pole. Then my cars electrical system would not work when I tried +to drive home from his house.",3 +"I guess I have often been ashamed after having talked badly of +other people.",2 +Someone told a lie that I had stolen his money.,3 +"It was when I was allowed to take my wife away from her parents +after being refused for three times on grounds that she should +first write her examination.",1 +"My favourite horse died. We had tried our best to save him, but +it was hopeless, he had to be shot.",4 +"Did not get up early enough to watch my class football team +playing against another team.",5 +When they threatened me with a knife to take my money.,6 +"When I went home on holidays I found that my niece and nephew had +passed away I was very sad for the children were not even sick +before death but suddenly died.",4 +When I got low marks in B.Sc final.,3 +"My father began to say incoherant things concerning my brother's and +my own behaviour towards him. His biased (authoritarian) and +ridiculous point of view made us angry.",3 +Walking along with a dog barking at you and following you.,6 +Afraid of a dead body.,6 +"One day I heard from a friend that the boy I loved had gone out +with her and not with me.",4 +"The week before I entered to army, when we were being selected. +During 5 days I had to pass 10 hours a day waiting for the +answer, which at last was the worst. The fear of being convoked, +of hearing the fated phrase, was constant.",6 +"Car accident, hurt three of my closest family.",5 +Every time I see a spider or a snake.,6 +"I had stopped talking to a very close friend of mine. A week +later he came over to try and make friends with me again and +from the way he talked I felt that he was a very mean preson.",5 +"When I missed crashing, by a hair's breadth, into a man who came +out 20 metres ahead of me when I was driving at 110km/h.",6 +First day at University (I didn't know what to expect).,6 +Scoring a goal in football match.,1 +When unjustified hurting other people.,2 +"When somebody who had been a bully and had acted cruelly to +others who were unable to defend themselves was taken down a few +notches and he began to grovel. I was disgusted with his +grovelling and the manner in which he had treated others.",0 +"The outrageous conduct of a relative towards me and those close +to me.(blaming us and lying)",3 +"Unexpected visit by a close friend, whom I hadn't seen for half a +year.",1 +"When I went to a sauna with my father for the first time (I was +16). When I entered the sauna naked, I felt ashamed for a short +time.",2 +"I live with my sister now and sometimes she angers me especially +when she thinks I don't keep the apt. clean enough.",3 +I lied to my best friend and I wouldn't reform what I had done.,2 +When I was travelling at night.,6 +"I lied to my mother in the sixth form she said she would ring to +find out and I had to tell her I had lied.",5 +"I was going around with a girl without loving her. Not only did +I go around with her, but we did many more things. In the end I +was not very sincere to her.",5 +"A friend of mine told me that my boyfriend had been with another +girl this Summer. We had been going out together for four years +and we had not done so for the last three months. I could not +believe it.",4 +"When I thought for an instant that a very good relationship with +a person had finished.",4 +"When I checked my examination paper and realized that I had been +careless, thoughtless, lazy and hasty so as to make unnecessary +mistakes concerning things I know and understand.",3 +"When the literature teacher made me recite a poem in the middle +of the class and I had to gesticulate.",2 +I had borrowed some money and I exceeded the time-limit.,2 +"Coming home one night - my sister was home, and had been drinking +heavily and started picking arguments.",0 +"I was very sad when I was shouted at by Uncle and was told that I +was not to be given school fees because I didn't go to work in +the garden since I had gone to escort my sister to the bus depot.",4 +"Recent break-up of seriors long-term relationship, helped along +by would-be in-laws.",4 +You ignored the fact that we could not hear you at the back.,4 +When my grandmother died of cancer.,4 +"I allowed my little brother to clean the bathroom in his own way. +My mother came and saw the floor overflowed with water, slapped +my brother in the face and told him to go to bed immediately.",5 +Saw poverty in the countryside.,2 +"When I was walking on the street, a group of drunk, bawling young +people approached.",6 +"When my husband lied to me, tricked me and when I had to leave my +home.",4 +"When the church choir came one Sunday after being away for some +weeks.",1 +"When my father made my mother go through really terrible +situations, I felt furious, impotent, nervous, upset, ........",3 +"When an employer of my younger sister (17 yrs) made a ""pass"" at +her.",0 +"When I learnt that the girl I had impregnated was in hospital and +was on the verge of dying as she had refused to accept the +responsibility of her pregnancy and had wanted to commit suicide.",6 +Getting my accentance letter from CAL. ,1 +"My husband had gone to drive a strange, broken car. At the +agreed time, he had not returned, and I feared that he had had an +accident.",6 +When I heard that my father had passed away.,4 +Not doing well in examns which I should do well (English examns).,2 +"I was joyful when I received a present (2 books and a pencil) +from the headmaster in standard 6 because I had passed, I became +No 1 and he said I was one of the pupils who had good behaviour.",1 +When I was involved in a car crash.,5 +I saw in the street a man spitting.,0 +"When close relatives tried to dissuade me from studying +Psychology because of its low status.",3 +"Discovering that Lillehammer provided no musical environment that +suits my taste, even though I had been told so.",4 +"When I knew that a person that I liked very much didn't react the +way I would like to, even that I knew about his feelings for me.",4 +"When my room-mate locked up the keys of my room in our room after +I had told her that I was only in the bathroom having a shower. + She left and I had to do without supper.",3 +"I had an interview for entry into college. The results were to be +announced on radio. After a long period of waiting the results +were released. I had succeded - tension was relieved by joy.",1 +"The joy came to me when I heard that I was going to start a +Medical course at the Lilongwe School for Health Sciences.",1 +"I had intercourse with someone and then I realized that what I +had done was wrong and it disgusted me.",0 +"A child, 9 years old, died in a stupid way. He fell from a place +which was 1 metre high.",4 +"I felt disgust about all my friends. After having done a great +effort to organize an evening together, and didn't work out, they +put the blame on me. After this, I feel disgust towards those that +blame me.",0 +"Came back from surfing to find car broken into and gear and money +stolen.",3 +When I failed the ninth standard exam in school.,2 +"When a friend of mine keeps telling me morbid things that +happened to his dog.",0 +"When I ""passed out"" a female friend of mine for no apparent +reason. I was under the influence of drugs and when I am like +that I get mad at anyone, however small the provocation.",5 +"My child passed away after a short illness when he was just +eleven months old. I was only told about his death without +knowing that he had been ill.",4 +"Every time I meet a certain person. We cannot get on well +together, we dislike each other.",0 +"I met a woman who was looking for our house. She stopped me but I +ran away. When I arrived at home I found the same woman and she +told my parents what had happened so I felt ashamed.",2 +"I offended a person who had done much for me and who had helped +me for everything.",5 +"I feel always guilty before my parents when I come home and have +to tell them I have failed an exam.",5 +"When my parents work very hard and get tired - while I go to +school and study instead of helping them. I feel that I'm letting +them down, disappointing them.",5 +"People who came to our home - and requested ""Put out your smoke"". +That we should not smoke in our house... and asked not even +politely. It disgusted me because I think people need to adapt to +the situation.",0 +"When I found out that the seat in the coach that I had booked had +been sold to somebody else.",0 +"I was embarassed at the exam in microbiology. I was ashamed with +myself - how little I knew and how good was the examinor. I +rarely become ashamed.",2 +When I quarrelled with my boyfriend.,4 +"When I saw a car run over a child, out of carelessness.",3 +"I felt disgusted when my appointment to meet the E.N.T. +specialist had been turned down. The specialist came from U.K. +and went the same day and we do not have one.",0 +"A person I know who tells lies and so pretending to be better +than she is.",0 +Got a big fish in fishing.,1 +Failing an examn because I did not work hard enough.,5 +"When I didn't succeed to enter at the University, I felt that the +college entrance course sistem prejudiced me, that my integrity, +and effort weren't corresponded.",4 +"I was dancing in a theatre. I was not sure whether some frieends +of mine had come to see me. I was very scared of doing things +wrong.",2 +"A man whom I like, was drunk and tried to molest me.",0 +"During a holiday in East-Germany I got aquainted with a boy who +lived there. We started writing, but I only wrote once. I felt +ashamed because I probably was one of his sparse contacts with +western Europe.",5 +"When they denied a job to a person that I propsed giving political +reasons that has nothing to do directly with the professional +level.",3 +"I felt sadness when I remembered my former boyfriend with whom I +got separated an year ago and when comparing him with my present +one with whom things are not much of a success.",4 +"I received a poor grade on a midterm even though I got all the +right answers and knew the material. I went to the TA to try to +raise my grade and he wouldn't do it.",3 +"When I was back home after a long time, meeting beloved people +and close friends.",1 +Some foreign students playing loud music late at night.,0 +"When I was 7-8 years old, I woke up one night and found myself +alone at home. My mother had gone out to buy cigarattes from a +machine.",6 +Recently I happened to remain alone for a long time.,4 +"It was on January 1st 1985 when I accidentally broke a Fanta +bottle in a certain bottle store in Zomba.",5 +"When I went to the sauna for the first time and there were men +and women.",2 +"This condition accumulated in my mind when funeral news was +brought to my awareness, that a close relative had passed away.",4 +"On Christmas eve,1984, I had just finished the exams and was +afraid as the results of one of my major subjects had been very +unsatisfactory. I thought that I had only a 50% chance of +passing. Even if I failed this subject I would not need to +repeat. However I liked this subject very much and my results +were bad because of my lazyness. If I was forced to change to a +minor in this subject I would be very unwilling.",6 +"When my brother did not send me the transport money to resume +my studies in time at UNZA.",3 +When I discovered that my mother had been involved in adultery.,0 +"I was jerking me off in my bedroom, when suddenly, my mother came +in. She looked at me and immediately left the room.",2 +"Close friend leave to go overseas for an indefinite period. +Farewell scene at airport.",4 +"Upon moving away from home for the first time to a different +city, I felt no longer ""under the wing"" of my parents even though +they would always be there to help me. I felt a sense of loss, I +was now all alone in the world, responsible for my own actions.",4 +"A ex-boyfriend tried to prejudice me before my fiancT and his +family saying things about me that let his family worried. We had +to postpone our wedding and we were already using our wedding +rings. To be honest I didn't feel just anger, I felt hate.",3 +When I learnt that I had been betrayed by my friend.,4 +"I was with my girlfriend when some guys that I don't like made +fuss at my girl.",3 +"I spend the night with my boyfriend, while there was also a +friend of his. We all lay on the floor to sleep. When my +boyfriend was fallen asleep the other boy and I started petting. +After 15 minutes I felt miserable and awoke my boyfriend to tell +him that.",5 +"One night, while I was sleeping, I woke up suddenly with the +sensation that there was someone in my room.",6 +"A truck (big one) nearly mowed me off the road (I was driving a +small Lazer).",6 +"When burglars with guns forced themselves into my house and +ordered me to give them money or face death.",6 +"When I was a young teenager (14) my brother-in-law to be had +made heavy advances to me. I did not understand very well what +it was all about but I reacted strongly and the feelings are +still there.",0 +"I was at a children's camp abroad. The people (the leaders, my +coevals) were very king to us. One night we smeared our foreign +friends with tooth-paste while they were sleeping and then we +roused the whole camp by our shouts. Later I was so sorry. I +didn't utter a word for two days, then I went to apologize.",2 +"My mother was ill and asked me to prpare our lunch. I went to do it, +and while I was working, she stayed behind me telling what I +had, or not to do. I asked her to stop meddling, and to go to +bed. When I went to ask for help to my sister, my mother said that +I was proud, that I asked for help only when I wanted and that I +wasn't able to cook by myself.",3 +My friend misunderstood me.,3 +"A teacher spent a lot of time helping me without wanting to be +paid for it. For the exam I didn't got a good grade and I felt +ashamed.",2 +"I acted in an English play in college and got the Best Actress +award, while our play got the first place.",1 +"When I heard that my father had found a letter from my boyfriend +and he was calling me to talk about it.",6 +"I was nailed. I lied in connection with a book which I took from +the library, because I had to keep it for a longer time.",2 +"Each time I am confronted with reports about repression and +torture.",0 +"After seeing an ""uncertain"" child work on a model for several +hours, I watched a ""bully"" of the same age destroy it, telling +the child that it was worthless.",3 +"Flicking through a magazine showing pictures of homosexual men +committing various acts.",0 +"When I learnt that I had to repeat the first year, I found the +solution immediately but was blocked by many difficulties.",4 +"A friend of mine got pregnant anf failed the first year at +university. The boyfriend refused his responsibility and they +ended up in court.",4 +"When my boss enrolled in a course to satisfy his own ends - to +trample on his associates. I have the misfortune to have one of +my superiors in my course.",3 +Not doing well in the examn.,2 +"I saw a dead child which was not covered, it had been knocked +down by a car.",4 +Not handing in homework in time.,5 +"It was a complex situation concerning a relationship with a +boyfriend, I had broken the relationship for some reasons. +Meanwhile, as I felt it, I had most sorrow.",4 +"I felt ashamed when I had not attended a class and the teacher asked +me the reason for my absence. ",2 +Beating my brother up.,5 +"I had an important amount of money with me and felt fear of being +assaulted.",6 +When someone makes advances that one does not want.,0 +When employer made a pass at me whilst I was at work.,0 +"I was learning judo and my instructor wanted me to assist him in +teaching girls judo at a suburban college. I was just a beginer, +and he made me a green belt so that I would be able to command +respect. This was against my principles, and yet I allowed myself +to listen to him. I gave it up soon after, however I felt very +ashamed at not sticking to my principles and at not having put my +foot down earlier.",2 +When I heard about the death of my aunt.,4 +"I was very angry when my friend lost my practical's journal, +which I needed to study for the exams.",3 +A grenade blew out next to me.,6 +"I was swimming in the river and I lost the top of my bikini. I +did not notice it and came out of water. There was a +disagreeable classmate watching the scene.",2 +"I was pregnant and thought that by not having the baby I would +hurt the father like he did me regardless of the life we had +created.",5 +I had failed some subjects in mathematics.,4 +"A good friend of mine who is at the moment in a foreign country. +I didn't write her for several months and now I feel guilty.",5 +"I had an appointment downtown, and the person in question was +half an hour late.",3 +"My friend started to misunderstand and hurt me. +",6 +"During a football match, the other team was rude and they hurt my +team members and me. The coach was prejudiced against us and +punished us unreasonably. Later we fought with each other and +the match had to be cut short.",3 +"In a confrontation with a person, he provoked me several times +till I reacted in an angry way. Fortunately there were no +disastrous consequences.",3 +"In a situation with my girlfriend I took a decision. Later when +I thought about it, I realized that it was an erroneous decision.",5 +"I was with my boyfriend forgetting that I had left the house +unlocked. Unfortunatly a thief came and stole all the kitchen +utensils. Thereafter I was afraid of the consequences.",6 +When I heard the bad news about the death of a close person.,0 +I was accepted by the Chinese university.,1 +"My friend and I had offended our classmate unintenionally. We +wanted to apologize to her so we decided to visit her. We knew that she +was stubborn so we were frightened. When we rang her door bell, +our fear was at it's climax",6 +When someone told a secret I told them not to tell.,3 +"When I discovered that my girlfriend was going around with +another boy.",3 +"A female classmate was always late for meetings which were for +the homework and not social gatherings. We were very busy and +the deadline was close but we had to waste half an hour or an +hour waiting for her as we could do nothing else then.",3 +When I heard the news of my grandfather's sudden death.,4 +A father helping his kid to fight other kids.,3 +When I qualified for form I.,1 +"Someone told me I was chosen for the English lectures because I +am good looking.",2 +"Because of a conflict with my parents there was a possibility to +interrupt my studies.",6 +"My mom called early in the morning (On a Monday) and I had just +seen her that weekend. I couldn't understand what could be so +important as to make her call at such a strange hour. I missed +the call and had to call her back that afternoon.",6 +When I had a good result in the certificate examination.,1 +The behaviour of people spitting everywhere.,0 +"I was dancing Malipenga (traditional dance). I exaggerated the +steps I was supposed to make in the negative way. This happened in +front of spectators. It was bad for our Boma (group) because I +was on the front line where ability is displayed and it is this +ability that counts when choosing the winning side.",0 +"The day the Real Madrid team of basket ball qualified for the +final at Athens.",1 +When my girlfriend of two years told me it was all over.,3 +"One evening when my sisters, brothers and I were watching T.V my +kid brother took a big mirror and reflected light on the french +windows. I thought that these lights that we could see were +coming from torches annd that it meant that there were thieves +outside.",6 +When my grandmother died of cancer.,4 +"A holiday at a whitesand deserted beach. A cool evening near the +end of summer and we had a fire in the sand - toasted +marshmellows, cuddled and drank champagne.",1 +I gave my mom a gift she wanted for years. I raflected her joy.,1 +"We are repainting rooms in my house. My mother started to enact +plans to paint my room without consulting me.",3 +"Whenever I am alone in a dark room, walk alone on the street, +sleep alone in the room at night or see something which is only +partly visible. This emotion was very strong when as an 8 year +old child I saw something horrible. ",6 +"When I was accepted as a student at the college, not having +thought it possible.",1 +"When I noticed that a nice person was being exploited +economically.",0 +"A good friend quitted me after he had behaved in a strange +manner.",4 +"After a hard day at the university I also had to make dinner that +evening. It failed because of a frying pan which broke.",3 +"At church camp when I accepted Christ into my life and so did my +friend.",1 +"We were walking in the park at night. It was very dark and very +late. We began to hear foot steps all around us, and we could +not find our way out.",6 +When I found my girl in bed with another man.,0 +"At a choral concert I appeared as a solist. The concert5 was very +good, I forgot all the hard work that had been done before. There +remained only an undescribable joy and a feeling of warmth, +security etc.",1 +"I met a dear friend of mine after a long time. I expressed my feelings +in our own usual way, by mutual scolding and abusing (with +complete understanding) and by touching, patting and taking the +hand of the other person, etc...",1 +"I stormed into the room, hoping to cool myself with some soft +music from my three band radio cassette. There was only young +Kaley there and he explained, "" Your aunt has sold it as she +wanted to buy clothes.""",0 +"In Punjab, when in the name of religion people killed each other +during the agitation.",0 +"When my father did not get back from Chipata on time, he was thus +holding back progress as everything depended on him. I felt +angry over his actions.",3 +When a guy chased me when I was out jogging.,6 +"I had been watching a TV-program on paranormal phenomena. At +night I could not fall off to sleep as I feared that humanoids +were on the move.",6 +"My current work load is too much. The feeling comes back from +time to time.",4 +"After having been told not to take the car, I took it anyway and +felt guilty about having taken it.",5 +A rich man expressing disgust towards an alcoholic.,0 +"My apartment has had three robberies in the last month. The guy +upstairs just got robbed making it the fourth.",6 +"This feeling of guilt really applies to moral/religious views. I +(being Catholic) went against what I was brought up to believe in +and had a sexual relationship with my boyfriend. Many months +later, when I was doing some deeper self analysis I began to feel +guilty and realized that I had gone against what I wanted for +myself and my future.",5 +"When five of my friends at the secondary school found out the bad +things that I had been saying about them.",2 +"I was sitting in a restaurant with friends and I knew that in the +meantime my girl-friend must have come to my flat and found the +door closed.",5 +"My class leader told me the university won't let all of us go to +your lectures because we are not All English Class.",3 +"When I saw a big man hit another one, and nobody did anything.",3 +"When a good friend with whom I had an intimate relationship made +clear that he didn't want to continue in the same way. He choose +his girlfriend (also a friend of mine).",4 +"When I had an argument with my best friend and I thought that I +was right and she was not.",3 +When my basket ball team lost the qualification at a final.,4 +"A man sexually aggressed a small girl in the bus but the girl did +not dare to speak out.",0 +"As a result of breaking the indicator light as mentioned +for guilt.",6 +"I saw a film where snakes were crawling everywhere. I felt them +crawling over all my body with that ... skins. The noise that +they did disturbed me very much.",0 +"When I caused much pain and sorrow to my boyfriend by finishing +our relationship.",4 +"I usually come back home early but this day I came home back late +to find some visitors at my place.",0 +"I broke a cup and put it back without telling anyone about it and +someone almost got blamed for it, then it was discovered that it +was me who had broken it.",5 +"I arrived an hour late for an important meeting ( I had +misunderstood the time).",5 +"It was in March 1985 when one of my fellow students borrowed my +wristwatch and after sometime he broke a glass of that watch I +got angry when he was telling me but the anger didn't take long +to fade.",3 +"I was listening to a priest in church saying how sinful man was, +and how all men should renounce their desires and pleasures to +please God. I could never understand how something that brings you +joy could be a sin.",0 +When I got a message that my child was not feeling well.,4 +When I saw a scene on T.V where a castration was shown.,0 +"I was unfaithful to my partner once when he was working abroad +for a long period.",5 +"Felt it after I spoke terribly (got mad at) the person who is the +most important in my life.",2 +"The death of my mother-in-law after a long sick-bed. at the +moment of dying I was with her.",4 +"A few weeks back my daughter had very high fever and I was scared +that it might lead to brain damage or convulsions.",6 +"I was living in a flat where things did not go very well for me. +Finally, they threw me out and this prejudiced people I esteem a +lot.",3 +"I felt guilty when I had refused to lend money to my friend who +needed it immediately.",5 +"I was travelling back home by boat with two friends of mine after +a lovely holiday trip. The night and the sea were dark, and the +wind was blowing. I feared that death was there on the boat, I +somehow felt sure about it. I feared being left alone.",6 +"Letting Jesus take control of my emotions i.e., ill feeling.",1 +Telling white lies.,5 +When a class-mate died.,4 +When junior doctors returned to work after bunking them.,0 +"When I accused unjustly a person of robbery, who proved me the +contrary, almost caused a public fight.",2 +"When my husband got picked up in our new car for drunken driving. +We had made a pact the other would not drink and so therefore +would be the driver for the evening etc. I was not present at the +time.",3 +"I once saw an elderly lady who was not properly dressed. She was +wearing a transparent dress, such things are not sopposed to be +seen in African society.",0 +"When I received the acceptance form for the second year at +university.",1 +"I always get angry when somebody deceives me, or tries to conceal +his lie skilfully and this offends me even more.",3 +Haven't felt shame for ages.,2 +When I heard about the disaster in Bophal (India).,0 +"It appeared that I gave correct answers to all questions during +an examination of personality while I thought I performed very +badly. Even now, I don't know how I managed it.",1 +A boy who shot dead a squirrel.,5 +When I left a man in whom I really believed.,4 +Not getting the reference paper.,2 +"My grandmother has been in a hospital for a week and I still +haven't had time to see her.",5 +Whhen the front tyre of the car burst.,6 +I was told that a friend of mine was going to Mexico for good.,4 +"After a motor accident (I was the frong-seat-passenger) I spit +blood.",6 +Facing a mad dog.,6 +"My brother and I were at home watching a TV program when I +started to tease him and in this joke I hurt him without +knowing the seriousness of it I went on. He got angry and gave it +back to me. At this moment I felt anger at him but knowing that +it was my fault.",5 +"When my mother rejected my boyfriend and made unfair judgements +on him.",3 +"Having moved into a flat within the last week I felt some disgust +that a bathroom tap had been left to drip with a faulty fawcet.",0 +"When my brothers were being cruel to my boyfriend, because his +flat-mate bent back one of my brother's fingers. It wasn't his +fault.",3 +"A friend of mine tried to persuade me to go at her place to act +as a model because she felt too tired. It was a quarter of an +hour before the appointed time, I had just lied down and did not +want to go because it was too late anyway. She said that I only +was talking about looking for work, but if it was possible I +would not accept it. I was angry about this unjust judgment.",3 +"I had shouted at my younger brother and he was always afraid when +I called out loudly.",6 +"When a classmate hit me on my occipital region when I was busy +studying and concentrating on my classnotes.",3 +"When I had to lie to my boyfriend so that he wouldn't suspect I'd +bought him a xmas present as expensive as I had.",5 +I got a fairly large amount of my taxes back.,1 +Hearing of the death of a friend who had been skiing.,4 +"I was sleeping in my room but woke in the middle of the night to +think I could hear noises and see shadows moving. I felt that +someone was in the house.",6 +"I felt angry when I heard that my sister had failed the +Examinations which we hoped she was going to pass with +distinctions.",3 +"When two female classmates and I were having lunch, we chatted and +cracked jokes, I was very happy. However, I felt that I may have +said something inappropriate which might cause them to have a bad +impression of me.",1 +"Somebody went around spreading news that I like people with +money.",0 +"Traveling as the only female in a railway carriage in the middle +of the night in Italy.",6 +"When I lied last week. I lied to someone to get info. for a +paper I was writing. I told her that the info. was for a +newspaper article. I was afraid if I told the truth she wouldn't +help me.",5 +"I beat up a female friend after I heard the defamatory stories that +she had been telling. I was later called to explain my +behaviour.",5 +"This sounds really predictable and usual but it was absolutely +heart-rending at the time. My first lover (I was 15) just rang up +one day and announced that he had found another woman. I never +saw him again and it hurt because I was positive that it was +""TRUE LOVE"" !!",4 +When my studies are too demanding and I cannot cope with it.,4 +"When I lose on my bets on anything - baseball, football, +basketball, track, craps, poker, or arcade - whether its 5 +dollars or 200 I feel that I should never have done it in the +first place.",0 +"When I saw a T.V programme on animals in the film world +(mistreated and used).",0 +"When we got lost in Florence and the coach did not turn up until +midnight. I had no place to go to and there were strange reports +at the police station.",6 +"When the guy I was in love with told me that he had met someone +else and that we would not meet again for a year. Although we +did not have a steady relatioship, we were having an affair.",4 +"While travelling in a bus, there were three people sitting behind +me (two men and a woman). They were drunk and the conversation +was unbelievable (about fucking, fellatio, etc...). They tried +to get others to take part in the conversation. I loathed it and +felt like crying.",0 +Can't think of any.,2 +"Car accident nearly occurred between us and drunk driver coming +in opposite direction it missed us by approx 1 m and collided +(after rolling twice midair) into nearby scrub.",6 +"I was annoyed this particular day as it seemad that the odds were +not in my favour. My grandfather added fuel to the fire, when I +had an important appointment so I unleashed my anger on him.",3 +"I was disgusted from a quarrel between two married people, in +which the children were involved as accusers of one of the +parents.",0 +"When I opened my TE Score envelope, and saw I got into +Physiotherapy.",1 +"When I was working, I got treated in a way which I felt was not +democratic.",0 +"When my grandmother passed away. We had been waiting for it as +she had been sick for years, but when it happened I found it hard +to accept.",4 +"My brother wanted me to buy a flute with him but I didn't accept +afterwards I regretted it because he became sad.",4 +"I was angry when I watched a ski-race. All the Austrian skiers +dropped out.",3 +"During the week-end at home, my mother fries greasy and unhealthy +meat dishes which make me feel sick.",0 +"When I wet my head (or bed ?) one day my sister discovered it and reported +it to the other siblings. So my mother had to scold me.",2 +"A tiresome person held me up all day long. I was very busy then +(I can not remember what the problem was). He continously tried +to make me talk to him and disturbed me.",0 +"When I didn't bring my girlfriend home one night. Later she told +me that a cardriver solicited her.",5 +"Fearing the use of power or reprimands when I belong to the +minority.",6 +"When I was a Sr. in HS. one of the class counselors died of +hepatitis. She was very sensitive. She knew my shyness and drew +me out to improve myself image. I missed her funeral - so I could +not publically grieve. My parents didn't understand.",4 +"When they phoned me from Great-Britain to tell me that I could go +there, if I wished, in Summer.",1 +Getting a part-time job.,1 +I couldn't be with a girl on whom I was very keen.,4 +"In a sexual experience with an unknown woman where after the +sexual act I only could go away without looking backwards.",0 +"It was when I failed standard 8 exams while all my friends +passed and went to secondary school. In class I was always +getting more marks than they did.",4 +"One day, I was home and there was a phone call informing me that +some of my relatives had died in an accident.",4 +"We were discussing a subject ( I knew very little about it) and I +was holding my ground. They showed me that I was wrong.",2 +"When a close friend entrusted me with a secret and I let the cat +out of the bag.",2 +"After having finished my B.Sc, I was struggling hard to continue +my studies and had taken the M.SC exam. I was not sure that I +would be selected in the written exam. When I saw my name in the +selected candidates list I was overjoyed.",1 +When my father was ill and was waiting for the results of his tests.,6 +"I bought a Christmas present for my girl-friend. On my way home I +was really glad about having found such a suitable thing.",1 +"When the paramilitary was sent to the UNZA and it started using +tear gas and started intimidating the students without any +provocation.",3 +"A friend called me and told me that she wanted to come and see +me. She lived in a village at 50 km distance fom my home town. +Next morning I expected her but she didn't arrive. As I got +impatient I called her but her parents told me that she had gone +skiing. I was very angry because I had cancelled an appointment +to be able to see her.",3 +"At a party, on New Year's Eve, I met on old friend whom I had not +seen for some time",1 +When I see pornographic films.,0 +"When I noticed that my parents were not in such a prosperity as +most people in my surroundings.",4 +"During the PY 102 film session on Tuesday, one of the films shown +was of an experiment on a live cat involving strapping it into a +machine for possibly days, and doing things to its brain.",0 +When I was nearly attackad by a man who had been chasing me.,6 +"Once I bought my sister a pair of sports shoes as she was going +to join an athletic meet. However the shoes were a little big +and had a few flaws. She muttered all the way and blamed me for +having wasted her money anf I felt guilty.",5 +"Fear of punishment for having broken an item of value to my +parents.",6 +I couldn't fulfill a promise.,5 +Getting ill.,4 +"Political and military trnsgressions around the world, generally +speaking. This cannot be described through this questionaire.",0 +"I've always defended my sister when needed, at the expense of my +brother. This has led to feelings of guilt towards him.",5 +My younger sister was almost run over by a lorry.,5 +Hearing my girlfriend accept my offer of marriage.,1 +"Fear of the turn that the examination paper would take as I +lacked confidence.",6 +"When after 10 months of national service I was ""downgraded"" and +did not have to do the remaining 5 months.",1 +"Father said: If you are pregnant, you will have to procure +abortion. I was filled with disgust against my father.",0 +"Sleeping alone in a tent, while hearing several noises such as +rustling etc, I am afraid that there are people who are up to no +good.",6 +On rising. No apparent reason.,4 +When I got 1/2 out of 15 in Abnormal Psychology I felt ashamed.,2 +Being chosen to do this experiment.,1 +Before an exam.,6 +A friend breaking up with her boyfriend.,4 +"When I received a letter from my girlfriend telling me that she +was engaged to an another man.",2 +I went out dancing and found my boyfriend kissing another girl.,3 +"Once at midnight, I was working alone at office and the phone +suddenly rang.",6 +Can't remember exact example.,3 +I was scared of water when I was a child.,6 +"Finding out I am chosen to collect norms for Chinese aphasia (I +will contribute to China's catching up with the West in +neuropsychology).",1 +"When I complained about a colleague to the manager and he told +her that someone had complained; this colleague came to me +believing that I liked her.",5 +"I am happpy when I get good results in the field of academics or +athletics. ",1 +"Making a sexual pass at my cousin with whom I have a very close +personal relationship.",5 +"We had made an appointment to complete together a piece of work. +It appeared that I was the only one who hadn't prepared anything.",2 +"I had misbehaved at a party and did not wish to meet the person +in question later.",2 +"My grandfather was seriously ill, he had only a few days left to +live. I had always loved him, but never told him. When I saw him +for the last time, I had the feeling that I had omitted so many +things I could not do again. - There was a fly sitting on his +forehead and he was too weak to drive it away. I was very sad +when I saw that.",4 +"I detest any kind of constraint and hate the attempts of elder +people to force me to a norm of behavior without having legal or +moral rights to do it. I felt this emotion when a neighbour of +mine made me kick out my guests because they had talked very +loudly and threatened that with ""connections"" she will expel me +from the inst.",0 +Swearing in public.,2 +"When I learnt that my brother-in-law had been poisoned by his +friends and that he was dead.",4 +"I stayed alone in the dark at night in the mountain, waiting for +my uncle. I remember that I took a big stone and it calmed me.",6 +"Attempted rape by 5 guys - held my arms behind my back and +molested me, constantly threatening to beat me. Penetration did +not occur as the driver of the car stopped that.",6 +"I got up late and I could not go to my lessons on time. When I +entered the class room the stare of the teacher and my classmates +made me feel guilty.",5 +"When I was a child, I was sometimes forced to eat things that +disgusted me.",0 +"My child, unexpectedly started acting in a restless and +disturbing way at school. In addition his performance at school +weakened.",4 +"I received a letter from my grandmother. She has obviusly +suffered a lot from my grandfather's suffering health. She +mentioned things she had gotten him and he would never use.",4 +"When I was about 17 years old and I stole some pens from a +stationery store because I didn't have enough money.",5 +"Sometime ago I felt very angry when my mother wrote me telling me +that my elder sister was messing up things at home by her +internalised aggressive attitude towards parents and her husband.",3 +"My parents are divorced, father pays alimony for me. Two years +ago my sister who lives with father, suddenly asked mother for +money. As she considered the amount of money my mother offered +her too small, she brought an action against mother. I was +terribly angry with my sister.",3 +"I was very happy when my scholarship to continue studying at UNZA +was approved after it had been cancelled.",1 +"My mother died of cancer after a 4 year illness - I think the +most pregnant moment of sadness was the next morning, just as the +sun rose.",4 +"I had a good relationship with two friends. Once without reason, +they clearly showed that they thought I was naive, dull and +unable to take care for myself, while I expostulated that I could +manage things.",4 +"My elder sister whom I love very much was leaving for the +West Indies for two years and I was staying behind.",4 +"It was the time when everybody spoke about and discussed +Hainburg. I was also asked for my opinion. I was ashamed because +I had no firm view of the whole thing and therefor was not able +to join the conversation.",2 +"At school I was talking to a classmate about mathematics. I had +grown weary of it and said : ""I would like to throw the book on +the arse of Kuikka"". My classmate said : ""Now, he is sitting +there and waiting for the book"" (Kuikka was one of the most quiet +boys of the class). I was ashamed of myself.",2 +"When my sister died, she was only sixteen when she was put to +rest.",4 +Getting into this university to do medicine.,1 +"Not quick enough to help the lectors to catty things for the +lecture.",2 +"When I confessed to my girl-friend (now my wife) that I had +betrayed her with another woman.",2 +When grandfather died.,4 +When I entered University.,1 +When a group of friends began to make critics about me.,2 +"I felt guilty when I once went out with another boy and made love +with him while I had a close boyfriend.",5 +"I was walking home late at night from lectures and someone +deliberately started following me. It was dark and I was scared.",6 +"I felt much anger and perhaps I feel it till now, against my +girlfriend's sister who incited her to betray me just when I +needed her very much. She didn't think of anything, simply +passed over everything.",3 +"At my Summer job, nobody looked after me in particular and I had +to learn all on my own.",3 +When I had a little accident with my boss'car.,5 +"It was on St. Claus Day when I was five years old. St. Claus and +his Devil Servant came to see me. St. Claus' Devil Servant +rattled with his chain and bowled terribly. I was so frightened +that my parents had to ask him to leave.",6 +"I used to pinch change from my father's mantlepiece (never my +mother - she didn't get enough housekeeping) and then I'd feel +when we went to church as a family I'd felt awkward cos I felt +I'm expected to go to communion and I would but I was afraid and +guilty 'cos I committed a mortal sin.",5 +"I get irritated with my son when he screams or is sick all over +his clean clothes.",5 +Shame of being reprehended.,2 +"My dog, whom I had had for eleven years, died. I watched his +soporification.",4 +"As a child, when I was at home alone, I felt in an indefinate +manner afraid of the death of my father and mother.",6 +Insulted by some stupid people.,3 +"Heard someone boasting his fortune telling and I knew he was +lying.",0 +Got in touch with earlier friends after a long absence.,1 +"China cannot let you give more lectures because you are needed in +the specialist clinics. We are so backward in medicine.",2 +"I was alone in the bus when I tripped and fell, and dropped all +my papers.",2 +"A young girl tried to put an end to her life because of lover's +grief; not until she was in hospital I heard that I had been the +reason for her action.",5 +"I was given a wristwatch by my first girl and after two days +another girl of mine also gave me a wristwatch.",6 +"As a passenger in a vehicle travelling from the steep side of +Arthur's Pass in the middle of a sleet-storm, icy roads, sheer +chasms to one side, sheer face to the other.",6 +"My mother read a letter that a friend of mine had written to me +telling me how she had got drunk the last time.",3 +Finding out that China is backward in science.,2 +Thinking about other things in a lecture.,5 +"I was told that I had passed the statistics exam. I had not +expected this so I was very happy.",1 +"When I promised a male friend of mine to visit him, and did not.",5 +Getting to know that my uncle in America had a brain tumor.,4 +Some boys boasting about their ability to tell dirty jokes.,0 +"I was walking along the passage to my room (very near the anatomy +laboratory) and I heard something and felt that there was some +thing behind me. I looked back and there was no one. I started +imagining that maybe it was a corpse.",6 +"When my niece was 3 years old she was in the living room while we +were fixing the table for a birthday party and, as every child, +she couldn't stay calm. She burst a balloon. When I told her to +be quiet her father pinched her. I believe if I hadn't said anything +this wouldn't have happened.",5 +"On embarking on University life. I came from a different city and +did not know anybody at the Uni. I was frightened because my well +known and loved friends, also all my security had been taken +away.",6 +"When I passed the B.A exams with 1st class. I was the first in +the family to have got a 1st class, so all the family members +were very happy and they gave me the opportunity to study +further.",1 +"Someone had to do a lot of efforts to make something work. With +my help he would have finished much sooner, but I wasn't in the +mood to help him.",5 +"In the past I experienced this feeling almost all the time - +wherever I went, in different sutuations. I was small and I had +to be taken to kindergarten, but me the fool didn't dare to tell +exactly where, finally as a result I was late.",2 +"When my aunt, whom I had loved very much, died. When I heard +about her death, I was not as touched as at the funeral. I really +became conscious of her death at that moment.",4 +When I went for the first time in my life to a nudist-beach.,2 +"A workmate and I had been antagonistic with each other for some +weeks - he had reacted violently to my criticisms of his work +standards.",6 +"Going to a disco by myself to wait for some friends. We had +separated and hadn't planned where to meet. I wasn't sure if they +were even going to this place so I felt very conscious of being +alone.",6 +"Some time ago I was present at the wedding party of two close +friends of mine.",1 +"I cut a friend's hair in anger, without any consideration.",5 +When I was in the toilet and someone came in.,2 +"I was very happy when I passed and went to form I. It was a +great relief for me as I had been very worried considering the +large number of pupils who fail.",1 +"I have a two-month old baby. When I came here, to the +university, to attend lectures, I had to leave the baby with his +father. I felt guilty.",5 +"It happened when I lost two very intimate friends in a car +accident.",4 +"4-letter words on a TV programme (Roche) while we were +entertaining ""conservative"" relations who wanted to see the first +episode.",0 +"When I heard that an acquaintance of mine was spreading rumours +about my affair with a close friend.",3 +"I had enough time to do my assignment, and I did not do it well. +When the lecturer scolded me, I had this feeling.",5 +"I experience a sense of guilt as my middle son cannot express +himself like other children, neither verbally nor in writing.",5 +"My brother and I were driving to Brisbane when he drove back onto +the road, perhaps cutting off another car but not noticeable - +this driver did his best to drive us off the road for about 1/2 +an hour.",6 +"Death of a pet rabbit. We had to give it away because my brother +became allergic to it. We gave it to a man who kept animals and +lots of other animals for children to watch. We went to visit our +rabbit. It was badly beaten by the other rabbits and eventually +died.",4 +"I was taking place in an anti nuclear protest and was shouting +protest loudly to some American sailors of the U.S. Texas +submarine. A guy came up to me and said that's your brother +screaming at, I felt shame and I realized screaming at another +person isn't good protesting. Now I'm a silent protester.",2 +"When I finished a relation after four years, leading to much +sorrow for the other one and myself (""although it was the best +solution"").",4 +"A very close friend of mine died. I read it in the newspaper. I +didn't know what to do and thought about it the whole day.",4 +"My little niece, who is very talkative, suddenly became very +naughty and began wetting her pants. She did it one afternoon.",3 +When my brother's visa for the U.S.A got cancelled.,4 +"When going out in the weekend I have to bike 5 kilometers through +lonely and dark polders, then I always have terrifying fantasies.",6 +An exam where questions about very specific knowledge were asked.,2 +When my father passed away.,4 +"I was disgusted when my little sister had been hit badly by her +friends.",0 +"[ Generally, when I am late in attending to matters (for example +paying bills).]",2 +"As a child, when I saw an ""unesthetic"" sight.",0 +"When my grandmother died, her life was heavy and her last hours +were terrible.",4 +I had promised to call a girl but I did not do it.,5 +"When I was at a boarding school at Lusaka, the Rhodesian +soldiers came to bomb a house near our school and we saw the +whole scene.",6 +"When I got caught in the pouring rain last Thursday and did not +have a raincoat on me.",3 +"My friend had organized a birthday party for me secretly, I was +very happy not so much for the presents but because they seemed +to care for me.",1 +"When I found out my roommate had been talking behind my back +about very personal things.",2 +"The time when I cleaned the house and everything was tidy, +then my cousin, who is 4 years old, came with a muddy pot and made +a mess of the whole thing.",0 +"When I was emotionally unstable I said things which may have hurt +others or made them feel unhappy. When I calmed down I realized +that I had been selfish and had not taken into consideration the +feelings of others. Then I felt ashamed as someone pointed out my +behaviour to me.",2 +Not getting on with someone of my classmates in high school.,4 +"When I heard that my father had passed away. I could not eat for +a week and was only crying. I could not find the courage to go to +bath.",4 +I was told that a friend of a friend committed suicide.,4 +"At one of my close friends saying she didn't like the way I am +nice to people I don't know, or who have been nasty to me.",3 +"A sense of guilt before my parents when I had to discountinue my +studies in the first year because of unpassed exams.",5 +"Having agreed to share the taxi expenses, three people in the +back of the car just ran off, leaving the person up front with +the entire bill.",3 +"I was camping in an old broken hut which had no lights. I had +brought along a lamp which was not working very well. The door +made strange sounds and I was sure that strange things were +happening. The most terrifying bit was that there were many +wardrobes in the hut and everytime that I looked in the glass of +the wardrobe I felt that there were ""objects"" behind me. The +whole night was spent in fear and restlessness.",6 +"I was of the opinion that 12.00 pm was too early to be back at +home after going out, so I stayed away longer, knowing that my +mother would be worried.",5 +"Disgusted with boyfriend's mother - her overpowering, +over-protecting and selfish attitudes.",0 +"When I got a stereo walkman from my father when he had finacial +difficulties. I thought that although he promised to give me that +present, he was not obliged to do so.",1 +"I was in a car accident on the way back from a weekend rowing +regatta we'd won. 5 others were in the car. I thought I'd never +be able to row again.",4 +"When I found out that a person I went to school with had died in +a car accident.",4 +"A friend gave me a lift and we met a road-block. He tried to +turn back when an officer shouted at us to stop. My friend took a +turn suddenly and the officer raised his gun but by the time we +were gone.",6 +"The housing council asked the city to cut 40 linden trees so that +the inhabitants of the lower floors would have a view to the sea.",3 +"When I beat up my brother so badly, for not having gone to school, +that we had to take him to hospital.",5 +"When on holiday in Greece I called my best friend, she told me +she passed the examinations and that she had been admitted to the +study for speech therapy.",1 +"We were at a football match and when we were leaving the stadium +(the stadium was packed with people) and I lost my shoe in the +crowd. Our attempts to find it didn't give any result and I had +to go home without one shoe. In other words to cross the whole +town !",2 +"When I heard of the assassination of the Indian prime-minister, +Indira Gandhi.",0 +When I met with friends that I hadn't seen for a long time.,1 +"A great friend of mine travelled with the intention to change his +life. He didn't succeed and returned depressed. I had not power +to support his frustration and his behavioral change.",5 +"When I bought new skis; I was ashamed to tell the assistant that +I am not good at skiing and therefor bought racing skis.",2 +Saw something stupid and ignorant happening in the countryside.,2 +"Finding out that my health condition may be against my attending +university lectures.",6 +"It was when a friend took me to a place and gave me as a gift my +astrologycal map with the explanations of a psychologist.",1 +"When I realized that my bathing suit was spotted, I had became +menstruated.",2 +"I came out of the house at 7:20 am Monday morning getting ready t +go to school and fight for a parking when I saw my car had a flat +tire.",3 +A TV program on whale-hunting.,0 +A party I went to last Christmas.,1 +When someone took my pen away.,3 +"I was alone in my room at the boarding house when at 12 o'clock +someone knocked violently on the door.",6 +"I was disgusted at the university wanting some of us to travel +from our homes to the lectures here every day. The way the whole +thing was handled disgusted me.",0 +"I felt sad when I heard that my cousin had passed away just +suddenly.",4 +"[ I sometimes quarrel with my mother because she blames me, +though I have not in any way been connected to some events.]",3 +Someone I do not like kept talking to me.,3 +"Several good friends made me a surprise visit and this made me +happy. They are my closest friends and we had not seen each +other for a long time.",1 +My grandmother died.,4 +"I happened to see two boys fighting, one of them fell down and +hurt his head. The other one used this to spank the head of the +boy on the ground.",0 +"One night I and my friends went to the cemetery. We stopped the +car in front of the wall and suddenly the grave digger appeared +over the wall looking like a ghost. I was already afraid and +almost died.",6 +"When on a car journey a fellow student crossed our way with his +own car and we had to bump into a roadside trunk.",3 +"This last August when my parents dropped me off and moved me into +college I didn't know anybody here; I was 17 and Berkeley really +scared me.",6 +"When my friend failed an exam by just one mark. During this exam +she had asked me to show her my answer sheet and I had not done +it. When the results came out, I thought that had I shown her my +answer sheet she would have passed the exam. I felt guilty as I +had failed her.",5 +When I do something unworthy.,2 +"I did not do well in one of the subjects last term. I was +afraid that I would fail. My result was a grade D, though it was +not good I still passed. I felt more comfortable then. ",6 +"My boy-friend had promised me to come an 10 a.m. - he was 3 hours +late.",3 +I won the country ski championship.,1 +"Once, when I arrived home very late, my parents had an argument +because of this; my mother wanted to stand up for me.",5 +When I attended my cousin's 31st birthday.,1 +"I'm afraid of driving on the special seat of a mororcycle, mainly +with certain colleagues who by exces of self-confidence drive +beyond limits or measure in the traffic and the main victim is +always the person who sits behind the driver.",6 +"When I tried to put up a tent some years ago, I was teased and +hindered by my cousin.",3 +When I was walking along a road alone on my way to go shopping.,6 +"I was selected to do a rest for a foreign ballet but I did not +have the money to do it.",4 +"On the cliff by the sea, the silence and the sudden voice of a +bird.(swans of the bay)",1 +"When, after a week at school, a teacher sent a note home saying +that my son was inattentive and unable to do his lessons.",3 +"My life-partner, who was drinking more and more, spoke about +kicking the cat. He had never done anything of the kind, but I +knew that he would do so one day, without thinking about it.",3 +When I broke my leg I felt fear.,6 +"When my dad told me about something he had done against my +mother.",3 +"One day I went to town to get my grocery. On my way back, I took +a mini bus which was full of drunk students. I felt very +disgusted.",0 +"My girlfriend was away visiting another city and I brought +another girl home. Next morning when I started getting sober I +felt quite ashamed of myself.",2 +"It was the first time I met him (my boyfriend Mr.W). It was +during the first term Summer vacations. We met each other while +handing in our homework. He invited me have a trip with him and +we were together till 8 P.M.",1 +"I had a dream : I had a very close friend who had several stone +houses in the New Territories (villages) but they did not have +much furniture. He took me to see his fields (I had never seen +them before) and there were several inches of clear water on +which the sunshine was reflected. I wanted to sit among the +short green plants in the fields but was afraid of treading the +plants to death. My friend said ""They will not die"" and I sat +down happily and my trousers did not get wet.",1 +"When I was tired and unmotivated, I shouted at my girlfriend and +and brought up negative sides of her character which are actually +not so important.",2 +"A nightmare. I was dreaming about bloodsuckers, which I tried to +shake off from my body, they are everywhere, they get glued, they +suck. And there are a lot of them. I panic.",0 +"Sometime back I was coming from the wards and lice were all over +my uniform since patient's blankets have a lot of lice. It +happened that my boyfriend picked some lice from my white uniform. +I was so ashamed.",2 +"Put down by my father - at a family outing at mutual family +friends dinner. Told ""Not to Speak"". The attitude by him was +negative/I was in mid 20s, I had done many things - a wide range +of experiences. Probably greater than he.",2 +"I had a schoolmate who went to the hospital as her brain was +bleeding. She fell unconscious for three days and when I went +to see her I saw the miserable state the family was in. Moreover +I could not do nothing for her. I was very sad. Finally, she +died.",4 +"I met a girlfriend again after not seeing her for several months. + I saw her in a discotheque. We do not like discotheques but we +went there because we knew we would meet there.",1 +"I think I felt ashamed for the first time when I entered a night +club.",2 +"When being illoyal (disloyal) to people close to me. Had such an +episode with my sister, who should have received my support and +attention.",5 +"When I went home and there was nobody, I waited till 2 A.M and +still nobody. I was suddenly scared and anxious as this had never +happened before. In addition my mother was very weak and I +feared that she had met with an accident. Therefore I was anxious +all night.",6 +Girls dressed like foreigners in the university.,0 +Someone told me we are not as good as the All English Class.,2 +"I was driving along and saw this young guy urinating into the +gutter, in broad daylight.",0 +"I stayed at home for a period because I felt depressive and I +neglected my study when people adked me, I told them that I had +freeterm and studied hard. I felt ashamed for my behavior and +lies.",2 +Meeting generally dominating persons in social occasions.,3 +"My daughter was a baby and was crying to be taken on my lap. I +felt very nervous and moved her away and went out. As soon as the +feeling of nervousness passed I was taken by an enormous feeling +of guilt, for having rejected my daughter.",5 +"A colleague of mine asked a lecturer to put him a higher mark in +order to keep his good mards and thus to continue getting a +scholarship for an excellent grade.",0 +"A friend of mine told me that I had passed the entrance exam to +the university.",1 +"I was in a cafe with another person when, suddenly, several close +friends of my partner appeared. I did not know what to do and my +partner felt uncomfortable.",5 +"A friend of mine gave birth to a child. Very dangerous delivery. +I was afraid for her and for the baby.",6 +"I remember my religious experience. During a gospel camp, a few +friends of mine decided to believe in God. The joy that I felt +at that time was more than words can express. I blessed them and +praised God in my heart.",1 +"Yesterday I read in the newspaper that a 30 year old woman had +abused her 2 month old son and had caused his death. I was very +angry after reading this as this is not a human act and to abuse +so fragile a life is not a forgivable sin.",3 +"When I got low marks in the final year B.Sc exams, I felt guilty +as I had not worked hard because I had been roaming around with my + friends.",5 +When the mother of a good friend of mine died.,4 +"When I lied to my best friend about a boy she really liked but he +didn't like her. I told her he did and she bugged him for a long +time embarrassing herself.",2 +I stroke a person undeservedly.,5 +I felt it at the same time when I felt disgust.,6 +"Finding out in your lecture that a doctor can make misdiagnoses +because of ignorance in neuropsychology.",6 +"I met my present boyfriend on a boat trip to England. We had +said that we would call each other when we got back to Sweden (we +were not going to the same town in England). As soon as I walked +in he called from England as he could not wait till he came +home.",1 +"When I was hitch-hiking and I went with a man who drived like a +madman.",6 +"One day I was the leader of the weekly meeting of the Church +fellowship. That day I had been preparing for the exams and did +not estimate the time to travel to the church right and I was +twenty minutes late. As I had not prepared well I led the +meeting badly. I was ashamed of myself. ",2 +"When I forgot the birthday of my best friend and I innocently +came to visit her one week later.",2 +"When a student accused me of having stolen his textbook as he +had found a form bearing my name in his other books and all my +explanations fell on deaf ears.",0 +At a weakness on my part.,2 +"When I stayed on a nudism beach, a man was watching me in a +disagreeable way. I had the feeling that he was examining my +body.",2 +"My father called me (behind my mother's back) and told me that my +mother disapproved my behavior in the weekend. However, he didn't +tell me the details and left me with unanswered questions.",3 +"When dropping a carton of boiling soup onto a co-worker's leg - +causing great pain, and for me, severe embarassment at my own +ineptitude, and shame that another person suffered as a result.",2 +"When I was in a little fishing boat and we ran into hard weather +in the open sea.",6 +"Some persons, who are important for me, came to see me and I had +not washed the dishes.",2 +"When my best friend started getting involved in my private +affairs.",0 +"I was happy to hear that my sister had won a prize at running +competition.",1 +I felt this when I was copying homework for one of my classes.,2 +"As the time to get the results drew near I became more and more +anxious. My friend called me and said, "" You have passed."" My +heart was full of joy.",1 +Not accepting hints of intimate relation from a girl.,4 +"First time I slept with my present girlfriend. Had been best +friends for a year but had been hesitant about getting involved +emotionally.",1 +"A friend of mine felt bad because of something I had done to +something that belonged to him.",5 +"My sister had a daughter. I saw the baby for the first time +through a pane of glass and she looked at me.",1 +When my dad passed away.,4 +When my girlfriend told me that she wanted to leave me.,4 +"I ""cooked"" the engine in my father's car - it was actually his +fault because he hadn't fixed the temperature gauge or told me. +When I finally got home I was absolutely screamed at and the +anger I experienced was over the injustice of it all plus the +huge row which developed.",3 +"That afternoon I rushed home to look at the result slip of the +higher level as fast as possible. I opened the envelope very +carefully and found that my results were much better than I +had expected and thus I could enter the Chinese university. My +diligence had paid and I was very happy.",1 +"I am one of four directors of a company. We inherited land held +by our family - ours is the 5th generation. A ""democratic"" +decision was made to stap-bank an area of mangroves.",3 +The man who threw me out of the flat disgusted me.,0 +"Afraid of getting alone without friends, without anybody.",6 +"When I saw parents punishing their little child for something he +had not done. In my opinion, even if he had done it he should +not have been punished for it.",3 +When two of my children were critically ill with measles.,6 +When I was chased by a big dog near my house.,6 +"From the cigarette smoke. Usually I feel disgust from it when I +am in a restaurant.",0 +"I felt disgusted at my teams poor perfomance prior to league +play.",0 +"In school I was very bad in running long distances and my +class-mates laughed at me for this reason.",2 +I lied to one of my best friends.,2 +"I was with my family and we found some abandoned puppies. I +wanted to help them but everyone said no. We then left.",3 +When the girl with whom I am in love smiles at me.,1 +Before an examination.,6 +"I slept with a man purely because I found him physically +attractive and was under the influence of alcohol.",2 +"I had received bad news informing me that grandmother and +grandfather had passed away. The first one to die was my +grandmother and after two days grandfather died too.",4 +"I was on my way home by bus. A man who had drunk a fair amount of +alcohol started talking, trying to hug and pat a woman sitting +next to him. Fortunately it was not me.",0 +I kicked the chair in the classroom to express my anger.,3 +"When I heard about the death of Frantois Truffaut, the French motion +picture director, on the radio. I had planned to go and see his +last film.",4 +"When my friends and I were camping in a weekend, and with little +food, we met a middle age couple from a small town that invited +us to eat in their house. Their house was small, badly built with +old and dirty forniture and utensils. The problem was with pans, +and dishes, and even the food.",0 +"I was terribly upset when my kitten got hit by a car. He didn't +die, but for several weeks we thought he might have to be put +down.",4 +"Finding out that some students are getting good reports they do +not deserve.",3 +"When I gave birth to my son and saw that he was alive and that I +had managed it well. He was born a month too early with a +malfunctioning lung. This happened a year ago.",1 +"When a certain girl I believed to be my life partner refused an +engagement.",2 +"I was watching television. It was about midnight when a very dear +friend called saying that his father had died in an accident.",4 +"When I was doing my homework at home, some relatives came and +advised me to help my mother do the house-work.",2 +When the Americans set their nucleaar missiles in Europe.,0 +"At my grandfather's funeral. I remembered that the thing he +liked and respected most was earth, I thought that he had +attained what he wanted and was not separated from it any longer.",4 +"A person with whom I had been on bad terms, gave me a present. We +became reconciled.",1 +"When I failed an exam for which I knew that I had not studied +hard enough.",5 +"When my friend promised that she would come to my place, and did +not turn up - I was annoyed at her.",3 +"One saturday night I did some meaningless work and went to bed +very late. Next morning I had was very sleepy so I continued +sleeping even though I had work to do and I missed the Sunday +service.",5 +I was going to knock down a pedestrian with my car.,6 +"Two years back someone invited me to be the tutor of her +grand-daughter. The grand-daughter asked me some questions in +mathematics so I taught her. However she did not listen to me +and this made me feel unhappy. The second year it was the same. +When I entered university the girl's parents suggested that I be +employed as their daghters tutor. They told me that at university +there was no homework and I would have a lot of time so they +made a time-table for me which required me to be the tutor five +days a week. They did not respect me and anyway I had another +child to teach.",2 +"During my high school time I succeeded to play a concert of +Mozart on the piano when I gave my first performance I succeeded +to play it very well.",1 +When I failed the S.S.C examination I felt very ashamed.,2 +Not doing well in an examn which was easy.,2 +"I was within a hair's breadth of knocking down a drunkard who +suddenly ran into the street. The fear came later when I +realized what could have happened.",6 +"When an English teacher unfairly made me repeat a semester which +I thought I had passed. I had to ask my parents for some more +money to carry on studying.",3 +"I felt angry when I saw on T.V the last slaughter of negroes in +South Africa.",3 +"One day I was supposed to go to a movie with my boyfriend. In the +morning I went to see my Auntie and I didn't come back up to +evening.",2 +"When I provoked a fight with my mother, hurting her feelings very +much.",5 +"When a close friend of mine who was with me in first year could +not make it to the second year.",4 +"At night, I walk home past a forest. Once, somebody got stabbed +in the forest. I imagine someone attacking me and I hurry up.",6 +"When my exboyfriend threw me around the dorms because I was +talking on the phone to another guy of whom he was jealous, +after we had an argument in which I thought we broke up.",6 +"When I made the same mistake that I had accused someone else of, and +this was obvious to a third pereson.",2 +"I have been thinking of changing my major for a few months. My +original major was Chinese language and it blocks my way. I have +to face many problems at the sametime and I do not know what is +real and virtuous. I do not know if I am not interested in +Chinese or if there are other factors which make me sad. I am +not very clear on what I can do for the study of Communication +and Journalism. I am not clear about what I can do. What are +the limitations ? I hesitate but I feel more adjusted now.",4 +"We had come back from a programme and we were all (three girls) +staying over at another girls placce. One of them started +passing very nasty and outright bitchy remarks at me. It was +brought on by a male colleague's compliments to me, this girl was +herself interested in this guy. Bitchiness and catty remarks +made by women never fail to disgust me. I can particularly +remember this incident as she knew that I had not encouraged the +guy.",0 +"I was very glad when I learned I was a student already. I heard +about it over the phone, I didn't believe it at first.",1 +I felt fear when I was young and left in my big house all alone.,6 +Winning a game after a long time of losing.,1 +"When I went to explain to a lecturer whom I liked that the work +expected of me was not going to be in.",2 +"When I deliberately engineered a situation to cause tension +between friends so as to bolster the impression one of them had +of me !",5 +I drink wine too often.,2 +A bad smelling cucumber.,0 +Easter holiday - I had been working weekends and had just left.,1 +"We were just about to go into the Exam room and I didn't see all +my writing materials plus the identification card from the place +where I left them.",3 +"When I arranged our holiday in Paris, and my girlfriend raised +criticisms all the time.",3 +"When we forced a friend to chew a poisonous herb in primary +school. His tongue was swollen and he told his mother about it. +The mother reported it to the headmaster who threatened to expel +us.",6 +When I come home late at night.,6 +"I felt ashamed when I fought with my mother on some issue, and +caused her trouble.",2 +"Last year I put off an exam for the autumn session without +knowing if there was a supplementary examination session. When I +came home with my exam unpassed I felt guilty before my parents +when I remembered how much they had done for me.",5 +My son was born.,1 +"When my girl told me that she loved me more than any male +creature on earth and that I would be the only one in her heart +for all her life. ",1 +"On my 18th birthday I passed the driving-test. I was glad because +I had had to study very much, because I had been lucky and +because - as a proof that it was really difficult - not everybody +had passed the test.",1 +"When I was touring Asia with my present football team, I saw old +Europeans with young asiatic prostitutes.",0 +"Seeing my sister after about 2 years of not seeing her. Only +spent 1 hour or so before she was off overseas with her husband +for 3 months.",1 +"My husband suddenly fell ill seriously and during the medical +examinations we did not know what would follow.",6 +"When I boarded Yanu Yanu bus I sat near a man who was smoking +tobacco.",0 +"I felt anger against a colleague of mine during a rehearsal in +acting. He hadn't learnt the text of an opera act in the course of +several months and thus making difficulties for the rest of my +colleagues.",3 +"Somebody wanted to beat my brother at a wedding ceremony and I +was trying to protect my brother but the other man was calling +names to both of us.",3 +"Our class had organized a picnic in November. I was the class +representative so I became the organizor. However the picnic +was postponed by one week and I had something else to do then. +Initially I did not ponder on what to do and decided to go for +the picnic. When I had the time to think about it I thought that +my decision was wrong. My classmates thought that I would go as +I had signed my name but I did not go. I told another class +representative that I was not going but he did not know the +reason behind my not going. After the picnic my classmates asked +me why I had not gone to the picnic and everytime someone +mentioned it I was apologetic. I should have decided right in +the begining that I would not go and then they would not see me +as irresponsible i.e promising to go and changing my mind +afterwards.",5 +My friend not allowed to go to the English lectures.,4 +Dog dirt which thaws in the spring.,0 +"I wanted to go out to walk but I didn't know either where or +with whom, suddenly an invitation appeared.",1 +"I was going away, leaving a dear person behind.",4 +"I was walking with another person when a ""gang"" separted us and +pushed me in to a house, hit me in the stomach and the face, then +they left - leaving me bleeding.",6 +"Once I was stopped by the police in Spain, when I had some +""grass"" in my tobacco.",6 +"When a person the same age as me insisted that I call him +""Mister"". I refused to succumb, but he persisted and I got angry +as he had belittled me.",3 +"A friend told me that he had suffered in love and in academics. +I shared his sadness.",4 +"I was on a class excursion, by boat to Stockholm. At night my +class mates prepared to clebrate their motive in life which was +""life is merriment"". I felt depressed about the way they sought +happiness.",4 +"The fact that I was pregnant. I was always considered level +headed and did not have sex until 18 and out of high school.",2 +"A friend had promised to call me at a certain time. I expected +his call impatiently but in vain.",3 +Once my father slapped my mother for a small quarrel.,3 +"I felt alone among a large number of people. I was sad to see +that nobody cared about what was happening to me.",4 +"My boyfriend suffered form ill health for some months, this week +the physician told him that he was restored to health.",1 +"When I failed the twelveth standard exams I was ashamed at +having to see my parents later.",2 +When I heard my sister got in a bad car accident.,4 +"This monday I took a Math 1BS test and flunked for the second +time.",4 +"With a Manager who insists on making crude innuendos pertaining +to sex.",0 +My girl-friend left me.,4 +"When I did not defend my close friend when my father degraded +him. I felt guilty for allowing my father to get away with his +actions and for the hurt my friend felt. I cleared the matter up +with my father a few weeks later.",5 +Attitude to a related family.,0 +"Brother continually interupting while I was talking on the +telephone.",3 +"A friend of mine shot himself through the head after having told +me and others that he would do so.",5 +"Talking to a pensioned and bitter ""street order"" policeman.",4 +"We are several friends but our characters are very different and +we inevitably split in the two extremes. It is sad that I myself +don't know what to do, I try not to hurt either of the ""parties"" +because there are conflicts to which one I should belong.",4 +"I experienced this emotion when my friend committed suicide after +we had spent the afternoon playing and discussing life and it's +problems.",4 +I greeted a friend and he did not respond.,0 +The sudden death of one of my parents.,4 +When my boyfriend came back after being away for 10 days.,1 +"In 1977, my grandfather, to whom I had a very close relationship, +died.",4 +"My peers didn't want me to meet someone during rush for fear that +I would give her a bad outlook on our Sororoty house. I shouldn't +have seen this, but they blew and I did.",3 +"Last year, when I took the college entrance examinations I +failed the FUVEST. It was for me the most frustrating situation +because I had studied all year long, and only thought about this.",4 +When I committed the sin of immorality mentioned before.,5 +"About a month ago the Regional Council refused to pay my wife the +due maternity benefit, because of bureaucratic reasons.",3 +Someone called me a disgusting nickname.,0 +"I spent a lovely relaxing evening with my boyfriend. We played +games and talked all evening.",1 +"My father who is very quiet discovered I was going out with a +coloured boy. He called me names and was really upset.",2 +"When at times unconscienciously I speak to my mother in a high +tome but after that I am sorry and I feel guilty.",5 +"My father had an operation which lasted for hours. We were all +very worried but it was successful.",1 +"My brother accused me undeservedly before my parents. I was not +guilty. He was misled by his wife.",3 +Getting a low grade on my physics midterm.,0 +"During a family discussion on my future and my prospects as a +student, they accused me of not bothering about looking for a job to +assume my financial situation.",3 +Did not return the library book on time.,5 +"I had a picnic with old classmates, we chatted and played games.",1 +"When I was in the puberty I smashed the favourite toy of my +little brother because of a fit of rage.",5 +"The day I was happiest was the day when I received a phone call +from Eve's Weekly to inform me that I had won the first prize of +the All India Essay competition. I had won this prize when I was +an under-graduate when even post graduates had participated. I +had been judged by eminent judges and political scientists.",1 +"Physical violence. A friend wouldn't listen to me I repeatedly +tried to warn him, to no avail. Result: eight people were ""pissed +off"".",3 +When in an economic crisis I got an unexpected sum of money.,1 +When India lost the Benson and Hedges cricket trophy.,4 +When I did not inform my friends of my forthcoming birthday.,2 +"Two guys were fighting murderously and I feared that one of them +would be killed.",6 +Almost had a bicycle accident.,6 +When I nearly collided with another car.,6 +"I won a car in a prize-competition. The moment I was informed +about it, I felt joy.",1 +"When I was accepted as a student of Psychology here at +Gutttenburg.",1 +"I didn't do an important job and it had an adverse effect on +other people.",2 +"I lied, to be precise I cancelled a meeting with a good friend.",2 +"When, after a long time, I saw a girl with whom I was in love.",1 +When I heard that I had been selected for the university.,1 +I feel ashamed when I act dishonestly toward somebody.,2 +"When I got the midterm exam results, the results were below +average and were near the lowest. I was scared of the final +exam.",6 +Family member survived an operation.,1 +"When I received the first year results as the first year had +involved a lot of work and I was very pleased when I got the +results.",1 +"I was afraid when my mother left me alone to live in our house +for one month.",6 +"I wrote a letter to my boyfriend but he couldn't answer it in +time so as a defence mechanism I just found that I felt so sad +about it and couldn't talk to anyone.",4 +"When I received the best actor award at the inter-college drama +competition. It gave me tremendous joy and satisfaction which +lasted for several days.",1 +"The day I got to know that I would get a shared dwelling with my +boyfriend. My parents place was getting a little crowded with +my growing bother wanting a room to himself. I first felt doubt, +then joy, but also sadness. The feeling of joy was the +strongest.",1 +"My father died after two very painful weeks in bed. I felt +relieved, and was ashamed of that.",2 +"When my oldest sister discovered that her boyfriend had another +girl.",0 +"At school, a couple of years ago, a so-called acquaintance told lies +about me to a teacher I was told about it by friends who overheard +the conversation.",3 +Cheating to get the best grade on a test in 7th grade.,2 +"I rejected a person whom I had always thought to be a friend. I +told him so and he reacted angrily. I felt guilty at not having +realized it before and at having hurt him.",5 +"When I hooked a girl in Kitwe. She was very beautiful for my +standards, a rare bird of this kind accepted me as a boyfriend.",1 +"I had made an error in planning a programme and had publicly +accepted the mistake, despite repeated requests not to bring the +matter for discussion a professor kept constantly passing remarks. +I reacted angrily. + ",3 +"I saw a program on T.V where they had to saw a skull for an +operation.",0 +"I went to a doctor with a complaint. The doctor told me that I +was completely healthy.",1 +When I passed the 12th standard board exams.,1 +Having passed an exam.,1 +"When a close friend failed to live up to the expectations I had +of him - thereby causing pain to his spouse. I believe that my +anger was probably a reaction of fear that I wouldn't be able to +live up to my own expectations.",3 +"I forgot to water the flowers in our flat and was rebuked by my +friends who share the flat with me.",5 +I did not deliver a message on time.,5 +"After a meeting ended we started talking about when we would +have the next discussion ( I had many tests the coming week and +could not have a meeting in between, I thought that they would +understand this as they had always done). They did not +understand my problem and thought that I should not have so many +other activities. Their reaction made me burst into tears.",4 +"I was scared when I realized that I might miss the train which I +was supposed to take. I was 1500 Kilometres away from home and when +I heard the depart whistle I was still 150 feet away from the +train. I finally made it.",6 +"I did a solo flight from Ardmore to Kaikohe before I got my pilot +licence. I can remember it was gorgeous day and I was on a +natural high, cruising up the coast with my maps and compasses +and gear. Other pilots had seen me off and wished me good luck +and it was a real adventure.",1 +"Girlfriend arriving back from overseas and picking her up from +airport. When she finally appeared from customs and we came in +contact again.",1 +Walking alone in the dark in a strange street.,6 +"I preached to a F.3 students in a gospel camp. They thus knew +more about God and made up their minds to believe in Jesus.",1 +"I felt ashamed when I was confronted by a teaching assistant that +a close friend and I were accused of cheating on a math exam.",2 +"When I left my sister's house after staying there for a few days. +She has two little boys, and they are very warm people (the +family). At the time, I was in need of this sort of contact, and +I grew very fond of children (no, I'm not a paedophiliac).",4 +"A close friend travelled to another country. When I knew that he +would only come back after many years, I felt very sad.",4 +"I was awakened by a dream in the middle of the night. I dreamt +that a stranger was in my house.",6 +"When I get an exam back with a grade that I did not desire. Then +I get mad at myself and say that I could have done better.",2 +"When my nephew was taken to hospital with meningitis and we did +not know what would happen.",4 +"When I received the results from my final examination - Higher +School Certificate - and received a mark that was beyond my +wildest expectations.",1 +On meeting an old friend of mine.,1 +"I went to my boyfrien's house. There I found clothes of a certain +girl. Without asking whose clothes they were I started tearing +them only to realise that they were his sister's and so I felt +guilty.",5 +"I was supposed to go out with my girlfriend one Saturday night, +but I got really drunk with some friends earlier that afternoon +and evening. So, I totally forgot about going out with my +girlfriend. She showed up the next day, and that was when I +remembered.",2 +"We lived with 3 persons in the loft of a house. It often occurred +that other persons again and again climbed the stairs with much +noise. When I was studying I couldn't concentrate and got angry.",3 +"When I heard the last regulation of the socialist govrenment +concerning pensions.",4 +"A friend and a girlfriend went to Rome for 10 days with their +class. When they were back home I heard people tell ""strange"" +stories about my friend and that girlfriend.",0 +"One of my flatmates and I came back to the flat Monday morning, +to find a real Mess, left by the guy we share with.",0 +Finding my glasses again after having lost them in town.,1 +"One day I lent my tennis I just had washed to my sister because +she asked it. I asked her not to soil it as I had just washed it. +Next day I looked at the tennis, and it was dirty with wax. She +could not have soiled it. It was lack of consideration. I felt +very angry.",3 +"Last year my freshman yr. It was a day in March I did well on +some tests. I seemed to finally adjust to college, it was hot and +sunny. I was walking in front of a frat. when I heard Beach Boys +""Surfin'USA"". I had this overwhelming feeling that to be at CAL +was good. I still have it somewhat.",1 +"When I applied for the college entrance examination to FUVEST, +and I wasn't approved in the second fase.",4 +Not collecting letters for my friend al I promised.,5 +"My room-mate locked up our room without specifying where I would +find the keys. I had to spend several hours in my other friend's +room.",3 +"A certain person started to say dreadful things very calmly, I +felt hurt and disgusted.",3 +"I broke my knee when I was skiing over ""Yastrebetz"" (a racing +track in a Bulgarian winter resort).",6 +"Incomprehension and repression towards a child's behaviour, +commonly not accepted, and making the child cry.",5 +"Somebody was blaming me of a story which was not real and not +true.",3 +"Sort of awkward. I'd introduced (a lover) but introduced as a +friend to some members of my family, and my niece Yavanna who's +six was home from school and at Mum's and Dad's and was really +silly and at first it was ok, but it went on and on - yukky pooh! +You eat your snot, etc. and I felt cross she wouldn't stop. But +she had an audience and was in one of those moods. Once I'd +accepted it was something everyone does at time I felt better - +it was partly having my friend there.",0 +"When my favourite football team made a goal and was about to +win the Cup of England.",1 +"When I talk to silly, petty-minded and unmanageable people.",3 +When I failed the entrance exam to IMEC.,4 +"A friend of mine who was driving a car ahead of me died in a +car accident.",4 +"My father was away from home and he did not come back when he was +expected, he came back several hours later than expected.",6 +"Jealous of my husband's old girlfriend. We met her with her +husband and there was a lot of reminiscing.",3 +"When my elder brother, who had gone abroad to study for six +years, came back home safe and in good health.",1 +"When my boyfriend told me that it would be difficult for him to +marry me.",3 +Ran into a parking car on a bicycle.,6 +"Finding out from this lecture that China is backward in +psychology.",2 +"I was on vacation, and therefore I did not attend a meeting of +the day care centre. Nevertheless, the very day I came back they +called me early morining to ask me ""what are you going to do +about the matter ?"" (which had been discussed in the meeting). +Then I got angry.",3 +At a prolonged separation with my family.,4 +"A friend of mine came to visit and stayed with my roommate and me. +My roommate and she became good friends. After she left, he +didn't talk too highly of her.",3 +When my parents got divorced.,4 +When opened a box of biscuits and found worms inside.,0 +"One of my relatives became seriously ill. I felt sad because I +didn't know if she will ever be the same again.",4 +"During my first week in Graz I met a girl who I had got to know +in the train from Amsterdam to Graz. Although I had considered +her very sympathetic, we had seperated without changing our +adresses.",1 +Not handing in homeworks in time.,5 +"In college, I started a discussion with the teacher referring to +a question I posed. I felt very unsure and I was afraid to fail.",6 +"When a good friend of me told me one evening that she didn't want +to live anymore.",6 +"On a trip abroad, a lady-like member of our group turned out to +be an alcoholic. She spoilt many days of my holidays because of +her behaviour and paranoia.",0 +"Meeting with two of my friends I had not seen for 15 years. They +were special people to me.",1 +"When I see all the putridness of people. The fact is the catarrh +and spits that whash the streets of S.Paulo.",0 +"Not being able to spend more time with a friend who was visiting +me.",5 +"My young brother took my wristwatch in my abscence and sold it to +his friend at a cheaper price.",3 +A certain night during initiation. ,6 +"I felt guilty one day when I was accused of running away from +classes and I was caught.",5 +"I woke up in the middle of the night of a nightmare, I was alone, +it was very quiet and very dark.",6 +Seeing relations from overseas after a few years.,1 +"When I stand at the bus stop for one hour waiting for the bus to +arrive.",0 +"I have a fobic anxiety for elevators. This anxiety is worst at +the moment when the doors have to open. I have it often in the +elevator at our university.",6 +"I came across a group of people with the same basic ideas/beliefs +who were all fighting and going against what they would say was +good.",0 +Before an examn.,6 +"When my tennis match was interrupted because a kid cycled right +into the court.",3 +"I remember that when I was in school I saw a case of partiality - +one of the teachers gave private coaching classes to some girls +and she would give these girls extra attention in class and would +ignore the others.",3 +A parking fine.,5 +"About a dozen girls laughed at me and I was sure that there was +nothing wrong with me.",2 +"This feeling was quite deep when my friend (girl) died in a car +accident.",4 +"I was for the first time on a brigade this year. At that time my +sister was to bear a child. I was mad with joy when I opened the +telegram from my parents and learned I had a nephew.",1 +"My parents attitude towards each other when they should become +reconciled, despite my father's long-time addiction.",0 +"My partner without discussing with me the situation decided it +was time for us to have a break and went ahead and arranged his +own life for the next 6-12 months, then told me the day before it +was about to happen having been tolerant and friendly for the +preceding week.",3 +"Scuffle in a carriage of the underground in Vienna, three drunk +men thrashed a man in a wheel chair - I watched the scene from +another carriage.",0 +"When my friend and I were discussing the good looks of a guy we +realized that he had been listening.",2 +"No ideal result in the University entrance examn, guilty to +family and friend.",5 +"When first came to CAL I went to a rally on Sproul and I later +learned that the rally was conducted by the Moonie cult. They +were taking pictures at the rally, so I was afraid that they +would circulate the pictures and then kidnap people. I did not +know how the cult worked. I was scared.",6 +After each successfully passed exam I am happy.,1 +"I had high-heeled shoes one time, but a certain girl who saw the +shoes told me that they were out of fashion and I looked as an +old man when I was in those shoes.",2 +"Angry when our team (small boys) lost the county championship +football final.",3 +"I was very angry one day when my husband ignored me and slept +on a separate bed. He had no reasons to doubt me or to neglect +me and I had never imagined that he could do such a thing.",3 +"I went to buy a bicycle with my father. When I wanted to pay, my +father took his purse and payed.",1 +"When my dog died. I had reared it for nearly three years. It +had been ill for several days and had not eaten anything. One +morning I found it dead.",4 +"When my neighbour's life was threatened by someone who was trying +to break into his house.",6 +When I was finally qualified for my profession.,1 +When I spanked a child in anger and later regretted it terribly.,5 +"On a road trip with a group of sorority and fraternity people, I +became intoxicated and basically raped. I don't remember the +actual event, but I know the feeling that I experienced later.",2 +"Some weeks ago I experienced a day that everything went wrong I +broke several things I felt very ashamed for I am not a sloven.",2 +"A few days ago, I hitch-hiked to Arnhems with a friend. +Everything went well: they picked us up very quickly, the sun was +shining, I was feeling free and, for the first time after long +time, happy. I really had the feeling that I was living at full +speed.",1 +Doing well in an examn.,1 +"Due to a misunderstanding on my part, two of my best friends +quarelled.",5 +"I am disgusted with the behavior of a car driver whose car would +run over me and my friends during our autumn brigade.",0 +"I saw a terrible accident in which the driver of a motor was +thrown through the frontwindow of a car. His face was completely +away.",0 +"When a crawling child got burnt because of my negligence to keep +the child away from the fire.",5 +"When, to my surprise, I got to know about having got ""very good"" +high school graduation marks.",1 +When I was told that I had passed the exams.,1 +"I had a date with a friend to see a movie and my friend was late. + I waited for a long hour and was very angry.",3 +"The same event described under FEAR - in the bus a man sat beside +me, with his trousers open and holding his penis.",0 +"It was about midnight and I wanted to go to the countryside (I +was in town) to watch the stars in the sky. My mother did not +like this, in spite of it I went out for a while. My mother got +angry.",5 +When boyfriend could not stand up to his mother or for himself.,4 +"My husband and I were invited at the house of our nieghbours then +we got an invitation on the part of my parents which we had to +refuse. A a result they called me by words that provoked my +anger.",3 +"When I was a child, I had a nightmare. At that time, I was not +yet able to tell anybody about it, so I was very frightened. I +could not explain myself all that and I had to deal with it by +myself.",6 +"I felt anger when I saw that I was being misleaded by my +boyfriend, he went out with other girls. I felt anger for his +falsity.",3 +When I got my results ( I had made it to the second year ).,1 +"When I was forced to decline the invitation to my mother's 70th +birthday because of my work committments in another area.",5 +"(1) My father died. (2) My natural father contacted me a year +after my father died and this angered me more as I thought he +should be dead and not my father.",3 +When I saw a horrible movie - Alien.,6 +"One evening I was watching the news on TV. Again they were +talking about the danger of war. Suddenly I imagined what it +might mean for me, for my friends, for the people close to me. I +felt it a very near and possible event.",6 +Before an important examn.,6 +"One summer when I was camping with friends they devised and +elaborate plan to scare me by having our camp attecked by a wild +animal (one of them) and then convincing the campground was +the home of a satanic organization.",6 +"I was walking along a subway when I saw a group of louts. I was +rather afraid because I was alone.",6 +"Flirting with other girls while I already had a very good +relationship. When there are problems in my relationship, the +flirting increases as does the feeling of guilt.",5 +When I failed an exam unfairly.,3 +Getting into this university to do medicine.,1 +I felt joy when my boyfriend proposed to me in marriage.,1 +When I got accepted to CAL.,1 +"A drunken friend of mine was beating up another friend, who was +also drunk.",3 +"I was wearing slippery shoes and I tumbled down in a place where +there were many people walking by.",2 +"I always feel guilty when I see my mother sad or fed up with +life. I really dont know the reason.",5 +A friend's mother died.,4 +"I hit my little sisiter on the head with a stone while we were +fighting.",5 +Renewed contact with an earlier friend.,1 +"When I found out that the guy I was dating at a particular time +had a steady relationship going on with someone else for a long +time.",3 +Participating in a theft several years ago.,2 +"I feel this feeling at one and the same degree when I am not +prepared to overcome certain obstacle in my life.",2 +"I feel shame when I have made a promise, I can't keep it and this +has negative effects which are caused by my behavior.",2 +"My cousins were playing at home and one of them broke a decorative +object which was very precious to me.",3 +"When I went to see the result of an exam and saw that I had +failed.",4 +"When a cousin of mine was discharged from the hospital after +a long illness. I had thought that this illness would never end.",1 +When I learnt that my cousin sister was pregnant.,0 +Squeezed the puppy in the door.,5 +"I live by myself and a few weeks ago was woke by a man on the end +of my bed coming up my bed at me. I was really angry, told him to +get out. He was surprised, hesitated; I started to move towards +him and he backed off - kept telling him - loudly, but firmly to +go. Because I'd got the initiative, I succeeded. A very powerful +message.",3 +"While reading Olli Jalonen's new book, the distant, cold and +selfish relationships between people (in the book) made me feel +disgusted.",0 +"I was in about Grade 7, I came home from school one day and was told +that my mother had skin cancer and would have to go to the hospital +straight away.",6 +"I spent an evening with my girl-friend. When we wanted to go to +bed I was totally drunk. Next morning I felt rather ashamed.",2 +"When I was in Eindhoven on an Exhibition of Hernan Nitsche, who +made paintings with real blood. There were also photographs about +the killing of cows.",0 +When my wife gave birth to a baby boy - my only son to date.,1 +"My roommate got married and invited me to share a flat with them. +But with a young couple there should not be a third person. I am +to blame for not following the advise of the others, but it is +not late still.",5 +"I have a very big family. At my grandmother's funeral we all met +and everybody pretended mourning. In reality it was like a +fashion-show: everybody wanted to show himself.",3 +When I was punished in school for no serious mistake of mine.,3 +"When I was faced with writing an essay and I didn't want to do it +I was angry that I had to write an essay and angry at myself for +not having the time to write a good essay.",3 +"When I made a mistake at work and when questioned about it +pretended I had nothing to do with the problem.",5 +"When my neighbours accused my brother of stealing their +rose-bush, I was very angry as he had not touched it at all.",3 +"After sitting for the Standard 8 Exams for the second time in +1979, I had great joy when I heard that I was successful in the +Examination when the results were out.",1 +Passing a very difficult examination which I didn't expect - MCE.,1 +Friend's fiancT left her for me.,5 +"My elder sister scolded me in front of my younger sisters and +cousins. She said that I was very lazy and I felt so sad that I +cried myself to sleep.",4 +"When the whole family gets together for a one week holiday. +Everybody feels free and the trip is well planned. It works out +well and we enjoy ourselves.",1 +"I broke the gutar of a colleague but as it happened in a moment +when nobody was present I could escape from the guilt.",5 +"I have experienced disgust with some people - usually double +dealers.",0 +"When I got fired from a job because I gave a discount to a +friend.",5 +A father of 4 children killed in an accident.,4 +"At a success of mine, at a real achievement.",1 +"I was playing in a football tournament and saw the rules openly +disregarded.",3 +"When my friend told me that he would come and meet me in a +moment.",1 +"I can't give one description here. I often feel joyful when I +have done things good in relation to other people especially when +my friend says he loves me and I also tell him that I love him.",1 +When I was admitted to the University.,1 +"Some friends and I were having lunch. Someone said something +funny and one of the guys started laughing and spat his food in a girl's +face.",0 +"As a child - accidentally stepping on a pet guinea-pig - it +dying.",5 +"[ When I have achieved what I wanted to achieve, I feel the above +stated emotion. Also when I am sucessful.]",1 +"We were driving at night and I realized that a car was following +us.",6 +"I was in a restaurant with my boyfriend when I saw my best female +friend after not seeing her for two weeks. We rejoyced, hugged +and had a long talk.",1 +"I allowed my then boyfriend to touch me, if only briefly.",2 +"When I understood that my marriage was falling apart, and we +decided to be legally separated.",4 +Receiving a letter from a boy I care.,1 +"When I think of death - not my own but that of my parents, +brothers and sisters.",6 +"I went to the dining hall and found that the cooks were cleaning +the plates and there was no food for me, and the blue birds +(security guards) were busy eating the food that was supposed to +be for me.",3 +I do not recall being scared in the near past.,6 +When quarreling with friends.,5 +Canoeing across harbour in winds - 20 knots and rising seas.,6 +"I had left a student newspaper of the Chinese university on the +table of the library. It had disappeared when I came back.",3 +"When I was watching some scenes from the Bertoluchi's film +""Twentieth Century"".",0 +"I was ashamed when I was being introduced to the church +congregation.",2 +I was called and invited to have a talk about a job I wanted to have.,1 +Looking for the toilet in a dark place.,6 +"When my grandmother was about 80 years old, she lived with us for +several years. I saw her illness. I did not even want to breath +the air that smelled of her presence.",0 +"Having passed the exam required to be an authorized Radio/TV +dealer.",1 +"When our school was raided by the pupils of the boys secondary +school who beat us up.",6 +"When someone made me a compliment after an examination just at +the moment I needed it. It was amicable, hearty and sincere.",1 +"When I finished my exams after 12th Grade, I was worried about +getting a T.E. Score high enough for Physiotherapy. When I found +that I had been accepted I was ecstatic, or more appropriately, +could jump for joy.",1 +"I had a very heavy work load and two colleagues, whom I have +nothing against, disturbed me by ""terror ringing"", i.e +continously interrupting me by telephoning.",3 +"In the morning, the cat of my landlady had vomited on the floor, +near the staircase I take to go to the bathroom.",0 +When a close classmate failed a year.,5 +Finding out I am not good looking.,4 +"The house was on fire, and I was saved by the dog. I am afraid of +the fire, verging on panic.",6 +"When I missed the chance of becoming a graduate in mining +engineering, after having prayed one week in the church I was +not even selected.",4 +"When my parents fight lots of time, when I'm the reason of the +fight, I feel guilty.",5 +"I met my girlfriend on the way and she joyfully welcomed me on +the way home.",1 +"I hated you for not letting me go and found out that it was not +your decision.",5 +When I was told that the form five results were out.,6 +"I felt it when I received a letter telling that I had been +classified in a national concourse of p... I felt happy and +vanity about it.",1 +"When I feel I must be with somebody, to talk with somebody - but +I am alone.",4 +"So as to be closer to the university I have left home and moved +into Auckland. It now seems as if I have left home - especially +my family - forever.",4 +Deceived by other people and ran into trouble.,4 +"I was in hospital, and then was visited by someone quite +unexpected.",1 +"Somebody took my wristwatch and promised to have it mended and +later was telling me that he couldn't give it back to me because I was +rude at a certain time.",3 +"My girlfriend wanted to breakup for an indefinite amt. of time. +She said that she couldn't commit herself fully to the +relationship without going out with other people. I was her first +boyfriend.",4 +"I had a very good friend (boy) and I thought I could rely on him +but he behaved badly with a girl who used to trust us completely.",0 +"When I told my uncle a false story - that people had stolen the +books from my room and I demanded money from him. When he found +out the truth I was in trouble.",5 +"New year's eve 1983/1984, I met my girlfriend. We stood on the +steps outside her parents home and I kissed her for the +first time.",1 +"It was only once that I really felt sad: at my grandfather's +funeral (after a long time of suffering he had died of cancer).",4 +"A scene in a film in which one man repressed another one. By +concidence, their position was reversed. The other man was +repressed in an identical way as he did before.",0 +Saw someone spitting in public.,0 +"When one of my parents verbally, personally abused the other.",0 +"When I was talking to a person who is a hypocrite, I felt +disgusted at his reaction.",0 +Being unable to stop urinating on the bus.,2 +"Observing someone in the cafeteria noisily gulping in his food, +having extremely bad manners.",0 +I was sad to hear that my brother had a motorbike accident.,4 +Had an argument with my classmate for borrowed books.,5 +"I took my math midterm and got it back the following Wednesday in +class. It was a totally low grade.",2 +"I felt very sad when I lost my three Kwacha at civo Stadium when +Sam Mangwana was playing some Rumba records. That was not what I +expected, I wanted some Disco records.",4 +I could have been killed by a falling object.,6 +I found some worms in the food and I had obviously eaten some.,0 +"When the lady who is now my wife accepted my proposal to be my +lover and future wife.",1 +"When I was a child I broke plates because I wasn't given food on +the grounds of coming home late.",0 +"In 1977 when my friend was caught by a crocodile. We were +swimming in a river on whose banks our primary school was +situated. When my friend was caught, he was on the banks of the +river and some of us were still in the middle of the river. I +was very frightened.",6 +"When I stepped on a snake at home, it was dark but there was +moonlight.",6 +"One night a very dear person said: ""I hate you"". Of course it was +an impulse and this person didn't feel that about me. The person +expressed regret, and everything was settled, but I can't forget.",4 +I lost my way on a trip in the mountains.,6 +"I was walking in the countryside alone when I came across two +dogs who began barking at me. I did not know whether they were +tied up or loose, but I was afraid of them approaching me.",6 +At the death of a close relative.,4 +"I once watched the series called ""Dynasty"" on TV, and I detested +it.",0 +"I have an adopted Aboriginal sister I felt disgust due to the +racism she has been subjected to.",0 +"I went to go get a bike innertube fixed. I fixed it and I was +supposed to pay previously but I didn't. I said I would after I +fixed the tire. After fixing the tire, the salesperson who helped +me was gone so I walked out of the store without paying. I felt +guilty so I went inside and paid for the tire.",5 +"One of my friends went and told another friend of mine that I was +going abut with another guy in Lilongwe besides the one I had. +She said I was seen with him hand in hand.",3 +When I accepted Jesus Christ as my personal saviour. ,1 +I lost a close friend.,4 +"My parents did not approve my choice of a boyfriend (now an +ex-boyfriend). He happened to be 13 years older than me and he +was considered completely unsuitable for me. IDIOT.",3 +"I was enjoying the company of bird life while I was eating lunch +in a park when a group of people began throwing sticks at some of +the birds - for no reason other than the satisfaction of seeing +them being scared away.",3 +I took french leave to do my homework.,5 +"I put on a lot of weight in a few months and every time I met +someone I knew would avoid them, usually by hiding because my +self image was low and I was ashamed of what I had done to +myself.",2 +I had to pay a fine because of speeding.,2 +"In August,1983, the long awaited ""big envelope"" (a document for +C.U.H.K admission) arrived. It was in the afternoon and I had +not been doing anything. When the postman, with his big bag, +knocked on the door I knew what it was about. I hurriedly +opened the envelope and my mood at that time is hard to describe. + It lasted several hours and only calmed down later.",1 +"Recently in the tram, a man ran his fingers over my girlfriend +then over me.",0 +"When I was a child, I heard the floor cracking and I thought +there was a burglar in our house; I hid under the blanket and +trembled.",6 +"I had just seen my pseudo-girlfriend and our conversation angered +me greatly.",3 +The death of an animal we had reared.,4 +When I hurt my sisters for no reason at all.,5 +"I once felt guilty when a certain passenger in the same (ship, +plane ?) which I boarded when coming from home lost his 10t which +in fact fell into my pocket unknowingly.",5 +"My grandfather died, when I was an exchange student in the USA.",4 +"In the underground's escalator, a youngish bum asked me for +money. Although I did not give him anything, the fellow told me +that I was really good-looking. A man who was in front of me +also turned to look at me.",1 +"I was making very strong statements about infidelity in couples. +Then I discovered that one of my best friends, who had just been through +a very sad case of mutual infidelity, was listening.",2 +When two drug addicts tried to take away my money.,6 +"[ I do not remember when I last felf ashamed. I do not usually +feel ashamed of what I do.]",2 +"Having had a very heated argument with my sister - I began +hitting her about the head with a newspaper I was holding.",2 +I remember being sad whe my aunt's child died (2 days old).,4 +"When my mother told things to my sister, which I told my mother +in confindence.",3 +"My girlfriend lost her temper without any reason and she did not +consider or respect my feelings.",0 +Finding out about people can go mad for social reasons.,6 +"I typed up a letter for this physician at work. She didn't care +for my style, even though she was not using correct English. I +told her it was her letter and we would do it her way.",3 +"Watching an alcoholic woman who was approaching everyone at the +wharf for cigarettes - a prostitute in Auckland (elderly).",0 +"When someone I trusted very much, disappointed me.",3 +"When I deny something to my sister and after a while I feel sorry +and try to bypass the situation.",5 +"In a lift a drunken, fat and untidy man tried to make advances at +me.",0 +When I saw a large spider crawling up the wall.,6 +When I had to come back from my village last Christmas.,4 +At a friend's party there were several allusions to my sexual adventures.,2 +"A friend started to insult another person without reason and I +felt ashamed of her behavior.",2 +"My father promised to send me pocket money at the month-end since +I wanted to buy a new pair of shoes when I was at secondary +school, but he didn't.",0 +"When I heard about the death of somebody I liked very much and I +was not present either to see the person or to try to share my +emotions with other friends.",4 +When my father had a cerebral hemorrhage.,4 +Disappointed by a friend.,4 +"I received the mid-term exam paper of one of my major subjects +and I found that I had failed it.",4 +"Once, late at night, I was biking home and overtook a man. He +said to me ""Hello darling"" I was terrified and imagined the +wildest scenes.",6 +"[ During a certain period, I felt successful and extremely satisfied. +When I found that any tasks or decisions that I had made were better +than expected.]",1 +Walking in the dark I saw something strange.,6 +"I helped my little sister (13 years) learning mathematics. +Obviously she did not want to understand what I explained and +started to cry. I grew angry.",3 +"I got 100 FIM too much when I changed money at the bank. They +soon called me at my job and the situation was embarrasing for +me.",5 +"When my friend got very low marks in field work even though he +had worked throughout the year, I had this feeling.",0 +"When there was a possibility of getting on better in professional +life. I valorized very much this aspect. People showed me this +possibility, not the real fact (even because until now ...)",1 +When I almost walked on a snake.,6 +I met my best friend's husband with a prostitute.,0 +"A friend came to tell me that her father invited me to go on +holiday with them in Benidorm otherwise I could not afford to go +on holiday.",1 +"In certain occasion I have a fight with my boyfriend. During the +fight I closed the door at his face. He went away but came back +next day.",3 +When I had not understood anything after a lecture.,4 +"Having an affair with my good friend's best friend. And every time +I see my best friend I feel guilt because we can't tell him.",5 +My best friend could not get into university.,4 +"When I realized that I had a hole in my trousers after having gone +for a walk.",2 +"Some time ago we had a tournament in our tennis-club. For +tactical reasons I was chosen to play against a much weaker +player than I am. Although it would have been enough simply to +win the game, I defeated him extremely. This would not have been +necessary.",2 +"My mother always evokes feelings of guilt in me. For instance +when I miss the last bus I know she will be concerned for me and +stay awake till I arrive.",5 +"When I got to know about the reaction of a friend of mine in a +certain situation. I had not expected him to react that way.",3 +"When I received a letter from a woman I thought had not ever +cared for me. This was when I needed her and I was overjoyed to +learn that it was me who was delaying things.",1 +"When my last year's second semester results came through - I was +ecstatic.",1 +"Before the department meeting my friend ate a dish that I had +prepared for this meeting.",3 +Little contact with my father before he died.,5 +"A quarrel was followed by the decision of leaving a person close +to me. Several days later my regret was great. I was beside +myself. Quite unexpectedly he came and the conflict was calmly +solved. I was glad at the possibility to be with him.",1 +Ctiticized by teachers in public.,2 +"A dirty person, smelling bad and unknown laying on me.",0 +Beaten up by a classmate in school.,0 +When they stole my dark blue tennis.,3 +Staying alone in a dark place.,6 +"In an important situation for me, my father behaved inadequately.",2 +"My cassmate laughed at me when I was being scolded by the +teacher.",3 +"When I was very young and we moved as a family to Auckland from +Wellington, this meant new school and friends (etc.).",6 +"[ When I was treated unfairly, regardless of my motives or deeds.]",3 +"When I was teaching a student started making silly remarks in +class.",0 +"That afternoon I received two messages informing me, one that my +brother was in a coma in the U.T.H suffering (kidney disease) and +two, that my uncle met with an accident on his way to the hospital + to see my brother.",4 +"Losing my temper and allowing myself to act childishly by yelling +and screaming at a person who I felt had done me wrong - in +effect lowering myself to their level.",2 +"When I was about six years old, I mistook a cat for a leopard +when it entered my room at night.",6 +When I got to know that my father had passed away.,4 +"When my half brother became seriously ill with cancer and died +later.",4 +"I had promised my friend to take her to an important appontment +but I was late. So she missed the opportunity to get a wellpayed +holiday job.",5 +"One day I had sunned my favourite shirt and was putting it back +in the wardrobe when my younger brother snatched it from me and +wore it. He had not had a bath and was very dirty. I scolded him +but he answered back and locked himself up in a room. I was very +angry so I starteed kicking on the door and abusing him loudly +and freely.",3 +"Once I went home totally drunk and roused all our neighbours from +sleep.",2 +"When I was told by the doctor, after many months of coughing, +that I had tuberculosis.",6 +Travelling by coach on a rather narrow and wet road.,6 +"While walking through an old mining area, I unwittingly disturbed +a wallaby which, in its resultant flight, accidentally fell down +a deep mine shaft. On investigation it seemed uninjured, but it +was impossible for the wallaby to get out, and also for me to get +it out of the shaft. To prevent its suffering a slow death, I +shot it.",4 +"When thieves broke into our house, I was disgusted by their +behaviour. They did not find anything so they broke things like +the windows, glasses etc.",0 +Fighting with my father while drunk.,2 +"Sometimes I experience sadness for the Sports High School and for +my unrealized dreams in the sport. Anyway there I spent six years +of my life.",4 +"For the sheer pleasure of it, I quarelled with my boyfriend who was trying +to be especially kind to me.",5 +"I was worried by a task related to my studies which had to be +done in groups of two. I was talking about it to my friends when +I said something negative, in too abrupt a manner, concerning my +work partner. I did not quite mean what I said and I felt +ashamed at having been mean enough to criticize him as he is also +a friend of mine.",2 +Someone not responding to my criticism.,0 +A friend's brother died.,4 +"A colleague's 17 year old daughter is seriously ill with cancer +and has only a year to live. I heard about it 6 weeks ago.",4 +"Once as a school girl I was copying at a class work and my +teacher spotted me.",2 +"When I was 15 my mother discovered various items in my room which +15 year olds aren't usually expected to have - mainly alcohol, +marijuana and contraceptives !",2 +"When I saw the list of books to read for an acccouting course, I +thought "" Oh God how will I ever manaage it!""",4 +"Being very close to having an auto accident, almost driving off +the road.",6 +"My father had been drinking and I feared him when we went to bed +at night.",6 +Someone frightened me in the dark.,6 +When my son was born.,1 +Before the declaration of the S.S.C results.,6 +"When I was house-hunting: Another person got a flat that I would +have liked, too, because he heaped a floot of words on the +letter.",3 +I feel sad about an event I can not influence.,4 +"I was seven years old and swimming outside the flags at the Gold +Coast. I was caught in a rip and taken out about 100 m. I +couldn't swim too well, but an older friend (17) swam out and +saved me.",6 +"I was taking a shower in a cubicle in France. Then I discovered +that a few children were loking at me from the adjacent cubicle.",2 +"It was when I discovered that the girl who I had proposed was a +friend's girlfriend.",5 +"When I got admission in M.Sc (I) Organic Chemistry, I was very +happy.",1 +"When I went to my boyfriend's house for lunch and saw his +parents, I felt that they were watching me all the time.",2 +"At a social event when none of the guests would help to serve +food or clear tables. It was all beneath them.",0 +"My girlfriend started singing (she cannot sing) and did not stop +despite my asking her to do so.",3 +"I hit my cousin badly after she threw away my dresses in a +pit-latrine that the little girl fainted.",5 +"A serious drug error while nursing that I knew I was responsible +for (patient lived, no complications fortunately).",2 +"The funeral of a friend who was killed in a car accident. She was +of my own age, there were many of my own friends present, as well +as her family etc.",4 +"I was ashamed with my biology lecturer when he asked me a +question and I could not answer it.",2 +"I forgot that the course instructor had directed us to go for +special classes after the usual class hours. I missed this the +first day and when he asked me about it the next day I said that +I had forgotten.",2 +Forgot to do some shopping that I had promised to do.,2 +"I was sitting in school, waiting for my sister to go home. Suddenly a +boy put fire in a paper and threw it were I was sitting. The +paper didn't get me, but I felt terribly disgusted at this +cowardliness and irresponsibility that caused a great +discussion. We went to the director and he, drunk as always, said +that I was ... attention in school. I felt disgust of this +situation, and of the persons implicated in it.",0 +At a night club watching little tarts trying to earn a living.,0 +"When someone whom I trusted, disappointed me terribly.",0 +"I was to be given an audition to get a role. I had a competitress +and I wasn't well prepared because I was ill.",6 +I was sexually assaulted one night by a stranger.,6 +Not being able to help my friend to do homework.,5 +"When I was betrayed by a friend, and decided to stay apart form +her.",4 +"While I was waiting for them to give me the marks of the most +difficult subject this year.",6 +When I was selected to start Form I at Malosa Secondary school.,1 +When I realized that I had three more examinations to take.,5 +Waiting for my marks in a difficult subject.,6 +"Doing something wrong at home, and then letting my (normally) +more rampant brother take the blame.",5 +Hear a very nice joke made by a friend.,1 +"When I have to leave the baby in the carriage and go shopping, I +fear that something will happen to the baby.",6 +"A month ago when one of my fellow workers got a promotion over +me. It was just a small promotion but recognition was involved.",3 +"During a recent meeting, Mr. A showed his excitement and +overindulged in the notes delivered. Though his curiosity could +not be blamed, his way of accquiring knowledge was an extreme +behaviour e.g he always tried to know what I was reading and +gained everything he could.",0 +"Finding out that the university will give first priority to +qualified practioners and clinical years to go to your English +lectures.",4 +"My parents put pressure on me to buy clothes, when I would not +have liked to do so.",3 +"A certain colleague of mine sent me to buy a bag of flour for him, +he gave me K20. Unfortunately I lost it.",5 +"When my dress and a few other things were stolen from my +wardrobe.",3 +"When I was younger I often saw my father come home drunk (he had +big problems at that time). Once he woke me up in the middle of +the night and shouted at me.",0 +When I robbed a loop in supermarket.,5 +"When we received our academic result I learnt that my results +were bad as I had not done my best. The results of my +accquaintances were good and when they asked me about my results +I really did not want to answer.",2 +"When I think now about the way my father behaved when filing a +divorce.",0 +"One night, when I got out from the University I saw two strange +people near my car. When I got near, they moved away, and then +came close again. I had a feeling that they were assaulters. +After I left I discovered that the windshield was broken.",6 +"In the army, I had been in hospital for two weeks and as soon as +I returned to the company, a sergeant ordered me to fetch a load +on the tractor trailer.",0 +"I felt sad when I was told to walk out of the classroom because I +was within the row of students who were making noise.",4 +"When I finished a love affair where I was responsible of the sad +end.",5 +"I borrowed a piece of music of someone and I always forgot to +give it back. That person wrote me a letter asking me to give it +back. I did so and I told him an idle story why I kept it for so +long.",5 +"When a close friend of mine collapsed and passed away and the +illness was not known.",4 +When an earlier friend was spreading negative rumours about me.,4 +When my girlfriend became pregnant.,1 +"Eating biscuits and drinking Milo (Chocolate energy drink made +with milk and usually drunk warm) with my friend at College. We +get on really well, don't withold any feelings about each other's +friends and are pretty good at cheering each other up when we are +homesick.",1 +"I was walking one day and I met a man who wanted to ask me about +my brother but I didn't stop to hear what he was saying. I was +ashamed when I found him at home and he told my brother what had +happened.",2 +"My family told me to leave if I was not willing to accept the +conditions they imposed on me.",3 +One day in the intimity with my girlfriend I had an ejaculation.,2 +"I felt guilt because on account of my ambitions I nearly turned +my sister out of my parents home.",5 +My grandfather's funeral.,4 +"I felt that I contributed to a possible rift in the relationship +between a boy and girl soon to be married, in my flat after I +moved in. After stating my celibacy to him which she overheard +and didn't previously know about I suspect.",5 +"I was at home and we were sleeping when we heard some robbers +breaking into our house.",6 +Failed an examn.,4 +"When I achieved my first 6 at University after a long string of +3's, 4's and 5's (7 is the highest mark awarded, 3 is a conceded +pass).",1 +"Outside a night club, a grown man was sitting on top of a younger +woman, beating her up.",0 +"I felt ashamed of feeling sorry about myself when I passed +through the situation of being betrayed by my girlfriend.",2 +When my first girlfriend an I left each other.,4 +"Whenever I see poverty and starvation. I live in an affluent +society and am privileged to have many opportunities.",5 +"A professor was going to read aloud in class a composition of +mine in which I had criticized some political attitudes and also +some class-mates. I was ashamed at having written that.",2 +"This happened when I went to check my first year results, I had +thought that I would fail and I found that I had a clear pass in +all my courses.",1 +When boyfriend lied to me.,3 +"A few lies that I had indulged in, a few years ago, while raising +loans from my friends.",5 +"At school teacher for not allowing us to go out on New Year's Eve +when on a class trip overseas.",3 +"I was having breakfast with a classmate and suddenly I began to +cry as I thought of a friend of mine whom I had not seen for a +long time.",4 +"Before I moved away from home, I feared leaving.",6 +I felt guilty after stealing a cookery book from my colleagues.,5 +"My father had a complicated operation. A long time before and +also a long time after that, we did not know how he would get +over it. During all that time I felt very sad.",4 +"I spent a weekend in San Diego visiting my boyfriend Rob. We were +at the airport and my plane was just about so leave. After saying +goodbye, I boarded the plane. It was the hardest thing to do and +it was a sad trip home.",4 +When I learnt that my best friend had failed the exams.,0 +"They asked me to throw the rubbish into a dustbin which had some +awful liquid accumulated at the bottom.",0 +When I was selected to come here.,1 +"I was not prepared for the exam but I wanted to sleep the night +before the exam.",6 +"I am troubled by hair growing in my neck. I was troubled by this +for a long time and was much ashamed when someone brought his/her +hands close to my face.",2 +"When my uncle died whom I had loved very much. I was very sad and +I felt totally helpless.",4 +"When my uncle comes (3 times a year) for the traditional +Christmas dinner with my grandparents and other relatives and is +very drunk.",0 +When programmes on violence or pornography are shown on T.V.,0 +"Being on view in a meat-factory. Pigs being cut open, pigs being +suspended from nods, blood everywhere, decompsition.",0 +"I went to a party and there were some cakes which weren't good +and had a bad smell.",0 +"When a boy, who was drunk, insulted me in front of a crowd. I +was stopped from punching him for it.",3 +"When Christmas holiday started, I felt very joyful when I +finished my last exam.",1 +"A friend visited and made comments that my house/garden were not +as neat/tidy as in the past. I'd not seen her a year - She +implied I'd gone to the pack (I'd only been working full time, +and taking 3 University exams part time).",3 +"I let my pet budgie loose to fly around my room one afternoon. A +few hours afterwards I found he was still free, went in and out +of my room leaving the door open. My cat got in and killed my +budgie - this happened to 3 budgies.",5 +"I received the message that I'd been accepted at the school where I +really wanted to go.",1 +"When I went to see the doctor and had to take my clothes off so +that he could examine me.",2 +China not winning more gold medals in the Asian Olympics.,2 +"Death of my grnadfather after having been in hospital for so long +with cancer of the Oesophagus.",4 +When I swindled money out of someone.,2 +"I do not have the time for other people's problems. My +mother-in-law is sometimes depressed and I do not have the time, +the desire or the strength to help.",5 +"A few days back I had to ask a professor a ridiculous question +because I had lost at a game of cards and had to pay a forfeit.",2 +When I won my car. ,1 +"I joked with an unfamiliar friend in an obstinate tone. I was +afraid of his misunderstanding me and being hurt and angry at me. + I felt sorry over my conduct and thought that I had to find an +opportunity to apologize.",5 +When I got divorced from my husband after ten years of marriage.,4 +"The death of Jaya Prakash Narayan caused a great deal of sadness +as I believed that he was the only true democrat and a ray of +hope on the Indian horizon.",4 +"I broke an egg, with which there was something wrong, into a +little cup. There was a thick white ""wad"" in it. I tried to take +it out and throw it in the sink.",0 +When my grandmother died.,4 +When there is danger nearby.,6 +"Was accused of having hidden intentions in a situation when I +believed I was acting honestly and fairly.",2 +When my father was saved from a severe work accident.,1 +"When I had just moved into my new appartment I found a ventilator +in the kitchen. I was going to clean it when I found that the +drum was full of mud and slime. I felt disgusted.",0 +"When I could neither measure up to the expectations of the teacher +nor to my own expectations in one of the assignments.",5 +I asked a girl out on a date and she said no.,4 +"When I didn't meet an appointment I had made. The person phoned +me but I thought of something (I told I was ill) so that I didn't +have to go.",2 +When stupid people push me during rush time in the city.,3 +"I failed my Nutrition paper which was the paper ending the +course.",2 +"At a party, several comments were made about the personal +situation of one of the people present. She was rather affected +and uncomfortable.",5 +"Alone I am coming back home in the night after the serial +""explanation"".",4 +When I passed successive exams to enter the school of medicine.,1 +Arguing about price with private shop-assistant.,3 +"I moved to a flat. A friend who had lived there before, had left +the flat in a terrible mess. I was very angry about that +sloppiness and impudence.",3 +"Sadness, no, I felt something much stronger when my father died.",4 +"Being caught by parents in a compromising situation with +girlfriend.",2 +"We were starting a student project, and the teacher we talked to +was very negative and not very helpful.",3 +"Almost crashing into the back of a car while driving along the +motorway on my motorcycle.",6 +"I partly colored my hair black. My mother didn't like it and +reproached me to be a ""subversive element"". Later on she stated +that this was due to my friends. As I see it, this all resulted +from colouring my hair.",4 +"I was raped once when I went through a dark alley at the back of +our house. The man pushed me in the bushes. I fought back and +succeeded to escape.",6 +"One day my mother went to visit her friends. When she came back +she scolded me for not having kept the house in order, so I +decided not to talk to her.",5 +"When I told off a computer teacher who did not want to teach me +beacause of prejudice.",3 +"One of those days when I was going to school with my brother and +he annoyed me.",0 +"When my little brother asked me to play with him, I told him that +I had no time and that I would play with him the next day. +However, the next day I said the same thing.",5 +When I woke up after a nightmare.,4 +"When my mother betrayed me by obtaining money from my husband +when we were separated - pending divorce.",0 +When my girlfriend left me.,4 +"I felt happy when I learnt that I had qualified for the grade +eight.",1 +"When parents of a certain girl refused to let me marry their +daughter because I was not fit to do so yet the girl accepted +everything and later she followed what her parents insisted and +she told me never to talk to her again.",2 +"When I learnt that a boy I liked had been with a girl for three +years.",4 +When my mother caught me masturbating.,2 +"A friend of mine had said something about not liking to come to +my place just before coming to my place. In the meanwhile I got +to learn about this from another friend of mine and when she +arrived at my place I really treated her badly. I was later +ashamed of the way I had treated someone when the person was at +my place.",2 +"4 years ago my family decided to move from New York to +California. From the time we decided to move until the time we +left, I realized how much my friends cared for me. When we left +and for a long time after that I was very sad.",4 +"Achieving my goal at a swim meet. I worked toward the goal for 9 +yrs. I was capable of achieving it, but I didn't know when.",1 +"A girl, who is a friend of mine was having an affair with a boy +who is also a friend of mine. I got to know that this girl was +also seeing another guy. Later on, she just broke off with this friend +of mine without giving any explanations. This made him sad and +depressed, and I felt disgust for this girl.",0 +"I was dominated by a certain person and even though I knew it I +could not change my own reactions.",0 +"When a man, a stranger to me, personally insulted a close woman +friend of mine in public.",3 +"When my grandfather was in a nursing home when I was young I never +wanted to go and sometimes didn't have to and later I felt +guilty.",5 +Insulted by other people in the shop.,3 +"I saw a skid-row (chronical) alcoholic and I was ashamed of the +people with a high standard of living.",2 +If a close relative's life is in danger.,6 +When my children were born.,1 +"My grandfather died. He lived almost as a recluse not caring for +himself as well as he should - Dad and we all helped as much as +we could, but it didn't save him from himself. It was an +unexpected death. His second de facto wife was lucky she wasn't +jailed.",4 +When my boyfriend and I made up.,1 +"In a Christian gathering's lucky draw I mistook a girl's name for +mine (a boy's name). I realized my mistake only when I went up +to the stage for the prize. I did not know what to do as +everyone was looking at me. I blushed and went back to my seat.",2 +The morning after a wild party.,2 +"A customer at the shop where I worked came in and asked if the +goods that he had ordered had arrived. I had totally +forgotten about this order and I tried to offer weak excuses.",2 +"In a day when at work, in school, and relationships came out as I +wanted, and I was recognized in my work.",1 +"When I saw a good male friend unexpectedly after a year, as I've +just returned from overseas. I was feeling tired, looking a mess, +and nervous.",6 +I felt disgust of my father when I knew he had a lover.,0 +Going to the examn not well prepared.,6 +A woman picked her nose and spit right next to me.,0 +This situation occurred when I entered into a smelling ward.,0 +"I felt joyful when I heard that I had been selected for College +education.",1 +"My first day to work in hospital, when I was dressing wounds I +was disgusted when I came across one wound with a very bad smell.",0 +"When I was admitted to the Institute. I had problems with many +people about my applying for this institute and I decided to +prove that one can pass excellently without visiting any +preparatory couse. That is - I proved what I could do on my own.",1 +I forgot to convey an important announcement.,5 +"Leaving the house myself and a female friend had shared for 6-8 +months because of the friendship which developed and our approach +to each other in occasional instances of several personal crises.",4 +"Feeling helpless, not being able to accomplish what I really +wanted to do.",5 +"I was beaten up at a private New Year's party once, through no +fault of mine.",6 +"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had passed my Secondary +school leaving certificate exam.",1 +"I put an end to a friendship with a girl - I had only pretended +love and affection to be able to sleep with her.",2 +"One day I shouted at my brother who didn't do any wrong to me +only that I had a disappointment from a friend and projected it +on to him. He cried and I felt guilty after sometime.",5 +"At an unworthy behaviour of a man, pettiness, stupidity and +mostly at a philistinism.",0 +"As I was taking venous blood from another patient I introduced +air into the place of puncturing and there was a swelling which +is dangerous to the patient hence I became afraid.",6 +When my brother gave me a watch.,1 +"Taking a trip to crocokile country I fell out of the boat and was +motivated by fear of being eaten to perform great swimming feats.",6 +"I had a misunderstanding with my father and after some time I +found that I had been wrong.",2 +"When my brother-in-law's brother stole my clothes when my +brother-in-law and I had gone to cut wood for the fire.",3 +"I made a comment and it was interpreted completely differently +from what I had meant. When I said it I realized how my mother +had understood it.",2 +"After training for an Australian championship competition for a +year and then injuring myself 2 weeks before the competiotion.",4 +After my boyfriend and I had separated.,4 +"Once, before I had learnt to swim, I stepped on a slippery slope +where there was a lot of moss and I slipped into the water. The +water was very deep and I could not stand on my feet. I sank +and had to use a lot of energy.",6 +"Someone stole a K10 note and the teacher thought that it was me +when I was not responsible for the theft.",0 +"When I had to sleep in a bed at a hostel, which was full of dirt.",0 +My sister marrying a bad man. He is cruel to her.,4 +"When you are far away from relatives and friends. I feel sad for +my early years, for the freedom and the carefree years of +childhood.",4 +"I am a Christian but I cannot find any meaning in life . It +seems that I am deceiving myself but I cannot find the way out.",4 +When my dog ran out on thin ice last spring.,6 +"When my friends died one after the other. The first died in a +car accident and the second one recently, due to an illness.",4 +A film on zombies.,6 +"At the underground station, a drunkard came to speak to me. He +tried to ask me something but I did not answer so he began to +speak about me with his companion. I detested this dirty +growling man.",0 +"A female friend was violently ill on the return journey from a +wedding reception we attended. Getting her out of the car when +home took quite a while.",0 +When a student of mine (at music) performed and played remarkably well.,1 +"I failed to keep a promise and this had a serious effet on someone's +problem.",5 +"Towards wife's laziness in not performing her usual duties +because of television watching.",3 +"In contact with a poor family of northeast it was offered to me a +crab to eat at my request. But the fact that this crab was +prepared antihygienically and his appearence was also +antihygienically it caused me disgust but I ate it anyway.",0 +"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had been selected to +come here at Kamuzu College of Nursing.",1 +Once while crossing a road I was overcome with fear.,6 +"For my parents anniversary, we hosted a party and we were very +happy.",1 +"My aunt phoned me to ask me why I had refused the her invitation +to dinner at her home on the New Year's Eve.",2 +"Disagreements with mother. When I moved from KankaanpSS, she had +promised to help me move but broke her promise because of some +hindrance. ",3 +When I was operated on the knee and had to go through rehabilitation.,6 +"I was watching T.V with my parents and some pornographic scenes +came on, I felt uncomfortable and tried to distract my parents +attention by talking to them.",2 +"When a girl did not answer a question, concerning my love for +her, put forward to her.",4 +"Cleaning the bathroom of my apt. and realizing my roommate who +had lived there all summer by himself had never cleaned the +place.",0 +"When an intimate friend of mine passed B.A with first class and I +got only pass class.",2 +"I was sitting in a restaurant with friends. They asked me +something which they thought I should know. Actually I know it, +but at that time I was not able to remember it.",2 +"A friend's father had died, I was to come and see this friend +although I did not know his family.",6 +My grandmother died suddenly last summer.,4 +When I failed the grade seven examination.,4 +"I was eating in the dinning hall and some women joined me. I +could not eat with them so I left the dinning hall.",0 +"When my father took away my cherised diaries to burn them (I was +also very sad) ""Oh, how I hated him"".",3 +"It was my father's birthday party when I was asked to bring a +tray of tea and other drinks.",2 +Our basketball team is undefeated in league play (4-0) currently.,1 +"I read a newspaper report that a little boy was forced to look +while his sister was raped.",0 +"At the begining of a new course one is afraid of encountering +problems one can not manage. Thoughts revolve around failing +the subject and the consequences it would have for the future.",4 +"I heard part of a conversation in which one talked very low about +women.",0 +Noisy people in the library.,0 +"I was told I shouldn't visit my sister because the holiday was +short.",0 +"When I noticed that a person I found attractive had seen me +picking my nose.",2 +"I was at school whhen I received a letter from the dean of my +school congratulating me for my performance at the previous +year's exam. ",1 +"After an oral examination I shook the professor's hand, but he +had only stretched it out for my ball-point-pen.",2 +Finding out that I made a stupid mistake in the examn.,3 +"As I was not paying attention, my little brother fell off the +table.",5 +"Felt I had not appreciated my parents enough. Regretted the +problems I'd caused.",2 +"I was sleeping nicely until in the middle of the night when I became +awake because a friend called me for some (in my opinion) +nonsens reason.",3 +"I was totally unprepared for a seminar conducted by an assistant +professor whom I highly respect.",2 +When I was caught going out with another girl by my girlfriend.,5 +"Once when I was playing table tennis I was already sure that I +would win , but at last I lost the game.",3 +"When I was the first to arrive at the scene after an accident, +and found that a close school friend had been killed.",6 +"When a person saw that I was accused of something I had not done +and did not do anything to defend me.",0 +"In the classroom we discussed with the teacher. He told me things +that affected directly in a negative way my job and my behavior +in the classroom in front of the other pupils.",2 +"Our dog had to be shot because he had killed a roe. I liked him +very much and so I could not resign myself to that. I hated the +hunter who shot him.",4 +"I was looking after my father's sheen in the forest. One day +while playing with friends from neighbouring villages the flock +escaped me and went into a far place. It became dark and I was +afraid of father. I went home and hid myself.",6 +I am afraid if I'll finish the term.,6 +"I was hitch-hiking when a man stopped and gave me a lift to +Nijmegen. During the ride he asked me whether I was in for fun. +The man was fat and tatooed.",0 +"When my boyfriend and I experience something nice or when we have +made a nice walk together.",1 +"There was an earthquake for several minutes and I was on the +eight floor.",6 +"I had worked long and hard on a project when a friend +inadvertantly destroyed it. I could not forgive him for a long +time. And at times still get angry at him.",3 +"While still at school a friend died of cancer, after being ill +for a long time, she was 17 yrs old.",4 +"Sometime back another girl who was in terms with my ex-boyfriend +came to shout at me at twelve midnight. It was because she +thought I was still interested in the boy.",3 +"Crossing a street of several ways the cars began to move and I +thought that I was going to be trampled.",6 +"I wrote an Exam and happened to have not done as well as I +thought I would. I was angry to myself for not having done so +well.",3 +"When I lied to my mum, who later came to know that what I had +been teling her was false.",5 +"After a long time (of no communication with him, physical +illness and worry) my lover came to see me, when I least expected +to see him.",1 +"I had undertaken to help my sister for her class work but some +unexpected circumstances prevented me from doing that.",5 +"On my birthday, when a very close friend sent me a huge bouquet +of flowers.",1 +Did not finish homework.,2 +"When I fell crazily in love with a beautiful girl and she returned +my love.",1 +"When I was studying in the library a pair of lovers were sitting +next to me talking in an intense and soft voice. They were +disturbing others.",0 +"I was disappointed by a girlfriend when I visited her at her home +in Woodlands.",0 +"When my parents drove me to a nearby place and went home +immediately instead of waiting a few hours. They could have +easily waited.",3 +When someone does something wrong which affects me negatively.,3 +"I hadn't been at my parent's place for a long time. When I went to +visit them I had high expectations, but when I was there it was +very different from what I expected.",4 +"When I blamed my niece for misplacing my book, she denied having +touched or seen it but I carried on insisting that it was her.",5 +When I saw a very disagreable scene.,0 +Saw an arrogant girl walking pass by.,0 +"In the student kitchen that we share, somebody drank from my +juice pot (one litre) so that I only got one glass out of the +whole pot.",3 +"When something went wrong for me I lashed out at someone else +whom I loved and who was not in any way responsible for what had +happened (my sister).",5 +[ Can not think of anything just now.],5 +"When I was a child I was afraid of big dogs. One day when I came +home a big dog was laying in front of our door. I was so +frightened that I did not dare to enter the door and I waited +until somebody passed by.",6 +"I was camping with a friend of mine and we spent the night in the +forest. I could not fall off to sleep and could clearly hear +noises from outside (steps ?) approaching our tent.",6 +"A drunk man had fallen in the street and he was shouting obscene +words.",0 +"We were at a hamburger bar and a man at a table nearby started +coughing and spitting into his plate.",0 +The last time I felt it was when I was coming home late at night.,6 +When I was caught stealing money from my father.,2 +"Guilt - because I had not written to my sister for months before +she died.",5 +"If they force me to eat something I don't like. For example, my +parents always twaddle and whine, when I don't eat all the food.",3 +"When I was little and didn't own up to placing a lolly on the +varnish, this pulled it all off and I didn't admit my guilt.",2 +"My older sister used to pick on my brothers and sisters all of +whom were younger than her. On one occasion my brother did +something my sister didn't like. A full-scale battle began.",0 +"I felt this feeling when one day my landlord's cat had crept +under my bed and I couldn't cope with it during an hour and a +half.",6 +During my last exam.,3 +"When my grandfather died. When I heard about his death, I had a +bad feeling in my stomach and I felt as if I had lost something +very precious.",4 +A sour looking man was beating his thin dog in Remuera.,0 +"I am a school teacher. At a teacher-parent meeting I received a +good deal of positive feed-back on my work both from the parents +and through them from the pupils.",1 +"At my father, when he yelled and accused my sister's friend (over +the phone) of doing something he didn't do, or know anything +about.",0 +"We were driving on a very dusty road at night and the driver +tried to overtake a very big truck only to find another big truck +parked right in front.",6 +"I bought a new bed for my apt. and it squeaks when you move on +it. I tried to fix it but could not.",3 +When I passed an important exam.,1 +"When ,due to hunger and tiredness, I became generally irritated +with my fiancee and made cutting remarks which really hurt him. +Later I realized that my unfounded irritation had hurt the person +I love most on earth.",5 +"For about one year I had a rather bad relation with my father. +Last Christmas Eve he invited me to stay withhim and I was very +glad about it. It was a fine evening.",1 +When someone close to me is travelling by car and is delayed.,6 +"At the age of 16 I had gone to see a film in a nearby village, +about 8 kms from my home. I started walking as there was no +bus. I had to cross hills and as it was dark I could not +identify the path. Half way through it started raining and as +there was no shelter I ran four kms to reach home.",6 +"At a school dance when my supposed ""best friend"" kept walking +away from me whenever I came near her.",3 +When I was selected to study here at UNZA.,1 +"Without the employer's knowledge and even without any +communication their bank accounts were changed and their personal +accounts closed.",3 +"A young visitor to the house stole money from an elderly +visitor's purse. It wasn't noticed for some hours.",2 +"I was living in rooms in a very lonely, quiet neigbourhood. +During the night it was very silent and this frightened me. The +fact of being alone in that house frightened me.",6 +"I was rushing home from school because there was a 49er game that +night. I got into a non-injury accident, which was all my fault, +but destroyed the front of my car. The truck I hit was undamaged.",3 +"When I worked as an ""au-pair-girl"" in London, I received a call +from a good friend who told me that she was in London too and +wanted to see me. I was very glad - after that call and +especially when I saw her.",1 +"I was complaining about calling people whom I didn't know. I +forgot that the purpose is to invite people for dinner and get to +know them.",2 +"There is one thing which makes me feel shameful, when I see +friends of my age group working and earning a lot, when I am +still studying. A friend I met a week ago after a period of 5 +years is earning more than Rs 3000/ month.",2 +"Getting back my math midterm, I received a lower grade than I +thought I would get. After going through the questions I felt +that the grader had graded harshly and I had made only a few ? +errors.",0 +"Being subject to unfair treatment in a working group, someone +""bending the rules"" was protected by the boss. This resulted in +more work for the others.",3 +"In the evening, while I was watching TV, my little brother came +in and started eating food he had brought from the kitchen while +I was trying to concentrate on the program.",0 +When I attended the concert of a pop singer.,1 +"I was ashamed at myself when I saw that the other boys and girls +of my age earn a lot of money by doing very good and hard work. ",2 +Not finishing my duty as a class leader.,3 +Going to a concert.,1 +"When I dated a close girlfriend's boyfriend a few times. He told +me that it was over between them and I accepted it. When she +found out she finished our friendship.",2 +"When I had promised to do some washing for my mother and I did +not do it. She did it herself despite her being ill. I felt +very guilty.",5 +When caught shop-lifting as for shame.,5 +"Once a person in authority (school teacher) was telling blatant +lies about me and the headmistress would not let me defend +myself. She was also telling lies about other members of my +family.",3 +"I was walking alone in the street late at night (2.30 am). It was +very quiet. Then a man approached me and said ""Hello"".",6 +"And she said absurd things, false things that filled my ears and +inflated my head which seemed to be caught in a carcass where the +heart wanted to explode and where the arm wanted to knock down +the world.",3 +I felt sad and depressed when I heard that our cat had died.,4 +"When for the first and the last time I tried to crib and the +teacher was with her back to me but right when I was taking the +materials out she turned round and saw me.",2 +"One evening, when I had gone fishing with my friends, we heard +the roar of a lion near by and had to run for our lives.",6 +"When one individual takes advantage of and/or injures another +relatively defenseless individual, consciously. I feel disgust +mingled with anger. A person on my dorm floor verbally assaulted +another person for having a certain religious belief.",0 +"A friend of mine was drunk and having an argument on the street +with a woman, appparently his girlfriend. I was walking on the +other side of the street and thought that I was not supposed to +interfere. Later I heard that he had shot himself that evening.",5 +I was late meeting someone for an appointment.,5 +"I felt happy when my mother borrowed me the car in order to let +me go out alone for the first time.",1 +Saw someone acting in a false manner in public.,0 +"When, as a child, I was nearly knocked down by a car.",6 +"When some housemen told me a young girl like you should not be +allowed to lecture to consultants, I was too shy to argue against +them.",5 +"Not being able to convince my class leader that my friend is +better than me to go to the English lectures.",2 +"[ I feel shame when I do not arrive on time and others have to +wait for me for a long time.]",2 +It happens to me quite often. I can't describe a particular case.,5 +"When I heard my name being announced on the radio that I had been +successful in an interview for admittance for a medical Assistant +training course. I was really happy and I enjoyed myself by +dancing to music from the Radio cassette.",1 +"When a close friend, residing in the hostel, lost his father I +really pittied him and the situation made me feel sad.",4 +"When I read a newspaper article on a young girl who had been +raped and assaulted one night by several men when she was unconscious.",0 +When I found out I had passed all of my university exams.,1 +"The day when my son said for the first time ""mummy"".",1 +"You may find out that I am stupid and not to let me do your +experiment.",6 +"I always feel ashamed when I do not succeed in accomplishing +something in which I had put in all my efforts.",2 +"Being involved in a car accident and having my thumb caught in +the glove compartment. My sister and I had a Fear of finally +telling my parents, since my sister was the driver.",6 +When I was coming back home alone at night.,6 +"When I had not prepared my contribution to the group as +thoroughly as the other members, with the result that the +overall result was poor.",2 +"Departure of a very close friend - for a long stay overseas, +sharing in the sorrow of her parents who were left behind.",4 +"I went shopping with my parents - my father payed everything for +me, I was very glad.",1 +"When my mother decided to clean out my room and throw out what +she thought was junk, without my knowing about it, so I returned +home to find half my stuff gone.",3 +The time when someone let the air out of the tyres of my cycle.,3 +"Sitting on the bus seats supposed for disabled people, children +and old people (by mistake)",2 +"Football was a very big deal at my high school, so I was joyous +when my school's team won the conference championship last year.",1 +"I felt shame when I didn't study enough for my exams and as a +result I failed. I then invented idle stories to talk it good for +myself and the others.",2 +I choked on a cold drink in front of girls who were strangers.,2 +"It was when I read a newspaper article on the future and they +foresaw that we would be eating frog-burgers by the year 2000. +An illustration showed a frog between two pieces of bread.",0 +When a girl left me.,3 +Saw my unfair report.,0 +"I experienced this when my maternal grandmother passed away. She +was the last of my grand parents to pass away.",4 +"When I dived among sharks and the brightly coloured fish on the +outer reef of Tvavni, Fidgi.",1 +"I was in the house at night and I heard a hyena crying outside. +It cried for almost an hour and I feared it might break the +window and enter inside the house.",6 +"I received a wedding invitation from an ex-flatmate, enclosed was +a small note that overcame a lot of the differences that had +arisen between us due to the circumstances in which she left the +flat.",1 +Lost a friend.,4 +"I was sitting on the bus coming back from school. A man from +nearly forty years sat beside me. After a while I looked at him +and saw that he was looking at me with opened throusers and +holding his penis.",6 +"I was very sad when I heard about the death of my teacher who +taught me in Standard 8.",4 +"Losing a boyfriend for the second time to my friend. He fell in +love with her. The same thing happened a few months earlier with +another boyfriend.",4 +When I couldn't go for a trip with my friends in a holiday.,4 +Being insulted in public for the wrong reason.,3 +"A children's film in which I played a clown, with spotlights, +cameras and the director who demanded jumps and guffaws.",2 +When people remember us and shows interest about what we do.,1 +"When I stared to much at a pastry that a woman was eating and at +the same instant the pastry felt on the floor.",5 +"When I entered the wound intensive care at the Central Hospital +in Blantyre which was stinking.",0 +"One night going downstairs, and hearing a strong stirring of +brances, which was not the wind.",6 +"When I was taking the 11th standard exam, my friend who was sitting +behind me asked me for some answers. The teacher looked at us +just then and scolded both of us. Everyone started looking at us +and I felt very guilty.",5 +"I insulted two of my friends because I thought that had been +gossiping about me right under my nose, however I later found out +that they were not doing so.",2 +"I was very disgusted the first day I went to put a dead body in +the Mortuary. There were many dead bodies and some were uncovered +so we had to put on top of the other bodies.",0 +I failed to show up at an agreed date.,5 +Being elected as class leader.,1 +"When students in our working group showed no responsibility or +interest in our work.",3 +"I was angered by a classmate who poured soup on to my clothes. He +was trying to use a short-cut method in getting his supper. +Coming behind my back, he wasn't noticed by me and as I was +retreating from a hungry congested people I knocked his plate +with my head. He didn't accept being wrong but blamed me for +pouring his soup.",3 +"When I had broken a piece of glass of the refrigerator by putting +a hot pan in it.",5 +"I had this feeling when my parents distroyed a relationship with +a boy because they thought he was bad and irresponsible.",4 +"The people on my floor last year were very close. This year 4 of +our best friends live together in an apartment. My boyfriend and +I dropped by on one of their birthdays and stayed for dinner. Two +other people had already been invited and I felt uncomfortable +and unwanted. Then I realized I was the one who always called +them and they rarely call me.",2 +"I felt the greatest burst of joy when after being heavily ill for +a long period, my father came back home.",1 +When I met my new girlfriend with another man in the street.,3 +"When riding in a very fastly-driven car on a lose metal road at a +very late hour - no other cars on road, and driver was taking +corners very sharply. I felt afraid - because if an accident +happened, the area was very isolated. Also, I feared for driver, +after I was dropped off - would he make it home safely.",6 +Some men were talking about me and my sister.,2 +The death of a close relative.,4 +"My grades. When my parents say, ""How are you doing at school, +getting good grades ?"" I say, ""Great, just fine !"" Actually, I +feel ashamed about myself.",2 +"Discovering a good friend had lied to me, resulting in a +detrimental relationship with another person.",0 +"While walking in town I noticed how the police harrassed a man +who was under the influence of alcohol. They terrified him with +the thought of arrest by driving close behind him on a pedestrian +street. My disgust was directed at the gestures and the facial +expressions of the policemen; they seemed to be enjoying +themselves.",0 +"When after an overwhelming anxiety and enquiry, I understood +something about why I exist and what my task in life is.",1 +"When my older sister told us that she was thinking of joining the +rest of the family for the winter sports holiday.",1 +"My sister had to undergo a very complicated operation, her +eyesight was at stake.",6 +"I was at home alone and my mother had asked me to heat the house. +I put too much fuel into the stove. It began to glow and there +was a noise in the whole house as if it was going to explode.",6 +"Before knowing my marks I was not sure that I wanted to go to +that class.",6 +"I had something wrong, saying wrong things and being impolite to +someone, and this had embarrassed the this person. And I +still meet the person.",2 +"My mother along with some of my friends gave me a surprise +birthday party - they invited a large number of my friends along +too.",1 +I saw some images of a decapitation in a horror film.,0 +"I felt very sad when I was in Form three to notice that my friend +Barley Jumbe, had lost very expensive new sports short trousers.",4 +"Fear from the unknown. I felt fear when I sat for the entrance +examinations.",6 +"I felt angry when my only pair of trousers was stolen and could +not be able to find out who the thief was or anyone who knew +about the story.",3 +"When I think that I have been too stict or narrow minded towards +my students.",5 +"When I was attending an authorized demonstrationand the police +rushed brutally at the demonstrators, without any warning.",6 +"Today I did a lot better on my architecture project than I +expected.",1 +"A close relative was at odds with a very powerful firm. All his +things had been taken, His dad had died a little before this +event. He gathhered his children and vowed to give them a good +life with a new start - the words were hollow, he bit back his +tears .....I asked to be excused and then went and cried in the +loo.",4 +"I did not do the homework that the teacher had asked us to do. I +was scolded immediately.",5 +"It was in 1983 September when MCE results were being announced on +the radio. When I heard my name that I had done well I just kept +quiet. I was so happy that I couldn't even talk.",1 +I failed to complete a working task within the agreed time.,5 +When my grandmother passed away.,4 +"I felt vvery happy when I was accepted at UNZA for my studies. +I had not expected this as I had been ill during the exams.",1 +Getting separated from my girlfriend.,4 +"It was a shameful moment when I heard that I had failed my +Primary School leaving Certificate Exam in 1978. My girlfriend +was there when the news was released.",2 +"An argument among several friends because of the irrational +behavior of one of them who fell out with us for no reason and +said that we were to blame.",3 +"One of my fellow students had bunked field work and in my attempt +to cover up for him I myself was exposed, though not directly. +We were to meet our field work suprevisor and we were afraid of +the consequences.",6 +When I had to talk with an important person about a job.,6 +"After a quarrel with my mother in which matters were ""inflated"" +enormously.",5 +"When I asked a friend to return the money that I had loaned her +and then remembered that she had repayed me in several ways.",2 +"When my friend (girl) promised to help me go to the hospital and be +examined by good experts and she deceived me.",3 +"I had a girlfriend in the same class I was. I did not do well in +my Exams, but she did satisfactorily well and was taken into +another class leaving me behind.",2 +"My mother left my father for his best friend, and he moved to +Papua New Guinea. Despite the fact that I am closer to my father +than to anyone else in my family, I had to move in with my +mother, and say good-bye to my father, not knowing when I would +see him again.",4 +"When I had to walk over three kms through a field which had wild bulls, +because my car had broken down.",6 +"My father resigned from work, and soon after this his elder brother +died. The next day my granny died (my mother's mother). My dad +remains the only living member of his family.",4 +"I felt ashamed when my lecturer said in class that I +happened to be the dullest of all.",2 +"When caught shoplifting and the police were called in parents +also informed.",2 +"Seeing for the first time pictures about the so called +""treatment"" of Jewish people in Nazi-Germany during World War II.",3 +"When my mother threatened me with thrushing me of the stairs, when +I once more should make a comment.",6 +"Such a feeling springs up in me sometimes when I have meals at a +catering establishment. It is a result either of the look of the +food or when watching the way some people eat.",0 +"I learnt from the newspaper that I had been accepted at the +Chinese university of H.K. It was 7 o'clock in the morning. +Later I told my family and relatives about it and had tea with +them very joyfully.",1 +"I took a math midterm and I knew I did really well and it was +Friday so I felt great joy because the week was over and I did +well on a test.",1 +"With a group of handicapped people we went to a party. When we +wanted to leave we were not able to find one of these people. I +had told his mother that we would leave at 4.30 p.m., actually it +was planned for 3.30 p.m. Therefore there was a delay.",5 +"Not speaking to my sister-in-law due to lack of interest in a +relationship on my side.",5 +I saw part of a Prince video with him crawling out of a bath tub.,0 +"Hearing Norman Jones get hysterical in Parliament about law +reform (on the radio - listening with 2 others).",0 +"When I inadvertantly made some close friends and relatives feel +bad.",5 +"When my aunt went out of her way to help me out with my financial +problems.",5 +"My mother and my grandmother were talking about one of my +grandmother's friends whom I hardly know. I gave some deprecatory +comments on him whereupon my grandmother told me that the man had +died recently.",2 +When I hit my young sister without a valid reason.,5 +"When my mother found a leaf of my diary where I had written about +my mother's lack of education, especially her poor arithmetical +insight.",2 +"Recently I felt very sad without any reason. It lasted for a few +days. There was nothing I liked in that period.",4 +While dancing in a restaurant last week.,1 +"I received a message that my elder brother was involved in a car +accident and was admitted in hospital.",4 +I feel anger when somebody forbids me to do something.,3 +"When I went to visit a relative and saw how messy and dirty his +place was, in the absence of his wife.",0 +I felt sad when I was despised by another person.,4 +"Telling a lie to wife over phone about what I had been working +at.",5 +"Grandfather lives in a home for the elderly. He always looks +forward to visits. On his birthday (by coincidence it was on +""Mummy's day"") however, nobody went to see him. Is the own family +more important than grandfather ?",0 +"Despite my being affectionate, sincere, and helpful to close +relatives of mine; they turned around and accused me of being +inconsiderate in my relationship with them.",0 +I lied to a friend.,2 +"When my family and I heard of the death of my grandfather. We had + seen him a few weeks earlier and it seemed that he had just been +waiting to see us.",4 +"My father is someone I disgust. So when he comes close to me +a feeling of disgust overwhelms me. When I stay a week-end at my +parent's place I will remember it for long time.",0 +"I put in two years of hard work and it was neither looked at nor +appreciated.",4 +"When I was young - 14, I pinched from a store and was caught. +The store then contacted my parents.",5 +"When I was the target of a great many insults and completely +unfair accusations of a large group of people.",3 +"Leaving home when my mother thought I had no reason to go and +felt that I was rejecting her. She is a constantly depressed +person (a bit of a worry-wort) and I felt guilty about having +given her this additonal problem.",5 +"I have felt this feeling when a person whom I believe and respect, +lied to me.",0 +"Once when I was walking alone at mid-night, I happened to put my +foot on a frog, as it felt smooth I thought that it was a snake +and I felt afraid. + +",6 +"Some time ago I slapped my son without trying to understand who +the real culprit of a damage was. After that I felt guilty and +bad but it was too late.",5 +"When I was in F4 I led my class to a riot. However the form +master said that my conduct was good and asked me to tell him the +names of those who had taken part in it. I replied that I did +not know.",2 +"I was looking for an object when I came across a rotten corpse of +a rat.",0 +"Occurs frequently. A recent experience: when going out with many +friends, nice music, after the examinations, I felt so happy I +could have embraced everybody.",1 +"I was afraid of moving away from home and moving to Helsinki for +my studies.",6 +"When somebody broke into our home one night when my mother was +out, and my sister and I had just gone to bed.",6 +"When I almost did something awful with a friend of mine and +myself.",2 +"In the traffic I insulted a man who crossed my way. Afterwards I +paired with him, and felt shame because of mine lack of pacience +and ridiculous attitude.",2 +"When we were young, a friend of mine tried to dissect a frog while +we were playing near his home.",0 +"When my friend, after a beer spree vomitted in my sitting room.",0 +[ I feel sad when somebody is unjust to me.],4 +"That evening when I opened the songbook while I was singing the +song ""Those were the days"" that guilt feeling became stronger. +The lyrics described well - I was really wrong. The wish that I +had made was really bad. If she were with me I would really be +happy and we would play happily together like the days in +secondary school and she would not be disappointed and gloomy +because of me.",5 +"My mother had not come home at midnight. She had forgotten to +tell me about it. I was very young and all alone at home.",6 +The begining of my relations with my current girlfriend.,1 +"I have a very close friend who lives in another city and we have +been writing to each other for a long time. The last time I went +to her city, just to see her, I was disappointed to see how great +the distance between us was.",4 +I thought I had taken a decision but I hesitated.,2 +"I went for a walk on the beach with a friend whom I had not seen +for many months. The weather was very pleasant, we had some +ice-cream and lots of fun on the beach.",1 +"[ I missed my twin when I was on the verge of being thrown, which +I disliked.]",4 +"When a close friend met me at the station in the middle of the +night, when I came back from a long and tiring journey.",1 +"I felt disgust when I received visitors at an odd hour. I was +seriously preparing for Examinations, so I did not appreciate +their coming.",0 +"I received an assignment back, and got an A+ grading.",1 +"When I was walking down the street, some boys showed me a knife +and stole all my money.",6 +"I had a quarrell with my boyfriend and decided to finish with him +and and my Easter holidays.",4 +"Birds had made nests in our thatched roof and they were flying +and flapping their wings in the bedroom at night. It was very +dark and I could not even see my nose. I did not know that it +was the birds till my mother told me so.",6 +"My son was registered to get admission in grade one of the +primary school. The chances of him getting a place there was 1/10. +Two weeks later I was informed that he had been enrolled.",1 +"When some friends of mine asked me to go camping with them for a +fortnight.",1 +"I was driving my car and it was very misty. It was in the night +and I was alone in my car. I felt totally insecure, nervous and +overstrained.",6 +When I entered at the University.,1 +Hearing of a filthy situation over the phone.,0 +I was alone and someone tried to break in from our back door.,6 +"We got into a fight with some chaps in front of our family house. +The value of the property destroyed was approximately 15 000 FIM. +I felt ashamed when my parents came to know about this.",2 +"In a play (secret friend) during the time of the high school I +had to give a present to a boy and I was very ridiculous because +of this.",2 +"When I was accused of ""bitching"" about best friend.",3 +"When I had lied to a friend/son about some things we had +discussed and I had to be one better.",5 +"During my birthday party a friend drank too much alcohol. So much +that he had to throw up. Worst of all was that he couldn't leave +my friend alone and that he was molesting her.",0 +"When I realized the burden it was for my mother to look after all +of us, all by herself.",4 +"When I was appointed to position of trust in a group set up to +change the working environment.",1 +When I got a letter from home.,1 +"Third highest grade in the class and the best answer given for +one question (the question was graded by the professor and he +indicated he liked my answer).",1 +"I was terrified during an axcursion in Italy. I was lost and left +alone in this unfamiliar country.",6 +"When my father (physically handicapped) asks me to do something +and I raise several objections. Often I can fix it in few +moments.",5 +"A child told me she had been sexually abused by her step-father. +I only knew the child and had not come into contact with either +parent. I tried to do what was best for the child. The event and +the stepfather disgusted me.",0 +"When I was reading a book. It had nothing to do with the book +itself but with the disagreable smell of the pages of the book.",0 +"When I heard that someone who is very close to me did very well +in the exams despite having fooled around a lot.",1 +When I hurt my parents in one way or another.,5 +[ When my performance (homework or other work) is better than others.],1 +"Following heavy stirring / ridiculing a close friend who was +very vulnerable to such attack - inspiring fierce, defensive +counter-attack.",2 +At set-backs.,4 +"My fiancT's family was adopting a 5 years old boy. I felt +myself close to him as I never felt before. After some time his +mother demanded the care of the kid and we were obliged to send +him back.",4 +"Fights that I see in the middle of the street, robberies, fear of +darkness when going home.",6 +"When I was 17, I had a mystic vision. I melted into a dazzling +light, which omitted perfect love. The physical experience became +unimportant, I heard or saw the words ""overcome egotism"". The +feeling of joy remained for month after that experience.",1 +"On a social occasion, I noticed that I reacted on the basis of my +autonomous nerve system (I could not help it).",2 +Finally being asked by someone to a banquet.,1 +"I felt guilty when I heard the results of my friend, who had +failed. I wished that I had helped him.",5 +When I got a record as a gift from a friend.,1 +"When I went to a halloween party and had to walk through a shopping +center dressed like a witch.",2 +"I had taken the responsibility to do something and I had +prepared for it. However I failed because of my timidity. After +three attempts I still could not adapt to the atmosphere and +failed as before. I felt imcompetent and felt that the others +would think that I had not prepared for it.",2 +"Once I had an argument with my friends and I knew that I was +right. My friends went on arguing with me even though they did +not know the right thing.",3 +Birth of children.,1 +When my husband told me about his pre-marital affairs.,0 +When they gave away my dog to other people without my knowledge.,4 +When I failed an exam I thought I would pass.,3 +"A relationship in which I had put my trust, broke up. I was sad +when I realized how easy it is to forget something that one had +once regarded as great and significant.",4 +"Several years ago my mother died. She had been ill for a long +time, but nevertheless her death came unexpectedly. I did not and +I still do not want to believe that it is true.",4 +When I passed my form three exams.,1 +"I felt disgusted while studying for my applied psychology and +mental testing papers in B.A.",0 +Saw a man dressed as a woman.,0 +"A few months ago when I was teaching, I suddenly became very +angry at the children and slapped some of them.",3 +"I had an exam and I had it well prepared. I did the first part +very well but did not know the second part.",3 +"Every time I was around this one person I would stick my foot in +my mouth by being nasty. One time I accidently said something +fairly cruel that was totally inappropriate.",2 +Walking out from the biology building.,6 +When I got my drivers licence.,1 +"I borrowed my friend's radio cassette and the plug cracked and +some pieces broke off when the plug dropped off my hands.",5 +"I took a girl out once and discovered that she was going around +with one of my close friends.",2 +"I found a baby opposum on the road and took it home and cared for +it for a week. It had to be force-fed and carried in a fur pouch +under my jersey. My father had the vet put it to sleep as he said +they carried diseases.",4 +Saw a scene in a movie implying incest as humorous.,0 +"When there was a fight at home and my father threatened to throw +a chair on my brother.",6 +"I was sleeping alone in the house at night. A boy putting on a +short only knocked at the window whispering that I should open +for him.",6 +"Family discord and uneasiness due to something I did not +communicate on time.",5 +Talking to a close friend.,1 +"I received money from my father at a time when I was completely +broken.",1 +I felt shame when I found that I was almost last in the exam.,2 +"My relationship with a boyfriend was finished and I didn't +succeed a years-course.",4 +"When I didn't study for tests in High School. In particular +remember a physics test. I didn't study because my friends talked +me out of it and we did something else boring. I felt so helpless +just being there - then guilt set in because I was very close to +getting an A in the class.",5 +"A few days back a friend of mine poked me in the ribs for fun's +sake, though I had warned him an infinite number of times that it +really hurts me, he did it again. I usually ignore this but this +time I flared up for a split second and threatened to bash him +up. This is the latest incident when I lost my temper, though I +felt very bad about it later.",3 +"In the student's union there was someone who took the photocopies +of two large volumes. I asked him to let me take a few, he refused +it for an acceptable reason. ",3 +"When I saw a good friend again after not having seen her for a +long time.",1 +"When I was feeding a premature baby (7 months), the baby chocked. +This was when I was working in children's ward I thought I had +killed the baby.",6 +I went home and visited with my family and friends.,1 +Cueing for a bus and the drivers having long dinner.,0 +"I saw a bag on the street and just then a stranger passed by. I +picked up the bag immediately and gave it to the stranger as I +thought that it belonged to him. But it was not his bag and I +felt ashamed.",2 +Left alone in dark when young.,6 +"I played chess with my 12-year-old brother. I made a stupid +mistake - and he won!",3 +When they told me that I had got a study grant.,1 +Thought had discovered true love.,1 +"When a lady I was flirting with told all my class-mates that she +was in second year while I was in first year, everyone laughed +and started looking at me.",2 +Being disloyal with persons I loved.,5 +"I felt anger at my roommate due to his habit of leaving dirty +dishes in the sink and generally not cleaning after himself.",3 +"When I saw a lady putting on a pair of trousers, I felt it was a +disguise according to Malawi culture.",0 +"At a cross-country race I wanted to take a short-cut (which is +not allowed). I was caught and disqualified. All my friends had +observed that.",2 +"When I worked at the life-saving service I was disgusted by a +patient whose outward appearance was distasteful.",0 +"One day, when I was a child, my grandmother shut me up in a room.",3 +"My husband falls ill and does not follow the doctor's advice on +the treatment or the diet control.",0 +"A close relative of mine died in a serious car accident. I was +one of the first two people to see the corpse and I had to do it. + Before going in to see it I was afraid as it was the first time +that I was seeing a corpse.",6 +"A close friend decided to stop with his study and to go back +home.",4 +[ When friends and colleagues talk bad about me.],4 +"I happened to see the video-tape movie ""This is America - Part +one"" at my friend's place.",0 +"I felt guilty when one of my secondary teacher left me while I +was in Form three, he was the only one who showed love to me.",5 +"Tonight in bed when I realised how bad my relationship with my +friend was.",4 +"We had promised, with a friend of mine, to take our friends to a +restaurant and after having looked for a place for hours without +finding one, and not being helped by the others we had to give up +the idea.",5 +"I was talking to a friend of mine about our parents and +education. I said something and then realized that I did not +know my friend's parents, their motives and education. I felt +ashamed at having talked about something I did not know anything +about.",2 +"I was emotionally happy when I was in love with the girl I had +longed for.",1 +"I took my father's car to church one Sunday (I told them that's +where I was going ) I decided instead to go for a drive to the +beach - on the way I got a puncture.",5 +When in my childhood we were forced to take cod-liver oil.,0 +"When I qualified for form I. I was one of the three pupils who +qualified for form I that year.",1 +"Some times I was ashamed of presenting seminaries or even to +speak in class.",2 +"Describing to mother how a hole in the wall had appeared while I +was babysitting.",5 +"When they broke the artistic work of several weeks. Changes were +made and it was broken without permission, they had no right to +do this.",3 +"I feel sadness from the fact that I was not born with a better +appearance.",4 +"I took the tram without paying. There were many people around me +when I was caught by a controller. I felt ashamed but also angry.",2 +"I felt shame at the hurt I caused to my family especially my +parent father, shame of hurting people emotionally. A misconceived +self-blaming that didn't do me any good. Shame at being myself as +I am.",2 +"When my 2 year old son climbed up and sat on the 7th floor +balcony with his legs hanging out. He was holding on tightly to +the upper railing of the balcony but he could have easily lost +his balance when he sat down.",6 +Fighting with class mates in Highschool.,6 +"One day, when I realized that I was alone, I felt fear of +loneliness.",6 +Forgot to turn up on prescribed day for jury service.,5 +"My sister was in coma for 3 months (due to a train accident). Now +her brainfunctions are disturbed. She will never be able to walk +and she can hardly talk.",4 +"During lectures, I sensed an unexpressed understanding with a boy +I did not know. We exchange glances ; I think he likes me, and I +like him too. Perhaps he has fallen in love with me .........",1 +"I was fearful when I realised that the relish was overcooked +simply because I was not keen enough at checking whether there +was still enough water in the relish or not, instead I was just +playing with my friends.",6 +When I passed my final examination at school.,1 +"When I was selected to start Form I at Chilumba Secondary School +out of the 100 pupils I was among the 4 who were successful. +Family History showed that I had done better than all my brothers +who had passed after repeating for several times.",1 +"Argument with roommate over a lock he had put on kitchen cupboard +without telling anyone.",3 +When a friend of me came for an unexpected visit.,1 +Slept with someone close to my girlfriend and myself.,5 +"My father died 4 years ago, 18 months after my mother died. I +feld my sister was responsible for his death, in that she ""hadn't +loved him"". I felt ashamed for myself, and for my family.",2 +"When my husband and I decided to take a few days holiday after a +particularly trying period.",1 +"The death of my father made me feel quite guilty, because my +attitude towards him had been cold and indifferent.",5 +"When I hadn't learnt my lesson and I asked the teacher to give me +""a three"" and he agreed but even he felt quite awkward. +NB: In Bulgarian schools ""a three"" is the second worst mark.",2 +"Disgust with myself for consistently making foolish errors in +communicating with others (asking for 1/2 Kg of nuts when I only +wanted 50 g).",0 +"When I passed the B.A exams and my parents allowed me to carry on +my studies and do a M.A. , I was very happy.",1 +I was attacked by a man at a bus stop at night.,6 +"After having at last finished my master's thesis, I felt great +joy and relief. I had been haunted by the thesis during the +whole of my studies.",1 +Seeing a person panhandling money on Telegraph.,0 +"Reading a letter from a close friend who said he missed me and +cared for me.",1 +"I feel this emotion very often when I try to express my feelings +in public, because other people do not understand my reactions +and think that I am silly. ",2 +"When I tried to hide a fact from a person for irrelevant reasons +and considered such an attitude childish.",2 +When I forgot the lines of the play during an orientation camp.,6 +The breaking up of a long lasting relationship.,4 +"When some unforgiving acquaintance dragged up an old and rather +embarassing situation from my past.",2 +"I used to play with a group of classmates and I found out later +that they were cheap in thought, behaviour and conduct - they +would smoke, fight and speak foul language. I thought that they +destroyed the image of college students.",0 +When I get home late my father scolds me and this makes me angry.,3 +"I went to bed with a girl and the next day she thought it was the +start of something serious and I just thought it was fun and I +told her I wasn't interested in starting a serious relationship.",2 +"Physically fighting with my girlfriend because she just walked +out of a room of my friends and had pushed and cursed at me when +I went to find her.",3 +"When I had to walk home from the bus-stop in a skirt that I had +soiled. It drew a lot of attention and they all seemed to want +to see the blood stains.",2 +Risk of being involved in a fight after a party.,6 +"When I was involved in a car accident last November, after the +first fall of snow. I lost control of the car and it spun round +and landed on the opposite side of the road, on the hard +shoulder. It was stopped by a pole on top of a bank sloping down +to a stream.",6 +Stealing from my mother's purse when I was a little boy.,2 +"Seeing a friend ""making love"" to a high school girl. I +accidentally was dragged into this room where the happenings had +occurred. I was disgusted at the reality.",0 +Waking in morning (early morning) and having whole day to myself.,1 +"When the N.Z. rugby union announced that they would proceed with +a rugby tour of South Africa.",0 +"The day I learnt that my girlfriend had been going around with a +close friend of mine.",2 +"On a holiday in France I made a walk in the woods all alone and +very relaxed. Then a motorbike took me over and I saw the man +watching all the time. Suddenly the man stood behing me and I ran +away fast.",6 +Meeting a loved man.,1 +"When I heard that my girlfriend was getting married to another +person, I felt very sad. That day I did not eat anything and +kept thinking of her all day long.",4 +"This was when one of the Clinical officers scolded us in the +hospital on how to make beds but we did not deserve to be +scolded.",2 +" I was at a friend's place for lunch and she fell ill and +vomited.",0 +When my mother interfered in my life.,3 +When I took away my best friend's boyfriend.,5 +"Last academic year I received bad news - my grand-uncle had +passed away. I felt lonely and bad because apart from the +biological ties, he was a good old friend of mine at home.",4 +"I was supposed to be studying for my math midterm a few days ago, +however, I fooled around with my roommate, and didn't start +studying until 12:00 am. I was disgusted with myself.",0 +Negative statement concerning me of a friend before strangers.,0 +"When I went to the pub with a large group of friends, we drank +and danced.",1 +"It was my turn to cook dinner. I forgot a dish (the favourite of +the family) in the oven and it got burnt and was uneatable.",5 + The smell of garlic in rush-hour bus.,0 +When I fell down.,2 +"I was disgusted with a friend's behaviour when she got absolutely +drunk so that she vomitted all over my house.",0 +"We had a day off from school. Instead of helping my mother with +her job, I stayed in bed all day.",5 +"Last course, when I passed with good marks three subjects which I had +previously failed.",1 +"A situation where we were the center of attention, and things +happened without my control on them, that showed our disagreement, +and ignorance.",2 +When I offend somebody unfairly.,5 +"I felt joy most strongly some years ago, when I took part in a +NH Competition and I was the first.",1 +"When my younger sister visited me during the school holidays and +told me that she would not go back to school because she was +pregnant.",0 +"It was spring and the ice was melting. I was far out on a jetty and I poked the ice with a long branch to try and break it. + The branch went through the ice and I fell in, the water closed +in over my head.",6 +"When my ex-husband left our house, and the children cried because +he was not coming back.",5 +When my mother left for Kenya.,4 +After having taken an exam i feared having failed it.,6 +"Once I was very frightened at night as I had a very fearful and +terrifying dream, I could not go back to sleep for a long time.",6 +"I have a girlfriend, who is almost like a daughter to me. She is +studying out of station and I get to see her only once a year. +Her arrival is always a joyous one.",1 +"One day, when I was twelve years old, my brother took some slimy +substance swimming on the surface of a pot of vinegar made of +cider and threatened to throw it at me.",0 +A friend started to shout at me. He called me an old frump.,3 +"In a conversation my boyfriend expressed definite and quite +pretentious opinions and he took up an attitude towards a theory +which he himself had never known. His information was from +fortuitous sources.",3 +"I was catched when, as a little girl, I played tricks. I was very +startled then and wet my pants.",2 +"The hero was chased by a terrible vampire in a suspense and +horror film shown on T.V.",6 +"When I heard that I had passed my final examination at school +(with success).",1 +"I chatted up with a girl who I didn't love. She however was +fallen in love with me. I felt responsible for her sorrow.",5 +"When my first sexual intercourse turned out to be a flop. I was +in a panic and ended up without an erection.",2 +"I had a test in the class and I had not adequately prepared +myself. I didn't fare so well on the exam and I felt bad about +it.",2 +"My father's death in January 1983 moved me deeply. The gloom +prevailed for almost two years and I am still to recover from it.",4 +"I had not seen my brother for five years as he was not in Spain. +When he arrived at the airport, I felt great joy.",1 +"I was in a very small class and the professor said something +about me that made everyone look at me at the same time.",2 +"I felt happy at the end of a 10 day student camp. We had shared +our hopes and aspirations and in the open situation so generated, we +had made strong frienships and experienced our own worth as well. + ",1 +Watching Muldoon act as my P.M.,2 +"When I met a friend whom I had not seen for a long time and +heard all about her troubles, I thought that I should have got +in touch with her earlier.",2 +"When my father had a serious fight with my sister, because of me.",5 +Before going to the dentist.,6 +Misunderstood deliberately by a close friend.,4 +"Several years ago my brother died in an accident. When I heard +about it, I was very sad. It took years until I resigned myself +to it.",4 +"Going home alone through the forest after a girl guide (scout ?) +meeting.",6 +One of my pupils escaped from school to the street.,5 +"I was told quite unexpectedly that one wanted me to become the +vice-chairman of our student organisation. I was really +surprised and joy was the first emotion I felt, though behind it +there was worry - how shall I succeed ?",1 +"At my father's treatment of my mother, at his disregard for her, +and not being committed to her.",3 +I got a very good grade on one of my midterms a few weeks ago.,1 +"When I lied to my girlfriend, telling her that I had passed an +exam, when I actually did not even take it.",2 +"The day I was forced to use a public convenience place in town. +It was so filthy that it really made me sick.",0 +"A co-worker and I had to rush a project. I was only working there +for one month and he for some years. Instead of letting me know +that he wanted to do the project himself, he went to the +superviser and let the superviser tell me to let the co-worker do +it himself since he was quicker at it.",3 +When money was stolen from my pocket.,2 +"When I made acquaintance with the parents of my boyfriend for the +first time. They spoke Limburgian (a dutch dialect) and one of my +first remarks was that I disliked Limburgian dialect.",2 +When I fell head on in a fountain.,2 +"Angry with my brother, who was making fun of me, teasing me.",3 +"Waiting for a taxi - when within 1/2 an hour two separate people +challenged me to fight for no apparent reason except they were +drunk.",6 +"Many years ago a friend wanted me to with her to southern Europe +and I preferred to travel alone. I felt guilty because I wanted +to go on my own.",5 +"I met three drunk boys, almost children, they didn't look like +normal people.",0 +I received a letter from a friend whom I was missing,1 +"The more than satisfactory result of a recently-completed +university subject was communicated to me by phone.",1 +"When we were going to Nkhoma last Saturday the vehicle was moving +very fast, so I feared we might crash since the road was too +rough.",6 +"News was spread that I had been found doing sexual intercourse +with a small girl. At first this annoyed me but later on I became +ashamed because many people seemed to believe it.",2 +"Some people whom I do not like at all, and one of the reasons is +their physical appearance.",0 +"The time I shouted at most of my friends at a party. It was as if + all my friends had done something wrong, or may be it was the +influence of the beer.",2 +When I was a school girl and I copied at a class work.,2 +"When they found out that I was absent from school, I had gone to +the girl's secondary school.",5 +"I suddenly found that those whom I considerered to be my good +friends did not care for me. Although I could still be with them +I felt unimportant. I deeply thought about the reason behind +this so as to see who was responsible for this. Finally I made +up my mind and decided not to expect too much from them. I was +sad when I decided that they were no longer my good friends.",4 +"I was ashamed one day when we were found stealing and roasting +maize cobs from Agricultural experimental projects.",2 +"When I have sometimes been unfair to my parents, when I have +happened to deceive them over some trifling things.",5 +"Finding out some people had been talking about me at my back. +",0 +"I was at the table at a French friend's house. They served me a +big dish with roast cauliflower and sauce. I had to eat it. ",0 +"My mother had sent me to buy a few things. The change I brought +back was not right as I had given away some money to a friend +thinking that she would not notice it. However, my mother told +me that the change was not correct.",5 +"A friend told me about his cousin who is my girlfriend. He said +she had treated him in a mean and nasty way. I was surprised +because in front of other people she had always treated him in a +friendly way. I am very sad about it.",4 +"When I lost my father on the 25th of September,1970. He died of +a sore on the leg.",4 +"My boyfriend finished our relationship when I started studying +psychology in Nijegen, because then we would not be able to meet +frequently anymore.",4 +Watching suffering in Third World country.,4 +"When my parents and sister went on a trip and I was separated +from them for about three months.",4 +"[ No answer as I see very little difference between shame and +guilt. Therefore see answer for ""shame"".]",5 +"A close relative of mine underwent a difficult operation, and everything +turned out fine.",1 +"At a weekend's seminar my trousers suddenly burst, therefore I was +prevented from participating in several activities.",2 +"When I blamed my failure to the bias and favouritism in the +marking system, in fact I had not worked hard enough.",2 +"Walking on the street passing by an air duct, my skirt went up.",2 +"Sometime back I used to stay with my mum alone then time came +when dad joined the family from his working place I found myself +having fear for him for no cause at all.",6 +"My failure to provide the appropriate emotional/spiritual level +to a sexual relationship that had a large physical content. Born +out of inconsistency with my personal beliefs and value shame at +largely using this sexual partner.",2 +"Recently, some friends and I had too much to drink while on a +foot-ball road trip to USC. We trashed our hotel room and I felt +ashamed when the maid walked in the next morning.",2 +"I had a friend who I didn't see for a long time. We had a +relationship from much union and interaction. It was more that +one year that I didn't see her. She appeared in my home and we +talked.",1 +"I am a kindergarten teacher and I am thoroughly weary of my job. +After having taken the university entrance exam I suffered from +anxiety for weeks as I did not want to carry on with my work - studies +were the only alternative. ",6 +"Many times, when my father used to come home drunk and maltreated +physically me and my mother.",0 +"A day I was with my boyfriend and a couple of friends in a bar, +and he said something that I didn't like (I don't remember what). +Without thinking I slept him in his back, getting ashamed and +sorry just after.",2 +"When I asked my classmate to teach me to do my homework, he asked +me to study by myself first but I did not do it. When he asked me + if I had studied, I felt very ashamed. ",2 +"I was very pleased and happy when my older sister came home from +living somewhere out of town and I hadn't seen her for months. We +are very close sisters.",1 +"When I saw an accident, a woman was run over and she died on the +spot.",6 +"I saw a drunk man tottering behind his wife and insulting her +awfully.",0 +"Someone told me that he would stay at my home for one night. +Therefore I made big efforts to make everything ok (food). One day +before he cancelled the appointment because he had to go to +church with his parents.",3 +"When I broke the piggy bank of my brother and my mother +discovered that.",2 +"When I decided to move away from my parent's home, my mother told +me that it was as if a part of her had been torn out of her.",5 +I'd just got the top mark in an exam.,1 +"I shared a secret with a friend and it later turned out that he +had revealed it to another person with whom I didn't get along very well.",3 +"My friend had many female friends and I thought that they were +his lovers. I would scold him but he did not accept my advice. +Later I learnt from his girlfriends that this was not true. I +felt ashamed at having misunderstood him.",2 +When my friends were rude to a girl. ,2 +When I was bringing in the shopping and nearly stood on a snake.,6 +"When I heard a rumour that the 1st year exam results were out. I +had fear that I might be one of the failures.",6 +When planning to marry.,1 +"I was watching a movie alone - it was a horror movie. The music +was a deep pulsing type - not really music. And a light flashed +on and off. It was in the complete darkness of a movie theatre +that was almost empty.",6 +When i was asked to be a child's godmother.,1 +Slaughtering of animals.,0 +"When I take a look into a slaughter-house and when listening to +stories about torturing people or animals.",0 +"Recently when I made a slip and blurted out indecent words in my +mother's presence.",5 +"I had a quarrel with a good friend about the fact that I didn't +pay her a visit when she expected me to come. Hereafter I was +very sad because it became a real quarrel.",4 +When our dog died.,4 +"When I was an evening school teacher it was my job to make the +coffee but I was not able to get the coffee ready on time and I +thus arrived half an hour late to the class. On top of this the +coffee was undrinkable.",2 +This happens to me when I am not prepared in a given subject.,2 +"After going through much shame, I became a Christian and +something new happened in my heart. Joy that overflows was +manifest in me.",1 +When my beloved girlfriend got married to another person.,4 +"When I received some good news : I obtained an amount of money I +needed to buy something I had been planning to buy.",1 +When my parents insisted that I take up a teaching career.,0 +"When I had crossed Lilongwe forest I heard that there was a rabid +hyena just near the path in the forest.",6 +"I saw a movie called ""The Thing"", the film directed by John +Carpenter. The monster in the film made me feel disgusted.",0 +"Whenever I am late, I feel ashamed of myself even though no one +tells me anything.",2 +"The emotion came to me when a certain girl who was not polite to +her mother hit her sister severely.",0 +"When I failed one of the tests because I had not worked hard +enough.",2 +The loss of the woman who loved me most till today.,4 +When I first saw a person begging.,3 +"Some friends and I were crossing a street when one of my friends +was seized by a car and thrown aside. I had seen the car coming +in our direction but I did not have enough time to react and +prevent the accident.",6 +"I slammed my little brother into a wall because he was bothering +me.",5 +"When a big angry dog put its snout on my arm and had I made one +movement it would have bitten me.",6 +"An encounter with a man whom I love, after a very long +separation.",1 +"I was happy when I understood that the girl I liked was in love +with me.",1 +"I was to take a test and I had not made the necessary preparations +until it was too late. There were two days to go and I still had +not done much.",5 +"Finding out that my grandfather had died. He lived in England and +I had not seen him for 10 years.",4 +"One night I had to bike home all alone after a party. Then I +found out that I was pursued by a man in a car.",6 +"When I got lost in New York city a late friday night with a +friend of mine.",6 +"I feel disgust with some people when I see what they are capable +of, including lack of any dignity, when trying to find a seat in +the tram.",0 +"When last year in college I received the award ""Best Student of the Year"", + I felt very happy as I got what I had wanted and my wish had +been fulfilled. +",1 +"I went to see a friend. There were other people, too, and +everybody brought some present. I was the onlyone who brought +nothing. My friend was very hospitable and did not show anything +- although I knew how he felt.",2 +"I had a quarrel with my father. He was depressed, because +somebody had treated him injustly. As we had an argument, it was +impossible for me to help him.",5 +"When I wasn't well prepared for a terminal exam and the teacher +tried to give me a three by asking me some very easy questions. I +burned with shame then.",2 +When my brother was very late in arriving home from work.,6 +"A relative, whom I like very much, left for the United States.",4 +"When I was 8 years old my tonsils had to be operated on. This is +not a complicated operation, but just before it started I was +very afraid so that I will never forget it.",6 +The passing away of my mum.,4 +"When I was an auxiliary nurse at the hospital and I had to change +the nappies, for the first time, of a very old and sick woman.",0 +"When the Real Madrid football team lost against the inter in the +U.E.F.A cup.",3 +"I borrowed money from a friend and did not pay back the debt when +I said I would.",5 +"I was wearing a short skirt one day and someone told me my +underwear was showing.",2 +"When I embarrassed a friend by asking him aloud if a certain +person was ""the source of gossip"" he told me about, while that +person was also present.",2 +"The end of a relationship (after 4 years) by doing this I hurt +the other person very much.",4 +"I insulted the girl to whom I had proposed when she turned me +down.",2 +"I was admited to the Chinese university of Hong Kong. The day +the results were announced I looked in the newspaper and saw my +candidature number.",1 +"When I began to read a thick book, which I had a limited time to +read. Also when I have a lot of work to do and I cannot keep up.",4 +When I was mistreated by my step-mother.,3 +"When I got through the examination for my driver licence, and +when I finished I knew I had passed it.",1 +"When I gave in to what my wife wanted and locked the cat out, it +was killed by the dogs.",5 +"I felt disgusted when I found out that someone had betrayed me. +That person had been dishonest with me and I felt used.",0 +"I felt angry when repeated pleas to the ticket collector and the +co-passengers in order to make a queue fell on deaf ears. I have +this feeling whenever someone is not disciplined and methodic in +doing his duty.",3 +My trouser's zipper was open when I was at a public wedding.,3 +"Suddenly found out that I was the lasr one to leave the anatomy +room.",6 +"When I won the ""Under 18"" Showjumping at the Brookfield Show. The +competition was very stiff and there were many riders competing.",1 +Death of my father.,4 +I received a letter form home telling me that my sister was very sick.,4 +Article published.,1 +I caught a close relative with the servant of the house.,5 +"During carnaval I danced for a few minutes normally I don't dance +because I am rigid in my moving around during a dance, I stopped +very soon.",2 +Finding out that my best friend was deceiving me.,3 +"I bacame involved with a boy for a very brief moment not because +I liked him but because I needed some sort of company. The +consequences weren't as I expected and caused me much shame.",2 +"After a courtship of three months I made an end to it. The boy +was very sad about this.",5 +"Adultery with the girlfriend of a friend of mine, of which he +learned.",2 +"I was disgusted with the behaviour of one of my fellow students +during my Secondary School life. He was a habitual noise-maker +and caused great conflicts with the teachers.",0 +When they changed my office to another room without my agreement.,3 +"When I made up with a girl-friend of mine after having been on +unfriendly terms with her (my fault). I cried with joy that +evening.",1 +"When I was teasing a girl, who turned out to be my brother's +dame.",2 +"My sweatheart were away on a trip, and then she got problems.",4 +"I had made an appointment with three friends. We had to go out +together. When I arrived at the place, the other persons weren't +there. I became very angry because I thought they were gone +without me. That, however, didn't appear to be the case.",3 +To say goodbye to dear friends after the holidays.,4 +[ When I do not get any co-operation from my friends/partners.],3 +"Last semester when I dated a girl whom I've known for almost a +year. However one night she said she wanted us to be ""just +friends"". I confided this to a friend Jim I was really suffering. +A month or two later he broke up with his old girlfriend and they +started going out regularly. I have no girlfriend nor have I had +a romantic relationship of any significance. I feel some anger +but we are friends again.",3 +"When I shirked the gymnastic lesson I met the director of our +school who asked me what I was doing.",5 +"A girl whom I trusted and with whom I had shared personal, confidential +matters twisted the facts and told it to a common friend of ours. + When this common friend told me the version my friend had told +her, I was angry.",3 +Having been angry and unpleasant towards my parents.,5 +"I had been in love with a certain young man who pretended to love +me but one day I found out that he had another girlfriend who was +also a friend of mine.",3 +"To be able to prepare myself better for an important examination, +I did not spend the nitht with my girl-friend but in the +students' hostel. I had not done that for months. The day when I +had the examn, somebody knocked at my door at seven o'clock in +the morning. My girl-friend who likes sleeping late, had come to +be able to be with me.",1 +I felt guilty when I lied to my parents.,5 +"When I lied to my wife and told her that I was going to the +Copperbelt on a buisness trip, she later found me in a hotel with +a girlfriend.",2 +"Meddlesomeness of my mother about the way I live. She thinks I am +to free in my behavior for instance when a boyfriend stays the +night.",3 +"One of my good friends had to migrate to America. Our friendship +had developed quite well and it was a pity as our friendship would +fade.",4 +"A man tried to have sexual intercourse with me, though I had +communicated my unwillingness. Later on, I felt disgust at that +person as well as myself because I had partly submitted.",0 +When I received my promotion letter.,1 +[ Laziness makes one sad.],4 +I had worries about a certain illness.,6 +"The day I decided to get out of my house I saw in my brother's +eyes that they blamed me for the situaiton.",5 +"I was in a train where a fight occurred. One person who was there +opened his handbag and took out a gun, another who fought too +looked among his things for a weapon to fight.",6 +"I liked a boy and I would feel shy and then blush. The more I +wanted to avoid it the more I blushed.",2 +When I failed the grade seven exams.,2 +"Having gone to school without learning anything, as usual.",3 +"When after having had sexual intercourse with a friend, I thought +that he had told about it to a friend of his.",2 +"A person I really like left for overseas for a few months, I had +hoped to go out with her soon.",4 +"I was very drunk at a certain wedding party and I got involved in +a fight.",2 +"I was travelling, we were 15 person, one of them I met at the +travel and didn't like her. One night I was asleep while she and +her friends were talking too loud in the kitchen. I got up to ask for +silence and since that day I felt constant disgust for her.",0 +"Two days after the above incident, I was thinking about my +morally shameful act and I felt sorry for that incident, but it +was too late, however I did realize this.",5 +After my father died suddenly of a heart attack.,4 +"Walking through campus at night a squirrel jumped in front of +me.",6 +"When I had achieved a goal indirectly. I work for CAL Football +and our 2nd win of the season was very gratifying and brought +our joy because of the hard work involved and the fact that no +one expected we would win.",1 +Reading a nice book and talking about it to my friend.,1 +"I took part in a football match. The referee was extremely +partial to the opposite team. This stirred up my discontent and +anger.",3 +"When I came for the lesson, it was cancelled and I had to fill in +a questionnaire instead.",3 +"My grandfather died, I went to the mortuary and saw the corpse.",4 +"When I was a child, I fell into a cellar (when playing) and could +be freed only with big difficulties.",6 +"A meeting and a conversation with a woman (somewhat elder than +me) who considers me as her child (she also has one child of her +own). Last two years I lived with her (no relationship).",1 +"I came across a blind man sitting in one of the corridors and +asking for money, though I had some money I did not give him +anything.",5 +"I was looking after my cousin's little daughter; she fell down, +was slightly injured and cried vociferously.",5 +When I had an anticipatory honey-moon with my fiancTe.,1 +"When I was offered a place in the university as a full time +student.",1 +"Before one of my final exams of the third year - natural +sciences.",6 +"A study visit to a chicken factory : the butchery, the smell, +the environment and the noise.",0 +"When a kid dropped my father's radio cassette player, which he +had just repaired.",3 +"A and I were walking along the new Asia stairway to the Chung Chi +college for our lecture and I saw him with her. He put one arm +around her shoulder and laugher brightly and joyfully. I did not +dare and did not want to look, just walked by them quickly. The +interest of talking to A disappeared and I just wanted to remain +silent. But I did not want A to know and so I left him and went +to F. I should have expected this to happen.",4 +"I had fixed a meeting with my classmates and I missed it as I was +tired. Besides everyone at the meeting was a stranger to me and +I did not want to make friends with them. Whatever the reasons - I +felt guilty.",5 +"One night I saw a man being knocked down by two other men. The +victim was kicked against his head.",0 +"I caught a ""peeping tom"" at my window when I was getting +undressed.",3 +"A few weeks back I received a Christmas card from a friend in +England. She had not written to me in a very long time but it +showed that she still remembered me.",1 +"When Wayne and Sue (close friends) were announced our guardians +at ther wedding.",1 +"The day my parents were involved in a car accident and had to be +operated and before the operation the doctor said that it was +mater of life or death.",6 +"I was afraid when I learnt that my father was seriously ill in +hospital.",6 +"My mother did not come home till late at night (Ages ago). Anyway +if I don't know where my parents are and when they'll be back I +start thinking that perhaps they have had an accident and are +perhaps dead.",6 +"I awoke at night and did not remember dreaming about antthing in +particular. I just felt oppressing fear, it was dark and all the +others were sleeping.",6 +"When I saw a film in which there was a scene where women were cut +to pieces. Above all, it was the blood and the confusion which +impressed me most.",0 +"When my boyfriend said he did not want to see me anymore (which +turned out to be untrue).",4 +"Estrangement from my best woman friend. We have been going +different ways for quite some time now, but the break was total +when she got married as her husband is unreasonably jealous of me.",4 +Suddenly met someone in the biology building at night.,6 +A lie on the part of a person close to me.,0 +Being looked at by someone I do not like.,0 +Passed an exam by 2 points.,1 +"When I failed the grade 7 twice and only passed it the third +time.",0 +"When I lost my study grant without having attended any exam in +the career I had started, and it was too late to cancel my registration.",5 +When my brother (5th in the family) passed away.,4 +"Walking home at night after university - part of the way, there +are ano lights and I am walking down a thoroughfare with the +thouth of no one hearing me if I have to scream.",6 +"I heard that a former superior of mine had died, I was later at +home home reading about it in the newspaper and I thought of our +interaction and how it was no longer possible. The limited scope +of human life is sad.",4 +"Once my presentation was the worst among my classmates as I had +not prepared it well and had not seen it as important. My +presentation was so confused that it clearly showed my poor +preparation.",2 +"My neighbour was not able to set his car in motion because it had +snowed heavily. I helped him - he was thankful and invited me.",1 +"At an examination I got a bad mark just because of a small +mistake. When I went to the lector and wanted to talk about that, +he did not listen to me but sent me away.",3 +"When a boy had continued to use foul language and swearing in +front of a group of my friends.",0 +"Someone who always took care for the key of the sportshall stayed +away without letting us know. Next time he did as if nothing had +happened.",3 +"When I was told that the brother who was staying with me would +not go to the training school that year but only the year after.",0 +Never really had the experience just yet - N/A.,3 +"When I was parking my car I was not cautious and bumped into +another car. I caused considerable damage. The driver of the +other car was very angry and I let him insult me because I felt +guilty.",5 +"I was spending my summer holidays in a village. My friend and I +were coming back from a discotheque at night and we heard a noise +from an alley. We were very scared and we got into my friend's house. + A moment later, an unknown car picked up a person from this +alley.",6 +"Felt sad about some street kids in QUEII square, Aotea square. +Because they had been sniffing glue and some were very young. I +went into the role of a performing clown.",4 +When I could study at university.,1 +"When I saw my 16 year old sister at home after having waited for +her all night, not knowing where she was.",1 +The death of my grandfather.,4 +"One day when I was a little boy, my friends asked me to play +with them outside and to catch some boys. However our parents +did not know that we were out and when I got home it was very +late and I feared being scolded by my parents.",6 +"My uncle was taken to the UTC for an operation as he had cancer. +There had been a lot of deaths of late - 3 out of every 4 +operated. I was scared for my uncle's life.",6 +"This was when I found out that a cousin of mine had taken away my +trousers without my consent.",3 +"A girl who also hires a room in the house where I live always +tries to make a quarrel with everyone available she disgusts me.",0 +"One year, when I went to a camp, I was chased by a dog. I tried +hard and finally managed to escape from it. My torch suddenly +went off and we talked about ghost stories and I thought that +there were ghosts.",6 +"One night we were having a barbecue on the beach and I needed to +go to my car, which was far away from the beach. It was very +dark as there were no street lamps. I ran in the dark, very +scared, I ran as fast as possible.",6 +"Housesitting and hearing the alarm go off. I knew someone had to +be breaking in. I called the police and was panicking while on +the phone. It was awful. It turns out that I stepped on the +hidden alarm without prior knowledge of its existance.",6 +At an unjust insult or injure.,4 +Treatment to become pregnant with a negative result.,4 +[ No description.],3 +"When I was giving private tutorials to my student; he would not +concentrate and was lazy. He had not done the home work that I +had assigned and his academic level was very low. It was a +nuisance.",0 +"I was very happy when I got the message that I had been accepted +as a student in medicine.",1 +"When I heard that my sister had shouted at my friend's cousin at +their place.",0 +"There is a boy who I love very much. I asked him to have dinner +with me, but he refused I don't know why he didn't go with me, +but I felt very lonely.",4 +"I was skiing with friends and they wanted to ski-jump. I did not +want to be left behind, so I braced myself and followed them.",6 +"When I was substituted in a play which was to be staged, after I +had learnt all the lines.",0 +"At the sight of an insect, such as the black-beetle.",0 +Teacher suspected me stealing money.,2 +When I found out the CIA was mining Nicaraguan harbors.,0 +"My cut was run over by a car. After searching for a long time I +found her lying in a kerb. I was rather shocked and angry with +the driver.",4 +"I felt joy when I came to know Christ. That is when I became a +Christian.",1 +"My joy was the joy of meeting again. My husband came home after +having been away for weeks (for work). I was on the railway +station to meet him.",1 +"I heard somebody talk about studies in a highly enthusiastic +""student-like"" way.",0 +"I was ashamed of the way I deceived that I could not help a +friend, although it was absolutely possible for me. Nothing was +revealed but I haven't called up this person since then.",2 +"The serving lady in the students' dining hall shouting at +studennts.",0 +"I was working in I. when a friend of mine borrowed his car so I +could get bach there, I had to come to S.Paulo and his car was +here. He said :""When you get the car tell my mother that you are +only taking the car bacause I asked, for she doesn't like me to +borrow it"". Next day he borrowed me it again for I had to come +back again. When I was coming back I crashed the car quite a lot. +One of the first person I met at the accident was his mother, +that said to me ""You weren't to take the car only yesterday ?"" +(before I saw her I was already ashamed).",2 +"When I realized that I avoided two good friends with whom I +always shared toys and sorrows. I made up idle stories to avoid +telling them what happened to me.",5 +"When the neighbour of a friend of mine was stabbed to death by +thieves in Kabwe. They stole his van.",4 +"At boarding school someone put a lot of tiny thorns on my bed. +When I complained everybody began teasing me and laughing at my +inability to find out my enemies. I lost my temper.",3 +"One time at the hospital I passed near the intensive care room. +The offensive smell that came out disgusted me in such a way that +I didn't even dare to enter the room.",0 +"This feeling occurred to me when my colleague entered in G.V. +(University) and I didn't.",3 +"In neglecting some work that had to be done around the house and +telling my roommate I would get it done.",5 +"Small car accident. Black ice on the road - cars in front of us +started zig-zagging and so did we. Car in front did a 180¦ turn we +followed and ended up in a gully.",6 +"An unjust refree decision at a sports event when I was the team +leader.",3 +"I loved a person and he went away. It wasn't necessary that he +left me to reach his goals.",3 +"I was disgusted at the behavior of these boys I work with in the +scouting program. They showed a lack of interest, unrest, and at +times just plain rude behavior.",0 +"I read a newspaper article about dogs being stolen in order to +use them for fighting purposes.",0 +"Being sexually assulted on a bus and noone helped (people only +laughed).",3 +"When my best friend died, at the age of 16.",4 +"When I go out with my friend with enough money and good sense to +our favorite dancing.",1 +"When a girl I wanted very much, said ""yes"" and fell in love with +me.",1 +"After making an effort to enter at University I found a course +and a school of higher education which were compatible with my +experience and potentiality.",1 +Getting lost in a strange place.,6 +I was very happy when I passed the B.A with first class marks.,1 +When I noticed the negative changes in a friend's behaviour. ,5 +"There was a time when I did not get on well with my sister. I +always grumbled at her and said bad things about her to my +mother. So my mother always scolded her.",5 +"I felt disgust when I saw a drunkard vomiting very offensive +matter.",0 +"My love and me rented a room in a hotel one evening. We stayed +there a few hours and when leaving the hotel, I felt ashamed.",2 +"In 1982, I was annoyed at an uncle who was drunk and was beating +up his old father. He claimed that the father was responsible +for his guardian's failure.",3 +"This was when my boyfriend told me that I was double-crossing him +with a certain boy.",3 +"An acquaintance of mine revealed himself in a light unexpected to +me.",0 +"I had to take care of the plants of a friend of mine for several +weeks. I watered them, but let them stand in a cold room so that +two of them perished.",5 +"When I have seen people very drunk and making fools of +themselves.",0 +"I felt this emotion when my name was announced on the radio that +I had been selected to come to Lilongwe School for Health +Sciences to take a training course as a Medical Assistat.",1 +"Out of sheer curiosity, I went to see a pornographic movie in +Copenhagen. The room was full of men, who panted and +masturbated. Very disgusting.",0 +"One day, I was alone on duty when a patient choked while eating. +I ran to her and tried to make her breath, but it was too late.",5 +"I felt anger when at the end of a telephone call, a good friend +told me that she would go to travel next year with another good +friend. We couldn't talk this out.",3 +"I thought that someone was angry with me but, by hindsight, that +didn't appear to be the case, he even liked me.",1 +"I was walking home one night (after getting a bus to my town) +when I was confronted by a group of males (about 6), they would +not let me pass - they made comments etc. - I crossed the road +and hurried home.",6 +At the hypocrisy of some of my friends.,0 +"In school I had difficulties mith mathematics. When I had to work +for an examination, I really felt disgusted.",0 +"The day I woke up to find that a kitten I had wanted to keep had +been eaten by the neighbour's dogs. It had been locked out by my +wife who claimed that it had dirtied the sheets.",4 +"A late Saturday night I found myself locked in the central +underground station of Stockholm with a group of 50 hard rockers +who were drunk and equipped with various kinds of chains, etc.",6 +"This was when I was discovered stealing a piece of bread at home, +I was very hungry a few hours before supper.",2 +"A man kept a seat taken by putting his coat on it after a while +the chair was still empty, I asked him if I could use the chair, +he didn't agree for the chair was for his coat.",3 +"When I did not find the rack used for beating up rugs, in the +yard.",3 +Reunion with my wife after a legal separation.,1 +"My parents didn't allow me to go to a social function that all my +friends were attending.",3 +"When I saw a documentary film about World War II (about Hitler +and his adepts).",0 +Finding out that I have misunderstood other people.,5 +I haven't often felt this feeling. Once someone stole my garment.,3 +"I was to meet a girl in a discotheque. She was very pretty and I +was very happy. But she did not turn up. Thank God, there were +some other friends there and I was able to have a more or less +good time.",4 +"Once my friend and I got into into a hot discussion on a very +controversial topic. At one point of the argument I disagreed +with her totally and I took what she was saying as an insult. So +I couter-argued and unknowingly hurt her emotionally, I felt very +sad about this.",4 +"I told my friend something confidential which was supposed to +remain between the two of us. The next thing that happened was +that a girl who is not even close to us came laughing and askad +me to tell her about it. I was very angry with my friend as I +had trusted her.",3 +"I was forced to stay in the canteen and eat the food that I had +not asked for but got it anyway.",0 +"When I used an adjective for a person without knowing what it +meant. When I got to know the meaning, I felt guilty as it was +a clear and unfair insult.",5 +"During the first year in university I had bad results in both +the terms, especially the first term. I was afraid that I would +not be promoted to the next year and that the others would go +ahead of me.",6 +"Not having owned up to the responsibility an incident where +family car received minor damage.",2 +"When my ex-boyfriend didn't want to sleep with me anymore and I +insisted. We made love but he felt very badly and I felt guilty.",5 +"When someone tried to rape one of my best friends and he claimed +it was her fault. He the hassled her, claimed she was loose, and +threatened to sue her.",3 +When my girlfriend left me.,4 +"When I was driving my car, I wanted to pick something from the +floor of the car and drove into the guide-rail. I thought that I +should not have done that and felt guilty.",5 +"When mother was very ill, I feared that she would die.",6 +"A few days after I had finished the relationship with my +boyfriend, we had a quarrel. Then he hit me. At that moment I +found him disgusting.",0 +People talking in an important lecture.,0 +"This came in when at one time I met a girl who I didn't expect to +fall in love with me. Fortunately I tried my luck and she accepted +my proposal. At the same time she was giving me a lot of money +which was just like a miracle to me.",1 +"I had to take care of a neighbour's child. I did not look after +it all the time and the child fell down and was hurt. I felt +guilty.",5 +When I had my children.,1 +"When I heard the news of the death of my father. It was in the +evening and I was alone all night in my room trying to remember +the face of my father.",4 +"I tried to talk to my parents over the phone, as I wanted to go +home for the week-end and I knew that I would not be able to bear +it. I tried to reduce the gulf and the conflict between us by +talking in order to unite our worlds. Result : hysterical mess, +blinding and blaming.",4 +"In a bus I fell sick and vomitted in a bag. The entire situation +was disgusting in itself.",0 +"After the term exams I happened to meet a person that I respect +and of whom I think very highly. It was nice that although we see +each other rarely he had not forgotten me.",1 +"I came across a girl at the school bus-stop, I had seen her +several friends as she was a friend's friend. However my friend +had never introduced me to her and when she got off the bus I +smiled at her but she did not respond pretending not to have seen +me. Her arrogant behaviour made me sick and angry.",3 +Mugged while on holiday in the U.S.A.,6 +"When I made love with a girl, which I don't really love. However +I know that she loves me.",5 +"When my father and I worked on the house just after he had +recovered from illness, I was rather lazy. This meant that he +had to work hard and was not very well later.",5 +"A friend of mine promised to come with me to the cinema but he +didn't come.",3 +"Once in my work it happened a fight between the person in charge and me. I +got so angry and spoke out everything I felt at the moment.",3 +"Most recently when the chairman at the New Zeeland Rugby Union +announced that the All Blacks' would accept the invitation of +South Africa to play rugby in that country.",3 +"I received a letter from my college telling me that I would not +be allowed to sit for the exams because of my low attendance in +class and the bad experience in the terminal exams.",6 +"I am afraid of my academic results as I will face several +problems. I am scared of my limitations and the unlimited +problems and I do not know how to cope with them.",6 +"I was in love with a girl but had to separate from her because of +different commitments concerning life and career. I loved her as +a person but could not agree with the life the future would +demand. Parting from her was very sad.",4 +"When I was at an official meeting I asked a question to a person. +His response was not directed at me but at the chairman.",3 +"I told a friend that I was going to a party and he would not +enjoy himself if he came along. He understood that he would not +have fitted in and there was something in that.",2 +"Recently a good friend only called me when he needed something. +He never said ""please"" or ""thank you"" or any other kind word.",3 +"I was told by a good friend that we couldn't be friends any more +because of his relationship with another girl.",4 +"We were camping in the mountains, and a friend and I went for a +walk. It was getting darker and darker and we were not sure of +the right way back.",6 +"When another fellow worker decided to leave the company. We had +been very close and we would not be able to work with eachother +any longer.",4 +"A student who lives in the same house where I live is an alcoholic. He +tries to manipulate other people with his money when he has drunk +too much.",0 +"[ I have always been very scared and tense before an exam and +before the declaration of the results.]",6 +"I had been away from home for a long time and when I came home I +was delighted. It was wonderful to see familiar, dear people and +I was rejoycing in advance. I had been feeling very lonely.",1 +When a friend wouldn't speak to me and wouldn't tell me why.,3 +"When I left New York, and all my family and my friends behind me.",4 +When my sister was very ill and was admitted to the hospital.,6 +Finding out China is backward in science.,2 +"Disgust at a girl I know for continually feeling sorry for herself +and never acting positively to do something about her problems.",0 +"I have once been very sad and lonely. This was when I was trying +to organize a play as a student (15 years). Instead of +materializing, it fizzled out. The worst thing was that the play +fell apart completely and I found myself weeping uncontrollably. +Now when I think of it, I laugh it off; but at that time it was +intense.",4 +"A person misinterpreted what I had told her. I had told her that +I had failed to insert a NasoGastric tube but she went and +scolded the patient that she was being uncooperative.",5 +"I was watching a sunset after my latest boyfriend left me and I +realized that we would never watch sunsets again, probaly never +see eachother again and none of it mattered.",4 +"Was confronted with a person having negative thoughts of other +people because of their social status, beliefs, color and +outlook on life (perspective).",0 +"When my father's home was to be broken into by thieves who had +guns.",6 +I helped someone to do something and was found out.,6 +I was called racial slurs behind my back.,3 +"On a dark night I felt that there were several people near me +and I did not know who they were.",6 +"Being away from a very close friend, I was away from Finland +for a year as an exchange student.",4 +A theft committed by me.,2 +I took an exam which I failed terribly as I had not studied.,2 +"When a friend and me played a joke on our boyfriends. Her +boyfriend came up and accused me of having planned the whole +thing and said that I did not deserve my boyfriend. He +embarassed me in front of a crowd.",3 +"Once I woke up in the middle of the night and felt frightened as +everyone else was sleeping and I could not even go to their +room.",6 +When one of my cat died of a disease.,4 +"When I felt that an exam, which I had feared, was an easy one and +went well.",1 +Before an exam in logics.,6 +"When I was dancing with a dame at a social, one of my friends who +was interested in her came and took her away from me. I was +really angry with him then.",3 +"In a certain book I read about cruelties and violence in prison +and souteneur circles; I felt especially disgusted when I read +detailed descriptions of physical and mental torture of less +powerful people.",0 +"When our cat was killed in a car-accident I was very angry at the +driver of the car because he didn't take enough care.",3 +"I once drank too much alcohol and became very ill. This was in the +presence of my friends.",5 +"I was swimming in the sea and a wave took the top part of my +bikini away.",2 +"I sent a book to a friend of mine. The book meant a lot to me +and he lost it.",3 +"When people are eating unsavoury (smacking, belching, speaking +with food in their mouth, etc.).",0 +"This feeling I sensed quite recently. It was arisen by the +terrific thought that I might lose the man I loved !",6 +"While in the army, I was treated unfairly by my superiors. I was +held responsible for a deed of which I was innocent.",3 +When somebody despised a friend of mine.,0 +"Now that the 49ers are winners, the fans are coming out of the +woodwork and jumping on the bandwagon and that disgusts me.",0 +"I suffered from a gynaecological illness. I was quite displeased +to hear that my roommates had talked about it and they had +misrepresented the truth. I felt deeply hurt when I learned that +it was done by a ""good"" acquaintance of mine.",3 +"When a colleague asked me for help at work, despite the fact +that he had more time to do it than I had.",3 +I may not be clever enough to understand your English lectures.,2 +"Social situation - at the pub - a close friend of 2 years told +the group around us of advances I had made.",4 +"Whenever I spoke to a female classmate I felt disgusted. She +said meaningless things and seemed to indicate something to me +but I did not love/like her.",0 +"Being reunited with my family after not having seen them for 5 +years, at the airport. Sheer elation at getting through the +""paper work"" collecting bags and the anticipation of coming +through the customs gate.",1 +When my father thought that I was an unrelaible son.,0 +"When I learned, after the ecography, that my mother was expecting a +baby girl. That was what I wanted.",1 +[ I feel angry when somebody is unjust to me.],3 +"I felt fear once, when the car in which I travelled directed +towards the precipice along the road.",6 +"After a party in which I made love with a boy in public. Later on +I heard that others were talking about me and called me a slut.",2 +When I was successful at my work I was full of joy.,1 +When I made a fool at an examination.,2 +"I remember when I was in Standard 6, I failed one of the terminal +tests and I told my parents that I had passed but after they +found out from the class teacher that I had failed, I was proved +a liar.",2 +"It was about a fortnight ago, I was declared successful in the +U.G.C exam this year (only four in Bombay succeeded). My joy +knew no bounds.",1 +When someone stole my bike.,3 +"Against the will and without the approval of my parents I went +for a few days to my boyfriend in Germany.",5 +"When I succeded in establishing a contact with a girl (who is now +my girlfriend).",1 +My father died last year after an 8-week severe illness.,4 +"My girl-friend did not understand me; I was angry with myself +because I had problems when we seperated - I could not resign +myself to it.",3 +"I was shopping in Utrecht with friends, we also ate some chips +and snacks in a snackbar, then we saw a shabby fellow. He took a +cold half eaten croquette (a snack) from a rubbish bin and eat +it.",0 +"A terrible cloud-burst started when we were camping in a tent on +a great bald field.",6 +"When my mother got a terrible beating from my father. It was so +bad that she fainted and it was only then that my dad realized +how bad it was.",0 +"I was really pissed when the Russians boycotted the '84 Olympics. +I had anger towards them and Jimmy Crter. I was very anxious to +see it.",3 +"Guilt conscious struck me when I failed my Standard Two +Examinations in 1972. I knew that I would suffer the consequences +of what I had been doing during class hours: thus playing with +friends and sometimes not even going to school.",5 +"Being miserable in a party when other people are friendly and +happy.",1 +"Had a very good friend. We grew apart I found myself running her +down to other friends.",2 +When I saw a ghost.,6 +"When my girl went away for a holiday without saying good-bye to +me.",4 +"When my father failed to send me transport money after the +closure of the school.",3 +"When my mother went through an operation, it was not very serious +but I was sad and could not sleep before the operation.",4 +"When my cat ran under a car and came home wounded. He could +hardly walk. I didn't dare to go to a veterinarian because I was +afraid he would kill him.",6 +"Years ago on Christmas Eve I felt very sad because I realized for +the first time how I missed my father who had died at Christmas +Years ago.",4 +"My best friend got married and left her home-town to go and live +in Poona. After her wedding I felt sad.",4 +"I lead a rather secure life. The only thing I can remember is a +song from the nineteenth century which is against alcohol. Both +the melody and the word (although naive) effected my emotions.",4 +Once again my parents distroyed a relationship.,3 +"I was subject to false accusations, and got very angry.",3 +"When I got a message that I was employed as a nurse at a +kindergarten.",1 +The time I qualified to enter secondary school.,1 +"I heard of the death of a closefriend of mine. I had gone camping +with him shortly before his death and the whole thing seemed very +sudden to me. ",4 +"I felt joy when I saw my daughter after a separation of twenty +days.",1 +When my family allowed me to do higher studies.,1 +"I feel disgust at my neighbour, because she comes to our house with +her child, who spoils our furniture.",0 +"When I crashed by bike into an old lady crossing a road and +knocked her down.",5 +"When my special friend said ""I love you"" for the first time.",1 +"Two years ago, somebody I like very much wanted to give up his +studies. I tried to make him understand the importance of what he +was going to do, not only of the difficulty to find a job but also +because he will decrease his culture etc. This person made the +test to the college entrance examination and to our great joy we +found out that he succeded in entering at the University.",1 +"The sadness came to me when I heard that my girlfriend whom I +loved so much got married to another man before a rebuff from +her.",4 +Forgot to collect post for a friend.,5 +"On December the 28th I was filled with Joy when I was told by my +bosses that I had been selected to attend a course at the +Lilongwe School for Health Scienced in Lilongwe.",1 +My wrong behaviour made my loved one feel sad and uneasy.,5 +"My father had once again told me that I should be careful and try to +seek admission to other places also apart from the faculty of +Social Sciences at the university of Helsinki. I was not at all +interested in any other place and had no time to study for other +entrance exams.",3 +When a close relative is treated badly.,3 +"One day I had an appointment with my boyfriend which I had +objected to in the begining, however he visited me and convinced +me to come. The day of the appointment; I had to wait for him +for over an hour.",3 +"When I was going home, I saw somathing which looked like a snake +on the road but later I found out that it was only a stick.",6 +When I was sick my husband bought me a piece of cake.,1 +"As a child, one evening I had read a novel about ghosts and I had +thus spent a sleepless night as I kept feeling that there were +ghosts dancing around me.",6 +When I was caught stealing mangoes in a certain compound.,5 +"A certain friend tried to push me off a seat in a very violent +way for no apparent reason. It may be that he was excited about +something.",3 +"Once in my homes yard, I was plaing football with my cousin and +in a certain quick the ball went on uncontrolled putting down a +bird-cage, killing it.",5 +"One day I came across a certain boy who was intruding my +friendship as lovers with my girlfriend and I was very sad +because I didn't expect that girl to disappoint me I regarded her +as being very faithful.",4 +"I was drinking a glass of wine and eating something when there +suddenly appeared pictures about the famine in some parts of +Africa.",2 +"I tried to swindle a jeweller because my watch was broken and I +wanted to have it repaired it was a pity but they detected it.",2 +I could not finish my homework on time.,2 +"My girlfriend let me down badly 3 times in one week. These +instances summed up all the negative aspects of our relationship +which at the time seemed doomed to fail.",4 +Seeing someone who has bleeding nose.,0 +"My notes were not returned to me, it kept on being +procrastinated.",0 +"A friend of mine got encouragement and I did not, as the +supervisor did not like me.",5 +"When I was at a party I met an old friend from an adult +education course. We had not met for 2 years but had both thought +a lot about each other. A wonderful experience. +",1 +"While travelling in a bus with an invalid ticket, I got caught.",5 +"When my natural parents name would show up on papers and not my, +what I call real name.",2 +Meeting other friends who got in the good universities.,2 +"I wanted to borrow lecture notes from a friend and he did not +lend me them.",5 +"The loss of my father as he died of a massive and sudden heart +attack.",4 +"My girlfriend wrote to me telling me that she was four months +pregnant and that I was responsible for the ""damages"". This made +me happy as I longed to have a child to call mine.",1 +When my father died.,4 +"When the cast general election resulted in Norway getting a +conservative government.",2 +When I left my part-time job.,4 +"When I saw a woman who had been run over by a train, just off +Kafue. The woman had been cut to bits, there was blood and +splinters of bone every where.",0 +Watching a violent movie.,0 +"It was quite recently, at the football match between the national +teams of Bulgaria and France. I felt strong anger with the Scottish +referee who ran the match quite partially.",3 +"I felt happy when I saw my brother at the bus depot after 3 +months without seing each other.",1 +I was sad when I saw that a beautiful girl was not attainable.,4 +"The emotion came when I misbehaved at school and the Principal +threatened me that I was going to be expelled.",6 +"I feel disgusted at not having got aa ""A"" in yesterday's +practicals of G220.",0 +"Winning a close volleyball game. (I'm on the intercollegiate team +at CAL)",1 +"Inventing a fictitious series of events, as a result of which I +ended up in a conflict with my two closest friends.",5 +When I met a good friend of mine after a long time.,1 +My car skidded on the wet street.,6 +"When I still went to primary-school, I went on a ski-trip with my +family. After skiing we went to a restaurant for lunch. Suddenly +my father said that he had forgotten something in the car. He +gave me the key and asked me to go and get it. I had difficulties +with the key which was already bent. I asked my mother to help +me. When she tried to turn the key it broke. We had no second +key. My mother was blamed for all that and I did not say a word.",5 +When a close friend did not write.,3 +"On a telephone talk where I was agressive and stupid without the +least, reason or better motive.",5 +"When I tried to explain to a plumber, face to face, that the +toilet was broken and he did not believe it (it had been mended +ten times).",3 +"When my sister had the still born child, she was emotionally very +deep down, and it took her a long time to recover.",6 +When I lost something that was valuable to my sister.,5 +When I was molested by an old drunk man.,0 +"When relatives have acted strangely, and unfriendly towards me.",2 +"After I reluctantly refused to dine with a certain man on the +same table.",5 +"When I received my report card in C.O.U. I was afraid of obtaining +low marks, but they were much higher than expected. ",1 +"When the doctor told me that there was something wrong with my +eye and I had to undergo an operation.",6 +"At a party in which I met an interesting female. We enjoyed +eachothers company, while slow dacing.",1 +Bad food in the students' dining hall.,3 +"When my brother was selected to the University of Malawi (the +Polythecnic). I was very excited and I rejoiced due to one of our +family members qualifying for University level at long last.",1 +"My younger brother and sister were involved in an accident on +their way back from school and my brother was quite badly hurt.",4 +"When a boy whom I refused to be my lover told all his friends +that I was his girl he has refused me because I was not faithful +to him.",0 +"I removed an article of clothing belonging to my employer while +in a position of trust.",5 +"When my best friend foud out I'd been lying about something I'd +been doing behind her back.",2 +"When I got drunk at a party and made a fool of myself by +vomitting all over the place and insulting the people who were +there with me.",2 +"Hearing about developments of sience in the West a lot better +than China.",4 +Insulted by somebody.,0 +"When I was a student at the Institute doing my M.Phil degree, one +of my professors called me before the convocation and told me +""You have got the gold-medal (first rank) in the university and +tomorrow you will be on T.V"".",1 +"A teacher was very blunt in his relation to a child so that the +child was very upset when arriving at home.",0 +"I once stole my father's money and denied having done it. Instead +father threatened my young brother and he was beaten. He was +innocent and I felt guilty.",5 +"When I was in a religious school my teacher showed me up in front +of all my class-mates. They were very sarcastic and cruel.",2 +Receiving personal criticisms early in the morning.,3 +When I saw a horror film.,6 +"At a private party I literally fell into the food. The party was +completely ruined for the host, carpets had to be cleaned, etc.",2 +"That if ever I was really naughty I would be sent away from my +Mum and Dad to another family. I was fostered from age 5 and +didn't get to Mum and Dad until I was 6 and then legally adopted +at 14.",6 +"A close acquaintance of the family died of lung cancer. +Although it was expected, I still felt depressed.",4 +"When I decided my first marriage had ended, and left with the +child. I felt overwhelmed by guilt as I was separating mother and +child.",5 +"I am currently taking CS 50P. I had to finish a couple of +assignments but I was hindered because I could not get a passing +score on my program.",3 +"When the student union leaders were expelled from the university +and we continued to study.",5 +"I reproached my mother's cooking and criticised her +personality, and she felt hurt and depressed.",5 +"I made the college entrance examinations for P.U.C. It was what I +wanted more. When the first list came out I got frustrated. I +wasn't in. When the second list came out without hopes I started +to read the newspaper and my name was thre. I was in the bus and +felt like crying so that everybody could hear me. The cry was hold, +and 1982 became forever a mask in my life.",1 +"I was not able to explain well to my good friend to make him less +angry.",5 +"One night at three o'clock I was followed by a cardriver, who +tried to molest me.",6 +"While playing a ball game, I was just about to make a goal when I +was thrown off my feet, and I failed to score the goal.",3 +"An utterance, which I had intended to be a joke, was taken as an +offence. In my opinion, this was stupid, and I got angry.",3 +"My girlfriend does practice and therefore leaves me alone at +night and in the weekend. In addition, she is very busy doing +several things. So we don't see each other often.",3 +"At a cash desk where I had gone to buy 16 rolls of kitchen paper +at a reduced price. After queuing with screaming children; it +turned out that I had taken two 8 roll packets instead of the one +16 roll packet to which the rebate applied. The assistant said +""You will have to get it another time.""",3 +"After blowing up and saying all the wrong things, I realized what +I had done and hurt that person and myself.",4 +"I am a ""cantor"" - I sing psalms in church. Several weeks ago I +had to sing too, but the organist did not tell me in time. As I +did not know the psalm, I was afraid and said that I could not +sing.",6 +"My mother had fallen down from a ladder when she had been +gathering cherries. Her back was hurt. Just when I arrived, I saw +people of the life-saving service giving her medical care.",6 +"This was at secondary school, a prefect framed up some case and +took it to the deputy head-master. I was called by the +head-master and he threatened to suspend me.",6 +"My life-partner is going through a crisis (way of life, old-fashioned values) +and can only get out of it by talking bold decisions. I have +noticed his cowardice and attempts to escape his problems by +drinking. I detest his drinking and his being full of self-pity.",0 +"When someone whom I considered my friend, without telling me he +was annoyed, proceeded to ignore me for several meets with no +apparent reason.",0 +"I was supposed to do something and didn't. The person was really +dependiong on me.",2 +"I found out accidentaly that while my uncle was away in Canada, my +aunt had been bedding a young man on a regular basis.",0 +"The stories about my aunt who was beaten and humiliated by my +uncle.",0 +"Spoilt, smashed and molded potatoes in the fridge, and having to +clean up the dish later.",0 +"It happened that one of my best friends just took my shirt +without my knowledge, I hadn't put it on for many days and I was +short of clothes.",0 +"One of my friends and I had breakfast in a restaurant. It was +spontaneous and lots of fun.",1 +I felt very angry after one driver had run over my beloved niece.,3 +Watching China winning the Asian Olympic games.,1 +"I had a very close friend who went to Canada after her F.B, his +departure was unavoidable. When he came back during the Summer +holidays I was very happy as nothing had changed between us.",1 +When my friend was punished for something that I had done.,5 +"When my brothers had passed all of their exams and were able to +graduate from their courses.",1 +"I was most disgusted when I had to make a nagging three day +journey recently from Calcutta to Bombay. It was very boring and +tiring.",0 +Failing in an exam.,4 +"One day when I was sitting in a not very crowded bus, a middle +aged woman was standing beside me. The person sitting next to me +got up to get off and this woman pushed me and occupied the seat. + Then she took off her shoes and put her feet on the seat.",0 +"I had called a boy who had dated me, and told him that I was ill, +while, actually, I didn't want to go out with him, later on, he asked +me if I was feeling better, then I felt ashamed.",2 +"Getting my kitten, found at work several years ago, taking him +home in a box on my motorbike, showing it to my defacto.",1 +"Recently, my sister-in-law's horse was poisoned by a plant and +died. The horse was very obedient and exceptional with children.",4 +"Some people were sitting outside and saying things which were not +really true.",3 +"I feel guilty when when I realize that I consider material things +more important than caring for my relatives. I feel very +self-centered.",5 +"I was walking on the pavement when a white car rolled on it and +directed towards me. I was quite near the house wall when it +rolled by and hit me.",6 +NO RESPONSE.,5 +"Brother provoked anger. It was when mother and father were away +and we had to look after ourselves. He accused me of being +selfish and a snob.",3 +When I passed the grade 7 exam.,1 +Could not buy a reference book because I got up too late to cue.,5 +"I was once this week angry when soemone trying to compress my +mind due to his nonsense speech which himself could not tolerate +at all.",3 +I did bad on a test I didn't study for.,2 +"When I was about to write my Junior Certificate Exams, I received +sad news telling me that my elder sister had passed away.",4 +Insulted for no reason.,2 +NO RESPONSE.,2 +"When one of my best friends commited siucide during these +holidays.",4 +"I felt guilty when I ""stole"" the boyfriend of a friend of mine.",5 +"When I shoplifted a pair of earrings from Coles and my Mum caught +me with them in my bag.",5 +The last time I had sex.,1 +"Viewing the nuclear war film ""Threads"".",0 +"At my grandfather's funeral - My grandparents virtually raised me +as my mother was a solo-parent and had to work.",4 +"When I walked out of my room with only my pants on and found my +girlfriend and her female friend looking for me outside.",2 +"When a close relative of mine passed away, it was the first time +that someone so close to me had died.",4 +"When my father passed away of cancer, I was extremely saddened. +He was not very old, which made matters worse. The actual death +was horrendous, but the moving funeral saddened me more so.",4 +When my brother was born.,1 +When I was insulted by a man.,3 +After a big fight with my parents.,2 +"When I came to know that my feelings for someone were not +reciprocated.",4 +"One fears many things, for example one fears going to the +dentist. but as far as I am concerned this feeling is connected +with the examination session.",6 +"The last time I felt sad and disappointed was when I did not do +as well as I had hoped in one of the final exams. As compared +with the earlier exams, the questions, I think, were unjust.",4 +"I was with my colleagues and we met an elderly man who was very +drunk, as he approached us he started to undress.",2 +Being rude to someone I do not like.,3 +"I peeped into Maurine's bedroom and saw two people - Maurine anbd +my step-dad. I thought, "" Why did she break her promises ? Why +had she invited me ? Why do old men go for young girls ? """,3 +Death of General Ye Jianying.,4 +Each time the professor asks me a question in class.,2 +"A friend of mine had promised to arrange me some tickets for a +concert which I considered important. He could not get them the +way he thought he would, so he gave up the whole thing.",3 +"My classmate always borrowed my notes and would not return it to +me on time. When I had a test she was selfish and irresponsible +and so delayed my studies.",3 +When I was the South Koreans on the TV.,0 +"I met a girl (22 years old), married. I liked her. I asked her +for a date and I kissed her. I discovered that she lived nearby +where I passed every day. I got amused thinking that her husband +would be ... or me . I didn't talked to her anymore.",0 +My companion admired me when I did some work voluntarily.,2 +"A class-mate died after being two months in coma, after a car +accident.",4 +When I obtained good marks in a subject I had failed before.,1 +"In ward 2A there was a patient suffering from Syphilitic +Paraplegia and had pressure sores. The wounds had offensive smell +that only a few people .... the place.",0 +"On the way home from Marstrand I was driving behind my father's +car. Another car tried to push in front of my father and he was +forced to swerve and he thus collided the car with a pillar. The +other car drove off without even seeing what had happened.",3 +"I had not studied very much for my final examination at school, +so I had to take an additional examination in French. The oral +examination was not very hard for me - the more I was glad when I +heard that I had passed it.",1 +"On school, during a fancy fair, there was a stand of amnesty +international. There I read (for the first time) a description of +the tortures of a woman, what they did to her.",0 +"Reported neighbour to police for taking to my daughter with +baseball ball - her counsellor rang me and after long talk +convinced me the woman was o.k. I felt guilty for ringing the +police then guilty for feeling guilty about it.",5 +"It was Saturday, my duties were over for a few hours and I could +at last be with the people I wanted to see.",1 +Saying goodbye to a friend.,4 +The time I first saw my cousin who is living in Tanzania.,1 +"When during a social evening with my father, brother, sister, +close friend and my father's 2nd wife - I had an argument with my +father, who abused my friend who was sticking up for me.",3 +"I made a major mistake while learning how to use a computer programme +and the teacher criticized me.",2 +"I spoke with a friend on the phone who I haven't seen in many +years. It was a joyful event to talk to him.",1 +"Anger with boyfriend's best friend for alienating me and blaming +me for personality changes in my boyfriend and changes in my +boyfriend's attitude to him and his obvious egoistical attitude +himself in doing so. I also lost one of my best friends - his +girlfriend.",3 +"I cannot recall feeling guilty in the near past. +REMARK - SUBJECT MAY NOT HAVE TAKEN THE EXERCISE VERY SERIOUSLY.",5 +"When I went out with a friend of mine to meet her ex-boyfriend +who didn't know that she was engaged to be married.",2 +Hear people talking at my back.,0 +"The time I learnt that I had passed my Malawi School leaving +Certificate Examinations.",1 +"When I came back from work one day, the friends of my son told me +that he had not come back from school and that he was lost.",6 +"The day some friends of mine and I decided to go to Galicia on +holiday.",1 +"In the real sense of the word I experienced fear in my first +months in the army. During my first night of duty. The cause for +all this was a bear. I became panic sticken (may be for the first +time) and even forgot that I had a gun.",6 +"When I forced a close friend of mine to ask a girl things about +herself.",5 +"When I was left alone one week-end without being prepared for +it.",4 +"The first time that I ""played with myself"" despite being a +Christian. I had read in the bible that it was wrong to make +love to someone one is not married to.",5 +When I met a friend of mine after several months. ,2 +"My grandmother is a highly authoritative person, who lives alone, +is independent, but doesn't know to live without commanding the +others. I hate this!",3 +"After I had been away for a long time a friend told me that I had +passed all my written examinations.",1 +"My father caught me having sexual intercourse with my closest +cousin. There was nothing wrong with it but the female was too +old for me.",5 +"I felt happy when my mother gave birth to a son who is the last +born in the family.",1 +When I offended my parents without wanting it.,5 +"One day I was with my girlfriend and other friends were behind +us, I fell down because the place was slippery and I really felt +ashamed.",2 +"When mum had beaten my young sister just because she had received +a letter from a boyfriend.",0 +"While drinking a soft drink, I had the impression of swallowing +a piece of glass so I went to the district hospital and got +admitted there.",6 +"When people/press analyze a particular newsworthy item (CAL +Football team) which I am a member and can only see the situation +in a bad light and always put the team down.",0 +"I had a habit of wetting my bed when I was young. One day, when +I was invited to my friend's place to stay for the night, it +happened again. I was ashamed of myself.",2 +When a close friend drowned in the American River.,4 +Failing an examn.,2 +"One of my good friends told people something I had told her +in confidence about someone else.",0 +"My grandmother died, and my mother called me one sunday morning +in the Autumn. The way my mother told me about it, I hated her +at that moment. She sounded as if she had been waiting for the +death of my grandmother. I had lost a person close to me. I +felt guilty too as I had been bad to my grandmother of late. I had not +remained calm when she no longer understood everything so well.",4 +"To talk in a meeting - expound my thoughts on a subject. Fear +delayed me acting to do this.",6 +Telling my parents that I did not get into a good university.,5 +"When I got into an argument with someone and was very abusive, +but they were a close friend and I later regretted it.",4 +"Being with a close friend, in the city, who was involved at the +present point in time in outrageous activity.",2 +"When my friend who is close to me got engaged and did not invite +me.",0 +"I lost my temper at my mother while she was teaching me. I felt +ashamed and sorry at having hurt my loving mother.",2 +"When I had to travel alone, unescorted for the first time. It +was an over-night journey by train to a distant place.",6 +"My grandmother wanted me to help her. I was driving a tractor +pulling a dead branch off a tree. I told her she didn't respect +me.",5 +"When one finds out that someone you know is not at all like one +had thought, for instance friends who steal and things like that, +quite unwarranted.",0 +"In 1983 a sadist provoked my sister in my presence. He tried +to force my sister into accompanying him to his place, but my +sister did not agree and so she was kicked and she fell down. +There was a fight.",3 +"One of my friends kept criticizing me about everything I did. I +thought she was kidding, but later I found out that she was +serious.",3 +"I left a boy with whom I was going around without giving him any +explanations.",5 +"When a friend who comes visiting me unexpectedly asks for coffee +and I refuse to give him this.",3 +Not doing well in the examn.,2 +Not included on questionnaire.,6 +"I had the unexpected possibility to see a friend I like very +much.",1 +When I received a letter telling me that my mother was very ill.,4 +When my daughter was born.,1 +"At my temporary job, I have to restrict others' actions and make +them obey me, and this very often gives me a feeling of guilt. I +wish there could be some other way of acting.",5 +Father lost his temper at home because he was mistreated at work.,3 +"One day I addressed my husband in an abusive manner in front of +his friends. Later on I realized this myself and felt ashamed of +myself.",2 +Death of a parent.,4 +"When I could not reason my friend, it angered me.",3 +Caused fault in V.C.R. by not following instructions carefully.,2 +"I felt joy when I passed the worst phase in my life and +discovered how many people considered me important to them.",1 +"I was very joyful when I heard that I had passed the standard 8 +exams. The day I heard the news was the day I celebrated my +birthday.",1 +"During the Xmas holiday, I and my best friend at Secondary School +had planned to meet at a Cultural afternoon at the Mt. Soche +Hotel after missing each other for such a long time. When I asked +my mother for permission, she told me not to go for no good +reason. I felt very angry with her.",3 +"My roommate refused to walk with me to the English lectures. I +have to walk alone in the dark. Lectures are in the biology +building.",6 +"When I witnessed a bus accident in which a bus, full of passengers, + nearly overturned on the Lusaka-Kabwe road. +",6 +"At school, I detested the spinach gruel which had lumps of flour +in it.",0 +"When my red-cheeked, content child runs to meet me in the yard of +the kindergarten and gives me a moist kiss on my cheek.",1 +"Old man in hospital, hollow-cheeked, only one half of his nose +and glass-eye, rattling breath.",0 +"The comrade staying next doors insulted me for what he called +the misuse of his iron. He called me stupid, self centered etc. +I wanted to punch him but instead went for a walk to the mining +school to cool off.",3 +"I had to tell a collegue the time for an appointment with another +collegue. I told her the wrong time - it was obviously my fault.",5 +"Ever since I have been a child, the sight of any kind of wound.",0 +Being insulted in public.,2 +"When I come home in the evening, the first thing I do is to sit +down and smoke a cigarette. One day I found the flat in a totally +desolate state. My girl-friend had wanted to tidy up but had not +finished.",3 +"As a child - about 8 years old - walking across a paddock - being +set upon by another boy who claimed it was ""his land"" - being +intimidated by the boy - crying, being punched, etc.",3 +"After I was thrown out of a car in an accident, this resulted in +a fracture.",6 +"Having to go back home form the U.S. after having been there for +ten weeks to visit my brother and his family.",4 +"Doing a group assignment and being left to do all the work and +take the blame for any mistakes.",3 +"A friend had a quarrel with the mother of her boyfriend because +she and her friend decided to go and live together. She needed +money for removal, then she made a great effort to reconcile.",0 +Walking in the dark and thinking about ghost stories.,6 +"When I came home late one day. I was afraid I would be shouted at +by my parents.",6 +"My Uncle was beaten by his troublesome son. He fell unconscious +and gained consciousness after some time. That time I was at +school; this news reached me through someone.",4 +"When I heard about the advances an acquaintance of mine had made +to my friends, who did not approve of them.",0 +"When I passed my Primary school leaving certificate and selected +to go to a Boarding secondary school.",1 +I felt shame when I discontinued my education for eight months. ,2 +"I felt a great joy when I knew that my father was going to sell +the apartment from GUARUSA, because in some way we were helded by +it, that means that we didn't go to any other place, because we +had the apartment.",1 +"I got angry at a friend of mine whom I caught reading my notebook +(almanach).",3 +"At our Senior dinner - separated from school friends, nothing +will ever be the same again.",4 +"Celebrations on the graduation day with the orchestra playing in +the garden ( I am a part of this orchestra).",1 +When India first won the world cup cricket tournament.,1 +A girl I was with went off with another guy.,3 +"When I got really drunk on Norvegian Indipendence Day, and was +not allowed to participate in football (soccer) games for two +weeks. That was very unpleasant.",2 +"The day that there was a black-out in the city, and I was in an +exposition, I felt fear that something more serious was +happening, like a revolution for example.",6 +"A few days back I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop. +Before getting into the bus I had prepared the exact amount of +coins to pay for the bus fair and when I got into the bus I put +these coins into the box meant to collect the bus fair. I +thought that I had paid and wanted to get inside. However the +bus driver called me and asked me in an impolite way if the coins +were stuck at the opening of the box. He had not seen me paying +and there wasn't a stack of coins in the box. I could not +understand this and the driver kept questioning me. He made me +feel angry and at last i inserted a dollar coin in the box just +to get away from him. Later I found that I had forgotten a few +coins in my pocket and had not paid enough for the fair the first +time. After I had entered the bus I could still hear him +scolding me and I felt disgusted.",0 +The death of my twin sister - suicide.,4 +"When I read the newspaper that morning I found my candidature +number on the admission list of the Chinese university. I was +satisfied and happy and the cumulative anxiety disappeared. I +only wanted to cry out that I had succeeded.",1 +I was watching a sad film and it affected me deeply.,4 +"A friend of mine had a bicycle-accident because I pulled at his +handlebar.",5 +"Criticizing my mother when she refused to drive with the radio on. +I told her that I thought she wasn't intelligent enough to cope +with the radio.",5 +"When I went to the library three weeks after it had opened and +found that everyone was busy.",2 +"I felt it when I felt that I was being observed as an object of +pleasure (sexual) when I opened and took off a shirt in a +classroom at P.V.C.",2 +When I became aware that an acquaintance had stolen from friends.,0 +"Sometime back, my boyfriend and I were having a walk nearby my +parent's house. Suddenly we met my grandfather and I was +afraid that he would report to my parents.",6 +"When I read about or think about environmental pollution, the +armor race, starvation, etc. Then one realizes that mankind is +bad, most important is power and money, at the cost of nature and +mankind.",0 +"I had parked in a corner, and when I was going out I didn't watch +if another car was coming and went out. The car that was coming +was obliged to stop suddenly. It didn't crash but for a little.",5 +A party with friends on New Year's Eve.,1 +"When we were able to afford a new sofa - a leather one which cost +SEK 20000. I had waited for it for 2-3 years.",1 +"When I said good-bye to my girlfriend. I had spent two years on +developing this relationship and it was unsuccessful, I felt very +sad.",4 +"A friend of mine travelled very far. I miss her but feel joy too +because fer life is taking the right direction as she wants. So I +feel joy for her mainly.",1 +"Receiving a postcard form my sweetheart who was abroad on +vacation, not being at all sure if he would write me or not.",1 +"The death of my father, even though we had not been very close to +each other.",4 +"The government's announcement of the withdrawal of the student +allowances in 1984.",3 +"An argument among friends in which my opinions on the way to +spend spare time were disapproved.",3 +"When my neighbour's house was broken into and shots could be +heard.",6 +"When I learnt that I had failed an exam, This not only influenced +my emotions but also other important tasks, it also made my +record imperfect.",4 +"When a very close friend with whom I have a very intimate and +bodily relationship (he had a girlfriend) started to avoid me and +didn't want to talk to me any more.",3 +"Eco-activists demonstrated against a project to build a power station +at the Danube in the middle of a lowland forest (Hainburg) and +the government decided to delay it for another year. When my +father heard about it, he said that we needed another Hitler.",0 +Someone being arrogant to me.,0 +"When my father phoned me to come home from my vacation, since he +no longer had the time to look after my garden and animals.",3 +When my boyfriend took me to his father's grave.,4 +"I bought something and the shopkeeper gave me more change, I +realized this after I had left the shop and was on the bus-stop - +and I then needed the money.",5 +"When I found out that my girlfriend would not be coming back to +UCB for one semester, but would be living in San Jose.",4 +"In adolescence I had a very violent fight with my sister I hold +her stong in her neck, she had a throat surgery what make me feel +guilty about the future reactions she might had injuring the +surgery.",5 +Not being able to do well to be chosen for the English lecture.,4 +"Told by some people the class leader only choose his friends (not +true).",3 +"I was in a dancing-tavern and the atmosphere was one of waiting +for the end of the world. Suddenly people began dancing wildly, +inspired by the band. An unbelievable experience : wonderful +that even Finns sometimes flare up and forget to think ""what +others are thinking of me"". It was delightful to dance to one's +heart content.",1 +"Some foreign students playing loud music before the biology +examn.",3 +"Finding that a girlfriend of mine was a prostitute and had been +seeing many others during our relationship.",0 +"I was river rafting in Nev. and our boat tipped over and I was +sucked under in to some rocks and got stuck and all I could think +was that I was going to die. And it was so quiet under the water +it seemed like no one would care or remember.",6 +First time in anatomy.,6 +"At work, when an elderly man complained unjustifiably about me and +distrusted me.",3 +"I received a letter which was too strong for me. It said I had +done something which I really didn't do.",0 +"I felt shame when I had to talk with a person that I hadn't seen for +many years. Shame that he wouldn't recognize me or that I +wouldn't know what to say.",2 +"When I was first taken to the dissection room where I found 10 dead +human bodies.",6 +"I got pass marks in the H.S.S compulsory courses while most +people performed well.",2 +Promised to do something for other people and did not do it.,5 +"I was hitchhiking and was picked up by a stranger he drove into +the woods and wanted to make love with me, I refused and escaped +from the car. When walking in the wood and hearing the car I was +afraid.",6 +"When I saw my name in the newspaper and I knew that I entered at +the University.",1 +"A friend of mine had the sleeves of a leather coat stolen from +his car. It was me who had left them there for everyone to see.",5 +When my grandfather died.,4 +"This feeling comes frequently when I go out at night and tell my +mother that I shall come back early. But then I get home a 5 or 6 a.m.",5 +"While tramping on a narrow path two of us were confronted by a +woman with two snarling dogs, demanding we get off the property - +via a flooded river !",6 +"In May somebody blamed me that I made him to be caught while +peeping during the Nursing Test which made me feel disgusted.",0 +"A time when, as part of my work, I was sent out actually sort of +volunteered to run an errand for someone who had no authority to +send me out and the address was very far especially on foot and +turned out to be incorrect too. The whole trip was a waste.",3 +"A ""higher status"" colleague of mine despised my attitude and +organization of work.",3 +"When I found one of my new pullovers wrinkled inside the +wardrobe. My brother had done it.",3 +Receiving a nice present from my parents.,1 +"It was the weekend of my homecoming. I saw my sister for the +first time in 3 months. She's my best friend and extremely close.",1 +"I fell over head and ears in love with someone who appeared to be +in love with me. it made me so happy that I could hardly sleep +and eat for one week.",1 +Shame of not doing something well.,2 +"When I woke up in the middle of the night because of a dream, it +wasn't a nightmare, it was an uninteligible dream in wich I woke +because of a certain end.",6 +When I learnt that I was selected for form I.,1 +"When my grandmother came to stay with us permanently as she is a +very difficult person to stay with and when she started telling +false stories about us to other people.",0 +"The carterer refused to give me sugar to add to my tea saying +that there was no sugar whilst it was there, so I left the cafe +disgusted without taking the tea.",0 +"For example, to feel bad because of one's attire, to be among +people who do not belong to the same social class, to give a +wrong answer in class, to be surprised in particular situations.",2 +"A girl I was with yelled something out to this group of guys I +knew. It sounded really childish.",2 +"The news of the natural calamity, an earthquake in which hundreds +of Mexican people died.",4 +Reading a horror story alone.,6 +"I received a letter from some friends, who do not live in Madrid, +telling me that they would not come on holiday. I had arranged +everythiing for them.",4 +When I read racist slogans on the walls.,0 +When I damaged my wristwatch which I liked very much.,3 +Cheating in a minor geography exam at school.,2 +"Not beeing able to stay with my mother for the National Day +holiday.",5 +"I felt joyful when my boyfriend met me at the station, while at +first he had said that he would not do that.",1 +"While playing indoor-hockey, there always is an older man who +frequently and intentionally plays the ball out of the field. In +my opinion this is very childish, because we play for fun only.",3 +When a girlfriend left me.,4 +"It was when I dreamt that I had encountered Satan, he wanted to grab me +and take me to his kingdom. He was very repulsive and I have +never seen anything like that before.",6 +"I felt some disgust for my boyfriend for a time, after he had +left me.",0 +Being together with my best friend.,1 +"When I was informed that a short story I had written had been +accepted for publication.",1 +"When I arrived too late at a meeting of mentor (the night before +the introduction of novices on the University start).",2 +When my father was ill.,4 +I am scared when I stroll alone on the Chung Chi college campus. ,6 +I was very angry at someone.,2 +When I saw a spider.,0 +When I got a wedding ring of diamond from the boy I loved.,1 +"I promised my mother to come home on her birthday, but at last I +was prevented. Nevertheless it would have been possible to go but +I did not.",5 +"One night I had a very good conversation with two friends. I then +realized how worthy they were for me and how happy I was to +have them as friends.",1 +When I beat up a stupid boy who was fond of cracking jokes on me.,5 +"My behaviour at a recent party. I passed out early, luckily.",2 +Could not help a student who needs help.,5 +The death of my grandmother.,4 +"It was during a school holiday - I was found necking a girl in my +room by my father.",2 +"My girlfriend and I slept in a lonely hut (we had drunk alcool). +Suddenly some soil fell on us, then some water. Although we tried +hard, we could not find out the cause.",6 +"My classmate at TISS has the habit of biting his nails and ever +since my childhood I have never liked this habit. This person is +near me in class, dining hall and the campus so I suggested that +he should stop biting his nails. However he found it difficult +and my disgust feelings have not changed.",0 +"I was very hungry and just wanted to start eating when a friend +called me who usually talks for a long time. I was angry because +I was prevented from eating.",3 +"I felt anger when I had a fight with my father, and he beated me. +My mother came to help me (because I was beeing beated) and he +also beated my mother.",3 +"A ""near-accident"" in a car, driving too fast on an icy road.",6 +"I had lunch in a restaurant with a friend and I paid the bill. +The change was that of a two dollar and a ten cent coin. As I +was talking with my friend I took the two dollar coin and forgot +to leave a tip.",2 +"When I don't go to my parents on Sunday and phone them to tell +them that I have to study. The truth is that I listened to sports +on the radio.",5 +"When I applied for a false travelling claim allowance and later I +thought that I would be found out.",5 +"Waiting for the results of the High level examination. I was +afraid of not being accepted.",6 +Found out that I am not good at football.,2 +"When I noticed that my little sister was sulking, because I could +not meet her because of a misunderstanding.",5 +Not applicable.,0 +"When, after a long time of searching I got my first job.",1 +"It was shocking news to me when I received a telegram from home +telling me that my grandmother had passed away. I had to go home to attend +the funeral but unfortunately I found that the burial had already +taken place.",4 +"My mother called me because she had read through the enveloppe a letter +addressed to me. She denied having read it intentionally and +said ""the words just popped out through the enveloppe as the sun +was shining on it"". Hah Hah.",0 +"I was a bit frightened when it was found that there was something +wrong with my liver. However it turned out that it was not +serious and I need not worry.",6 +"That was soon after the results of the interview which nearly +9,000 people attended in all the three regions of Malawi. My joy +came after hearing on the radio that I was one of the people +selected to undergo the Medical Assistant training at the +L.S.H.S.",1 +"I was walking down a little village at night. There was nobody +in the steet. A dog began to bark, I felt that it was following +me. Then I began to run, the other dogs started barking too. At +last I arrived home.",6 +"A truth expressed unthinkingly at a coffee party. I realized +later that I had been inconsiderate, at a wrong moment and the +wrong place.",2 +"I am ashamed when I am not ready for my seminar in internal +diseases, simply because the assistant professor is a person who +deserves high respect.",2 +"When a begggar approached me for money, I felt disgusted.",0 +"When I was a child I was playing on the upper deck of the bed +with my brother. My parents slept on the lower deck. My father +felt disgusted and beat me up. I felt very sad as my father had +never beaten me or scolded me before.",4 +Our boarder burping after meals !,0 +My best friend chosen for your English lectures.,1 +"after getting a fail notice for a math class, I realized I was +not doing very well in school in any subject. I began to fear +failing a class or two.",6 +When fell in love with my present girlfriend.,1 +I was the last among the list of failures in my class of Biology.,2 +"Lost my purse, the money in the purse belonged to my parents.",6 +Fight with my mate after a quarrel.,0 +"When I was in a situation which seemed hopeless for me, I moved +back to my parents. For my father it went without saying anything +(normally he ofter grumbles at me).",1 +A wurm dropped on my head.,0 +"I escaped from communicating with God for a long time. I did not +read the scriptures and I did not pray. I felt that I was +getting further and further away from God. I felt guilty as this +was because of my laziness.",5 +"The first time I slept at my boyfriends house and had to walk +down the hall to the shower in front of his housemates. I felt +they were judging me.",2 +"When it appeared that I was not pregnant when I was several weeks +overtime.",1 +Some boys not cueing in the dining hall.,0 +Watching a horror film.,6 +"I had promised to lend something to my mother-in-law and I forgot +it a couple of times. When she asked me about it the third time, +I was ashamed at my absent-mindedness.",2 +"A neighbour complained about smoke from my backyard incinerator +entering his house after a change of wind direction. I lit the +fire after originally checking that the wind would not blow the +smoke in that direction.",5 +I was nearly knocked down while I was cycling.,6 +Yesterday my friend gave me a gift and had dinner with me.,1 +"I was very sad when I did not get admission in the English +college, as I had 1% less marks than they wanted.",4 +Losing my temper to my sister.,4 +"After listening to ghost stories with my classmates I had to back +alone to the hostel at night. I had to walk through a long and +quiet road and I was scared of meeting a ghost.",6 +"When a certain drunk man slapped my buttocks when I was quietly +standing waiting for a bus.",2 +"The day I was to receive my gold-medal for the M.A, my +grandmother, who I loved very much, died after an illness. She +died a few hours before the convocation. While I was +attending the convocation I had to control my grief as she would +not have liked me to miss it. It was a day she had been waiting +for, but did not get to see. ",4 +"When working in a chemical laundry, I saw rats and maggots in the +washing.",0 +"During a football game, another player who was perspiring very +strongly ran into me.",0 +"I complained about a colleague's behaviour as she goes back on +her word, is often absent and is irresponsible. I found out that +she was an alcoholic and was trying to fight againt her +addiction.",2 +"I am thinking about death, the eternal of it, the unknown, the +sense of being here. Often, laying in bed in the dark and quiet, +the fear makes me feel dizzy.",6 +"When I was leaving home I decided to leave without saying +good-bye to my young brother. My brother saw me and said, +"" Will you not say good-bye to me?"" He is only 31/2 years old. ",2 +Misunderstood by a close friend for the wrong reason.,5 +"When one of my closest friends failed to make it to the third +year of university.",4 +"When my gradmother died. I felt very sad then ... The feeling +started to be worse after a while.",4 +"An out-patient asked me to read for him a certain prescription +but I was unable to do so. The patient was dissappointed and lost +hope in me.",2 +"Yesterday I broke my sister's raio. She hears it always when she +has school examinations and now she has examinations.",5 +"My friends aren't working for the same common goal we all need to +accomplish.",0 +"When some seniors tried to scold and insult some juniors on +account of what the juniors were supposed to have said at +secondary school.",3 +"I was going home by car late one night when it was cold, dark and +windy. I became rather panicky on the way to my house.",6 +"On my birthday I got a present that I had desired for a long +time.",1 +When the summer holiday job was almost over.,0 +"I had found out that I was pregnant. I talked it over with my +boyfriend and he was unsupportive - yet encouraged an abortion - +I did.",5 +"I arrived late at a seminar concerning my major subject at +university, although I had been appointed to formally oppose the +paper which was being presented.",2 +"One evening I went fishing with some friends but we could not +fish as a fisherman had already put his net there. We pulled +out the net to find only crabs in it so we threw the net away. +The net was large and may have cost $1000. The fisherman used +the net to earn a living and we had had thrown it.",5 +Relatives visiting me.,1 +"There is a certain person, whom I only have seen. He makes me +cringe, feel disgust.",0 +When the coach of our team degraded me to the second team.,3 +"When after a party celebrating a friend's 21st birthday - upon +leaving I found 10 people outside throwing up and further 4 +unconscious.",0 +"When I did something naughty and it lead to the embarrassment of +my parents.",2 +"I once torn the inner tube of a bike, that was not mine. Then I +saw it was a brand new one. I felt very guilty then.",5 +"I have a friend that I deeply trusted but it happened that I lost +my confidence in her for which she herself was to blame.",3 +I caught a glimpse of a black-beetle.,0 +"After I had had a disappointment in my private life, my friend, +who studies in Vienna, came to see me spontaneously.",1 +"I didn't visit a very close friend at the hospital and some days +later he died.",5 +"I went to study in a public library but I didn't know it well. I +got a book and wanted to study hearing music. Then I went to a +place were I could do it, but when I passed by a door a bell rang +and a man came saying that I couldn't leave with the book.",2 +"When my brother hit his head and lost consciousness at the sports +practice. For some time he could not remember what had happened +but he recovered later.",6 +"When I had gone for a boxing tournament which ended at 2 o'clock +in the morning. I was alone on my way back, and I could hear the +barking of the dogs, the nocturnal animals and the sound of my +own footsteps. There had been a rumour circulating that there +were ghosts in that area.",6 +"One of my best friends accused me of giving up to early on +problems. It was only a casual remark on her side, but I was +angry and hurt.",3 +"With my mouth full of bun, I drank directly from a packet of milk +which turned out to be weeks old (completely separated). It took +a while for the milk to seep through the bun.",0 +"Had started a relationship and did nothing to keep it up, partly +the use of another person.",5 +"When I knew almost the same day about two great friends of mine +that had serious existential crisis, and mainly when I notice +that I'm in the same situation that they are, but I didn't +realize it.",4 +The quarrel between my parents.,4 +When I heard my grandfather's wife had leukemia I was very sad.,4 +I had shown anger toward my dog and he was killed later that day.,5 +"On Christmas day a drunk man came to our house without a shirt +on, he dansed, spoke nonsense and behaved stupidly.",0 +"By mistake I took a book from the library which was not supposed +to be loaned out.",5 +"My mother developed hipertonia and I think I too am to blame +bacause with her it is a stress disease.",5 +Disgust with drunk people.,0 +"I was severely reprimanded for a trivial offence in front of +members of my peer group while still at school.",2 +"On a trip to Santander a child sitting beside me fell ill and +started to vomit, seeing this made me feel very bad.",0 +"I felt joy when I red my name in the list of the approved in the +entrance college examination.",1 +"I fell on the ground while crossing the street. My cap covered +my eyes and I felt quite ""difficult"".",2 +"Some colleagues decided to go out on a Saturday not inviting me +to decide either the place nor the time.",4 +"I was running in front of a crowd when I slipped and fell on a +wet lawn.",2 +"I was disgusted with the hypocrisy of my colleagues from the +group.",0 +"After my girlfriend had taken her exam we went to her parent's +place.",1 +"My parents thought that I didn't do my best to pass the final +examination (secondary school). When I achieved a good grade they +said nothing, but if I had had a bad grade they would have become +very angry.",3 +"Time had struck 8 o'clock when I heard from the radio that I had +been selected to Robert Blake Secondary School for Form I. I was +very happy for the selection. My parents and I were very happy +and full of joy.",1 +"At a meeting with over one hundred people, they decided who had to speak +from the stand by drawing lots.",2 +"Seeing persons spending money in a shopping center with +completely indifference to the misery reigning in our country.",0 +"The mother of a small child found me shaking the child in +exasperation, because I couldn't get it to sleep.",2 +"When my grandmother, my second mother died.",4 +"When my boyfriend wanted to leave me, I felt sad and melancholic.",4 +"One of my first boyfriends got mad at me because a lot of my +close friends were guys and he didn't want me to see them anymore +because he was jealous.",3 +"When I think that I will probably never have a genuine contact +with my parents.",4 +"At the tender age of eleven a friend and I left a party and +proceeded to walk through dark and secluded streets of a bad +neighborhood to find a telephone (recent spate of Horror Movie +watching had occurred).",6 +"A friend told me it would be better for me not to be on familiar +terms with another friend, although, in my opinion he had no +reason to say such things. He only said so hoping that I +would search support from him (that, however, was not necessary).",3 +Before the first examn.,6 +"When I have to take exams I am very excited and have not much +time for the housekeeping. Then my friend has to do everything.",5 +People not cueing in the college dining room.,0 +"I felt guilty when I failed to take an exam though I had had +enough time to read for it but I hadn't made use of it.",5 +"Motorcycle accident with two people involved, running off the +road. Broke an arm, only.",6 +"An hour before receiving the certificate results I was very +frightened. When I saw others crying I felt very tense and as +time went by my fear grew.",6 +"At an office an application that I had made was turned down +because of a scrupulous interpretation of the rules.",3 +"I had to have my tonsils out. I had been making up my mind almost +for a year - I was afraid. But during the two hours in the +hospital room, while I was waiting to be called for the operation I +felt a real fear - of the pain, of what they were going to do to +me, of the unknown.",6 +When I moved away from home.,5 +When my mother was very sick and almost died.,4 +"It was at Malawi Army, Dormer Squadron, when some of my workmates +got promoted to Seargents (sgts); we were having similar +Ranks.",3 +"The first day I visited the hospital I was disgusted because I +experienced offensive smell which I never expected. I nearly ran +away from the course.",0 +When I passed the driving test after three failures.,1 +"When I got my first unknown compound while doing my M.Sc +research, I was very happy. This is because my research was based +on this type of reactions and compounds.",1 +"The fact that I hadn't been informed about something and I had the +greatest trust in this person.",3 +"When I had my first oral examination after a long time; +especially one day before the examination when I had the feeling +that I had not studied enough and had not enough time to make up +for it.",6 +The sight of a man who ran amok (fighting) at a dance.,3 +Vertigo - standing on a ladder and painting the house.,6 +"After completing high-school, I wanted to go abroad for a +holiday. I had never been abroad before and neither had I taken +a holiday for a long time. When finally my parents agreed and we +got the airplane tickets I was over joyed.",1 +"I work at a petrol station. When there is a foreigner who wants +petrol my collegues treat him very impolite.",3 +A tailor ran away with my skirt.,3 +"Hearing that I had been successful in getting a position whereby +my financial, physical, spiritual and emotional needs will be +well catered for. This position fulfils a lot of my aims for the +last five years of my life.",1 +When a dog is left whining outside a shop.,0 +"When I was appointed by the Ministry of health to join the +teaching staff of one of the medical colleges.",1 +"I was not sure whether I should help an old woman going down a +flight of stairs. I just watched her and saw how difficult it was +for her to do it.",5 +"When I had to undergo the final examination of secondary school, +I lived together with a girlfriend. We both were afraid to fail, +but it appeard that we both had passed.",1 +I was raped by a friend.,6 +"One day, early morning my mother who is healthy fell ill. There +was no doctor or compounder near by and for a few hours -8 A.M to +6 P.M she did not speak a single sentence, nor did she drink water +or milk. There was no movement in her body and I felt really +scared. I almost lost my confidence about her survival.",6 +Insulted my girlfriend during a peptalk.,2 +When I was reproved eighth grade of high school.,5 +"I was very ashamed when I failed a test in Standard 7. The +teacher told the other students to shout and laugh at me.",2 +"When I was young I saw a horror film. Then when I went to sleep, +the film came back too my mind and the characters frighteneed my +imagination.",6 +"When I passed the driving test already on the first try, although +I felt more and more uncertain as the day came near.",1 +I learned that my girlfriend had been unjustly missed from work.,3 +"There was a sofa in my flat which belonged to the old tenants who +were acquaintances. It should have been picked up a year ago but +they had postponed it. Eventually they decided on one date and I +stayed at home despite the fact that I had other things to do. +They did not come, nor did they call and they still have not got +in touch with me.",3 +Relative's death.,4 +"It was in December last year that I was chosen to come to this +Institution to study as a Medical Assistant.",1 +"Something very unpleasant happened when I was a soldier and I was +directly involved in it.",5 +"I was to inform the neighbour on my left that a robber had been +spotted the same evening near the house of the neighbour in front. +I did not do it and the same day the thieves broke into this +neighbour's house.",5 +Finished a difficult midterm.,1 +When my dad caught me with a honey (girlfriend) in my bedroom.,2 +When I learnt that I had been accepted at UNZA.,1 +"I phoned a friend of mine to ask her for news about the marks in +an exam. She told me that I had passed.",1 +"When I was offered a high position of trust, which I later +accepted.",1 +Someone ruining someone's property just for the fun of it.,0 +Listening to horrot stories at night.,6 +When I had my first boyfriend.,1 +"When my father suffered with dizziness. He had to be +hospitalized, because the physician didn't know what was wrong. +Because his stools were black, I thought it could be cancer.",6 +"Bisshop Ter Schure intoduced himself on TV to the Dutch Nation. +He spoke as if he was God himself, and didn't discuss the way he +had achieved this position.",0 +"When a friend of mine discussed with me, I felt fear of losing +her. This occurred because we had a missunderstanding between +mutual colleagues.",6 +"On the occasion of assignment of tasks and responsibilities in +which such an assignment, dispropotionately carried with it high +responsibility and low ability of organisation and resolution.",3 +When my uncle died.,4 +A friend misunderstood me.,4 +"Disappointed love. The girl made an end to our relationship while +I thought she was in love with me.",4 +"My girlfriend had started going around with another boy. Her +cousin, also a friend of mine, asked her as to who she preferred. + Both of us were present and she chose the other guy.",2 +"I went to the shopping centre to buy something and saw packets of +Kapenta with maggots in them. Oh !",0 +"When the time came for me to see dead bodies and to operate on +them.",6 +"I was angry at my boyfriend who had promised to come to see me +but did not because he spent the evening with his pals.",3 +"A very, very close friend of mine used to come to my room to +see me and I naver bothered to pay him a visit. One day he asked +me the reason behind this and I gave him a shirt.",5 +"When I was younger I was very good in apparatus gymnastics. I +always won in competitions, but once I was only at the fourth +place.",4 +Saw in the TV South Korea cheating in the Asian Olympic games.,3 +I was scolded by my mother for no reason.,3 +"A few years back I had proposed love to a girl who later turned out +to be related to me. Though we were in love with each other, we +both felt ashamed and withdrew from each other.",2 +"I was on my way back from the Inter Rail, on board the ferry from +Stockholm when my father called me at 7 o'clock to tell me that my +uncle had died and that I would be seeing him off on his final +journey within four days.",4 +"When I used to go to my chief asking about any doubt about the job +and he didn't care, didn't answer me, leaving me speaking alone.",3 +"A whole crowd of us went to a folklore festival. The instructor +of the cast where my boyfriend played was traveling with us. We +decided to catch the train that leaved early in the morning +because we had business on the following day. The instructor +tried to get the upper hand and made us catch the train in spite +of everything, all the time he made me angry.",3 +When my cousin passed away.,4 +"When a ""friend"" dropped a frog down my neck, and I didn't know +what it was.",0 +The day after the night I drank too much at a party.,2 +When I forgot my mother's birthday.,2 +"I quarreled with my boy-friend. He said it was unfair that I +always started crying so that he had to give in.",5 +When my father died.,4 +When my mother died.,4 +The loss of my mother.,4 +"I returned home late from a party last night and I felt afraid +trying to anticipate the reaction of my father.",6 +When I was admitted to a certain school as a student.,1 +"I am separated from my husband. The way he has behaved towards +me makes me angry.",3 +"I insulted my friend for a small reason and after time I realised +that I was wrong and felt ashamed; everytime I meet her I feel +ashamed.",2 +"Several years ago I was caught riding the train without a ticket. +The station-mistress treated me like a criminal almost.",2 +"I made a remark to my sister concerning her attitude to men, the +way she talked and I compared her to an acquaintance of mine. +Later, the same evening, my sister looked sad. I felt guilty +about her sadness.",5 +"When I lost a wallet while travelling, since it belonged to the +group I was very afraid.",6 +"My friend has to go on field trips, he just told me.",4 +"In 1983, my results at the university entrance exam were very +poor - far from what I had expected. I thought that I would not +be accepted at the university.",4 +"On Reperbahn, in a restaurant, a ""charming"" old saleswoman came +to beg a drink for herself.",0 +"When I was a child I played my mother a nasty trick to make her +feel hurt.",2 +"This emotion happened when I passed my primary school examination +and was selected for Secondary School.",1 +"It was discovered that I had received a warning letter as my +G.P.A was very low.",2 +"When my little sister was sick at home and I thought that she +would die.",6 +"Some months ago my wife gave birth to twin sisters. She had no +idea of looking after babies and she felt quite oppressed. The +fact that I couldn't help her caused grief to me.",4 +"A girl with whom I was staying having sex with a person for about +3 nights running, and then with his brother the following night, +and back again.",0 +"When you are unjustly assessed at something you are sure to have +been right.",3 +"I imagined I heard footsteps up the hall while sleeping in bed +one night by myself in the house.",6 +My friend will find out that I am in love with her.,4 +"This is a kind of confession - my mum found me stealing meat from +the pot.",5 +"Having unwanted attention paid to me in my place of work - +harrassment (and sexual harrassment) by another worker - +disgusted by his implications.",0 +"Talking to friends about how old you are and we cannot be as +successful as you at your age.",2 +"My parents and brother came up over the weekend. We are a very +close family. This was my first year away from home. They brought +one jacko-lantern with a new design. That is the old joke that +we have a great new design - it's always the same.",1 +When I lied to the physiology teacher.,5 +"When I was to sit for my first entrance exam. I had fear of a +possible failure.",6 +Borrowed someone else's towel without asking.,5 +"I told my boy friend not to park in a certain place because the +car would ger towed away - he didn't listen and it was towed away. +At that stage, our finances were below the poverty line & it +cost us $10.00 - all the money we had to get us through that week +(including rent).",3 +"I was in ""Hainburg"" in December and I was angry about the +politicians and the police.",3 +"When I learnt that my younger sister had been expelled from +secondary school because she was pregnant. That was the second +time that this happened in the family - the first time it had +been my elder sister.",3 +"When playing a football match, there was one player who made mean +tackels, kicked at everything and did things having nothing to do +with football.",3 +"Stranded in the north of Fraser Island with a submerged 4 WD hire +vehicle.",6 +"At the pre-university, I was appreciated as an examplary +student by our pricipal. This is something which made me feel +very happy.",1 +"Attitude to some manners of dealing and some ""sanctioned"" +relations.",3 +"On a sailing boat at night, under a full moon, listening to Pink +Floyd, drinking good wine, with good company, the boat being +steered by autopilot, and a full eclipse of the moon.",1 +"Talkiing about the past happy hours with two friends at night in +a camp a few months ago. We shared our feelings, notions and +every hidden anxiety. I thought that they cared for me and I +was very happy and satified.",1 +"I was indignant at the unimpartiality shown by the referees at +the football match between Bulgaria and France.",3 +"When my best friend promised to come at my house and I had to +prepare so many expensive things for her but only to learn at +last that she would not turn up.",4 +South Korea cheating for gold medals.,3 +"When the bank let me borrow some money this winter, after my +grant was spent.",1 +"When I am in an auditorium with people and I ask a silly question +so that everyone starts to laugh.",2 +"I feel ashamed at the fact that even after 35 years of independence +70% of the Indian poulation is still below the poverty line.",2 +I can't remember ever feeling shame.,2 +"After I had cheated my parents that I had lost my textbooks so +they had to send me money.",5 +"It was last week on Saturday night when I was at Mchesi. I feared +to cross the Lilongwe River Bridge to come back to School due to +darkness - until somebody had to escort me.",6 +When I felt that my love was returned.,1 +"When I used to tell Mum I was going somewhere else than where I +was (going).",5 +"My cat died from an illness. It had been with us for 7 years. +It was a lovely cat. It had been ill for one or two weeks and +the veterinary surgeon had told us that it was dying.",4 +"At the weekend I wanted to be absent from school because of a +sports event, but my teacher refused to give me the day off +because he didn't like me.",3 +When I was left alone at home one night by my brother.,6 +My grand father caught me eating his private jelly bean supply.,2 +Once I had to visit a rather special person.,2 +"I noticed that Meryl Streep and I had similar cheekbones and jaw +structure.",1 +"When an acquaintance (he was drunk) of my room-mate vomitted on the kitchen +carpet. It was past mid-night and my room-mate had just moved in, +this acquaintance had helped her move in. +",0 +"When my father came into the bathroom and saw me standing there +naked.",2 +"Found out that me and my best friend are both chosen for the +English lectures.",1 +"When I argue with my boyfriend, I feel as though he feels +superior to me.",3 +"At a moment of affect I offended a person very close to me. He +had given me ground for that but it was a trifling in comparison +with the way I insulted him. A moment later I felt a sense of +guilt.",5 +NO RESPONSE,0 +"I was angry about how the government acted concerning Hainburg, +especially when I saw a discussion about it on TV.",3 +"At secondary school, one of my classmates lost her locker key. +During a class I saw two other classmates holding a key and +talking secretly. I do not know why I suspected them, also +another classmate supported me. He remembers that these people +had only one key in the key-ring, this had seemed strange to him. + Besides another classmate said that he had seen them selling +books at a book-shop and they should not have had such books. I +told the teacher and the person was caught. He had sold the +books and was forced to quit school. I found that I had not +helped him as he stole later on also. I felt guilty",5 +"At one occasion I was ashamed of being refused after a proposal +for a friendship with a certain girl. I was ashamed because she +refused publically in the presence of my fellow friends.",2 +"Motorcyclistic accident where for some minutes I didn't know if I +was alive or dead, I remained ""cold levered"" during the situation +but felt great fear.",6 +"I had not written to, or called my grandmother, who was lonely, +for a long time. My mother asked me to call her on her behalf +and when I did so, my grandmother was delighted and she told me +that she had been waiting for some news from us.",5 +" In some special circumstances l lied to my parents, then felt +guilty so I told them the truth and felt free.",5 +"I trusted a friend of mine, but she lied to me about something +and this disgusted me.",0 +When my aunt passed away in early 1982.,4 +I had drunk a couple of beers and my fiancee got angry at me.,4 +"A chief was unjustly punished on an autumn brigade and the one +who was really guilty kept silent. I stepped in front and told +the truth. The guilty chief called me in after the roll-call and +threatened me.",3 +"At a lack of love of my father for my mum, sadness for him more +than anyone else because he does not realise how much love and +happiness there could be between them, and is, and how much he is +damaging himself apart from mum.",4 +"After our sad first of May party, I felt ashamed because the +friends who had been invited had to suffer. We, the organizers +of the party, did not drive the intruders away.",2 +When I found that my coldness had hurt somebody's sincerity.,4 +"The day I got a letter from the U.G.C informing me that I had +been awarded the junior research fellowship.",1 +Talking with someone I admire a lot.,1 +When I passed the B.A exams with first class results.,1 +"I got angry when I learned how short a time we had to prepare for +the term examinations.",3 +"When they threw my holder down on the floor, with all my notes for +an exam inside it and they got all mixed up.",3 +"I visited a special education school. The headmaster applied a +policy of strict positive - negative reinforcement to the +children involved. Children who measured up to his standards were +made a fuss of - children who didn't were ignored.",3 +"The day the results of the university entrance exam was +published, I found my canditate number and I was very excited.",1 +"I had joined a youth group that observed the affairs of our +community and so I had many opportunities to contact the +government and the committee members of the district board (a +local executive structure). We always tried to consult and +discuss with them, but we found that such people did not +understand community affairs and they even dampened our +enthusiasm in local affairs. I did not understand why they had +decided to work as community leaders.",0 +I got separated form my closest friend. He went to work abroad.,4 +"The doctors from Belogradchik town determined a wrong diagnosis +to my son. A month later, after some complex examinations at ISUL +(A medical institute in Sofia), the diagnosis was categorically rejected.",3 +"[ When someone tells me something that hurts me, I feel bad about +it and also feel sad.]",4 +When my fellow classmates were involved in a quarrel.,0 +My roommate was rude to me.,3 +"A friend catched me while masturbating. I am not fully sure +whether she saw it or not.",2 +"Finding out about some girls who have been nice to the class +leader in order to go to the neuropsychology lectures (English +ones).",3 +"I felt very angry when a mishanga seller robbed me of the +transport money I had to go to school.",3 +Someone spread rumours about me.,3 +"My living and working conditions at home were unbearable. We used +to live in a three room flat together with two more families. The +discords caused a change - one of the families moved out. The +other family stayed with us but I drifted away from my fiancT. In +fact we were two families in the flat. Then I found myself alone +in the struggle for this life because my fiancT did not stay next +to me my grief and sorrow took on large proportions. I wanted to +commit suicide but instead I threw myself against the cause of +the irritation.",4 +"This is one feeling I never betray, but I must confess that the +last time I slighty felt happy was when I passed my M.A with a +high rank. This was a few years ago when my friend told me about +the result.",1 +"Getting drunk and creating a lot of trouble at a place I respect +- my friend's home.",2 +"[ For example, unfair pushing in a bus.]",3 +"When I stated sharply something I was not very sure of and a few +days later I was shown to be wrong.",2 +When my team lost a championship.,4 +"When my brother went out with my new shirt that I adored, and +returned it dirty with grease.",3 +"When I told my sister I had slept with my boyfriend, and she at +first was mad at me I then felt shame for this act, but not +guilt.",2 +An Engineer I know wants war so he can get a job making bombs.,0 +When I missed the tram after having run for it.,3 +"I thought I would be able to use the mangle of the house, and so +I did not want any help. However, I blocked it and I had to get +the janitor to help me out. He reproached me for not having +followed the instructions",2 +"At school when I had a shouting argument with a friend over my +ability to carry out a particular duty in the correct way without +harming her.",3 +"I ran a race for the CAL track team and I did terribly and then +the coach said that I should sit out for the season. I felt +really sad because I wasn't going to be able to run. It was +something I always had done and now I couldn't do it anymore.",4 +"Some time ago I took the driving test. I did answer the +theoretical questions very well, but I failed the practical +driving test. It was my fault because I had not enough practice.",5 +"I once stole a shirt from the Department Store in which I work. I +have been promoted to work in a very privileged section of the +store. Their belief in my integrity makes me feel even guiltier.",5 +"If I don't go to lectures, I often feel ashamed.",2 +"While walking on the street with a good friend of mine, we met an +acquaintance of hers. My friend started showing off and telling +false stories about herself and praising herself.",0 +"I became very angry with my friend because he didn't do shopping, +while we agreed on him doing this. My being angry was proved to be +without reason and I felt guilty about it.",5 +"3 years ago I served in the army. Once a collegue denounced me +because of a delict, which is usually committed. I was arrested +for 3 days. I still detest this man.",0 +"When someone took my things without having asked for my +permission.",3 +"That was what I felt when I was finally accepted in the Bulgarian +Conservatorie after I had applied a couple of years.",1 +"I had to unscrew something on my car. I didn't succeed after two +afternoons of trying. A feeling of anger built up itself.",3 +"I was afraid when my dog ran out through a crack in the fence +when a train was coming.",6 +"When I met another person I began to go out with him, and my +boyfriend (with marriage accorded) met us together he did a great +scandal, he broke the engagement and I began to go out with the +other, and it didn't work because my mind was all mixed up.",5 +"When I was beaten up by thieves on behalf of some friends of mine +as they thought that I had a lot of money and would not part +with a few coins for their drinks.",3 +"During the English lesson we were required to do a play. A few +days after doing it the teacher asked us to do it again at a meeting +and I forgot my part.",2 +"As the only person in my family into academics, I ought to have +looked after my younger (and only) sister better, with respect to +her education and life experiences.",5 +"Once I was alone at home. I suddenly felt unwell and there was no +one to help me and call First Aid.",6 +To buy a car and didn't like the business and the car.,4 +"My mother and my sister carried on picking at me all day long for +no reason at all and I ended up getting angry.",3 +When I got separated from the woman I loved.,4 +"The weekend after I argued with my parents I went home again and +they couldn't have been nicer. As soon as I walked in, Mum kissed +me, then Dad, and thanked me for the birthday presents I'd left +for him, including a very sentimental birthday card.",1 +"When I was in a car with my parents and friends and we had to +back up (reverse) pass a river which when I recall it (I was only +about 5 yrs) seemed we were going to fall in and drown.",6 +"There was joy in me when I heard that I was to take a course as a +Medical Assistant.",1 +"My friend and I planned to search for old documents and utensils +in the cellar. It was very late at night when we arrived in the +cellar. He indicated the place where the police (40 years ago) found +two dead bodies. I got very scared when he told me this story.",6 +"At the end of my holiday job I got less money than was due to me +and nobody mentioned anything about that.",3 +I did not do my homework and went to see a film.,5 +When I entered in the University after a year of struggles.,1 +"When my aunt scolded me for something I was not responsible for. +A boy had come to our gate asking for me, my aunt went out to see +him. I had neither met nor known the boy.",3 +"I made an unkind remark about the ethnicity of some friends +without realizing it.",2 +"A gang of screaming and drunk youths ""captured"" a tram.",6 +"When I beat up a first year student at my secondary school in +my capacity as the deputy head boy. He had woken up late in the +morning for manual work.",5 +"When I was six years old, my favourite cat died.",4 +When I passed a very important exam.,1 +"When I talked maliciously about a colleague at work to someone +else. Immediately afterwards I felt ashamed.",2 +"When I was 12 years old I was caught by the Ticket Collector when +travelling without a ticket.",2 +Finding out that I can go to your English lectures.,1 +"I am always sad when my boyfriend goes away. He lives and studies +in an other city. We have gone steady for 2 and 1/2 years and +everything is going very well, but sometime this situation makes +me feel bad and very lonely.",4 +"When I climbed up a tree to pick apples. The angle of the ladder +I was on did not enable me to get high enough. This implied +that the ladder was not very stable.",6 +"A day when I was getting out of the shower I covered only the +front part of my body with a towel (I was 7 years old), and I +didn't see that my cousin was in the room.",2 +When I got indecent offers.,0 +When my grandmother died.,4 +I could not do the questions on my math midterm.,6 +"When, for example, I was not approved to continue my studies at +the Moscow University, no matter that I had the highest marks and +in general the best records of all the candidates.",3 +"It happened when I still went to school: I got closer to a girl +but I considered it only as an ""affair"". Only much later I realized +how painful this must have been for the girl.",5 +"When my boyfriend did not turn up in time as he promised he would +be coming.",4 +When I met my boyfriend with another girl.,0 +"When I talked to another student about the notes she got last +semester, not knowing that she got a lot of bad grades.",5 +"When my mother slapped me in the face, I felt anger at that +moment.",3 +"When I was face to face with my deceived friend after sleeping +with his wife.",5 +"When you kill yourself with work and see the number of slakers +wandering around, doing nothing.",3 +"I was looking after a child and she fell down because I was not +paying her much attention. One side of her face got bruised.",5 +"No very strong such emotion. Treatment of my sister by her +dancing instructor - he is a ""user"", i.e., takes advantage of her +good nature.",0 +"I suffer from a disease of my muscles. Therefore, I am only able +to attend lectures for half a day. So, sometimes I miss +obligatory lectures. However, the teachers do not take into +account my disease, and punish me with detention work, resulting in +an overload.",3 +"The sports fishermen who catch gulls instead of fish with their hooks. + It is often a mistake but it makes me angry.",3 +When a friend of mine was trying to make a fool out of me.,3 +When I was accused of something I had not done.,3 +"I had subscribed for this test. We were informed by our +secretary where the test took place. We went over there and thought +there was a course. So we went back again I felt ashamed that the +secretary again should see me.",2 +"As a young girl in form I, I wet my bed one day at the boarding +school and many girls came to see the person who had done it as I +had to take my mattress out that day.",2 +"I was crossing the street together with some colleagues of mine +when I suddenly found myself almost under the wheels of a truck.",6 +"In a restaurant, I made the acquaintance of a boy who always told +the same things in a very loud voice. I laughed and said to him +that he always repeated the same things. Some time later I heard +that he had undergone a complicated brain operation.",2 +Meeting an old friend from high school.,1 +Failed to recagnize a friend on the street.,2 +"When I was notified that I had been accepted as a Psychology +student.",1 +"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked +quite a lot. This made me feel low for a some time.",4 +"When a patient had died soon after I had told the guardian to +wait outside the ward.",5 +"When I was young I had gone to an old lift and played with the +antique lift. The guy discovered me and warned me, I was very +frightened.",6 +"Heard that my girl-friend was chosen for the English lectures and +I was not. I lost my temper and she is very upset now.",5 +"People having a football match outside the window during the +lecture.",3 +"When someone accuses me without reason and is not willing to +listen to me.",3 +"I got an A in anatomy - the first one I have ever gotten in a +science class here.",1 +"I hate hypocrisy. My friend (girl) tried to intrude into my +affairs with my future husband. After that she behaved as if +nothing had happened.",0 +"I beat my young sister because she refused to wash plates. She +started crying and I felt sorry and guilty for what I did.",5 +When I can see my parents because now I am far from them.,1 +"Going out with another girl besides my girlfriend and not telling +her.",5 +"When the person I'm having the affair with won't talk to me in +public.",3 +When I see people who have no sentiments.,0 +"[ I can not remember anything in particular. What I can remember +is feelings of having done or said something which then had +negative consequences.]",5 +"I had been separated from my girlfriend for about a year. On her +birthday I put a present in her mailbox. I had spent two days +choosing a suitable present for her. I waited for a few days and +there was no reply from her; at last I received a thank-you card +in my mailbox. On the card there was only my name, the words thank-you +and her signature. I was very sad then.",4 +"Receiving a much wanted letter from a very good friend who lives +abroad.",1 +"The day I encountered a queer mamba face to face in a chunk of +leaves behind our house.",6 +"Winning a rowing race at a Karapiro regatta. With 7 other +friends.",1 +I was angry this morning when I missed the train to university.,3 +"When I pass exams, or when a close friend of mine recovered +from an illness,etc.",1 +"I counterfeited a mark in the school register during the lesson +in gymnastics. I felt this feeling two days later when I stood +face to face with my teacher, whom I highly appreciated and +respected.",2 +When my mother quarrelled with my aunt over me.,3 +"When I dream of anything terrifying I used to have fear for the +rest of the day that the dream might come true e.g., being beaten +(or eaten ?) by a snake.",6 +When I shouted at my mother when she was nervous and depressed.,5 +"When I was looking for a job I felt a lot of fear but the fear +was greater when I found it.",6 +"When other people refuse to do their house jobs and give the +work to someone else.",0 +"There is a girl at my work that doesn't take care much of her +hygiene she comes always with her hair oiled, a not very agreable +smell, and a bad appearance. Beside this she tries to be nice.",0 +In summer when I was sailing with friends in Greece I felt joy.,1 +"I was riding with a friend in his car. At a speed of 120 km/h on +the snow-covered motorway I would have liked to get out.",6 +"My roommate being nice to a party leader in order to get into the +party.",0 +"My teacher asked me a question which I failed to answer and I was +told to stay behind after the class and give the answer after +studying it from a book.",2 +"Once a friend had pushed me and I had fallen on to a window which +then broke. I was taken to tthe principal's office and he +accused me of having broken the window.",3 +"When I saw a girl in my economics discussion section smiling and +asking stupid questions to the TA. just to get attention. She was +obviously ass-kissing. It happens in every Econ. discussion held +weekly.",0 +"Receiving close friends form abroad, whom I hadn't seen for +years.",1 +"The way my husband and his family treated me - unfairly, cruelly, +and unjustly.",0 +I felt extreme joy the day I was baptized. I was one with God.,1 +"When I finally managed to get a specific sound from my guitar, +after baving tried for a long time.",1 +Saw a selfish person doing a selfish thing.,0 +"One day in a crossroad somebody crashed my car. I got out and +this person laughed at me. I felt such a great anger that I got +in my car and went away.",3 +"I had promised to visit my girlfriend but for different reasons +could not make it. I rang up later to tell her that I could not +come.",5 +When I failed one of the first year's courses.,2 +Once when I said bad things concerning a friend.,2 +"[ Cycling in the spring sunshine gives me such delight. +Happiness is to be healthy, my wonderful finance. Simply being +here on earth.]",1 +"When I laughed at a lame man walking down the road, it looked +funny at the time but later I felt lousy. It was the same day +that I had stolen some coins from my mother in the shop.",5 +Fear of thief.,6 +"Eating the last remains of dinner that someone else (unknown to +me) had claimed.",5 +"I was on a concert-tour and therefor seperated from my +boy-friend. But I needed warmth which was given by a male member +of the orchestra. My feelings towards him were not very deep, but +his feelings were. I felt guilty when he said ""I am not a +radiator"". + +",5 +General Ye Jianying died.,4 +"When I tell someone no. In other words when I refuse to do +something although I could have helped him.",5 +"[ A person close to me told me that his positive regard depended +on my conduct.]",4 +Left alone in the dark in a big building.,6 +"Saw on TV China not winning more gold medals in the Asian +Olympics.",2 +"When I was small, I would always fight with my younger sister and +one time I hit her and knocked the wind out of her. I felt real +bad about it.",2 +"When the result of a project work was treated nonchalantly +intead of being criticized by the teacher.",4 +When I took the car of someone without saying it to him.,5 +"A girl dropped some stuff from her bag and when I tried to help +her I realized that she had used me and I was made to look like a +fool.",5 +"I tried to date a girl, but she refused.",2 +"When my room-mate was making noise deliberately, by playing a +flute early in the morning while I was trying to study.",3 +I broke my friend's badminton racket and she kept quiet about it.,5 +"I slept in a tent at the Barracks which caught fire at night and +my best possessions got burnt in there.",4 +"I feel fear when I only imagine I could lose confidence in my own +abilities and powers. A similar feeling I feel sometimes before +an exam.",6 +"When I let my girlfriend use my essay to help her to write hers +and the tutor found them alike.",2 +Good news about a sick relative.,1 +When I and the boy next door set fire to a house by accident.,5 +Before the examn.,1 +"I am a teacher in arts and crafts (boys from 15-16 years). for +them it is obligatory and they dislike it. They tease me. When one of +them cut up some material I flared up.",3 +My best friend betrayed me and told other people my secrets.,3 +Saw Chinese people flattering foreigners.,0 +"The time I drove my uncle's car, without having asked for his +permission. It was the first time that I was driving a car.",6 +"1976, Soweto uprising in South Africa and the racist Gout's +reaction to the students demands concerning the educational +system.",4 +"I had a quarrel with a friend who lived with me in the same flat. +He moved out. Before he went he invited me and some friends for a +drink. At last he was totally drunk and smelled disgusting. +Besides, he told lies about us and behaved as if he was to be +pitied.",0 +"When I read about Reagan's tactical decision concerning the +South African boycott.",3 +Damaged the tap in the residental Hall.,6 +"My mother kicked my surrogate father out and he in turn did not +care for the dog, Afthur, he bought for the family. His lack of +concern lead tho Arthur's death on the freeway. I loved Arthur +like a brother. He was easy to talk to.",4 +When I talk to my friends.,1 +Breaking up with a girl.,4 +When my grandmother died after a long illness.,4 +"With a woman who had walked into my place of employment and +urinated on the floor in front of everyone.",0 +"When a relative, who had come to our place, created untidyness +and dirtyness.",3 +"When after a lot of provocation my child threw a plate on the +floor.",3 +Not finishing homework in time.,2 +When the relationship with my girlfriend broke up.,4 +Continous fear of a nuclear war.,6 +"I invited two friends. We should go out together. Those two girls +kept talking about boys, chatting up etc. I bacame sick of it.",3 +"When I was finally able to return to a job that I enjoyed doing +after several months absence (I was not needed during this time).",1 +"My friends promised me that they would definitely call me to tell +me if they were visiting me or not.",3 +"I felt guilty when I said bad things to my sister, I had not +intended to do so. She cried a lot and later she fell ill and I +felt responsible for her illness.",5 +"A conflict with a pupil and there were probatory teachers +present.",2 +"Out on a weekend with a group of people, everybody felt irritated +because at night the music didn't stop in time. And at breakfast +my boyfriend ran away because we didn't agree with him. I felt +angry.",3 +I do not help out enough at home.,5 +Disgust of drunkers and of blood.,0 +"When I began school at UC. The pre-enrollment the classes, and +the question of success really scared me.",6 +"Once at a camp a classmate criticized me in front of others. Now +I find that this classmate is very disgusting.",0 +Finding out about Chinese money cannot buy foreign journals.,3 +"When I got the scholarship I was very happy as the finacial +burden of the family was reduced.",1 +"Almost crashing my car, something which could have led to great +problems.",6 +"The same fact about the girl (22 years, married - guilt - +disgust), the fear was the main factor in our relationship.",6 +"Equivocal situation when filling a security questionnaire on +entering a government building with several people there.",2 +"When I was 12 years old I frequently was pursued by others and +got sound thrashes.",6 +When I was with someone I love.,1 +China not doing well in the Asian Olympic games.,2 +"Asking someone to give me back the money I once lend him because +I needed it myself.",2 +"I was travelling from Delhi to Bombay. I had booked a seat one +month back and I had also got a telegram confirming this. +However, in the train my name had been omitted from the +reservation sheet, and the one seat that was still vacant was +alloted to another person who paid for it despite my requests for the +seat. I was allowed to stay in the reserved compartment when I +paid money.",3 +About Sweden's arms exports.,2 +"Last Summer I was walking along the beach in a bikini and an +awful man came cycling after me. He was shouting and I ran as +fast as my legs could carry me.",6 +"I was reading in the paper the feature on Henry Lucas who claims +to have killed 380 people. He was a recreational killer and a +necrophiliac and zoophiliac. He has raped and beaten many women +and killed men too.",0 +"Finding out that China does not have enough foreign currency to +buy books.",2 +"My mother had just been teaching me how to crochet, which is +thought highly improper for a boy in a town. Just when we +finished, a neighbour walked in.",2 +Adultery with a friend's girlfriend.,5 +Being put down by the class leaders.,3 +"I was walking home from a place on southside and I live on +Northside and I was followed. I headed my most direct route.",6 +"I had a girlfriend which I used to call regularly. Then I didn't +phone her for a while. At a certain moment I felt a little +tension which became worse.",5 +My partner left me after we had been together for a long time.,4 +"Saying goodbye at the airport to my boyfriend who has to go to +school back East. We are very close and have been together 4 +years.",4 +"When I felt powerless to help the poor or when I don't know how +to.",4 +"I was angry the other day because the teacher told me to sweep +some orange peels. It was my friends who were supposed to sweep, +but the teacher told me to do it.",3 +"After the accident which I described in SHAME. I came to myself +and saw how terrible everything looked like. I disgusted myself +and everything I saw.",0 +"In May 18th, 1984 my boyfriend went to the U.S.A. In December I +was told he passed away. He had cancer of the Oesophagus.",4 +"When I missed my train this morning, I felt sad for some time.",4 +"In the compartment of a public transport railway, I did not give +my seat to an old man who was standing near me. It was another +teenager who did so.",2 +"When I was accepted for my third year (G-10) at my former +secondary school.",1 +I felt guilty when I lied to my parents.,5 +"In the last year of the high school we had a huge fight between +my group and the graduation commission (two students of my +classroom) because they accused us unjustly of a gossip about +them.",3 +"Once, when I was ten, I could not remember why my mother was so +angry. She fainted suddenly and I was very scared as I did not +know what to do .",6 +"When I forgot to take out money for my mother. She asked me what +she would do, because I had messed up her program for the +following day.",5 +"I blew up at someone for being confused and because of his +irresponsibility and afterwards I felt guilty and that I had no +right.",5 +My mother's death.,4 +When I failed the M.S.C exam.,2 +When I could not do anything because of a bad back.,4 +"I had a summer job in Sweden, and my boyfriend came to meet me on +my birthday.",1 +I experienced this emotion when my grandfather passed away.,4 +"Two little children (5/6 years old) begging for money, and noone +gave them money.",4 +"My friend came to the concert for my sake as it was me who had +organized it and the concert was unsuccessful.",5 +"I wanted to get rid of a bad habit and it seemed that I had +succeeded. However a year later I got the bad habit again. I felt +useless as I always found excuses to explain my behaviour. As a result I +felt guilty.",5 +"When I was little - Mum caught me telling a lie about who broke +the cup.",2 +"Achievement of a task by a friend who had begun a new job. She +wasn't confident of handling the situation so was thinking of +leaving the job only after 2 days employment.",1 +I realized that the girl I loved had to leave me.,4 +"I was sitting on an electric swing, suddenly the machine went +out of order while I was still in the upward position.",6 +"I went home late one evening and saw that the security lights +were off. I got inside the gate and just then I realized that +the dogs may be outside.",6 +"It was my birthday and all the members of the group made me a +surprise in a public place at 10 p.m. giving me flowers and suvenirs.",2 +"My mother and I had an argument over buying some clothes for me. +She did not accept the fact that I did not like the same things +as her, and we ended up shouting at each other.",3 +"This was when the girl I was in love with accepted my proposal +and everything went smoothly, just as I had wanted it to. It was +contrary to my previous feelings of uncertainty about her +response.",1 +My fiancT left me for my best friend.,4 +"In Ward 1A was an epileptic patient who was burnt the whole body +and was stinking very much such that the whole ward was affected. +Few people could come near him.",0 +A friend died of cancer when he was 18 years old.,4 +"I went out with my sister, her boyfriend and his friend. I did +not like this young man. But suddenly he overcame me and kissed +me. He was very strong so that I could not defend myself.",0 +"It was not long ago when I and two of friends of mine got quite drunk +and one of them began to rave under the influence of the alcohol. +I felt fear of what could have happened.",6 +"I feared that my dog's eye was infected too much. He had played +around in the weeds and a foxtail had gotten under his eyelid. I +took him to the vet and I feared that he may go blind because of +the foxtail.",6 +"When I received my TE Score and my acceptance from University - +it had been a goal since I left the bank a year earlier.",1 +Before important sports events.,6 +"I assisted to a scene where the police attacked a person that +didn't have his documents. The savagery was too much, and the +attacked person bleeded to much.",0 +An inter-college basket-ball match.,6 +"A friend of mine could not make it back to Unza after having +failed the exams.",4 +"When I saw the film ""Johnny got his gun"" which deals with the +consequences of the Vietnam war.",4 +"I was once called in court in Zemba Traditional court to answer a +charge of impregnanting a young lady, I felt guilty for she had +some letters which I used to write her as an exhibit in court.",5 +"One day while we were strolling along the road one of my +friends suggested that we go and watch a blue film. I was +curious so I went along but I felt quite guilty later.",5 +When my first niece was born.,1 +Overeating a traditional type of food - blood pudding.,0 +"My P.T. instructor also works as a masseur. He wanted to massage +me, therefore I had to undress. For the first few times this was +not easy for me; I got gradually used to it.",2 +"I played in a stage play. Suddenly, in front of 200 people, I +could not remember the words I had to say.",2 +"Having to decide on a termination of a pregnancy, after +discussing it with friends, family and the man involved.",4 +A horse which I had liked very much was taken away.,4 +"I had a very short term romance during the summer vacations. When +we first met I felt excited but I wanted to avoid him after we had met +a few times and so I proposed that we stay apart, I felt very +sad then.",4 +"When I was convinced that someonne had broken into my flat and I +woke up and heard sounds that frightened me.",6 +"In the army, an acquaintance of mine tended to use his position +to advance his own interests.",0 +"I talk too much, cannot keep things secret. I promised a friend +not to tell something to anybody. Neverthless, I did, and she got +informed about it. I felt very ashamed.",2 +Got a present from my friend for my birthday.,1 +"My best friend had a relatively severe illness. I was sad +because she was suffering.",4 +"Every time, in the last few days, when my girlfriend told me that +she loves me.",1 +"I met my friend and he gave me a wonderful present as it was my +birthday. I enjoyed having that present.",1 +"Promising someone to do their job and then not being able to do +it due to transport troubles.",5 +"A drummer who had borrowed my drums destroyed both the drumskin +and the sticks. He did not repair them nor did he tell me about +it.",3 +"When my mother and father split up I was angry: I felt deprived +and ""different"" from other children at school.",3 +"In a public swimming hall I saw a very aggressive man who +practically attacked the children who got in his way when he was +swimming.",0 +"[ I have felt shame but am unable to remember any particular +incident.]",2 +"After the interview for admission to the university and before +the admission list was disclosed. I was scared that I would not +be admitted and my fear lasted for quite some time. My fear +disappeared only after the list was disclosed.",6 +"When I hadn't studied for an exam, so I pretended to be sick so I +wouldn't have to go to school. I lied to my mother - she realized +I had been lying when she got home from work and found that I had +been over to a friend's place.",2 +"Teenage neighbours smashed my letterbox for the fifth time in a +couple of months. It was a deliberate action of kids who had +stayed in my home, had meals there yet took a dislike to my +daughter. ",3 +"I was keeping a friend's Library book which went overdue. My +friend was charged for the delay in returning the book to the +Library. I felt guilty when I realised I was responsible.",5 +Almost always when I go to fetch the results of an exam.,6 +"I went to a fair where a guy who was drunk kept bothering me and +in the end I got really angry.",3 +I stole 5c from my mother's purse for a choo-choo bar - I was 6.,5 +"At a party, I started talking to a guy I had seen in one of my +classes. My boyfriend felt awkward and left to talk to a friend +but kept on looking at me as I talked.",5 +I was ashamed to tell my mother that I fell down with a bicycle.,2 +"When a colleague was rude with me because she didn't understand +the subject about which I was discussing.",3 +"I felt fear when I fell down and broke my leg into pieces and I +could not feel it at all.",6 +Fear to come and live in Nijmegen.,6 +"I had a discussion with my mother concerning my sister's divorce, +we disagreed strongly.",3 +"At what I was capable of of selfishly using others for sexual +encounters, while I held a vision of having a deepening +above-board (you know, ""girl next door"") devotion to a girl in my +head. My drives and actions did not match this so consequently I +felt disgusted at my failure.",0 +"Seeing maltreated, dead animals.",0 +To force someone to do something that suits me.,5 +"I suffer form a disease of my muscles. However, I cannot talk +about it and my feelings, the consequence with my parents. They +try to repress it.",4 +Had to tell people that my parents are divorced.,2 +Telling friends about your nickname.,5 +"I was driving on to a busy freeway during rush hour and it was +slightly raining. A diesel truck was coming very close behind me +and I was close behind a pick-up. I changed lanes and barely hit +the truck and ran a Honda of the road. I was scared to death to +go back and see if I caused him to crash.",6 +"I felt it today when the bus driver shouted rather indecent words +at a man without any reason whatsoever.",0 +"When I acted in a negative way at a certain moment by laziness +to concede a moment of the time I thought to be my own.",5 +"When I was caught telling a white lie. At that time, I was not +allowed to stay outdoors after 8 p.m. One day when I was late, I +made up a story that our neighbour had invited me to his place, +though I had actually forgotten about the time while playing with +my pals.",2 +"When my mother asked me to do a job for her which does not +require much effort on my part, yet I refused for selfish reasons +and saw her have to do it.",2 +When I met my mother after months of absence.,1 +"Sitting in the dorm when the guys were verbally reading letters +in Penthouse.",0 +"I had lunch with my ex-boyfriend and did not mention it to my +fiancee. I felt guilty despite the fact that I felt nothing for +my ex-boyfriend.",5 +"When my relatives troubled me so that I would help them +financially.",0 +"At my summer job, I was responsible for making various orders. +It was not me who had ordered some seasonal merchandise, but when +much of it was left over and had to be thrown away in the Autumn, +I felt partly responsible for the much too large order.",5 +"When an acquaintance of mine beat up another person for no just +reason, and thus showed off his power.",3 +"A fall during a climb, with almost with no previous experience.",6 +When my sister died in a fire accident at home.,4 +Speaking in front of a large group of people.,6 +"When my parents-in-law scolded me, without any reason, in front of the +other members of my family for the first time. They had called +me from my room where I had been studying for my exams.",0 +"When I was in the fifth class the rating was done in our +mark-books. I hadn't been examined yet but I had heard from my +classmates about the scolding they had got at home. My first +mark was in geography - good 4. I judged I had known for more +than that and I put down ""very good"" for fear of being scolded. +Naturally my parents guessed all about it. They rebuked me for +what I had done.",5 +"When I learnt that I could do further studies at the Chinese +university.",1 +When my B.A results had not come.,6 +Whenever I think of enrolling in Organic Chemistry.,6 +"When someone does not listen to me after having asked me to +repeat what I said. This happened more than one time with the +same person.",3 +"When my boyfriend wouldn't dance with me on my graduation night +because he thought I could dance with my friends who were +friendly.",3 +Saw the film about Eight Nations Army conquering Beijing.,2 +A young man was insulting and humiliating a drunken man.,0 +"When someone pointed out that I was proud, yet I didn't dress up +properly. This was when I and my friend went for a dnce one +Saturday.",2 +Won a prize for effort.,1 +"When I heard about the way a parent of a friend had mistreated +him, and caused a great instability.",0 +Quarrelled with my younger brother.,3 +"A boy I look after for the probation service deliberately +offended to provoke a reaction from the police.",4 +"When I inadvertantly entered the ladies room and met some girls +on my way out.",2 +"When a mistake occurred at work which I was not responsible for. +This was disclosed later.",5 +"The day I got married was the happiest day of my life. Both of +us felt that we were right for each other in every way and we had +no doubts about our compatibility right from the day we got +engaged.",1 +"I encouraged my brother to play football and he was hurt while +playing the game.",5 +When I boxed my child's ears.,2 +"When my brother was born, everything went all right. It had been +very likely that he would have a deficiency (my sister suffers +from Down's Syndrome) and that my mother would be in danger.",1 +"When a ""friend"" woke me up in the middle of a blessful sleep by +knocking on the door. Then he started calling me names and +saying that he had heard that I had been talking behind his back, this +was a lie and the guy was drunk to the core.",0 +"When I recently got a very positive answer from a clinic telling +me that they would willingly assist and collect data for me for a +clinical pilot study.",1 +"One day, when riding on a bicycle path, a car coming from the +opposite direction forced me to get off my bike although I had +the priority.",3 +"A colleague asked me for some advice and as he did not have +enough confidence in me he asked a third person.",3 +"A certain boy came into my room and started telling me that I was +not pretty, that I had no manners and that I should learn some. +I had just come to campus and he was in fourth year.",3 +Saw some girls dressed up like Americans,0 +"I am left-handed. When I attended the first form, we learned to +write with pens. I smeared everything I had written. All my +friends had written well and wanted to know why the teacher was +looking at my note-book. I was ashamed.",2 +"When a classmate wanted to sit down, I pulled his chair away, so +that he was slightly injured.",5 +"When I lost my grandmother. She had been my guardian after the +death of my father.",4 +"When I saw a man who hadn't the lower .... in a car +exhibition. He was passing a handkerchief from inside to outside +of his mouth.",0 +"When I discovered that the girl I was courting was a relative of +mine.",5 +"When I as a child of 9 or 10 I was playing doctor with the +neighbours boys their mother caught us.",2 +"I was cold to my sister without meaning it, just because I was +upset and frustated.",5 +"I had to go to the dentist's. When he touched my tooth with his +drill, I was terribly aftaid of the pain I would feel any moment.",6 +When I was caught with my girlfriend in the house at night.,5 +"A much older man took advantage of me during my childhood (four +to eight years of age).",2 +"When I was ill and had to stay at the hospital for a period of +time. ",4 +"Anger I felt when my boyfriend told me he didn't mind breaking it +off with me, i.e. each of us to take his own road. Because until +that moment, he deliberately restricted our dates. The motives +were brought to my knowledge later.",3 +"When I succeed in writing something I felt and doing it I felt +well and very happy for being able to express to myself something +that was suffocating me.",1 +"Returning to school and rejoining my girlfriend after 3 months of +separation from summer.",1 +"I felt guilty when I learnt that some of friends found the +finished at the Cafeteria because I took food which was more than +my share.",5 +Doing anatomy alone for the first time.,1 +"I felt guilty when I thought that I was still not standing on my +own feet.",5 +"During a discussion I said something rather stupid and +unnecessary.",2 +"I had a date with my girlfriend, the time and place had not been +fixed. I asked her to phone me an hour later as it was midnight +and I did not want to disturb her family. I waited several hours +for her call, she did not call me that night.",3 +"When I learned that a friend of mine had not been speaking to her +boyfriend for a week after an argument because of unfounded +jealousy.",4 +[ Whenever I do something prohibited or wrong I feel guilty.],5 +"When I was young I was playing football near my parent's house +and while playing I fell on the ground. At first I thought I was +not seen by anybody, but when my mother laughed I felt very +ashamed.",2 +"Power cut made me unable to listen to the songs sung by my +favourite pop star.",4 +"After my girl and I talked things over our relationship changed +and became positive. A diificult time turned into pleasant one.",1 +"The day the results of the Chinese university was announced I +should have been very happy; however my grandmother, because of +her prejudice and misunderstanding, started a quarrel with my +mother. She expected me to take her side and she deliberately +talked of my mother's wrong doings. I was very angry because - +one my grandmother was not being reasonable and two because it +should have been a happy day and three we had moved into a new +house that day.",3 +Not being able to be selected for the dancing team.,2 +"I had gone for a medical check-up at the U.T.H and failed to make +it back on time for the C119 practical sessions at 1400 hours +last academic year.",6 +"A friend of mine said in a group that she felt lonely and +withdrawn from everyone because of mental deficiency.",5 +When my dress was stolen.,3 +"Found out that the girl I love loves me, too.",1 +"Getting separated from my family for a week caused me a sense of +sadness.",4 +"When our government decided to withdraw student allowances as it +was one of the conditions imposed by the IMF. +",3 +Saw people quarreling in a bus.,0 +Staying alone in the biology building after the dark.,6 +"Guilt at often being unable to visit a close relative in hospital +after her death I felt very guilty and wished I had done more.",5 +China cannot buy your reference.,2 +When I was admitted to the Sofia University.,1 +"My father has a chronic desease. In the autumn of 1983 he had a +very strong fit or seizure.",6 +That someone would discover whom I really love.,6 +Years ago I ran away from home which disappointed my parents.,5 +When I was a kid I stole toys from other kids.,5 +"My mother told me that I could not go to the mountains. Despite +my age, as long as I am in her house I must do what she says.",3 +"Upon reading a story on a serial killer by the name of Henry Lee +Lucas who has been given the distinction of killing more people +that any other man. I began to wonder if I should take more care +for my safety.",6 +A relative died.,6 +When I felt the smell of industries that pollute.,0 +"A party with no worries (i.e. no tests homework etc.) many +friends were present and good music.",1 +"I was together with my family one night, a few days after my +father had died, during that conversation I expressed my +displeasure because nobody understands me.",4 +"When I slipped on a glazed frost road and a car almost ran into +me.",6 +Criticized in front of the class.,2 +"In a very important basket-ball match where a lot was at stake, I +played very badly.",3 +When harassed by this boy - it was sexual (refer to GUILT).,2 +"When I discovered that I and my friend would be licensed at the +first call. This emotion was accompanied by a great relief. It +was the coronation of a year of sacrifice and extrene discipline.",1 +"A few weeks ago I thought about an exam I had to take soon. I +remembered this just before I had to go to sleep. I felt guilt +because at the beginning of the year I planned to succeed.",5 +I gave a wrong answer at school.,2 +They wanted something to happen but I didn't.,3 +"My son drank four pills of diazepam every two hours instead of +amidophen.",5 +Earth crake.,1 +"I was coming back home with my mother when the purse I was +carrying got stolen. It was done so swifty that I did not +realize what had happened till much later. A lot of money and the +keys of the house were lost. I was guilt ridden at my +carelessness. I felt terrible as I do not normally loose things +and this was quite important, especially the keys. +",5 +When I passed the university entrance exam.,1 +"Someone, who was sitting very close to me, was smoknig in the +compartment of an air conditioned mini-bus.",0 +"Once I had dinner at an elegant restaurant and I did not have +enough money to pay the bill. There were a lot of people there +and I felt quite awkward.",2 +"Someone told me that I was chosen for English lectures because +the class leader is going out with me (not true).",3 +"When I was in lower six class during the Summer I joined a +research group of the Chinese university student union. I knew +a lot of CV students there. A year later one of them was +travelling in mainland China and he got T.B. He died a few weeks +after coming back to H.K. We all got together for the funeral +and when I looked at the body for the last time I felt extremely +sad.",4 +"My boy-friend had promised me to come home at about 10 p.m. He +did not return until midnight and had consumed a lot of alcohol.",3 +When I try to lie.,2 +"I had gone to the hospital for my research and got late in +reaching home. I feared that when I reached home there would be +a quarrel because of my being late.",6 +"The first day that I was close to a dead body, in my third year +at UNZA, school of medicine.",6 +"I was returning from the Universtity at night when I was accosted +by a boy who molested me, passing his hands on my body.",0 +"I felt a sense of shame when I compromised a colleague of mine. I +got an information from him which I quite out of place shared +with another colleague of mine and it resulted in an unpleasant +consequence for him.",2 +"At night when I was alone at home (all the family members usually +get together at that time) someone knocked vigorously on the +door.",6 +"At primary school I was accused by some boys of being in love +with a certain girl in their class so they had to shout and beat +the girl and the matter was reported to the headmaster.",6 +When people around me did not understand me the right way.,0 +Not applicable to myself.,6 +"I felt disgust with a lady teacher who used to nag, to mock, to +interrupt everyone of my fellow students each time we had a class +with her in our first year.",0 +When somebody made me touch human faeces.,0 +"Since I moved into the dorms and I've been spending most of my +free time with my boyfriend. I hardly see my old high school +friends. I had several bad incidents with my 2 past best friends.",4 +"At a friend's birthday party with some of my closest friends. It +was all very pleasant and one could say that I was happy to have +such good friends.",1 +"When I came to know that my father and his parents were : self +interested, dirty, negative, egoist, bad peolpe,......",0 +"This morning during my sleep I had a feeling that someboby was +attacking me. I started crying in my sleep and then my room-mate +woke me up.",4 +Said something I should not have said in public.,5 +When I made the acquaintance of a certain person.,1 +When I couldn't find my dog which was missing.,4 +"I was dishonest to my boyfriend concerning something that is +important to our relationship.",2 +"While watching an entertainment program in which there was a clever +and amusing sketch.",1 +Passing by a good friend's home without coming in to visit him.,5 +"I wanted to go to Bhopal for relief work (gas tragedy). My boss +simply refused to let me go, I was so angry that the only thought +that came to my mind was to quit the job.",3 +"I dreamed that this girl and I were cuddling in bed when my +girlfriend walked in. I really love my girlfriend so I felt +guilty and sad. I know that this is a wierd example but the dream +and the feeling was clear to me as if it had really happened.",5 +"When I learned that my former boyfriend had become engaged - +although I was glad that he had found what he wanted, I was very +sad at my own personal loss, since I had always hoped we might +one day reconcile.",4 +At home when they lost three pieces of my puzzle.,3 +"At a party I met a girl who drew me to her, told me some nonsense +and always wanted to kiss me.",0 +"When I realized that it did not make much sense to start a +relationship with a girl who was not very constructive to +establish a firm relationship.",4 +"A friend came to visit me late one night. He promised to stay +only a quarter of an hour, but he stayed 5 hours !! He didn't +leave and I was very angry.",3 +At my grandfather's death.,4 +"On my way through lonely streets I met with a huge stray dog. It +stopped at some distance and looked at me. I tried to ignore it +but I was very frightened.",6 +"It was the first time that I gave a birthday present to my friend. + She wrote me a letter as she is my girlfriend. The content of +the letter was so sweet that it made me feel very happy. +",1 +"In the recent lightning storm, bolts of lightning were hitting +close by (1/8 mile). I was in bed at the time and was afraid I +might be struck.",6 +"When I gave birth to a child and saw that it was normal when it +was put against my breast.",1 +When climbing up the stairs to the top of a ski-jumping hill.,6 +"A sudden doubt made me run for a long time in a rainy autumn +night. When I reached the intended place I saw my beloved in +another man's arms. A sudden blow, grief, I cannot qualify it, it +is painful for me to remember about it.",4 +"When I was with the girl I love very much, for the graduatiion +ball.",1 +"I entered the wrong room, and got into a bed where someone +already was sleeping.",2 +"When I was a child, I had a terrible nightmare with St. Nicholas' +Devil Servant. I asked my mother if he really existed and she +said yes. The following nights I could not sleep and a +light had to be left turned on.",6 +"Recent break-up with my girlfriend. We had been together for over +a year. I was overseas and discovered over the phone (while I was +at work).",4 +"I missed an opportunity to go abroad because of some silly +mistakes for which I had to suffer a lot.",3 +I didn't attend lectures.,5 +"When the Real Madrid team of basket ball qualified for the final +of the Europe Cup at Athens.",1 +"After my shoulder operation, I woke up in the hospital room +alone. I was in pain and was still under heavy medications. I +could not find my parents.",6 +"Car accident. I let a 16-year old, incompetent parson take the +wheel and I feel very guilty about what happened even though I +suffered the worst injuries.",5 +"When I found out that my sister had been playing with my +confidential things which she had taken from my hand-bag.",3 +"When I was 8 years old, I would usually come home from school +with my mother in a car. For the first time I had to take the +school bus, and I mistook the bus stop and found myself two +kilometres away from where I lived. I was very scared, wondering +how I would get back home.",6 +"After a busy day I went back to my hostel. I closed the door and +had a drink, then I read my favourite book on the bed. Suddenly +I felt peace and joy.",1 +I did not quite succeed in breast feeding my baby.,4 +"I was sitting in a station-hall and watching a lavatory +attendant. She was very dirty. She started to eat something out +of a dirty cup - it must have been something like lard. Then she +took some breadcrumbs out of the pockets of her apron and ate +them. I had to leave - I felt like vomitting. ",0 +"I was approaching my exam time and my books got stolen. I was in +a panic as I thought that I would not do well enough to be +considered for the economics quota. I cried a lot but that did +not help and as the exam day came near a strange fear gripped me.",6 +"When I was driving my motorbike I went into a bend incautiously +and fell down. I was slightly hurt, the motorbike was slightly +damaged.",5 +"I felt ashamed when my parents found out that I had deceived +them.",2 +"When I had lied, saying that I never take bread from the dinning +hall and a friend of mine caught me doing it. He thus proved to +me that I did in fact take the bread.",5 +Failing examn.,4 +"Someone who was speeding was forced to slow down when I pulled +out onto the road and proceeded to abuse me at the next set of +traffic lights.",3 +When armed robbers broke into our house at night.,6 +"I had an argument with my boyfriend. It was my fault but my +pride would not let me admit it.",5 +"While trying to board a train I missed the footsteps and fell +down on the platform.",6 +"One day when I was working, I went out for dinner with friends +without my parents knowledge and I only came home at 2300 hours.",5 +"Listening and watching a tape of someone with AIDS being +prejudiced against at a counselling course on AIDS with 20 +others.",4 +"My grandfather had lung-cancer and was being nursed at +home. I felt fear when I was alone with him and he almost choked +on mucus secretions.",6 +When I was accepted at UNZA.,1 +"I am disgusted with my sister's husband. On an early Sunday +morning after having knocked at my door, he suddenly rushed in +and finching me still in bed he began quarrelling about +something. I could not understand. I heard his last words: ""Don't +stare at me so because I'll beat you in your bed"" I got up +terrified and a thrashing followed.",0 +"In cinema I saw a film which showed how a person was torn out his +guts when he was still alive.",0 +When I noticed that I do many things to the pregiudice of myself.,4 +"When I was 5, a few of my friends and I would light matches for +fun. One of my friends confessed to her parents and my parents, I +guess, knew or suspected I was involved but I said I knew +nothing about it.",5 +"I was walking alone along the place where people fear that there +are always thieves there and the people who kill their friends +during the night two months ago.",6 +The same for guilt would apply.,2 +"I felt guilty at being part of the successful people. Felt guilty +at being a student when other people were not. Guilt about being +a potential success in various areas of society. (So stupid this +emotion)",5 +"My grandmother several times has been struck by cerebral +hemorrhages. Until now she recovered well each time, but there is +always the threat to loose her.",6 +Discussing psychology with my friends before the lecture.,1 +"A friend wanted to give me a surprise into my room and I thought +she was stealing from the room.",5 +Not chosen for all English classes.,2 +"I experience this emotion quite often but the day I was most +angry was the day I got pulled up for something I had not done. +It happened during my school days, I had not spoken a word in +class but the monitor had written my name on the board. So I +had a remark in my callender which I had to get signed by my +parents. This remark resulted in me being spanked.",3 +"I met some nice people during my holdidays. When they left I knew +that I would never see them again.",4 +Anger towards my lover for being late.,3 +Loss of close relative.,4 +"Once by coincidence I clutched a stranger (in a rather intimate +way), thinking it was my boyfriend. When by hindsight I +feel ashamed when thinking about it.",2 +"When my mother was tremendous on the phone and we talked for +hours. She was in a good mood.",1 +"A drunkard fell, started bleeding and wet himself. Disgust that +turned into sadness-unpleasantness.",0 +"I came home from school very keyed up. At the dinner table I +unfortunately unloaded a lot of my hostility off on one of my +parents. I'm ashamed that I didn't dispate and control these +feelings before coming to the table or even let the energy build +up in the first place.",2 +The lift of Stockholm central station stank of vomit and urine.,0 +"When I was a child I used to play with my cousin gushing wather +to each other in front of the door of my house. One day we +decided to gush with on a passing car. The driver stopped and +went to discuss with my mother and my aunt that were there.",5 +"When I see that my mother forces my little brother (15 years) to +work very hard for school. I don't agree that she constantly puts +him to work, but I don't tell it to her, so nothing changes.",5 +"I walked up the main street of Auckland at 10 o'clock at night. I +expected it to be very active with people, gangs, fast cars etc, +thought it was actually quite quiet, though also oppressive. I +walked about half a mile and bought a drink along the way.",6 +"I was very fat and felt absolutely unwell. I was afraid of +leaving the house and getting to know new people.",2 +"I felt guilty the other day because I took two pieces of bread +instead of one in the Cafeteria and some of the girls were short +of bread.",5 +"When I was at home alone, I felt a super-natural force, dangerous +for me and the people close to me.",6 +"I passed on some gossip that was untrue and cause two friends to +have a fight who were already experiencing difficulties with each +other.",2 +"I felt guilty about talking negatively, and agreeing with a +person who was doing likewise, about a non-present third person.",5 +"I had an accident with a trafic police car that was packed at a +curve without any visibility and against all traffic regulations +in a strong snowstorm. As a result I still cannot repair my car +because of the missing spare parts.",3 +"A friend of mine called me when I was not at home. I phoned her +back to know what she wanted and she told me that she had dialled +the wrong number.",4 +"When I was studying in the library - preparing for a test, two +people sitting next to me talked to each other for 20 minutes. +There were no other seats so I could not go elsewhere and I did +not want to interrupt them, so I could only be angry in my heart.",3 +I was insulted without a reason by a drunk man.,0 +"I applied for a job of GALSO counselor and I made the strongest +possible application but was denied an interview. I felt +disgusted at the system which by promoting the cause of +minorities makes employing whites lowest priority.",0 +"When we had swimming instruction, we had to take a header from +the springboard. I usually refused to do that, but at least I was +forced to.",6 +When I failed some tests my first year at CAL.,2 +"At night when I was coming from Lingadzi Inn I heard a hyena +crying in the Lingadzi jungle. I was alone.",6 +"My father promised me a bicycle for my birthday. Just before my +birthday he forgot he promised this to me.",3 +"Some noisy guests arrived at the hotel. I had been slightly +irritated earlier. At night when I was trying to sleep they were +having a party so I went and yelled at them. I wanted to sleep +as I had to get up early the next day.",3 +Not brave enough to take up a challenge in a group discussion.,2 +"An officer at the Dean of students office had promised me to give +me a room the next day, but he failed to keep his promise.",0 +Not getting an airplane ticket fot my mother.,5 +"When my boyfriend openly let me down, preferring another girl.",4 +I broke a glass of glycerine at the Z.C.B.C store in Ndola.,5 +"One night, I was alone at home. My fear was caused by some +strange noises which put my imagination to work.",6 +My teacher's death.,4 +When my first love was not successful.,4 +"A letter from my boyfriend began in such a way that I thought he +was going to end our relationship. I was afraid of reading the +rest.",6 +"When my grandmother died - I wasn't sad so much that she'd died +because she was old, but because she lived in the last few years +in an old people's home and had nothing very much that was hers - +no chair, or private space, and when I went to visit she would be +sitting in the ""lliving"" room the TV room. It was hopeless. And I +felt awkward so I didn't go and I was sad 'cos how I couldn't.",4 +"I was afraid when I met my Uncle because this time I was with my +boyfriend I thought I was not going to be given pocket money.",6 +"Last Summer I achieved someting that I had been wanting for a +long time.",1 +"When I first failed my standard 8 exams for the first attempt for +Form I selection.",2 +Every time I meet a certain dog that has once bitten me.,6 +When one has neglected or been unjust to a good friend.,5 +"When we decided, my boyfriend and I, that we would separate, I +realized that he would have wanted to continue our relationship +and the coming separation hurt him.",4 +A break-up with someone I really liked.,4 +"When my boyfriend was changing his behavior there was something +wrong, I felt sad, because it's desagreable when a relationship +is ending.",4 +When I sit for examinations.,6 +"When I knew about my sister's in law finacial situation and what +she was facing.",4 +"A few months back I had gone to my friend's place and they offered +me tea and coffee. I do not have the habit of drinking tea or +coffee and so they offered me a glass of milk instead, so I felt ashamed.",2 +"When one learns through the mass media all the wars and killing +going on in the world.",0 +When I promise to do something but I don't fulfill it.,2 +"When someone ignores what I am saying or doesn't let me have my +point of view and they monopolise a conversation.",3 +I fear before each exam.,6 +"My best friend at school told lies about me to a boy I was seeing +and went out with him herself.",3 +"I gave some personal information to a friend of mine, and he told +it to some others who were implicated in the affair.",3 +When I found a bristle in the liver paste tube.,0 +"When I first came to the UNZA I did not know the kind of people I +would find here and the kind of behaviour they would have towards +me.",6 +"I borrowed a car which was supposed to be used for a long journey +a few hours later, and one of the tyres burst in the middle of +the town and I did not know what to do.",6 +"Guilt after fighting with my sister (for) telling her how bad she +was.",5 +"I felt anger against a person who told bad things about me in my +absence.",3 +From the fact that my husband and I are not in good terms.,4 +When I ate a rotten apple.,0 +"When an unpleasant person tried to make friends with me. A +subtle, small, insignificant, grey being whose helplessness and +neutrality evoked the feeling of disgust in me.",0 +"When I walk through streets late at night. This is because I and +my friends were attacked one night without any reason for it.",6 +"When my first boyfriend left me. I tried not to let him +understand I felt miserable.",4 +"A person close to me mistook my good intentions for bad, and +therefore associated unpleasant traits to me.",3 +I ignored and offended my parents on the eve of the New Year.,5 +"Students fear many things but we seem to fear the examinations +most of all. I remember I was horror stricken before my +microbiology exam, because it was a decisive one.",6 +"At a party my best girlfriend got really drunk and went off with +a guy she knows I really like.",0 +"When my mother scolded me for coming home late, i.e after 7 P.M.",3 +Can't remember having had this feeling.,0 +"The holidays come to an end, and the next day we had to go back +to University and to the exams.",4 +"After a weekend at a seminar I saw my husband again. I hurried +home hoping he would be there. We embraced - I enjoyed feeling +his body.",1 +When I don't justify the confidence of people that I respect.,5 +When I saw someone eating live worms.,0 +I slandered a person behind his back and he got to know about it.,2 +"This situation happened when I was found kissing a girl who was +my friend's girlfriend.",2 +"I do not like one of our neighbours as they are very selfish. +Whenever they want something or need help they come to see us, +otherwise they do not even bother about people who live next to +them.",0 +"Some of my friends had an argument. I had earlier phoned one +of them and that may have influenced him to argue.",5 +"Being refused to attend the neuropsychology lecture in the +medical university.",3 +Brother took my money to use for his own purposes.,3 +After the loss of a close relative.,4 +"I was at home alone when I realized that a young roe approached +our house. I hid because I did not want to frighten it. It +limped. Some time later, when I thought that it had already run +away, I saw it lying on our terrace. I came nearer and saw that +it was terribly wounded. I informed the ranger who said that the +roe must have been attacked by dogs. He had to shoot it.",4 +"This is an incident that many of us witness in our everyday life +in a city like Bombay. One day I was travelling by bus, three +men dragged two fellows out of the bus. Once outside they were +beaten into pulp. These two fellows, who got beaten, were pick-pockets +and they were being beaten by all and sundry. I thought to +myself -""what is life?"". It is one hell of a place where +everyone is after someone else. One waits to cut the throat of +the other one just for a living, (money). When I think about +such things - the purpose of life, etc, I feel very disgusted and +dejected.",0 +I crashed my father's car.,5 +"A friend told me how he managed to win the sympathy of as many +people as possible. He said he first listened to what they said +and then he tried to only say things they would like to hear. +He would never express his own opinion. I felt really disgusted +when he told that.",0 +"When an uncle of mine, who was close to me, passed away after +having had a stroke, before his first daughter could be named.",4 +Zhu Jianhau did not break the world record for China.,2 +[ A successful lesson.],1 +"I ""picked up"" a girl and I thought that I had misused my +position and authority over her as there did not seem to be any +realistic possibility of continuing the relationship.",5 +When I saw a lot of rubbish and animal waste on the floor.,0 +When my dog died.,4 +"A man treated his dog very badly - he insulted and beated him +until the dog kept lying on the floor with his tail drawn in.",3 +"Normally my father never tells vulgar jokes, we do not speak +about sexual things, too. But once he told such a vulgar joke, +that I was really disgusted. He did not tell me, but some of his +friends, but I was present.",0 +"My mother caught me stealing some food when I was a young +boy.",2 +"My anger is with men, their inability to be human (not all men).",3 +"While swimming, I hit my head at the bottom of the pool and +required stitches. I later learned that the consequences could +have been much more severe and that terrified me.",6 +"When I talked to a psychotherapist for the first time, I started +to cry; first I talked to him but he did not say anything and +after a while I was crying.",2 +"Two years ago my best friend died in an accident, just a day +before my birthray. We were very close to each other and I felt +very sad at loosing a close friend.",4 +Assaulted by drunken neighbour.,6 +During my childhood I once lied and my sister found out.,2 +When I failed my S.S.C exam.,3 +The day my teacher of Latin and French died.,4 +"I was in a garden one evening and I saw a snake coming towards +me.",6 +Death of brother.,4 +I got better marks in the examn than many arrogant people.,1 +"The murder of two girls on a school trip to Berlin (and sexual +crimes generally) a couple of years ago.",0 +"During a class I was asked a question which I did not hear very +clearly, so I gave an answer which was not related to the +question and everyone started laughing at me.",2 +"Some time back I had signed a letter which I had not read. What +had happened is that something had been written against my +friend and this went to the higher authorities. My friend asked me +-""you also signed ?"" ",2 +"Boyfriend doing cleaning in situation where it was my job to do +it. Later snapped at him over trivial thing. He looked downcast. +I felt guilty - ""he's just done all that work for me"".",5 +"When a girl in my class (on the secondary school) appeased the +teacher, resulting in getting a higher grade. This occurred often +with her.",0 +I felt joy when I entered at the University.,1 +My father promoted to be a professor.,1 +"I live with my boyfriend, we have a close relationship, I fell in +love with another man.",5 +Not doing well in the examn.,2 +"I was very scared at the time of the Ty.B.Sc examination as I had +decided to get 1st class results. I was afraid thinking of how +the papers would be.",6 +"I felt very sad when a friend of mine failed the final exam and +she could not be accepted at the institution of learning.",4 +"The person whom I liked most left me for a friend of mine, after +several months of mutual help and a profound knowledge of each +other.",4 +"I felt guilty when I was given a prize which belonged to someone +else.",5 +"A borrowed car broke down while I was using it. It was not my +fault, nevertheless I felt guilty.",5 +"When I had gone to a school picnic and was left behind in the +forest.",6 +Almost had a bicycle accident.,6 +"I felt guilt when my friends were punished to slash grass at the +gound because of making noise in class. I was in the group of +noise-makers but I denied having done any noise.",5 +"I felt the above condition when I was found in a house playing +with another man's wife where I was asked questions and I was +unable to answer.",2 +"The last time I was face to face with with the monstrous dog +which lives in my street.",6 +When I made an end on a relationship after three years.,2 +When my grandmother died.,4 +When a few girls were talking rubbish about me.,3 +"I was eating in a very nice restaurant, when the servant asked +whether I liked the food I told him that I liked it but that +there was one thing which wasn't so good. The servant than worked +very hard to make it good.",2 +"My episode of fright happened when I came to study. I had to +stand in front of my still unknown fellow students and talk about +myself. My hands shook, I flushed and became tongue-tied.",6 +When I pass an exam.,1 +"When I talked with a teacher yesterday who, to say the least, was +rude and unwise and had irrelevant opinions about a friend.",3 +"There is a mad boy in our village. This boy hit me with a raw +paw-paw in the face.",3 +The price I was charged for work on my car.,0 +"I promised my friends that I would take care of something, but I +kept forgetting about it. When they asked me about it, I +promised to do it immediately. However, I got started only after +a couple of months. I felt that I had betrayed my friends.",5 +"I met intoxicated people with dubious intentions in a back alley +one Wednesday night.",6 +"I went home all alone from a restaurant. It was dark, I went very +fast. Behind me, there were some drunk men who shouted at me. By +chance, I met some friends who accompanied me.",6 +When I was treated improperly by someone.,6 +When I entered a bar looking for a friend.,2 +When I shot a bird in the head with a shotgun.,5 +"Summer, heavy rain, storm - I was standing with my face stick to +the window: the childhood, something was going away forever this +summer, I was leaving my home, I was going to study in another +town, for the first time I was leaving my parents, friends, I had +to manage myself, a long and loved period of my life was over - I +was crying.",4 +"I felt sad when I heard that my girlfriend was double-crossing me +with the boy who is my best friend.",4 +"I had a small argument with a relative and some other people got +implicated. It resulted in a proper row.",5 +I was afraid that I would fail an examination.,6 +"After buying a ticket, I lost it before I reached my destination +and the bus Inspector dropped me at a place I didn't know.",0 +"Guilty when I hadn't walked my dog for quite a few days and had +given her no attention.",5 +"I saw a man who had had a heart-attack and who was being +treated for it. I feared that my own father could have been +there.",6 +"My boyfriend was playing with my cat. He was playing games with her +and telling nice things to her. ",1 +Made a misjudgement in a football match.,5 +When I failed two subjects last year.,4 +"I was studying in class at night. I was in Form II by then. There +were rumours about an earthquake. That night dogs were chasing +one another and passed through the window outside the classroom. +Those who saw the dogs thought it was a lion and were terrified. +Trying to run away the desks were dragged and there was a shaking +movement. I thought it was an earthquake and jumped out of the +window.",6 +"While attending some affairs, which were taking some time, with +a bank officer, I felt that my clothes and appearance were out of place, too +raggy.",2 +"When I left a carnaval ball at 4 o'clock a.m. I was alone in a +foreign city and I had to go back home, when a guy appeared and +tried to ""catch me"".",6 +"When I have forgotten to warn somebody for something, or when I +have forgotten to bring something I have been asked for.",5 +"My employer took too many aspirins for a bad back and also drank +an enormous amount of spirit. This was dangerous and he did +not understand that he had done anything wrong.",3 +"One evening I saw the old guard-man I knew, change into something +inhuman for about 5-10 seconds, this really frightened me.",6 +"I did not go to help a friend of mine, though she probably needed +me.",5 +"One winter day I, unwillingly, was outdoors with my younger +brother (10 years younger than me). I lost my temper on him and +wanted to throw my brother down the snow bank we were on. I +pushed him but not as hard as I had wanted to. We were alone the +two of us.",3 +"I am not especially good at English, and after the high school +graduation exam in English I tensely waited for the result the +whole day. In the evening, when I heard that I had done +excellently, I became very happy and the anxiety vanished. My +family was at home.",1 +Hurt someone's feelings unintentionally.,5 +When I bought new clothes and put them on.,2 +"I was looking at a one-man show on television. He told very +disgusting things so that I started to be disgusted with it. +(Later on it proved that this was his intention).",0 +"Discussing with a certain person about a job I was getting and +that perosn was negative and pessimistic.",3 +"I was at the cinema with my sister and her boyfriend. A man +sitting beside me started to stroke my leg for a while, he left in +the middle of the film.",6 +"The fear about my future : work, making ends meet and health. +Coping.",6 +"Hearing about a friend back home that had to have his stomach +pumped because he had overdosed on pills.",4 +"When one meets new people with whom one is forced to collaborate +with.",6 +"When I got home from a pleasant trip abroad, I got to know that I +had been accepted at university.",1 +"When I lost my driving license because I had been driving while +under the influence of alcool.",3 +"My superior blamed me for some neglects at work in front of +others. In fact, the task in question was not supposed to be +done by me.",3 +"Once when I crossed the street, and was nearly trampled by a car.",6 +"I was living with my brother and one day he went away on business +and I was left alone to look after the house and the property. At +night thieves came and wanted to break into the house.",6 +"A friend giving me an expensive Christmas gift while I gave her a +cheap one.",2 +When seeing a friend that I had not seen in a long while.,1 +"As a small boy, I took a coin from an empty taxi cab. My mother +saw it and told the driver about it. I even knew the driver.",2 +"Having quarreled with a boyfriend, he threatened to leave me.",6 +"Right now I volunteer at a hospital. Yesterday, Halloween, I +dressed up as a doctor and went to work. The volunteer +coordinator told me after my shift that it was dangerous to have +done what I did.",0 +"A friend had promised to get me a book which was very important +for my work, but she forgot it.",3 +"My girlfriend's results in school had become worse because I +prevented her from learning (we often went out etc.).",5 +Made a wonderfull new friend.,1 +"My uncle had promised to buy me a bicycle. As time went by and I +had not received it yet, I asked my father to buy it for me. +Later I heard that my uncle had wanted to offer me the bicycle on +my birthday two weeks later.",5 +"My schoolmates were teasing a pupil who was not able to defend +himself very well; I should have taken his part.",5 +"Once sitting in the cinema, I became very anxious (watching a +""cold"" film). I do not know the reason.",6 +When I was just to be divorced.,6 +"A teacher giving a test was called by a student by his first +name. He (the teacher) said that he didn't give him this liberty.",0 +"When my roommate and I had dinner together we decided as to who +would clean the bowls. One day when I came back from school I +found that she had not cleaned up. Since I had to cook dinner I +cleaned them myself and felt unhappy and disgusted.",0 +"A good friend, the wife of the vicar of my church came up to me +from the pews (I am in the choir) and shook my hand during the +time for an informal ""greeting"" in the church service. She said a +few words.",1 +"While intoxicated I invaded someone's (a girl's) personal space +to a large extent.",2 +"Somebody who knows me very well discovered that I had told him a +lie.",2 +"When my nephew asked me to tell him a story and I simply did not +have the energy or the will. When I saw his disappointment I was +terribly guilty and read a story to him after all.",5 +When I got a small present form a person I like very much.,1 +"I work at a commercial house from 7 to 10 a.m. On a very cold day +in winter I was late - and let a fellow worker stand in the cold +for half an hour.",5 +Staying in the room alone at night.,6 +"One of my colleagues accused me of having stolen his iron and I +was sure that I had done no such thing.",3 +"I felt the above condition when I took my brother's bicycle to a +market and unfortunately the bicycle was stolen and I didn't know +how I could tell the owner about the stolen bicycle.",6 +"I broke up with my boyfriend of seven months, but it was a very +""indepth"" relationship and so after feelings of grief and loss +were over I felt an immense sadness.",4 +"I was given the task to learn a page of music text for a small +part. But I had forgotten all about it and I felt quite awkward +when I had to show what I had prepared.",2 +"I had a long discussion on politics with an acquaintance. He +was more knowledgeable than me and I failed to explain my point +of view and was misunderstood so I felt depressed and left.",4 +"Hit a dog with my car, and didn't stop.",2 +"One day before Christmas, I went shopping with my brother and his +friend. We had a good time. But on the way home we were almost in +an accident because the weather was bad.",6 +"Disgust for a person who treated me badly, and has treated other +people similarly - including lying, hiding facts, being +deceitful, unfair, etc.",0 +"At the moment when I heard the result of an examination and it +proved that I succeeded the second year of my study.",1 +"I was playing with friends then I decided to splash some sand +into a car which was moving nearby. The driver got angry and came +to report to my parents.",6 +"One night, I went out with some friends for dinner and I did not +tell my parents that I would come back late. I thought of +phoning but in the end I did not. When I arrived home, my +parents were very worried.",5 +The death of a friend.,4 +Talking about snakes.,6 +"My younger brother and I had been fighting over the TV/Video. He +kept on turning it on and off every 2 seconds and was not +listening to my authority and was being cheeky. We fought and I +ended up in tears - he'd won.",3 +When a friend of mine told me a horror story.,6 +"When we complained about the uncleanliness of the work place, the +authorities agreed to have the place cleaned. Even after 2-3 +days nothing had been done. I felt disgusted at the whole +situation.",0 +I was on a walk with my child when I met a drunk woman.,0 +"When I see children on T.V from areas devastated by drought and +war.",4 +When felt lonely about writing my family.,4 +"Someone told me a story of Amnesty International: a boy was +killed and his head was put in the litter of his girlfriend. It +looked as if she was pregnant, then she died. It is disgusting, I +can hardly write it down.",0 +Finding out that China is still backward in science.,4 +"When I decided to leave my steady, secure employment to come to +university. Because I didn't know if I could cope with all the +requirements of study and also being older I didn't know if I +would enjoy mixing with younger people, also financial +insecurity.",6 +Saw a mate bribing the leader.,0 +"When an uncle of mine who is very ill started to cough wich +sounded very dirty. (He can't help it of course).",0 +"On the T.V I saw a news feature on South Africa. A policeman +attacked a group of black people with a whip.",3 +"When I was in Form 4, at Secondary School, I was elected as a +school Library Assistant and also the leader of Catholic +Students, so I felt very joyous.",1 +"Many years back I quarrelled with my younger brother for a small +reason. I used a pole to beat him and nearly broke his arm. He +recovered after a treatment which lasted several months. After +this our relationship was worse and he would not listen to me.",5 +"I turned the knob of my granny's two band radio and did not hear +any broadcast, "" What ! Have I broken the knob ? How much does +it cost ? What if the spare part is not available ? "" --I did +not know how to tune a radio.",6 +"When I think that I do not study enough. After the weekend I +think that I should have been able to have accomplished +something during that time.",5 +"I was very much ashamed after a friend beat me at school and I +was defeated.",2 +When a person I did not know hurt a friend of mine.,0 +"When in a difficult moment I couldn't express myself correctly +and my thought came out with distortions bringing about highly +negative and distorted results.",3 +"We where in a bar and my friend had a fight with some guys who +were in the table aside.",2 +"I watched a very terrfying film in LT2. This film really pushed +my heart out of my body and I was forced to go out before the +second reel ended.",6 +"Always when I get separated from my friends and relatives from my +home town.",4 +"I went to a pub with a group of friends (not very close) and +I was with one girl most of the time, while the other girls in the +group wanted to be with me. They stopped talking to the girl I +was with.",5 +"The second time I went to the entrance exam to V.S.P. and +didn't get approved.",4 +"When my cat vomited and a worm came out which was still alive. I +was forced to wipe it up.",0 +"When someone threw a firecracker into my room at 7:00 am in the +morning.",3 +"I felt angry at one time when I was chatting with friends and +suddenly another friend joined us and started opposing any +comment I added to our chatting.",3 +"I unexpectedly met a girl with whom I have always got along well. +( I had not seen her for several months.)",1 +"Knowing that I had to do the survey with him I felt very +reluctant. Although I do not know him I feel disgusted by just +looking at him. Thinking that the project lasted several days I +regreted having joined that project.",0 +"When a friend, who has been with me at school, failed to make it +to UNZA.",4 +"I was informed by my flatmate that, when we'd moved into our +flat, she'd expected us to buy our food separetely - this event +actually happened some 5 months after our sharing began. Prior to +this, she had said nothing.",3 +"I felt very sad when I left home because I could not stand it any +longer. I do not regret it, but I missed my little sister very +much (and she missed me). These feelings wear off over time.",4 +"When my son fell off the cot at the age of 5 months, I became +very nervous and thought that it would cause defects in his head. ",6 +After shouting at a friend.,4 +"I was ashamed when a certain friend of mine I used to move with +failed to propose to a lady yet we always said to ourselves no +lady can refuse our proposal.",2 +"When my boyfriend once again told me that he loved me after a +period in which he felt very depressive.",1 +"I was working in a job in which I could not work quickly enough, +and was told that my work was not up to standard.",2 +"When I could not hold my bladder while making a telephone call +and ended up wetting myself.",2 +"When a drunkard barged into a room where my friend and I had run +in order to get away from him. We were all alone and all I could +see was this hand coming towards me.",6 +I passed an exam which I thought I had failed.,1 +"When I realized that it was impossible for me to be as free as I +had imagined and that I could not do anythong about it.",4 +"When my grandfathers died and I realized how much I would miss +them.",4 +"When I got myself the kind of girlfriend I had been hunting for a +long time.",1 +When I had an argument with a friend.,4 +"I was on holidays, and I was going to meet a friend whom I had +not seen for six months. Again I felt very happy.",1 +Heated discussion with spouse concerning new house.,3 +"When I learned I was admitted to study what I wanted most - +floriculture (this is a narrow specialization from the general +one).",1 +"One evening I stayed at home all alone. As we lived on the ground +floor, I was often afraid of burglers.",6 +"The day the results of the certificate exam came out. I went to +school and at first I did not feel frightened. By the time I +reached the fourth floor ( the results were being given on the +fifth floor) I found it difficult to walk and felt that I would +die.",6 +"It was a narrow and dirty passage which was located near the +market and I had to stand there to wait for people.",0 +"When a good friend of mine behaved in a very cool manner to me +for a very long time.",6 +"When I was still a child, I saw a horror film on TV in which +there was a rotten human skull.",0 +I received a letter of acceptance from UNZA.,1 +"Last year I went to see friends in Yugoslavia - two girls with +whom I get along very well.",1 +"I had had a farewell party at the place where I had been working +for a year. That night I could not fall off to sleep. I was sad +thinking that I would not see my nice fellow workers again.",4 +"I told my parents (or more realistically) would not do what they +wanted me to do anymore. I guess I sort of betrayed them after +all they had done for me.",5 +"At times I have been attracted to conducts which are socially +degraded due to their ill consequences, and then I feel guilty.",5 +My boyfriend didn't turn up after promising that he was coming.,4 +My friend still trusts me as a friend.,4 +"When as an 8 year old, I wet myself in school.",2 +"I felt it when I was at home and saw a discussion without sense +between my parents.",4 +"My friend did not do well in the examn because I did not help +him.",5 +"A man was yelling outside my window at 3.00 am, yelling threats, +though not to me.",6 +"I went to a lecture and once again it had been cancelled, this +was the second time. One had a negative attitude towards the +lecturer. +",3 +I was caught sneaking sweets.,5 +"I had promised to help out with domestic chores and I forgot +about it.",2 +"The elections of 1982 and 1985. The thought of what a social +democrat and communist majority could achieve, especially ""worker +share"" funds and its extension.",4 +Could not get into the university I wanted to get in.,4 +"When I was taking an exam in grade 5. The examinator found me +with a note-book and accused me of copying, All the students +laughed at me.",2 +"When I was a child I had to recite a poem in a show at the end of +the term.",2 +"When others let me down, fail to keep agreements.",3 +"I felt guilty last year during the winter term exams. A colleague +of mine asked me to give him my lecture notes (I had very good +notes and I had passed my exam in advance) but I still don't know +why I didn't give them to him. That colleague failed and he was +on the verge of not passing it at the supplementary examinations.",5 +"Once a female classmate told me that the clothes I wore seemed to +be a child's clothes. On hearing this I felt a little ashamed and +I criticized her clothes though there was nothing wrong with +them.",2 +"I get angry when my smaller brother misbehaves and talks with indecent +words.",3 +"When I was about to clean the draining board and saw it looked +underneath the sink (I live in a students hostel).",0 +"When my brother promised me money but he failed to fulfill the +promise.",0 +When I was told that a good friend was seriously ill.,4 +"I felt guilty when I skipped a two hour practical class I knew I +would miss out on more information which I did not know, but I +couldn't cope with going.",5 +"I was in a hopeless situation in a dirty place. No study, no +work, only loneliness.",4 +"I stole a coconut cake from a reception table and when I put +in my mouth I realized that the host was watching me.",5 +"When somebody I knew greeted me and started to talk with me and I +didn't know, I couldn't remember who he was.",2 +"I remember that when my mother died the day was sad and every +time I think of it I am saddened by the loss of my mother.",4 +"When I was 10/11 years old my father travelled very much for his +work (he passed three months away from home).",4 +"I won the first prize at the science fair, the first of the kind +at school and I was only in form II then. ",1 +When I thought the house was on fire at night.,6 +"Going to a friend's wedding and seeing many of my old friends +whom I had known before I moved to a new district five years +previously.",1 +"One day I found an incontinent man in the ward. This patient had a +guardian who couldn't give him a bath. So I just left him like that +but felt guilty until I went back to give him a bath.",5 +"I lent a text-book to a person I did not know very well, they +lost the text-book and gave me no compensation.",3 +"Reading about executions and massacres which happened during +World War II, I felt disgust towards those who did it.",0 +"I made a joke about the rat of a boy. I compared his rat with a +sausage. I told the boy he had a delicious sausage.",2 +Someone (a boy) paid special attention to me.,1 +When I saw our computer teacher.,0 +First day back on the job.,6 +When my roommate's moped was stolen I was very angry.,3 +"I was asked to join my friend in a boat at Mangochi Lake Malawi +and when making a turn, it seemed as if the boat would sink on +the side.",6 +Passing my driver's examination (after two failures).,1 +"I left my home in Melbourne to come to Q'land to study and before +I hopped in the car I hugged my mother and shook hands with my +father. Sensing immediately my father's sadness, I also had a +flood of the same emotion.",4 +"I received a grade above average on a midterm (chemistry) and I +expected onevery below average.",1 +When I had to represent my boss at a meeting.,2 +"When my sister's first child came home, after one week in +intensive care at the hospital.",1 +"When a woman who I respected very much was made pregnant, +unexpectedly by a man of a caliber I never expected.",2 +"After having considered it for hours I was able to overcome my +scruples and to call a friend with whom I had fallen in love. I +realized that my decision was right - and was very glad.",1 +"Coming to this lecture and listen to you talking about feelings, +I am so happy that foreigners have the same feelings as Chinese.",1 +"When I tried to explain to my child as to why there were +magazines wiith naked girls on them at the kiosk.",0 +"I was ashamed at myself for having shouted at my daughter because +of my marital break-up and the unfair way I was treated.",2 +"The curriculum of the year ! The English course was very heavy. + I had not prepared and the teacher asked several questions +during class. The students were not ready to answer the +questions and the teacher was frustated.",0 +"Once, my friend and I went to the Tai 60 to cycle. My mother had +told me not to go. Unfortunately I broke my pectoral girdle and +had to go to hospital. When my mother came to see me I felt +guilty as I had not listened to her and I had to soon sit for a +public examination.",5 +"When I promised to visit my boyfriend and I didn't fulfil the +promise.",5 +Was nearly knocked down by a car.,6 +An old lady slipped and nobody helped her.,3 +"A friend unjustly put the blame on me to relieve his conscience +and also spread lies for the same purpose.",0 +Close relative is dying of cancer - found out last week.,4 +"I felt fear some months ago of losing the person whom I loved +when she said to me that she didn't love me.",6 +Emptied a bucket of water in a hospital.,2 +"One day I was really angry when all my food was eaten by a dog. +My anger was against my mother because she was careless. She +didn't keep the food in a hidden and proper place.",3 +"Did very, very well on a Physics midterm.",1 +"While cycling in the country, I came across a large herd of +cows.",6 +"I once felt shame when I failed to fulfil the promise to marry a +daughter of a certain gentleman.",2 +"Before I went to the urologist's I was afraid for several +reasons: because it was for the first time, because the medical +check-up might be painful, because of the uncertainty and because +someone had informed me about it.",6 +"I went to the apartment of my boyfriend and saw some people +before his door. I thought that something had happened.",6 +"My illness a few years back. I was sevely down with malaria and +asthma, I had lost my health, charm and cheerfulness completely.",6 +"My nephew is a deaf and also ""hyperactive"" boy. I had been +responsible for looking after him for a full day, and was very +tired. Then he suddenly grabbed a knife and stabbed me in the +leg. I got so angry that I didn't feel any pain.",3 +"One afternoon, helping at home on the property, I was +(mustering) getting in cattle and a bull turned and came for me.",6 +"When I was a child I often quarrelled with my younger sister. +Once I became so angry that I slapped her in the face. She cried +and shouted so that my mother came in and scolded me.",5 +"When I wished secretly and lied to a friend of mine because I +didn't want her to stay in my house on the beach (as she always +does), and wouldn't stick on me.",5 +"I had this experience of fear when few people were fighting at a +social one night, which one of my relative was involved. My fear +was greatly for him because he was being assaulted badly.",6 +"When I was in the canteen of the United college I mistook a +stranger for a classmate as I was not wearing my glasses. I +realized that I had made this mistake when I saw him again +carefully.",2 +"No specific instances - perhaps having lied as a child resulting +in someone else being blamed for the event.",2 +"When I didn't get a certain job at Lillehammer which I wanted +very much.",4 +"When we were in high school a few guys sometimes provoked a +friend of mine. They called her a pig and then grunted. This +irritated most of the girls. Once, one of the girls got angry at +my friend and said something nasty and this made me terribly +angry.",3 +Being criticized by teacher in public.,2 +"I was driving and stopped at a stop light. I was planning to make +a right turn as soon as it was clear. It was clear on the left so +I started but a man was just in front of the car.",6 +"When my husband and I spent a night by ourselves in a house which +was in an area on the outskirts of a large town with which we were +not familiar. We heard strange noises outside the house and the +house had glass walls so the whole thing was even more +frightening.",6 +"After learning on the news about this man who killed more than +300 women and habitually copulated into their inert bodies.",0 +"When my boyfriend revealed that he knew that I had discovered +things of an important nature about him, I felt ashamed as I had +not mentioned it earlier.",2 +"I felt guilty when I had taken the car keys and I had an accident +but as my parents did not know who was to blame, they punished my +brother because I had no driving licence and they thought it +impossible that had driven the car.",5 +"Once I failed seven subjects at school and I was terrified to +give my report card to my father. I left it on the table and went to +bed very early in order to avoid him seeing me.",6 +"When my son was diagnosed as having CEREBRAL PALSY, at age 5. He +would have to endure so much labelling, stigma and discrimination, +even though his case was relatively mild.",4 +When I worked at the life-saving sevice and saw the first exitus.,0 +Marriage crises. Boredom.,4 +When my mother found out that I smoke maryhuana.,2 +"The saddest I've ever been was when my lover was killed, +hitch-hiking to work.",4 +When some friends betrayed my friendship.,3 +"When I was on holiday, walking back to where I was staying, at +night, and two men started closely following me. There was nobody +around that I could run to.",6 +When I saw the pictures of the draught in Etiopia.,4 +I was neglected undeservedly.,3 +"Every time I imagine that someone I love or I could contact a +serious illness, even death.",6 +"When I saw in the newspapers, on the T.V, and magazines the +chaotic situation caused by the drought and hunger in +Mauritania.",4 +"I made a long-distance call to people rather close to me and I +thought about the sad incident that had happened to them in the +near past; I knew that they were thinking about it too when I made +the call.",4 +"I met a certain lady at Mchesi and I proposed a word of love to +her and at the same time she accepted my proposal.",1 +"My son was apprehended for shoplifting at the age of 14. Because +I too had been apprehended at the same age I felt the shame of +not having been able to prevent my son from acting in the same +way.",2 +"When I heard that a woman of my community had aborted and got rid +of the foetus by throwing it in the drain.",0 +"I went to a friend's baptism as she became a Christian after me +and I realized that she was more enthusiastic about her spiritual +life than I was. When I was with my brothers and sisters of +Christ I had a guilty feeling which could not be dismissed +easily. When pepole asked me as to when I would be baptised my +guilt feeling deepened.",5 +After intercourse.,1 +Having told a certain lie.,5 +"I became disgusted with the man on whom I had counted, who I had +trusted, the man who should have been my mainstay - my father. +I could hardly make myself (and the others) believe in this +emotion. It has cumulated after events and deeds. Everything can +happen in this world.",0 +"The day my boyfriend saw and touched my breasts when I was +without my shirt, only with my pants.",2 +"When my uncle died I saw a funeral for the first time. All people +stood around the open grave and cried.",4 +"During class one day I walked out of the class. The +teacher noticed it and decided that he would take some action +against me, when I realized this I approached him and told him +that I was sorry for the incident and would not repeat it.",5 +"I felt angry when I was told that I had not been selected to go +to the University.",3 +When I think about my parents getting old.,4 +"My father was a member of the public Alcohol and Drugs Board, +when I was picked up by the police for being drunk in a public +place.",2 +"I had an appointment with someone at a certain time. The other +person didn't appear.",3 +"I could not take care of my mother when she was admitted to a hospital +for surgery, I continued my studies as I could not get leave.",5 +Not giving up something for Lent.,5 +Saw my father with that woman he is married to now.,0 +"I found out that someone that I knew had someone else taking +tests for her.",0 +"Once I spent a night with a friend at the secondary school. We +told each other horror stories and suddenly we heard uncanny +noises. I was terribly frightened.",6 +"In the holiday cottage of our association, two of my pals came to +wake me up early one morning by bringing a radio played at the +highest volume into my room - it was the morning service at its +loudest.",3 +"I send a word to my boss through my servant telling him that I +would not report for work as I was not feeling well and that the +doctor had refused to give me sick leave. My intention was +actually to go out of Lusaka for a week-end. I left the same day +and the following morning my boss found me in Mongu. I felt +guilty when asked to explain things on my return.",5 +"My parents appreciate very much me and my boyfriend coming and +have dinner with them at Christmas. However we decided to visit +his parents. My mother was rather disappointed.",5 +"When I finished my C.S. Project I was overjoyed. I felt relieved +because it was due the next day and I was tired of looking at it.",1 +"I had been forced to get together with strange and disgusting +classmates. The things they talked about disgusted me and made +me feel ill at ease. I knew that I would feel unhappy if I +stayed there but I was defeated by the social norms.",0 +"A friend doesn't let me study when I want to. She doesn't feel I +need to study and doesn't understand how important studying is to +me. I get very angry with her.",3 +When I was put into a tennis team below my standard.,3 +When I recently got an appartment in central Gottenburg.,1 +"I knew I had to take an exam very soon but yet I couldn't start +studying. I also knew it was very imprtant to succeed the exam +this time.",5 +"I was studying in the library and a class-mate told me that she +had obtained a grant to work in the library.",1 +"The headmistress at a secondary school accused me of banging the +classroom door when I didn't in front of the whole class.",3 +Being catched when stealing.,5 +"When my girlfriend was afraid and anxious the day before taking +her exam.",4 +"When I crashed my car and it had to be scrapped then. It was my +fault and I feel depressed as I miss the car.",4 +"I woke up in the middle of the night as I had jumped and shouted +with fear. I thought that someone's cold hand or something +similar had touched my hand. I crept down under the covers and +went back to sleep.",6 +"I was on a trip to Phillipines during Summer and I was staying in +a hotel. The room I was staying in was very silent and had very +dim lights. The last night I felt frightened and lay awake - I +could hear some sounds around me and dared not open my eyes - I +waited for dawn.",6 +"During the Physics experiment session I did not understand the +content of the experiment and did not know how to do it.",4 +Not finishing homework in time.,5 +[ When mix was coming from column for several days.],0 +"Once when I had started to write a paper, there was a phone +call for me. I had to go downstairs to receive it and after the +conversation I discovered that all the information had +disappeared from my mind.",0 +"I had a quarrel with near persons. I said many ill-considered +things and I regretted it when it was to late.",5 +"My father had bought too many goods for his shop, there was not +enough space to store them.",3 +When my father revealed inconsistent morals.,0 +Dead rat in the kitchen of the university.,0 +"Once after falling in love, I imagined that particular girl to be +perfect and completely overshadowing my girlfriend. Afterwards I +realized that this image was not objective. I felt guilty against +both girls.",5 +"When my grandfather whom I had met only once for 3 weeks, died +after several months. I was really sad because he was a lovely +person and I did not have the means for his company.",4 +"During an informal talk with a friend when we talk about the life +of another person, a common friend, that is in a situation of not +being able to assume certain problems that he decided to solve, +that is, she herself suggested the problems and decided to solve +them but didn't get it until the moment.",4 +Landlord putting up rents sneakly and slimily.,3 +"A friend suggested in a round-about way that the reason we were +late for something was because of me, and that I'm often late. I +know this was partly true, but felt it unjustified that +particular time and I felt I couldn't do anything about it +anyway (i.e. being late).",3 +"I felt it when on duty in the hospital I understood that I was +not afraid to face death, that I also helped a little to relieve +the pains of a patient.",1 +"Once, when I was very young, my mother left me alone in the +house and came back very late.",6 +When my girlfriend decided to finish our relation.,4 +"A friend which I hadn't seen for years, sent me a small present.",1 +Finding out my name on the list for English lectures.,1 +"When I passed the university entrance exam. I had thus finished +with a difficult period of my life and I was about to begin one +which I had desired a lot.",1 +When I got a good grade for an exam in statistics.,1 +"When I was pressing figures on the curtain cloth. I had bought +the cloth after months of hindrances.",1 +I said nasty things which I did not mean to a friend.,5 +"Quite recently I realized that I had had some erroneous views +about life. For instance, I had always lived for other people, +had forgotten my own person and suppressed my own feelings. I was +ashamed because I had not been concious of that until I had a +conversation about it with a person.",2 +"The repression of rioting and non-rioting ""Blacks"" in South +Africa by the police of that ""Democracy"".",0 +"Passing an examination, although I felt sure I had failed.",1 +"When I was teased by my friend for not scoring good marks in the +exams.",3 +"I was trying to have sex with my best friend's girl but she did +not agree to it.",5 +"I had a singing-lesson, but I was not very good. The last +exercise was singing scales. I did that very well and my teacher +seemed satisfied.",1 +"Just before I started my study I had to move, I was very afraid +to be left alone and that I could not manage it.",6 +"Once while walking along a hill; I fell down out of carelessness +and I broke my left arm.",6 +"I was at home and I heard a loud sound of spitting outside the +door. I thought that one of my family members would step on the spit +and bring the germs in the house.",6 +Getting a phone call from a very old friend.,1 +The sadistinc exacution of a student in the USA.,0 +Forgetting an important appointment.,2 +"When I was a kid, I always opened the door to greet my father +when he came back from work. One day it so happened that his +hair was scattered due to over-crowding in the train, and when I +opened the door as usual I saw something else. I was so scared +that I could not talk.",6 +"Upon returning from a journey of about two weeks duration, I +found that a collection of pornographic literature had been +removed from my room I had previously thought that no one was +aware of the existence of this material.",2 +"At a party where the boys were telling revolting stories about +the girls they'd been with.",0 +Reading literature on AIDS/homosexuality.,0 +"The disease and subsequent death of a close acquaintance. Sadness +was accompanied with feelings of powerlessness (I also +experienced sadness in the situation described under guilt).",4 +"While watching TV (a war movie), I felt a strong fear of death, +threat and fear of loosing people close to me.",6 +"My mother was very angry with my little sister and told her to +put her hands on the table in order to beat her hands up. She +forced by means of her power.",0 +Not noticing my roommates quietness or a sign of discomfort.,5 +When I copy someone else's problem set.,5 +Being insulted by my roommate (she is in the English Class).,3 +"When criticizing something about a person and then realizing that +the person whom one is talking to is similar.",2 +"When my brother ran away from home and I thought it was because +of my continously scolding him.",5 +"I was to prepare relish for the family. I overcooked it and no +one liked the meal that day.",5 +When I tripped while getting on a bus.,2 +"I was diving below the ice, in a cave, at a depth of 26 metres. +Visibility was almost zero and the oxygen level decreased +threateningly. There were three of us divers on one safety rope.",6 +"During an informal discussion I contributed a lot even though I +had not spent much time studying. Whenever someone said that +someone was not paying attention, or that he had too many other +things to do, or that the persoon was not trying his best, I +would feel ashamed.",2 +When passing the final examinations for social worker.,1 +Aticle published.,1 +"My girlfriend left the house in which we lived together a few +months ago. This made me very sad.",4 +When I had beaten my auntie.,5 +"In a sociology class I felt very angry towards some members of +society for exploiting the Polynesian people, dawn raids by +Police (Martin Luther King, Blacks in S.A.). But this was just a +reflection of my own shortcomings.",3 +When ditched - divorced by husband.,2 +"I did not do as well as I expected on a chemistry exam. I +received a score below the average and I thought I had done very +well.",4 +"The feeling of joy when again I had confessed my sin and +experienced God's forgiving grace and cleansing power - total +enlightenment and freedome - bliss.",1 +"My best frieend left school recently. The next day the weather +turned bad suddenly and the male class-mates turned off the +lights. I remained on the table and was scared.",6 +"I had been guilty of gossiping and blaming others, and one of my +superiors at the workplace made a formal reprimand.",5 +"It was last week on Sunday that I was walking with my girlfriend +along Kawale road going to town so I tried to stop a car for a +lift and the driver didn't stop and I felt shame because people +were looking at us.",2 +"I had to prepare a report but I couldn't write it. I read from a +book off-hand, I was quite uneasy and I felt I didn't manage.",2 +"When I saw Russian roulette on TV. (obviously the movie ""Deer +hunter"")",6 +"When I found that my ability to do ordinary work was worse than +my fellow mates.",4 +"I feel disgusted when people do not understand me in the right +way, i.e they misunderstand me.",0 +"After having slept for a short time I woke up - I had the feeling +of someone standing beside me and was very frightened. I had to +turn on the light turn on the light for several minutes before I +was able to get to sleep again.",6 +"Finding out that we cannot have good references because China is +poor.",2 +When I witnessed an accident.,0 +"I read about a monk who had been murdered and put into a barrel +which was filled with blood of pigs.",0 +"When the parents of my girlfriend gave permission to spend our +holiday together.",1 +"Spending the nitht with close friends, after being away (out of +Nijmegen) for a while.",1 +"This happened when I went to visit my friend in Chelston and +found him screwing my girlfriend.",0 +"I was in the living room at home with an ex-boyfriend, it was +nearly a year that we had separated, during the talk he began to +remember our courting and gave me a long kiss.",1 +"This was what I felt when my boyfriend went to Bourgas to study +there. I had the feeling I would lose him. Anyway the distance +Plovdiv-Bourgas seemed to me so great.",6 +"When I got to know that I had passed the university entrance +exam. I thought that I had done one of the exams badly.",1 +Lost my girl-friend.,4 +When I learned that my brother had spoilt an LP of mine.,3 +When I nearly walked on a blindworm and then saw it crawl away.,0 +When I was selected to a University College of Nursing.,1 +"I was with a friend in a stationed car when, suddenly a man +appeared on my side and an other with a gun on his side the +hold-up lasted a few minutes but it was terrible. I had never +seen a gun so close.",6 +"Facing the possibility of having a child when it wasn't either +desired or permitted.",5 +"When the robbers broke in, at night.",6 +Tripped on a busy street.,3 +"Got a package from my parents, without even a small note +enclosed.",4 +"I saved up money for a good purpose. As I also have to organise a +party I am afraid there will rest only a little money for the +good purpose I feel guilty about this.",5 +"When my little brother passed away mysteriously, at least from +what I was told about it.",4 +"When a member of the family complains about the food that is +served, it disgusts me.",0 +"Before getting back the results of a test in school, when I had +worked very hard and was worried about not succeeding.",6 +China winning the Asian Olympic games (TV).,1 +My mother in law slept in my bed.,3 +"Once when I was studying for my examination, I was asked to do +some work which was unavoidable.",0 +"I felt fear when one night my aunt and Uncle left me alone at +their house to look after the baby when they went to a party.",6 +Passing an exam I did not expect to pass.,1 +"I don't remember about a situation when I have experienced this +feeling. Maybe it was when I saw a drunkard in the street.",0 +"When I look at people around and know that people who are stupid +look stupid.",1 +"I had quarelled with a friend of mine and I later realized that +it was also my fault.",5 +"I detested my father who was a drunkard. He would rave, +threaten and blame my mother and me. He finally drove us away +from home.",0 +"A railways officer, when asked by the ticket checker to produce +his tickets, got very aggressive and started abusing and using +his authority in a very wrong way.",0 +"When my car froze, and I could not start it.",4 +"When a cousin of mine took my bottle of T.B tablets, put water in +it and threw it in the dust-bin.",3 +When I received a beautiful birthday gift form my parents.,1 +Finding out I was chosen for the English lectures.,1 +"When I slept with a guy because my best friend wanted me to. +He had never had intercourse with anyone and had a terrible +complex about it.",0 +"When I committed a sin mentioned in ANGER. A sin of sexual +immorality.",0 +When an unknown person provoked me verbaly and physically.,3 +"The behaviour of a fellow towards me and some others in the army +was really mean. I detested this.",0 +"A girl entered in the division where I work and greeted everybody +but not me.",3 +When my mother's heart nearly stopped.,6 +"I share my small flat with my friend. On her birthday we could +not see each other until evening because we had to stay at the +University all day. In the evening I left a lecture before it +finished to be able to buy flowers for her. When I was at home +she called me to tell me that she would stay the night with her +boyfriend.",3 +"When having a relationship, I made love with another girl.",5 +"When I took the B.A exams,I was expecting a 1st class even though +I had not done very well. When the results came out I felt sad as +I had missed the 1st class by 12 marks.",4 +"While doing some calculation exercises, I neglected a part of it, +though I had marked it as done. By chance, I was asked to +demonstrate this very part on the blackboard.",5 +"Losing a pet chick. Our family had just put the chick outside a +few days before and then one morning it was gone.",4 +"Dad had just married his second wife (my step-mother) and I did +not like her so I went to the wardrobe and set fire to her +dresses. Eveyone suspected my brother and he had to bear the +consequences. Nobody ever got to know that it was me who had +done it. ",5 +"I fell down in the bus when it braked suddenly and everybody +started looking at me.",2 +"When I and the person mentioned above had a suspicion of +pregnancy.",6 +Going to take my driving test.,6 +"My mother told me that the enveloppes that I had been tearing (I +had torn the stamps away) in good faith had been the first-day +enveloppes which my father had collected as a young man.",5 +"I am disgusted at the number of second year students who are +pregnant illegitimately.",0 +"When I went to town in a double dekker bus. The bus was about to +fall on the way when the driver controlled it. It had almost +fallen.",6 +"I could have died when I was caught cheating on a test in high +school. That was my first and last time.",2 +"When I failed Psychology examination when most of the students +passed.",2 +To fight with a sister and to know that she doesn't care.,4 +Saw a snake unexpectedly.,6 +"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked +quite a lot. This made me feel low for a some time.",2 +"When I was 4, we spent our holidays at the seaside. My sister and +her friend wanted to go to a bay on an undangerous way. I wanted +to arrive before them and went on a shorter, but more dangerous +way. When I arrived, I found nobody there. I waited for a long +time, but nobody came. On my way back I met my mother who had +been searching for me desperatly. She did not scold me, but I saw +how much she had worried (herself).",5 +"I felt disgusted when my cousin decided that she would stop +going to school saying she wanted to get married. She was only 14 +years by then and she didn't understand what she was thinking.",0 +"Too busy to write letters to friends and they said I had +forgotten about them.",5 +"When I received the mark well above requirements for the course I +wanted to enter, yet I was not accepted - anger at the injustice +of it, because I didn't receive early release of H.S.C. marks.",3 +When my son has a pain in his leg (for no apparent reason). ,6 +"As I usually do not start learning until a short time before an +examination,, I once made up my mind to try to work for a longer +time. But once again I did not do it - and got a bad mark.",3 +When I was caught in an elevator and it got stuck between floors.,6 +"My father and I had an argument because I do not help enough at +home.",3 +NO RESPONSE.,3 +"When I was misleaded by a person who assured that something would +not occur, that I had no reason to prepccupy myself, and suddenly +I saw myself implicated by the fact, because of the incompetence, +and irresponsibility of that person.",3 +When bathing at surf beach & lost togs.,2 +When I failed an exam I thought I could pass easily.,5 +"I felt guilty at not having practised the piano. I waste my +teacher's time and guidance.",5 +"Sitting alone in a quiet room concentrating on things happening +around me which pleases me.",1 +"When I was a child, one day, I was going home late at night and I +did not notice an uncovered man hole and fell in it. I was in there for +several minutes.",6 +Disgust at myself when I stroked a sleeping girl's private parts.,0 +When I heard that I had made it to the second year at UNZA.,1 +"I was saying bad things about a man I had never seen. I was +with a friend and did not know that she was related to this man. +My friend did not tell me about it and I discovered this myself.",2 +Finding out that my best friend could not go to university.,4 +A girl I love does not love me.,4 +"When I am travelling by car and have to meet an oncoming car +while overtaking.",6 +"I was a passenger in a vehicle when suddenly another vehicle came +from behind to overtake us. However another one was coming right +in front so the other vehicle changed course and blocked our way +and so we crashed against the side of the road.",6 +"When I was still a child I was told off in face of other persons +for having touched an object that didn't belong to me.",2 +"During military service I heard the story of someone who tried to +commit suicide and as a result of this got a week custody.",0 +"I was walking down a road and suddenly a few dogs appeared at a fence +and started barking angrily. They were jumping and it seemed +that they would come for me any time.",6 +"I was disgusted when our cricket team manager dropped me from the +team.",0 +Lying to my cousin about the form five examination fees.,2 +"When I was in the army, we got a certain dish for dinner that I +do not like at all. We were not obliged to eat, but I was very +hungry.",0 +"I felt guilty after getting really angry with a friend and having +an argument. I was being stubborn and proud, and selfish, because +my friend let me down, through no fault of her own.",5 +"My brother lost his temper and started smashing things in the +house. I was quite scared, that something terrible might happen, +till the situation was brought under control.",6 +"My sisters asked me to fetch them at a discotheque which is 5 km +off. There was a thick fog and snowfall. There was not enough +room in the car for all of them and they asked me to go there +once again. When I did not do that they had a way to make me feel +guilty.",5 +"As a child - stepping on a rusty nail - being told that I might +get tetanus.",6 +"My paternal grandmother had died. We weren't close but she was +blood. I didn't cry but I was sad, partly due to her death and +partly I think, due to the fact that I couldn't/didn't cry.",4 +A dear friend was removed from the division whre I work.,4 +"I slipped and fell in to a puddle and people started looking at +me.",2 +"A gigantic spider climbed over my face and what is more - in my +own flat.",0 +"In our class we had a test on Nursing, so a friend from the Army +was caught peeping, by using a paper which had already answers +which was written by him. So all of us from the Army got ashamed.",2 +"South Korea winning more gold medals in the Asian Olympic (more +than China).",3 +"Yesterday my boyfriend and I wanted to play billiards. However +there were boys playing (5 times). My boyfriend then is fed up +and chagrined. In such case I think it is my fault.",5 +"My nephew's mother just left one day (my brother and she were +not married). My nephew, Anthony, was shaken. I was sad for him +because a similar situation happened to me.",4 +"When I watched a report about El Salvador on TV, I saw people who +had been murdered by terrible methods.",0 +Shouting at my parents because I was angry about something else.,5 +I was so angry with a patient who refused to take drugs.,3 +"A very close friend from Victoria visited me over the holidays. +Having enjoyed his company immensely over 10 short days, I was +overwhelmed by sadness when he left to return to Victoria. +",4 +"I don't use to lie to my parets about what I do, and the two +times that I felt anger were when they doubted me I said that I +was going to the club, and they didn't believe me because the day +before they had met me at FLIPERAMA. I had the wish to kill them.",3 +"I talked to my boyfriend on the phone when I was in high spirits +and had a lot to tell him. I had been looking forward to this +conversation and he did not listen to me to the extent that I +had anticipated.",4 +"Foreign students playing loud music in the night before the +biology examn.",2 +When I accepted a lunch invitation from a past male friend.,5 +I witnessed a scene in which two women were abusing each other.,0 +"I feel disgusted since I am unable to cope with all the wordly +affairs as I spend much precious time to pursue my hobby and +to be admist the people I love and long to be with.",0 +"When I saw the certificate results, I did not feel very happy as I +did not realize that I had got all the credits until my +classmates pointed it out to me. My parents and my relatives +praised me and I realized that my results were good i.e 2A, 5B, +2C. I felt satisfied with the results and was happy.",1 +"I had an argument with my mother because I criticized the rules +she imposes at home, which are too rigid and arbitrary for me.",3 +"Afraid I wouldn't catch the train when I was going to see my +sweetheart.",6 +"I remember about an unpleasant event in relation to my mother. I +felt guilty before her.",5 +"When I had wrongly explained someone an important exemple for an +examination.",5 +"My flatmate and close friend living and sleeping with another +close friend of mine.",0 +"When, as an adult I have been caught lying or behaving badly.",2 +When I had my four children.,1 +After having quarelled with a relative of mine about politics.,3 +When my parents complimented me very nicely on something.,1 +"When I see that some people remain cold and egoistic with regard +to close friends, even in situations that those friends need +them.",0 +When I was caught with someone's daughter.,2 +"We were in the country and I walked away from the others one +night. Suddenly something moved sharply in front of me and I was +not able to see what it was.",6 +"I was alone at home and I could hear odd noises coming from above +our bedroom. I knew that nobody lived there since it was an +office. I got frightened (later I was given a ""natural"" +explanation).",6 +"A young, close relative of mine died, leaving behind a baby a few +months old.",4 +Saw a real party leader.,0 +"I behaved in a nasty manner towards a friend, I said things which +I could have said in a more friendly way. After that I felt +guilty.",5 +"When I went home alone early in the morning, I had to go through +a wood.",6 +"When summer is over and I have to leave the town where I spend my +holidays.",4 +Fooling around with this guy I did not know.,2 +[ I am joyfull to be alive every night.],1 +"In a dark street at 4 o'clock in the night and there was +complete silence.",6 +"After a terrible quarrel with my family, I withdrew in my room. I +felt guilty because I had caused this scene by my aggressive +behavior.",5 +"I am chosen for the English lectures instead of my good friend +and people told me that girls are more likely to be chosen.",2 +Not being able to help my friend.,5 +"I started a new branch of studies after having failed a former +one. When I got back my exam papers I was very happy to know +that I almost had full marks.",1 +"I experience that feeling when I am unsulted without deserving +it or when someone deceives me.",3 +"When I was in grade one, one day I felt like going to the toilet +during class but I was very scared of the teacher so I urinated +in the class.",2 +"When I was a child, my uncle came to see us. I spit at him and +ran out - I do not know the reason for that. My father came after +me and insisted on my apologizing.",2 +I had a quarrel with my parents,3 +"Going out for dinner, or during one ice-cream and four spoons.",2 +Death of my grandmother.,4 +"After having told an authority figure a very large lie I was told +she believed me, because she believed I had never lied to her. ",5 +"I was very happy when I discovered that I had passed my first +year examination and was among the thirty students who would +major in economics.",1 +"I planned to travel a distance of 20 kilometres on my bike. I +planned this when I was working in the hospital. When I went to +the house I found that a friend had taken my bike without my +consent.",3 +"My father died. I was away at the time and did not know until two +days after.",4 +When one of my closest friends died unexpectantly.,4 +[ Being close to another person.],1 +"We were at a party, this guy I liked and me. I really loved him +and gathered enough courage to ask him to kiss me. He did not do +it but instead asked me what I would like for my birthday. I +told him that I would like a kiss more than anything else but he +excused himself and said that it was impossible. I really felt +embarassed.",2 +"When I was told that I could take a week off and go for a trip +with my friends.",1 +One day I went to see a rather disagreeable film (X).,0 +"When I had been obviously unjustly treated and had no possibility +of elucidating this.",3 +I was admitted to the University and a niece was born to me.,1 +"The same as in ""shame"".",5 +When confronted and in my opinion hassled by the police.,6 +When I had a serious argument with a dear person.,3 +"When at school, I threw a duster at another child and hit him in +the head. The blow caused a flesh wound and I was afraid of what +would happen to me when the teacher found out the circumstances.",6 +"When we were on holidays my girl-friend had to leave me after 4 +weeks and I had to stay in Turkey for some more weeks because I +had a job there.",4 +"Winning a tight tennis match. One set to play, and the team was +behind by 3 games. We won the last set 6-2 and won the match by a +game.",1 +"During the last academic year i.e 1983/1984 just before the +closure, we were surrounded and threatened by the paramilitary +forces.",6 +"Not being chosen for the English lectures (my girl-friend +chosen).",4 +"Two summers ago my best friend and I drove into unknown mountains +at midnight to pick up my broken car. We told one another +horrifically scary ghost/murder stories and succeeded in scaring +eachother pretty well - even though somewhere in our heads we +knew the fears were unjustified.",6 +"When I found out that a set task (i.e. 2 essays and a test), the +thought of which had oppressed me, were not on the date I had +thought.",1 +"When my aunt took her own life, I felt guity for not +understanding that she needed support.",5 +"In a cottage in a large forest, I was alone for a while in the dark.",6 +Movement in bush late at night while camping.,6 +"I made a very insulting remark against a person whom I care for +very much. This event was caused by a third person who didn't +like the person I insulted.",2 +I was angry when my abilities of a singer were underestimated.,3 +When the man I loved decided to leave me forever.,4 +"My parents inherited an appartment and this made them behave in a +peculiar manner.",0 +Saw the village I come from still pay money to buy wife.,4 +Being slandered by friends.,3 +"When my relatives and I were in a car going slowly on a frozen +road.",6 +"A drunk walked out in front of a car at night. Both lower legs +were broken. His shoe was thrown about 50 yards after the +accident.",0 +"It was in a group situation: suddenly it was my turn to say something, +but I felt that I was not able to express myself very well - I felt +ashamed and blushed.",2 +"I lived together with my boyfriend. One night he stayed away and +next day he told me that he had chat up with another girl.",0 +"When I spoke ill of a fellow worker in the absence of this +person.",5 +"My mom told me not to gamble, but I did anyway. Sometimes I would +even take some money from my parents and brother. She found out +and yelled at me.",5 +"When I walked to church with my roommate, a bum told us to call +the police and he started following us.",6 +"When my roommate's boyfriend assaulted me. He was threatening me, +calling me names and pushing me around.",3 +"I did not like it when a little girl was crying for her dead +mother and was calling her by her name. I was sad.",4 +"Disgust with oneself after being intoxicated enough to go to bed +with a stranger.",0 +When I went to my first dental appointment.,6 +"When I recently thought about the hard work it takes to study, and +how one wants to try something else. When I read a theoretical +book in English that I did not understand.",4 +"I deliberately avoided a person who I wanted to hurt, and who +wanted to talk to me.",0 +"One night a friend found out that I dumped one girl for another +and he proceded to lecture me.",2 +"Before Christmas I got to know a girl but our relationshop could +not consolidate before the holiday. Therefore it was a big +surprise to get a carefully hand-made present from her. - Our +relationship grew closer.",1 +I lost my driver's licence because of speeding.,2 +"My class leader told me I am not chosen for your English +lectures.",3 +"After having been ill, when I was coming back to the hostel, I +felt very sad leaving home.",4 +When I triffled with other people.,5 +When someone is accused or punished instead of me.,5 +"It was when my Instructor awoke me late at night to get prepared +for the training at Military college when he was coming back from +his personal social activities.",3 +"My teacher reminded us not to do a Summer job, however I did it +for two months. Yesterday I was chatting with my teacher and +when we talked of the Summer job, I felt ashamed.",2 +"I was very fat, and was ashamed of my body.",2 +"When an untidy and heavyly drunk person made endeavours to +approach me.",0 +"When I was told that my daughter, who is at a boarding school, +was very ill and that they needed me there the same day.",6 +"I feel shame mixed with anger with the behavior of some +incultivated people because my fiancT is a foreigner.",2 +"When taking part in the mobbing of one of my best friends in +primary school.",2 +"When friends found out that I had been lying about where I had +been on a particular occasion.",2 +"I was at the University dining room, alone, and at a table next +to mine thre were several professors. One of them asked me to +join them. I refused but she insisted. All the others started +looking at me and I had to move to their table.",2 +"I wandered by mistake into the safety zone of a shooting range, +and was shot at.",6 +"We owned a shop and I used to serve in it occasionally. We +sometimes took lollies out of the stand and Dad caught me one +day.",5 +"My friend took me to Civo Stadium to watch and listen to the +music of the International singer Sam Mangwana. I had no hope of +going there since I had no money so he gave me the money for +admission.",1 +"When I had to move away from home to study, and I knew that I +would not be coming back home for a long time.",4 +"When I had to eat scraps from a dust-bin, because of a bet.",0 +"When I was 17, I told Mum I came in at midnight, when really it +was 3.30.",5 +"I omitted to do a favor to a friend, while he was very much in +need for help.",2 +"I felt disgust with the alcohol, after I happened to see a young +man, who was dead to the world and who wallowed on the pavement. +This ""sight"" I watched from the bus.",0 +"I was walking to school and I passed by a red cross post where +there were many soldiers. They began to pass remarks at me.",2 +"I greeted and embraced the wrong person thinking that it was my +friend.",2 +"When I was doing research a few months ago, I had asked the +Institute to sponsor me for a computer course which was held in +TISS. However, because of the administrative officer I could not +get the money.",3 +"When I passsed the M.S.C board exams with first class, which I +had not expected.",1 +"I had an argument with a friend of mine. She would not let me +speak and then I began to shout at her. She got angry and left, +I did not try to prevent her from leaving.",5 +"When I realized that the person I was courting hadn't been really +by my side for a long time already. He had deceived me and I let +him deceive me.",3 +When I was in the sauna bath.,1 +When I heard about a murder of a 16-year-old girl.,0 +"One day I was in the countryside with several friends, and we +began to eat figs, after we were all full we noticed that all the +figs were full of worms.",0 +"My mother revealed personal details about me and the +negative aspects of my character to other people when I was +present but unable to defend myself.",2 +"When I bribed the person who caught me doing something I was not +supposed to have done. I was very ashamed of what I had done.",2 +"At primary school the teacher caught me cheating during a +dictation.",6 +When I was fined for speeding.,5 +"I realized that a fellow member had grown spiritually. I was the +leader of a spiritual group and had prayed for him. He did not +want to burn the incense but his mother forced him to do it. +Finally his mother told him that he could discontinue if he got +good results at school.",1 +"When I heard that my girlfriend was talking behind my back and +looking down on me.",3 +"When Dad went to a Sports Day and was the only parent there, and +he was cheering for us.",2 +Failed to be elected to be a class leader.,2 +"When I stood first in the B.A exams. Earlier I had heard of +these boys and girls who were toppers, but when I first heard of +me having topped I could not believe it.",1 +"Talking about a person's unattractiveness, not realizing that the +person was listening.",2 +"After I saw my family and good friends back after staying one +year in a foreign country. ",1 +"I entered the hostel this year. My mother was ill and could not +move and needed people to look after her. Every week I left home +to go back to school, I felt guilty.",5 +"A friend told me that a boy wanted to get to know me. At that +time I felt disgusted and thought that it was a nonsense thing.",0 +"Your prejudice against psychology students and education students +(not allowing us to go to the medical university lectures).",3 +"A friend whom I had gone out of my way to do something for did +not bother to acknowledge my efforts, and treated me badly +thereafter.",3 +"I was really disgusted when I saw one of my friends soiling on +his clothes. I thought he was mad.",0 +"The parents of a friend of mine surprised us and another couple +sleeping in thier place.",2 +"I felt disgust when I kissed a guy that I know. I was on the outs +with my boyfriend and this person appeared but he has nothing to +do with me.",0 +"I was rock-climbing and absailing & felt OK, but suddenly as I +was going over the cliff I was hit by fear - I couldn't go on +absailing down the cliff and had to be actually hauled back up +it.",6 +"My first real experience with a boy. We were alone. I was quite +young and pretty naive and he was pretty crude and real, sort of, +macho. It was dark, at night during the summer and we were +talking.",2 +I got a job right after school was over.,1 +"When my ex-girlfriend and I discovered that there was a certain risk +of her being pregnant.",4 +"When I passed the last exam, which I had doudts about.",1 +"After the first of May, I detested my fiance's friends, who had +piled on to our party and spoilt it completely.",0 +"At one point in a relationship, my boyfriend was seeing an old +flame more than me. At our confrontation tears were shed.",4 +"When I was young I got lost on the street and the police found me +after a day.",6 +When I passed an exam.,1 +When my son was born.,1 +"I was disappointed and angry at the bad quality of a documentay +program on TV. In my opinion, the topic was important and the +program should have been made with seriousness and consideration.",3 +"When I was not selected to go to the University of Malawi I felt +very sad.",4 +"When I was 4-5 years old my mother gave me some parts of a +chocolate bar and ordered me to bring it to my father working +outside. On my way I could not resist the temptation and ate it +myself.",5 +"When I found out that the girl, with whom I was in love, loved me +too.",1 +When I saw a person I had not seen for a long time.,1 +"I went to visit a friend in hospital. He was going to be +operated the next day. I was afraid that they would not let me +in and I did not know what his reaction would be on seeing me.",6 +"When I knew that there were, at last, no problems in making a +journey that I had been wanting to make for a long time.",1 +"I felt disgusted about a teacher who had rejected all that was +human in her. She refused to accept the flowers we gave her for +the eighth of March and asked for a foreign parfume instead.",0 +"In September 1984 I got two girls pregnant and the families of +both the girls confronted me . The fact was that my parents were +around and I felt guilty answering some of the questions.",5 +"When I was in primary 6, my father died. I was very young then +and did not know what had happened. The weeping of my relatives +and my tears made me sad.",4 +Being hooted at when I was learning to drive.,3 +Having a car accident.,6 +"Being harrassed for being gay; suggestions of being physically +beaten - acting as informal bouncer in a gay bar.",6 +"I am going steady with a boy, but I had sexual intercourse with +another one, and I felt guilty about it afterwards.",5 +Heard about someone telling lies about me to my best friend.,4 +"When I was accepted as supervisor for a student teacher. The +notification came by post.",1 +"One Saturday afternoon, I deliberately dressed up nicely (I had +been in a bad mood of late). I hoped to go for a walk in the +soft sunlight to try and uplift my spirits. When I was having +lunch in the canteen, two of my male classmates asked me as to +why I was dressed so nicely (they had seldom joked with me +before). One of them said that he had a lounge suit and we would +look very nice if we wore them together.",1 +"When my grandmother died. I had a very deep relation to her (I +lived with her for several years).",4 +"The transport to pick us up for lunch was always late and the +driver made the same excuse every day.",0 +"I felt joy when I was admitted to the Higher Agricultural +Institute.",1 +"I was angry with a friend of mine who behaved in an affected +manner.",3 +"When I visited a creche. The conditions weren't too precarious +but the children were in conditions of physical and emotional +penury.",0 +"When I just took a shower with a girl down the hall. I felt that +I had let my devotion to God go out the window. Although nothig +happened I felt ashamed.",2 +Being rude to somebody who was impolite to me.,3 +"It was during the beginning of the term. I had K100 and kept it +in my handbag. I left the handbag in the wardrobe but didn't +lock it. Next time I found that K30 were stolen.",3 +Receiving my result slip (pass) on my birthday.,1 +Does not apply.,0 +"When I wanted to kiss a friend and didn't succeed, I felt shame.",2 +Once I was not ready for a seminar and I was asked to leave.,2 +"A person I trusted a lot gave me many false explanations to +justify a wrong action.",3 +When my grandfather died.,4 +"I was spending a few days at my aunt's place. One night I got +home very late, I had told them I was going to a party but I went +to another place. They were very worried.",5 +"When I became angry at my boyfriend without any reason. I know he +cannot bear me being angry at him and that he can't study anymore +then.",5 +"I was 4-5 years old when I hid the bicycle keys of a not very +good friend. After a few hours I pretended that I had found +it.",5 +"When I was young, one day in the car we fell sick and ended up +vomitting on each other.",0 +I said something which was against my conscience.,5 +When I wore a grotesque figure hanging down my back.,2 +"When it became clear that a man had used many people sexually +and psychologically, despite the fact that many people looked up +to him. I understood that one could not trust him and I was +forced to hide this for a while.",3 +"I felt ashamed when a friend, I had always respected, insulted me +in public. He was drunk.",2 +"One evening when a boy who was drunk made a pass at me by trying +to kiss me.",0 +"The day my fiancee told me that it was bad that I could not write +my mother tongue.",2 +"I once saw an old man up the road, fossicking through the rubbish +bins and the gutter. I was really disgusted at first but I've +seen him a few times since then and now I feel really sorry for +him and I often give him cigarettes when I see him, because he +mainly goes after cigarette butts and it is revolting.",0 +"A bus drove over my right leg. The event itself was not very +frightening but when I had to wait in the emergency ward for +three hours and then my leg began to swell, I was frightened.",6 +"I vividly remember having feelings of disgust toward some of my +jr. high classmates who didn't work at all on their schoolwork +and who would coplain and take my tax money when I was older and +more successful than they were. At the time I pictured some +adults like this that I knew in the complaining situation.",0 +"When the result of the certificate exam was announced. I was +surprised and happy as the result was better than I had +expected.",1 +"When I was in P3 I was always punished as I would forget to do my +homework. The first time that I was punished and not allowed to +leave school, I slipped out of school.",5 +My bicycle was demolished.,3 +"When my friend needed my help very much and I, at that moment, made +an end to our relationship.",5 +Walking home in the dark from college.,6 +"When I heard that I had been selected fot the first year at the +university of Zambia. This was after my form five at Chikola +secondary school.",1 +I like someone who does not like me and was rude to me.,4 +"Our neighbour came and gossiped, about others, with my parents.",0 +"I lost a conference because I hadn't got in touch with a certain +person to inform her that I would go with her. I thought she knew +what I wanted.",5 +"I was talking to my mom on the phone and she told me that she had +just gotten an award that day in front of all these people and +she asked me if I wanted her to send me the article in the temple +newsletter to me. I said no very quickly and felt guilty for not +being more interested and hurting her feelings.",5 +My uncle died - I felt sad at the funeral.,4 +"I received the results of the test paper of my major subject and +I found that my result was not as good as a classmate who had +recently changed his major subject. I felt very ashamed.",2 +"I was most angry when India lost the Triangular Cricket trophy +held in Australia. I was so angry that I fought (orally) with my +friend.",3 +When I passed an exam which I had failed last year.,1 +"When I applied for a job which I thought I had a good chance of +getting, I was not even granted an interview and did not get the +job.",4 +"An ex-colleague asked me if I was interested in working in their +accounts bureau. They needed ""clever people"" and he had +""immediately thought of me.""",1 +"As a child I suffered of nightmares. Even since than, I have +never been so anxious and fearful.",6 +"I came home from a discotheque at half past four in the morning, +although I had promised my parents to come home at midnight. From +3 a.m. I felt guilty towards my parents.",5 +"I borrowed my classmate's notebook one week before the +examination and I promised to give it back to her in two days +time. I was very busy at that time and forgot many things; as I +was not very often at home she could not contact me. When I +started my revision I realized that her notebook had been on my +desk for five days. I contacted her immediately and gave it back +to her. Though she did not say anything I felt very guilty.",5 +"I watched a football match with my old friend. The performance +of the team was very good and the team members were full of +spirit. The match was excellent and every time a goal was scored +I felt excited.",1 +I forgot something I agreed upon with a good friend.,2 +I had a very pleasant conversation with one of my friends.,1 +On the way down a ski slope which was difficult and steep.,6 +When I was selected at TISS X.,1 +"I am disgusted with a nieghbour who is looking for all sorts of +quarrel with my parents and me. He feels we are hampering his +living close to us. This has been going on for quite a long time.",0 +When my application for studying the masters degree was accepted. ,1 +When my grandmother died very suddenly without warning.,4 +"I remember that my form 2 teacher was very fierce and dogmatic. +My feet would tremble whenever I saw her but I had to face the fact that +I had to go for her class. ",6 +"When I was starting in romance with my husband, we went out to +curt, and we stayed in the car ""making love"". At the time I was +seventeen and I was very immature until a day I lost my +virginity.",5 +"I was angry when my sister began to talk nonsense and to laugh at +the way I swept the room. My anger grew (I tried to control +myself). After telling her to leave me alone, I vented my anger +on her as she did not obey me.",3 +"I had to leave Den Helder and all friends and acquaintences, +after having spend two weeks there with my friends.",4 +"I was waiting behind a car which was going to leave the parking +place, because I wanted to park my car there. Because of uncoming +traffic I had to wait for a short time - another driver placed +his car on the place.",3 +"Our tutorial group was soon to be divided, and we got a list of +names of freshmen, out of which five were to be in my group. We +read the names and then each group went its own way to a seminar +room. I wondered how I would cope with the new situation and if +I would succeed as a group leader.",6 +"One day I went to the cinema to see a film in which I was +interested. On arriving there I saw a long queue (which I had +not expected) and went back home without seeing the film.",6 +"In an examination ,which other students found easy I could hardly +think and did not know what to answer.",2 +"I work for a journal. Once the lay-out came to nothing, due to +thoughtlessness of some colleagues.",3 +When they told me that my grandfather was rather ill.,4 +"When my mother found me in her bedroom ""stealing"" sugar in her +bedroom. According to our customs there comes a stage when a +child stops using the parents bedroom and I was well past that +age.",5 +China cannot give your lectures bigger place and sound system.,2 +When I was going to take the practical exams.,6 +"When I think about my family (parents, brothers, sisters) guilt +is a part of my feelings.",5 +I locked myself out.,3 +"One evening I went out with some friends of mine, although I was +supposed to stay at home with my little sister who is 11.",5 +"I was stood up for a date function by someone who I really cared +for.",3 +"When I blurted out an answer in class without having been asked +to do so. The teacher told me that it was bad manners to do so.",2 +"My girlfriend who had been very far away from me came to my +place. She saw me and ran after me. I didn't know that she had +come. I couldn't see her. She held my shoulders standing behind +me.",1 +Disgust with a subordinate.,0 +When I crashed my car.,6 +"I was accused of having done something, which I hadn't and got +very angry.",3 +"When during Winter the water pipes froze and we did not have any +water for two days.",3 +"A friend of mine played a joke on another friend over the +telephone. This friend, crying, called me and I got very angry +and made the other person apologize.",3 +I felt very sad when I heard that a friend had committed suicide.,4 +"When I wanted to go into a house, there was suddenly a big dog +standing beside me. It was hardly moving, but I did not know how +it would react later on.",6 +"I woke up at the house of someone I knew, not remembering very +much about what had been said or done during the party on the +previous night.",2 +"I think I have hardly had a situation where I felt disgusted. +Perhaps once, when I saw a big spider.",0 +"I was disgusted with my girlfriend's behaviour. She was going out +with other boys who were also my friends.",0 +"When a man who had a knife grabbed me and threatened me with it, +during my holidays in Monze. +",6 +"The time I lost a badminton match, that I should have won at the +Zambia closed badminton championships.",4 +Guy I cared for went back to Canada to live.,4 +"The way this particular girl spoke, behaved, and reacted the +first time I was introduced to her, I felt certain that something +between us would materialize.",1 +"The first time that I caressed a girl, I was about thirteen and +she was eighteen. I noticed that it did not affect her at all.",2 +"When I was a child, I thought that I had to be ashamed when +asking and doing certain forbidden things.",2 +Given duty by the leaders which I do not like to do.,0 +"The night before my wife had given birth to our twins. I felt +fear in the hospital yard, I feared if everything was going to be +in order.",6 +"My sweetheart left me, or rather we decided to break it off by +mutual consent. The consequences were - unrestrained weeping, +feelings of loneliness, hopelessness and disconsolation. I felt +that I should find a friend, to talk to joyfully and to forget.",4 +When I quarelled with my parents.,3 +"A person that eat half of a cockroach in a cake without knowing +it.",0 +Going out alone in the dark.,6 +I was angry when my boyfriend did not turn up as promised.,3 +Nothing.,0 +When I broke something and a friend of mine was blamed.,5 +When I was told that I had no right to control my lover.,0 +"One day I was busy day dreaming along the road and suddenly I +heard the sound of jamming car braked behind me. I woke up from +my dreams and it was about to crash me.",6 +"Skiing down a very icy slope, very fast in white-out conditions. +Out of control with no idea of what I was doing or where I was +heading.",6 +"I was caught doing something I was not supposed to do. I did +something with the person who caught me (bribe) and even though +he promised not to report me, I am still frightened.",6 +"When I am not able to fulfill any request of my son - can't take +him out to ride his byke, because I am tired.",5 +"Standing in a crowed shop or in a closed room with too much +people in it. This gives me a fearful experience.",6 +"I went singing with a group of young people on January 6th (The +three Magi), a local custom called ""star singing"". One of the girls, my +girlfriend, broke the star. Being the accompanying person, I felt very +angry thinking of the consequences.",3 +"One day my colleague misbehaved with me. I felt disgusted and +thought to myself that he could only do this because I was a +woman.",0 +"A few days back I had a tutorial class and the teacher randomly +assigned one person in each group to make a presentation. The +discussion in our group had been confused and the presentation +was not very well prepared. Unfortunately I was selected to +present and I could not keep calm, was confused and result was +very poor. I really felt ashamed.",2 +"When a friend of mine died in a hiking accident. I was not +present there and only got the news later.",4 +"After being depressed because of a very bad relationship, my +first love called me and told me that he would always care for me +no matter what I did.",1 +"Watching a football game. This remindes me of the time when my +father was still alive and when we watched football games on TV +together.",4 +Scoared a goal in a football match.,1 +When I learnt of the death of a friend.,4 +"I feel joy usually after each taken exam, the last one was in +February.",1 +"Some time ago I was disgusted with the ""cleanness"" of the +refectory of our institute.",0 +"When I was travelling home by bus and suddenly the bus hit and +the bus leaned against a wall.",6 +When my father died.,4 +When I knew that my husband and I were going to have a child.,1 +"Yesterday, when the final whistle blew at the final match between +OIS and IFK and it was certain that OIS had won the Swedish +title.",1 +"I was double crossing Mercy and Maria. They one day came to know +each other. I was found by Mercy red-haded when I was with Maria.",0 +"After mischieviously ringing on the chemist's trade-entrance +doorbell and getting caught by him.",6 +"While shopping, a person close to us created an uncomfortable +situation for those who were with her.",2 +"My room-mate was drunk, he vomited on the floor and fell face +down on the vomit nearly choking himself to death. Then he +fainted and so I called the first aid.",0 +"My girlfriend disliked it when I played majong (a game of gambling). +I expressed my regrets and when I went to see her she neglected my +existance. I was very angry and left in displeasure.",3 +"I felt it when playing I pushed my brother and he fell down +cutting himself in pieces of tile.",5 +When I got to know the details if the famine in East Africa.,0 +Bad temper of the serving lady in the students' dining hall.,0 +"Many years ago I saw the film ""Psycho"" by Hitchcock for the first +time. When I saw the film I was alone and afterwards I hardly +dared to go to bed and hardly was able to sleep.",6 +When I heard a lion roar for the first time.,6 +When I was getting so fat.,0 +[ When my elders do not understand me in the right way.],4 +"My mother wrote me and said that I would not writ enough letters +home.",5 +"When I heard on the radio that the football match in Belgium had +ended in a catastrophe, and several people had died. I could not + understand how normal people could behave in such a way.",3 +A close friend of the family died.,4 +"When I began to date a boy with whom I am till now. This was 16 +months ago.",1 +"For a few days I felt very miserable, distressed and listless, +with crying fits. When this was over I felt very happy, although +there was no special reason.",1 +"My ex-boyfriend began to date my best friend. After they had been +seeing each other, I found out that he had been sleeping with +another girl, without my friend knowing, I told my friend what he +had been doing behind her back.",3 +Mad at my dad.,3 +Being insulted on a bus.,3 +"I found a problem in homework which would not get solved although +I tried my best.",6 +"When you are satisfied with something, when you achieve something +you have striven to.",1 +"Someone in my family (my brother I suspected) ate a bun which I +had made for myself. It was during a long telephone call after I +had just made it and put it in the oven warming drawer.",3 +"When I almost drowned myself in the municipal swimming pool that +I use to go almost not excaping.",6 +"During labour when the foetal sounds became faint and there was a +big alert for a forceps delivery.",6 +"Can't remember specific event - besides just being moderately +happy until a year or so ago.",1 +"I went to eat at my aunt's house and she served macaroni with a +horrible appearence. I felt the sensation above. The worst was +that I was practically obliged to eat.",0 +"I was supposed to fetch some friends at the bus stop, but I did +not do it because my father was in a bad mood and I was afraid +that he would grumble.",5 +Late for a lecture and therefore missed it.,5 +"I was amongst a group of people talking about how the Maori +people were stirrers and causing trouble in our country. I felt +shame to be a pakeha when other pakehas had such narrow +conservative views.",2 +"I wanted to see a friend, I had been looking forward to it and +had certain expectations, but he did not pay any attention to me, +played cards with other people.",3 +"I can not think of any incident when I have felt very ashamed. +There are small incidents that I am ashamed of, for instance, +not sending money to the children in Ethiopia.",2 +"Last Summer I went camping with some C.U students. As I was +working then, I had to leave the second night (some of them had +joined us the first night). Next morning, 6 o'clock, a female +classmate knocked on our door and tried to wake us up. I was not +fully conscious and I said something which I should not have. I +realized the trouble I had made and wanted to hide. Later I +said sorry to her and the matter came to an end.",2 +"When I was ringing up a guy who was my teen idol, and was in +Auckland. I was really scared, I didn't know what to say or do.",6 +A pig in the well from which we drink.,0 +"When my nephew was born. The birth was hard, it was a big baby.",1 +"Arriving home from work after a long and tiring day to find no +dinner prepared as I had expected.",3 +"Being sexually assaulted (not rape, but passionate kissing) by a +friend's father - he stopped when he was driving me home. I +hadn't wanted the lift, had refused 3 times, and then felt it'd +be rude to refuse again. Was really afraid of what he might do.",6 +"I had to call someone and make an appointment for a conversation. +I was very afraid to fail.",6 +Lack of respect for my parents.,5 +"A teacher at my former secondary school forced my darling to +marry him. The girl tried to refuse but her parents would not +leave her alone.",3 +When I passed the university entrance exam.,1 +When I happen to witness some sadistic acts.,0 +"I feel guilty when I should have done something at any rate but I +haven't done it.",5 +Low evaluation of other people's cares.,5 +"When I cheated my father about the book allowance at university. +He discovered that we were given K150 per year for books.",5 +"Losing my job that I had for 4 summers. I took it personally and +cried for 6 hours off and on. I wanted to hide away and did for a +few days.",4 +"When the grandmother of my friend died in a hospital. My friend +was crying and I was sad, too.",4 +Having a good trip on a boat with good friends.,1 +Insulted by teacher.,2 +"The patient whom I expected to get well suddenly passed away +after he showed had his meals.",3 +"I was sad when I heard that my cousin died because of being +bewitched by her husband's second wife.",4 +"When I was young my mother told the neighbour that I had wet the +bed. I felt ashamed thinking that the neighbour's children would +get to know about it.",2 +"When I received my results and found out that I could not go to a +school of my choice.",4 +"When I was at S.Y.Bajaj I wanted to get admission in another +college and this was not easy and I felt angry. ",3 +"I had an intimate relation with my boyfriend, but unfortunately +we had sexual problems; therefore I deceived him, but I was +ashamed when I told my friend about it.",2 +Helping in the nursery school.,1 +"When I was young I felt ashamed when our relatives visited us and +I hid myself.",2 +"When my grandmother died; I had a stronger relation to her than +to my mother.",4 +Doing this pointless questionnaire.,3 +"When the girl whom I have lusted after expressed reciprocal +feelings and then days later changed her mind.",4 +I felt very sad when my son died after a short illness.,4 +"When I was confronted by a policeman one night around 11 o'clock. + I was afraid when they threatened to take me and my girl to the +gallows.",6 +Being told that I am a stupid person.,3 +"My cousin and I were at the farm and at night we drunk like fools +and made a lot of noise. We had drunk two much of wine.",2 +"Very often I take care for my little sister and oversee her +duties. Most of the time everything went fine, but sometimes she +absolutely didn't want to obey; then I hit her (we frequently +were hit by our father).",5 +"Arriving in New Zealand as a teenager - first overseas trip - +something ""exhilarating"" about the change of scenery etc.",1 +"I had told a person unpleasant things in a bad manner. He was +very depressed and caused an accident.",5 +The disqualification of two of my mates in the military service.,4 +"When my boyfriend was away, I flirted with his best friend; I +felt guilty the next day.",5 +"I had met someone and we became good friends. Our relationship +grew closer and now he is my boyfriend. I felt joy when I found +out how he felt about me.",1 +The death of my grandmother.,4 +"In a playground I was playing at the seesaw with a little niece. +I wanted to stop but nobody came to help me. When I got off, all +alone the seesaw fell down with a big smash. My niece got hurt +above her eye. Now there is a scar.",5 +"""Boy, you have been admitted to the medicine school and your +uncle is coming back fron Canada next week,"" my father told me +and it was a happy moment.",1 +"The girl with whom I was going around had been forbidden to be +alone with me in the house. We paid no attention to this +prohibition but one day her parents appeared and I jumped out of +the window. They saw me.",2 +"When I had to lie about my age to be accepted as a member of a +group.",5 +"Returning home in the late afternoon I saw an indecent act made +by a man with the purpose that I saw it.",0 +"Was threatened with a knife ... in the military by soldiers form +another unit. The reason was girls.",6 +"I was going to my village, after having been rather oppressed in +Madrid. ",1 +"I felt disgusted at the environment while getting back to my +student lodging. I did not see anything in the suburb which had +been planned by taking people's comfort into account.",0 +"Receiving a letter form a girl that means a lot to me +emotionally.",1 +When I thought that I had failed the examination.,6 +"In an exam I answered the questions rather carelessly and +afterwards I thought that the exam would have been better had I +answered more carefully.",5 +"I went to practice in Sweden during summer, and I was afraid that +I would not do well.",6 +When I found out I got accepted to Berkeley.,1 +"My brother came to see me and found me with a boy friend. When +my boyfriend greeted him, he did not answer and instead started +shouting at me and scolding me in the prescence of my boyfriend.",2 +"When I get into the tube or the train without paying for the +ticket.",6 +"There was a scene of shooting in front of my house, I was very +afraid. Two armed men confronting. I didn't discover the reason +of the incident.",6 +When another person's mother died.,4 +"I read a book about the sexual phantasies of women; I read about +a woman having sexual intercourse with a dog.",0 +"When my friend ended up pregnant by a gentleman whom I considered +to be good and faithful but he ended up neglecting her and not +bothering about her.",5 +"Heard some postgraduate students talking about girls being +unsiutable to do medicine.",0 +"English papers are due on Friday. They are returned on Tuesday. +This Tuesday I was afraid to go to class and get my paper because +I knew it was bad.",6 +"When I was told that I was selected to attend Medical Assistant +Training.",1 +My roommate's lack of consideration of me.,0 +Watched a horror movie which involved sexual attacks on women.,6 +Obscene phone calls.,0 +"When one of my parents insinuates something about the other +(they are divorced).",5 +"One morning I was standing at the bus-stop and the bus passed by +without stopping, even though there were only 8-10 passengers +inside. I felt angry at the rude behaviour of the bus driver and +conductor.",3 +"Sincerely I'm a very timid guy and so even in very simple +situations sometimes I am ashamed.",2 +"Fear is an emotion that I experience very often. Naturally this +is during exams and subsequently while waiting for the results. +However there is one occassion when I was paralyzed with fear. +This was when I was doing my M.A.-I, and we had a series of student +lectures. I was one of the participants and my lecture happened +to be the opening lecture. I had been confident all morning, about +twenty minutes before the lecture, my confidence started failing +me. I felt my heart go cold, my lips go dry and I was really +paralyzed. This incident of fear is still fresh.",6 +"My friend often played a joke on me and sometimes I thought that +he was a nonsensical person. Once when we went to a friend's +house he walked in first and shut the door firmly behind him. I +felt that he did not respect me and moreover I was his friend so +he should not have behaved like that. I was very angry (as it is +I was in a bad mood then).",3 +"I was drinking coffee in a cafe and I found a piece of scrubber +in my cup.",0 +My grandfather's death.,4 +"The breakup of a relationship. After the event I was upset/sad +then angry maybe 2/3 weeks later.",3 +"The landlord had selected a new lodger on her own, while we used +to do that it was not what she had done, but how she did it that +made me angry.",3 +"[ When some difference of opinion occurs in a silly situation.] +",3 +"When my boyfriend came form Rumphi to Lilongwe for a visit I was +very happy to see him and couldn't believe it was him with me.",1 +Railway station good-bye.,4 +A murder.,3 +"Once in a public ladies room, I opened the door of a cubicle that +was taken, although it was not locked.",2 +"Not being alowed on a school camp with the class I'd been in for +11 years (I had stayed down due to illness)",3 +"Feeling guilt after greed, buying chocolate and pigging out to +the point of feeling sick, especially as I am fat.",5 +"I had planned to go to town with my friend at 1500 hours but she +went for the registration and I waited for a good 1 and a 1/2 hours. It +was vital for me to go to town but I could not as it was she who +had the money. Finally I borrowed some money from friends and we +went to town. I was really angry with my friend.",3 +"When I failed one of my courses at school - the university of +Zambia.",4 +"When after a storm in the country, I left my shelter and saw a +big, fat, slimy green toad by my side.",0 +"I was skiing alone and the mountain became covered with mist and +I thought I was lost and was going to panic.",6 +"I had reacted angrily at a friend for no fault of his. I had +raised my voice and had not cared for his opinion.",2 +"Last year I was asked to look after my niece while her mother was +cooking. Unfortunately the kid fell off the bed, I was confident +that she would not fall and had not been paying much attention.",5 +"In Sweden, a friend and I lived in an appartment owned by a Finn. + One day, this man came back to the appartment heavily drunk +(hashish and alcohol). He was quite dizzy and he broke down, and +I could not foretell his reactions. However, nothing happened.",6 +When my husband quarrelled with me for no reason at all.,0 +"In a flat in Sydney - rough area at home on my own - the flat had +been burgled the night before and no way of locking the door.",6 +"My flatmate was asking questions about my relationship with my +boyfriend, whether I wasn't treating him as unfairly as I claimed +he'd been treating me. As a result, I was angered, and became +defensive.",3 +"When I came back to my hostel, my bed was full of newspapers and +dirty clothes. My room-mate asked me to wash the clothes for him +as he had no time (this was his responsibility). The food we +shared had been eaten up by him (I ate little).",3 +"I last really felt sad when I left home for I was leaving all my +long time, pre-kindergarten relationships behind.",4 +"It was when my father was taken into detention by the CIDS for +two years for a reason I don't know up to now.",4 +When I failed my first exam at the Higher Institute.,6 +Finding out my grades at the end of my Sophomore year.,0 +When colliding with my car. I myself was to blame.,3 +Listening to my roommate boasting about her new clothes.,0 +"When I went out with my dog in a forest late at night when we +were on a camping.",6 +"I have chosen to put my son in a private school were the +examination marks are low. Every time that he gives me his term +results I am left with a sense of guilt.",5 +"When I got into a bus I found that my wallet had been stolen. +It was not a great loss from the monetary point of view but I +lost some documents - identity papers. As a result I had to +spend several days in order to get a new one. I will always +remember all the work I had to do and the bad treatment I +suffered because of the bureaucratic behaviour of the civil +servant. I had already had bad luck and they treated me like a +criminal. At one point of time I really wanted to quarrel with +them.",3 +When my girlfriend's nephew passed away.,4 +"I just opened the bathroom without knocking not knowing that +someone was bathing inside, it happened to be my father.",2 +When I was robbed in a bus.,3 +"I've a situation of responsibility an employee who had a habit of +being late, came late again after promising to say he would be at +work in a few minutes, then arrived 3 hours later. He had been +drinking.",3 +"To go through the underground way at suburb station of LAPA. Poor +people and the ambulants badly dressed up in a passage badly +kept.",0 +"Stealing money from a milk token jar from a close friend of the +family when visiting.",5 +"A close friend first said he accepted an agreement, but later +used that agreement as a reason for attacking me.",3 +"While at primary school, I did not let a friend ring a bell +although he would have liked to do it. Afterwards I felt bad.",5 +I felt sad when my father was sick.,4 +"In the last day of carnaval I met a boy and began to flirt with +him. I was in love with him. When he introduced me to his friends +I died of shame because I was with them before, I met my +boyfriend in carnaval.",2 +"My mother carried on using mental pressure concerning something +which was serious and a real burden to me.",3 +A close friend took part in a racist violent action.,0 +"My girl-friend and I live in one flat with another couple. We get +along very well and usually we share everything. Once we two were +sitting in our room and eating a cake when the others came in.",2 +"When I opted for my research field, for them the percentage of +marks was more important than my knowledge.",0 +I saw a sort of black worm being attacked by many ants.,0 +"I received an unexpected B+ on an engineering midterm. I did not +study nearly as much as I should have and it was a difficult +test.",1 +"When I was a child, I had a medical check-up. I had to undress +myself and was examined by several doctors.",2 +"When my father banned me from going to his sister's home due to +some misunderstanding between the two.",3 +"When my husband talked about the restrictions he will have to +accept in his life to make our marriage work. I felt that it was +directed at me as it was me who had demanded the changes. We +were with a marriage counsellor then.",5 +"I was in grade seven and my class was planning a protest against +a rude and immoral teacher. I sneaked out and told the +headmaster about it and so the plan was foiled.",5 +"I was driving a friend's car, and I got close to the pavement to +ask my way and I struck a parked car.",5 +"Realizing that school will soon be over, and we will all go +different ways, perhaps never meeting again our friends from this +year.",4 +"Getting University Entrance accredited and arriving home from +boarding school on accrediting leave.",1 +"When I was accused of having planned my friend's outing at +secondary school (boarding) as we were not allowed to go out.",3 +When the girl I loved turned me down.,4 +I got to know that I had been accepted at university.,1 +"Calling lecturers nicknames when talking to housemen (They told +ne you are even younger than they are so you should not be giving +public lectures).",5 +I was told to do something I did not want to do.,3 +"When one teacher unjustly gave me zero in a test saying that I +was cribbing.",3 +"A daughter in court for staff pilfering, she was dressed like a +""street walker"" - I had a friend form overseas with me and was +falsely trying to impress with my family.",2 +"I was ashamed at being the only one to have got a C+ in ED120 +assignment.",2 +When I got 1 mark in an Abnormal Psychology exam.,2 +"When a boy I hated most in our classroom took my T Jersey from my +desk and put it on.",0 +Finding out that life span in China is shorter than in the West.,4 +"I once failed a test miserably and my friend did very well and +someone made a nasty comment while comparing me to my friend.",3 +"When I heard that a 14 years old girl had been raped by four +rikshaw drivers in our town.",0 +"I wrote a letter to my father to ventilate my bottled up +feelings. Afterwards I thought it was too negative.",2 +"When I was denied my favourite dish at the dinning hall (shima +with roast chicken), I felt disgusted.",0 +"I felt disgusted when we (family) avoided a problem which could +be solved readily.",0 +Got through first semester University.,1 +When I saw my brother being attacked and I could not do anything.,3 +When I heard that I had achieved a place in form I.,1 +"When I had insulted my father two years back, at that time I was +very angry due to some reasons.",2 +"I wanted something in particular and did not get it, also there +was no possibility of getting it.",4 +"I was at a boarding school during my primary school days. I was +broken so I pretended I was very sick. My father came and he +picked me up. He spent a lot of money on medical expenses which +all proved to be negative.",5 +"A very close friend of mine was refused entrance to the medical +school. Her grades were very good and she should not have been +left out. Biased judgment !",3 +Talking with a nice girl.,1 +"I was drunk one night and I insulted three ladies. The following +morning they approached me and asked me the reason behind my +bahaviour, I apologized for my unruly behaviour.",5 +"Making bloopers: e.g. telling something negative about a certain +person, while that person is standing besides you and hears +everything.",2 +First time in anatomy.,6 +"Once while playing tennis with my classmate I lost a few tennis +balls. I found one near the tennis court and took it to be mine +despite thinking that it might belong to the student in the next +court. I felt guilty. Later someone came to me to claim the +ball and I gave it back to him.",5 +When I was ditched by my girlfriend.,4 +"A rainy day, I was cycling downhill and a car door suddenly +opened and while trying to avoid it the back wheels of my bike +got caught in the tram tracks. I somersaulted but had no +injuries.",6 +Cooks refused to give me food.,4 +"Finding out that China is poor, so we cannot have good reference +books.",4 +When I got a bad result for one of my assignments.,2 +Not handing in homeworks in time.,2 +"When I was selected to this university despite my having +studyied in difficulty throughout my secondary school days.",1 +"When a friend of mine told me that he was going to commit +suicide.",4 +The day I finished my military service.,1 +"When I was deputy manager during the Summer, certain deputies +took liberties, more than what was normal.",3 +"Several weeks ago, I had problems with friends, I felt disgusted +by a friend.",0 +"When I took a car which was not mine, and suddenly it stopped +working.",5 +Spontaneous picnic with sister and friend and children - great.,1 +"When I was detained one day in school, by the vice-principal, for +indiscipline.",2 +"I told my elder brother that he was irresponsible and that I did +not care for what he did because he was teasing me.",5 +"The shooting started and we all lay down to protect ourselves +from the flying bullets. This incident occured on our way to +Feira, during the Zambia army patrols in the Rhodesia war.",6 +"When I almost fell down from some rocks because I had been acting +foolishly and playing dangerously.",6 +"I discovered some pornographic literature in a workmates drawers. +The literature featured pictures of naked women defecating on one +another.",0 +Saw my roommate messing up our room.,0 +At an irrevocable loss (with respect to human relations).,4 +"I felt anger at my last exam, I felt angry with our teacher, +because he did not rate me objectively and I failed.",3 +"I had been away all night without having told my parents about +it. In the morning when I came home, my mother looked tired. +She said that she had been awake all night because of me and that +she was angry and disappointed.",2 +"My son's mother told me that she wanted to move to Vienna and +take the child with her. This means a rather long distance for +me. My whole family was sad and dumbfounded so that my own +feelings were intensified.",4 +"Missing lectures and avoiding university work for no reason when +it had to be done.",5 +I was very sad when my first boyfriend finished our relationship.,4 +"It was in the evening when I heard that my girl went to Zambia +and that she would never come back.",4 +"A fear from the loss of a close friend as a result of his +behavior.",6 +"Accidentally seeing a friend in a compromising situation with a +stranger.",0 +"I slipped on butter one evening in the Dining Commons landed on +my rear causing my tray also to land on the floor.",2 +"Once late at night (around midnight) a person asked me to give +him a lift. He suddenly tried to attack me but I could escape. +After this he followed me for a little while.",6 +"I told my pesent boyfriend that I was an Australian as are my +parents. As the relationship developed I found it harder and +harder to confess and became sure it would end our relationship. +He eventually found out when told in front of me by my mother.",5 +"I told my primary teacher I hadn't done my homework as my mother +was in a car accident. My teacher rang that night to see how my +mother was - she was fine i.e. no accident !",2 +"Together with a little brother I biked on a lonely road in the +Polder. Then we were annoyed by a boy on a motorbike: he +took over, stopped, took over, etc. Then we saw he had something +in his hand, we turned until we came across a man, who +accompanied us.",6 +"When I heard that I had passed my end of first year exams and I +was ready to enter 2nd year because I felt I had failed as they were +very hard.",1 +"[ It irritates me when people talk about me behind my back. I +prefer people to tell me what they have to, on my face instead +of talking behind my back.]",3 +"A few days back a friend of mine had asked me to call on him on +Sunday. I had accepted it but later did not go for no specific +reason. I just slept in my room. The next day this friend called +me up and told me that he had been expecting me the day before and +his wife had prepared a very good lunch for me, which had gone +waste. I felt very bad about this incident and it has been +growing in my heart ever since.",5 +"When my grandmother died. She stayed with us until I had the age +of 10. When she died I was 13 and I remember the moment after the +funeral: I sat on the table and cried.",4 +"My mother accused me of not visiting her enough when she was in +hospital for an eye operation.",5 +"Naturally when I got myself discharged this was my second +birthday.",1 +"One day I was walking with my boyfriend. We met my ex-boyfriend +and out of jealousy he started calling me names.",0 +"Due to laziness, I failed the term studies completely at +University. I also wanted, to some extent, to protest against my +parents' expectations.",5 +"I felt happy when I received the letter telling me that I had +been admitted to the university.",1 +"When a car ran into me. The moment that I felt on the street I +thought ""This is my end, I am going to die"".",6 +"Sadness - this is an emotion which I have felt very often +recently. I can't remember a concrete example. I will describe my +general impression from severl situations which evoked this +feeling in me.",4 +"About not helping my sister when she asked me to help her on her +chemistry class. I pretended to be busy.",5 +"On my birthday, when I was given my presents.",1 +"My mother always took my side. That brought about quarrels with +my father. I knew she didn't like that and I felt very sorry for +that.",5 +"I was attacked, standing in a doorway, by a pack of 5 dogs, +alsatians and farm dogs with my escape route blocked by a shut +fence.",6 +"Having finally to admit I was wrong, after having denied it for a +long time.",2 +"On TV I saw a report about church in Amerika. A priest was shown +who was performing miracles in front of the camera - I felt +disgusted.",0 +"A series about Freud was shown on TV. In it, a tampon had been +set in the nose of a woman, and forgotten there. After great +pain it was taken off (close-up picture), the woman was bleeding +from the nose and the mouth.",0 +"At the death of my husband's father's mother which occurred +during university examinations and therefore I was unable to +attend her funeral.",4 +"My examination results were not satisfactory even though I had +tried my best. Then I started wondering about my abilities for +the major subject. However I did not know how to choose my major +subject if I were to change it.",4 +"When going for my driver's licence for the third time, because +everything, it seemed, hinged on getting it. I was really nervous, +and the testing Officer made me a little afraid as well. There +were lots of things to worry about. I passed however.",6 +Saw a very arrogant girl walking like a queen.,0 +"The day that my boyfriend appeared at home with a pair of rings +for our wedding.",1 +"When I decided to take a week s holiday without consulting the +family first.",5 +"I had never made a malicious joke in front of my boyfriend. Last +week I did it I was funny, he loved it, and I died of shame.",2 +"When I argue with my mother about the way she treats her two +children differently.",4 +"I often feel guilty, and it has to do with other people, e.g. if +I haven't visited my older relatives for a while.",5 +"It was the time when I was in no position to secure a Ist class +in the M.Sc exam and this was likely to affect my career.",6 +"When my library books were overdue and I did not have the money +to pay for them.",5 +"When someone I had had a relationship (purely sexual) with came +up to me after I had used her and acted as if nothing had +changed.",0 +"The time I went to see one of my girlfriends at Area 18 I found +that she was not there but in the room she was sleeping, in the same +room there were some women visitors with children so the room was +smelling very badly with some faeces and urine in it so I didn't stay +any longer.",0 +"While dining with some accquaintances I was asked something +which I should have known but I did not know.",2 +"A new gas connection was to be installed and the mechanic who came +to do it was very rude to my mother and me. I rushed to thhe +dealer with my mother and had a fight with the dealer as he +seemed to be unreasonable and was taking the mechanic's side. +Ultimately the matter was resolved after my father went and spoke +to him. The mechanic was asked to apologize.",3 +"On own reading book. Recall came to mind of slight sexual +exploitation of a female (years ago) i.e. had her on even for +sexual motives.",2 +"When a professor of this faculty laughed at, and was suspicious of +a composition written by a class-mate and me.",3 +Saw my brother-in-law insulting my sister.,0 +My admittance to the University.,1 +"I am ashamed of the horrible way I used to treat my little +sister.",2 +"Not keeping a promise of delivering materials of great importance +to the receiver.",5 +"During these Summer vacations a schoolmate who was not in my +class went to Britain. Before he left, his classmates and some +of us who were accquainted with him had a B.B.Q on the beach. +When I arrived I saw that some people , who were not close +friends of the departing person(person A), were playing mahjong. +Some others were playing bridge and A had nothing to do, besides +it was A who had prepared the food. Later when we wanted to talk +and his classmates did not even have the decency to listen to him. +They only asked him a few questions half-heartedly and then they +talked on their own. Some of their conversation was against me and +another classmate.",0 +"I experienced it once when we were on a drive. Our car passed by +the one comming from the opposite direction at an incredibly +small distance.",6 +"When I drove to Stockholm for the first time and drove off the +Stora Hissingen road at the wrong exit.",6 +When my brother was held up and robbed.,3 +"When I stayed alone in a house in Great Brittain and there was a +lot of rumour in the newspaper about a murderer still being free.",6 +"I bet that I would jump down from a window. I was sure that I +would jump but before I did it I rather felt fear.",6 +"When I began to date, the first gestures of affection made me +feel ashamed.",2 +"I was watching T.V with my parents and some pornographic scenes +came on, I felt uncomfortable and tried to distract my parents +attention by talking to them.",4 +"I felt the emotion when I fought somebody who was drunk and tried +to disturb us while we were having meals.",5 +"When I heard of the death of a friend who had just finished her +training I felt very sad for she was young.",4 +"Adolescent guilt growing up feeling ""bad, immoral"" sexual +desires, some 10yrs ago.",5 +"I felt guilty when I read an advertisement for a job as a chemist +in the newspaper and when my friend asked me if I had applied for +that job, I told him that I had not even seen the paper of that +day.",5 +"[ This is an everyday feeling. Many situational events : causes +are unclean and dirty environment, illiteracy, poverty and +neglect of human resources, disgust at the lack of perception on +the part of us ( educated few) for the lack of drive and drive +towards their redemption. ]",0 +Someone played a trick on me.,3 +"When I received the S.Y.J.C results, the marks I obtained were +not up to my expectations and I missed admission in engineering.",4 +I felt joy when my two twin sisters were born.,1 +Thinking about death when walking alone at night.,6 +"When I have to go in for an exam and the examinor is a person +with a whimsical character and unsteady requirements.",6 +"When my boyfriend was leaving to go home one night, I had a very +deep sense of uneasiness and an unwarranted fear that I wouldn't +see him again.",6 +"After my little sister's Graduation from High School my +grandmother became very sick. She passed away a few months later.",4 +"I was in grade 7. We had an inter-house volley-ball competition. + In Luapula I was the youngest member of the team and I scored +the winning goal using my head. I jumped up with joy and fell +down.",1 +Blank.,1 +"I am disgusted with the fact that bad singers play at the opera +(and not only there) only because they are protegTs or lovers of +an important felow while at the same time some young and able +singers work in a quite different field of life.",0 +Always when I am well succeded.,1 +"When I was watching a movie in which there was a pit full of +dangers and there was only a small safe place on which a man was +standing; he had to catch the lady who was thrown in or else ! +The pit was 20 feet deep.",6 +"When I unjustly accused a person of my family of something she +didn't really do.",5 +"On the way back from a Summer spent in Sweden, I drunk with a man +in the train. I had drunk so much that when I got home I fell +asleep in the entrance hall. I have never drunk that much, +neither before nor after that incident. I was ashamed because my +mother and my sister had to see me in that state and my father +had to carry me to bed.",2 +When I first had a sexual intercourse.,2 +"[ During inter-rail-trip, after troubles, I met my little +sister.]",1 +"I was involved in a ... attempt on a man I had developed a close +warming relationship with. Although I knew I had done everything +I could and that his progress of a ""normal"" life was poor I felt +guilty as if I could have done more.",5 +When my grandmother died.,4 +When my 6 month old son is happy and well.,1 +"At my grandmother's detestable and selfish conduct towards my +elder sister, although her behavior was due to senility and lack of +understanding.",0 +"[ Generally when I am shopping I feel like I were guilty of all +the thefts through the year (I have never stolen).]",5 +"When I argue with my sister. It feels sometimes that I have the +upper hand and I use it. I often argue better and this makes her +terribly angry.",5 +Lying to a friend about something that was trivial.,2 +Saw a beggar on the street (China still so poor).,0 +"I felt angry when my mother-in-law did not handle my daughter +properly and she fell down from the bed and hurt her head.",3 +"Arguing with a friend over politics. She was more informed on the +issues and made me feel very ashamed of my political ignorance.",2 +"Once when I was babysitting for some neighbors children I found +roaches in ther bathroom. I had never seen a roach before but I +called my mother to make sure that's what they were. And she came +over and checked.",0 +"My brother told me that a person (whom I know) had insulted him. +I am very fond of my brother, and as he himself can not get angry +or hurt, my protectiveness was aroused and I got angry.",3 +I felt guilty after I battered to death a classmate of mine.,5 +I realized the girl liked to be with me.,1 +"My elder brother often criticizes my mother's cooking. Once he +did it very impolitely and lost his temper. This made all of us +very sad. I was very angry and I scolded him. He asked me not +to interfere with what was his buisness.",3 +"When cleaning up a pile of junk under our house, a huge spider (a +""Jungle Spider"") ran out near me. (I do not like even small +spiders).",6 +"I told Mr Winter of Downtown Fashion to go to - when he did not +accept my Visa !",2 +I fell outside the door of my house.,2 +"When I was about 14 years old, I ""borrowed"" a can of drink from +the refrigerator, intending to replace it later that day. But it +was found missing before I could do anything - no one owned up to +its disappearance.",5 +When I tried to steal a book from the bookshop and was caught.,2 +When I heard of the death of my mother.,4 +Getting back with my boyfriend after a year away - apart.,1 +"When I had an argument with my grandfather the day my younger +brother was born.",5 +"One day, I discussed a very important question with A. A +suddenly declared that he would not accept my position and +thought that he himself was right. Moreover, he attacked +strongly, not my opinion but me personally.",3 +"I have always felt ashamed for some people's behavior to their +too old parents. I have felt hurt and shy when they have left +them to the mercy of fate.",2 +"In the army, my result at the shooting exercises got +me a three day furlough.",1 +"I went to visit Montrose home for crippled children to interview +a handicapped child. I interviewed two boys and it went really +well. I promised I would visit them, but never got the time. Now I +hope they've forgotten me, but I feel ashamed of letting them +down.",2 +"Bus driver driving roughly - old man fell off seat into aisle - +driver wouldn't stop - disgusted with her behaviour.",0 +As a child when I was blamed for peeing in the swimming-pool.,2 +"When my family heard that my Mother's cousin who lives in +England wrote us to tell that he had cancer of the lymph glands.",4 +When somebody stole my brother's disco machine.,3 +When one of my friends started misbehaving.,0 +"One day my mother forced me to eat more and I refused, the next +day she served me more rice and mutton pieces than usual. When I +saw this I got very angry and scolded her, and refused to eat. +Later I felt guilty and asked her to excuse me.",5 +"Every year during carnival I am very joyful I have an intense +feeling of happiness then.",1 +"A quarrel with my mother because I thought she said very +unreasonable things about me, that hit me strongly.",3 +"When I took blood from a patient for alcohol estimation and +urine for some other examination, he told me that something bad +would happen to me as he would play magic on me.",6 +"When I entered the dissecting room for the first time. I think I +felt disgusted mainly because of the bad smell of formaline.",0 +"A girl whom I hadn't seen for a period of time told me that she +had been pregnant and had an abortion - I was the father.",5 +"I had a date with a boy, but I didn't feel liked, and didn't go, +I wasn't home purposely at the time we arranged.",5 +"One day my boyfriend put my hand on his penis and I felt well, +but after I felt a guilty conscience because I hadn't thought +about the consequences that this could have brought if I had gone +farther.",5 +"I felt something akin to shame after a heavy night of drinking, +along with waking up with a woman I had just met whose husband +was an epileptic. I was later to know that she knew my mother.",2 +"At the railway station, while waiting for the last train at night +I noticed that a drunk young man was appraching me in a +purposeful mannner.",6 +"We had gone to our native village and I went to visit a tribal +group which believes in Goddess Kali. As it was a festival day they +had to offer a hen to the Goddess so they cut the head off a hen +right in front of my eyes. I felt disgusted and evenb gave up +eating meat after this incident.",0 +"We had fixed time for practice as we had to participate in the +inter-department song contest. I arrived and found that there +was nobody there. When I went to the canteen I found them eating +lunch. I was so angry that I aired my greviances to one of them +and then left.",3 +When I see someone vomitting.,0 +I felt fear when my mother was heavily ill.,6 +Nearly caught masturbating.,2 +I had a car accident.,6 +Before the examn.,6 +When my friend had a child out of wedlock.,2 +"When I met a good friend after a long time. We had had a quarrel +but after two weeks I was really glad to see him again.",1 +"On the last day of my school life I was very sad, specially on +the farewell party day. I felt sad to leave behind my beloved +teachers and friends.",4 +I cheated my boyfriend.,5 +"I was on the Inter Rail in Naples alone. After an evening in a +restaurant I was going back to the hotel when a prostitute +approached me to sell herself. I refused but as I carried on +walking I felt that I was being followed by someone.",6 +"When my best friend got a boyfriend. Because of this a +relationship of ten years was finished abruptely.",4 +My friend who was in the Bago was kicked out of the sorority.,4 +When my honest intentions were marred by another's jealousy.,4 +Due to some reasons my boyfriend and I decided to separate.,4 +"At an exam in pharmacology I tried to prompt a coleague (she +asked me something) and the assistant professor made me a sharp +remark.",2 +Held under water by a large wave and thought I was drowning.,6 +"Getting a D in a class last semester and knowing it was because I +didn't study.",5 +"At a certain situation I felt myself neglected and undeservedly +harmed.",3 +"When I received the letter informing that I had been accepted to +be a Chinese university student, I was excited as I had longed +for it.",1 +"I experienced this feeling when the doctors found a nodule in one +of my mother's breasts. It turned out to be an occlusion +resulting from continious sucking but for a few days I was not in my +reason.",6 +"When I forgot to cook something that my mother had told me to, +and at supper time the food that I was supposed to have prepared +was not there.",5 +"I cannot remember a situation in which I felt ashamed. I was +eating with some people and a little boy I took care of. I warned +him often not to knock down his glass of mild. When I took +out his chair I knocked down my own glass.",2 +"When I was a child it was found out that I had taken off my +clothes outdoors. It was summer and my friend and I were out +in the woods. It had felt exciting at that time. My parents +discovered that my trousers were back to front and I felt +ashamed.",2 +"Last night - finding that someone in the house had eaten an +entire packet of almonds I had bought for a family treat.",3 +"I ride my motorbike in my village and everyone stares at me as if +I was a rare specimen.",2 +"Last week a friend of mine called on me and said I was moody and +difficult to persuade. With this I got angry with her.",3 +"I was furious when the teacher pointed out in class that I +was the quietest girl in class.",3 +"When I saw that I had passed the university entrance exam. It +made me forget all my problems.",1 +"On my way to a concert I went with a man who tried to molest me. +At that moment I did not care much but now the impression fills +me with disgust.",0 +"I told evil lies about a close friend of mine. I was evil in +order to sound jolly, to charm a person whom I wanted to impress. + I sold my friend, I was despicable.",2 +"I lived in a student-house, where you shared the lavatory and +shower with a fellow student. the shower cubicle formed the +connection between both appartments. My neighbour very often was +drunk and aggressive. One night, I was afraid that he would enter +my room.",6 +"Losing my girlfriend who made an end to our relationship. By this +I lost an important source of support, certainty and joyful +moments. I cried very intensly when that happened.",4 +When I learnt that my close friend was going to immigrate.,4 +"After my graduation exams I was waiting to get admitted to a post +graduation course, however the situation was not very favourable +for me and I was upset. Suddenly, Bombay university offered me a +seat and I landed up in Bombay for my post graduation studies. +This happened last year and was very pleasant for me.",1 +"I didn't tell my parents that I was going to Sofia. I told them +that I was going to a seminar. My mother knew that I was lying but +she didn't stop me.",2 +"A situation where I ignored my beliefs and principles for a trip +of whimsy.",0 +"I had a friend who was very kind to me. I tried my best to like +him and understand him but when I was with him I could not help +rejecting, criticizing and blaming him. I wanted to get away +from him as soon as possible.",0 +"Before going to school I usually take something to eat right at +school and this time I took Father's money without him knowing +it. I felt guilty and I returned the money.",5 +"When on Christmas day my grandmother died. I received the +news when I was coming back from a party on the 24th at 5 am.",4 +Finding out that I was deceived by a friend.,3 +A friend I had missed very much came to see me unexpectedly.,1 +"As I could not be home before midnight I called home at 11.30 and +asked them to leave the door open so that I could get in. I +actually woke up the whole family by calling them so late. My +mother could not go back to sleep, besides she had a conference +the next day and really needed to sleep.",5 +"At a carneval-party I smooched with a man - some days later I was +rather ashamed for that.",2 +When my sister's boyfriend accused her of having been sleeping around.,0 +Insulting other people.,0 +When I let a person assume a fault that I committed.,5 +I felt disgust of dirty.,0 +"After some friends had come to see me. They had stayed for +several days and we had got on very well. When they had left, I +had a feeling of emptyness.",4 +"At my native place I was riding my cycle, which did not have +lights, at night and so a police man caught me. I requested him +to let me go but he would not so after a few minutes I just +escaped.",5 +"My 2 year old daughter disappeared in a moment of inattention; I +was responsible for her.",6 +"I was really shameful when my mother beat me in the presence of +my friends because I didn't cook lunch up until 2 o'clock.",2 +"Getting terrible meals, but paying heaps for them.",3 +"I felt ashamed of myself the first time I drank as nobody in the +family drinks. I felt that I had let down my parents and my +friends.",2 +"In the bus I was sitting next to a colleage who was drunk and +behaved in keeping with his state.",0 +"I have high expectations for my future but if I pursue the +subject in this manner I will not attain this.",4 +"I ate 12 biscuits one night after tea while watching TV - I don't +know why.",5 +"During lunch with some classmates, a priest was also there. He +was eating desperately as if someone was going to take his plate +away. He did it with gluttony. He wiped his hands on his suit +several times and it was full of crumbs.",0 +"We had friends to dinner and one of them threw a beer bottle in +the air, and it bounced on an expensive table and damaged the +table .The person did not apologise.",0 +"When I came very late one night (or morning !) and my parents +were waiting, not so much angrgy as disappointed.",5 +"A very good friend of mine had been away for three months. When +we met again, we ran up to each other and embraced.",1 +"In a film there was a scene in which a rat was sliding on a bed, +leaving a trace of blood behind, finally it entered the mouth of +one of the actors.",0 +"The teacher of one course gave me 10 questions with sub-questions +going from a to e for each question. She asked me to do all this +in one and a half hours. It involved a lot of describing and +explaining and even though I knew all the answers, I could not +finish the work.",0 +"I was moving in the graveyard at 6.00 pm one day and was griped +by fear because I was told that ghosts detain people moving there +at night.",6 +"I broke a window of a neighbouring house and I feared my mother's +judgement and action on what I had done.",6 +"When I heard that a close relative of mine had given birth at a +very young age, in a very remote area and had had very few problems.",1 +"My girlfriend mentioned a certain girl's name who was my girl +some time back and she is no longer mine that she said she was +still mine.",3 +Once I had some homework to do and I did not do it.,5 +While paddling in the river during a storm. I feared drowning.,6 +When I passed an exam.,1 +"When realizing that my girlfriend and myself in fact had started +the process of breaking up.",4 +My parents came to visit me.,1 +"While having a discussion with a colleague of mine, I realized that her +conception of man and work were similar to mine.",1 +"When I was little I lost control of my bike and started to go +into a buay intersection but my neighbor stopped me just in time.",6 +"After confronting the person who stood me up, I blew up and said +all the wrong things.",5 +Before examination.,6 +"When I did poorly on a test and I knew that there wasn't an +excuse for not doing better. Made mistakes I could not believe I +made.",2 +Staying in a relative's house which was broken in before.,6 +I won a sport contest.,1 +"As a ten-year-old I was at the funeral of my grand-father. It was more +the ceremonies held in the church and not really the death of my +grand-father which made me sad.",4 +"My dog had been run over and died near the house. We had to pick +him up, cold and glassy eyed, to get rid of the corpse.",0 +"Through the media and their presentation of a kidnapped child who +was raped.",0 +My son passed grade 7 and was accepted for form I.,1 +Not collecting homeworks in time to give the teacher.,2 +When I was admitted to the Bulgarian State Conservatoire.,1 +"After I said something that my boyfriend disagreed with, he +walked away from me without discussing what bothered him. I +became very angry with him for treating me this way. Yesterday, +November 14.",3 +When I failed at the first entrance exam.,4 +When I was weeding the garden I found a lizard in my hand.,0 +"I was hunting, and was lost in the fog in the mountains.",6 +"Inter-national sports events won by my favourite national team or +player brings me joy, e.g when India won the World cup cricket +match.",1 +"When I think about the short time that we live and relate it to +the periods of my life when I think that I did not use this +short time.",4 +"I phoned two friends and was not able to arrange a meeting with +either of them, so I had to change my plans.",4 +"When I got a first class in the twelveth standard exams, I was very +surprised and happy and I had a very good time with my friends.",1 +"When I pulled a chair from under someone at kindergarten and he +hit his head.",5 +"When I realized that I was directing the feelings of discontent +with myself at my partner and this way was trying to put the blame +on him instead of sorting out my own feeliings.",2 +Not doing well in the examn.,2 +"In the traffic with a car, I nearly got crushed between a bus and +a tram. The attention of other drivers saved me at the last moment.",6 +"I was looking after a dying patient at work one night, a young +woman, my colleague was talking to her relatives and .... to +offer them any support emotionally, physically and then sent them +down to the coffee shop to have a dinner rather than offering the +facilities available for their use cause it involved her having +to do some work. Seeing them again I felt disgusted at her +attitude.",0 +"I visited a place in Morocco where they worked the leather. I +saw the skins emerged in a liquid which ressembled putrification.",0 +"When I did not succeed in finding a job after having finished a +nonacademic degree.",5 +"I saw a friend of mine who had suffered a very heavy contusion +after an accident.",4 +When I saw a dog which had been knocked down by a car.,0 +"When high level results were declared, I found my candidature +number. I was very happy as I had not expected it. As I had been +injured before the examination and I had performed poorly.",1 +"I told some acquaintances of mine something that I regretted +later.",2 +A fear of lack of personal powers.,6 +"I wanted to get in contact with a girl I loved, but I was afraid +she would refuse me.",6 +China winning the Asian Olympic games.,1 +"I felt very sad when I saw the first list from the names of the +people who entered at the University and my name wasn't there.",4 +I was forced to leave an unforgettable friend.,4 +"When a very close friend of mine went into hospital for a major +operation and I couldn't see her for a while as I was not a +relative she had no relatives in N.Z.",4 +"I felt it when I saw a colleague of mine eating like a beast. At +the same time he was making gestures, speaking and making the +hell of a noise.",0 +I felt sadness when my grandfather died.,4 +"I asked my friend to come with me to a disco because I wanted to +be with a person I know well. But when I amused myself with +others I let my friend sit alone, although I had asked her to +come.",2 +"One day a fierce looking man came to our house and said that my +father should apologize to him, however I was alone at home.",6 +"When I was dreaming that I was being chased, in the upmost of +horror the door of the closed felt down synchronicaly with the +dream scare.",6 +Can think of no time that I have felt fear.,6 +When a thief entered the house in which I was sleeping.,6 +"In our flat the bath-tub is in the kitchen. At the beginning I +had very intensive feelings of shame when I had a bath and people +were in the kitchen.",2 +"In a discussion the leader wanted to stop because she was of the +opinion that we were not involved and she misjudged our reactions +as negative. We however only posed several questions which she +couldn't answer.",3 +"I was in the library of medical psychology and walked into the +wrong direction. A man who came out of a room threated me very +denigrating and I became very angry in a resisting manner.",3 +"I had a cousin whom I loved so much. Unfortunately she passed +away suddenly and one time I had a dream in which I was talking +to her yet she is dead.",6 +People impolite with me because I did not get a good report.,3 +"When a boy tried to fool me so he would be OK trying to show me +that he is a gook boy.",3 +"I was walking quite quickly and unthinking through a children's +playground, when a toddler ran in front of me I knocked him over +and he hit his head quite hard and began crying.",5 +When I won the first prize in a cross country race.,1 +"I went to fetch my girl-friend at the station. When the train +arrived and I saw her descending and running up to me, I felt +glad.",1 +"I borrowed a gold bracelet without the girl's knowledge. I had it +for so long I had to keep it. To this day I feel ashamed at +myself for having it. I never wear the thing anymore.",2 +"When you betray the trust you have been given. This is connected +with copying at a class-work at school.",2 +NO RESPONSE,2 +Found out my wife is pregnant.,1 +"I should have given a test lesson to get a job. I had no courage. +I didn't make the test.",6 +"Before an exam which I, finally did not take.",6 +"I was sleeping when I heard the neighbours screaming, I peeped +through the window and saw a thief trying to enter my +neighbour's house.",6 +When I had been angry at my friend without any reason.,2 +"On boat trip - saw mother giving young child (aprox 6-7 years) +cigarettes.",0 +"I saw in an ice-cream kiosque a cockroach walking through a +cornet.",0 +"My brother had bowel obstruction, having heard that he was going +for surgery, I was afraid he might not come back to life after +hearing of the General Anaesthesia.",6 +"When I felt I had let my parents down, especially my mother, by +having sexual intercourse for the first time, and a few times +after that. Also, when I went on the Pill.",5 +I found myself a place after looking for one for a long time.,1 +My uncle died in the Vietnam War.,4 +"I had been watching a triller a dark night in the country and I +had to go the outside toilet on my own. ",6 +"When I am out in the dark and a suspicious looking character +comes towards me.",6 +"My sister, whom I like very much, asked me for a favour which I +refused her for some flimsy reason. Some time later I felt sorry +for that and something like sadness.",4 +"It was at the time of my M.Sc exam, when I was not in a position +to take the exam after having studied seriously.",4 +Cannot remember such a situation.,2 +"When I was six years old we were on holiday in France. There was +very heavy weather then.",6 +"This happened when I was selected to go to Secondary school to +start Form I in October 1980.",1 +"When I had sufficient amount of money, I brought more clothes for +myself than for the children - I felt bad about it.",5 +"One night I had a sexual intercourse with another man. My sexual +desire and my curiosity had made me jump into bed with him. I am +ashamed of myself now.",2 +"One of my best friends was found lying flat on the road because +he was drunk and was taken by the police and put in a cell. I +went to see him the following morning, the place was really a +mess and was smelling badly. I didn't like it.",0 +Broken a friend's cup.,5 +"I had not told my parents about my bad marks in school. One day, +my father wanted to speak to the teachers. Fortunately I could +influence my parents to take it easy.",6 +"I got a good reaction from my tutor and tutorial group for a +presentation I'd given that I was very worried about.",1 +Cueing in the students dining hall.,0 +Left alone in the dining hall at night.,6 +When I asked my girlfriend to marry me.,1 +"This happened when one of my uncles died just whan I was +planning to go and visit him during the next holidays.",4 +Promising to do a task for a friend and just forgetting about it.,5 +Had a letter from my father (usually he does not write to me).,1 +"When my son omits to carry out certain duties at home that he +knows needs doing.",3 +"I had spent the weekend visiting relatives and friends and didn't +study for Anatomy class on Monday.",5 +"I once saw a programme on TV describing how certain wild life +films were made and was disgusted by the treatment of certain +animals in this particular programme of the polar bear.",0 +"Waiting for a bus not coming for a long time, and the bus drivers +were having a long lunch.",0 +"One day I went to see a movie without my parents permission. It +was an adult movie and I was scared that my parents would not +allow me to see the movie. However after coming home I felt very +guilty at what I had done.",5 +When I understood that I was admitted to the University.,1 +"I passed an exam which I was not sure at all to pass. I rejoyced +at the result because the possibility of continuing my studies +depended on it.",1 +"When a very near person got into an awkward situation but showed +only helplessness and indecision.",0 +"I tried my level best to care for my client, I took an +appointment with a doctor and before meeting the doctor he +expired - a poor small boy from Uttar Pradesh.",4 +When I got the scholarship letter from Australia.,1 +"When a boy who was drunk came into my room and misbehaved in the +presence of my boyfriend.",3 +I confronted a bigger person than I and almost got into a fight.,6 +"When I travelled all the way to my former school to collect my +certificate, only to be told that I owed them some money, I knew +nothing about this.",3 +"When we could not land our plane and we knew that the fuel was +running out. Bad weather had already frightened us.",6 +"Friend (male) hinted that my talking to other men at a pub was +immoral. He implied that I should remain only with my boyfriend +the entire evening.",3 +"When in a car accident where car was total wipe off (wipe out, or +write off).",6 +When inadvertantly I found myself in the ladies room.,2 +"My brother wanted money but I refused to give it to him, two days +later he stole it from my father.",5 +"Climbing a mountain to see a view, towards the top we suddenly +came across a ledge with a nearly sheer drop on either side, +which I had to cross.",6 +"When I lied at home. I told them that I was going to a +Christian meeting and I went to see my boyfriend instead.",5 +"I saw a cripple in rags with small children in Italy. He was +probably an imposter.",0 +"When my father managed to begin a ""new life"" after the divorce +from my mother; resulting in a new little sister for me.",1 +"When I was pointed out as a problem child in primary school and +my mother took the teacher's point of view.",3 +Encouter with a prostitute.,0 +"When my brother had an epileptic attack and I was scared as to +what would happen to him.",6 +"New Year's Eve party in the country, I hardly knew a person; my +partner spent most of the time at the bar. I had little +opportunity to get to know people because our table was separated +and my boyfriend's parents were present.",3 +Finding out that the person I love understands me.,1 +"My brother came to tell me about some problems we had in the +family. I felt sad because I thought that if my mother had not +gone away when this brother was younger, things would have been +different.",4 +"Doctors ignored relative who complained about pain, and is now +dying of cancer.",0 +"When a classmate of ours knocked on our door at 2 o'clock in the +morning. I was disgusted at his behaviour.",0 +"After waiting impatiently for the results of the form 5 +examinations for almost a year, at last I received a letter of +acceptance from the Senate of the university of Zambia telling +me that I had made it to the first year course at UNZA.",1 +"I was in a camp and went out for a walk at night on my own. I lost +my way and spent several hours looking for the camp.",6 +"A fellow student who seemed very nice later on proved to be a +slimy fellow towards a professor.",0 +"One day I was going through the street door of my house, when a +man asked me for a doctor. He then showed me his genitals and +asked me to cure him myself.",0 +I feel a strong anger when I am treated unjustly.,3 +"A friend of mine suggested that I become a film extra. The idea +seemed very funny to me and my reaction seemed rather outlandish +to the others.",1 +"When my girlfriend left me to go out with another guy, even +though she knew that she was wrong.",3 +"I was visiting my parents in law when the house was invaded by +three strange men, and they committed an armed assault.",6 +"When I went in a clinical hospital and saw in what conditions +people are attended there.",0 +"When I failed the entrance exam of the medical school and was +studying biochemistry which has no job prospects in Zambia.",0 +Accepted by the college football team.,1 +"After some time of work I was transferred to another place and in +an other quite harder job.",6 +"My friend and I were to attend a very important meeting and he +had promised to come and pick me up. But he did not turn up and +I felt very angry at him.",3 +I spread abroad an intimate secret.,5 +"When I realized that I was in hospital after a car accident and +that I had a scleral tear in my left eye.",4 +"I didn't tell my parents exacly what had made me so late in +getting home one night. I left out some details and somehow, I +felt I had lied to them.",5 +"I was alone walking in a deserted part of the city and I had some +fear that some men would attack me and rob me.",6 +"When I was unable to respond to a welcome in my indigenous +language of Maori at an important function where I was the only +woman in the group and it was expected of me.",2 +"When I knew that my niece did a bad schoolar examination because +I couldn't explain her the lesson.",5 +Meeting a male friend with whose wife I was having an affair.,5 +"I felt guilty after hearing that my girlfriend with whom I had +spent most of my time was pregnant.",5 +"At the end of my senior yr. in high school I found out that a +friend of mine I knew had cancer had been diagnosed as terminally +ill.",4 +"When once again I drank too much and felt very rotten the morning +after.",0 +Insulted by a woman in public.,2 +"When my wife died in hospital, she was pregnant and had undergone +an operation.",4 +Taking a chemistry midterm.,6 +"I went to the prayer meeting at night and unfortunately the car +broke down, so my other sister said I had to walk alone from +Ndirande to Chirimba at around midnight. So we reached home at +1 am. I was afraid of robbers and dardness.",6 +"I had been living in an overseas city and made the decision to +leave the city and come home about 12 months before I met a whole +new set of friends, leaving them at the airport was sad and +traumatic as they had helped me in many ways and I knew I +wouldn't see many of them again.",4 +When my mother was operated.,4 +"Getting a good mark for a subject I had worked hard at but +expected only a moderate mark.",1 +"A kitten had wandered into our office, and I was told to take it +back across the street. When I crossed back, the kitten followed +me and was run over and killed by a car.",5 +"I thought that I was going to fail a subject and so I began to +study for the final exam, then my friend told me that I had +passed it. That meant that I could go home, as I do not study in +my hometown.",1 +"After having watched a crime show on the TV, I was about to take +the dog for a walk. Then, suddenly, there was a man on the +porch... (We live some distance away from other people).",6 +When I was called for an Interview at Kamuzu College of Nursing.,6 +"When my rights to use a shared house had been usurped by +co-owners out of pure selfishness.",3 +At work being shifted to another area.,3 +"When my son returned from mountaineering - healthy in body and +soul.",1 +When we got a young dog.,1 +"Fear overwhelmed me when right against the car I was in I saw +another one, as if out of control of the driver.",6 +"When I was getting up, I found a live cockroach in my bedroom.",0 +"I had an implicit agreement with my sister about meeting her, +however she had not understood the situation the same way so she +did not turn up.",3 +"One day at school I had quarrelled with a school-mate, and +ultimately I had hit him hard. He, being physically weak had to +visit his doctor and remain absent from school for two days.",5 +"I feared that I would not be able to hand in the book-report on +time as I had started working very late. The book was difficult +to read and my teacher did not accept my work as it was handed in +late.",6 +"I had been on friendship with a certain girl for sometime and the +love was going on well, but it happened that I made the +friendship come to an end suddenly without good reasons.",5 +"One day my friend told me that she had heard that I was moving +about with her boyfriend. I was disgusted with the news.",0 +"I came home and discovered that someone had broken in. Then I +realized that they probably were still there.",6 +"I broke my Uncle's Radio player accidentally and so I feared that +he was going to cut me off from going to his house as well as +playing it again.",6 +Having received an offer to do post-graduate work.,1 +"When I saw a TV program on the North American military plan +called ""The startwar"".",6 +"When I got associated with a boy one year ago, I neglected my +best friend. When the relation with this boy finished she behaved +very easy-going towards me. I felt guilty then.",5 +"I was entrusted with an object and while using it I handled it +carelessly and it broke.",5 +When going out I am threatened regularly by two punk-girls.,6 +"This situation happened when my friend John ate my banana which I +kept in the cupboard.",3 +"When I was caught by the police and was kept with a group of +delinquents, which added to my fear of being shut up. I was +afraid of the people near me and the future consequences.",6 +"I was at school and afterwards went to work. After work I went to +see a friend and stayed out late. when I got home my mother was +awake and I felt guilty.",5 +When I was bluffing in front of my mother to get more money.,5 +"I couldn't fulfill a request of a girlfriend of mine, though I +categorically promised her and I believed there wouldn't be any +hindrance. It was partly for objective reasons but also because +I couldn't organize myself.",5 +"On the road there was a dead animal with its entrails showing and +its skull crushed.",0 +"I met a girl some time ago and I cared very much about her but it +happened so that we left each other. I felt some sort of sadness, I think +I can call it so.",4 +"When India won the Prudential cup by beating West-Indies in the +final match and became the world cricket champion. West-Indies +was the strongest of the eight countries which participated in +the competition.",1 +"When I was 10 years old I stained our bench with a fountain-pen, +I tried to twin the cushions, but then there were colour nuances. +Then my mother catched me, she saw it and became very angry.",2 +When my affairs with the girl I love settled positively.,1 +"When I purposely locked my babysitter out of the house at age 4 +because I DIDN'T LIKE HER.",2 +"I moved to Nijmegen for my study. Soon after this my mother had +to be admitted in hospital because of cardiac compliants. I knew +that my moving was an important reason for this.",5 +"A sister broke a cup and when mother asked I was reported to have +been responsible.",0 +"When my sister - after a history of one abortion and one +stillbirth - gave birth to a perfectly healty boy.",1 +At my sister's wedding.,1 +"Seeing a close friend who had just returned from twelve months +overseas.",1 +"Someone smoking on Electric train (Electric trains are +non-smoking) with alcohol smell coming from person. ",0 +"When I betrayed my lover, she told me something in confidence, I +felt at the time I had to relay the information back to the +person concerned, as I felt the situation volitile, did this +without telling my lover, she felt like piggy in the middle, as +she was not directly concerned. Maybe you could call it gossip I +felt different after I had slept on it. If I had waited, thought, +NOW I would not have done it.",5 +"When I was taking my girlfriend out, she seemed to have taken +her time.",0 +When I failed an exam.,0 +"Once I was caught by thugs aged between 20-35, they asked me to +surrender all the property I had and I remember feeling very scared.",6 +"I felt disgusted when somebody told me that my previous boyfriend +was her boyfriend.",0 +"Moving to an unknown place, away from the familiar surroundings +and into a situation of loneliness.",4 +"A friend of mine was hurt as he thought that our relationship was +not the same as before and something had gone wrong.",4 +A person died (not really a friend).,4 +When I was rude to my mother and got angry with her.,5 +When I got first division in the exams before leaving school.,1 +"I saw a magazine with photographs of dead and maimed people whose +limbs were separated from their body like a head on one side and +the leg on the other.",0 +"At the hairdresser's, I got two stains of dyestuff on my new +trousers. These stains are not removable, so I cannot put on the +trousers again.",3 +"I once caught a letter in my girlfriend's handbag from a certain +man. I felt anger.",3 +"One night I had a feeling that somebody was stealing my car, +but I was too frightened to go and see.",6 +"My mother was always fastidious about my room, bed time, etc. +She treated us strictly and punished us physically. These +things were intolerable.",0 +"Saying something quite rude, but in jest, about a photograph of +someone, but it didn't quite turn out that way.",2 +"When I was victimized for running away with a girl who was +somebody else's wife and niece at the same time. I was very +angry over this issue because I was told to pay him money after +having been punished for it. ",3 +Betraying someone's trust.,5 +"I was double crossing my fiancee and one day she caught me red +handed. She forgave me later. I was very ashamed of what I had +done.",2 +"I know that a certain person feels very lonely, and that she +always looks forward to seeing me. However, often I am too +busy to visit her, then I feel guilty.",5 +"Yesterday in the elevator a man started smoking, this is +something I just can not tolerate.",0 +"At my wedding - standing with the man I love and acknowledging +that fact to members of family and friends.",1 +"When I had come home drunk the day after a party, I felt very +ashamed in front of my parents.",2 +"My son lives with my parents in the country and I feel this +feeling always when leaving for Sofia, but the last time it was +quite strong.",4 +"I was annoyed when a person higher up asked me why a particular +job was not done, it was not my job to do it. ",3 +When I had passed MCE examinations.,1 +"I had been rude to my mother at a time when she needed +comforting, not anger (death of my sister).",2 +"When I impregnated a certain girl, I thought that I would be +forced to marry her or go to court.",6 +"I felt angry when I failed in an exam about which I knew quite a +few things and I did not deserve to be plucked.",3 +"At the police centre a man between 40-50 was brought in. He was +very drunk and in all likelihood had not slept indoors for a long +time and had relieved himself in his trousers.",0 +Someone vomited on the street.,0 +"While trying to get my little brother over a ditch, he fell on +his head and started crying. I was scared of having caused him +permanent injury.",5 +"Walking around the University at night by myself, having been +previously warned of rapes, etc.",6 +"We were on the road in a car when a lorry bypassed us. We had to +swerve and we almost got run over.",6 +"My mother unjustly became very angry with me and sent me to my +room while my father explained that the way she saw things was +not correct. I had done things with the best intentions.",4 +Can't remember any episode of disgust.,0 +"When my Bictorian ""friend"" was staying at my house we ere going +places together, and sleeping together. At the time I had a +boyfriend locally. The first time I had to face him after +sleeping with the guy from Melbourne I felt very guilty.",5 +"When I was found urinating, behind a toilet instead of inside it, +by my class mates and the teachers. I was told to pick up my own +urine from the wet soil, I did it.",2 +"After seeing a terror movie at the cinema, I was so scared that I +couldn't even drive the car into the garage. I often thought +about the film afterwards, hoping such things couldn't exist in +the ""real world"".",6 +When I was on holiday someone vomited in front of me.,0 +"I was angry when I heard that my only girl was going about with +another man. So I decided to drop her but later the story came to +be untrue.",3 +"One evening my father told me to go into the cellar and get him a +beer. I was terribly frightened at the idea of a man sitting in +the cellar and assaulting me. For my defence I took an empty +bottle with me.",6 +"It is some years ago when my mother found me stealing relish in +the pot. It was fresh fish which was very appetising.",5 +"I went to see a movie and I went with a friend, it was really +frightening and it made me stop and think about the world around +me and what it is really like out there. I was frightened all +that night.",6 +I pointed a failure of a friend of mine.,5 +"When I heard that there had been some women raped at uni, just +near where I usually park my car and walk by myself at night. +Although I wasn't in danger it unnerved me for days and I was +fearful whenever walking through the area.",6 +Not finishing homework.,2 +"I had planned to study for my mid-term exams on a certain day and +my room-mate called me to ask me to go out for a stroll. I tried +to make an excuse so as not to go out but she refused to listen +to me and insisted that I go out with her. I find it unnecessary +to talk to her anymore. +",3 +"When I was in form 3, my aunts lied to my daddy telling him that +I had told them that I was pregnant. My daddy told my mother +and she asked me if it was true. I was very angry with my aunts.",3 +"I can't remember being truly angry. Usually it's just +disappointment that I feel. One situation would be with my +brother. He and I used to be close but now he seems to be +avoiding me.",3 +"A woman I know is slowly dying from cancer. Observing this +process makes me sad.",4 +Listening to long speech of the party leaders wasting my time.,3 +Had an insulting letter from my father.,2 +"On a camp - boys and girls in one cabin. One guy forced himself +upon another girl and was having intercourse, while the girl in +the bunk beneath was pretending to be asleep and not be ill.",0 +"When I realized that I belonged to a country which is amongst the +poorest in the world and that inspite of having the resources we +do not utilize them. I was ashamed at myself and my country, +shame at the lack of parity between the lifestyles of the +citizens.",2 +"When the Cambridge results came out and I obtained a first +division. I had been thinking that I had not done very well.",1 +The sight of vomit on the street.,0 +"When I was an exploration with my friends and almost got lost in +an unfamiliar environment. It was getting dark and we did not +know how to get back home.",6 +"A friend got angry and drove ""like a lunatic"" with me and others +in his car. I was angry about his dangerous driving.",3 +Finding out that I am not an as able student as I thought.,6 +"At a discussion a friend took a ""faschistic view"", what I had not +expected.",0 +"I once got a phone call stating ""one of your friend is in jail, +please come and see him"". When I went to the jail and saw him, I +was disgusted.",0 +"When I was 6 or 7 years old, I pulled down the trousers of a +friend because I wanted to know what she looked like. My mother +watched that and (as a punishment) sent me into the house. We +never spoke about that; I think it was as embarassing for her as +it was for me. ",2 +"Fear of the loss of a close friend, of feeling the ground slipping +from under my feet.",6 +Thinking about friends overseas.,4 +When I was nearly beaten up by the brother of my girlfriend.,6 +"I was escorting a relative on a bike, we passed by a dark road +with bushas on each side. Half way down this road, suddenly, we +saw a white dog appear from one side. Before we could do +anything, it had vanished and moreover it did not seem to have +any legs.",6 +"When as a 7 year old, I stole money from my mother.",5 +"On a boat trip to Denmark, 14 of us had a lot of fun and we +spent SEK 10 each on one armed bandits and against all odds we +won the jackpot of SEK 1000.",1 +My friend told me he really likes me.,1 +"When I was a child, my beloved cat gave birth to four beautiful +little kittens. Before she had them, she came up to me and I +followed her out, then witnessed them being born.",1 +"When I had slept with a boy for the first time I felt ashamed for +three reasons. First, because I was only 13 years old, second, +because I did not really like him, third, because he had caught +me napping.",2 +Not acting on my promise.,2 +Leaving high school.,4 +"The day I went to eat dinner in the dinning hall and found a +dead fly in my gravy.",0 +"I was testing my new roller skates in the street, suddenly a dog +ran barking in my direction, very threatening. I was very +startled and terribly upset.",6 +"I am not good enough to join any team to play sport for the +class.",5 +"One day I got on the bus without any money or season ticket and +the driver threw me out.",2 +"When I passed the first year and so I could come back for my +second year.",1 +"I was coming home from a relative's place and it was about +9.30/10 P.M. I felt slightly apprehensive when I got off the bus +and started walking towards my place. I was confident that +nothing would happen to me, yet there was this slight feeling of +fear.",6 +China winning the Asian Olympic.,1 +Watching the Asian Olympic game (China winning).,1 +Long illness.,4 +"I was driving my parents' car into a carpark in front of a shop +we own, and scraped the corner of the front panel on the back +corner of my father's utility. I didn't tell anyone, I lied about +the bump (later I had to confess).",5 +"Passing my pharmacy exams which meant my tertiary education for +pharmacy completed.",1 +When I saw an insect going up my arm.,0 +"When the person I am going out with let me down in a situation +that I was depending on them, and didn't show respect or care.",3 +Insulted by a teacher in front of the class.,2 +I was misbehaving in the agency.,2 +"My sister lost one of her twin sons (my first nephews) and then +the older one died a week later.",4 +Not getting a job.,4 +"At an undeserved attitude toward a man, when human personality is +not treated decently.",3 +"When a car is overtaking another and I am forced to drive off the +road.",3 +"Once I offended a friend, instead of her coming to me to ask and +discuss the matter she was just telling other people about it and +say all she could about me.",0 +"Shifted from Melbourne to Brisbane. All my old school friends +gave me a party and I had to say good-bye to them all.",4 +As for disgust.,3 +When I lost my father in a car accident.,4 +After an operation I had to stay in bed for a long time.,4 +"I attended a ceremony in Denmark which is comparable to our +Halloween. They build a large bonfire and place a life size dummy +of a witch. The crowd cheered when the dummy burst into flames.",0 +"A friend of mine trusted me to back her in a decision she had +made. But when the moment came I did not agree with her opinion.",5 +A friend forgot his appointment with me.,5 +"One night I was lying in my bed awake but I had my eyes closed. I +saw figures with terrible faces and black frocks bending over me +and touching me. I opened my eyes but I could still see them. I +had the feeling that somebody was in the room. It was terrible. +Only when I turned on the light I was able to go to sleep.",6 +The loss of a person I loved very much.,4 +"I had asked the Salvation Army to take away a piece of furniture +of mine, but I forgot to cancel the agreement (a friend of mine +took it) and I thereby caused the Salvation Army people some +unnecessary work.",5 +"The time when my sister had her first baby I was so happy and +joyous because she stayed for two days after marriage before she +had a child.",1 +"I was on a farm with a few friends and during the talk I +discovered that a friend of mine, was being betrayed by her +boyfriend and a 3rd friend of ours.",3 +I am not good enough for your experiment I am doing.,5 +"When I cheated my father and told him that the school +administration wanted K80 for the purchase of a mini-bus. Two +months later the school authorities wrote back to my father for +the money. I could not go back and ask him for the money again +as he had already given it to me once.",5 +Cueing for bath for a long time.,0 +When my brother bought me a nice pair of shoes from South Africa.,1 +When I got my B.A degree with first class.,1 +"When an old schoolfriend phoned me to arrange an appointment to +talk about old memories. I hadn't seen him for 8 years.",1 +"I took my grandmother's money without telling her and when asked +if it was me who had taken the money, I denied it.",5 +"When I saw several people washing their car with water from a +drain.",0 +When my kid brother broke my reading spectacles.,3 +When one is alone and knows that all the others are celebrating.,4 +"Fear - paralysing - that I would not be accepted by the God who I +believed to be there because I was ""morally bankrupt"" (before +becoming a Christian and realising that that was why Christ came to +free us from sin and to forgive us).",6 +"When, for example, someone is calumnating.",0 +I met a friend I had not seen for a long time on the street.,1 +Not doing well in the examn.,2 +"My roommate leaving my drawers in a mess after plowing thourgh +them looking for something.",3 +"Once again, my life partner came back home drunk at midnight.",0 +When going to the exam.,6 +When I came back from my holidays.,4 +When my car suddenly broke down !,3 +"During our last exarcise in agricultural machines we went out in +the yard to examine a row of machines. But we seemed not to have +fulfilled our task well, because when our teacher came and asked +me a question I was unable to answer. I felt awkward because he +didn't deserve it.",2 +"I was alone in a cottage I often stay in. I was woken up by a +rustling sound in the middle of the night.",6 +"I saw in a movie a block on which affluence and poverty existed. +I saw that the rich made no attempts to help the poor.",3 +When I don't fulfill my obligations.,5 +"I sensed such a feeling when I understood I was admitted to the +University. I was at home, the atmosphere was still, though I +myself was full of suspense. I tried to do different things. When +the telephone rang and...! Yes, of course there were other +situations when I felt a similar feeling but I was unmindful of +them.",1 +"A friend prepared a soup with chicken heads and invited me to eat +it. I saw the eyes staring at me and the tongues hanging out of +the bills. I was so disgusted that I felt nausea and had to leave +the room.",0 +"When my elder sister had a baby girl. She was the first girl in +the family after 19 years of baby boys.",1 +When I met friends I had not seen for the last 2-4 years.,1 +"When I was a soldier I quarrelled with my commander and may be in +revenge for this he detailed me on duty two successive nights. +Naturally he checked me up on the second night and found me +asleep for which he sent me to the cells.",3 +My cat died painfully and slowly.,4 +"I read a book about torture. The book described exactly how the +torturing was done.",0 +"I tried to pass an examination particularly well, but I did it +worse than ever. I felt ashamed.",2 +"My boyfriend with whom I had a longlasting relationship, fell in +love with another girl, then he asked me something which implied +that he loved that girl more than he loved me.",4 +Could not find my way out in the college building at night.,6 +"When my cousin's wife refused him sex and claimed that she was my +girllfriend. I think that there is something wrong with the +woman as I have never even thought of having sex with her.",2 +I angered a close friend and he was injured.,5 +"Listening to the opening bars of Tchaikovsdy's symphony No.2 +fourth movement at my sister's wedding.",1 +"I was less than 10 years old when our neighbour's dog chased me +to the roof of a small shed and there seemed to be no hope of +getting away from there.",6 +When I passed the TOEFEL with very good marks.,1 +"When I got my fingers stuck in one of the side holes of the door, +in the tube.",2 +"I wanted my boyfriend to stay when he didn't. He stayed but when +he left I felt ashamed because I should have let him leave when +he wanted. I was too selfish.",2 +"[ I felt guilt when I was not co-operative with my mother for my +exam.]",5 +"I read in the newspaper that the Student Lodging Fund was going +to build new appartments for refugees (in my opinion this is the +state's affair). This is when only a fractoin of the students +can find an appartment.",3 +"When my father talks about our relatives and favours them, I feel +angry.",3 +First anatomy lesson.,0 +"Before the certificate examination I was very poor in Biology +(the worst result in my class). Ever since F.5 it had been +getting poorer and poorer. I had tried my best and had spent +most of my time studying this subject. Finally my results were +so bad that I thought that it was just not fair.",3 +"I was alone at home when I broke a figure and then mended it. A +few days later my mother noticed it and asked me about it, I told +her that I had no idea.",5 +"Breaking the left hand indicator box by moving too close to +structure.",5 +"Few days ago I really experienced fear. It was connected with +unexpected actions on the part of a group of people. This evoked +in me many negative emotions.",6 +"When I am alone at night after having read horror stories, and +then I heard unexplainable noises.",6 +"When a girl I knew aborted and threw the seven month foetus in a +man-hole.",0 +"I felt disgusted when a fellow student asked me to marry him. I +had not expected this from him as he was a mere friend.",0 +"I had been having a heated argument with a lover - whose +intention was that we should marry in the near future - and was +rejected by her when I started to cry. When I stopped crying for +a moment she said ""There, have you got it all out now ?"".",3 +The joy came when I first proposed a girl at Secondary School.,1 +Not being able to answer question in a seminar.,2 +"My intimate girlfriend told me that her father was opposed to our +relationship and had insulted my integrity.",3 +When my friend (girl) went abroad for two years.,4 +I experience feelings of guilt because I do not study enough.,5 +When I was selected to the university of Zambia.,1 +"A certain girl asked me what my major was and when I told her +that it was P.A she started criticizing it saying, ""I hate that +course."" She just shows off in front of other people.",0 +"The long lasting illness of my grand-mother, and the changes in +family relationships caused by it.",4 +Being close to drowning.,6 +When I was not chosen to go to your English lectures. ,4 +"After my final examination at school I was glad that the +examination was over and that I had passed it.",1 +"A neighbour's girl had disappeared and many people were looking +for her. Someone had gone to notify the police. Something had +certainly happened to her.",6 +"When I went home by train from Sicilia, I was molested by a man.",0 +"When a study tour got confirmed, I was happy all the time till +the tour began.",1 +"When I was transferred from Chichiri Secondary School to St. +Mary's Sec. School. I was happy at Chichiri as a day scholer and +had made a lot of friends. I was going to a boarding and that +meant parting with my friends as well as my boyfriend for the +first time.",4 +Ignoring my parents'wishes.,5 +"I was given a gift by my sister. There were many pleasant things +in this parcel.",1 +"When a teacher though pretending to be a highly cultivated +teacher and a man, slapped a classmate of mine in the face quite +undeservedly.",3 +"At end of school - function to ""celebrate"" ? Leaving friends who +I'd known for up to 12 years.",4 +After 3 weeks I saw my girlfriend again.,1 +[ An unfair punishment.],3 +"Last week a former school (secondary) mate of mine, who is now in +a differentt school came to my room here at UNZA in my absence. +He was drunk and he vomited in my room. I was unhappy.",0 +"I was teaching someone to drive and when we were about to crash I +was scared.",6 +"When a certain boy went about saying that I am his girlfriend. I +wrote him an insulting letter to him and called him names.",3 +"My first feeling of falling in love. Coming across a person who +made me feel love, happiness, joy, giving me a new and beautiful +future, who made me dream.",1 +Made a mistake at work.,3 +"My 21st birthday celebration, when I cut the cake and received +the presents.",1 +Anatomy lesson and told we have to do it at night sometimes.,6 +"When I told a person something that had happened to my friend, +and this person went and told my friend.",5 +"I lost my grandfather whom I loved very much. I had not known +that he had been ill for a very time, when I received this +message he was already dead.",4 +"A situation of overt unfairness, manipulation of people and its +consequences.",0 +Before I had a tooth pulled out. I was very upset and ill.,6 +"When I was young, I became very angry as I was not allowed to +stay up all night for the fair in my town.",3 +"When a friend of mine had her period, while thinking she was +pregnant.",1 +"While playing basketball I broke a team member's spectacles. His +face was injured by the pieces of glass. It was not serious but +I felt guilty and blamed myself for being too careless and +vigorous in my game.",5 +"A close acquaintace cried for me. I felt happy because somebody +cared.",1 +When people next to me play the fool.,2 +When I answered to my mother with rudeness.,5 +When I could not fulfill my expectations.,5 +"I experienced long ago when I was sightseeing Bulgarians in a +foreign language.",2 +Not winning a medal in the swimming contest.,4 +Before giving a seminar to a rather large audience.,6 +"That I didn't want my friend to leave on holiday for 10 days +because I thought I would miss him. I was constantly trying to +persuade him.",5 +I found I was pregnant and unmarried.,2 +"When I realised that I had become too emotionally involved with +the person I'm going out with, and when I began to like someone +else and questioned whether I really care about person I'm with.",2 +"I got a letter from my best friend, whom I had not heard from for +a long time (a good letter).",1 +"During the Christmas holidays, I went to see my parents and +stayed with them for two weeks. After two or three days, we had +the same conflicts we had had ten years before when I had lived +with them. They were glad when I left.",4 +I made another person cry for an unjustified cause.,5 +My boy-friend an I seperated on his initiative.,4 +"I had to give up my love, because it did not work out well.",4 +"I ate a Runeberg's cake, though I knew that I would immediately +put on a kilo.",5 +My father left us for another woman.,4 +"My mother and father had forbidden me to ride my scooter on the +road, and I had transgressed (together with the ""wild"" kids from +across the street) by riding my scooter down a steep hill near +our house. My mother sent the boy next door to collect me, and I +was severely scolded.",5 +"I saw a physically handicapped young man whose spittle ran out of +his mouth while speaking.",0 +Day time robbery of our house.,4 +"I have cut loose from my father a few years ago. I know he is +very sad about this.",5 +"When I slapped a nephew who did something that I considered +wrong, and I was reprehended for this.",5 +When I stole something.,5 +"I was feeling really low - had been a series of fights with my +siblings, been under pressure at school and wasn't going to the +party I wanted to go - instead I was going out with my family. A +guy called and said, in effect, that I was ""nice"" and he liked +me. Hence the emotional joy.",1 +When I got the first compound through column.,1 +"My sister had promised to help me to do a translation from +English into German. But the day I needed her she told me that +she was busy - I was very angry.",3 +"One of my fellow students used questionable and unfair means to +advance her studies faster than others. I detested her.",0 +I felt it when I sat for my exam in anatomy.,6 +"I felt glad when I took the rather difficult organic chemistry +examination.",1 +My boat didn't win a race which we were favored to win.,2 +"I felt disgust when I saw a friend walking in stagnant water +without putting on gum boots.",0 +"When abroad, while driving a car along a dark, winding road.",6 +When I passed the B.A exams with first class results.,1 +"I was really angry when the President general of UNZASU was +arrested by policemen.",3 +"I have a horror of spiders and snakes. On a walk through the wood +I saw the body of a slow-worm (without the head).",0 +"My boyfriend promised to take me to see a game of tennis and rang +saying he was going to the pub with some of his friends instead.",3 +"Observation of people lost in the profit motive - i.e. business +managers to their actions esp.",0 +"I was waiting to receive the participation on the profits and did +not receive it.",3 +"I was jogging in the forest, in the central park area, when I saw +a man hiding behind a tree. I got frigthened, turned around and +ran out of the forest.",6 +"I could not find my monthly tickets for the bus when I was on the +bus.",3 +When my grandmother passed away.,4 +When I am with a friend and we have to leave each other.,4 +Falling off a cliff in the mountains.,6 +"This issue worried me rather than saddening me. In mid September +I went to Guanggho alone. I was looking for an accomodation in +the evening and after having walked 2 or 3 miles I still could not +find anything. What could I do? I was not worried about +sleeping on the streets but because of some procedural problems. +I finally found a place to sleep at 8 o'clock.",6 +"Someone knocked on the door when I was alone at home (though +there was a door bell). I looked through the peep hole but it +had been covered. I called my sister but she could not help me +as she was hundreds of kilometres away.",6 +My father insulted by other people.,0 +When the bus driver failed to stop and pick me up at a bus stop.,3 +"I felt disgusted one day when, as we were eating, a child +defecated on the table side.",0 +"My boyfriend is a soldier. He was on a leave. I felt sad when we +had to get separated again.",4 +When my grandfather died.,4 +"I had gone on a vacation and my mother left home without leaving +me any thing - money to come back to school.",3 +"I was sitting at a rock concert, listening to an extremely loud +band. A tiny baby in a crawler had been left by his young mother, +right out in the sun next to a speaker, and was screaming - +probably in pain.",0 +"In an express bus I sat on a seat meant for senior citizens and +invalids.",2 +"Walking at friday night through Nijmegen, going to a pub or a +disco.",6 +"When I realized that I had been wrong about a person close to me, +because of pre-set ideas and prejudices.",2 +Hearing Fran Wilde introduce the Bill.,1 +A younger brother of a good friend of mine died (asthma).,4 +"I was playing a sport in an advanced PE class and many of the +people were not advanced.",0 +"I didn't keep a promise I had made to a man, and in this way I +lost his esteem and confidence in me. I caused him a lot of +trouble.",5 +"When I was young I was told to to the shop to buy a dozen eggs. +I went and asked for one egg and the people in the shop laughed +at me and so did my family when I told them what had happened.",2 +"My brother gave me a beating because he could not beat me +verbally.",0 +"When the committee, to which I belong, was accused of having +squandered the money of the association.",0 +"Before an accident, my aunt offered me the front seat of the car, +next to the driver. I declined, she took that seat and was killed +there when the car crashed.",5 +"Once I quarrelled with my sister and after this I deliberately +messed up her belongings.",5 +"I felt very sad when my boyfriend wanted to break our +relationship. Our relationship lasted two years, we shared +everything and all this was finished.",4 +When I failed grade 7.,2 +"When something unpleasant happens to a friend or relative of +yours and you are at the bottom of it.",5 +Close friends talking badly of other friends.,0 +"A colleague and I were sitting on a bench next to an old man in a +shopping centre. the old man coughed and spluttered somewhat, +then with his fingers removed the resultant phlegm and mucous +from his mouth, and transferred it onto the armrest of the +bench.",0 +"After a disagreement between my parents, when I was alone with my +father and my sister, the aggression continued, when my father +tried to put me and my sister against my mother revealing facts +that had happened in the past like a talk between my father and +his mother in law where she told him that my mother was not quite +save.",4 +"At a concert an old man arrived and began to danse, sing and do +silly things.",2 +"I was in the cafeteria at the university and a class-mate told me +that a friend of hers had had all her teeth taken out because of +an infection caused by her eating a rat's nail in her hamburger.",0 +"I felt guilty when I tore a photograph I found at my boyfriend's +place only to realise that it was his sister who was on the +photograph.",5 +"I had some sort of a stomach virus last week and I vomited in +college in the morning, then in the cake shop, three times during +the trip home and again when I got home.",0 +I got caught shoplifting a package of gummy bears.,6 +"I was disgusted to see a person vomitting and I was told to clean +the place where the vomit was.",0 +"When I was travelling to school by bus, I went past a place +where a sewer had been repaired. There was a bad strong smell +which suffocated me and I wanted to leave the place immediately.",0 +"When I arrived home late at night. I know that my mother gets +worried and this made me feel angry.",5 +"A friend who shares the room with me, opened the window in the +morning and left the room the whole day. When I came home in the +evening, the room was so cold that I couldn't stay there.",3 +Watching TV about china is behind in winning gold medals.,1 +"My joy knew no bounds when I was selected for a job even before +having finished my studies.",1 +Helping older people on the toilet.,0 +"While I was pushing a court roller out of a ditch, I slipped and +fell down and the roller rolled back towards me -down slope-It is +a miracle that I still have my legs intact.",6 +"After the funeral of an acquaintance I felt very depressed. That +feeling turned into joy when I heard that I had achieved a good +grade for an examination.",1 +"When my grandmother after staying with us for awhile went back +home.",4 +When I could not complete my assignment on time.,5 +When I nearly got my fiancee pregnant.,5 +It happened that I was alone - with no contacts with friends.,4 +"I misunderstood a girl and thought that she loved me. One day +when I was talking to her, her boyfriend appeared and I felt +ashamed.",2 +"When I deeply felt that I could lose the person I love best +because of my foolishness.",4 +"I borrowed $ 20.00 from a friend and paid him back much later +than I had originally intended.",2 +"There is a person whom I disgust. Evrey time I see her I get this +terrible feeling I disgust her whole appearance.",0 +"A large german shepherd dog ran and barked at me (he didn't bite +fortunately).",6 +"I feel disgust when hearing or seeing other people being treated +inhumanely. For example torturing in chili.",0 +"When I saw that the mark I had obtained in an exam was a good +one.",1 +"Joining in a research group studying consumer's behaviour and +helping the people in the shop with the sales.",1 +Running away from a fire.,4 +"As a child - being sent to the shop by mother - buying some +chocolate - getting caught by mother.",2 +Telling a lie.,2 +"Right before I went to a concert with my last boyfriend he told +me that although he told me he was going to take me to the +concert, he didn't want to see me anymore. After that we stayed +overnight and I said ""well, when he leaves me I will be ruined +for awhile, but for now we're together."" I woke up in his arms +and it was the happiest moment of my life.",1 +"After a party I spent the night with a friend. We both were +drunk, the morning was disillusioning. A friend was me leaving +the room and I felt shabby and immoral.",2 +"All my friends arranged to go for an afternoon snack and they did +not tell me. They told me that they did not have my phone number +but I do not think that this was true.",4 +"A male, Honduran acquaintance of mine despised my opinions.",3 +"Sometimes, when I'm alone I am seized by this feeling. But it +always helps me to come round and at the same time to judge if it +is worth. Very often this feeling is caused to me by people - +friends who I love and respect.",4 +"I felt guilty when the truth was known about my impregnating the +girl we were staying with.",5 +"When I learned that my parents were going abroad and leaving me +alone for a few years.",1 +I feel ashamed when I am praised.,2 +"When I was in Bombay one of my good friends was getting married +and he had not informed me about it, this made me sad.",4 +"My mother wants to talk very often about her life. I dislike this +because she always talks negatively about the same people +whatever I do it doesn't help.",5 +When my gradmother died.,4 +"I felt disgust with a person whose behaviour was out of the +elementary human norms.",0 +"When my former boyfriend and I reconciled and he decided that I +was very important to him. I had always wanted us to get back +together again, but had doubted the likelihood of this, so I was +very happy when my small amount of faith was vindicated.",1 +"When I tried to breake it up with my boyfriend, and he refused to +let me go.",3 +"When I began dansing, the teacher came and told me that I was +very good and would soon get into the ballet academy. ",1 +"This occurred when my girlfriend and I have to finish our +relationship due to some circumstances between her and her +family. I was really sad, hurt and couldn't really find any +reason why am I still living. Is this life is all about ? This +was one of few question which crept up vividly every time I +thought about what had happened.",4 +"I felt ashamed when in a certain occasion I had to read a text +and didn't stop stuttering.",2 +"On my second plane trip, we ran into unexpected turbulence.",6 +Love problems.,4 +"Enrolling at varsity, being told I couldn't get in to certain +papers.",4 +"A certain friend evokes positive feelings, when I am with him but +negative feelings when he is not present. I feel the need to +express those negative feelings. However, when I speak about him, +I always think: Why do I like this, he does not deserve this, but +still I do so.",5 +"With the job appointments committee when the headmaster in charge +explained that a male teacher was more suitable for the +particular post. I had more years of service than the male +teacher, but this was not taken into consideration. I could have +been given a less attractive job if things had gone the way the +headmaster wanted.",3 +"When I found out that my father had lung cancer and they did not +know how long he would live.",6 +"When I was 13 years old I wrote passionate love letters to my +boyfriend and I later found out that his sister had read them.",2 +"I remember when I was a little boy I broke a Swiss dinner set +quite involuntarily.",5 +"Several years ago I stayed with friends in the mountains for one +week. We lived in a hut and had to cook for ourselves. One day my +friend did not succeed in preparing spaghetti. That dinner was +terrible - nevertheless we all ate rather much and had an +improper and unsavoury conversation.",0 +Failing an examn.,2 +"Last week I had planned to play tennis and had booked a tennis +court. However when I arrived at the university gym the clerk +told me that the court was being used for lessons.",3 +To loose friends because of them over-estimating themselves.,0 +"I feel this feeling most often before me not before the others. +My outside is iron but actually I'm wasting away.",5 +Failed in a piblic argument.,2 +When I met a friend that I hadn't seen for some time.,1 +"When I realized that we are living on borrowed time, and that the +nuclear holocaust appears to come closer every day.",6 +"Once, during a performance I did not sing the way I had to.",3 +"When I went up the stairs in a high, dark house full of shadows, +passed a door and had the feeling that someone or something was +behind me, although I knew I was alone.",6 +"When a close relative got quite drunk. It was a relative that I +had respected for a long time and looked up to as a child.",0 +I felt sad when my boyfriend and I were apart for some time.,4 +"The death of a relative, friend, or someone I esteem.",4 +"One day I was near home, kissing my boyfriend in a car when my +mother appeared and asked me to go home, because she didn't know +about the event.",6 +When I was walking in a field which had a lot of manure.,0 +"While having a discussion with my mother, I realized that she +does not for a moment doubt the justification of her making the +decisions concerning my life.",3 +"I felt very lonely, was very dissatisfied with myself when I +realised that I could feel very jealous of other women because +of my boyfriend.",4 +When I first suffered from syphilis.,4 +"A time when I was very afraid of something was when I broke my +father's antique lamp.",6 +After the car accident in GUILT.,2 +"Sometimes when I go to work my crazy boss (a hyper Jewish lawyer) +insists I do things his way (filing, typing, etc.). He sometimes +blames me for things I didn't do, and I can't yell back at him.",3 +"When my friends left without waiting for me, after we had arranged +to go out together.",3 +"Disgust - no. Maybe it is more precise to say revultion at a worm +or a snake. But I mean it in a social aspect when somebody had +behaved like a scoundrel to you, when by his actions he has made +you change your attitude towards him but I thing this feeling the +way I meant it, is not typical for the people interrelations.",0 +"I was sad at the expulsion of some of my comrades during the UNZA +demonstrations.",4 +"When I was very young, one day, I was in the street with my +father and brother. While my father was talking to some +friends, I saw a dog and began to pat it. My father told me +sharply to stop doing it because the dog had mange. Then my +brother told me that I would die and I could not stop crying +after this.",6 +"When we still attended school, my brother and I usually went to +see our aunt and to show her our term's report. She rewarded us +with money. Although my reports were as good as my brother's, he +got more money.",3 +"I felt ashamed to be Brazilian and to live under a military +dictatorship that despoiled the people, when during my military +service.",2 +"A girl asked me why I didn't dance. I told her I was ashamed to +dance. I felt myself ashamed having to tell her this.",2 +Finding out my best friend cannot go to the English lectures.,4 +"Being insulted in front of my parents, and they believed other +people (those insulting me).",2 +"When I was 9 years old, I got a cat, but after 3 days he died. I +was very sad, because I had nursed him and taken him to the +veterinary's - but in vain. Although I had had him only for a +short time I had liked him very much.",4 +[ I was thinking about death.],6 +"Unofficially I was informed about my results of the final +examination of the secondary school. A teacher wrote them up for +me. When I went outside, I started crying with joy.",1 +When my friend was involved in a car accident.,6 +"Loneliness, being uncertain of myself in the Autumn.",4 +When I broke the window pane of my next door neighbour's house.,6 +"It was mid May 1985, When we had a Test on Nursing. My classmate +had an answer sheet, so he tried to peep. The Nursing Tutor +caught him. During this time I was turning my question paper and +it made noise. This friend blamed me of causing the whole matter +for him to be caught.",4 +When I got married.,1 +"When my husband suddenly came to see me at my new job and +brought some flowers and cake with him.",1 +"I passed successfully the preliminary exam for a participation in +the children Assembly.",1 +"When I saw my niece (5 yrs) crying in the hallway for her mother +who had passed away about a month ago.",4 +"When I was afraid to tell my sports teacher at secondary school +that I had not participated in the sports activities the previous +day.",5 +"I went shopping with my mother and sister (17 years old). Mother +always told my sister what she should buy. Instead of assisting +my sister in defending herself against mother's interference, I +just behaved aggressively towards my sister.",5 +"When I got an unexpected letter from a guy, who had been my school +mate.",1 +I felt this feeling during the exam in higher mathematics.,2 +"I arranged with a friend to go skating the next day. He asked me +to wake him up by telephone at twelve o'clock because we had come +home late in the morning. Next day I called him - he was not at +home. As something like that had happened to me several times +before, I came to the conclusion that one cannot rely on anybody +and I felt very sad.",4 +"My main disgust is against codfish because I detest even the +smell of it.",0 +"I had to terminate a training because I wasn't suited for it. I +was very sad about this, because I very much wanted to finish +that training.",4 +Falling in love with a close friend.,4 +When I was jumped by three men in a deserted area.,6 +Death of a relative.,4 +"While having an argument with my daughter, I got angry and +over-excited and said angry words.",5 +"I used to have two boyfriends in the past. Then one of them +wanted to get engaged to me. I agreed but was guilt-conscious for +disappointing the other one.",5 +When my elder sister died.,4 +"I feel it when I see that somebody is traying to made a stupid of +me.",3 +"We were riding in a friend's car. He was driving very fast and +suddenly a another car crossed the road in front of us. My +friend had to turn the car rapidly.",6 +"My classmate got a ""B"" for his homework while I only got a ""C"". +When we got the results he acted as if he did not merit this +grade. I found that his humility was hypocritical and I found it +disgusting.",0 +"Since I've been here I haven't written to any of my relatives. I got +a letter from my mom telling me how upset my grandparents are +from not hearing from me.",2 +"My boy-friend told me that he would take me to the training of +the life-saving dogs.",1 +When I took drugs.,5 +When a little brother of mine damaged a cassette.,3 +"I was in the dark room, it's insecure and has holes covered with +wooden sheets in the roof the establishment had already been +assaulted and could be assaulted again.",6 +"When I heard that I had passed my MCE Exam, I spent the whole +day dancing and eating sugarcanes from our garden.",1 +"I feel afraid of the way a great friend looks at me, and also a +little afraid of the directions that it's going.",6 +"The assistant professor saw me cheat at the preliminary +examination.",5 +Doing well in the examn.,1 +Finding out that I was deceived by my friend.,2 +After my father's death.,4 +"I was disgusted at the way the bus conductor threw out an old +woman oiut of the mini-bus simply because she could not pay the +fare for her luggage.",0 +"As part of the assessment I had to speak on a subject in front +of the class. I was not really prepared and I was just reading +the stuff I had on a piece of paper, when some of the students +asked me something I could not give them an answer. I felt +ashamed as I had not prepared the topic.",2 +As a child - having a dog - it getting a disease and dying.,4 +"[ I feel disgust at people lying. It means that they say one +thing to one person and the same thing in another way to another +person and this makes people quarrel among themselves.]",0 +"When I made an excuse to get out of participating in an important +family occasion that I should not have missed.",5 +"When I entered the dissecting room for the anatomy class and saw +several dead bodies lying on the benches.",6 +"Saw two Canadian students boasting about how rich they are in +Canada.",0 +Whenever I see an alcoholic.,0 +"A friend (female) and I were on holiday on Great Barrier Island +by ourselves. One night we were nearly raped by about 20 locals - +they came to our bach and tried to break the doors down. All of +them were stoned or drunk and we hid under the bunks and were +totally terrified. Eventually these guys gave up and went looking +for us on the beach. We escaped and slept in the bush for 2 +nights.",6 +"When, for example, I left for the first time my parents and I +went to live in Sofia.",4 +"A few days back my mother was not feeling too well and still did +all the house work. I felt guilty as I had not offered to help.",5 +When I entered a toilet in a bar and it stank.,0 +"I had not eaten anything for 2 days to be able to pay the fine +for my fiancT. But he stayed in another town and spent one +thousand shillings in the restaurant during the same time.",3 +"In a Mathematics class, the professor asked me a question and I +gave the wrong answer.",2 +"I'm very disgusted when I see people abusing their body with +drugs and alcohol. They take advantage of these things usually +for an excuse for the fantasies which they like and so they do +things stupidly and unjustly.",0 +"Attending to a demand made by a client (I work in a bank) I +suggested her an application of money in a week ahead, but I +informed her wrongly. The client arrived a week after and the +application wasn't made and she lost with this a lot of time and +money.",5 +Not getting the class paper in time for the lecture.,2 +"I worked in a harbour and emptied latrine containers from the +back of the lorries.",0 +"A person whom I had not seen for a long time called me and +invited me for a party.",1 +My love proposal was turned down by a lady I really loved.,2 +Every time I went home with my school report.,6 +[ While approaching to test the situation.],6 +"In arguments with a close friend or relative where my point of +view is completely disregarded.",3 +"When my sister came home late one day and thus disobeyed my +parents.",3 +"When my mother returned from a holiday, I told her a lie i.e my +father had brought another woman home while she was away.",5 +"When it suddenly appeared that our dog was dangerously ill and +probably would die. We had not expected this because he +was always very healthy. Fortunately he survived because we, in turn, +gave him medicines during the night.",4 +"When I saw all the starving people in Ethiopia on T.V. It felt +awful to see such suffering.",0 +When my father was involved in an accident.,6 +When I won the best prize in the National science fair.,1 +My grandmother died.,4 +"I had lied to a person because I had thought that I could not +tell him the truth. When he found out he was not angry but +understanding. We talked the whole thing over.",2 +"When I failed my grade 7 exam at the first attempt in 1975. My +father and the entire family thought that I was finished in life. + I really felt like hiding.",2 +"[ When I am, in my opinion, not understood correctly. ]",4 +"I had climbed on a cherry tree alone and there was a thick +caterpillar beside my fingers. I feel disgusted by caterpillars +and snakes. I was terribly afraid of the caterpillar crawling on +my fingers. Out of the fear I was almost unable to climb down.",6 +"In a film, there was an episode where they used a chain saw to +cut a man. I could not look at it, but I could not avoid +listening either. I sought shelter in my boyfriend's arms.",0 +"When I found out some family friends were embezzelling the +company they worked for - using company petrol and food supplies +and claiming furniture and crockery.",0 +They had returned much less of my taxes than I had expected.,3 +"In a fit of temper I told things that were unjust and they +greatly hurt my mother though she didn't show it.",5 +"I remember that once, a friend did not co-operate with me due to +some unavoidable reasons. Unaware of this I treated her unjustly +till I realized everything, and then I felt ashamad of my deeds. ",2 +"When I did not get the salary increase that I had been expecting +and understood how little one's work was appreciated.",4 +I get angry when people disbelieve me or misunderstand me.,3 +"During a lecture six students (including me) were asked to leave +the class as we had not prepared for the lesson. I felt ashamed +and angry.",2 +"I felt disgusted when I was in a helpless position at the loss of +my fiancee.",0 +When I failed my first biochemistry test.,0 +"When my father told me that I should help my mother more often, +because she was so busy. And I realized that he was right.",5 +"When the others did not do their bit of work on a group +assignment task, and I had to do all the work.",3 +I was scared in the dark when I was a little boy.,6 +"I got angry at my mother for something trivial. We were in a +bad mood because my father was very ill and I knew that my mother +really needed support. I had reacted wrongly.",5 +When my father bought me a suit.,1 +The death of my father.,4 +I did not reply to my friend's letter in time. ,5 +"A few days back, I walked on a heap of faeces while walking on +the road. I got goose flesh because of this.",0 +"My boss on the job failed to keep his promise about something he +knew was extremely important to me.",0 +"On holiday, seeing the lanscape in Gerona.",1 +"I had applied for a job and they had assured me that the exams +would take place a few months later. A week later I went to +obtain some more information and they told me that the exams had +already taken place.",3 +"Saw in TV that China had the most gold medals in the Asian +Olympic.",3 +Someone had stolen an article from a library journal.,0 +When my parents did not let me go on a study tour.,4 +[ The same as in anger.],0 +"At the funeral of my uncle, I was one of the bearers. I was not +familiar with the etiquette and acted tactlessly because of my +ignorance.",2 +I felt very ashamed at having got a book by force from a girl.,2 +Mentioning a book to the person who borrowed it.,5 +"When I heard the examination results and when I recovered after +having been sick for a week.",1 +"At a gathering I found myself involuntarily sitting next to two +people who expressed opinions that I considered very low and +discriminating.",0 +"I faced this feeling when I realized I wasn't admitted to the +institute in the first classifying, in spite of the high mark I +had got at the entrance examination. +",3 +"I was going to go on a vacation to Texas this summer but was +unable to go because of registration.",4 +"This situation keeps occurring - when my little sister disagrees +with me or vice-versa. We have very similar temperaments and I +always end up feeling angry at her and myself for fighting so +much over unimportant trivial matters.",3 +"When I was doing my last year at Secondary School I was robbed of +my clothes, wristwatch and my pair of shoes. After investigations +it was found that all the things were stolen by one of the boys +in our hostel.",3 +"For the loss of a close friend or relative, but you feel grief +when you are away from home, too.",4 +"The only guilt I considered reasonable was my reproval at the end +of the semester at the University.",5 +"When my girl and I decided to get back together after our +separation.",1 +The day I heard that I passed the high school exam.,1 +"When I told the driver at my workplace to lie and tell the boss +that it was not me who was responsible for the delay. The boss +was very annoyed and the driver was punished and a day's salary +was taken away from him.",5 +"When my cousin put feaces in my washing. A silly idea which was +meant to be a joke.",0 +A friend who was 22 years old died.,4 +"As we were going to Area 10 a dog chased me. I was afraid it +might bite me.",6 +Not having good marks like other people for homeworks.,2 +When I failed my Standard 8 Examination for the first time.,4 +"I was ashamed when my classmates discovered that I fell in love +with an uneducated girl.",2 +"I had just moved to the town where I study and I got a postcard +from a good friend (from my home town).",1 +"Next door nieghbour ran over his cat in driveway, he tried to +finish it off with a flat shovel. I would have taken cat to +veterinary to either kill humanely or cure.",0 +"Very intoxicated men who incite each other to fight. I met a +vile smelling man on the tram who got closer and closer to me +till I got up, then he got angry.",0 +"When I came again in contact with a girl I liked very much. And +most important she also liked me.",1 +"During military service a superior reproached me unjustly. This +led to friction in a lot of situations.",3 +"An invitation to spend 5 days at the seaside with all expenses +paid.",1 +When I am at home alone.,4 +"I felt guilty about going out when I should have been studying +for a presentation I had to give on Wednesday the next week.",5 +"I travelled on a bus and I forgot to punch the ticket. A ticket +collector came in and I had to pay the fine. I did it with a feeling +of shame.",2 +"When I was blamed for some of my attributes which are very often +misunderstood, especially when one is very frank.",3 +"When I got home I found that the electrical supply had been +disconnected despite my having paid ZESCO the full bill a few +days earlier.",3 +"When I heard that my father had been involved in a car accident +in Lusaka. This happened when he had gone to get the car which +had been stolen in Lusaka.",4 +"When I noticed two spiders running on the floor in different +directions.",0 +"I was disgusted the other day I was told to take off the dog's +faeces around the house since they smelled bad I did the job but +in the end I felt disgusted.",0 +"I am filled with gloom and sadness at the death of a person. +More specifically, I felt sad after hearing the news of a +death of a person who was hale and hearty and full of life, with +vigour and plans for the next day but had no next day to cherish it.",4 +When I forgot a promise made to a friend of mine.,2 +"I experienced this feeling when I was accepted as a student. +Because everything turned out different from my expectations. +Although I passed the exam successfully I was accepted as a +student only when I didn't expect it at all, namely at the +beginning of September.",1 +"One day in a clinic, the father of a child came in and assaulted +a colleague for something that she had not done deliberately.",3 +When my grandmother passed away.,4 +"When my boyfriend and I went out for a dinner and subsequently +went to his family. We had a very nice evening.",1 +"When my father died I felt myself alone and the fear possessed me. +I was a child and all my sisters and brothers (8) were young.",6 +When I saw an accident where the man lost his head.,0 +"The day I got a telegram telling me that I had been selected for +a B.A at UNZA. I felt happy because I had not expected to be +selected.",1 +"When I saw a program on Ethiopia on T.V, a fews hours earlier I +had thrown away some clothes and food.",5 +"I got disgusted with a man who was beating a woman in the street. +I just happened to be there but I was abhorred by the rudness.",0 +I forgot about a close relatives's birthday.,5 +"Some classmates said I did not do enough social work. Therefore I +was not elected as a ""Tree Good"" student.",3 +"Walking along the beach with a friend (another girl), talking, +picking up shells, laughing, chasing seagulls.",1 +When I arrived late at the job and met the most troublesome boss.,2 +"When I told a lie to a friend of my sister on April fool's day. +She later came to see me and told me that it was a very foolish +thing to do.",2 +"I do not seem to feel emotion such as shame, guilt or fear - far +out !",2 +"When I was in my village one of my enemies had written a +non-sense letter to a girl and he told the father of this girl +that I was the culprit. When I got to know this I was scared as +the girl's father was a worse man.",6 +"Leaving a friend of mine alone at a dance - I felt I should have +kept her company.",5 +"Unfair and unjust attitude toward a person close to me, what I +was the witness of, caused anger in me.",3 +"A close friend of mine was to get married in a weeks time when +her father died of a heart-attack. I knew him well and felt bad +on hearing of his death.",4 +Doing poorly on an exam that I thought I should do well.,2 +"One night, at a friend's place I realized that I had everything I +most wished, around me.",1 +"With the N.Z. Rugby Union wanting to send the All Blacks to South +Africa.",0 +Can't remember any such feelings now.,0 +"When my father addressed me directly and maliciously, thus +including me in the ""family war"".",3 +"A drunk man attacked his wife and wanted to humiliate her by +insulting her. Then he turned violent and started to beat her in +front of her child. She left it happen without saying a word in +order not to make things worse. I watched the scene and tried to +calm the man, but without success. Just because he was stronger +we had to comply. From that day I detested him.",0 +I got a present from a great friend (a dog).,1 +When my grandmother died.,4 +"I feel angry at people's indifference at our ability to be +present at an event and to stay partial to what happens.",3 +"I bought an aquarium which made me much pleasure. I was watching +the fish when my father came in and asked me how much I had payed +for it. He said he would not pay for the current that it would +require.",3 +"I saw a film about the nazi concentration camps during the war. +After the film I felt disgust.",0 +"One camping night, I listened to the ghost stories told by my +classmates. ",6 +"I was in a train when a woman started talking loudly and +attracting everybody's attention. The worst thing was that she +was discussing something, about which she knew nothing, with another person.",0 +"I was very angry at my father when he didn't give me as much +money as my brother to use for studying. Once again my brother +was better off then me.",3 +"My girlfriend came home after a business dinner at the most +expensive place in town drunk as a skunk. Whats more she drove +home and couldn't remember doing so. I was disgusted by her state +and her actions.",0 +Death of grandmother.,4 +"When I sat in the wrong discussion section in the beginning of +the semester. I insisted on being in the right section and the +TA's list should have included my name. When I found out that I +was in the wrong, I apologized, turned red and left.",2 +"I was living at home during the Summer vacations and towards the +end decided to take some of my clothes and other belongings to +the appartment in Guttenburg. When I had finished I went to my +ex-boyfriend's (relationship uncertain) home and stayed there +till 5 A.M. I had to leave then as my parents needed the car for +work in the morning. My parents do not like my boyfriend.",5 +Telling my parents that I did not well in an examn.,6 +"When my mother scolded me for something, very insignificant, without +knowing the real cause of what had happened. ",4 +"I was a passenger in a jumbo-jet which was accelerating down the +runway and almost at the point of take-off, when the pilot +suddenly braked and put the engines into reverse thrust, in an +obviously urgent attempt to stop the aircraft. The hostesses show +signs of concern and my first thought was that something was on +the runway in our path and that we were in danger of hitting it.",6 +To be kissed by soembody I didn't expect to.,0 +When I got the loan for my studies.,1 +Friends calling me fat - pear shaped in front of a nice girl.,0 +"Meeting best friend at the airport (boyfriend) who I had missed +terribly.",1 +Peeping.,5 +"When I had not done well in Geography at my MCE I was expected to +get more than I did.",2 +"Years ago I fell in love for the first time. as natural for every +school-girl I was day-dreaming. Later (after 3 years) we left +each other. No one was to blame but I felt deep sadness. Even now +I remember about it quite often.",4 +"My mother, sister and I were thinking about old times, our +childhood, and we had a very happy time.",1 +"After lot of explanation, to fail in my work.",2 +When I won a tennis match.,1 +"While playing I urinated on grandma's floor and did not go to the +lavatory. My cousin told grandma and she came.",2 +"A few weeks back, as I was in a hurry to leave the house, I left +some of my things lying around. This is something I never do. My +uncle,who lives with us, as we live in a joint family, remarked that +we were always doing things like this. This really got me mad.",3 +"When my fiancee travelled 2000 Km to visit me, and I hadn't seen +her for 4 months.",1 +"I was sitting in the bus and a man with a very unpleasant +smell came and sat next to me, to top it all he smoked +continously.",0 +"When I found out that I had failed to pass my exams during the +term by one point. The fact that exactly the same thing had +happened last term did not help.",4 +"In class I had to say something aloud and people reacted by +laughing.",2 +"When I nearly drowned in icy water wearing ice skates. It was +difficult to get out.",6 +"I was angry when I had not been granted a leave out pass during +the last weekend.",3 +"When my flatmate put me down because she ""thought"" she was better +than me, or she felt she was.",3 +"I was an instructior in a youth organization. Whenever we, the +instructors would have a meeting the advisor would be present. +He did not understand our worknig conditions but talked a lot +and had a lot of outdated ideas. Whenever we disagreed with him +he was very discontent and said that we had a prejudice against +him. Why did he have to treat us as his subordinates ?",0 +"I felt sad at having to leave my girlfriend after constant problems +and failed attempts at reconciliation. My sadness was caused by +the irreversibility of the decision.",4 +Saw a blue film in a cinema.,5 +"Once while studying for my exam I found so many complicated words +that it disgusted me.",0 +"I promised to fulfill an errand. Later I understood it was +impracticable. The explanation I gave was accompanied by a sense +of guilt.",5 +"In the past I used to think that my mother was a very nagging +person. When I started living at the hostel we had little time +to meet each other. Whenever I went home she would take care +of me. I gradually realized that what she had done was for my +own good. So very time I saw her I felt guilty.",5 +When I approached a person of the opposite sex and was rejected.,2 +"I saw a man falling on the walkway. He seemed half dead, and was +immobile. I felt disgust for the people who passed by without +doing anything to help.",0 +"I went to a restaurant with my boyfriend for dinner. There we saw +a couple. the man of the couple was a negro and he hadn't manners +for eat.",0 +"The last day of school is traditionally celebrated by singing a +song about all the students who are leaving. In the song +about me, there were things which irritated me a lot.",3 +When one is unjustly accused of something one has not done.,3 +"I caught a huge eel on a fishing line which I had pulled into the +boat. I cut the line and threw the whole lot back into the water. +Later that day and about ten miles away I went swimming and +someone made the comment wondering how far eels could swim, I +abruptly ended swimming for fear at an unseen eel for a few days +until we had left the district.",6 +"When I saw that my bed at the hostel was a mess I guessed that +someone else had used my daily necessities. I felt that my personal +sanity had been affected.",3 +"When I discovered that the people I trusted most were talking +behind my back.",3 +"I was badly beaten up by one of my friends during a wedding +party.",3 +When the contract about my shop was signed.,1 +"During a summer holiday at a bar I happened to see a dead to the +world woman.",0 +"I had asked the teacher to write a recommendation letter for me, +but I had not provided enough information and had run short of +time.",4 +"I had been searching for housing for Fall at UCB and I was +finally offered a place - then an ordeal followed, first I +accepted then refused - related to my parents judgment (they're +paying for me). Turns out that I was so upset at what my Dad said +to me that I hung up on him. He called back and threatened to cut +me off financially and emotionally.",3 +"A sunny Autumn day, after a long rainy period.",1 +Some students deliberately disobey me as a class leader.,0 +"We went fishing some 5 or 8 kilometers off the shore of Lake +Malawi. Before we could settle down the lake became very rough to +the point of threatening our lives.",6 +When I had to walk along a dark road alone.,6 +"When I was travelling by tram, I tripped and fell against the +door. I thought that I was going to fall out.",6 +"When I was not in a position to control myself. I had said too +much and had been cruel with no other than my mother.",2 +"When my sister had the opportunity to do some modelling work. And +I was quite jealous - later on the photographer decided not to +take her photograph, and she was very upset - I felt guilty as a +result, almost as if I had caused her to lose her opportunity, by +not being genuinely happy for her in the first place.",5 +The first time that I had to go up on the stage to give a speech.,2 +"One of the greatest joiy was when I succeded in acquiring a +motorcycle through my own efforts.",1 +"Last Summer in Italy I was attacked by a dog.It was terrible to +feel that untidy dirty dog against my naked skin.",6 +Watching a TV documentary on seal clubbing.,0 +"I was away to school (Primary). In my abscence my young brother +at home got sick suddenly. My parents took him to hospital. On +the way he died. It came to me as a sad, sudden and shocking +news and I felt very sad.",4 +"This also happened when I was very small. I was beaten up by my +mother for no fault of mine, I had just beaten up my younger +brother for what I thought was his fault. I was very angry with +my mother.",3 +"When I played in a chess championship, I was disturbed by other +people. I asked them to be quiet, but in vain.",3 +First public speaking.,1 +"My mother had for some time been trying to separate me from a +good friend who, she thought, was not good company for me. +Finally, at breakfast one day, we had an argument and I tried to +defend my friend.",3 +"I was biking with my boyfriend, the sun shining after a long +period of bad beather, afterwards we spent the evening and night +together.",1 +When my sister broke my china tea set.,3 +"I was coming home in a taxi with a fellow worker of mine. He was +criticizing my earlier conduct towards him, which to my mind was +unfounded. When I reached home, I ran out of the taxi and +slammed the door.",3 +"I forgot to zip up my trousers, this was not noticed by anyone.",2 +"When I was young I stole something from a shop and got caught, +then I was taken to the police station and my parents had to come +and get me.",5 +"[ I would classify subjectively, a certain gesture or the way of +talking of a person as disgusting or inacceptable.]",0 +"When a boy put a handful of cooked potatoes down my dress and +there was no water to clean up.",0 +I finished my homework,1 +"My friend told me in a fairly loud voice the blunders she +committed last night.",2 +When my father shouted at me for going to a party with my sister.,0 +Doing poorly on a midterm.,0 +"I had not done my assignment seriously. I only pretended to +finish the work as the work did not have any meaning for me. The +whole thing made me feel guilty.",5 +"When I saw a woman subjugated by money and not being able to hide +how she hated herself for not having the will power to get out of +such a situation because it was convenient, according to what she +told me.",0 +"When I was a child my parents caught me with a pornographic +magazine.",2 +"I made friends with a classmate whose behaviour I did not like - +he tried to flatter other people and did not respect me.",0 +"There was a time when my room looked terribly untidy; just at +that time my aunt came to see me; fortunately I could prevent her +from entering the room.",2 +"One day, when I was sitting on the bus, there was an old woman +standing beside me. I was very tired and sleepy and did not +think of giving her my seat. A 50 year old woman who was sitting +beside me got up and gave her seat to the old woman and said, +"" Old woman, please take my seat, the youngstters these days are +not used to giving their seats to others."" When I heard these +words I was very ashamed of myself and wanted to get off the bus +at once. ",2 +My parents told me that they do not like my friend.,4 +"I thought that the guy I had been associating with for over a +year went out 2 or 3 times with a high school girl whom he claimed +not to like.",0 +"In the tram there was a fat, sickly looking woman in front of me +who was asking for directions in a thick voice. When she got up to +go a disgusting smell of urine came from her. I felt that I +would choke.",0 +"I think that I am rather shy and do not mix with people as I +would have liked to, out of shyness.",2 +"I was walking on a street alone in the afternoon when there were +not too many people on the street. A couple of guys were +following me and I was ignoring them. Suddenly one of them came +in front of me and started using dirty language and harrassing +me. I got very angry and wanted to strike back at them.",3 +"I was travelling in a local train when a drunkard, smelling +terribly, entered the same carriage and started eating fish that +was stinking.",0 +"I had a quarrel with my father, because I was of the opinion that +he decided in an authoritarian way which TV program we should +watch. I became very angry and started throwing things through +the room.",3 +"I am ashamed at myself sometimes when I am working with +handicapped people and don't wish to be seen in public with them.",2 +"I thought him a good friend but he tried to lie to me several times. +Last time was the height of impudence. He promised he would come +home but he didn't. I felt a sense of anger and insult.",3 +"My older brother who gives me unwanted advices about problems in +my relationship with my girlfriend.",3 +"My parents scolded me a lot for something I had not done. It was +my sister who had done it.",3 +"When I went to report a stolen good at the police station, the +woman-officer-in-charge was very rude and did not seem to have +respect for anyone.",0 +"Students on campus were unnecessarily creating trouble just to +heckle the authorities - not to achieve something concrete, but +to further their own interest.",0 +"I felt something close to that when I saw that there was a man on +the terrace of the flat.",6 +"One day my elder brother badly scolded my father. This was the +first time that I heard such abusive language from my brother. I +requested him humbly not to use this kind of language but he did +not care for what I was saying. Finally I picked up an axe to use +against him, in the meanwhile people intervened.",3 +"When I was a little girl about eight years old I broke the bey +from a closed. Mother asked who did it. I said that it wasn't me, as +I almost never lied, and my brother did it more frequently in +spite my brother denieing it my mother gave him a few slaps.",5 +"When I promised to help a friend over a weekend and did not keep +the promise.",2 +Something was stolen.,3 +"A sense of guilt I felt once when I couldn't defend the +confidence my teacher had in me and thus discrediting him at a +concert.",5 +"I criticised an action of my mother and for the first time she +genuinely took notice of it. I felt shame that I was almost +taking the part of a husband, or at least an equal which I should +not.",2 +"I was driving very fast on a small road and I met an oncoming car +in a right handed bend. The other driver was on his own side of +the road and I had to skid out of it to avoid a collision. It +was dark.",6 +"When I cancelled an appointment with an idle story. Afterwards +it appeared that the person had looked forward to it and reserved +time for it.",5 +"I read a book whose plot and expressions were obscene and in very +bad taste.",0 +"When I was ten years old a classmate laughed at me because I had +told him that my father had retired.",2 +When I saw President Reagan get elected.,0 +"I threw away an object, which belonged to a friend, because I did +not know what to do with it. My friend was very sad about that +and I felt guilty.",5 +When I was accepted at UNZA.,1 +"A certain woman had asked me to make something for her and I kept +putting it off. When I finally made it, I did not see her for +days only to be told one day that she had collapsed and died. I +felt quite guilty as she had jokingly said that I might not do +what she had requested me to do.",5 +Because I had not studied.,5 +"When I was 12 years old, some friends of our family had come to +watch TV. I lay on the floor and moved my pelvis. When the other +people had gone, my mother told me that it had looked as if I had +wanted to make sex.",2 +When a close friend wilfully cheated me.,0 +"The moment I got the news that I had been selected for the U.G.C +junior national research fellowship. It was a dream come true.",1 +"I felt joy when I passed my Malawi School Certificate of +Education.",1 +When I did not give back a text book to a friend in time.,5 +"The cat of my landlady escaped through the window which I had +left open.",5 +"When I went to meet the family of my boyfriend in a party in his +house. His mother was eager to know me and all his friends ready +to make jokes about the situation.",2 +Someone I know and respect sexually assulted a girl.,2 +"My boyfriend had drunk too much and beaten me. When I had to show +the letter the door, which was almost crashed, I felt ashamed.",2 +When I masturbated in my room.,5 +"One of my best friends'fiancT broke off the relationship because +his feelings for me were stronger than for her. I felt the same +for him, but did not really encourage him to leave her or stay +with her - still felt shame.",2 +When I forgot the lyrics during a song contest.,4 +"When I met a very close friend of mine after one year of +separation.",1 +"I worked with several classmates on a project. I was very +anxious about the project while my partners showed no concern +and when we had meetings on the project my classmates did not +pay any attention. Some of them read books while the others +argued on irrelevant questions. The meeting would go on for two +hours without the main theme being discussed. We wasted time and +could not reach a compromise. My classmates avoided doing the +work and the responsibilities, they seemed to value other +projects more than this one.",3 +"My dog of 16 and 1/2 years - ""Lord Grey"" died in his sleep - His +death caused me more and deeper sadness than I thought.",4 +"When I went to my room-mate's drawer to see if she had an iron +which I could use, she came in. I felt guilty as she may have +thought that I had been stealing.",5 +The dying of a close member of the family.,4 +"When I scored the third goal to my own side at a football match +against William Murray Secondary School and we were badly +defeated.",5 +I asked someone to go out and she accepted right away.,1 +Watching a horror film.,6 +When my new jeans split while I was with the youth group.,2 +When I met my mother after not having seen her for three years.,1 +"During the funeral of my grandmother, when I saw my mother and +other family members crying.",4 +"I promised to join a meeting but did not turn up as I did not +want to do the work.",5 +Comments from other children on my alcoholic father,2 +"I and my cousin went to a filmshow at night. We went without +making it known to my mother. While we were there at interval, I +came across my mother just close to where we sat.",6 +"I felt disgusted on seeing my boyfriend after our separation. +One day he was begging at the mass transit railway station and at +that moment I hated him.",0 +Every time I do not write something well in English.,2 +"I wanted to be pregnant and did not succeed, so I was depressed +at every menstruation.",4 +"After much trouble getting together in the first place my +boyfriend and I celebrated our first anniversary.",1 +"Winning a race that I had been training for, for many weeks. +(Running Race).",1 +"When I was with a girl who seemed to love me, while I was with +her just to go to bed with her.",5 +"I forgot my mother's and sister's birthdays (they fall on the +same day).",5 +I felt guilty when I lost K43 for my friend when he was arrested.,5 +"My elder sister forced me to do a few things which I did not like +to do.",0 +"I felt guilty because I stole some sweets from my father's +grocery. When he asked me who stole the sweets I told him it was +my brother who stole the sweets and he was scolded.",5 +A night spent with a group of friends.,1 +"When a soppy poem that I had written to a boy was found and every +one read it and started teasing me about it.",2 +"At hostel, my roommate was a very selfish person and would avoid +doing anyhting that did not concern him. A few of us prepared lunch +together and had decided to share the work. My roomate had +promised to do the same but I had to wash the bowls everytime +after dinner. I tried to wait and thought that he would realize +his fault. I did not want to tell him to do the work as he is a +university student and ought to have self-respect. He +disappointed me and so every time I saw him I tried to avoid him +and did not want to keep any contact with him.",5 +"When a friend told me a story and I stayed dumb because I had no +story to tell.",2 +Article published in the college newspaper.,1 +"I'm afraid of not being able to go to the school I want because +of suffering grades.",6 +"While watching a film of an experimental operation on a cat's +brain in which the cat had metal pieces protruding from its eyes, +mouth etc. to keep the head stable while being cut open.",0 +"It was at a comsomol(??) meeting, the last one because we were to +graduate. The way one of my fellow-students behaved made me feel +disgusted.",0 +"When our religion teacher presented shocking sectarian thoughts +and doom's day as official teaching.",3 +"When I was complimented and called ""delightful"".",1 +"When I had to go through lonely streets in the middle of the +night.",6 +"When I am with friends and I do what pleases me this often +happenes.",1 +"I get disgusted with the inherent racist attitudes of my +brother-in-law in putting down various ethnic groups and also my +unwillingness to challenge him about these attitudes in order to +keep the peace.",0 +Being treated unfairly.,3 +"I read in the newspaper about a 21 yr. old woman who was found +naked and dead along a roadside. It turned out she had had two +relatives 14 and 19 who were kidnapped, raped and killed earlier.",0 +"When I left all my friends at school (break up) knowing we would +probably all go our separate ways, and none see one another for a +long time.",4 +"After closing the front door I realized that I had left the key +inside the house. I felt even more guilty since it was not my own +house but the house of people I hardly knew.",5 +"I was angry when my friends said that I should not receive +Nursing Science books because there was a rumour that I was +intending to leave the college.",3 +During the short period of my unemployment about six years back.,3 +My father told me in the letter that my mother is ill.,4 +When I understood I was admitted to the Sofia University.,1 +"When I almost ran over a small boy who suddenly was in front of +my car.",6 +Not thanking relatives for a favor done.,5 +"I was talking with an aunt of mine that I adore and I found +courage to say ""I love you"" and just after that came the shame.",2 +"I was ""best man"" at my brother's wedding a year ago.",1 +"The first time I saw a pornographic film, all that in practice is +so beautiful but on the screen appered as something mechanical, +irrational, disgusting and dehumanizing.",0 +"[ I had, by being silent, disapproved my love and made him +unhappy. He had not been able to keep his promise. I thus was +thinking about my own conduct towards another person.]",5 +When I was attacked by a teenage boy and had my wallet stolen.,6 +"As an evening class teacher I got positive feedback. When the +atmosphere is good and a kind of relaxed understanding exists.",1 +"Our Headmaster came to our hostel. The lights were off but there +was a lot of noise. We shouted at him when he knocked at our +door. We later saw that it was the Headmaster.",5 +Saw some young people fighting for seats on a bus.,0 +"I went to the ballet lessons with a little friend in the dark. On +a very quiet place a boy approached us from behind and asked at +what time the lesson would be finished. I gave him an avoiding +answer, he took me up and wanted to run away with me.",6 +"Looking up end-of-semester results, and finding I'd failed three +out of seven (subjects).",4 +Criticized by a teacher in public.,2 +"When I overtook a car on the mainroad, misjudging the distance of +an oncoming car and this resulted in tooting and flashing from +the other driver (we could have collided), and I had an +acquaintance in the car with me.",2 +I felt guilty when once I made my mother angry.,5 +"I felt disgust toward meat when I felt sick with the steak after +a week only on meat.",0 +"I had promised to say goodbye to a person who was going on a +trip, and I did not turn up.",5 +Winning the local soccer championships this year was a great joy.,1 +When I was told that my uncle had passed away.,4 +"I was given an exam which I thought did not measure at all my +ability or my knowledge of the subject.",3 +"When I was twelve I was babysitting some children but I did not +act very responsibly and one of them was injured.",2 +"When I realized that my girlfriend, whom I like, and I were going +to separate.",4 +The day I left my first girlfriend.,4 +"When my demand for accomodation on the campus was refused and the +rooms were allotted to first year students who were from ""Rucher"" +and came from influential families.",0 +"One day I took a packet of sweets from a certain Grocery at +Nathenje. Then later on I started to feel guilty and realised +that I had done a wrong thing to him.",5 +When I received a letter of acceptance to CAL.,1 +I unexpectedly got a present from my father.,1 +"When the teacher asked me a question in class, concerning +something I had read earlier, and I did not know the answer, so I +felt ashamed in front of the whole class.",2 +"I felt a physical fear, if I can call it this way, today, in the bus where +I was sitting on the first seat. While turning the driver didn't +see the tram which was making a dash towards us (coming from the +side I was), and whose driver intended to cross in yellow +light.",6 +When my mother kept me in leading-strings.,3 +"A very close friend of mine invited me to spend the holidays with +him. He was very kind, good and understanding. However it +turned out that he had two of his cousins at his place. He, +however gave me everything I needed - even transport money.",5 +"When I cheated my trusting girlfriend by telling her that I was a +qualified doctor and later she found out that I was only a +medical student at the preclinical level.",5 +"After yelling at my girlfriend, I felt bad because she was ? +crying and upset.",5 +"I was afraid when my first boyfriend threatened to make an end to +our relationship because he didn't love me enough while I loved +him very much.",6 +"We were writing Primary school leaving Examinations when I had +fallen at the steps going into the Exam room.",2 +"I feel disgusted at my cousin, who is bad-mannered, does not know +how to behave and talk to others, he does not respect elders and +lies all the time.",0 +A saturday night a bus full of drunken people.,0 +"My friends and I were sitting at a restaurant. We were talking +and a few of them said awful things about women. I became +disgusted by their narrow-mindedness.",0 +"It was when I was selected to go to a Secondary school to start +form I.",1 +"When my boyfriend asked me to go out with him and I refused +because I wanted to go out with another guy. I did go out and my +boyfriend found out.",5 +When my sister was born.,1 +"Before Uni started, I had to leave home and take up residence in +Brisbane (the ""big smoke"") leaving home, my family, and moving to +such a big place was quite intimidating at first, and I was +anxious about it.",6 +"I was very angry with a girlfriend for interferring a little too +much with my personal affairs. I told her so rather strongly and +she started crying.",5 +"When I was in lower six I joined an interview group to +interview the general public. One of my friends in the group +lost her purse and she was very nervous. Five of us had to go +another place so we left her, and planned to see her later. Then +I heard her describing how her purse looked. I realized that I +had seen her purse on the floor and had not wanted to do any +thing about it. ",2 +"The sense of guilt came over me too, when I interrupted my +studies. Why ? Because I felt guilty before my parents ! They +believed in me though this event did not make them disbelieve me.",5 +"I was in form five at the boarding school and my friends and I +had gone drinknig beer in the nearby village. And we were caught +red handed there by a form master.",6 +"I was in a dark cellar and saw a glowing red point. I thought +that it was a person with a cigarette - but it was only the red +switch.",6 +"A piece of work was marked as bad by the teachers I and some +fellow students didn't agree with their vague criticism. I felt +myself taken in by the teachers and felt disgust.",0 +"I liked to see off my aunt (from Zaire) to the airport. That +appeared to be impossible because I had to go to school. For long +time I wasn't sure if I could accompany her. Two days before the +departure they told me I was allowed to miss school.",1 +"I heard that a friend had died in an accident; group situation: +suddenly a friend came in and said ""Have you already heard +that...""; there was a terrible consternation, silence, then +everybody shouted excitedly ""How could that happen..."".",4 +"When someone I know was caught in an ""adultery"" situation.",2 +"I was very sad when I heard that my uncle had passed away +untimely at home.",4 +Robbery mentioned under sadness.,0 +"I was alone in my parents' house, having made plans to spend the +afternoon with a lover (plans which the lover cancelled), +watching a movie and considering my life and circumstances - +pressures of examinations in particular.",4 +When my grandmother passed away.,4 +"The only event I can remember is having a nightmare when I was +very young (3 years old) I dreamt about a machine which was going +to crush me.",6 +"I kicked the dog outside on a cold night because he was annoying +me. The next day he came down with the flu and we thought he was +going to die.",2 +"My boyfriend and I did not have any contact with each other during +the Summer holidays. I met him the day of the registration and looked +through him. In the canteen he asked me if I wanted to have a drink and +I said no as I did not want him to do me a favour.",0 +"I felt disgusted when I was in a restaurant which didn't appear +to be clean and orderly. (I do not like to be in unclean +environments).",0 +"When a teacher tells a story which isn't true. It only reflects +his way of interpreting reality.",3 +"When my husband discovered I was having an affair with another +man.",5 +Having my luggage checked at Customs.,6 +"I was talking badly about a person to some friends, and +discovered that his daughter was listening.",2 +"When I took a small boy's share of choclale. He was our guest +and so had been given a larger share of the sweets.",5 +Seeing this badly made questionnaire.,3 +"My sister and brother in law returned from Sri Lanka where they +adopted a child. I went to pick them up at the airport.",1 +"[ One day I arrived home rather tired and found the house..... In +addition I was asked many questions which I did not want to +answer.]",3 +"My baby sister was 2-3 months old and when I was trying to get +her on my back, she slipped and fell.",5 +"This summer I got into a fight with one of our patrons (at a +theatre). He hit me and I hit him and her friend, he hit my friend +and we all hit eachother.",3 +I had just masterbated with another boy.,2 +A very close friend left me.,4 +Car accident in the middle of the night.,6 +"Day before yesterday my mother bought me a new pair of shoes, +without my having asked for them. She told me that when she saw +the pair of shoes she felt like buying them for me. I really +liked the shoes and they made me feel that my mother cares for +me.",1 +"Someone signed up for a workshift at the co-op where I live and +she did not want to work the switchboard. I became very angry. +She had mentioned earlier that she wanted and needed the +workshift to me so I did not sign up.",3 +"I get angry with people who attain certain status without +deserving it, only with the support, authority and influence of +other people.",3 +Not being able to have a party at home with friends.,2 +"When I was told that a boy did not want to be my friend without +any apparent reason.",3 +"In broad daylight I saw an untidy old man pissing and playing +with his penis in the middle of the town.",0 +My roommate's sister committed suicide.,4 +"When I study my butt off for a midterm and still get an average +grade.",0 +"I felt afraid when I smoked maryhuana for the first time in my +life with a lot of friends in the middle of the street at day +brake.",6 +"My mother was unwell and went for many cancer tests. She spent +time in hospital being opened and closed many times.",4 +"Waiting for my girlfriend to come from her apt. to mine. She was +very late and I thought something awful had happened.",6 +Walking in the dark by myself.,6 +When my mother surprised me while masturbating.,2 +"When I had a psychical crisis, I met a girl, who told me that she +had had almost the same problems and how she had finally overcome +them.",1 +When I did not go to work because I had to study for a midterm.,5 +"During my Summer vacations I planned a carnival for the community +youth center with a few other volunteers. I was the head of the +organizors and we spent over a month planning it. During this +period we got to know and understood each other. We +discovered each others potential and we planned many interesting +things for the carnival. The day of the carnival everything was +bright, the programmes went well and the attendants enjoyed it. +I felt extremely excited about it.",1 +"After seeing a horror film - Omen. I could not sleep at night +even though I closed my eyes. The last scene of the film kept +coming back to me, I seemed to hear the girls in the film +shouting at the devil. The devil did not have any expression on +his face and I thought that he would choose me.",6 +"In a disco, there was a dirty little chap who punched my bottom.",0 +Same situation as before - having my car stolen.,3 +"A few monthe ago, when my brother's wife told me that I had bad +manners. To make matters worse she did not let me use their +telephone as she only allowed people of her own tribe.",3 +When one of my lovers told me that I was a flirt.,5 +When I have been overhastingly offending or hurting.,5 +With an alcoholic.,0 +"I studied medicine for several semesters. I was always disgusted +when we had the dissecting-course. I cannot understand why some +persons like this course.",0 +Did not read reference when other people read them.,5 +"I was seriously injured in a road accident. The very first steps +I took with only one crutch to support me I felt so good. I enjoy +being alive.",1 +"I felt shame and I couldn't look into my teacher's eyes, after +not attending his lectures.",2 +[ When I see that the toilet is unclean.],0 +"My cousin asked me to be a bridesmaid for her. This made really +happy because I was adopted into the family and her asking me +made me realise that she saw me as a cousin and not just another +person. There were other cousins she could have asked but she +asked me.",1 +"Stopped at lights in Mangere late one Friday night on way home +from work. Alone in car when someone came up behind the car and +started banging and shaking it. Light was red and had nowhere to +go until light changed. When green I took off.",6 +My dog died of a cerebral tumor.,4 +"The first time that I saw a dead person. This was when I started +my gross anatomy practicals.",6 +I felt angry when my friend told me that I had stolen her money.,3 +"A friend of mine ridiculed me, telling me that I would never +accomplish anything. I felt that he had interfered with my life.",3 +When a friend left me and went back home for good.,4 +"I was using my sister's stereo while everyone was out. I know she +wouldn't want me to and I would get into trouble if she found +out. But she was only partly justified in forbidding me to use +it. She never found out.",5 +"After my boy-friend had beaten me for the first time, I always +trembled when somebody knocked on my door or when I heard steps +coming nearer.",6 +Forgot to give a present to my little nephew.,5 +"I felt disgusted when I went to one of the Central hospitals +where my hope of getting good treatment was turned down by one of +the doctors who said I was alright despite my feeling pain.",0 +"I met a certain lady at the bus depot who was using a bad +language but was a very smart looking lady.",0 +"During my holiday I met again a friend who had tried to commit +suicide. She had just left hospital, her lips were trembling, she +looked miserable.",4 +"A few weeks back I had a very important seminar and I had +circulated my papers to all the panel members. A day before the +seminar I realized that I had inadvertantly burdened certain +derivations and I had failed to correct it. I feared that this +would reflect very badly on my performance. Fortunately none of +the panel members detected it and I felt relieved.",6 +"When I read the diary of the girl with whom I was living, it was +about another boy with whom she had been going around some time back.",4 +"One night we, all the family members, were sitting in the front +corridor of the house when a gentleman looking person came in. +He was my father's client and he had come to bribe my father in +connection with the proceeding case. At my father's refusal he +abused my father, my brother and I could not control our temper +and we rushed at him.",3 +"When my father's new fiancee treats me like a child. She does +not trust me and constantly misunderstands me. I get +particularly angry when she says nasty things about my boyfriend +with whom she works.",3 +When I was admitted to the University.,1 +"When I caused needless anxiety to a person close to me because of +my lack of self-insight.",5 +"My feelings towards would-be in-laws for their participation in +recent broken relationship.",3 +My good friend misunderstood me.,4 +"I read about the national and social spirit and self-discipline +of the people of developed coutries like U.S.A, England, France, +Germany etc. Comparing this to the Indian people I felt guilty +as they have no national spirit or self-discipline.",5 +"When I received the news that my beloved grandmother had died. I +was at the boarding school and was only 13 years old.",4 +Passed the last exam.,1 +"I get angry with my brothers and sisters when they do something +that I do not like. They know this and still do it so as to +tease me.",3 +Saw someone licking his dining bowl.,0 +"We had had a party the night before and we still had some liquors +left the morning after. I went to the kitchen pretending to +prepare some tea and was caught by my fiancee pouring some rum +down my throat.",5 +"When I spoke to my daughter and wished her luck for the +examinations she was about to take.",1 +"Someone told me he was chosen for the English lectures because he +was a good friend of the class leader.",2 +"I missed the train and had to wait for the next for two hours. +For this reason I missed an appointment which had been very +important for me.",3 +"When I behaved improperly - fought in a public place. +Afterwards, I felt guilty about my conduct.",5 +"I felt joy when I heard that I was accepted for the Free +University in Driebergen.",1 +"My brother is a soldier. He promised to come home in a furlough +but in the last moment he phoned and said that he could not come.",4 +"When my roommate came home at 10 in the morning after sleeping +with a guy she did not know because she got drunk. (Se has a +boyfriend too).",0 +Unable to help my mother to cook.,5 +"When I found my boyfriend, who I had been dating for a year, at +another girl's house. We had had previous conflicts concerning +the girl, but he had always claimed they were just friends.",3 +"When I attended school, our class visited an institution for +mentally and physically handicapped persons. Although I tried to +control my feelings, I was disgusted.",0 +"When somebody behaves like a scoundrel. Recently a colleague of +mine used the name of another one for his own benefit.",0 +"One of my friends came to know through some other friends that I +had applied for some course in an institute. He asked me ""why +did not you tell me, I would also have applied."" At that I felt +guilty.",5 +"In the house where I live there is a new flatmate. His friends +unfortunately are the dirt of society, intelligent, fashonable, +rich and bored. At a party recently they were doing things I +didn't like done in my house. I felt angry at them.",3 +"I was once nominated as an Officer Cadet in the Armed Forces and +my name was cancelled on the list of nominees of those who were +sent to Kenya for Training.",4 +My father dying.,4 +"My friend got married and went abroad, this made me feel sad and +lonely.",4 +"My father was very angry with another man in the presence of my +friends.",2 +"When I needed another job and tought that a good and known person +(my employer) could help me. He simply said that he couldn't help +me.",0 +"When my uncle gave me my first year's results. I opened the +envelope and my eyes ran into two ""B+"" - in EC110 and M160, this +meant that I had qualified for a major in economics.",1 +"I am disgusted by people who spoil their identity because of +misbehaviour. This morning when I was in a crowded bus, I found +a seat on which a university student was sitting on one side and +he had put his bag and files next to him. There was very little +space left and I sat down while he kept on reading. Even when I +leaned on him he did not put his bag away. He did not respond and +I felt very angry.",0 +"Not attending school, when am not sick - but in need of mental +rest. Staff on your return query your ""sickness"" - it is easier +in N.Z. to be sick, rather than confide other personal reasons +etc.",5 +Wrongly accused a classmate.,5 +"I had prepared a special meal for my boyfriend but when my +brother came home he ate it all. I was really disgusted about it.",0 +"This happened when it was finally confirmed that I had stood +first in the university for the M.A exams. A few days before the +official results were declared a clerk had brought the results +unofficially. So I had been expecting the results but the +confirmation allowed me to legitimately feel happy at my +success. +",1 +"When I was cycling to school, I nearly got knocked down by a car +which (overtook me too closely) did not give me any swerving space.",6 +"I felt disgusted when a certain lady spoke words of sarcasm when +I was trying to propose to her.",0 +"A Maori language oral test, yeaterday - Although I had studied +intensely - once in the examiners room ""I blew it"" - I was so +nervous I couldn't reply easily - It was very important, but I +got only blankness.",6 +"When I came to know that my exams were on two successive days and +that there was very little time (about 9-10 hours) to study in +between.",6 +The results of the mid term examinations were very poor.,5 +"When I met a girl and asked her for a date and she agreed, (I +thought this girl would never like me), this was an emotion of +joy.",1 +"I was walking in the wood at night with my boyfriend. Very +romantic. Suddenly I heard a car driving very slowly with the +lights out, it looked as if they were looking for something.",6 +"I was not given a chance to explain to my close relatives as to +why I could not go to visit them when they were ill. When I did +go, they thought that I had been selfish and irresponsible during +their illness.",3 +"When my aunt told me angrily that I was a good-for-nothing and +she was fed up with my behaviour.",3 +"I argued with my father on matters concerning marriage. +Traditionally speaking, I was not supposed to, so I felt guilty +of violating my traditions which I must hold in esteem.",5 +When I first passed a job interview.,1 +When I decided to separate from my husband.,6 +"When I was at the end-of-term party last week and had fun - was +happy and sang and drank only soft drinks. It is possible to +have a good time without alcohol.",1 +You told me psychology can help people to be happier.,1 +"Getting a friend an open container ticket because I got caught +speeding.",5 +"When I was going home for my holiday, I almost drowned in the +Zambezi river.",6 +Acting in a play at the orientation camp made me feel timid.,2 +"When in grade 3, late home from school every day for weeks +because of harassment from a grade 7 boy I lied to mother about +why I was home late.",5 +"Few years ago my father was very ill. He stayed at a hospital for +a long time. Then I experienced that terrible feeling that I +might lose him.",6 +"When I saw my brother in Church, and publically accept Jesus +Christ as his saviour and Lord.",1 +"When I contacted a sexually transmitted disease and the +lecturer came to know about it as it was he who treated me for +it.",2 +"I was angry about 3 months ago and I kicked backwards against the +wall. It caved in and so I had to show it to my parents. I had +been angry after my mother said something to me about not being +able to find clothes in my size - something that I'm sensitive +about. (6' 5'' 210)",2 +"I feel anger when I see a ""parent"" beating and punishing his child +in the street. Recently I was a withness of a similar case.",3 +I hapened to overhear something which I was not meant to hear.,5 +"When people without my permission pry in my belongings and take +things out of it.",3 +When I dreamed that I was being attacked by a friend.,6 +"When I was hungry, I tried to take the money that my mother +had saved up for something else.",2 +"During the Chinese lessons a student often showed off. Moreover +he misbehaved and dressed very badly. So disgusting !",0 +I stole carrots and got caught. I had to apologize to the owner.,5 +"Recently when my sister, who is four years younger than me and +very spoiled, shouted at my mother for no apparent reason . The +heart-broken expression on my mother's face made me feel very +angry.",3 +"I was very angry when one day I went to see my girlfriend I +talked to her and could not answer back. She was depressed for +reasons which were not known to me.",3 +"When the university withdrew the accomodation that it had given +me.",3 +"A condition in which I was disgusted followed when I lost money +on my way home from the college.",0 +"When I was a child I hid under the sheets out of fear of +darkness.",6 +Being made to look like a fool by a girl.,3 +"An argument that grew out of an ordinary conversation with a +person very close to me, when we should have been having a good +time together.",2 +"My girlfriend gave me some feed-back and I understood that it +meant that our relationship was about to turn even closer.",1 +"When my father asked me if I was a communist, at the same time he +made it clear that I should no longer see myself as his daughter.",3 +"Finding out that the university police was afraid to stop the +foreign students playing loud music (China's shame). +",2 +"I wrote a bad letter to someone concerning our relationship which +we created ourselves.",5 +"When my brother went to shoot wild ducks, I feared that the +boat would overturn and he would drown or that the gun would +accidentally go off.",6 +When I betrayed my former girlfriend.,5 +"There was a lot of irritation between me and a person who lives +in the same house where I live. Suddenly it became too much for me and I +accused him of several things.",3 +When I got a low grade in an administration course.,3 +"When I had to give a speech about some historical event, to an +audiece of about 200 people my own age whom I did not know.",6 +"I was ashamed when my friend and I were cross with each other +till we apologized to each other.",2 +"When it was found that I had gone out of the school premises +without permisssion and at the wrong time.",6 +"I was about to begin a journey in a car with an acquaintance of +mine.",6 +Getting slightly intoxicated at the 1984 I.C.C. Ball.,2 +"This morning I spent a lot of time on my toilet and missed the +train to the university. My mother told me that I spent more +time than a woman on my toilet. I felt a mixed emotion of shame +and anger.",2 +"When we were at home, my husband and I, he made a remark about +something I had done, in a perfectly friendly manner. My deed +had been unjust and I knew that my husband was right, therefore my +sense of shame.",2 +"I was on this amusement park ride at Marriots Great America. It +went way up in the air and then around and around. Heights are +not my favorite spots in life.",6 +Staying alone in the dark.,6 +"I was afraid when my boyfriend came home because my parents +disapproved him of his coming home. I thought they would chase me +out of the house.",6 +"When I learnt that my offer to study at the university had been +withdrawn and so I would not get hostel accomodation at UNZA, +even though I registered as a student later.",0 +People spitting in railway stations.,0 +"I was very sad when I had to leave persons with whom I had a very +intense relationship I also had to leave the environment which +was part of this.",4 +When my father passed away.,4 +"During a family reunion, they started talking about me wearing an +ear-ring.",2 +"At the age of 12 years I always had to take care of my little +brother and sister I never could sleep then. I always imagined +creepy men sneaking into our house.",6 +"When I was baby-sitting at my cousin's place, I tried to have a +pleasant time and did not really take care of the child. I do +not care very much about children.",5 +When I got separated from my first love.,4 +"I had a short lasting sexual relationship with someone I didn't +love.",2 +"I had to go to the doctor's because of a veneral disease. I told +the doctor that I must have been infected by my boy-friend. This +was not true, but I was ashamed to tell the truth.",2 +"Day I received my T.E. score and acceptance into my chosen course. +",1 +"When present boyfriend's mother approached my parents and self - +to leave her son alone - as she did not want me for a future +daughter-in-law.",3 +"The time I was at secondary school during the holiday I appeared +to my father while heavily drunk and I talked nonsense like in +some sort of carefree.",5 +Failing an examination.,4 +Before taking an exam.,6 +When my mother treats me as a 10-year old boy.,3 +Shame I feel when I am not properly dressed.,2 +"After having left the company of someone who gave me a lot of +support and made me laugh, found myself alone for days on end.",4 +My roommate talking and shaking her bed at night.,0 +Finding out my grades at the end of my freshman year.,1 +"It was last September when I felt very sad. It was when I heard +that I was not selected to study in the University of Malawi.",4 +"After a one year's stay abroad, I returned home. I was even more +glad to see how much my family was pleased to see me.",1 +Being mistreated by other people.,3 +"We had a birthday party with 5 friends. One of us frequently used +hard drugs. On the party I discovered that the other 3 friends +also used them. While we agreed we would help the big user to +stop using it.",0 +"When I had had the possibility to act or to do certain activity +better but I had not done it because of reluctance or +carelessness.",5 +Person talking about a situation while eating.,0 +When I was told that my friend's wife had cancer.,4 +"When finally I found a place to live, I felt relieved, predicting +changes in my life, and I became happy.",1 +"In the 12/83 my boyfriend asked me to forget him, as it would be +easy.",4 +When I heard that a good friend had committed suicide.,4 +I felt guilt when I betrayed the person whom I loved.,5 +"I felt disgust as a result of one of my midterms - I thought I +had prepared well for it, but the end result wasn't what I had +expected.",0 +"I had fear when I was left alone at the bus depot at night. I had +problems of how to move to this place.",6 +"I was to take part in a cocktail party on the occasion of our +national holiday as a servant.",2 +"I felt very guilty when I tried to teach swimming to my younger +brother, as I myself could not swim very well and my brother +had started sinking to the bottom, however my elder brother +saved him.",5 +"I was accused of a misdemeanour, unjustly.",3 +"I had an appointment with a good friend. He came 3 hours later +than we agreed upon. During the last hour of waiting I was afraid +something might had happened, because usally he is in time.",6 +When my last relation broke up.,4 +"Riding through a bush fire on an island of Australia - on a +pushbike as a little boy - all alone, lost and surrounded by +smouldering wood and flame.",6 +"When somebody suddenly said something (about me) at a wrong +moment and I didn't agree (at that exact moment I was needing an +extremely positive word).",2 +"My sister forgot to bring presents for my birthday, I was rude to +her.",5 +"When I was going downhill on skis, and fell down twice the first +time.",2 +A close married friend has just had his first child.,1 +"When some people, including me, are treated in a way which +equates them to an animal or a thing.",0 +"Some time ago I promised to meet an acquaintance of mine and to +carry him some promised papers. I haven't done it until this day. +Now I feel quite awkward when I meet him.",2 +"A good friend of mine told me in comfidence that once he had +tried to commit suicide. To meet him you wouldn't think so. I +told another friend of mine about this when she was feeling +depressed about her twin brother's suicide. I broke a bond of +confidentiality.",2 +A friend came to visit me and I was not there.,5 +Forced to fill in a questionnaire.,5 +"A friend once reacted childishly (he is 23 yearrs old) to my not +responding in his favour to a request, that is: he asked me for +some money I refused, and his reaction was quite childish.",0 +"A relative of mine had come to see my husband to talk to him +about a problem concerning his sister and me. I was angry +because this relative of mine did not dare to speak to me and +instead spoke to my husband. I got to know about it later the +same day.",3 +"For example, when I have promised something but I haven't +fulfilled it.",5 +The first time I left home.,4 +I have a new born child.,1 +[ When some people act very important in any situation.],0 +A reoccurring fear that something will happen to my relatives.,6 +"After 10 days of hard work and having suffered many changes I +passed my last exam.",1 +When I was selected for the university.,1 +"It was when we were beaten or lost the football match by 5-1 and +then I scored the third goal to my own side.",2 +When I hurt a person's feelings.,5 +"Stopped at a Fast Food shop with friends and a few locals wanted +to fight us for no apparent reason. They hit and picked on one of +my friends.",3 +When I beat up my son for having beaten up his sister.,5 +"I was walking home with a friend at night along a quiet street. +Something started rustling in the bush : it was an exhibitionist.",6 +"One time I was injured when I was playing football at School in +Blantyre. I was brought to the hospital while my leg was totally +swollen. The x-rays confirmed there was no fracture but +collection of blood n the muscles. I feared when they started to +incise the swollen part with surgical blade.",6 +"I got into an argument with a photographer for whom I had to pose +twelve times, over a period of four weeks, before I could get a +snap of mine. Every time the film was processed my snap did not +come out although the others did.",3 +"I felt very disgusted at a friend to whom I had given a Psychology +book to read, and she did not care to give me back the book +during the exams.",0 +"About my girlfriend's sister who is a viper as I discovered some +time ago.",0 +Left alone in the biology building surrounded by empty buildings.,6 +Yelled at my parents for not buying me a car like other parents.,5 +To see damaged lettuce (with worms) in the icebox.,0 +"Not succeeding in a cross-country skiing competition, which I +intended to win.",4 +"My friend half-teasingly called me a bad nickname. I felt +insulted and kicked his hip in anger. I was stable later and did +not feel angry at him. In fact I was afraid that the other +friends who were with us would think that I was an intolerant +person. However I could not apologize, so I pretended that +nothing had happened and smiled when I left. My friend did not +say anything but just watched me leave.",3 +"My mother, my sister and I were sitting in the sitting room and +watching a film on TV. My father came home drunk and told us to +turn off. When we did not do that he switched off the fuse and +started shouting. We were sitting in the dark and I was afraid +that he would do us a harm.",6 +"The thought of having to read a boring book of 400 pages in +English.",4 +I am afraid before an exam or colloquium.,6 +"When my lover and I felt like we had gone full circle. And our +relationship was new, fresh, vital etc. once again.",1 +"When I as a Pakeha (white) new Zealander, was just as racially +prejudiced as other people whom I had condemned.",2 +"One day I took my playmates to the river to swim and play. One +of them was epileptic so he drowned into the water. I felt guilty +because it was me who took them there.",5 +Going to CAL not knowing anyone.,6 +"I was watching a procession during the Holy week, and a penitent +approached me.",6 +Some students trying to please the lecturer.,0 +When I excreted on the mat instead of the potty.,2 +"The shame came when I was beaten by my teacher at school in front +of boys and girls some of whom were my friends and a girlfriend +apart from being classmates.",2 +"I took a psych. experiment with a totally unappealing gay man as +the experimentor, some homosexuals are funny or cute, but this +guy was disgusting. Plus the experiment was about gays too.",0 +"I had to tell someone that I was interested in remaining celibate +and alone. And that my spiritual master strictly prohibited +sexual relations outside of marriage. This caused great fear +through lack of conviction afraid to hurt someone's feelings +despite my own being hurt in the process.",6 +"A story I heard recently about a baby dying after sexual +abuse.",0 +"I went to spend a night with a relative of mine and there I +found that the bed had been wet the previous night.",0 +"When I went to the clinic for a medical check-up and saw the way +the lecturer was conducting the lecture and the kind of responses +he got from the patients.",0 +Fear of doing well on a midterm.,6 +"When I noticed obvious marks of old age (in a negative sense) on +a close relative of mine.",4 +"At the crowded conditions of living. I always quarrel with my +elder brother as he puts the T.V volume at a deafening level and +I can not practise my piano lessons. Thus I feel that my home is +disgusting.",0