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--- 28744799
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I've been fucking my boss for a few months, he's recently divorced and we usually get a drink after work at a local bar but this time he invited me to his house for a really nice bottle of brandy and we got drunk and ended up fucking, it happened very naturally and it was my first time but I didn't tell him that, and we've been fucking regularly but he's never asked me to go out on dates or meet his family. All we do is work together and fuck and he treats me like a friend at work and only really gets romantic when he's drunk but idk what he sees me as and I don't wanna bring it up cause I can't handle him thinking I'm too much trouble and leaving me, in a lot of ways he reminds me of my dad who left us when I was a kid but he's only in his late 30s I feel like this will end badly and end up destroying me but I can't help but keep it going cause I'm so attracted and in love with him
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--- 28744821
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He's using you as a cum rag to satisfy his primal urges and you were dumb enough to develop feelings for him
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--- 28744835
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Talk to him about this. I feel like that's how these things should be handled. Like most things.
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--- 28745008
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Lol….
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--- 28745045
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>>28744799 (OP)
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I'm trans btw if that matters
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--- 28745090
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>>28745045
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He would never fuck trans trash he's pretty conservative and so is the area we live in, as we can see with the Dylan Mulvaney/ bud light boycott most average Americans still despise trannies outside ny, la, Seattle and portland
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--- 28745092
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Judging by the pfp you attached they probably don't.
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--- 28745115
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>>28745092
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Why? Whats wrong with it?
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--- 28745258
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>>28744835
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I feel like verbalizing my dissatisfaction will lead me to ruining what we have and its very special to me
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--- 28745264
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>>28745090
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whats ur age?
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--- 28745270
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>>28745258
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>ruining what we have and its very special to me
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you have nothing but being a prostitute for free, a literal bang maid. have some self respect
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--- 28745282
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>How do you know if a guy wants a relationship?
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We don't. We want sex.
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Relationships are just hoops women make men jump through to get sex.
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You seem to have forgotten that bit or were never taught. Shit too late now.
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Your only way to get a relationship now is to start making demands. Dinner, movies whatever. He'll probably go along with it if you're ok in bed.
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--- 28745293
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>>28745282
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Kill yourself coomer
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--- 28745323
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>>28745115
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He "treats you as a friend at work" because he's your boss and knows he could get fired otherwise but also sees you as someone that he cares about. He likely doesn't want you to meet his kids for legal reasons. If he just wanted to fuck he wouldn't be sharing his expensive brandy with you AFTER you already fucked. It's nit that he's drunk that he gets romantic (and that you said romantic and not horny or sexual is also a dead giveaway) it's that he doesn't have to risk his job or custody of his children by doing so. This is also likely why you have not met the kids. He is likely in love with you but marriage etc are probably not on the table at least not anytime soon because literally Karen might take The Kids.
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--- 28745607
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>>28745092
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>Pfp
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--- 28745655
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>>28745264
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I'm 25
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--- 28745819
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>>28745270
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Wait, dont bang maids live with the guy and cook and clean?
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--- 28745995
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>daddy issues
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>lost virginity to boss who is divorced
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>he gets you drunk to fuck you at his house
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It's true love, he wants to make you his wife 100%. You should tell him you are in love with him, that will definitely end well.
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--- 28746140
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>>28745995
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It was completely unplanned, we just sat around drinking and we talked about our lives and a lot of random philosophical subjects and then it just happened neither of us really knows how
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--- 28746277
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>>28744799 (OP)
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I am a woman but 1- I think it is very obvious that being recently divorced he is not going to have a serious relationship 2-don't be fooled a man in his thirties doesn't leave things unplanned he was going with the intention of having sex. 3-If verbalizing your thoughts scares you it's because you unconsciously know he doesn't want anything formal, the sooner you accept it the better, you're young and I'm sure you can find someone who is interested in a serious relationship but you always have to make your intentions clear and ask others about theirs.
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--- 28746724
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>>28744799 (OP)
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No he isn't interested. Jesus I thought men were supposed to be clueless. You really can't tell?
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--- 28747348
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Good morning I hate women.
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--- 28747390
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>>28746140
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ntg, but nobody invites a woman to his house for drinks without 100% going for the pussy, you are unbelievably naive. nothing wrong with it, though.
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--- 28747459
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>>28744799 (OP)
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You're his fuck slut, not his gf.
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--- 28747470
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Lol you retard
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You are convenient sex.
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That is your role.
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--- 28747479
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>>28746277
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Oh responses from women are very much appreciated cause you've maybe been in a similar situation
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>>unconsciously know he doesn't want anything formal
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Yea, I definitely suspected as much but its too late now I'm in love with him as he was my first and I want our relationship to last as long as possible
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--- 28747484
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Your boss is winning, I've had a fantasy like this for a while now but I need to step up my game so my small business can grow more so I can hire more employees. Im 29 so there's hope
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Good old classic boss-secretary power dynamic. As it should be
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--- 28747486
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Why would he buy the cow when he gets the milk for free?
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--- 28747517
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>idk what he sees me
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Probably a wet hole. Sorry for the bluntness anon, but it sounds like you're a nice fuckbuddy while he recovers from his previous relationship.
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--- 28747523
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>>28745282
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>We don't. We want sex.
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No anon, you're confusing "men" with you. Don't generalise. On the other hand, it is certainly true for you and probably her boss too.
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--- 28747787
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>>28747517
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I guess but he's romantic too, like last time we fucked, we cuddled for a long time after and he rested his head on my cleavage and said he wished he could stay like this forever, I've heard most guys wanna leave as soon as they coom
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--- 28747929
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>>28744799 (OP)
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> How do you know if a guy wants a relationship?
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> I've been fucking my boss for a few months,
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> only really gets romantic when he's drunk
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> , in a lot of ways he reminds me of my dad who left us when I was a kid
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> I feel like this will end badly and end up destroying me but I can't help but keep it going
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Congrats on your degenerate lifestyle.
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>>28745282
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not accurate
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>>28746140
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I hope you realize nobody believes that BS story. Learn to lie better.
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>>28747787
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Was he sober at the time?
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--- 28747938
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>>28745819
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yea don't listen to him hes a schizo
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--- 28747944
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>>28747787
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haha ok this is an erp
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--- 28747953
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>>28747929
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No he was drunk but everyone in my area gets drunk pretty much every night and especially when fucking, sober fucking is almost unheard of
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--- 28748245
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What is he the boss of? Is he high powered/rich?
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--- 28748351
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>
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>how do you know if a guy wants a relationship
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>fucking my boss
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He doesn't. I dont need to read the rest.
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--- 28748378
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Just bring it up, but don't be weird psycho about it
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--- 28748386
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>he's never asked me to go out on dates
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You're being used. You can ask him, but I don't think this should continue.
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--- 28748434
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>>28744799 (OP)
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if this isn't bait it makes me hate females intensely for this night, can't be that retarded
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--- 28748458
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>>28746140
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yea sure he doesnt know it just jhappened.
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no man is like this this is woman only story to feel like its not her fault sex 'just happened'
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peak retard
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this>>28745270
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--- 28748462
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>>28745819
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so youre even less than a bangmaid congrats
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--- 28748476
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>>28748458
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But he said he didn't know how it happened either, we were just drinking and he said he thought I looked good and he started rubbing my leg and it just sorta happened :(
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God damn women. You know she'd say the same shit if she was telling her boyfriend about cheating on him. "I swear I wasn't planning on it! It just happened, it was an accident! :("
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--- 28748480
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>>28745655
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>>28747479
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how do you look? are you hot?
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--- 28748708
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>>28747929
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>>28747944
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Why tf would I lie?
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>>28748245
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No he just owns a small business and has a nice house in the suburbs of a midsized midwest city
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--- 28748720
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>gave her virginity to a guy who only wants to pump her just because he looked her father
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you can't make this shit up
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--- 28748958
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>>28748462
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I mean i would cook and clean if he asked for sure
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>>28748720
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Not only that he also has a similar way of talking and habits at least from what I remember of him
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--- 28749530
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LOOOOL you dumb whore he's playing you
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--- 28750590
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>>28748476
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I've never cheated on anyone in my life nor ever had a bf
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--- 28750601
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>>28748958
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so you want to get dicked by your father? god im done with women
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--- 28750622
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This is a larp she always makes these bait posts.
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--- 28751030
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>>28750601
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I barely knew my dad he left us when I was 9 but what I do remember I've always missed dearly. He has a new family now and I feel replaced
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--- 28751186
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what does he do and how much money does he make?
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--- 28751363
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>>28750590
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>I've never cheated on anyone in my life nor ever had a bf
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Well then no shit you haven't cheated on anyone, you've never had the chance lol
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What I was talking about had nothing to do with you, though
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--- 28752721
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>in a lot of ways he reminds me of my dad who left us
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Men. Can we stop abandoning our children?
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--- 28752727
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>>28752721
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Fellas?
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--- 28752739
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>>28744799 (OP)
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youre his side booty
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--- 28752769
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>>28744821
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FPBP
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OP you need to snap out of it asap, he doesn't even love you.
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--- 28753706
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Uhm could you stop posting my wife here? thx
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--- 28753725
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>>28744821
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This. You should've saved yourself for someone who gave a shit about you.
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--- 28753779
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>we got drunk and ended up fucking, it happened very naturally
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kek, sure m'lady
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--- 28753820
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>>28744799 (OP)
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You’re giving him free sex. You think that’s going to make him develop feelings for you but you are sadly mistaken. He’s just using you.
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--- 28753835
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>>28744799 (OP)
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So OP, most are right, this is a man that probably just sees you as a sidepiece to fuck while he eventually looks for a new wife he can respect. Fortunately for you, there are a couple of ways you can try to delay the inevitable or even get out better than you were.
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A, you are a problem if he wants to date seriously because no self-respecting woman wants to date a guy like that who can't drop his sidepiece, so take advantage of that and start encouraging him to go out and doing things with you LIKE dates but don't use the word "date"/"dating".
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Get romantic with him and use love-language like "I care about you", "You're my favorite person", "you mean so much to me", "you're like the father I never jad and more" without directly using "I love you". You will start subtly influencing him if you do this.
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Learn his kinks and perfect them, if you don't outright give him new fetishes. The more you can ruin him for other partners and make him think about you and you alone, the better. The more you can make him think "this wasn't as good as when nona did it for me", the better.
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Final gambit when everything else fails, babytrapping. I won't explain how to babytrap or even fake babytrapping. It's fucked but if you really want to do it you can.
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>>28753835
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*had
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--- 28753924
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And this, everyone, is why you don’t shit where you eat.
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>>28751186
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Owns a small business id rather not say the name of and makes 70k a year
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>>28753835
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baby trapping would probably be a bad idea. the kid would grow up in a fucked up relationship which would probably end in divorce eventually anyway
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>>28753835
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>>learn his kinks
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He doesn't really have any
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>>baby trap
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I can't do that to him, I love him too much
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>>28744799 (OP)
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There are very few absolutes in life, but here is something you can bet the rent money on.
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A boss fucking an employee will never, ever, ever marry her.
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Even if he does leave his wife, he will drop you as well and look for someone brand new to start a new life with.
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>>28756857
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He left his wife long ago, they've been divorced for years that's why she wasn't in his house and would have me there overnight
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>>28755854
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This.
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I'm watching one fall apart right now, it is a horrible idea.
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>>28744799 (OP)
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Looks like just he's using you as a fuck tool if there's real romance or expression of feelings.
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Nothing is better than friends with benefits. In fact for a guy it's like hitting the jackpot.
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You're just a side peice
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>>28756857
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Mmmm disagree. I know several men who left their wives for a younger coworker and are still married in their 60s and 70s. My friends parents have done a lot of this.
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>>28757491
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ok OP how about just ask him if he wants a relationship and if not cut him off and stop being used as a cumrag
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idiot
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>>28755198
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Older female here. This is what I would do… Get busy and take care of yourself. Stop having sex with him until he takes you on a date. If he doesn’t take you on a date, end it. You seriously don’t want to get more attached to this man when it appears as though he is using you for sex. Take care of yourself and everything else will fall into place.
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>>28744799 (OP)
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>he reminds me of my dad who left us when I was a kid but he's only in his late 30s I feel like this will end badly and end up destroying me
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And that ladies and gentlemen, is the origin story of a Twitter misandrist
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>>28744821
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I feel sorry for women despite everything. Like, they are always getting uses by someone
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>>28746277
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this reads like a reddit post (you’re still right tho)
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--- 28761978
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>>28744799 (OP)
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bump
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>>28761978
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Why did you bump my thread?
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>>28759385
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What does "taking care" of yourself really mean?
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>>28745090
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Since you lack the self awareness I’ll just throw in that you’re an ugly person for this
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--- 28763651
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>>28763291
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You will never be a woman. You have no womb, you have no ovaries, you have no eggs. You are a homosexual man twisted by drugs and surgery into a crude mockery of nature’s perfection.
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All the “validation” you get is two-faced and half-hearted. Behind your back people mock you. Your parents are disgusted and ashamed of you, your “friends” laugh at your ghoulish appearance behind closed doors.
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Men are utterly repulsed by you. Thousands of years of evolution have allowed men to sniff out frauds with incredible efficiency. Even trannies who “pass” look uncanny and unnatural to a man. Your bone structure is a dead giveaway. And even if you manage to get a drunk guy home with you, he’ll turn tail and bolt the second he gets a whiff of your diseased, infected axe wound.
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You will never be happy. You wrench out a fake smile every single morning and tell yourself it’s going to be ok, but deep inside you feel the depression creeping up like a weed, ready to crush you under the unbearable weight.
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Eventually it’ll be too much to bear – you’ll buy a rope, tie a noose, put it around your neck, and plunge into the cold abyss. Your parents will find you, heartbroken but relieved that they no longer have to live with the unbearable shame and disappointment. They’ll bury you with a headstone marked with your birth name, and every passerby for the rest of eternity will know a man is buried there. Your body will decay and go back to the dust, and all that will remain of your legacy is a skeleton that is unmistakably male.
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This is your fate. This is what you chose. There is no turning back
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>>28747787
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This, I like to cuddle with my gf after cooming
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--- 28748387
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Where do i sell feet pics? Unironically i need money and i can say im pretty good looking and have nice feet too
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Can someone guide me
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--- 28748410
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We need a sample.
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--- 28748441
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>>28748387 (OP)
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Reddit
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--- 28748467
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>>28748410
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Sure but I don’t wanna get banned
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--- 28748470
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>>28748441
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Which subreddits?
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--- 28748479
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>>28748467
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|
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For feet?
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--- 28748488
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>>28748479
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Yea idk are u supposed to post that in this board lol
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--- 28748494
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>>28748488
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Yes, you can post feet here...
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--- 28748510
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Feet gets you nothing. You have to show it all to have any chance.
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--- 28748516
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>>28748494
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Ok here
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--- 28748524
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>>28748510
|
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Fuck no
|
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--- 28748536
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>>28748516
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|
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Now, I'm not a foot guy so I'm a little out of my depth, but those seem kinda deformed from wearing heels too much. Maybe it's just the pose. And those people like to see the soles.
|
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--- 28748539
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>>28748516
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Gross
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--- 28748578
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>>28748516
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not feet guy but ur feet are obviously ok, stop listening to the fags here. have seen way worse, im just not into feet
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id want to see your body and face kek, but yea its probably not morale to sell yourself
|
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--- 28748639
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>>28748536
|
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Ive worn heels maybe 3-5 times throughout all my life kek it’s just the pose >>28748536
|
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--- 28748657
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>>28748578
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I’m above average thats for sure,body is even nicer im slim and keep myself in shape,selling feet pics isn’t that bad like who cares we see each others feet all the time in every day life
|
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I would post selfies and pics clothed if it would help selling feet pics lol idc
|
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--- 28748675
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>>28748516
|
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Nice. Reminds me of my oneitis's feet.
|
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--- 28748684
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>>28748536
|
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You again? I think you just don't know what feet look like.
|
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--- 28748700
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>>28748675
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Thank you
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--- 28749319
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>>28748516
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They're cute but be warned you will have to post face. If Wikifeet has taught me anything, it's that the majority of foot fetishists love the women the feet are attached to. Pretty face + mid feet > uggo face + pretty feet. A lot of "foot" fetishists also really love legs and just see the feet as extensions of that.
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And of course as time goes on there's also the increasing chance that foot pics without a face belong to a dude. I remember worrying about that when I watched giantess videos wayyy before the trans trend got big in the mid 2010s. These days I imagine it's gotten worse, though thankfully I've cut down on coomer shit considerably.
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--- 28749329
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>>28749319
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>the majority of foot fetishists love the women the feet are attached to. Pretty face + mid feet > uggo face + pretty feet
|
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Meant to say they love the rest of the woman MORE than the feet by themselves.
|
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--- 28749647
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>>28749329
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I’ll be alr then,very confident about what i look like just don’t know where to go abt this
|
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--- 28751109
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>>28748516
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Nice arches. I'm generally a fan of bigger feet with long slender toes, but these are pretty for what they are.
|
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--- 28752793
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>>28748536
|
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>but those seem kinda deformed from wearing heels too much
|
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It's a dude/Troon.
|
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--- 28753022
|
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>>28752793
|
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Those are not male feet, you obsessed schizo.
|
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--- 28753096
|
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>>28753022
|
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>Noooo hecking noooo it's bootyful fem feet! Troons are female! Reeeeeee!
|
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No face and full body pics = male feet.
|
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--- 28754047
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>>28748516
|
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I'm a fan of high arches, but your big toes are literally too small to do anything for me.
|
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Plus what the fuck am I supposed to do with this angle? take it from the bottom looking at your soles.
|
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it's like ur taking a picture of your ass to show your pussy... the erotic part is missing...
|
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--- 28754324
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>>28748516
|
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Those are some nice feet. I'll give you 7500 for a toe
|
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--- 28754331
|
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>>28748578
|
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>but yea its probably not morale to sell yourself
|
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its not morale to be poor
|
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--- 28754413
|
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>>28748516
|
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They look nice. Never been into feet but that awakens something in me. You have another angle ? From under ? Or wearing heels ? I like the red.
|
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--- 28754428
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>>28748516
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cute toes
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i'd suck em
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--- 28754446
|
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What you look like, clothed ? Show body.
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--- 28754451
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>>28748387 (OP)
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>>28748516
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Not a footfag but yeah, I can see some people paying hefty amount for that even if you don't show face or anything but only some people manage to make it out there. I'd say you'll need to advertise a lot, and use bots and what not to get some people coming and sharing your content. I'm not well versed in this, but I'm sure with some common sense anyone can make it in onlyfans and similar websites. If you don't sound so bad then start some gaming channel, use shorts, insta. I don’t know really
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--- 28754721
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Wow samefag all bumping and worshiping its own gross looking fag-male-hooves.
|
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--- 28755119
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>>28748516
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--- 28755149
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>>28748387 (OP)
|
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Repeat after me: being a woman is life on easymode.
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--- 28755269
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>>28748516
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show another angle then i'll judge.
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--- 28755645
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>>28754047
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I have no idea how to take feet pics…my big toes are pretty normal sized why are you saying they’re small?
|
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My shoe size is 6.5
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--- 28755647
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>>28754413
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Nope sorry I don’t have any other pics,I thought I should give it a try and see what people think
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--- 28755651
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>>28754446
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--- 28755660
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>>28754451
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I really don’t know where to start,I’ve heard reddit and twitter are good
|
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I used to post face/body in both and had a shit ton of dms/followers but back then I wasn’t interested in this
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Thinking if I should just post cute pics then feet? Lol
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--- 28755677
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>>28748516
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>>28755651
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>>28755660
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Is there anything about you which is going to set you apart from all the other women who are selling the same thing?
|
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--- 28755691
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>>28755660
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>>28755677
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It might sound ridiculous but the idea is to just give them enough to keep coming back and to have something about you which can hook them up with your content. I'm not a pimp by any means, but I'm sure it's not rocket science either.
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--- 28755850
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>>28755677
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I wouldn’t know I haven’t tried yet
|
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--- 28755858
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>>28755691
|
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Good idea
|
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--- 28756644
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>>28755651
|
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cute tummy
|
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--- 28756902
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>>28748516
|
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looks like a regular picture and normal looking feet
|
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my advice would be try to take better pictures, go to pinterest and look up lighting setups(like sunlight for example) and in general learn to frame more interesting pictures if you want coomers to lose their shit, you could also create storylines or use objects that imply sexuality as well. Just snapping a phone pic of your feet without showing more isn't gonna work.
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--- 28757340
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>>28756644
|
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Thank you
|
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--- 28757346
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>>28756902
|
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Where do you suggest i post stuff like that,thats the question
|
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Which subreddits or which #hashtags ?
|
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I have a pretty cute sunset lamp
|
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Cute dresses and stuff i can show my legs in
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--- 28757535
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>>28757346
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seriously, just go to any of the websites you mentioned and observe what all of the other people who are successful, or the ones who have gained a huge following in little time are doing. they usually have linktree which has links to all of their profiles. can't spoon feed you that so sorry, but that should be pretty easy to find on twitter, even if you do all of that it's not guaranteed that you'll make it there.
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|
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if you ask me then just find a sugar daddy, or two, and threaten to expose them later when you have enough dirt on them
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--- 28758013
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>>28748516
|
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Are you a man? Those are men's feet
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--- 28758089
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>>28748387 (OP)
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Just be sure your future partner(s) don’t find out, especially the one where you invest your life in and settle down with.
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If I found out that my gf sold feet pics, I’d consider as good as any other type of whore and lose massive respect for her to the point I’d genuinely feel unable to feel attracted to her anymore. I’d end up wanting to leave, with a good odd I would.
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>>28758089
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tbqh I wouldn't be put off learning if a woman I was interested in made money off feet pics or selling dirty socks or whatever. Better than learning she has a body count in the double digits or was blacked.
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>>28758190
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its the same type of mind that does both.
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the type of woman to sell her feet or used socks is also the same mental species as the type who would fuck around.
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It tells us that a woman has no problem debasing herself so long as there is a gain she wants from it. Same shit, different expression of it.
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>>28757535
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Where do i find a sugar daddy.. I’m cute enough for that but i just don’t post myself anywhere
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Damn guys, and I thought we would never see her again after the first pic.
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>>28755645
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Don't listen to him, he's weird, big toes look weird and hardly feminine… you'll meet a lot of weirdos like him if you start posting, don't bother with them.
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>>28755647
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Please take one, that we can judge. It's quickly done. Just use a mirror, or wear heels.
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>>28755651
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Damn, what a body. I would gladly follow you. How can we find you ? Leave your future tag here.
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>>28759082
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>>28759082
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>>28759082
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>>28759082
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>>28759082
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EVERYONE LOOK AT THE SIMP AND LAUGH
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>>28748516
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Where you from ??
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Why don’t you be an OF creator this is the correct place for posting this shit and kink dudes always out there,
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What is even going on here?
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>>28756902
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Yeah he's right, you look good but this kind of picture won't get you far. You must propose better ones. You have to learn to take good photos, with good light, good pose, good clothes, and in your case, good shoes too. Or you'll just end up like all those posts with 2 upvotes drowning. Reddit has a vote system.
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When you post something, only the users browsing by "date" and not "votes" can see you, they're a really tiny part of the users. They're basically the ones who chose what buzzes or not. Most people don't do that because you got through a lot of crap, and want to see the real deal immediately.
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The socalled crap :
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FeetLoversHeaven/comments/12na87a/what_would_you_do_for_a_single_sniffoc/
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FeetLoversHeaven/comments/12nam2c/y_new_shoes_oc/
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FeetLoversHeaven/comments/12nau5n/any_feet_lovers_here_oc/
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FeetLoversHeaven/comments/12nb8um/pantyhose_oc/
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Simple feet pics posted by women, yet nobody cares about them. You have to build a little fanbase first.
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You can start building it there. My advise would be to post there some sophisticated pics in dress or with beautiful shoes, not just basic ones like those your posted above. Try to imitate picrel (picture related). Then you can be upvoted on Reddit by people here and be noticed.
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Also ymbe aware that the top posts on Reddit are the nude ones. The typical stuff seems to be women rubbing their kitty with their heel.
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>>28748516
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>>28748387 (OP)
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The women who make the most money selling feet pictures also show their body in lingerie or nude. They also show their face because if they are beautiful they get more customers. Nobody makes it off of just feet pictures. It's another sex worker trap.
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--- 28759714
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Ive posted just my face 3 times on reddit and apparently my account got 200+ followers and 1000+ upvotes
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(I took all post’s down after 3 days of posting them)
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I mostly did that bc reddit dms are mostly weird coomers or people asking for my onlyfans which I don’t have and won’t make but would i post sexy,sorta revealing stuff…probably yes
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I need to look which subreddits to post in i guess
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Whats the safest and easiest way to receive the money? (No cashapp)
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>>28759714
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>(I took all post’s down after 3 days of posting them)
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If you're grossed by some creepy DMs from weirdos, you'll have a big problem here lol. What do you think ? Girls making money that way just don't care about it. Also you'll basically prey on lonely men and profit from their emotional dependance. Better be aware of that before starting. At a certain point, ethots pay someone to answer to DMs daily to keep the fanbase appealed. Take that in consideration too. Some sites propose that.
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>Whats the safest and easiest way to receive the money?
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PayPal would be, but people get your name by giving you… You don't want that. You can falsify the name but if you want to receive money on your bank account, the name of your PayPal account must correspond to the name of the bank account. You can link no bank account to it and just use it to buy stuff on Amazon or whatever accepts PayPal, but PayPal can close your account if they smell something fishy, and you would lose all your money on it.
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Also you don't have to post porn on your OF. Some people just post some photography of nature and all. OF wasn't made exclusively for porn at first. It ended that way, just.
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Safest way to receive money is to work like everybody at the local Wallmart, or open an OF.
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Also, show us what you look in a dress with a good light.
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>>28761432
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You got me good at the last line hahaha
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>>28748387 (OP)
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If you have to sell pictures of your body parts... Maybe you are not that pretty, just sayin'
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>>28762834
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>jealous fat cunt cope
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>>28763340
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Haha, we both cope. We both in 4chan asking for advice.
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>>28763362
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I mean you’re the one coping here
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>>28763728
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Bro I'm not the one who post feet pics on 4chan
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-----
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--- 28749085
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Especially Asians in WMAF relationships where they couples are moderately attractive.
|
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--- 28749142
|
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Asian women are stupid and non-white
|
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--- 28749164
|
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>>28749142
|
8 |
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They have the highest IQs out of every females.
|
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--- 28749179
|
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>>28749085 (OP)
|
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>>28749142
|
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>>28749164
|
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Do not date SE Asians.
|
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--- 28749189
|
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>>28749179
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Why?
|
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--- 28749203
|
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>>28749164
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19 |
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People say Asians have higher IQs but reality shows that they are insanely stupid except maybe basic problem solving
|
20 |
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Ching Chong chachacha cheese chon
|
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--- 28749220
|
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>>28749189
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They are ugly ass mfs who will suck you in. They’re just searching for an ugly white sugar daddy to provide for their massive ass families. You’d be a massive simp to date one and provide for them. NE and Central Asians take the cake anyday.
|
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--- 28749247
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>>28749085 (OP)
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I never felt insecure around asian girls personally, but it might be because I've never interacted with a couple with good looking white guy and asian girl. All the WMAF couples I've seen were some fat, balding or old white dude and an average looking asian girl.
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--- 28749255
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It's unironically because Asian women are fetishized so much.
|
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--- 28749296
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>>28749247
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>fat, balding or old
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sounds like the average White male White female couple, desu.
|
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--- 28749299
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>>28749085 (OP)
|
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I don't think 9/10 stacys are losing any sleep over asians who are capped at 6/10
|
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--- 28749301
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>>28749247
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>>28749296
|
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--- 28749309
|
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>>28749255
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They probably get off to WMAF porn
|
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>>28749299
|
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I've seen it, no need to speculate.
|
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--- 28749318
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>>28749296
|
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>>28749301
|
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Oh I'm not saying that hot WMAF couples don't exist, just personally never met any so it's not something that is ever in my mind. Every hot white guy I've met IRL was dating a white girl.
|
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--- 28749322
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>>28749085 (OP)
|
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Pretty sure this is you imagining things because of your Asian women fetish.
|
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--- 28749342
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>>28749296
|
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>>28749301
|
54 |
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Race mixing is abominable. Yikes.
|
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--- 28749364
|
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No chad ever race mixes, its always weak effeminate s oy boys that look like they moderate redd it with asians, they can keep them
|
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--- 28749401
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>>28749342
|
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Bros what are my idealistic options if I'm already racemixed?
|
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Spic/white btw, not a niglet
|
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--- 28749412
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>>28749364
|
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>No chad ever race mixes,
|
64 |
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>source: I made it up.
|
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--- 28749413
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>>28749401
|
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Depends on what area you live in
|
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--- 28749460
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>>28749412
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Source is what I experienced growing up and what I see everyday in a metro area in the midwest, men are intensely race loyal here especially the chads. I can show you archived threads of non white women talking about how they felt ugly and ignored in this area but were hit on as soon as they went to a coastal city.
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--- 28749477
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>>28749401
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Take someone who is the same breed as you
|
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--- 28750305
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>>28749401
|
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Don't listen to >>28749342 you are fine.
|
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There is nothing morally wrong between couples of different ethnicities as nobody is getting harmed in any way. Nobody has ever posted any reason to view it as anything morally wrong.
|
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If extend this logic to its logical conclusion these anons are promoting incest which is much worse than anything they could say
|
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--- 28750424
|
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I am positive it's down to white women having cognitive dissonance between reality and western feminism.
|
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|
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I used to live in China and the women there were reserved in public, would have the same hang ups as most westerners (looks, money, success) but understood that being mega sluts in the bedroom was a major part of bagging a man long term and its expected for them to please a husband and become a house wife once married. White women seethe at this idea because it reinforces the truth that men mainly want them for sex and to be caretakers rather than girl-boss bread winners. Chinese women though get a lot of pressure from their parents like you wouldn't believe for having grandchildren before turning 30. With the golden ages being 23-26 if you are looking for something serious.
|
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|
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Japanese women are a con though. They are cute and reserved but fml do they get moody over the most inane of things and can really flip from being top tier wife material into utter nutbars. It's all about perception with them; they need to be able to brag about something otherwise they think the relationship is failing. It's so tedious.
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My experience with Filipino or Thai has always been that it comes with all kinds of family drama. Usually involving money.
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>>28749203
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>People say Asians have higher IQs but reality shows...
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Meanwhile, back in actual reality instead of anon's fantasy land.
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>>28750472
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I don't care who some anti white liberal funded study says is smarter. I want my kids to look like me, and so do the vast majority of white men got it?
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On average Asian women are skinnier, they age better and they have tighter pussies. Why wouldn't a white girl be insecure about that?
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>>28750708
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Because non whites can never produce white children
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>>28749296
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>>28749301
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WMAF just doesn't looksmatch. Even when they look good individually, together they simply don't blend. They always look desperate to have eachother.
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WMLF and WMBF are good matches, but for Asian women I could only looksmatch them with like middle easterners or latinos.
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>>28749203
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you know you can just buy plane ticket and experience their functioning societies
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>>28749299
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>capped at 6/10
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yea ok
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>>28750901
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What are you going on about?
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>>28749460
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middle america showing its bigotry I see
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>>28751026
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Go anywhere outside major cities and America functions just fine
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>>28750305
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>extend this logic to its logical conclusion these anons are promoting incest
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you're retarded
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>>28750708
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they actually don't have tighter pussies though they're more loose I don't know how this meme got started
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>>28751059
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yea but in asia you can go TO the major cities and everything functions fine better than fine really
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>>28749085 (OP)
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>White women insecure around attractive asians
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Wishful thinking
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>>28749164
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Ashkenazi is objectively higher
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>>28751074
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Nah they have lots of crime, poverty and degeneracy too they just don't report it. All their cities look soulless and are made for bugmen, I'm not impressed I like nature too much
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>>28750650
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I'd ask for the chud data or study that proved the other study wrong, but chuds are too low IQ to do that kind of research
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>>28749460
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People from the midwest are actually retarded, they would rather date an obese white whale than be with a white-passing mestizo that had a nice body
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>>28749085 (OP)
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I don't know but I love the salt. I've been told I only want a submissive woman because I can't handle them which was hilarious
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>>28753040
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It's funny too, because Asian women aren't even submissive
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>>28753061
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I'm with an asian muslim so I get everything thrown at us really. Maybe it's not as bad with people from eastern Asia though never dated anyone from there
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>>28751060
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Explain how I'm wrong
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>keep your race pure
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>keep your bloodline pure
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>incest
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Where is the issue in this?
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>>28749085 (OP)
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Asian women are elite. White women cannot compete.
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>>28753267
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>Asian women are elite. White women cannot compete.
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>>28752736
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Thats not true if she's white-passing and attractive she'd be popular just like any other hot white woman, this thread is talking about Asian women who look Asian, ergo not white passing
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>>28753184
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>>Asian Muslim
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You got one of them Indonesian bitches
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>>28750424
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>Chinese women though get a lot of pressure from their parents like you wouldn't believe for having grandchildren before turning 30. With the golden ages being 23-26 if you are looking for something serious.
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That was all women everywhere until relatively recently.
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>>28749085 (OP)
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You could swap the races and the same would be true. Most racemixers, especially on here, are total shitbags. Too many guys who hate non European people date, marry, and fuck Asian women or try to. I have seen a lot of guys talk about their wives or girlfriends like they aren't even people.
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>My Chinese wife
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>My Asian wife
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If they are gonna complain about non Whites then why did they have children with an Asian woman? They hate their own kids for something they caused.
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>>28755232
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>Most racemixers, especially on here, are total shitbags
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/thread
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>>28749401
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Marrying another race mixed person that is the same mix as you.
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>>28755232
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Its because they actually want a white wife and white children but they can't because they're too short, ugly and unmasculine
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>>28749085 (OP)
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>Huwhite women lose their orbiters
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>Huwhite women lose their betabux
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>>28755744
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And yet we never lose our superior genetics
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--- 28755853
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im not a woman but WMAF pairings always make me uncomfortable. its like there is something uncanny about them. i live in london and i see quite a few white men with east asian women and its pretty much always a shy non threatening guy and some above mid asian woman. its like they pick the most beta men who are not completely unattractive. one time i had a convo with a friend from work and he pointed out to me that east asians are the biggest gold diggers of them all, and if i think about, i have never seen an east asian woman with a attractive but poor white guy.
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>>28755853
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I'm in the US and what you're describing has exactly been my experience. They're always with redditor onions looking guys in the tech industry
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>>28755853
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Huh. It’s almost like not every guy is an alpha chad? But I’m sure you’re a sigma alpha giga chad though
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--- 28756182
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>>28755195
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They are many muslim countries in the west of asia
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>>28756182
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Like which ones? I've never heard of them
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>>28756174
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you do know that there are people out there called normies right? they are not shy beta boys but they are also not giga alpha chads, vast majority of people are normies anon
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>>28755853
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>im not a woman but WMAF pairings always make me uncomfortable.
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You are a woman and they make you uncomfortable because Asian women are a master race compared to toasty white roasties.
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>t, i have never seen an east asian woman with a attractive but poor white guy
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Why should you? That'd be marrying down to an extreme degree, is that something white roasties do?
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>>28756349
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do not race mix anon. you will cause your children great pain
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--- 28756463
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>>28756355
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He's not white, he's jewish
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--- 28756475
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>>28749220
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Lol you do know that you can just fuck them and not provide for them right?
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--- 28756493
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>>28755290
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What if there aren't any? Or if the other race-mixed chicks aren't attractive for me
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--- 28756597
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>>28756349
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>>That'd be marrying down to an extreme degree
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Translation: I'm a materialistic gold digging whore
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Yea thats something white women do regularly here because similar race, culture and values is more important than money
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--- 28756611
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>>28756597
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>fucking a poor criminal slob because he’s 6’0 is more noble than fucking a nice guy with money
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White whores, ladies and gents. That’s why 60% of you are sidechicks.
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--- 28756653
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>>28756597
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What are “huwhite women values” besides nihilism, hedonism, and cruelty?
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--- 28756996
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>>28756611
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Yes he is by virtue of his genetic superiority, a 6ft tall aryan will always be worth more than a 5'2 so.y boy redditor mystery meat "white" guy no matter how "nice" is which just means spineless cuck anyways
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--- 28757034
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>>28756653
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Racial purity, European culture and Christianity. I don't live in one of your disgusting liberal ethnically diverse coastal cities and where I live in a very white state in the Midwest where most people have Germanic heritage, race mixing is virtually unheard of and non white women feel ignored/ugly here.
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--- 28758416
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>>28749220
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Sounds like you were scammed by one
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--- 28758648
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>>28749179
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Made this mistake, I can also attest for this. Pretty good personality. But the skeletons in the closet were a bit much and the personalities just didn't mesh well. Long story short: untitled, gold digging, and a several absence of sophistication. Obviously not ALL SE Asians, but most from my experience. Also petty as fuck and would start drama for zero reasons.
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>>28749085 (OP)
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Same reason as Asian men are insecure about this, it triggers them. We all want to be wanted, WMAF triggers most people as it's the two most desired things coming together. Granted, I've seen ugly Asian women so it's all case by case so who really cares. At the end of the day, are you attractive? Everyone is horrible who cares.
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>>28756349
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going by that twisted logic, Asian Men have a higher IQ and earn a higher salary than White Men.
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--- 28758747
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>>28758648
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>untitled
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What? Not having a title indicating high social rank?
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>Made this mistake, I can also attest for this.
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I've dated SE Asians and have had mostly good experiences. But I also look kinda Asian. So I don't speak that Incel talk like you guys
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--- 28758831
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>>28758648
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>>it's the two most desired things
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Cope, white women are desired by every race of men in the world
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--- 28758970
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Because I am extremely beautiful and intelligent, as well as exceptionally artistic. It intimidates other competing women and bisexuals of both genders. Including African women and other Asians.
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It's just how dating is to find a successful partnership to procreate offspring. I will only date someone in my personal tastes in league so E/SE Asian/White and Native American/White only. Not my fault others are envious of fairytale like beauty.
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--- 28759026
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>>28749085 (OP)
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Asian women have different values and know the key to a happy life is to have sex with her man.
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--- 28759051
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Are they? I know I've been kinda fetishized before and probably too on guard when a white guy expresses any interest in me.
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--- 28759283
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>>28758970
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Post pic if you're so "extremely beautiful"
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--- 28759474
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>>28759283
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I've been told I'm about an 8/10. Modeling isn't much but it's something I've been scouted for many times if that helps.
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--- 28759487
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>>28759474
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It doesn't.
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--- 28759502
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>>28758970
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First you had my curiosity, now you have my interest
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--- 28759520
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>>28749085 (OP)
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I love Asians and hope everyone stops making such an issue out of racemixing. Like mind your own business and let people do what they want. I was told it was a free country
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--- 28759780
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>>28758970
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>>28759474
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Based Femanon
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--- 28759789
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>>28759520
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I'm the product of race-mixing and kinda wish I wasn't but only because I don't really fit into the culture where I live, otherwise I don't really care and ultimately it's best not to worry about it.
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--- 28760299
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>>28749085 (OP)
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Asian women are like playing a fender, at this point I have become accustomed and it's just my thing. Sure other guitars are nice, but I swear by fenders.
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--- 28760912
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i'm a white bitch and i love asian women. i think they're funny and generous and real. they also teach me all their family recipes. i have hella asian girl friends. they're extremely nice to me and i love them :) i think they're super beautiful too.
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i didn't realize white women didn't like them to a point where i almost don't really believe it.
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--- 28760948
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>>28749085 (OP)
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In what world kek? It's Asian women who have a trend of changing their entire faces to look white, not the other way around. They're the ones crying online about "Eurocentric beauty standards", no white woman is shedding tears over "Asiacentric beauty standards"
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--- 28761112
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>>28760912
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I love my little group I have with my gf and our friends too. We spend our time cooking and sharing feasts, going sightseeing cuz they are all new here or learning languages together. It's just honest fun and I'm happy I found people like me. No interest in spending all my free time watching netflix while drinking wine out of a cardboard box like the people here
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--- 28761203
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>>28760948
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Because Asian women practice “eurocentric” beauty standards better than White girls themselves, meanwhile White girls dress standards are to look like Africans with tattoos, nose piercings, tan skin, and dreads. Or they don’t have any standards at all and dress in yoga pants and a graphic t-shirt.
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--- 28761806
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>>28751153
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insufferable larping retard, put your money where your mouth is and buy 200 acres in montana for pennies on the dollar and go live there so we don't have to read your larpy edgy polcel shit anymore
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--- 28761825
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>>28761806
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>buy 200 acres in montana for pennies on the dollar and go live there
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kek, city talk. 200 is not enough to do anything in that country. 20,000 acres perhaps could hobby ranch.
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--- 28761858
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>>28761825
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don't you want to be basado and trad? go fuck off to a small area, isn't farming and shit not traditional enough since its the agricultural revolution?
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i've got 90 acres up in the rockies it's big enough for my dipshit son to get lost in, you telling me it's not enough for your faggy insufferable trad larp?
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go die from a toxic leak, rural cockroach. you fucking wiggers seriously need to be put in check
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--- 28761873
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>>28761858
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Already have my own ranch. Just saying 200 acres is nothing in montana. 200 acres in a southern state in a wetter area is not bad, but still won't have more than 50 cattle unless you decide to mini-feedlot them, and that gets expensive fast now.
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Now 200 acres chicken farm in montana could work, if you can afford a 5-10 million dollar building for them.
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--- 28761879
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>>28749085 (OP)
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Same reason black girls feel insecure around attractive Whites.
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--- 28761881
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>>28761858
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>90 acres
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>>28761858
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>dipshit son to get lost in
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Well that certainly explains the "dipshit" part of that comment. kek!
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--- 28761890
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>>28761881
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tbf it's pretty heavily wooded
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>>28761873
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who the fuck wants to grift agriculture/ranching you're just gonna get priced out of existence by spic and brazilian beef sooner or later, that's if your ranch doesn't get burned down by glowies going after our food supply
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--- 28762143
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>>28757034
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>Racial purity, European culture and Christianity. I don't live in one of your disgusting liberal ethnically diverse coastal cities and where I live in a very white state in the Midwest where most people have Germanic heritage, race mixing is virtually unheard of and non white women feel ignored/ugly here.
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holy kek the hilarity of your circular logic.
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>midwest bumble fuck is superior because its... le white!
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>has literally no cultural impact whatsoever, even on other whites
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>even experiences brain-drain and cultural defections on regional level
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wow you sure showed us pal
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--- 28762544
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>>28761890
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Thats not true, there's a huge market for local organic meat he can easily tap into it. Our state is famous for dairy and cheese and most people here buy locally because its higher quality and cheap to do so. Our state protects our farmers like you wouldn't believe, no one will ever replace them.
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--- 28762582
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>>28762143
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>>le white
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I never said anything about "white" anyone is classified as "white" in America even arabs, I said Germanic.
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>>no culture
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I'm not the Montana guy, our state has more European cultural events than any other place in the US especially for Germany and Scandinavia
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>>brain drain
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Not in this economy, millennials and Gen Z are being priced out of living in these overpriced liberal cities and are moving back to their home states en masse, most people who left the town i live in for college actually ended up returning because it was too expensive and high crime where they went.
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--- 28762686
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>>28761203 #
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Then why are they crying all over social media about them and demanding sjw changes in european countries which they have no right to be in, in the first place.
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>>dreads
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Barely any white girls have dreads, if they did they'd be cancelled on social media for cultural appropriation
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--- 28762764
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>>28749220
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>They are ugly ass mfs who will suck you in
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How did you get sucked in if they're "ugly ass mfs"?
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How did you get so weak in the knees over these "ugly ass mfs"?
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--- 28762767
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>>28762686
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These girls are disgracing their family. Asian parents are right. They should be doctors instead of doing this shit
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--- 28762769
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>>28761879
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Which black girls? Face it. All race have the pretty girls and the less pretty ones. If you're gonna say one of them are superior than the other, then you might just be a big simp.
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--- 28762779
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>>28762764
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The power of makeup
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--- 28762793
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>>28762767
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If they were real traditional women they wouldn't be dating outside of their race in the first place, they're liberated thots that vote overwhelmingly liberal everytime
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--- 28762872
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>>28762793
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They call themselves liberated but are confines by the delights of a white man. Tsk tsk tsk. What changed?
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--- 28762877
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>>28762779
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Wow, we should all start a makeup company so we all can be rich
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--- 28762883
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>>28762872
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Ah, calling them thots is an overshoot. They're weird and insecure and didn't deserve to be called thots. Thots are confident aren't like them. I mean seriously. They're embarrassing!
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--- 28763009
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>>28758970
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Yet you're in 4chan....
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--- 28763012
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>>28759474
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>I've been told
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Lol
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--- 28763029
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>>28750472
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>UK average is higher than Finland
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sussy
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--- 28763422
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>>28762883
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Thots aren't confident that's just what feminism promotes. Irl thots are deeply insecure and emotionally damaged with daddy issues thats why they have to constantly seek validation from men
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--- 28763602
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>>28759051
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What does being "fetishized" mean? Just because a guy showed interest in you physically? Give me a concrete example of being fetishized and how were you so sure of it.
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News flash, guys are visual creatures and we have sexual preferences too. I've been accused of fetishizing by white women too just because I said I like asian women. As if I'm not allowed to have a racial preference if I'm a white guy.
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--- 28763765
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>>28763602
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Ikr. I'm up for your this guy's question here.
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I'm accused of fetishizing white men, I mean what am I supposed to do? Some of them are legit handsome like Brendon Urie
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--- 28763878
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>>28759502
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huh
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>>28763009
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yes i can be pretty and waste time here too
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>>28762686
|
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mitski's music does make me cry so touché
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--- 28763914
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>>28763878
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>yes i can be pretty and waste time here too
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Based. 4chan > other social media
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--- 28763927
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>>28763602
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I'm not exactly sure if this is what you mean but this one white guy wanted me to talk in Korean when we had sex. That's weird, right?
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--- 28764010
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>>28763927
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Weird as in, anything that's not missionary sex with lights off for the purpose of reproduction? Yeah, so weird.
|
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|
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But I'm not seeing the problem. Do you hate being Korean? Do you hate speaking it? Then that would be a problem because you hate yourself. That's also quite unattractive. So maybe this particular issue with fetishizing is that you have low self esteem or you don't really love and accept yourself.
|
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--- 28764032
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>>28764010
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It just seemed like he wanted to live out some geisha roleplay.
|
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Also, that's some top tier manipulation, had me second guessing my actions.
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--- 28764051
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>>28764032
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But that's your interpretation. It's you who's associating Korean-ness with geisha stuff, and then projecting it unto the guy's thoughts. What is your own thought process there? "It had to be racist and ill-intended because he's a white guy"? You're not seeing your own prejudice here.
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--- 28764073
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>>28764051
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|
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Fine, let me consider this for a bit.
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--- 28764081
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>>28764073
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Sure, I'm right here
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--- 28764093
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>>28763927
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>>28764051
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How is there any other way to take something like that other than feeling like an alien body that makes sexy noises the other guy won't understand?!
|
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--- 28764133
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>>28763914
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it's true. i just be chillin, hoppin boards /(˃ᆺ˂)\
|
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>>28763927
|
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do you already know korean? my ex used to project me in japanese terminology.
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--- 28764136
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>>28764093
|
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Maybe he just wanted to see a genuine part of yourself, the part of being Korean. Maybe that would've lead to better intimacy, getting to know each other better in this playful way while having sex. You can understand a lot about a person while having sex even if you don't speak the same language. Sex is an universal language. The way they respond to you, the way they look at you, the nonverbal part is what sex is all about. Talking and roleplaying just adds a bit of spice to it.
|
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+
|
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+
And lastly good sex is about giving pleasure rather than getting it. That doesn't mean you allow your boundaries to be broken, but if you react in such a prejudiced manner that tells me you should probably learn better communication and building intimacy.
|
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+
--- 28764140
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>>28763602
|
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|
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+
nta but this one white guy insisted, INSISTED, that I had a “Chinese bone structure”. I'm also Korean. It's not really fetishizing strictly but more insisting that they know more about my ethnicity than I do.
|
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--- 28764161
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>>28764133
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|
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Only a little bit, and nother really sexy either. And yeh, geisha's aren't even Korean.
|
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|
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>>28764051
|
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|
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I'm still thinking on this.
|
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|
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>>And lastly good sex is about giving pleasure rather than getting it
|
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|
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Shouldn't it be a two way street?
|
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--- 28764181
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>>28764140
|
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That's pretty dumb but also could've been teasing, as in flirting. Some people go overboard with that of course.
|
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--- 28764192
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>>28764161
|
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It's already obvious that good sex is supposed to make you feel good. It's less obvious that the focus should be on the other person. The reason it's less obvious is because people are usually selfish lol.
|
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--- 28764199
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I'm probably making too big a deal of this but a white ex of mine had a yin-yang tattoo. I asked him about it once and he said he had a “spiritual connection” to Asian cultures.
|
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|
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We broke up over totally unrelated issues, it wasn't the tattoo.
|
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--- 28764210
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>>28756182
|
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Your lady may be great, but she isn't asian. India and Iraq are not asian, sorry bro.
|
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+
--- 28764225
|
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>>28764093
|
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As a White English-speaker, I can say that English sounds very coarse to me and I enjoy the sound of other languages. It’s fetishization, to be sure, but it’s universal. If he was dating an Italian, a German, a Russian, etc he’d also ask them to speak in their native languages.
|
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|
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A more pressing question is why are you talking during sex? My girlfriend just moans.
|
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--- 28764226
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>>28764199
|
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|
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Lol. This one white guy used to constantly talk about his trip to the "less popular, less developed" country of Thailand.
|
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--- 28764239
|
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>>28763927
|
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Maybe it's weird, dunno. But every women I've ever talked to likes me talking in my own language (not asian btw), is it that big of a deal. People like exotic things, non-asians are exotic to asians. It'd be the same with having an accent.
|
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But maybe your guy went about it in a creepy way.
|
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--- 28764243
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>>28764199
|
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>>28764226
|
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I don't know why people do that. I enjoy Asian material culture and will be the first to admit it in plain English, but it's not any deeper.
|
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--- 28764251
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>>28764225
|
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|
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You don't expect any dirty talk during sex, really? Oh, right, you don't like the sound of English.
|
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--- 28764263
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>>28764199
|
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|
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Chinese then?
|
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--- 28764267
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>>28764251
|
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>You don't expect any dirty talk during sex
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No.
|
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--- 28764273
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>>28764263
|
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|
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Haha, yeah.
|
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--- 28764281
|
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>>28764199
|
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Maybe he did have a connection to "Asian cultures". Spiritual or otherwise. What's so funny or weird about it? The world is more connected than ever, so why shouldn't some people choose to resonate with a culture other than they've been born into? Are we going back to tribal hate and racial segregation?
|
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--- 28764320
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>>28764281
|
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|
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That gets into the whole question of when is it cultural appropriation vs appreciation.
|
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--- 28764335
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>>28764281
|
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I think in some regards it's alright. My experience with a black woman using a negative term for asians and then chimping out when i do the same to her just weirded us out a bit.
|
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--- 28764353
|
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>>28764335
|
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+
>chimping out
|
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|
556 |
+
:)
|
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--- 28764364
|
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+
I know for a fact asians are very appearance focused and racist. So as a white woman I feel uncomfortable around asians as a rule. I know that even if I treat them normal they have an undercurrent of superiority and rudeness towards me. All asians are like this. If you aren't family they won't say any of it to your face though. They are the fakest race on the planet. So I basically am just on guard around them
|
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--- 28764365
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>>28764320
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Yeah, and the popular answer is: whenever it's a person with white skin is doing it then it's evil and ignorant and they're just trying to poke fun of other cultures. But apparently the reverse can't happen because nobody bats an eye about it.
|
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--- 28764375
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>>28764353
|
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yes :) chimping out
|
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--- 28764441
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>>28764365
|
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|
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Oh, like reverse weebs.
|
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--- 28764533
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>>28764364
|
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>for a fact
|
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>All
|
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+
waito baito gou homu
|
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--- 28764546
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>>28764533
|
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Cry more stereotypes exist for a reason
|
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--- 28764556
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>>28764441
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|
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I laugh at those guys that have random English words on their shirts all the time.
|
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--- 28764570
|
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>>28764556
|
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|
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But I do think that kinda thing is relatively harmless, yeh
|
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--- 28764736
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>>28764546
|
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I'd rather eat a dog eater than a dog fucker
|
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--- 28764980
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>>28764364
|
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From one white woman to another, I know exactly what you mean non whites hate us and are racist towards us in our own nations. And there's no getting around it, if you move out of their communities, its white flight if you move in its gentrification, if you stick to youre own culture, you're excluding them if you participate in their culture you're "culturally appropriating" no matter what you do as a white person you're racist as we can clearly see in this thread where asians think everything white people do is a racist micro aggression and "fetishization". I strongly urge you to move out of the liberal hellhole you currently reside in and come to a white midwest state, there's no greater feeling than living amongst other members of the master race.
|
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--- 28765020
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>>28764980
|
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+
>what you do as a white person you're racist as we can clearly see in this thread where asians think everything white people do is a racist micro aggression and "fetishization"
|
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+
Move out of the /adv/ liberal hellhole please.
|
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+
Also you haven't talked to a lot of asians if you haven't met any that you can be racist against and they'll happily be racist against you back, imagining them crying about "micro aggressions" feels absurd.
|
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+
--- 28765025
|
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>>28755780
|
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that was lost the second poor people stopped dying of starvation
|
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--- 28765079
|
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>>28759520
|
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>I was told it was a free country
|
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+
that was a marketing ploy
|
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+
--- 28765107
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>>28764980
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|
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I was totally understanding your side of the situation until you got to the "master race" part lol.
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-----
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--- 28749262
|
3 |
+
My parents want me to get plastic surgery to "find a man" because they think I look like a deformed retard
|
4 |
+
|
5 |
+
One time I was talking about how I started braces due to recommendation of my dentist, and my dad said in front of my boyfriend (at that time) "Good, I'll help cover it so you can be pretty"
|
6 |
+
|
7 |
+
They don't tell my siblings to get plastic surgery, just me
|
8 |
+
|
9 |
+
I don't know what to make of this. I've never had issues with my looks, but it seems like other people have issues with my looks.
|
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+
--- 28749291
|
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+
>>28749262 (OP)
|
12 |
+
Your parent(s) may likely be on the sociopathic spectrum. Do either of them have any personality disorders that you know of? I suggest you read the traits and characteristics of:
|
13 |
+
Borderline Personality Disorder
|
14 |
+
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
|
15 |
+
Antisocial Personality Disorder
|
16 |
+
|
17 |
+
And see if they describe your parents personalities. So yeah, I’m suggesting your parents are sociopaths. Because the way they treat you shows an extreme lack of empathy that should not be possible for normal people. And in cases of having a sociopathic parent, they will starve you of empathy but feed it to your siblings purposefully to torture you. Very common occurrence in families with a psycho parent.
|
18 |
+
|
19 |
+
They also use the damage they inflicted on your psyche to cause further damage. They convince you to be ugly and disgusting and claim its why you can’t find a man.
|
20 |
+
|
21 |
+
This in turn, makes you feel broken and unmotivated and your heart turn to stone, and you won’t find a man for drowning in pain. Which they then use as “evidence” of your ugliness until they’ve tied an unspeakably wicked knot in your mind and convinced you that you’re worthless.
|
22 |
+
|
23 |
+
Have you tried asking a professional for help? Or do you feel afraid to tell someone like a counsellor or therapist about your parents?
|
24 |
+
--- 28749298
|
25 |
+
left is cute, there's nothing wrong with a little eyeliner or lipstick but left is by no means unattractive
|
26 |
+
|
27 |
+
also stop plucking out your eyebrows
|
28 |
+
--- 28749303
|
29 |
+
>>28749262 (OP)
|
30 |
+
That's not normal. Have you ever heard of the concept of abusive parents having a golden child and a scapegoat? I think you're the goat.
|
31 |
+
--- 28749359
|
32 |
+
How old are you? How many boyfriends have you had?
|
33 |
+
--- 28749385
|
34 |
+
>>28749291
|
35 |
+
They're both sociopaths.
|
36 |
+
|
37 |
+
>>28749303
|
38 |
+
All of us kids were treated like shit. I don't think I am the worst treated one. I am just the one that they picked on regarding my looks.
|
39 |
+
|
40 |
+
I do think my siblings are objectively better looking, but it's another for parents to say something about it.
|
41 |
+
|
42 |
+
>>28749359
|
43 |
+
30. I've had 4. My parents only know about 1.
|
44 |
+
--- 28749499
|
45 |
+
>>28749385
|
46 |
+
>30
|
47 |
+
|
48 |
+
Yeah that's just about the time when you should consider getting plastic surgery. But I've had better experiences with the lasers. It's a laser roller they roll over your face and it helps activate the collagen deep inside or some shit. Anyway, you'll have a sunburn for a few days but your wrinkles and spots will go away over time.
|
49 |
+
--- 28749536
|
50 |
+
>>28749262 (OP)
|
51 |
+
post pic so we can see if you need it.
|
52 |
+
--- 28749551
|
53 |
+
>>28749499
|
54 |
+
Laser isn't plastic surgery. I don't have wrinkles or spots. People think I am like 22.
|
55 |
+
|
56 |
+
My parents have been talking about plastic surgery for me since I was like 10 years old. It's only recently they turned it into a "find a man" thing. None of my siblings are married either.
|
57 |
+
--- 28749627
|
58 |
+
>>28749385
|
59 |
+
>but it's another for parents to say something about it.
|
60 |
+
|
61 |
+
Right but just because they’re your parents doesn’t mean their evaluation on your looks is remotely true, especially because:
|
62 |
+
|
63 |
+
>They’re both sociopaths.
|
64 |
+
|
65 |
+
Why believe them at all?
|
66 |
+
--- 28749704
|
67 |
+
>>28749551
|
68 |
+
>30 looks like 22
|
69 |
+
If you're European or Asian, that's something I can believe but not Amerimutt.
|
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+
|
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In any case it just sounds like they're worried about you because you're single and 30 and the empty egg carton meme. Same with your siblings, they just want grandchildren. My parents are like that too, it's perfectly normal for them to freak out and suggest nonsense like surgery. Though, you will have a harder time finding a man in your 30's, and it only gets harder and harder with every passing year, despite what feminism might tell ya.
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>>28749704
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Horrible advice and fuck yourself for normalising domineering parenting from what OP has already pointed out was sociopathic parents who abuse their own kids.
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>>28749627
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No I am saying it’s particularly cruel for parents to tell me I am ugly compared to if someone else did
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>>28749262 (OP)
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What exactly do they think is ""Ugly"" about you? I bet you're a lot more attractive than they think you are, and they're fucking up your self image by treating you this way.
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Also, the thing that's fucked about this is that if they're saying this so that you can "Find a man", they're retarded. All men have different preferences. What are you going to do if there's some guy whose out there that really does like you the way you are, and then you change it? For example, I'm obviously a 10/10 perfect macho chad, and I STRONGLY prefer the woman on the left in your OP image. The "After" picture looks angular and gross. The "Before" picture looks soft, feminine, and pretty. She looked like a WIFE before, now she looks like some bitch from a commercial in the after image.
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Tell your parents, in no mixed terms, to fuck off. Tell them that they're rude and gross for ever saying shit like this.
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Also, post an example of someone that looks similar to you, and I'll tell you HONESTLY whether I think you would need plastic surgery. FUCK, WAIT, HOLY SHIT! I forgot to mention, I work in the surgical field. Like 100% foreal, I'm a sterile surgical tech, and I prep the instruments used in surgeries, and let me tell you, THAT SHIT DOES NOT ALWAYS WORK OUT. While there have been huge advancements in cosmetic surgeries in the past decade, when it goes wrong it goes REALLY wrong. (Shit, I should have led with that, looking back.)
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>>28749865
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He wants me to get my eyes, nose, and jaws done.
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My dad wanted to send me to one of his doctor friends for plastic surgery because he'll give him a discount. Then he said he could find a young doctor to marry me who would financially support me, even though I never said anything about wanting to be married or dating. I don't talk about dating or romance with my dad, his own marriage is nothing to aspire to. He just brings up out of the blue "just find a guy who you think can give you what you want, and you can give him what he wants. That's what marriage is"
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>>28750850
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That's really gross though. Your parents should try to push you to aspire to be something other than just a wife... Are you 3rd worlder? Does your family come from a nasty country? Are they gross normies?
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Why do they want your eyes, nose, and jaw done? What do they think is wrong with them?
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>>28751033
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>Why do they want your eyes, nose, and jaw done? What do they think is wrong with them?
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They're Korean.
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--- 28752251
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>>28750850
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Let me guess. Asian family too?
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--- 28752380
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>>28749359
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just wondering why does it matter how many boyfriends she's had? i just wonder because i'm in a somewhat similar situation to op
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>>28749704
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fag
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--- 28752552
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How ugly are you, exactly? Because either you're vain and fishing for compliments or you really do need surgery.
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>>28749262 (OP)
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it's not their lives, its your life, move out of ur parents home, then they cant say anything anymore, threaten to give a blowjob to your boyfriend infront of your parents if they demand you change your face
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>>28752552
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how is she fishing for compliments if theres no picture of her
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>>28749262 (OP)
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Your parents sound horrible. I would disregard everything they say. You were not bullied by anyone else for these 'grotesque' looks? If so don't worry and don't change a thing.
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--- 28753743
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>>28752380
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because /adv/ gotta decide if she's a whore
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--- 28754311
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>>28749262 (OP)
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>My parents want me to get plastic surgery to "find a man" because they think I look like a deformed retard
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Can't stop laughing. Is it really needed to read further ? Is OP asking how she must severe bonds with them ?
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>>28751197
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Ok that's explains it all. Korea just considers plastic surgery like a gift you pay yourself after obtaining your diplom lol. + asian family = find someone and get a job or you don't exist.
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Listen, OP. Surgery is shit. We aren't Hollywood stars. Everybody is ugly, that's normal. Ugly people marry ugly people. That's it. Also, modifying your face won't give your features to your child. They will have the traits you had before surgery lol. We all know that story of the chinese man who sued his wife for hidden surgery and won.
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But yeah anyway, that's no normal behavior for parents. 30 is late, you should take your distance with them ASAP and try to be surrounded by more healthy persons. You should have done this way earlier.
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--- 28754546
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>>28753287
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>You were not bullied by anyone else for these 'grotesque' looks? If so don't worry and don't change a thing.
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Actually I wasn't. I was made fun of for other stuff, but I was mostly left alone.
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>>28754363
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I actually stopped talking to them for 6 years. I only came back into their life to see a relative before he died.
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>>28749385
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>30.
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If you want to get married to a decent guy you better vamoose, sister
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>>28749291
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Stop trying to play internet psychologist on an anonymous one-sided account. All you are doing is contributing to the stigma against those with mental health conditions and making a worse environment for mental health
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--- 28754610
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>>28749262 (OP)
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What kind of trauma did the woman in that pic go through to make her think she should get plastic surgery?
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--- 28754678
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>>28749262 (OP)
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right just fixed her eyebrows and hair and got tanned
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you guys are retarded
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this is messed up
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--- 28754855
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>>28749385
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>I've had 4. My parents only know about 1.
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You should probably tell them you are capable of dating and about the ones you hid from them because of their diagusting behavior.
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--- 28754897
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>>28749262 (OP)
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Listen, it does not matter what you look like. Even the ugliest people on this planet get into relationships. Your parents are wrong and projecting onto you. While being more attractive can get you benefits in life, altering your face or body can not only make you want your old face back but put you in positions you don't want to be in.
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There is nothing wrong with the way you look, is it better to be in a relationship with someone who accepts what you look like as opposed to you after plastic surgery.,
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--- 28754930
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>>28754897
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I think I've been single all these years because I haven't met someone compatible with me. I am very peculiar.
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And you're right.
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--- 28755270
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>>28749262 (OP)
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doo doo asshole
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doo doo asshole
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poo poo shitty pajeet
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poo poo shitty pajeet
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pajeet shits in the street
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pajeet shits in the street
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pajeet is made of poop
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pajeet is made of poop
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because poop is pajeet
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and pajeet is poop
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rupee dupee pajeet
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pajeet need to wash his sheet
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because pajeet did not poop in the street
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he unfortunately pooped on his sheet
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pajeet oh pajeet
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pajeet oh pajeet
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now sangeeta's gotta wash your sheets
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cuz pajeet diarrhea'd in his sleep
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beware the diarrhea'ing pajeet
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--- 28755391
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Oof. I have family like that. I'm an only child but watched them do that to my cousin, who was a very striking person before she shaved away her sharp features. She also got big implants since the last time I saw her and it just made me sad.
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>>28750850
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Hell. Fucking. No. Even IF you wanted something done, you find your own guy. The upscale surgeons are generally worth the money.
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Honestly, though? Your family sucks. What assholes. Ignore them, live your life with your natural features. Guys can get weird and judgey about women having plastic surgery, anyway, so no winning even in the unlikely case you're on the plain side.
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--- 28756401
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Bump
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--- 28756871
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>>28755391
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>I'm an only child but watched them do that to my cousin, who was a very striking person before she shaved away her sharp features. She also got big implants since the last time I saw her and it just made me sad.
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Her own family wanted her to get implants?
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--- 28757361
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>>28754605
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Stigma against who? What mental health conditions in particular? You mean personality disorders? Everything I listed of them is true. It’s the whole point to their disorder.
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They are manipulative, abusive, machiavellian, melodramatic, grandiose and narcissistic.
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Yes, everyone can commit these nasty traits in life.
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‘normal’ people grow out of it by their teens, and rarely commit it. Maybe 5% of their life is made up of it. People with personality disorders? It’s 90% of their life—it’s their ‘default’ mode to be abusive and manipulative.
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Stating facts isn’t stigma.
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--- 28757951
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You look like a slut on right
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--- 28758153
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>>28750850
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>>28751197
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lol, yeah, disregard anything these people have to say. don't take it to heart and just go forth and live your normal life. maybe get a little therapy to talk through the weird shit they've said to you over the years that you've unknowingly internalised before you were old enough to understand it was retarded.
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>>28749712
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controlling behaviour isnt wrong if it is correct
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thats called steering in the right direction
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--- 28758240
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>>28757361
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pretending facts exists in psychology proves that you have no idea what youre talking about
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you either honestly believe it, or maliciously
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either way, youre retarded
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--- 28758248
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>>28758231
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Op is 30. Who the hell feels entitled to parent a 30 year old?
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And how is surgically chopping at her face tissue an issue of behaviour retard?
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--- 28758269
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>>28758240
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You’re the retard. Facts do exist in psychology.
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Fact: People with OCD always have compulsive thoughts
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What? You gonna tell me not every person with OCD has obsessive, compulsive thoughts?
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When you state the descriptors of a disorder, its because you are describing a disorder. If the descriptors are subjective, then disorders dont exist. And yet they do.
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--- 28758325
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>>28758248
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theyre right to want to prolong looks when they fade
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youre doing something very wrong when you arent married at 30, a little more time could be enough to figure out what
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--- 28758336
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>>28758269
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name one quantifiable psychological study
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pro tip: there are NONE
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--- 28759765
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>>28757951
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thats not her anon
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--- 28759831
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>>28749385
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> 30
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You have maybe 5 years before you become invisible to men. Whatever plans you have for having a family you should put into progress very soon. You are already too old for me.
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--- 28759835
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>>28758336
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oh you made this so fucking easy.
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7370844/
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>>28752380
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>ust wondering why does it matter how many boyfriends she's had?
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because if she's had none then she may be repulsive, but if she's had some then there are probably redeeming features.
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--- 28760083
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>Americans give woman shitty natural selection advice, the thread
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Your parents are looking out for you and you should aspire to the highest beauty standards that money can buy you just like everyone else in this country does even though they lie about it constantly.
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>>28760083
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They want me to look like this
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Asian standards but a no in the west
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They think Lucy Liu is ugly
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>>28760475
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That's a pretty woman.
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Maybe not what's considered conventionally attractive but it would be found attractive here.
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If a guy thinks that's ugly because it doesn't have those ugly puffed out "DSLs' he's not a guy worth marrying anyways.
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>>28759853
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Most women are fuckable
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>>28760475
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Meh
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--- 28763303
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>>28759835
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how is this replicable :DDDDD
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--- 28763408
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>>28749262 (OP)
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Lucky. I wish my parents supported me in getting plastic surgery because I actually do look like a deformed retard and they wanna deny that to my face. They're just lying to themselves.
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Are your parents Asian or something? What does your boyfriend think about this?
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--- 28763590
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>>28749262 (OP)
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>my boyfriend
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Sounds like you don't need any help finding men.
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--- 28763920
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Left looks somewhat cuter to me
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--- 28764357
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>>28760475
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so your parents want you to look like anime?
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>>28764357
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Her head would be way too small for it to look anime.
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--- 28751376
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how can I talk to girls without seeming like a creep?
|
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--- 28751385
|
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start by keeping your hands off your dick, the ENTIRE time tardo
|
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--- 28751386
|
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You're supposed to smile
|
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--- 28752442
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJUhShVcfms [Embed]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMsTke0Fo5g [Embed]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hbAECB1JT7I [Embed]
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https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-not-be-creepy-guy
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--- 28753059
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>>28752442
|
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What the fuck is with this type of content? Something very off about it
|
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--- 28753108
|
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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+
Rule 1: be attractive
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|
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Rule 2: be unattractive
|
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--- 28755129
|
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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put your cock away
|
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--- 28755311
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>>28751386
|
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Yeah. This. Be jovial. Remember it's not that serious.
|
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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+
By mentally not caring if you come off as creepy or not. Every physical mannerism naturally stems from that mindset.
|
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--- 28755704
|
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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+
From my experiences the main issue is I cared too much and it made me really nervous.
|
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(like going to a job interview).
|
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+
You need to learn to relax and not care about the outcome of the the interaction.
|
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+
You are a person, the girl you're talking to is a person.
|
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+
Best they can do is reject you,
|
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+
if they're the nasty type and want to humiliate you that's on them, not you.
|
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+
Having a good amount of self worth also helps blocking out the negative comments.
|
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They can say the vilest shit to you and you just don't get irritated by any insult they throw at you - that's fucking sexy.
|
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--- 28756766
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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+
by just talking
|
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yeah, i struggle with that too
|
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--- 28756772
|
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+
Do you wanna talk to them or pick them up?
|
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--- 28757857
|
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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Just don't objectify them, and speak to them as if they are somebody with genuine interests like you are. It's creepy to girls when you're preoccupied with the idea of having sex with them. Women can sense that you think this way with your body language.
|
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|
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It could also be your behavior, like staring too much messes with all girls, prolonged eye contact. You're not Bo Burnham, so don't try that. Be sure to be present in the room, it's easy to get spacy when you're around girls, and it's a sign you're probably not ready for dating. You need to have female friends first, and the way you do this, is by joining clubs and spending time with other women whom have the same purpose as you. You'll find, outside of a romantic context, women act like guys with tits, very practical and objective, and oftentimes straight to the point. If you want to get to know a girl, reach out build some bridges, common interests, reasons for being together, and the feelings surrounding those obligations and desires. She wants to feel special as you do when you're obsessive about meeting said girl, so share your love(but don't have sex until marriage).
|
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|
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+
Most Women masquerade as romantics, but they're secretly pragmatic, and for most men, it's the opposite.
|
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+
--- 28758083
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>>28757857
|
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>Women can sense that you think this way with your body language.
|
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Can you elaborate on body language?
|
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--- 28759235
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>>28757857
|
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>but don't have sex until marriage
|
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--- 28759263
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>>28751376 (OP)
|
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Practice. You only seem like a creep because you lack confidence in yourself. Once you put yourself out there and realize that the majority of women are pretty approachable you'll get better
|
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>>28757857
|
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>Women can sense that you think this way with your body language
|
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+
Lies. Been talking to this girl for a few months and we hang out regularly and she made it pretty clear that she thinks I only see her as a friend kek.
|
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--- 28759353
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>>28759263
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She's just saying that to lull you into a false sense of security. Oldest trick in the book.
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--- 28759375
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>>28759353
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For what purpose?
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--- 28759388
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>>28759375
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To vet out his true feelings. I've done it myself.
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--- 28760287
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>>28751376 (OP)
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You're only creepy if they don't like you, women treat everyone differently. Women can sense if you're horny, must act like they can't tell, but they love the attention. Best advice is be on your purpose and don't be pushy. Make the interaction organic, clear motives, avoid most college girls especially in liberal arts. Women love drama and will blow you asking someone out to dinner as sexual harassment. I know it's happened to me. So yeah, avoid the gossipy bitches. It's 50/50, people say I'm creepy, people say I'm handsome.
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--- 28760640
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>>28751376 (OP)
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Show them your flaccid penis so they know they have nothing to fear and you're not planning on raping them
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>>28758083
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What I mean is, make sure you're standing upright, chin up, relaxed, calm, yet focused, you make proper eye contact, turn your body to face her completely, nod, smile, and gesture to her that you're listening as she speaks to you, while not interrupting her, as women hate being interrupted or talked probably as much as you do.
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>>28759235
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Yes, fornicating, homosexuality, and masturbation just brings you misery.
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>>28759263
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I didn't say ALL women. I merely implied many women are greatly intuitive and capable of being in tune with their surroundings. Not all women are that aware though.
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>>28751386
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When I try to force a smile it comes off as a grimace
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-----
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--- 28751403
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>likely schizoid (?) foid with 0 social skills
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>too masculine to be considered cute and so distanced from my gender women feel as alien as men do
|
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>female so will never have the benefits of being the man
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finishing highschool in a few months and have no plans for my future. i don’t have a single friend, can’t look at people without getting scared, nothing is as enjoyable as it used to be and nothing excites me. parents keep on saying that i’ll be a neet and putting me down before i even get a chance to look for a full-time job, have a part-time job at a cafe but my social retardation visibly puts everyone off. don’t think i’m an aspie but definitely have something going on up there, probably schizoid personality disorder. i’ve looksmaxxed and am thin but i’m fairly low tier, maybe not straight up ugly but middling between unattractive and plain. i don’t know what to do because there is no support i can turn to, parents are making me get a job because college would be a waste with me, don’t know what to do with my life. probably infertile too but i wasn’t going to start a family anyway. what is there to do? i’ve been planning to overdose on whatever pills i can find if i leave school and can’t find a job, and i don’t even want one anyway. i don’t want to do anything other than sleep.
|
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|
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reposted from last night because i fell asleep early and the thread died
|
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--- 28751415
|
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>>28751403 (OP)
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|
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Filian?
|
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--- 28751419
|
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>>28751415
|
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>Filian
|
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+
what?
|
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--- 28751699
|
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>>28751403 (OP)
|
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Have you considered drugs? I suggest drugs and/or alcohol
|
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--- 28751724
|
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>>28751699
|
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no, never. my mother is a drinker and it makes her nasty. i'm not in contact with anyone outside of my family and am very sheltered so i wouldn't know where to get drugs anyway
|
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--- 28751859
|
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+
What do you want in life?
|
26 |
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A boyfriend?
|
27 |
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Someone that loves you?
|
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+
--- 28751888
|
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>>28751859
|
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i suppose i want to keep on doing my hobbies but they lack the same spark that they used to, and nothing else can fill that hole. i would like a boyfriend but i can't imagine myself in a relationship with even the most maladjusted man so it's off the table.
|
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--- 28751916
|
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>>28751888
|
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Losing interest in hobbies is a common symptom of depression, I’d recommend dating Vitamin D3 supplements and doing cardio to fight off depression.
|
34 |
+
Femanon I’m sure there is someone out there for you, don’t give up on looking for a relationship.
|
35 |
+
And you should go to community college, likely there is a way to go there for free, take general ed classes if you don’t know what you want to do yet.
|
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+
--- 28751923
|
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>>28751916
|
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I’d recommend taking vitamin D3*
|
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+
--- 28751924
|
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+
>>28751403 (OP)
|
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Idk sista but whatever you do, don't eat those shitty fruit snacks
|
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+
--- 28751932
|
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>>28751916
|
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thank you for the advice. i take b12 supplements already so getting some d3 ones shouldn't be too much of an issue. i think it comes down to me viewing myself as lesser and thus never ready for a relationship, which i need to work on. again, thank you for the advice.
|
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--- 28751977
|
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>>28751932
|
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+
>i think it comes down to me viewing myself as lesser and thus never ready for a relationship, which i need to work on.
|
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+
You need to stop talking about yourself negatively to yourself, never put yourself down it destroys your self esteem and self confidence.
|
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+
--- 28752079
|
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+
>>28751977
|
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thank you. i am kind of retarded lol but i'm trying to be nicer to myself without becoming too soft. generally i am fairly stoic and hard on myself so i'm trying to ease up on that.
|
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+
|
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>>28751924
|
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tempted to eat one right now
|
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--- 28752107
|
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>>28752079
|
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Yeah I have the same problem so I get it.
|
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--- 28753068
|
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+
bump
|
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+
--- 28755413
|
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>>28753068
|
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+
--- 28755433
|
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Insert me shilling myself as also lonely and a male
|
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+
--- 28755437
|
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+
>>28751403 (OP)
|
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+
Get some sleep, and when you wake up, get out of bed and start moving.
|
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+
--- 28755448
|
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>>28751403 (OP)
|
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>>female so will never have the benefits of being the man
|
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+
|
71 |
+
What benefits?
|
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+
--- 28755461
|
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>>28755448
|
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cock and balls
|
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+
--- 28755471
|
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>>28755448
|
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Y'know the benefits real men get
|
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--- 28755680
|
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>>28751403 (OP)
|
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+
Wave a magic wand. Create the life you want in 10 years. Will you be married or single? What SORT of job (Don't be too specific, but office/store/factory/whatever)? Where live? What hobbies? What sorts of friends?
|
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+
|
82 |
+
Now, what has to happen between now and then for you to get there?
|
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+
|
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+
Start the journey with Step One.
|
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+
--- 28757013
|
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>>28755437
|
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+
i don’t really get it but ok i will
|
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>>28755680
|
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+
thank you very much.
|
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+
>>28755448
|
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+
if i was a man i’d probably not be as physically weak and have a chance to maybe join the army if all else fails (i’m too small to do any sort of physical labor) but most of all i probably wouldn’t feel the disconnect between my more masculine mannerisms and personality and how alienated i feel to other women because of it. also i feel like i’m wasting my gender by not doing anything with it and being all feminine and cute (i’m not) when you have troons getting mutilated for a chance to be even considered as female
|
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--- 28757023
|
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+
>>28755471
|
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|
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nta but I don't actually understand where you're going with this.
|
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--- 28757031
|
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>>28757013
|
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+
|
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+
So you're a tomboy?
|
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+
--- 28757035
|
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>>28757013
|
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+
|
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Do you have much experience with makeup?
|
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--- 28757808
|
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+
>>28757031
|
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+
kind of? i have a lot of male mannerisms and personality traits (typical social retard but not cute, just painfully awkward), more than female ones. i want to be more feminine, but it would just be an act and come off as awkward.
|
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>>28757035
|
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a bit. i’ve worn it alone in my house and liked how it looked but i wouldn’t dream of wearing it outside. it’s like making myself open for bullying by making it obvious that i want to look nice. i just wear loose t-shirts that look low-effort because they are and if people start to make fun of me, then i can say 'well, i didn't really try anyway'.
|
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--- 28758589
|
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+
bump
|
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--- 28759256
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>>28757013
|
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>also i feel like i’m wasting my gender by not doing anything with it and being all feminine and cute (i’m not)
|
114 |
+
Most women today aren't feminine whatsoever so no need to feel like a special case in that regard.
|
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--- 28759261
|
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+
>>28758589
|
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+
--- 28759522
|
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>>28757808
|
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+
do you realize how much everyone on this board wants to fuck you?
|
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+
--- 28759535
|
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>>28757808
|
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+
|
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Consider just using something simple like concealer, just to even out the skin tone.
|
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+
--- 28759543
|
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+
>>28757808
|
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>it’s like making myself open for bullying by making it obvious that i want to look nice.
|
127 |
+
|
128 |
+
Wait, what? People can think like this?
|
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+
--- 28759602
|
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>>28759522
|
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+
a bit but the chances of running into someone who uses 4chan in real life are zero to none
|
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>>28759535
|
133 |
+
i use foundation when my skin gets bad, but that rarely happens anymore, but thanks.
|
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>>28759543
|
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+
yeah, and i don't know how to stop thinking like this.
|
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--- 28760702
|
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+
>>28759261
|
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+
--- 28760712
|
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+
>>28760702
|
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+
|
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+
That's just lazy, anon.
|
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--- 28761060
|
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+
>>28760712
|
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+
sorry
|
145 |
+
i am being very lazy today
|
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+
--- 28761084
|
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+
>>28751403 (OP)
|
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+
>is female
|
149 |
+
>uses incel terms
|
150 |
+
yeah you're really retarded. are you a transwoman?
|
151 |
+
|
152 |
+
>no plans for my future
|
153 |
+
yeah that's literally nobody's responsibility but yours. people are available to help but they can't make you be a human.
|
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--- 28762849
|
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+
bump
|
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--- 28762862
|
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+
>>28761084
|
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+
no i’m bio but can’t really stand how soft most of the internet is so i prefer to lurk on 4chan and hence have adopted some of the slang. a lot of my interests are more typically only what men like
|
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+
|
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>they can’t make you be a human
|
161 |
+
not what i’m asking for help with though, i was just asking what should i do with my life and if it’s even worth trying to change at this point
|
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--- 28762864
|
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+
>>28751403 (OP)
|
164 |
+
It'll be alright. As you can see by the replies, people are sympathetic and rooting for you to succeed and will support you if you ask.
|
165 |
+
Go to college. Get a degree in whatever interests you most. The environment will help you get more social contact and the intellectual stimulation and structure can help.
|
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+
--- 28763491
|
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+
>>28751403 (OP)
|
168 |
+
>female so will never have the benefits of being the man
|
169 |
+
please tell me about these benefits I've been missing out on. where THE FUCK are the benefits.
|
170 |
+
but in all seriousness, stop overthinking, stop browsing 4chan, stop embracing isolation, stop with the blackpills. in other words, become a normie. just get the fuck off this site and never look back. you're only 18, no one knows what they want to do coming out of highschool, but you'll be just fine getting a job and getting some well needed REAL LIFE social interaction. you're probably not ugly and honestly men would date a slug at this point if it was nice and caring enough to them. its not too late to change. dont kill yourself idiot
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-----
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--- 28752496
|
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Is 30 years milestone purely arbitrary or does it mean something?
|
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+
For example, once you become a wizzard the chances to get a GF will fall drastically both for psychological and biological reasons
|
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+
--- 28752533
|
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>>28752496 (OP)
|
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+
I always assumed 30 was chosen because it’s a pretty big milestone and if you haven’t had sex by then, by simple extrapolation, there really isn’t a reason why you’d have sex after it. By that point you have passed or are passing your physical prime and your mind has finished maturing/crystalizing.
|
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+
I guess it is still somewhat arbitrary, but I’ve got 4 years to go and firmly believe that I’ll die a virgin
|
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+
--- 28752597
|
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>>28752533
|
11 |
+
That was all bullshit lol
|
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+
--- 28752642
|
13 |
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>>28752597
|
14 |
+
>all
|
15 |
+
Can you be more specific and explain?
|
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+
--- 28752912
|
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+
>>28752496 (OP)
|
18 |
+
As a 31yo virgin let me offer some insights. Normal people spend their 20's just living their lives, having fun, partying, trying tons of new things and meeting tons of new people. Normal people don't just have sex once in their 20's either. Some spend their entire 20's sleeping around and end up fucking dozens or even hundreds of girls. Others choose not to do that and instead have committed relationships.
|
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+
|
20 |
+
Even if they go the committed relationship route and never have casual sex, you're 20's is 10 fucking years. When you're 20 you're stupid and don't really know who you are or what you want in life so chances are the relationships you do have won't last and you'll have at least 2-3 serious relationships in your 20's.
|
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+
|
22 |
+
By 30 you're supposed to have shit figured out. You're supposed to have an established career and hopefully have a house or be planning to buy a house in the very near future. If you were a party animal in your 20's and/or slept around you're supposed to be looking for a committed relationship by this time and you should have decided whether or not you want to have kids.
|
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+
|
24 |
+
Then you have losers like me. I run my own consulting business and I make a decent living but I haven't had friends or had a personal conversation with non-family members in over a decade. Since Coronavirus I don't even go out anymore. I get my groceries and everything else delivered. I own a house but I can barely afford to keep up the maintenance on it. I have a paid off car but it's 10+ years old. None of my clients would ever think I'm as weird as I am. I have zero prospects of dating or having a relationship because I just genuinely don't like people. For all intents and purposes I'm a hermit and will probably die a hermit.
|
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--- 28752961
|
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>>28752533
|
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+
What about if I've already had sex but I'm still only working dead end jobs at 30? Haha,asking for a friend ofc. He says things aren't feeling too punk rock anymore.
|
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+
--- 28752989
|
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+
>>28752912
|
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+
Cont:
|
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+
|
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You have to be really fucked up to still be a virgin at 30. If you've lived life at all then sex and relationships are just a natural part of life. Even if you're awkward or weird at least someone would have wanted to fuck in the last 10+ years. The cutoff being 30 makes sense just because you've had 10+ years to live life, put yourself out there, and interact with people and if no one has wanted to fuck then there's something major wrong with you.
|
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|
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+
The thing is most 30yo virgins are 30yo virgins because they DON'T put themselves out there. You can't just do nothing but sit at your computer every day and expect a virgin girlfriend fall out of the sky and land on your dick. It doesn't work that way.
|
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|
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+
And by 30 you should have reached all these milestones in life. If you haven't even had sex then there's obviously something seriously wrong with you. The red flat isn't that you're a 30yo virgin. The red flag is that you're so fucked up that you haven't put yourself out there enough for you to naturally lose your virginity. Let me put it this way. If you had a head injury and went into a coma at 15 and didn't come out of your coma until 30, being a 30yo virgin isn't a big deal. It's not the virginity but the circumstances that led to someone being a 30yo virgin that are the problem.
|
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--- 28753155
|
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>>28752989
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Is 30 years milestone purely arbitrary or does it mean something?
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For example, once you become a wizzard the chances to get a GF will fall drastically both for psychological and biological reasons
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So it's basically snowball effect: the importance of the lack of experience will grow more and more with the passage of time to the point that it will nearly impossiblie to stop the avalance?
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--- 28753234
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>>28753155
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>Is 30 years milestone purely arbitrary or does it mean something?
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NTA but it is purely arbitrary, it's just when the number rounds up.
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I mean most dudes will also be all "oh no! I'm so heckin old now!" when they turn 25, and then probably again when they turn 27.
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30 years is just the age where people start to meme that they're actually old maybe if you smoke drink and do drugs but anyone taking care of themself won't feel that different from a 20 year old
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there's no reason that turning older makes you less likely to get a girlfriend it could make you more likely just use your 20s wisely if you aren't going to have sex come out with a car career 401k some stocks bitcoin some skills languages it's not like sex means much
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>>28753155
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>Is 30 years milestone purely arbitrary or does it mean something?
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It's arbitrary in the sense that it doesn't make much difference if you're a 28yo virgin or a 32yo virgin. 30 is just a nice round number that means you have at least 10 years experience out in the real world. If you don't have your shit together at 28, it's not that much worse to not have your shit together at 32.
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For what it's worth, it's the same thing when it comes to being 40 and not having your shit together. Being a 38yo loser is just as bad as being a 42yo loser because by this point you should have 20 years of adult experience under your belt.
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>So it's basically snowball effect: the importance of the lack of experience will grow more and more with the passage of time to the point that it will nearly impossiblie to stop the avalance?
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Absolutely. There might not be much difference between being a 28yo virgin and a 32yo virgin but there's a huge difference between being a 30yo virgin and a 40yo virgin.
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At some point you just have to give up and accept the fact that you're not normal. You might be able to lie your way into a relationship by trying to act like a normal person and lying about still being a virgin but that won't help you. The problem is you're a square peg trying to fit into a round hole. Eventually you have to accept that you won't fit no matter how hard you try.
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--- 28754112
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it's arbitrary, however, it serves as good metric. It holds biological significance, and it serves as a good marker for life progress. every person is on a biological clock. at 30, you can no longer rely on that naive sense of hope that youth brought you that things might improve, which paralyzes you to inaction. you are on a limited timeline to get a family, have kids, etc. Your body won't necessarily start declining, but you aren't at the peak performance of your youth physically any longer.
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If you've never been in a relationship, you cannot dally for years as you try to find the right "one" at 30. That goes doubly true for women, as the biological clock runs a bit sooner for them if they want to have kids. At that point, you should be getting ahead in your career as well. Many start realizing their years adrift, jumping from job to job, chasing greener pastures has resulted in little. The pastures are almost never green, and it's just getting tiresome chasing things that bring no fulfillment. Most will have finished most of their schooling, with the exception of some getting their grad degrees or finishing up further studies. You start losing your friends around that age too, as they get busy with their own families. The main thing is you are no longer forced into new circumstances in which you might meet new people. You aren't thrown into circumstances like having random roommates and things anymore. This means you pretty much get stuck on whatever path you were going, the older you get. You build up momentum, and it's harder to change course.
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30 is just a decent metric, as your opportunities to improve your situation are dwindling past that age. You don't have the benefit of youth, and your options are closing off for various reasons. The biological reality of your age sets in.
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>>28752496 (OP)
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Guy I‘m 43, with 30 I was a young stupid boy, about to marry.
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You have no idea what you‘re able to learn in the years coming. Also, as men don‘t hit the wall that hard, I basically look the same, just more muscles, and a little grey hair on the sides. I‘m able to talk to any woman I want, not shy anymore. At work it‘s me who tells the bosses what to do cuz I‘ve got the experience.
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I think true wizard status comes w 50.
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--- 28756171
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>>28754961
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>with 30 I was a young stupid boy, about to marry.
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So you had experience prior to hitting 30?
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>>28754961
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men don't reach their peak SMV until 65 nowadays
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>>28754034
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>trying to peddle blackpill BS at the end
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Just jump, dude
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>>28756585
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--- 28759016
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>>28752496 (OP)
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at 30 you are no longer a young adult. You finished highschool, college, were in the workplace for a few years. Most people by that age are married and/ or have kids.
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If you're a wizard by then, you're probably never going to have sex without paying.
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--- 28759501
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>>28752496 (OP)
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Learn seduction, pick up a whore and fuck her. It's really that simple.
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>>28752642
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>>28752533
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NTA but the mind finishing maturing/crystalization is not a catch-all for one.
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Past 25 your mind being fully grown isn't true btw.
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> there really isn’t a reason why you’d have sex after it.
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Explain PHD students. I'm sure a few of them now have time to address the horny or have kids. This is shortsighted thinking.
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Don't make excuses just cause you're over the hump. Start grinding, not for sex but for a better life.
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--- 28760980
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>>28759501
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Biologically speaking you will lose virginity but what about psycholigical aspect?
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A hooker won't fill the gap in your romantical experience necessary for the normal relationship
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--- 28761175
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>>28759501
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>Learn seduction
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Just play a character bro.
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>>28760980
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Then would you say that a 30yo virgin and a 30yo guy who has only had sex with prostitutes are about the same thing? Because I'll probably be the latter in a few years.
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>>28761175
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I don't know... it depends whether you want a reletionship or not
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>>28752496 (OP)
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I think it comes from a saying of Confucius that if a man hasn't achieved anything by the age of 30, he should be held in contempt by everyone forever because if he has achieved nothing by that point he never will. In the passage from the Analects, Confucius specifies age 40, but knowing Chinese aging conventions he could very well have meant 30 years old. It's more reasonable considering most people before the modern era were lucky to live past their teens.
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--- 28763018
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>>28752496 (OP)
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What if I never really tried and used my fatness and Autism as an excuse. 26 btw.
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--- 28763318
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>>28763018
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Put yourself out there.
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--- 28763335
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>>28752496 (OP)
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its a fucking meme you autistic low IQ retard
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-----
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--- 28752570
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How do I stop feeling bad about aging and the passage of time?
|
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--- 28752578
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grow up
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--- 28752581
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How old are you anon?
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--- 28752585
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>>28752578
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I have grown up. That's the problem.
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--- 28752589
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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do you get mad that the sun sets every day?
|
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do you get mad that nature runs its course?
|
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there's no use feeling bad about things you can't help, and also, there's some internalized ideas there like "I'm worthless after X age", maybe because you put too much weight on looks.
|
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There's things that provide you much more happiness than being young or pretty (and even then you can very much look great until you reach your 80s, just take care of your health).
|
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--- 28752592
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>>28752581
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27
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--- 28752780
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>>28752589
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It's not just my looks. It's also the feeling of life slipping away from me. And knowing that my loved ones are aging too, and they're slowly but surely approaching death. And one day I'll be all alone.
|
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--- 28752795
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>>28752780
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You need to find something that gives your meaning beyond death.
|
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You can get yourself a strong conviction in a political ideology. Or become religious. Or become very patriotic and join the military or something.
|
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Or just become a parent, that's how most people deal with it.
|
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|
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You basically need something worth dying for.
|
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--- 28752862
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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HOW OLD ARE YOU
|
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--- 28752866
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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I have always been inspired by age and becoming. I have a strong suspicion that I will only improve for a long time, possibly until I am entirely withering and at the maximum extent of my lifespan. Being aged and capable has always felt a natural position for me, I continue to set my characters up this way in every game I play.
|
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--- 28754648
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>>28752862
|
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I already said. 27.
|
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--- 28754728
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>>28752592
|
41 |
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27 is still young, 30 is where aging really begins
|
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+
--- 28754735
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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there is only one way to stop feeling bad about aging and it is to accept the state you are in. You are in your mid 20s? start working on a career or go back to school and study. You are in your 30s? start building a family or at least a meaningful relationship. and so on. behave and buy clothes that suits someone your age
|
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--- 28754743
|
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>>28754735
|
47 |
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This would be great advice if OP just grew up and just told us how OLD HE FUCKING IS
|
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--- 28754867
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
50 |
+
That happens to you because, like many, you don't live the life you want. A well lived year of life is better than 5 where you did nothing relevant.
|
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--- 28754887
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>>28754743
|
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Are you retarded?
|
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--- 28755161
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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It just goes away, when you realize how long it's gonna be until you pass away. The more important thing is that you accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He will give you the strength to overcome moments like those, until the day you go to him in heaven.
|
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+
--- 28755781
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+
>>28752570 (OP)
|
59 |
+
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xlyOCf_SOUY [Embed]
|
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--- 28755817
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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+
raypeat dot com
|
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--- 28755863
|
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>>28752780
|
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+
>It's also the feeling of life slipping away from me. And knowing that my loved ones are aging too, and they're slowly but surely approaching death. And one day I'll be all alone.
|
66 |
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Oh that's simple, OP.. we don't think about these things. Yep, pretty much just distract yourself from these thoughts as much as possible
|
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+
|
68 |
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That's all. There is no cope for this, we just avoid these thoughts
|
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--- 28756150
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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>>28752585
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>>28752780
|
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Unironically study NDEs and realize that there actually is an afterlife and that we are eternal and will go to heaven unconditionally when we die. So death is nothing to be scared of or worry about, and there are scores of studies confirming that reading about or listening to NDEs lessens or removes the fear of death. And YouTube is filled with NDErs and their testimonies.
|
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|
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Here is a very persuasive argument for why NDEs are real:
|
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|
77 |
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https://youtu.be/U00ibBGZp7o [Embed]
|
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|
79 |
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It emphasizes that NDErs are representative of the population as a whole, and when people go deep into the NDE, they all become convinced. As this article points out:
|
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|
81 |
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mysteries-consciousness/202204/does-afterlife-obviously-exist
|
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|
83 |
+
>"Among those with the deepest experiences 100 percent came away agreeing with the statement, "An afterlife definitely exists"."
|
84 |
+
|
85 |
+
Since NDErs are representative of the population as a whole, and they are all convinced, then 100% of the population become convinced that there is an afterlife when they have a sufficiently deep NDE themselves. When you dream and wake up, you instantly realize that life is more real than your dreams. When you have an NDE, the same thing is happening, but on a higher level, as you immediately realize that life is the deep dream and the NDE world is the undeniably real world by comparison.
|
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|
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Or as one person quoted in pic related summarized their NDE:
|
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|
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>"As my soul left my body, I found myself floating in a swirling ocean of multi-colored light. At the end, I could see and feel an even brighter light pulling me toward it, and as it shined on me, I felt indescribable happiness. I remembered everything about eternity - knowing, that we had always existed, and that all of us are family. Then old friends and loved ones surrounded me, and I knew without a doubt I was home, and that I was so loved."
|
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|
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Needless to say, even ultraskeptical neuroscientists are convinced by really deep NDEs.
|
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--- 28756160
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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>How do I stop feeling bad about aging and the passage of time?
|
95 |
+
Do something productive and generative with the time that you have.
|
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--- 28757319
|
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>>28756160
|
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Like what?
|
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--- 28757421
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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Read pic related
|
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--- 28757438
|
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>>28752570 (OP)
|
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>How do I stop feeling bad about aging and the passage of time?
|
105 |
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Literally just don't.
|
106 |
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You asked yet another question for which the answer is "don't do the thing you don't want to do".
|
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A better question to ask is "Why do I feel bad about aging and the passage of time anyway, given how F R E E it is for me to not do that"
|
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and it's usually because you think your emotions are real and so you habitually find excuses / LARPs to justify them.
|
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Simply don't.
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--- 28758721
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>>28752592
|
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25 you can be dumb, it's fine, 30 is when it gets cringe. I'm 28, didn't get a clue until 26-27. Almost got married at 25-24 and dodged a bullet. With the internet and such, time is getting more and more blurred. Age with grace, live with grace. Roll with the punches so to speak. Accept responsibility in society, don't be like Peter Pan, he's a fucking loser who becomes king of the lost boys. Don't be like Captain Hook either, he's miserable and awful to others. Wendy accepts responsibility to tries to improve her life, do just that. Live for reality.
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--- 28759179
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>>28752592
|
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That's young. In the words of Barry Manilow, you're not old until you're 92.
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--- 28760683
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>>28759179
|
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Not really.
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--- 28761801
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>>28754648
|
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you might like the song Tin Man or Bleed It On, both by Shakey Graves (specifically because both songs surround the idea of turning 27)
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--- 28762784
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>>28761801
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>Shakey Graves
|
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I love him like you wouldn't believe. Wish I could play guitar like him.
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|
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This is for OP: https://youtu.be/vg4sGkehWBw [Embed]
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--- 28755478
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What's a good at home hobby that doesn't require any major learning? Just buy gear and do shit.
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--- 28755485
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>>28755478 (OP)
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Going outside
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--- 28755496
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>>28755485
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no
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--- 28755510
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That's not how hobbies work. All hobbies have learning curves, that's what makes them worth doing.
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--- 28755514
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>>28755510
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I don't want to learn, I want to do.
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--- 28755517
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Reading
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--- 28755571
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>>28755517
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>A good hobby
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--- 28755577
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>>28755478 (OP)
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Sculpting with clay, perhaps?
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--- 28755591
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>>28755514
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Then go buy some legos or some shit with idiot proof instructions.
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--- 28755592
|
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>>28755478 (OP)
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hiking is fun
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|
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you literally drive somewhere, pick out a path and enjoy the outdoors
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--- 28755599
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>>28755478 (OP)
|
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Well, with everything you've turned down so far...figure collecting.
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>Requires hardly any learning
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>Can be done from home
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>Takes barely any effort
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>Decorates your space
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Head on over to >>>/toy/ if you're interested.
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--- 28755612
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>>28755599
|
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That's hardlya hobby, what the fuck do I do with toys
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--- 28755670
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>>28755612
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Buy them, pose them in displays, do photography with them if that's your thing. If you want a low effort indoor hobby with a low learning curve, you're not gonna get much better than that. Here's more, though.
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--- 28755681
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>>28755670
|
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None of these are good.
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--- 28755684
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>>28755478 (OP)
|
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Running?
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--- 28755692
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>>28755670
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Still too much learning for OP, I'm afraid. Displaying them in an appealing way has a learning curve. And you're asking them to just get a camera and start taking photos that don't look like shit? Please.
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--- 28755723
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>>28755692
|
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I don't see the point of diplaying them because I don't really care for toys and no one else would see them.
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--- 28755795
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gaming
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eating (not cooking)
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porn
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watching tv shows
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posting on 4chan
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--- 28755808
|
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meth
|
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--- 28755856
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>>28755795
|
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>not cooking
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disagree, if you cant make good meals just by following along with a recipe just ask your handler to show you how
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--- 28755903
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>>28755795
|
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everyone who comes here does most if not all of these by default but doesn't consider them hobbies even though they are
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--- 28755908
|
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>>28755723
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I'm beginning to see why you don't want a hobby that requires you to think.
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--- 28756026
|
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>>28755908
|
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Good
|
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--- 28756161
|
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>>28755496
|
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>>28755571
|
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>>28755612
|
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>>28755681
|
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+
Why not start somewhere and see if you actually enjoy something before having a shitty attitude?
|
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--- 28756176
|
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>>28756161
|
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It's too expensive to just try
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--- 28756194
|
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>>28755478 (OP)
|
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What even are your goals, here?
|
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--- 28756202
|
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>>28756194
|
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To have something somewhat productive to do
|
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--- 28756223
|
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>>28756202
|
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You're too stupid for that. Start smaller.
|
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--- 28756224
|
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>>28756223
|
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No
|
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--- 28756242
|
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>>28756202
|
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Productive how?
|
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Is this one of those "I pkay too much vidya and thats not productive and I feel bad" situations?
|
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Because I promise you anything that has zero learning curve and you can just do that doesnt have a cost barrier, its gonns be video games again.
|
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+
--- 28756248
|
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>>28756242
|
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>Productive how?
|
107 |
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There's some end product involved, and it can be done without attention. Like clicking the mouse while watching a movie or something.
|
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No, I don't like playing games.
|
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+
--- 28756252
|
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>>28755856
|
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I think hes listing hobbies with no learning curve or cost.. and its hilarious.
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--- 28756255
|
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>>28756248
|
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How old are you and what do you do now? For work as well.
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--- 28756256
|
116 |
+
Guys OP is is full of shit, you literally turned off every idea (and those are good ones) and yet you still want to be spoonfed.
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/thread
|
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+
--- 28756259
|
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>>28756255
|
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+
30. Browse 4chan mainly. I don't have a job and don't want one because they are all just crap.
|
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--- 28756280
|
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>>28756259
|
123 |
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Excellent. I have gathered enough information. You should get into Tibetan self mummification. You just have to eat an extreme strict diet of pine nuts (and other things. I cant remember. Small small learning curve but believe me you can just do this) and tour body will basically mummify from the inside out.
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+
|
125 |
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Then donate yourself to a museum. Because holy shit what a life the character in this troll youve made lives. How awful.
|
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--- 28756286
|
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>>28756280
|
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Fuck you, if you can't give good advice then shut up.
|
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--- 28756299
|
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>>28756286
|
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Youre leaving empty handed today. Youre too useless to even talk to. Good day.
|
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+
--- 28756306
|
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>>28756299
|
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+
Good day
|
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+
--- 28756546
|
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+
>>28756202
|
137 |
+
You want to be productive but you lack the effort to learn a skill? Anything productive takes effort.
|
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+
--- 28756550
|
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+
>>28756546
|
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+
There must be something that doesn't require any skill.
|
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--- 28756573
|
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+
>>28756259
|
143 |
+
NEETsir ... I ... kneel.
|
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--- 28756574
|
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>>28756550
|
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+
No.
|
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+
--- 28756576
|
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+
>>28756574
|
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+
Okay then
|
150 |
+
--- 28756844
|
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+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
152 |
+
After reading this thread I strongly suggest you learn to live better, but you don't want to hear that. So instead I'll take your question as a challenge and suggest you ...
|
153 |
+
|
154 |
+
Get an unkillable house plant, then take care of it. It should grow regardless of how little effort you put into it. It doesn't require any skills other than spray it with a water mister every few days based on which one you get. If it grows big you can claim it as productive progress as you didn't kill it. And if you do kill it then you just claim you killed an unkillable plant, which is a feat in and of itself. That the lowest bar hobby I can think of, any lower and I can't in good faith suggest it. And that's coming from a guy who spent his afternoons counting the aggregate grains in the cinder block cell wall.
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155 |
+
|
156 |
+
If you like it then maybe you can expand into gardening.
|
157 |
+
--- 28756852
|
158 |
+
>>28756844
|
159 |
+
>I strongly suggest you learn to live better
|
160 |
+
There's nothing wrong with my life
|
161 |
+
--- 28756853
|
162 |
+
>>28755514
|
163 |
+
|
164 |
+
Um, that's kinda what hobbies are.
|
165 |
+
--- 28756858
|
166 |
+
>>28755612
|
167 |
+
|
168 |
+
Collecting is so a hobby...
|
169 |
+
--- 28756865
|
170 |
+
OP is being kinda obstinate.
|
171 |
+
--- 28756889
|
172 |
+
>>28755599
|
173 |
+
|
174 |
+
It might be kinda shallow but I think I'd be turned off if a guy had like a TON of action figures on display.
|
175 |
+
--- 28756892
|
176 |
+
>>28756176
|
177 |
+
Don't play stupid. Research a hobby first and get a sense of whether or not you'll like it before paying the up-front costs. As for inexpensive passtimes, there's thousands of books you can try for free at the library. Walking, running or hiking only requires the right shoes that will last you years, so that's not costly in the long run. You spend money on food, no doubt, so try cooking new, delicious recipes.
|
178 |
+
--- 28756895
|
179 |
+
>>28756852
|
180 |
+
Buddy trust me. As a 45. Who browsed 4chan mainly. I didn't have a job and didn't want one because they are all just crap. I can tell you how messed up that way of thinking is as I got a good 10 years more experience at it then you. I even got a 5 year head start given I have a job and rarely browse 4chan now after I changed.
|
181 |
+
|
182 |
+
Also way more interest in you opinion on the house plant idea then arguing with you in an online chat room about life choices.
|
183 |
+
--- 28756901
|
184 |
+
>>28756892
|
185 |
+
> Research a hobby first and get a sense of whether or not you'll like it before paying the up-front costs.
|
186 |
+
I do and have done and know that already suggested ones aren't for me.
|
187 |
+
> Walking, running or hiking
|
188 |
+
At home
|
189 |
+
--- 28756910
|
190 |
+
>>28756895
|
191 |
+
The plant would surely die without sunlight, and the spray a day doesn't take that much time so it could be considered a hobby.
|
192 |
+
--- 28756954
|
193 |
+
>>28756901
|
194 |
+
So, what is "for you?" What do you do now for yourself, to unwind? Do not give me 4chan as an answer.
|
195 |
+
--- 28756965
|
196 |
+
>>28756954
|
197 |
+
I don't unwind
|
198 |
+
--- 28756970
|
199 |
+
>>28756954
|
200 |
+
|
201 |
+
Not OP but it's bad if you say drinking, right?
|
202 |
+
--- 28757024
|
203 |
+
>>28756970
|
204 |
+
Honestly, if you have a drink after a hard day of work to relax, there's no immediate harm in it. Fuck, you could even spin it as a chance to try new cocktails, get into mixology. I think even drinking would be an answer than not doing anything at all.
|
205 |
+
--- 28757050
|
206 |
+
>>28756965
|
207 |
+
Then keep doing what you're doing. You're not putting forth any effort, so you've checked that box already. Your "end product" is the motivation you give others to be their best selves, and you do that by being a perfect example of how not to live.
|
208 |
+
--- 28757228
|
209 |
+
actually i think OP might be trying to bait us into some creative misogyny by getting us to suggest girl hobbies! girl hobbies are expensive and completely learning and achievement free, for instance:
|
210 |
+
> travel to foreign countries
|
211 |
+
> fashion
|
212 |
+
> makeup
|
213 |
+
> fancy restaurants
|
214 |
+
> writing in your secret Moleskine journal that cost $45
|
215 |
+
> owning a small annoying dog
|
216 |
+
|
217 |
+
and many more! thanks OP i hate women too
|
218 |
+
--- 28757241
|
219 |
+
>>28757228
|
220 |
+
>>learning free
|
221 |
+
>>makeup
|
222 |
+
|
223 |
+
lmao
|
224 |
+
--- 28757247
|
225 |
+
>>28757241
|
226 |
+
OP doesn't have to learn to put it on his face he's not a tranny
|
227 |
+
--- 28757288
|
228 |
+
>>28757228
|
229 |
+
|
230 |
+
You really suck at trolling.
|
231 |
+
--- 28757521
|
232 |
+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
233 |
+
Metal Detecting on the beach. Sand Castle Building, Riding Bikes, parasailing, kite flying, combing, seashell collecting, making glass with a butane lighter and sand, relaxing in a nice comfortable folding chair under a big umbrella with a short novel less than 200 pages. Listening to Surf Rock
|
234 |
+
|
235 |
+
Go to the Beach, You can do all of these things there. And if you wanted to stay at home, you could bring the beach there, with overlaying three YouTube videos of ambient sounds of beaches, Hawaiian music/surf rock, and ship ambience if you wanted to have a dock.
|
236 |
+
--- 28758600
|
237 |
+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
238 |
+
You have an awful attitude. Maybe your hobby should be fixing that
|
239 |
+
--- 28759238
|
240 |
+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
241 |
+
Underwater basket weaving
|
242 |
+
--- 28760274
|
243 |
+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
244 |
+
>breathing
|
245 |
+
Just breathe in and out slowly
|
246 |
+
>brainstem awakening
|
247 |
+
As you breathe, with each exhale begin to grunt as deeply and loudly as you can.
|
248 |
+
--- 28760775
|
249 |
+
Building gunpla is pretty easy. Lots of growth room if you wanna do spend the time learning
|
250 |
+
--- 28761902
|
251 |
+
>>28756889
|
252 |
+
totally not defending myself here but personally if I was in a position like that, more of a dealbreaker would be HOW they were displayed, if a collection was scattered indiscriminately without reason (ie: if a guy was cleaning things up/was getting new furniture/etc), that would spell more of a negative light, if the display looks like a lot of work went into it, that's basically the best case scenario
|
253 |
+
|
254 |
+
TLDR: If the display is cared for, that seems like a possibly noteworthy positive
|
255 |
+
--- 28762177
|
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+
>>28755795
|
257 |
+
Porn is an addict not a hobby.
|
258 |
+
--- 28762218
|
259 |
+
>>28762177
|
260 |
+
Not if you make it yourself.
|
261 |
+
--- 28762591
|
262 |
+
OP here I'm trans btw idk if it matters though
|
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+
--- 28762613
|
264 |
+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
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+
calisthenics
|
266 |
+
go do 100 burpees and 300 pushups right now, motherfucker
|
267 |
+
you already know how to do them, so get it done
|
268 |
+
--- 28762620
|
269 |
+
>>28760775
|
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+
What is there to learn in gunpla?
|
271 |
+
--- 28762638
|
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+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
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/co/
|
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+
|
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+
kekw
|
276 |
+
--- 28762650
|
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+
>>28762620
|
278 |
+
Painting
|
279 |
+
--- 28762685
|
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+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
281 |
+
Tabletop wargaming doesn't really require major learning. You buy the Miniatures you assemble them you paint them and then you can play with other people. In fact you don't even have to play with other people you can just buy them and paint them.
|
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--- 28762727
|
283 |
+
Exercise your 2nd Amendment right
|
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+
--- 28763520
|
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+
/co/bby
|
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--- 28763705
|
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+
>>28756550
|
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+
Jogging is too much effort for you.
|
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+
--- 28764014
|
290 |
+
Try origami OP, it's just folding some paper which your should already have in your house. Just follow a bunch of instructions online, takes no skill at all
|
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--- 28764040
|
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+
>>28755478 (OP)
|
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+
Grilling! Take the grill-pill! Its the best hobby you can have! All you need is a grill (any used webber will do fine if you dont want to get a new one). Its really easy.
|
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+
>watch youtube/insta and see something you want
|
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+
>get ingredients
|
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+
>start the grill
|
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+
>GRILL!
|
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+
Thats it! It takes experience and skill to be a grill master but the journey is totally worth it. I’ve gone from amateur to bbq multiple competitions a year
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-----
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--- 28755897
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I feel like having the same political beliefs would be ideal. When it comes to values in life, goals, the way of raising our children and such things, having different political ideologies could lead to fighting.
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Can a relationship work if your political ideas don't align? I have a feeling I will never find a partner that aligns with what I believe in the modern world, or at least my country.
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--- 28755902
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Who you vote for is irrelevant to your relationship. Gezzus
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--- 28755933
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>>28755897 (OP)
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It doesn't matter, mine will never change. Neither will my religious views. Christ is King.
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--- 28755937
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>>28755897 (OP)
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I think it's important. People who don't think so generally don't have morals and values that align with my own and say the issues I am concerned about us not agreeing on "aren't political".
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--- 28755968
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>>28755902
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How so? My beliefs are the reason for my decisions. A relationship is supposed to work as a team, that won't work when we are working against eachother. How do you separate politics from your relationship, let alone the rest of your life?
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Yes I agree that you shouldn't be obsessed with politics, but its going to affect your life, your choices, your character and so on.
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So how do you make that separation exactly?
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--- 28755972
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>>28755968
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The two party system is an absolute joke, as is voting right now.
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>how do you seperate politics from your relationship
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Quite easily. I joke about both parties/candidates, and love my family/friends regardless of their political or religious views.
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Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to agree on everything. Grow a spine.
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--- 28756034
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>>28755972
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Who said I was American? I am aware that the two party system is ridiculous. I couldn't care less about it. It's giving people the illusion of choice when in reality they're not all that different from one another.Its sad for a country that claims to be the freest in the world.
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You can't deny that you and everyone else grows up with values and certain ethics. Depending on your political beliefs those are different. I don't isolate myself from people who don't agree with me, opinion exchange is the only way of finding what could be the truth. I do believe that this could get ugly in a relationship quite fast, especially when it comes to the upbringing of a child. For a large part children can't make decisions themselves, especially when they are younger. They rely on their parents to make the right decisions for them. If my partner and I disagree on what's right it can cause problems when raising the child as well as problems withing the relationship.
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You seem quite spineless yourself, do you not have any opinions or values at all? Do you just make fun of everything as to not be criticised by your social circle? I never said I want to agree on every single thing, but a general alignment seems important to me and you didn't convince me of the contrary.
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--- 28756096
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>>28755897 (OP)
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A woman is not going to align with you politically. If you're the strongest male figure in her life she might eventually parrot what you say. Are your politics predicated on forcing everyone else to follow them? If not what is the problem exactly? Politics have nothing to do with your relationship. You're priorities are out of whack if they are.
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--- 28756107
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>>28756096
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Politics are reflective of values and values are extremely important to relationships
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--- 28756109
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>>28756034
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I agree. That kind of stuff matters if your child is trans, disabled, a girl, mentally ill, etc.
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--- 28756111
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>>28756107
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If you believe this then why did you make this thread? Did you want to be convinced otherwise or vindicated?
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--- 28756112
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I've dated them all and have found apolitical women are the best by far
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--- 28756113
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>>28756111
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Vindicated. If there was a way I could make everyone think like me I'd do it
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--- 28756114
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>>28756034
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>If my partner and I disagree on what's right it can cause problems when raising the child as well as problems withing the relationship.
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When you have a partner in a serious relationship it is usually very easy to resolve differences, and as the man you should be able to take the lead. You're treating politics as if it's something totally irreconcilable and all important when it really isn't.
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--- 28756115
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>>28756107
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A woman is not going to ever align with you politically though. You know who is going to align with you politically? A man with autism. If you can't deal with this you're not ready for a relationship, sorry.
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--- 28756124
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>>28756113
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I think you should eject some of your hubris then. This is the advice board, not an echo chamber.
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--- 28756127
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>>28756114
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It is to some women. I've ended a relationship over ideological differences.
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--- 28756143
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>>28756127
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Tell us more.
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--- 28756188
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>>28756115
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Depends on where you live, in my area most women love Trump and that's good enough for me
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--- 28756193
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>>28756143
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Not much to tell. He was an asshole who had no empathy for other people but he treated ME well so it took me some time to come to terms with the fact that I didn't think he was a good person.
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--- 28756221
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>>28756193
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If he's good to you what does it matter?
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--- 28756230
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>>28756221
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If I think he's a terrible person that makes me feel like a bad person for loving him.
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This isn't an example of something this guy did but just consider this. If you were dating a woman and she was super sweet to you but one day you saw her be an absolute cunt to some service workers screaming and spitting on people, would that change your opinion of her?
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--- 28756240
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>>28756034
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Politics are stupid. The quicker you realize that the better off you will be.
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--- 28756267
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>>28755897 (OP)
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>How important is politics in a relationship?
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Not very.
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>But they are.
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No, you're just immature and are deriving your values from something that is transitory and temporal. Politics are always changing. I'm sure your personal politics have changed over time and will change again, and political landscapes change every four years at least.
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|
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Basing a relationship on politics is like trying to build a house besides a boat going downstream.
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--- 28756270
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>>28756230
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Thats true but what does being a cunt to service workers have to do with politics?
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--- 28756271
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>>28756267
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Would you weigh in on >>28756230 ? Forget the buzzword "politics" and call it morals and values.
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--- 28756272
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>>28756230
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I thought women wanted someone that was stand-offish/assholeish to everyone but sweet on her.
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--- 28756282
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>>28756270
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Just answer the question would you?
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I didn't think going off on a rant about how much he dislikes trans people would have the same effect as being rude to service workers for you guys.
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--- 28756283
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If you are attracted to each other your political ideals probably align well enough. If you are a /pol/ edgelord then you will die a kissless virgin.
|
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--- 28756284
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>>28756272
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I don't mind if he's private and not very open with others. But I don't want him to be a bigot.
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--- 28756291
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>>28755897 (OP)
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I got some crazy news for you.
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There was a rime we didnt eat sleep and breath politics, you arent supposed to, ans youre only doing it now because you are way too invested in social media.
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All bad qualities for a parent or partner.
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Stop. Worrying about it. If youre scared/outraged it makes you retarded, it makes you buy more, and it makes you vote harder. Thats why every company, political party, and clickbait website running ads wants you this way. Youre a product. Stop this.
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--- 28756300
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>>28756291
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>I got some crazy news for you.
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>There was a rime we didnt eat sleep and breath politics
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Yes, and that lead to a political climate where people can't pretend to be apolitical anymore.
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--- 28756314
|
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>>28756271
|
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>>28756230
|
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>If you were dating a woman and she was super sweet to you but one day you saw her be an absolute cunt to some service workers screaming and spitting on people, would that change your opinion of her?
|
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No, it wouldn't. Everybody has off days and emotional lapses of judgement. I would address the problem. That is a value and moral. Being rude to customer service is a dick move sure, but it's nothing to predicate your relationship or values on.
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--- 28756320
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>>28756314
|
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What if it was something she did frequently with no remorse and refused to change when you addressed it?
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--- 28756333
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>>28756282
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If the service workers were trans i wouldn't care, and now ik you're a tranny too cause most real women hate your kind, ywnbaw
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--- 28756335
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>>28756300
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It actually didnt, nothings actually different at all... they just got better at direct targeting on an individual scale, and got a strongly established science of stoking your emotions and creating issues in your head.
|
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They want you to feel like you cant sit idly by. It makes you vote. There is a tonne of corporate interest in that, and it costs literal pennies to reach you.
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--- 28756338
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>>28756320
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What your describing is a personality flaw. Has nothing to do with values or morals. If you like him enough to look past it, earnestly try to address the issue, he still doesn't change after, and his negative trains outweigh the positive, then leaving is perfectly reasonable.
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--- 28756344
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>>28756333
|
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Nope I'm definitely cis.
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|
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I think it's really telling that none of you can honestly answer the question. It's proving me right. What someone thinks about politics matters in a relationship.
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--- 28756350
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>>28756338
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It's a hypothetical meant to represent an issue I would actually have that I know men who use 4chan will not sympathize with. If you can't understand it fine but if you're purposely being difficult which I expect you are I think you understand my point perfectly. If a guy I'm dating shows me he's racist I won't want to be with him any more. I instantly lose respect and attraction.
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--- 28756356
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>>28756335
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People like you will defend the status quo until the bitter end, won't you?
|
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--- 28756370
|
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>>28756338
|
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>What your describing is a personality flaw. Has nothing to do with values or morals.
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I mean, it says everything about how they view minimum wage making workers that they think they can frequently abuse them like they're not human and don't have feelings too. You don't have to talk about the beliefs and values you have openly to make it public, it permeates through every action you take.
|
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--- 28756372
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>>28756350
|
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If you don't want to be with a guy hypothetical or otherwise because of racism or some other personality trait you find disagreeable and can't fix then don't be with him.
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--- 28756380
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>>28756372
|
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Nice job avoiding the word politics.
|
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--- 28756386
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>>28756380
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Politics aren't personality traits. You're the one who elected to changed the word, and the provided and non political hypothetical, not me.
|
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>Forget the buzzword "politics" and call it morals and values.
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--- 28756399
|
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>>28756380
|
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Opposing political viewpoints =/= abusing retail workers
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|
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If that's how you view someone who doesn't agree with you politically you are the problem sorry
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--- 28756414
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>>28756356
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What ya doing about it? Because if youre voting for or following the democrats or reoublicans, you also are. Youre not voting for a damn word theyre saying. Youre voting for which corporations get to write whatever laws they eant regardless of your interest.
|
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|
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If youre literally running as an independent, youre fighting the "status quo". If not, youre screaming on the internet about causes, that, extremely likely, arent real causes or arent near as huge as they were spun to be.
|
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|
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If you at any point cried about budweiser or proud boys, youre not changung shit. Youre just being mad for shit that doesnt affect you bevause your favourite facebook clique told you to be.
|
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So dont talk to me about status quo if you dont even know we live in an oligarchy
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--- 28756415
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>>28756386
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For the hypothetical. Okay maybe you are just dense and not purposely being difficult.
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|
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Politics is defined as: the activities associated with the governance of a country or other area, especially the debate or conflict among individuals or parties having or hoping to achieve power.
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|
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Politics effect people's lives. I want to be with someone who has the same morals and values as me. Someone who supports the same ideas and opposes the things I oppose. I do not want to be with a man who believes anti-trans legislation or the overturning of roe v Wade is a good thing. Abortion rights are politics. Trans rights are politics. It's all politics and you're fooling yourself by thinking anything different.
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--- 28756433
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>>28756399
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I know we're all autistic here but you should at least know the meaning of the word hypothetical. It was a god damn thought exercise but apparently you guys are incapable of that.
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|
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|
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It's the precise attitude you all have that I hate. "It's not politics". It's ALL politics. Politics are the reason I can smoke legal weed now. And why I can get an abortion in my state. This shit matters to people. I can't be with a man who doesn't support my right to abortion or anything else I think matters to me and my safety and well being. And I don''t want him to support ideas that hurt anyone else either.
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--- 28756440
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>>28756415
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>>28756415
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I know what you want. Your question in the OP is how important politics are to a relationship. Everyone is telling you -- not very. They're very important to you, and as a result (I'm assuming) your relationships have not worked out because you are predicating your relation on pop politics. If you are literally doing that please see this post >>28756267 again.
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--- 28756465
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>>28756440
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I'm not even OP.
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|
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How is being concerned over my own and other women's rights to a medical procedure "pop politics"?
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--- 28756472
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>>28755897 (OP)
|
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Femanon here. Having a relationship with a guy who is smart and capable and able to provide is more important than them agreeing with you. If politics is anywhere near as important to you than all of that you are going to be unhappy and alone. You only push people away by putting your political believes front and center.
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--- 28756474
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>>28756414
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I am not even a Burger and stop pretending to be anything but a leftist shill already.
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--- 28756476
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>>28756465
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Can you even remember what the last hot button political issue was four, eight, ten years ago and how you live day to day by your stance that issue?
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--- 28756484
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>>28755897 (OP)
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>>28755968
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If you honestly believe the transient issues of popular democratic politics are anything but a distraction on the level of reality TV you really shouldn't be dating.
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>"How could I date a woman that thought someone else should have won Top Chef?!?!? SHE DOESN'T SHARE MY VALUES!!!!!"
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--- 28756486
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>>28756476
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I just fucking mentioned one? My personal day to day life wasn't hugely effected by the reversal of roe v Wade but that's because I was lucky to be born in the state I was born in. Plenty of women weren't so lucky. This stuff isn't "hot button" bullshit they are real issue that effect real people.
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And if you don't give a shit because those people aren't you I think that makes you a bad person. Lacking empathy isn't attractive.
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>>28756433
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>Weed and abortion
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OOoOooOOooh! What man could let a woman like *you* slip away?
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>>28756486
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>disagreeing with me is a lack of empathy
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Sheesh.
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>>28756491
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The feeling is mutual don't worry. I don't want people like you to like me.
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>>28756486
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RvW overturn was not 4 years ago. Try again.
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>My personal day to day life wasn't hugely effected by the reversal
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And it doesn't hugely affect relationships either
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>>28756497
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>Not caring if political legislation negatively effect the lives of millions of people is a lack of empathy
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Fixed that for you
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>>28756502
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One of the many differences between you and me:
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I am married with children.
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>>28756508
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>Not understanding that pro-life people are firmly convinced they are saving the lives of millions of innocent people and view *you* as wishing the murder of that same population for convenience.
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This is an *ideological difference*. but to claim that the pro-life movement
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>which is overwhelmingly WOMEN, BTW
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"lacks empathy" is categorically false.
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If they didn't have empathy they wouldn't fight as hard as they do.
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You not understanding that is part and parcel of thinking the very narrow realm of pop politics is "important".
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>>28756505
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Mm, thought there was a 2 in there. I certainly didn't vote for trump. What about the anti trans bathroom bills? I'm not even trans. No one had stopped me from going into a public restroom EVER before that shit started happening. After? I have been stopped multiple times because I'm wearing questionably loose pants. Bothering people while they're going to piss is weird.
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I remember having an opinion on global warming issues as like an 8 year old. These things have always mattered to me.
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I am not saying they need to agree with me on everything. We can have different opinions on gun control and foreign affairs. But if I believe any opinion they hold is harmful to people? I'm out. He's shit and I don't want him.
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>>28756508
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>>Not caring if political legislation negatively effect the lives of millions of people is a lack of empathy
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That is EXACTLY what prolifers think of YOU.
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That was my point
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>>28756433
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>It's ALL politics.
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Found the problem. You predicate your reality on governmental legislation (really just what you hear on the news) instead of classical morals and values. You don't base your values on things like gratitude or humility, or some kind of spiritual or philosophical foundation, you base it on whatever the twitter headline currently is. Get off the internet and stop putting so much emphasis on what the government does. If it's really that important to you join some kind of political movement, but put relationships on the backburner, because that isn't want you want nor what you'll find.
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>>28756522
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>I remember having an opinion on global warming issues as like an 8 year old.
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kek.
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Like an 8 year old can have an informed opinion on anything.
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I've never met someone that defines their ethics as politics that wasn't a narcissist
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>>28756522
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>I am not saying they need to agree with me on everything.
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Tell this to OP.
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>>28756521
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They lack empathy for the people who want/need abortions. People who support abortion are not under the impression that fetuses are people. Ergo, I think people who are pro life lack empathy. Not that hard to work out.
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>>28756522
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Anon
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>legal weed is a core ethics issue for me
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Anon
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>gotta' have access to abortion, that is a core ethics issue for me
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Anon
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>'Foreign affairs'? Meh, who gives a fuck?
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Fucking women, lol
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>>28756525
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And so WHY would a pro-lifer want to date me?
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>>28756526
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>You don't base your values on things like gratitude or humility, or some kind of spiritual or philosophical foundation.
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Actually I do. It boils down to "be kind to everyone but do not tolerate intolerance".
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I care what the government does because it effects our lives. Politics is not the equivalent of the marvel cinematic universe.
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>>28756538
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I knew enough to know that the people who had any actual scientists agreeing with them were probably right.
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>>28756545
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>Thinks I am talking about general voters when I am talking about the actual organizations that lobby against abortion
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errytime.
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>People who support abortion are not under the impression that fetuses are people
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FFS, are you fucking stupid.
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>Well, *I* think *THEY* lack empathy!
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Yeah. Everyone knows. And despite multiple people explaining to you slowly and with very simple words that this is not supportable you continue to repeat your retarded mantra.
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I know you can't understand this, but so far every reply you've made to the 2-3 people posting to you about this translates roughly to you writing
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>"I am not very smart"
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over and over.
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>>28756560
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>>28756560
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>And so WHY would a pro-lifer want to date me?
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I'm not sure why *anyone* would date you based on your inability to follow a conversation that is in writing
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>>28756560
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>I knew enough to know that the people who had any actual scientists agreeing with them were probably right.
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Like transfats being healthy?
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Like the coming Ice Age?
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Like the Swine Flu?
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kek
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>>28755897 (OP)
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Very important. If your gf isnt a nazi then she will betray you, its even hard when she is a nazi.
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>>28756564
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>"I am not very smart"
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And I think the same of you guys.
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So why exactly should people who have differing political opinions date? You're arguing against OPs assertion but proving it correct by arguing with me. I keep trying to dumb it down because you guys don't get it but you're just flat out refusing to.
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>>28756560
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>Actually I do. It boils down to "be kind to everyone but do not tolerate intolerance".
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Name any perennial wisdom from 50 or more years ago that has influenced you.
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>I care what the government does because it effects our lives.
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Do you own land? A business? What was the last bill or legislation from the hill you read? Cite me a few examples of government legislation that affected you directly that weren't twitter headlines.
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>>28756595
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>So why exactly should people who have differing political opinions date?
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No one said or implied that.
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>You're arguing against OPs assertion
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Not at all.
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You *literally* can't follow a conversation when it is in writing.
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The replies you are getting from 2-3 people are to this
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>>28756486
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where you stated that people who disagree with you politically inherently lack empathy.
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Not about people with differeing ideologies not dating, about you being a fucktarded moron that thinks you can define empathy by a political position.
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One anon tried to explain this to you twice, and I am trying again.
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Reading you miss the point over and over and over is like watching a comedy movie.
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>>28756560
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>It boils down to "be kind to everyone but do not tolerate intolerance".
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A meaningless bullshit phrase that only sound profound to fools and idiots.
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Why?
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It means simply
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>"People who disagree with us are The Other and we must exclude and marginalize them from as much of society as we can."
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If you need this explained to you please stop voting and have no children.
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>>28756584
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I have the same perception of you guys. You're completely unable to follow what I'm saying and keep responding with shit that isn't related or willfully ignores the questions I asked.
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>>28756593
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Greenhouse gasses, the ozone layer. I was 8 not stupid.
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>>28756605
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>from 50 or more years ago that has influenced you
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When's did this turn into an intellectual discussion? I don't need to study to decide that "don't be an asshole" is a good life choice.
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>Do you own land? A business? What was the last bill or legislation from the hill you read? Cite me a few examples of government legislation that affected you directly that weren't twitter headlines.
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I exist. And I don't even have a Twitter. And I keep telling you it doesn't matter if it effects me personally. If I think it will negatively impact people I don't support it. I'll give you a local example because that's more likely to directly effect me. Right now there's a petition to rename my hometown because it's named after a guy who massacred a bunch of people. I'll vote to change it because I don't see why not and people it bothers have asked to. There's no reason to be proud of the name. That one effects me in a very minor way. I'll be inconvenienced by having to change my address on a bunch of things. But that is an effect on me that I'm okay with because I sympathize with those who've asked for the change and am willing to make the sacrifice of 20 minutes of my time for it.
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I don't think that there's anything wrong with worrying about big picture stuff that probably won't directly effect me either.
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>>28756638
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>No one said or implied that
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>>28755902
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>>28755933
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>>28755972
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>>28756096
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>>28756267
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>>28756291
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You were saying?
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>you stated that people who disagree with you politically inherently lack empathy.
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Not what I said.
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>>28756645
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It means "people who believe and support things that would hurt people should be ostracized from the group because they are dangerous."
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It seems like most of you guys thinking I'm stupid is coming from you completely misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm not surprised though.
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>>28756665
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>It means "people who believe and support things that would hurt people should be ostracized from the group because they are dangerous."
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No shit, really?
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Huh. It's almost like that is *exactly what I said it meant*!
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Here's a questions for you.
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I will try to use very small words.
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I know a family, all devout Catholics. Every adult firmly believes that only biological men and biological women can marry and would overturn laws that permit "gay marriage".
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Are you tolerant of them?
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--- 28756753
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>>28756732
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>Every adult firmly believes that only biological men and biological women can marry and would overturn laws that permit "gay marriage".
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No I am not. I have no problem if they believe on a personal level that they can only marry a person of the opposite gender and that they can not be homosexual but when they start pushing those personal beliefs on to others that's where I have a problem. Why should non-catholics have to follow catholic rules?
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>>28756753
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>So you wish to marginalize the believes of 1/6th of all people on the planet and label them as "dangerous" over marriage laws?
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>>28755933
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Might wanna check the bible again bro.
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>>28756753
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OK, how's this.
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Science states very clearly that a zygote/fetus is hum and alive. Abortion ends the life of an innocent human.
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Per you here
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>>28756665
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>"people who believe and support things that would hurt people should be ostracized from the group because they are dangerous."
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so all pro-choice people should be ostracized and marginalized, of course.
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Right?
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--- 28756803
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>>28756762
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Yep. Once they overturned gay marriage their next move would be to criminalize homosexuality again. They would be causing harm to gay people. If they just mind their own business and only impose their beliefs on themselves I have no problem with them.
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>>28756781
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>Science states very clearly that a zygote/fetus is hum and alive
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The DNA is human. That doesn't make it "a" human. I do not believe a fetus is a person before viability outside the womb. Until it is a self sufficient organism it is a part of the mother.
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>so all pro-choice people should be ostracized and marginalized, of course
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If they are trying to control what someone other than themselves is doing with their body, yes.
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>>28756803
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>Once they overturned gay marriage their next move would be to criminalize homosexuality again
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Slippery slope argument. Same as SoCons saying in 1970 that if you decriminalize homosexuality you'd have homosexuals teaching kids to be gay in public schools
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>which, of course, did happen
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> If they just mind their own business and only impose their beliefs on themselves I have no problem with them.
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I fucking LOVE pro-choicers
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--- 28756913
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>>28756803
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>The DNA is human. That doesn't make it "a" human.
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Pure fucking superstition.
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When does the magical Personhood Fairy scatter its magical dust?!?!
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>If they are trying to control what someone other than themselves is doing with their body, yes.
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So pro-abortion people want the body of people destroyed, and are to be marginalized.
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Perfect
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--- 28756919
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>>28756803
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>If they just mind their own business and only impose their beliefs on themselves I have no problem with them.
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kek
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--- 28757295
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Politics aren't the core essence of someone's being. No, not everything is 'political'. Yes governmental decisions may affect you by degrees of separation but you are schizoid if you think every action someone takes has a political lean or is of political consequence. You can not put someone in a box based on how they vote. "Wow the way you drink water is very right-leaning". Just because it's the core of your being doesn't mean it's everyone else's. Politics are important to <<OP>> in their relationship but politics are not important in a healthy generative one because their relationship isn't predicated on something like how they vote. I know plenty of couples and friends who don't align politically and they get along just fine.
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If that's what important to you, you do not want a romantic relationship you want a political partner.
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--- 28758963
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gril answer: political compatibility is more about openness than anything else imo. i personally wouldn't date someone politically extreme, but if you're quite the capitalist and lick alphabet incs boots all day while i am interested in curtailing the power of corporate oligopolies, so long as we can both say retarded i think we'll get along just fine
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>>28755897 (OP)
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I would recommend not marrying into a divided family. If she doesn't have similar value to you, she's going to have different political views as a result.
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Don't date liberals if you aren't one. Same goes for conservatives, or libertarians, or anarchists, or nazis, or whoever else.
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--- 28759310
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>>28755897 (OP)
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Red vs Blue doesn’t matter but policy positions do for example Abortion, School choice, welfare, gender ideology, all of these things matter in the context of a relationship that will eventually result in marriage and children if two parents are living in completely separate universes it will ruin their child mentally.
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--- 28759652
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On one hand I dont care about politics. On the other, if Im looking for a women to wife her, if she is a leftie, then there is a big chance she will not want to have children, or that a single child would be enough for her (for me not really). Chances are that she will expect an "easy" life, which usually ends up being a burden on other people around her (primarily her partner).
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--- 28759723
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>>28755897 (OP)
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I matters, but also you're a dumb 23 year old or whatever who makes politics more of an identity than it really is, and you're just mindlessly repeating whatever you heard on your corner of the internet - doesn't matter if you're left wing or right wing. Kids (in their 20s) make identity politics well their entire identity.
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Usually once you start aging through your 30s and also have kids or whatever you realize that oh whoops it actually doesn't matter what the fuck is happening on the other side of the fuckin world or even on the other side of the country.
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Tangentially related: where do I find a nice racist girlfriend? I thought there would be some racist gals on this site but by the looks of this thread I was off by a mile.
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>>28760508
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I meant to post this image with my post.
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>>28755897 (OP)
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you need some political agreement with your partner. what you don't need, and what indeed isn't possible, is absolute agreement.
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politics aren't the goal of a relationship but you do want to at least like the person you're with.
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--- 28760724
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>>28755897 (OP)
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I think it’s really hard to be with someone who doesn’t share your values. I know you aren’t American but I could never date someone who voted for Trump (as an example) because of what says about their values. It would be a sign that we fundamentally disagree on how people should be treated and that he is vulnerable to propaganda. It might not seem like a big deal but it is once you are co parenting together.
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--- 28760736
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>>28756270
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Oh sweet summer child
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--- 28760752
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>>28756314
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Being rude to service workers is a HUGE deal. It shows a lack of empathy which most likely means you are dealing with a narcissist. I would leave a date if the date was rude to the waiter.
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--- 28760787
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since people seem to be unclear about the "cunt to service workers" thing, anyone being bad to service workers is a red flag no matter what they believe.
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--- 28760804
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>>28756344
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You are correct to an extent, although you did make a pretty bad comparison. Personally I believe some political beliefs don't actually affect a relationship:
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>Weed legalization
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>Gun ownership
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Those are the only two that I can think of that can be worked around. I own a gun not only to exercisemy right to but you never know when shut will hit the fan, and if youd like, you can smoke some weed whenever you want. Either in our Apocalypse bunker or out back, just not in the house for obvious reasons. Every other political topic matters.
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>I want kids, she wants abortions. No!
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>I'm in favor of a traditional household, she doesn't want there to be gender roles.
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NO!
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>Unfettered illegal immigration is a problem, she thinks no human is "Illegal" and considers 3rd worlders to be human
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NO!
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>No pronouns or any other sort of mentally ill faggotry, she supports trans rights and feminism
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FUCK NO!
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>Jews are the problem, purposefully creating an under class that will forced into serfdom with digital currency that will not be able to be saved up and must be used by an expiration date, creating an eternal wageslave. While She thinks the problem is capitalism.
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FUCK NO!
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Anything I miss?
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>>28760804
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kill yourself tripfag + didn't read
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>>28760804
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also lol that you think every one of your gay little opinions is important. you definitely don't have 139 IQ.
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>>28760972
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>>28760966
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Okay. I'm completely on topic for the thread. Why are you feds even here? Must be a slow weekend.
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--- 28761066
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>>28761042
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the thread is about dating people with different political opinions, not listen to a tripfag who pretends he's 139 to say his gay opinions about everything
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--- 28761121
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>>28755897 (OP)
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Don't worry about it. Women, being largely insulated from reality have entirely retarded political positions which tend to fall apart as they are exposed to the way things really work.
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This is why female political views migrate over time towards those of their husbands and boyfriends.
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>>28761066
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That chick I responded to, said it matters and posed a question, everyone who responded to her side stepped it. I not only answered but gave my opinion on which political ideas I believe matter the most in a relationship, atleast to me. This isn't difficult to grasp. The trip is unnecessary, sure, but I've done nothing incorrect here.
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>>28755897 (OP)
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Pretty important. I have a relationship broken up by different political views. It matters because the lives of our children depends on it.
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>>28760804
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Yeah, the reasons why your capitalized "no" should be accepted by the people who get their lives together.
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Being a namefag doesn't validate your opinions.
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>>28755897 (OP)
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Having similar values is crucial in a relationship.
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It's possible to have different political stances despite sharing values, depending on the tradeoffs and thought processes involved, but given the state of polarization in the West, it's pretty hard to imagine how anyone with strongly-held values could have the complete opposite political stance of nearly everyone else with said values.
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>>28760508
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Keep in mind that /adv/ gets some leakage from the degenerates on /soc/. I know of at least two female posters here who were actual camwhores, and as you can imagine, it's the least put-together people who tend to spend the most time here.
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>>28762942
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It's called emphasis, you mongoloid. I wasn't going to write am entire essay under each disagreement. You are a mongoloid. Most likely glownigger . Go suck on somd foreskins, Moishe.
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-----
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--- 28755989
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>be me, only child of a physically and emotionally abusive single mother
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>she had me young and resents me for it
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>she's a manic depressive alcoholic, but puts up a good front and only her younger sister knows what a cunt she is
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>my aunt has no children so she picked me up from school as a kid and babysat regularly
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>she's very affectionate, giving me hugs and kisses my mother never did and plays video games with me
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>she becomes the only adult I can rely on and I wished she was my mother
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>then at 11, I walk in on her in red bra and panties in her bedroom
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>stare openmouthed for about five seconds at her curvy 25 year old figure until she gives me a shy smile and I run out of the room
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>EVERYTHING CHANGES
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--- 28755993
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>>28755989 (OP)
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>masturbate for the first time to the memory later that night and many nights since
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>go through middle school, high school, and college only dating older women with an age gap that increased by the year
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>none of them interest me for more than a few months
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>come back home after college, looking for an apartment because there's no way I'm going back to my bitch of a mother
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>aunt invites me to live with her until I find a place
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>months later, I've stopped looking
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>come home from work and she's cooking dinner, usually dancing to music while I try to ignore it or risk popping a boner
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>then we watch TV together, and she sometimes falls asleep on my shoulder
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>she's still as physically affectionate with me at 22 as she was when I was a child, if not more so
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>recently been researching the risk of genetic defects from inbreeding
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I have no idea what to do. Feels like my aunt is my wife and the thought of her being with another man makes me physically ill. I've slept with other women, almost exclusively older, but I don't have that same emotional connection to them. My aunt's been married once, but has been perpetually single since, and the only thing holding me back from making a move on her is the fear of losing what we have.
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TLDR: I am deeply attracted to my aunt both physically and emotionally, and am starting to suspect she may be attracted to me, too. I'm finding it increasingly difficult not to act on it.
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--- 28756004
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Post pic of aunt
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--- 28756014
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Classic setup for incest erotica. Don't let it devolve into NTR erotica, bro!
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--- 28756055
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>>28755989 (OP)
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I'm gonna say it now, she likely isn't going to reciprocate your attraction. She is probably being the mom-figure, that you never had. Don't ruin this relationship with your aunt, because you're horny. Two, if you decided to pursue romantic intentions with her, you're gonna have to build it up slowly, lest you expose your attraction, and then be shunned.
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In my opinion, it sounds like she is just an affectionate person, who is comfortable with you. You can't read minds, and the risk is too large. The simplest answer is usually the right one.
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>into older women
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People learn how to form romantic relationships through their parents. When you say your young, hot aunt in underwear, this undoubtedly made you into older women.
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--- 28756073
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>>28755989 (OP)
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white people
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--- 28756081
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Older women are perverted for real, I wouldn’t doubt she’d fuck you. She probably won’t have your child because of stigma, but she’d probably let you fuck or suck you off each night. Women get hornier with age, and a single older women has no better options. What’s worst that can happen if you confess to her? She probably would just feel bad for you and baby you more as a parent… or she just fucks you on the spot.
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--- 28756123
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>>28756073
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the people who have the most incest children statistically are arab, indian and hispanic countries
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--- 28756137
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>>28756123
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Jews are also inbred and most blacks don't know who their (real) father is and end up fucking their half-siblings more often than you'd think.
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--- 28756142
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>>28756137
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Cope, blacks have the most genetic diversity of any race
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--- 28756155
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>>28755993
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Clearly you got some wires crossed because of your shitty mom. Your aunt sees you as a son she doesn't want to fuck you. Please don't tell her this it'll make her hate herself.
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--- 28756178
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>>28755993
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Do it, she's definitely using you as her emotional husband. All you need to do is take control and make your move, you're a man now so act like it.
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--- 28756317
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>>28756004
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Nah. I already felt nervous enough posting this on the off chance one of my friends sees this and puts two and two together. To give you a rough sketch, though, she's a Latina with long wavy brunette hair in her mid-thirties that doesn't look it.
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>>28756014
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This is my second biggest fear after losing the relationship completely. Her husband was an all right guy and I didn't see him much since he was at work a lot, but I've never felt more envy and loathing for another human being. She doesn't seem that interested in dating and horror stories from her friends have turned her off ever using the apps, but who knows when some meet cute shit could happen.
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>>28756055
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>I'm gonna say it now, she likely isn't going to reciprocate your attraction. She is probably being the mom-figure, that you never had. Don't ruin this relationship with your aunt, because you're horny.
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This is the sensible thing to do. Intellectually, I know that. But it runs deeper than horniness. I've had sex, not with a ton of women, but a decent amount, simply trying to push my aunt out of mind. There was nothing particularly wrong with any of them, but none of them held my attention. I've carried my aunt to bed a few times when she's dozed off and more than anything I just want to cuddle with her like we sometimes do on the couch.
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>>28756073
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I'm only half-white on my deadbeat dad's side. Close enough, though.
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--- 28756371
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where ever you heard this idea of "confessing" is full of idiots who are really dumb and have zero experience, stop listening to them because they are retarded virgins who watch too many movies
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--- 28756376
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TAKE THE FOOKIN SHOT MATE DONT LET THE FLAME DIE OUT ITS DO OR DIE
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--- 28756421
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okay but in all honestly mate dont go in this with a pursuit of horniness or just trying to fuck her to go in with a "mindset" or goal or intent of a more loving romatic realtion with her not just "fuck shes so hot and shes nice to me"
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--- 28756724
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Start the slow burn romance. Increase affection and toe the line, both physically and emotionally. Don't outright confess without certainty that she reciprocates your love.
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--- 28756872
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Damn this is fucked up. In for results.
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--- 28756920
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PLEASE CONTINUE THE STORY I AM SO HARD RIGHT NOW OP
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--- 28756923
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SWEEET HOOOME ALABAMA.
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--- 28757017
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>>28756920
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THATS WHAT IM SYAING RIGHT???!!!
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--- 28757020
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>>28756081
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It's not just about sex for me...but you paint an appealing image, sir. My concern is the worst case is me getting kicked out and her cutting off contact completely, or at least our every interaction becoming incredibly awkward.
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|
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>>28756155
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I mean, you're absolutely right about my mom fucking me up. But I don't know if a normal mother(or maternal figure) and son are as touchy with each other as we are. We kiss on the lips, not making out, but like a peck and when I've had a hard day she'll let me rest my head on her lap and massage my scalp. I'm definitely scared of her withdrawing from me over this, though.
|
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|
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>>28756178
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>>28756376
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>>28756421
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Talking about it here, I'm starting to lean that way, bros. But going about it cautiously like >>28756055 suggested. If I felt this way about someone that wasn't blood, I'd confess and get shot down or get together, either way would mean moving forward. As is, I've just got all these unresolved feelings bottled up inside me.
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--- 28757054
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>>28757020
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DAMN BRUH HOW CAN U NOT WIN? SHE KISSES U AND LETS U LAY UR HEAD ON HER THIGHS DAMN MAN U GOT THIS DONT OVERTHINK IT FIGHT THE GOOD FIGHT
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--- 28757062
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>>28755989 (OP)
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Watch this
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https://youtu.be/nkGiFpJC9LM [Embed]
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--- 28757102
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>>28757020
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>We kiss on the lips
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your aunt wants your cock
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--- 28757103
|
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>>28757020
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Don't even confess it. Words fail where actions are necessary, just get her drinking and talking about life and make your move
|
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--- 28757157
|
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>>28757062
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Wtf
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--- 28757234
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>>28755989 (OP)
|
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Don’t do it, OP.
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Those who are encouraging you to commit incest don’t give a fuck about you. They only want to project their sexually dysfunctional fantasy through your story. That’s all.
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They don’t care about you
|
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your aunt
|
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your abusive mom
|
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your pain your struggles your lack of emotional security and bitterly cold experience through childhood, they don’t care about the genuine care you received from a mom figure.
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They just care about fapping, that’s it.
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Do NOT fall for the advice of degenerates. What you managed to get from your aunt - your family - it was real nurturing, it was a life line for your child self to hang onto. It is, and still serves, as a checkmark of stability in what was an extremely painfully unstable development of your self.
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You throw that away when you expect incest from her. You burn that vital bridge that carried you as a broken child. And you are left with nothing after. Only what you managed to develop as an adult, but torn from something precious all the same.
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And why? Because anons encouraged your dysfunctional trauma bond you have with your aunt. Because they were horny. A trauma bond made through no fault of yours or your aunts, made by circumstances surrounding your fucked up mom.
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…but gutless, spineless cunts like these:
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>>28756004
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>>28756178
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>>28756376
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>>28756724
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>>28756920
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>>28757102
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dont even care.
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--- 28757239
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>>28757102
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exactly thats what ive been saying bruh
|
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--- 28757248
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>>28757062
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That only happens after generations of inbreeding. Inbred defects aren't magic they happen because the more you concentrate your genes the higher chances of any defects your genes already have will express. As long as him and his aunt are healthy there's nothing wrong with it and aunt and nephew are pretty far away genetic wise anyway
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--- 28757256
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>>28757234
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DONT LISTEN TO THIS BITCH ASS HE DONT KNOW TF HE TALKING BOUT U A REAL ONE G DONT LET THESE OTHA MANS STEAL UR SUCCESS TAKE THE SHOT ITS ALL OR NOTHING HES NEEVR EVEN BEEN WITH A FEMALE IN HIS LIFE
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--- 28757287
|
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>>28755989 (OP)
|
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You gotta fuck your Aunt. You're a top G right?? A top G would fuck their aunt
|
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--- 28757296
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>>28757234
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You couldn't be more wrong, its not about fapping to me its about love. And no one can love you like your flesh and blood can, trust me I know this well.
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--- 28757321
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>>28757287
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>posts a picture or a convicted scam artist
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--- 28757326
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>>28757234
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FUCK U MEAN WE DONT CARE??? IM READIN THIS SHIT LIKE TIS THE FUCKIN BIBLE!!
|
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GOTTA BE ONA THE EBST GAH DAMN TRHEADS I EVER READ
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IMA GIVING ADCIVE TO MY SON LIKE IM HIS GODAMN COACH
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|
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"honey the kids need to be picked up from-" SHUT UP BITCH THE AUNT 4 CHAN THREAD JUST POSTED A NEW REPY
|
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--- 28758525
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>>28757234
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this.
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your aunt is lonely too - but from an emotional perspective. you are probably high-test.
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honestly, you should get your own place.
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--- 28759265
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>>28757321
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Tate got convicted?
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--- 28759312
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>>28757239
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The picture with the words has me weak.
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But seriously I wouldn’t do it. She’s basically your mom and you mess that up, it’s all over man.
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It’ll never be the same again and you’ll forever ruin your relationship.
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--- 28759382
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>>28755989 (OP)
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>>28755993
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Assuming this isn't a larp (it's a strong possibility), you're treating her like a surrogate wife and she's treating you like a surrogate child / husband (without the sex). You're both fucked up, completely fucked up. You're both codependent. You need to put boundaries in place. She needs to put boundaries in place. The best thing to do is move. After you move, go fuck 10 different women. If you keep living together, you're going to rape her, you're going to go to jail and she'll get all the sympathy. OMG, I didn't know he would do that, I would never think in a million years he would.
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--- 28759441
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>>28757020
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you know you're fucking retarded all you have to do is make her want you build some muscle lose weight whatever get a haircut or go to a stylist wear cologne start walking around half naked and netflix and chilling when she doesn't get what you're doing start gaslighting her into it and she'll finally understand
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--- 28759984
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>>28759382
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>rape
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Let's be real: she's been grooming him into this, at least indirectly, for a while. She knows what she's doing and how he feels. Women pick up on these things, even hags, they're not retarded.
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Worse that will happen is she have to deal with her own monster by telling him "no" sternly.
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--- 28760242
|
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>mfw i have a hot aunt that i've masturbated to as well
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--- 28760271
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Anon this would ruin your life
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Don't do it
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--- 28760483
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>>28755989 (OP)
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Don't confess shit, that's the most retarded move and guaranteed disaster
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You should either:
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>suppress your sexual feelings and go on truly enjoying a mother-son-like relationship
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Or, as that's borderline impossible to do:
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>carefully try to spark something and very slowly escalate, always ready to take a step back
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Do some stuff like this schizo post >>28759441 mentioned (improve and take care of your body, hair, beard, smell, clothing)
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Capitalize on your moments together like you mentioned on the TV and start cuddling / escalate up the physical contact
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Introduce alcohol to the equation (but control yourself) to remove inhibition
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Take your time, don't suddenly change your behavior, don't push anything. The point is that if you gradually (over weeks) make yourself desirable, spark a tiny fire in her and greatly facilitate the very first move for either of you, eventually stuff can happen
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Whatever happens in the future, be prepared to be assertive and reasonable, to say that you appreciate the affection but you also have sexual desires you can't ignore, and that despite it you will respect her and go forward / step back whichever way she wants to take it
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--- 28760531
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>>28760483
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ib4 massage
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--- 28760537
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>>28755989 (OP)
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How do I get a gf with big booba like this, OP?
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--- 28762498
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bump
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--- 28763214
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This got posted to Reddit
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Pic unrelated
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--- 28763236
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walk in her room at night and say “it suddenly got big”
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--- 28763278
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>>28762498
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Ty. I had a minor update to make, but figured this thread would be archived by the time I woke up.
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Ever since my aunt and I started living together, we've been having Saturday movie nights where we'll order in, split a bottle of wine, and take turns choosing movies. My aunt's movie tastes are pretty dark and twisted(horror/psychological) while mine are more standard(action/sci-fi/fantasy)
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>last night she chose this bleak Mexican movie Amores Perros(pretty kino, though)
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>she's been picking lots of Spanish movies lately, wanting me to improve my own which is barely functioning
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>internally I'm seething about this recent heat wave since we can't cuddle under a throw like usual
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>we're on the second glass of Sangria watching one of the character arcs come to a bad end when she says something like, "So sad. He destroyed his life going for the wrong woman."
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>my mind starts fucking RACING, but between the alcohol and having unburdened myself here for the first time in 11 years I say, "I guess, but better to have tried and failed than not tried at all."
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>she gives me this long considering look, then just goes, "Hmm" before breaking eye contact
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Really torn on how to take this, bros. Does she know about my feelings and is disgusted by them? Does she know about my feelings and is uncomfortable about her own? Or am I just overthinking things and we're just two people talking about a fucking movie? I'd go to a therapist about all this, but I know they'd absolutely talk me out of it, where here I'm getting both sides of the possibilities.
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--- 28763401
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>>28763278
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I hate shit like this man. Guessing if someone wants you romantically when it's not supposed to be. Happened with a friend's girlfriend. Nothing ever came of it so I won't give my advice. It's really up to you anon. If you were to 'make a move,' what would you do?
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--- 28763418
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Don’t let these incels talk you into thinking incest is normal and that you should make a move. It’s not and more than likely there is a 99% chance you will lose the only relationship you care for, because your aunt also knows it isn’t normal.
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Only thing you can do is nothing. Enjoy that you have a close relationship with your aunt and If youre really fucked up, hope she will make the first move in the coming years. That’s the only way this fucked up little fantasy works out for you, if this is even real.
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But don’t fucking make a move dumbass
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Or be a normal adult, build this into a normal relationship and start living your real life outside this incest shit. You probably got a trauma from your mom and need to build and try relationships with normal women your age.
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--- 28763440
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>>28763278
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>Or am I just overthinking things
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You are but this is one of the very few moments when overthinking is justifiable
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>Does she know about my feelings
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Almost certainly
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>and is disgusted by them?
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Most likely not
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>and is uncomfortable about her own?
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Very likely
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Looks like she is conflicted and scared for the same reasons as you are. It's going to take an unbelievably high sexual tension for it to go further
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I'd say forget about social stigma, frustration and anxiety and take it day by day. Enjoy what you have.
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--- 28763454
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>>28763278
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2 things, Anon:
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1) you’re probably overthinking it. She was also into the bottle, meaning that stare followed by a simple “hmm” could have been drunk brain processing. If you disagree, tell me why.
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2) If you smash your hot aunt, for the love of God you need to proof, and put me in the damn screenshot please!
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Pic unrelated
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--- 28763456
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Maybe bring up if your Aunt ever wants kids because you’ve been thinking about getting a vasectomy so you can’t have any and see what she says. You can’t produce inbreds with her if you’re fixed.
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--- 28763464
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Confessing to her would out her in the spot to say "OK let's do it" or "sorry but..." nobody rational or healthy is going to take your confession to the next level and so OK let's have incest. It's something that just has to happen. Know what I mean?
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--- 28763485
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>>28763464
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This. Women need to get caught up in the moment and carried away with their passions so after the fact they can say “one thing led to another and it just happened”.
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But seriously don’t do this, but if you do do this, only do it if you both never want children and are willing to move away to a new place where nobody knows you’re related and you always take solid precautions (ie; vasectomy and IUD) to make sure babies never happen.
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--- 28763699
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This is more fake than Will Smith's marriage but I am invested nonetheless
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--- 28763907
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>>28763214
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Wait, what? Are you serious? My aunt occasionally browses reddit. Was getting ready to reply to a bunch of posts but you've got me scared now.
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--- 28763925
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>>28755989 (OP)
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Bruhhhh you need therapy for, do not proceed
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But if you do it take pics and send proof
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--- 28763944
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>>28763278
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You need to be talked out of it, go to therapy.
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--- 28763958
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>>28760271
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Yeah but it's more fun this way.
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--- 28763961
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>>28763907
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Unless she browses r/greentext you’re probably ok?
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--- 28764013
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Sounds to me like she also has feelings for you and is struggling with them herself. Hanging out on the couch, watching tv, just kiss her and see what she does. If she reciprocates, great! If she reacts poorly, apologize and say you’ve just been feeling lonely. Based on how it sounds, I seriously don’t think she’ll shun you for it. Worse case scenario, you’ll tell you she doesn’t feel that way or that it can’t happen. But best case scenario, you may have the best night of your life. I say go for it, but be gentle about it. Try to be romantic and focus on the relationship you have, not the sexual attraction
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--- 28764105
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Motherfuckers posting advice here like this is some normal love story trying to help him get laid with a girl. This is incest, aunt knows, Its not normal, he’s going to screw up his only good relationship. Abort and dont listen to these hentai addicted virgins.
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--- 28764129
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Best thing you can do is to tell her you’re considering therapy because you believe you’re falling in love with her.
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Make it feel like it’s something recent or you will crush her. Tell her you know you can’t have her but you’re afraid to loose the relationship you have with her.
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She won’t be disgusted, she will either support you or come out of the closet herself. but seriously OP, you need therapy, and there’s nothing wrong in acknowledging you need it.
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--- 28764164
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>>28764105
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Nothing to do with hentai, some of us come from big families and are very family oriented
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--- 28764186
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>>28763907
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GET YOUR FUCKING ASS BACK ON THAT FUCKING SEAT AND SLAM THAT KEYBOARD LIKE YOU WOULD CLAP YOU AUNT’S CHEEKS!!
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--- 28764701
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Don't do it Anon, pls don't ruin it
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--- 28764762
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You fuckers don’t realise that this is real life and not one of your twisted fantasies.
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This was the worst place to share this OP, don’t ruin your relationship with your aunt for temporary gratification.
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--- 28764798
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>>28763907
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https://www.reddit.com/r/greentext/comments/12nmmm1/anon_likes_his_aunt/
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its doing numbers, you should see the comments for further advice
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--- 28764893
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OP DO. NOT. DO. IT. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD PLEASE DON'T
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--- 28764903
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>>28764893
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it too late
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i stuck in aunt popper, now i going to prism :(
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--- 28764923
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Imagine not fucking your aunt's brain out after you both kissed on the lips
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--- 28764967
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>>28755989 (OP)
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I know a guy who was in OP’s situation. Pretty smart fucker (finance masters, big bank job, similar family situation to OP) and it’s an open secret in our friend group that he’s dicking down his aunt on the regular. From what I can tell in the thread and from his own consultation; OP’s aunt has also thought about it but likely won’t be the one to make a move if she’s shy. OP should do things that make him appear more masculine and desirable and there’s a greater chance she will be putty in his hand - just slowly start doing more intimate things and displays of affection (kind of like reverse-grooming) and you should be good to go
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If that doesn’t work you can just do picrel
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--- 28765064
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>>28763278
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NIGGA U CUDDLE WITH HER UNDER THE BLANKETS HOW TF CAN U MESS THIS UP SHE WANTS U NIGGA
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--- 28765181
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>>28764105
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why go for some random whore roastie if you already have a good relationship with a woman you live with? do normalfags really?
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-----
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--- 28756664
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Never..
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--- 28756689
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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Please sir may I have a crumb of context
|
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--- 28756694
|
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>>28756689
|
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its just a reminder , women get dry over men showing emotions
|
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--- 28756810
|
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>>28756694
|
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No. Women dry up when they sense insecurity. Be either from a emotionally dependant man that cries to her or a bottled up man who puts pussy over his emotional well being.
|
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+
|
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+
Crying is ok just don't make her feel like you depend on her.
|
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--- 28756850
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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+
I do what I want. Kyle Rittenhouse fucks premium pussy.
|
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+
--- 28757009
|
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>>28756810
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what is the literal point of being in a relationship if you don't depend on your partner at least to some degree lmao, emotionally being the first and most basic one
|
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+
--- 28757063
|
22 |
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My last gf was all like yeah it's ok to show emotions and have feels as a man! So once I said I felt depressed one time or how some songs gave me feels or whatever I could immediately perceive her immediate lack of interest in me after that. We broke up like 5 months later after I showed her weak emotions despite her insisting I did. So yeah, gotta remain stoic and emotionless forever around women, until you inevitably explode from just shoving down every single negative feeling.
|
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--- 28757067
|
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That's stupid. What if your dad just died or something?
|
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+
--- 28757166
|
26 |
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Why would you change your behavior for a woman? If you believe a man should not cry because you arrived at that conclusion that's ok but if you have to cry, cry. Fuck the bitches your mistake wasn't crying your mistake was getting attached to the bitch so when she left you it hurt.
|
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--- 28757331
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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This is a toxic message to send to men. To enforce an idea that they can't cry, is a mistake. Anybody can cry, everybody is allowed to cry. That much is true.
|
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+
|
31 |
+
What you're missing is that unapologetically being yourself(Which is ultimately what women want out of a man, alongside Wealth, Power, and Children/Sex), includes crying. Alongside the many women who toxically believe any man who cries is a weak faggot, there are just as many women, if not more, who accept that men have feelings too and moderately welcome them as should any balanced human being expect another human being to cry when they are down and out and having their worst days.
|
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+
|
33 |
+
It is okay to cry at the beauty of art and smphony, it is okay to cry when you meet your children right after they are born, it is okay to cry when you've lost everything, it's okay to cry when mourning a loved one has passed, it is okay to cry when you're in therapy expressing real emotions that you've repressed for years of your life if you have, or if you're sick/ill, or if you're heartbroken, of if you've been betrayed or seen a corpse outside of a funeral home or casket, it is okay to cry when you find your child if she was missing. It is okay to cry if you're empathetic towards somebody's tragedy and disaster.
|
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|
35 |
+
It is okay to cry when it is necessary to cry. But crying shouldn't be a sport or a vie for attention.
|
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+
--- 28757403
|
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>>28757063
|
38 |
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You were insecure, not because you were crying, but because you felt you “immediately perceived her immediate lack of interest” THAT is insecurity.
|
39 |
+
That is where you probably asked for reassurance that you were still attractive in her eyes. That was where you slipped. You got insecure over crying. Not because you cried.
|
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|
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+
Men who refuse to cry in front of anyone have a lot more fucking issues to resolve than crying. A lot more. And it’s for those reasons that people leave, not because of the tears.
|
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+
|
43 |
+
People who are scared to cry or confide in their girlfriend are those who are afraid of ridicule, rejection, shame and abandonment.
|
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+
|
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+
The weak man is the one who can’t cry. Not the man who can allow himself to cry.
|
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--- 28757425
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>>28757376
|
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What do you want women to do when they see someone in distress? You want them to smile and dance while you cry? You want them to throw you a fucking party?
|
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+
|
50 |
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OF COURSE people around you cringe and get quiet and awkward or upset when you cry. That’s called EMPATHY.
|
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|
52 |
+
Emotions are contagious like this. In normal healthy, unbroken people that is how emotions work. If you are happy and jolly, its infectious, it spreads to them - raises their spirits, makes them also jolly.
|
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+
|
54 |
+
If you cry and are in pain, they freeze up, cringe, and feel uncomfortably sad around you.
|
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+
And you perceive that as being your fault because you are so damn suffocated by guilt and self blame and insecurity.
|
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|
57 |
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They cringe, yeah. But they endure it. They are WILLING to carry your emotional weight WITH YOU. And that means them also being sad and upset when you are sad and upset. Healthy people understand this, and do it anyway out of support and love.
|
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|
59 |
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They will fucking LEAVE the second you bottle up, or get weird and stonewall, or they can sense something isnt right where you start to neurotically overthink their reactions and get insecure. That is when people walk the fuck away.
|
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|
61 |
+
Because at that point, they realise you’re going to fuck them up emotionally too but also pull yourself into a further cycle of incessant dysfunctional emotional numbness for simply being with you. So they leave not wanting to be part of it.
|
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|
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That is the truth.
|
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--- 28757433
|
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>>28757063
|
66 |
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True and real. Except you don't have to be emotionless or bottle it up, you are allowed to express anger and women actually like it when you do.
|
67 |
+
As a man, the world is about strength. Women trying to convince you to be an emotional man are subconsciously trying to filter out the weaklings who fall for it. It's quite literally natural selection taking its course.
|
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+
--- 28757468
|
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>>28757433
|
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>posts a borderline teen whore on twitter's as representative of all women and their subconscious
|
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|
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Lunatic
|
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--- 28757478
|
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>>28756689
|
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>Please sir may I have a crumb of context
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OP refuses to be fulfilled in life
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OP blames muh females and muh relationshits for this, to give himself an excuse
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As a result, OP is overly invested in muh females and muh relationshits as a cure for his lack of fulfilment
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Women find you unattractive if you are weak
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So OP is personally vulnerable to being seen as weak by women, as OP insists on using women as a solution for his self-image issues, and OP's too much of a retard to realise that's a stupid idea.
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>>28757009
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>what is the literal point of being in a relationship if you don't depend on your partner at least to some degree lmao
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Here you used the same word for two different concepts.
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In a relationship, you WORK TOGETHER WITH (depend on) your partner to do things.
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If you're a loser faggot, you ABANDON YOUR SIDE OF THE TASK AND LET (depend on) your partner do things.
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For instance. Do you have women do things with you to get you excited about yourself? Or do you sit on your lazy little ass and expect women to be excited about you?
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>>28757433
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>Der Waman
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>Still no Der Man meme whenever KHV#1998732 posts a lewd horny image or text detailing how much he wants a woman to spit in his mouth or crush him underfoot or under her ass or abuse him and humiliate him
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Fucking classic degens at it again
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--- 28757570
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How's this:
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men are allowed 1 cry a year.
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>>28757331
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Lots of women say this. But then they get the "ick" when he cries and then they cheat on him.
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>>28757570
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Fuck off. You’re allowed whatever you say you’re allowed. And if you say you aren’t allowed to cry, then you won’t cry.
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Allow these things for yourself, anon. Stop being insecure and needing others to tell you how to cry. You want me to tell you how many times you should wipe your ass too?
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>>28757577
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Provide sources with actual names and locations and contexts or fuck off.
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--- 28757656
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>>28757594
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>You want me to tell you how many times you should wipe your ass too?
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Sure, anything done excessively can be bad. If a guy wipes his ass 100 times after every shit that's not good for the plumbing or his ass.
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If a guy cries every week, that can't be healthy. This is the same for women too.
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>>28757656
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every week is fine.
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men cry 5 - 17 times ayear on avg
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30 - 64 for women is avg
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people who cry more than avg or less are living unaverage lives, and unaverage cirucmstances are affecting them and that much is out of their control
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--- 28757833
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>>28756664 (OP)
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Doesn't your meme prove the concept of toxic masculinity is true?
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--- 28757845
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>>28757492
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>Misunderstood the question
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>Said something genuinely retarded
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>Was self-righteous about it
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...Ask me how I know you're a foid
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--- 28757879
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>>28757833
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Incels will always find a way to blame women, even when it's male on male violence or whatever.
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Dad ran out on his family to fuck a bunch of 19 year old hookers in vegas? Oh single mothers are so evil.
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Dudes are bullying you in school? Oh they surely must be doing that to impress girl.
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You literally have your father telling you "boys don't cry, be a man, find your balls, man up, stop being a negative nancy etc" ? uhhhh oh uhm shit uhhh no actually he learned it from my mean evil roastie grandma probably
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--- 28757898
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>>28757403
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Either a woman wrote this or some onions boy who never had his penis touched.
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Attention 4chan, do not take relationship advice from either of these people
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--- 28757918
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>>28757898
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That's what I'm saying. Feel-good fairy tale nonsense.
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The real world is blatantly in-your-face about what is valued and what isn't. Real world experience will buttfuck you with the truth. The real world does not use lube.
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--- 28757919
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>>28757898
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Not an argument.
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--- 28757986
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Never cry in front of women. Instead yell at them and get a little lighter in that way. Women like it when you yell at them. Never be nice to them it gives them the fucking ick
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--- 28758005
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>>28757986
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--- 28758034
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I never cry but I also never get angry either. Will women get bored of me and should I fake anger and be a dickhead to them every once in a while?
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--- 28758060
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>>28758034
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It's not something you can fake. Anyway, women know how to get anger out of men. You don't have to worry about this.
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--- 28758111
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>>28757898
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I wrote it. I’m a man who is engaged to be married in a couple of months. She is my rock, and I am hers. Though continue to make assumptions to shut out inconvenient truths your whole life. I’m sure it will work out.
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--- 28758135
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>>28757577
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There's a huge chunk of women who don't do this, but there is a sect of women who do, but you only see those girls on social media. The ones offline taking care of their business, are quite different from the girls you're talking about.
|
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You're not wrong though, to state that a lot of girls go out of their way to be politically correct, then show their true colors when something freaks them out, but a ton of women also condemn this kind of behavior and stand by their husbands even when they cry.
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>>28757600
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He's probably referencing the tons of videos on TikTok of women acting like whores, thinking all girls are like this. There is a bunch of them out there acting like this, but plenty more who are disconnected from this social media jungle of social engineering and have their priorities straight.
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--- 28758136
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>>28757986
|
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So how long have you been dating your girlfriend anon? I assume you have on right now right? After all, you just gotta yell at women and never be nice to them to keep them hooked.
|
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|
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So show us the fruits of your harvest, you killer hunk of a man. Tell us all about your successful relationship right now :)
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--- 28758705
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>>28756664 (OP)
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I cry in front of other men, but not women. Never cry in front of women. Save face for the women and children.
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--- 28758723
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>>28757777
|
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>men cry 5 - 17 times ayear on avg
|
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no tears have left my eyes since the age of 13
|
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--- 28758769
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>>28758723
|
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I’m sorry to hear. Mine were dried up from around 12 - 13 all the way to 28. I know what it means to be spiritually broken too.
|
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--- 28760904
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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First of all you should live this life for yourself. If a women doesn‘t like you crying, then fuck her. If you have to be fake with someone, the relationship will go downhill in the future.
|
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A lot of women love strong guys that show vulnerability. You shouldn‘t pretend to be someone you are not and then burst out crying.
|
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--- 28762614
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>>28757331
|
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Don't listen to this faggot. Crying will doom your relationship with your bitch. Crying is seen as a weakness by every single woman.
|
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--- 28762664
|
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>>28757986
|
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Only if you're like an 8/10, since your abusive nature will be mitigated by your looks.
|
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--- 28762719
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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If I don't want to date or hookup with them then I will cry if I want to, just not loudly.
|
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--- 28762734
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>>28757507
|
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Women differ from other women less than men differ from men. There is less variance between women. Thats why there are no memes like that about men
|
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--- 28762792
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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Correct, also stop being a whiny bitch about it.
|
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--- 28762809
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what if you blame it all on her, yell and insult her throughout it?
|
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--- 28762856
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>>28757009
|
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>He doesn't know women are retarded and incoherent
|
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Kek you are in for a wild ride Anon
|
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--- 28762871
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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I am a man, and I lose all respect for a 'man' when i find out he has '''depression'''. No I am not supressing anything. No society (bottom text) is not oppressing me. Grow the fuck up.
|
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--- 28762920
|
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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>>28757063
|
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Why the fuck are more women becoming such cutthroat and cold hearted bitches?
|
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Sweet Jesus Christ...
|
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Like the moment you cry, get sad about something that really got to you, she quickly loses interest in you.
|
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I've seen this happen with other guys in real life too.
|
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Fuck, I hate to say this though it shit like this that makes you lose trust, respect and love for them.
|
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--- 28762925
|
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>>28762920
|
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>becoming
|
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Its always been this way pussy, nut up.
|
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--- 28762949
|
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>>28762920
|
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>I've seen this happen with other guys in real life too.
|
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What kind of girls were they with? And what kind of guys were they?
|
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|
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Cause if you're the kind of guy that acts like he's big and strong and afraid of nothing and nothing hurts him, physically or emotionally, and you're dating a dumb bimbo who is with you because that's the kind of guy you pretend to be.. then yeah, what the fuck do you expect?
|
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|
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But if they're a normal ass dude then that's a different story, and I want to know what kind of chicks those are, cause I'd assume they are.. well the same dumb bimbos from the last example
|
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--- 28763032
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>>28762949
|
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They are mostly normal guys, though what it's just weird that a lot of those women came of as chill, friendly at first.
|
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Like I saw a few of these guys get their asses kicked during boxing sparring sessions: you could clearly see tears, angry expressions on their faces.
|
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Yet you overhear the women who were "kickboxing" say shit like:
|
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>Is he crying? what a pussy
|
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>I bet he's a momma's boy
|
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>Bet he never got punched in his life
|
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I personally get furious when I hear so many of these dumb, cold whores say shit like this.
|
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So many of them say shit like this so damn often.
|
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+
I know I'm not suppose to get pissed, this has legit make me lose love, hope and respect for women...
|
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--- 28763050
|
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>>28763032
|
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>Like I saw a few of these guys get their asses kicked during boxing sparring sessions: you could clearly see tears, angry expressions on their faces.
|
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>Yet you overhear the women who were "kickboxing" say shit like:
|
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>>Is he crying? what a pussy
|
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>>I bet he's a momma's boy
|
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>>Bet he never got punched in his life
|
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Uh oh, I'd prolly say the same damn things (except worse) lol. Enlighten me on why a guy would cry after getting their ass kicked in one of these sessions? Particularly sparring sessions but either way
|
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|
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Cause to me it's like, aww look, the poor baby thought he was invincible, huh?
|
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--- 28763077
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>>28763050
|
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Or maybe it's painful.
|
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--- 28763154
|
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It's a shittest. It's always a shittest.
|
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--- 28763239
|
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>>28763077
|
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>Or maybe it's painful.
|
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Like physically? Cause that's fair, yeah
|
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--- 28763371
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>>28756664 (OP)
|
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There are only two times when a man can cry in public: when he loses his wallet and when his mother dies. And even if you cry in private, there’s a severe restriction. Shed tears for others. The only thing you should be shedding for yourself is sweat.
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--- 28763373
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>>28763050
|
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You've clearly never been in a fight if you get hit anywhere in the face you're guaranteed to have some tears rolling down your eyes, especially if you were to be hit on the nose, you just sound like a massive faggot.
|
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--- 28763382
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>>28763373
|
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>You've clearly never been in a fight if you get hit anywhere in the face you're guaranteed to have some tears rolling down your eyes, especially if you were to be hit on the nose, you just sound like a massive faggot.
|
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>>28763239
|
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>>Or maybe it's painful.
|
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>Like physically? Cause that's fair, yeah
|
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|
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?
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--- 28763395
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>>28757833
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his meme proves societal hatred towards males (including males hating other males or toxic masculinity) will create better men. This much is true. Men must save themselves and women will never save those men who want it the most. Because those men are considered weak by society and must kill themselves or just rot away. Women however are always valuable since you can forcibly impregnate them and gain children which is what society depends on. This is the entire reason of why society is structured the way it is. Every society that tried a different structure died out for lack of children.
|
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Women invaluable as long as they get pregnant, men worthless as you only need one to impregnate all the women.
|
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--- 28763413
|
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There’s no point living life inauthentically. If you’re being yourself and it’s not working out I say tough luck, let both of you find out if something better really is out there. Some people aren’t cut out for commitment and bonding and vulnerability, at least not at the time you met them or not with you.
|
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--- 28763427
|
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>>28763382
|
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Like I said you're a massive faggot, which is clearly shown through your passive aggression, hopefully you get your jaw shattered retard.
|
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--- 28763430
|
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>>28763395
|
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>Men must save themselves and women will never save those men who want it the most
|
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Women try to save men all the time, it's just that the men they try to save are usually rotten pieces of shit and no one understands why these women are wasting their time on them..
|
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|
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Granted a lot (most?) of the women men try to save are also rotten pieces of shit, it's just that everyone at least tries to tell women that their men are rotten pieces of shit, whereas men who are wasting their time on shitty women.. people just stand back and watch, maybe point and laugh, then if the guy comes asking for help they tell him "oh just follow your heart, you know she loves you, gaygaygay, blahblahblah." Then they say to each other "he's only staying with her because she's hot anyway, he doesn't really care about her" or some shit like that, that way they can sleep better at night despite misleading the poor fucking guy
|
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|
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Or hey, maybe the same shit happens to women and I just don't know about it, who knows
|
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|
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>This is the entire reason of why society is structured the way it is
|
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And how do you think society is structured, exactly?
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--- 28764292
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>>28763430
|
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>Women try to save men all the time, it's just that the men they try to save are usually rotten pieces of shit and no one understands why these women are wasting their time on them..
|
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those women are often abused and subconciously desire that treatment. stay the fuck away from those girls.
|
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|
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>Granted a lot (most?) of the women men try to save are also rotten pieces of shit, it's just that everyone at least tries to tell women that their men are rotten pieces of shit, whereas men who are wasting their time on shitty women.. people just stand back and watch, maybe point and laugh, then if the guy comes asking for help they tell him "oh just follow your heart, you know she loves you, gaygaygay, blahblahblah." Then they say to each other "he's only staying with her because she's hot anyway, he doesn't really care about her" or some shit like that, that way they can sleep better at night despite misleading the poor fucking guy
|
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yeah but said guy is having sex and in this economy, that's a pretty good profit i'd say
|
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>tfw no stupid unsalvageable gf I can fuck
|
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I'm lonely and so is my dick.
|
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|
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>And how do you think society is structured, exactly?
|
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Like I explained? Every succesful society turns women into breeding sows and men into expendable warriors filled with pride so it's easy to send them to war.
|
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|
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It's the reason North Koreas birth rate is above replacement level whereas South Koreas birth rate is abysmal. In 2 generations there won't be enough South Koreans left and the North can just walk in and take it all for free. Literally multigenerational warfare.
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--- 28764458
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>>28762856
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This.
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>Waaaah Anon why don't you open up more? I'm here for you you know?
|
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>*opens up*
|
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>Ew Anon stop being such a bitch
|
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A tale as old as time.
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--- 28764487
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I shed a single tear when a racist band got cancelled. Do you think my aryan ex who i still love was turned off?
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--- 28764559
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>>28757403
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believing your lying eyes is insecure, chuds
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--- 28756825
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How do I charismamaxx?
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--- 28756997
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>>28756825 (OP)
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RNW2c4S7q_Q [Embed]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFcJJHsaiFU [Embed]
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--- 28757124
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>>28756997
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Whenever I watch these videos I'm like yeah I'm going to do this and be like this from now on but then the next day I've already forgotten everything and I'm back to my old self.
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--- 28758961
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bumo
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--- 28759054
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>>28757124
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You need to actually note down what they're saying in bullet point. And then apply it in your own life. Yeah, it's easy to consume otherwise.
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--- 28761185
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>>28756825 (OP)
|
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have sex
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--- 28761303
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I have a lot of hobbies, creative stuff, I'm basically a walking encyclopedia, I know I'm attractive for a lot of reasons, my IQ is in the top 0.25%...and I've basically been to hell and back.
|
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Well, at least some of those you can invest some time in.
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--- 28762351
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> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gFcJJHsaiFU [Embed]
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|
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> Says things in the vaguest way possible
|
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> Pls sign up for my 8 week program guys!!!
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Everytime
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>>28762351
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maney such caseis
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Any really good single player Vidya for me to play
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--- 28757052
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What genre?
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Any is fine as long as the game is good
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>>28757083
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Metroid Prime.
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>>28757044 (OP)
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What consoles?
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>>28757092
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I hate that game. It's so bland and lifeless. At least play Super Metroid or Castlevania for PS1.
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>>28757083
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deux ex
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vampire the masquerade bloodlines
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baldurs gate 1&2
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>>28757044 (OP)
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Inscryption was pretty fun
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Oh, boo...
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>>28757098
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>It's so bland and lifeless
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It's a fucking Metroid game.
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I didn't think I'd like it, but I gave Red Dead Redemption 2 a chance. I ended up really enjoying it, very comfy with a good story.
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>>28757044 (OP)
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Just finished tails of iron which was great. Short, though...
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Detroit is a fucking masterpiece
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Inscription
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Cult of the lamb
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Kingdom two crowns
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Midnight suns was kinda underrated
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Rain world is a nifty idea of a game
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Darkest dungeon, very anxiety heavy, but great.
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Tunic
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Cloudpunk, chill story experience, but the voice acting is terrific
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A short selection from the best of my most recently played list.
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Inscryption is the best game i've played this year so far.
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Dark Souls and Bloodborne are my all time favorites though.
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>>28757044 (OP)
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Metroid trilogy
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I mean Metro lmao
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Far Cry 1
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>>28757044 (OP)
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OUTER WILDS
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SUBNAUTICA
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GROUNDED
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>>28757635
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Not OP but, grounded eh?
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I bought that like 2 years ago and didnt get to it. Good?
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These. Replace Baldur's Gayte with Pathologic (the new one).
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Replace with Shadows of Chernobyl.
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Golden light
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I agree. Metroid games are so boring. Starfox games are way more fun by comparison.
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>>28757254
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Just the original Dark Souls? What about 2 & 3? And Demon Souls? Or Elden Ring?
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>>28757044 (OP)
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re2 and 4 are classics. remakes are good too. souls games are basically single player enhanced by multiplayer. there's indie games and quirky Japanese games that are good if you know how to filter the chaff.
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dark souls remastered and demons souls remake are downgrades but yeah all those are great.
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>>28761132
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Fair enough.
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>vidya
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stop being cringe. They're called video games, retard.
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So you want a list of good Singleplayer games, eh? Alright, I'll show you:
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>Fallout 3 and New Vegas
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>All Elder Scrolls Games, including elder scrolls online(playing by yourself is super easy in that game, it's an mmo made for SinglePlayer gaming, because you don't have to interact with any of the other players around you)
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>Pokémon
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>Any of the Kirby or Mario Games, even Mario party is fun to play by yourself with computers.
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>Dance Dance Revolution
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>Uncharted 1-3 is fun to play by yourself
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>Scott Pilgrim vs the world arcade game(Very Fun with a group, great for party of one too)
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>Minecraft
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>Terraria
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>Stardew valley
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>Sun Haven
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>Roblox(This one's free)
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>DND online(This one's free too on steam)
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>>28757044 (OP)
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I find Cyberpunk a fun time-waster despite the hate. Glitched out mess of a game, but worth it for $20.
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>>28761227
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>>Scott Pilgrim vs the world arcade game
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So based good work boss. Still haven't been able to get past Level 1. I'm too bad at these games I was born in 2002.
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>>28757044 (OP)
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Octopath Traveler II if you like RPGs. Hollow Knight if you don't.
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--- 28757293
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I won't lie to you, I am a very overly bitter person. However, I have been trying to change my attitude on life for the most part. I have been working to release that bitterness and just try and live my life to the fullest capacity. My issue though is that as a person that would like to have a family one day, I am completely inept at dating or relationships. I am an extremely solitary person. Extremely bitter person and also autistic in very specific and extreme ways. All of those traits have gimped my relational skills with women. IN my mind, women can just wait around and sort of "let life happen" to them whereas I have to sort of make my life happen. I am trying to let go of weird overarching generalizations. In my head, women who are not overweight and are not absolutely hideous can basically live life without much problems. I know its wrong to think that but I haven't really been able to disprove that thought. So overall, what can I do to have a more healthy outlook on life and relationships and women? I just hate that I have to be the pursuer and basically do everything if I want to be in a relationship. I have never been in one but it truly seems insanely difficult. Especially since I am older now(33)
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--- 28757300
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I can't take this seriously matched with the picture you chose.
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--- 28757305
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Men and women have it hard in different ways.
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If you don't want to be a pursuer, breadwinner, or take responsibility for your station -- like women don't -- feel free to become a tranny.
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--- 28757308
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No. Its all about your family. People from loving supportive and wealthy families have it easy. A lot of women come from abusive and impoverished backgrounds and we have it really hard, rich people truly can't lose in life.
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--- 28757309
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Only in the field of relationshis. Many women today are in the workforce just like men doing boring jobs like cashiers, secretaries...
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--- 28757320
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>>28757293 (OP)
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYmFAWvk0TU [Embed]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3lXgZ_2PME [Embed]
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--- 28757343
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Women in the west have life on easy mode. In Africa and the third-world shit is tough for them
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--- 28757380
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Women don't have it easier, men and women ofter want fundamentally different thing. Men tend to prefer sex and freedom, women tend to prefer closeness and emotional fulfillment. Trying to blend your wants with your partners wants can be hard and frustrating, it can lead to miscommunications and resentment. That is if you luck out and find someone willing to commit and put in effort to begin with. With relationships failing more often than not in the current day and age the idea that a women can just stay home and be provided for can be tossed too. It no longer applies, add to this that women still take on most of the responsibilities regarding children.
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All these things combined, working, taking care of kids, not feeling emotionally understood, leads to women feeling burned out much more often than men.
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I'm sure men have their struggles too.
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--- 28757400
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>Be born a woman
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>Dad died when I was very young
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>Grandparents died soon after
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>Mother worked two jobs to support us
|
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>Got groomed by friend’s brother at 12/13 when he was 22/23
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>He ended up doxxing me with all the cp he had taken of me a few years later
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>Mom ends up with a man who is abusive towards me in all ways but sexually. She doesn’t know because she’s never home
|
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>He makes my life hell to the point I try to commit suicide twice
|
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>Got raped by a stranger at 18, sober, leaving the mall 5 minutes from my house
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>Date a man for 5 years, get engaged, just to end up cheated on with trannies
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>Get stalked by my ex, have my house broken into 3 times. Cops refuse to do anything for me l
|
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>Been working since I was 15 to support myself through college
|
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>Spend every single day since working as hard as I possibly can
|
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>Finally end up making a better life for me and my mother. She’s working one job now that’s not physically demanding finally, I can take care of her now
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>Kind of too late since she’s riddled with joint problems, back pain, neck pain, arthritis in her knees
|
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>Men see me with two degrees, making good money, owning my own home. Tell me I live life on easy mode
|
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>Easy mode
|
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>Easy
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When was it supposed to get easy?
|
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--- 28757457
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Talk to actual women and recognise their individual differences and struggles. Talk to some more men too, for good measure. You'll start people as individuals and not just as their gender like it is some sort of video game class.
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--- 28757472
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>>28757400
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Unfortunately you are a statistical outlier. Just like me(I am a guy). Statistical outliers don't mean anything to anyone. We unfortunately are just anomalies. Which is why I think the whole incel stuff is just one giant anomaly / outlier situation. However, even outliers can shift the statistics. Which is why I think people in the realm of being an outlier often lash out(like incels killing people). In a effort to try and shift the odds someway. It sucks. I understand now though that women and men both probably have it hard, just in different ways. Like not once in my adult life have I ever felt incapable of defending myself whereas apparently women feel like they could never defend themselves if a dude assaults them.
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--- 28757537
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>>28757293 (OP)
|
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>Do women actually have it easy?
|
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Yes if you incorrectly presume that female sexual attention is valuable and male sexual attention is valuable.
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No if you realise that sex isn't that important, and you're inventing excuses to think of yourself as the lesser.
|
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But don't let that stop you from being a delusional sadsack.
|
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>My issue though is that as a person that would like to have a family one day, I am completely inept at dating or relationships.
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Being unskilled is one thing, being insecure is another. The solution to not having what you want is to get what you want. Not to be a neurotic dipshit who cries about it.
|
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>IN my mind, women can just wait around and sort of "let life happen" to them
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Then you're a woman. Congratulations, ma'am.
|
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Anyway, having life happen to you isn't a good thing, no matter if you have a vagina or a penis.
|
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|
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>So overall, what can I do to have a more healthy outlook on life and relationships and women?
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1. More attractive people get more options for relationships. Relationships grant more opportunities to be happy.
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2. Feeling bad about that is retarded and I will instead not.
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3. Insecurity is not justified. Neuroticism is not justified.
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4. Addiction is not valid. Obsession is not valid.
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5. My happiness is my choice.
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--- 28757592
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>>28757293 (OP)
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short answer yes, but I wouldnt trade places. Society treats women a LOT better than it treats men, its not even close. Every study concludes this.
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The tradeoff is having to live with an inferior mind in an inferior body. I wouldnt do that.
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--- 28757597
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>>28757293 (OP)
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>Do women actually have it easy in 2023
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Yes
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--- 28757619
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>>28757472
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I recognize that men have it hard too, despite making up the majority of powerful positions in society. Despite holding the vast majority of wealth. I just wish women weren’t so easily brushed off as living life on easy mode
|
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Literally went to the grocery store yesterday and had a man follow me around the store until he followed me out to my car and approached me. Like something as simple as shopping for eggs has to be made more difficult
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--- 28758758
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Depends, it's like Resident Evil, you can play as Chris (less inventory, better damage) or Jill (more inventory, less damage). Just don't fall for the trans meme, then nobody wants your goofy clown ass and those that do, are mentally ill. Men have it harder at first, but once they grow they become big sexy. Women have it easier at first, but once they grow they know the clock is ticking and a guy can replace them if they are well-enough. Men face more rejection, women have more to lose IE pregnancy. Women lie more, but men can easily beat the shit out of them hence the lies and manipulation skills. It's apples and oranges. Know your role and shut your mouth.
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--- 28758766
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I'm a dude but I'm thinking only Karens have it really easy.
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--- 28758775
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>>28758758
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|
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Why does Jill have more inventory? That literally makes no sense. Pockets and stuff.
|
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--- 28758813
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On average and generally speaking, I would say yes. But I’m talking like American women. I don’t know how shit is in the rest of the world.
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The average American woman will generally have an easier go than the average American male. A big part of this is societies current standards, social media, and the fact that attractive people generally have an easier go at life (the halo effect). Since women are typically considered more beautiful and desired more on average (especially these days,) they will have a benefit in most facets of life.
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Of course it’s not all black and white.
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But most basic American women will have an easier go than you will and that’s just the way it is.
|
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Part of being a man is adapting and overcoming and not ceasing to reach your goals. And even if you fail to reach them, atleast you aren’t like those timid souls that never fought to try.
|
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--- 28758901
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>>28757293 (OP)
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no one has it easy
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--- 28758969
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>>28757619
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>>28757400
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>If men disappeared women would have it easy.
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|
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The hurtful truth is that we men cause all the evilness in existence. If all women disappeared our neuroticism would stay the same until male extinction.
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|
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sigh
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--- 28759045
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women are on easymodo. Everybody knows this, they get a free ride to the middle class because all the institutions are geared towards them and then get a boost into a bullshit job because of affirmative action. Then they get to select for the top 30% of mates while ignoring everyone else, then they get to avoid most of the issues affecting men because they're constantly hooked up to social circles and getting special favors from men trying to court them. A women can coast at low end their entire life and still end up with a husband and a home. Try doing that as a male, you can't. Then look at the statistics on how my dicks these girls are taking before they find mr perfect and compare it to men. This entire country has been subverted to serve female interests over males and it's fucking disgusting
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--- 28759103
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>>28757619
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>I recognize that men have it hard too, despite making up the majority of powerful positions in society.
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>despite
|
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Retarded non sequitor. Do the slaves get advantages because the ruling class is the same sex as them?? Lol.
|
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--- 28759180
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Probably. At least women from a good socio-economic background do have it easy mode on life. Most of them are good looking, or at least can make themselves good looking with fashion and make up if they're not fat. Education, Work is optional, some faggot will provide them with everything while they just stay at home watching Netflix, going out with friends for parties all the time. Sure I'm living relatively comfortably but I can't fail. There's no backup plan or any woman will stick around if I lost a part of my wealth. They're just spoilt princesses.
|
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>t. South Asian rich fag.
|
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--- 28759218
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>>28759103
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The male slaves are doing physical labor and the female slaves are being brutalized and used as breeding cattle
|
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So yeah there is still a difference in the way people are treated
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>>28758813
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Most american women are fat ergo ugly tho
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Nothing is ever this binary, but basically women get people treating you with value, but you have to live your life under threat of rape.
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No one gives a fuck about men at all, however that also means no one's gonna bother you either. Feel free to move unrestricted.
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Have you ever asked your mom if she has lived life on easy mode? Perhaps she could tell you a bit about what women go through.
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>I just hate that I have to be the pursuer and basically do everything
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Why do you hate about it? Are you scared of putting in time and effort and it amounts to nothing? That's just how life is sometimes. At the very least each failure is a learning opportunity.
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>>28759218
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Someones never read Buck Breaking by Tariq Nasheed
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So racist, sexist and ignorant
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>>28757293 (OP)
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I'll tell you who has it harder than both men and women. Feminine men. You get all the disadvantages of men and women without any the advantages.
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>no drive for career building
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>no sexual power over men
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You have basically nothing. If you cannot support yourself through art or some other creative outlet you are guaranteed to be miserable.
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>>28759218
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>female slaves are being brutalized and used as breeding cattle
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HAHAHAHA is that way birthrates all over the world below replacement???
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>female slaves are being brutalized
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HAHAHAHA 80% of homocide victims worldwide are men.
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Foolish egocentric foid.
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yes. they can always geg married with some simp.
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>>28757309
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It's hilarious seeing female welders and what not. What a shitty fucking life compared to being a stay at home mom
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>>28757293 (OP)
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>Do women actually have it easy?
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Yes.
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>>28757380
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> Women don't have it easier
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> not feeling emotionally understood
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Death rate per 100k population
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men: 998
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By virtually every measure, including in dating and relationships, women have markedly easier lives than men.
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> I'm sure men have their struggles too.
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Yes.
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>>28760824
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Anon there are a lot of statistics to prove a lot of points. If men have higher death rates that doesn't mean they struggle more than women, it simply means they die more. Lots of people struggle.
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>By virtually every measure, including in dating and relationships, women have markedly easier lives than men.
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Specify the measure? Is it feeling fulfilled and at easy in a healthy relationship? Is it sex or being approached? If men define the measures for women's happiness, I can assure you they're off.
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>>28757619
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>despite making up the majority of powerful positions in society.
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Work harder.
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> Despite holding the vast majority of wealth.
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This is incorrect. Old women hold more assets / wealth than old men do.
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> had a man follow me around the store
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You look like a shoplifter.
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>>28757619
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I'm a man and I agree with you, not trying to sound simpy or cucky. Men seem pretty fucking awful throughout human history, most crimes are committed by men and men themselves can't even support or help each other like woman do. I think it has to do with toxic masculinity and the push for men to be emotionless strong statues instead of actual human beings.
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>>28757343
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/thread
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>>28757293 (OP)
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No one does. Anyone who's not born rich will have it hard, men or women. And we'll blame it on each other.
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Yes. Life is pathetically easy for women. Even if you want to argue "b-b-b-but some women have it bad!" I can GUARANTEE you they have it easier than a man in their exact circumstances. Western society bends over backwards for them and on a biological level humans prefer women over men so they'll always be treated better. The education system favors you, employers favor you, you can sex and relationships with ZERO effort on your part because you're not the one expected to put in effort, you get tons of social experiences because people invite you and want you around just for having a vagina, you get less punishment for committing crimes, and despite all these privileges (which I haven't even fully enumerated) society STILL insists you have it bad and need MORE.
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The entire reason women develop all these neuroses is literally because life is so easy their brains have nothing better to do so they have to invent problems and anxieties to feel bad about. Imagine having it so good you have to make up reasons to feel bad.
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>>28757308
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>People from loving supportive and wealthy families have it easy.
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Probably this but it's also extremely rare
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>>28763112
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You sound like a black person
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>>28763654
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not the dude you’re replying to but my white friends literally have no obstacles in life except money and they still manage to fuck their lives up consistently and blame others for it. It’s why I’m cutting them off for a year, can’t deal with stupid any longer.
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>>28757293 (OP)
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Girls have it hard too, i think. Like in all the shit that matters, poverty, disease, mental illness (bitches be crazy). I never had to worry about leaving at night or getting raped. always took emotional closeness in a relationship for granted
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each side has dis/advantages which you would know if you stopped hyperfixating on sex like my fucking dog. I will castrate you too if you do not pursue higher brain functions.
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--- 28757409
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should I learn mandarin chinese or japanese?
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>>28757409 (OP)
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no
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>>28757409 (OP)
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You should learn as many languages as possible.
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--- 28758099
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for fun? Japanese. For practicality? Mandarin. Japanese actually does use a lot of Chinese kanji, so learning mandarin might make it easier to learn Japanese.
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--- 28758273
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>>28758099
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>Japanese actually does use a lot of Chinese kanji, so learning mandarin might make it easier to learn Japanese.
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spoken like someone who knows neither
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>>28757409 (OP)
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If you are in business, want to live in China or Taiwan, and want to learn something that will actually benefit you, learn Mandarin.
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If you plan on living in Japan or are into Japanese books and TV, then go with Japanese.
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>>28757409 (OP)
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Start with Chinese, the grammar is a bit wonky if you speak English as a first language. But once you grasp it, it makes sense. Japanese is kind of niche, but having the background in Chinese makes the alphabet a bit easier to understand. Moreover some of the grammar slightly crosses over. There just a bit more complications with Japanese, but Chinese you have the tones so it depends. But yeah, start with Chinese. Either way, people will look at you like a talking dog. I know from experience.
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>>28758273
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most of that information came from my roommate who speaks japanese. idk shit about the language
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--- 28759329
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>>28757409 (OP)
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Korean then Mandarin then Jap.
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I Learn jap 1st because karate and jap teacher, then some Mandarin bcuz gf, and now Korean because lil cuz asked me to teach her since i dated korean and know some basic stuff.
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Korean writing system is phonetic and and alphabet its 22 character and easy to learn. Chinese jap and Korean Share about 1000 words that sound roughly the same.
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You only need about 2000 words to get around.
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Korean 1st. Lets you sound out the words and learn the core words.
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Chinese 2nd will teach you the hangzi radical system the 214 base characters that the the other chinese character are based off.
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Jap 3rd will give you all the previous knowledge you just got to input the word in the correct grammar structure and learn hiragana and katakana.
|
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Speaking the 3 languages is fairly easy the chinese writing system takes time if you want to be able to read at a basic level.
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https://tcvd-asia.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/Booklet-of-808-Commonly-Used-Chinese-Characters.pdf
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--- 28759336
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>>28758273
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Provide solutions not crap.
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--- 28759415
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>>28759336
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I agree, which is why I thought his post was stupid.
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English speakers will generally find CHINESE easier than Japanese because the characters are a complete non issue. You will learn to memorise them in chunks and learning them will be as easy as picking up new words are to you in English now. That means the rest of the language is what matters. Chinese grammar will be far far easier for an English speaker since they're both subject verb object whereas Japanese is subject object verb and has many structures which are hard to compare to English. English speakers will therefore pick up Chinese much more quickly. The only serious barrier will be tones which you will struggle with because it's a new sound and past a certain age that becomes hard for some people.
|
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Japanese on the other hand will be harder for an English speaker grammatically. The pronunciation will be easy, but in general the reading will be similar to Chinese. The characters will have multiple different pronunciations depending on context but there will only be about 2000 you should know for fluency, which is smaller than in Chinese. You'll also be learning characters which are less simplified which gives a small advantage when learning Chinese, but going Chinese to Japanese may not give you such a big advantage as you expect because in Japanese kanji are usually being used for grammatically insignificant things, so you really won't get a large boost in picking Japanese up. Many Chinese speakers assume Japanese will be easy because they know the characters already but they almost always have a shit time because they don't think about the fact the language is much more than that and works totally differently.
|
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>>28758273
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It's literally easier to pass the JLPT if you know Chinese and they have reduced "average hours spent" guidelines if you know Mandarin. You're a fucking idiot.
|
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>>28757409 (OP)
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Pick whichever one you see yourself actually enjoying and not getting bored of.
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|
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t. Guy who's dropped 3 languages including Japanese and is on my third.
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--- 28757720
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Sitting here, drunk, because I'm trying to gather courage to ask my Tinder match for her phone number.
|
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She double texted me twice to ask how my day is.
|
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Help me!
|
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+
Picrel the minimum looks you need to have in 2023 to not disappoint your Tinder date IRL
|
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--- 28757730
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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You're a loser
|
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--- 28757779
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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Have you gone on a date with her already?
|
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--- 28757801
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>>28757730
|
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You think??
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>>28757779
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No, last time I've been on a date was 8 years ago. I don't know the current thing, is it more appropriate to talk on the phone before a date or is the date the first step and then we exchange numbers?
|
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--- 28757815
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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>Sitting here, drunk, because I'm trying to gather courage to ask my Tinder match for her phone number.
|
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Lol I did that a few times too. I had to get drunk to talk to Tinder matches
|
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--- 28757828
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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Is she a boomer? Who asks for phone numbers anymore?
|
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--- 28757865
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>>28757828
|
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She's 29, I'm 34. I don't know how things are anymore. Back when I used to go on dates I'd always first ask for phone numbers. I've been on ~30 dates from various apps and social media and I've never been stood up which based on what I'm hearing from other guys is unusual. I think it's because I always talk on the phone first. But if it's not the done thing any more then I guess I shouldn't.
|
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--- 28757878
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91rQIuXz9sw [Embed]
|
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--- 28757891
|
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>>28757801
|
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Yeah, go on a date first and then exchange numbers if it goes well. You have a very rare example of the female actually starting the conversation for you, so it should be easy to set a date. Tell her how your day went, ask her how hers was, and then ask if she wants to meet somewhere.
|
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--- 28758018
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I'm sweating even if the window is open and it's cold outside. How do people do this? This thing that literally all life depends on? How did I ever do it 30 times?
|
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+
The thing is there's no easing myself into it. I don't know anyone here so a Tinder date is basically the least scary option I have.
|
38 |
+
Can't go to therapy because that's even scarier.
|
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+
Now even booze is not working.
|
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+
I should have never stopped going on dates. I lost... something.
|
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--- 28758031
|
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>>28758018
|
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You don't know anyone there? So you moved to a new city? Then what's there to be scared about? It's not like she'll tell people that you're some weird loser. Just go for it and if it doesn't work out, forget about it .
|
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--- 28759418
|
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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>Picrel the minimum looks you need to have in 2023 to not disappoint your Tinder date IRL
|
47 |
+
That's bonkers. I'm almost the opposite of that, but I have charisma, am interesting and intelligent. That's more than enough for a shitton of women, attractive ones too.
|
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+
I don't do online dating though, and from what I've gathered, I don't miss out on much.
|
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+
Same level of chick that would swipe me left online, goes out of their way to get closer to me IRL. Some things you can't see in pictures.
|
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Thanks for reading my blog.
|
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--- 28759445
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>>28758018
|
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>I should have never stopped going on dates. I lost... something
|
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This applies to so many other things as well.
|
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+
Try weed. These sorts of situations are really the only thing weed is good for.
|
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+
--- 28761588
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>>28757801
|
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>last time I've been on a date was 8 years ago
|
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+
same
|
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--- 28761650
|
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>>28757865
|
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I'm just getting back into dating (though an older guy).
|
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I chat with them on the app and then at some point she may be up for moving to WhatsApp or phone call. If you have chatted for a few days and flirted, it's a natural progression.
|
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--- 28763462
|
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>>28757720 (OP)
|
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>Picrel the minimum looks you need to have in 2023 to not disappoint your Tinder date IRL
|
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+
wow, i look like that
|
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--- 28764840
|
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>>28763462
|
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>wow, i look like that
|
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M-me too, anon. Me too.
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--- 28757872
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What book should I read to learn more about Hitler's "struggle ideology"?
|
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I'm not really interested in the racial aspect of national-socialism (I'm not racist), I just want to understand more about the eternal struggle.
|
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--- 28757895
|
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>>28757872 (OP)
|
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just read /pol/
|
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--- 28757914
|
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>>28757872 (OP)
|
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>eternal struggle
|
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you mean internal struggle right?
|
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--- 28757952
|
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>>28757914
|
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No, the eternal struggle of nature.
|
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--- 28759768
|
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Ask this question on /lit/
|
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--- 28759824
|
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>>28757872 (OP)
|
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>hey I'm not a nazi or not really interested in them, should I read this book written by Hitler?
|
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|
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I mean no not really. what even is your reasoning for being ambivalent about reading it
|
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--- 28760383
|
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>>28757872 (OP)
|
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Here's a summary
|
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>rich jews who owned German manufacturing plants colluded with American Rich jews to cost them the ww1 victory
|
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>they continued to flaunt their wealth while most Germans were mired in poverty after the war
|
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+
>they continued funding commie revolutions within Germany during times where the country was trying to stabilize
|
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>adolf a war vet had been injured and saw his friends turned to linguini during the war only for the country's elite to go "OH well we'll get them next time old sport"
|
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>your mental and physical sacrifices for your country and even your aspirations of being artist essentially told their worthless by the same kind of rich elite class
|
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>end up realizing that a country that is subverted by opposing races and ideologies cannot survive/stand
|
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>stamp out and burn tranny/pedophile books
|
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>send the rich jews to camps after they actively turn down your "trail of tears" type plan of relocating them to a different country
|
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>fast forward ww2 kicks off
|
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If the racism part isn't what interests you, it's ultimately a story about a young man who did what he thought was right only for society to rugpull him. His book essentially resonated with the poor Germans at the time that had gotten heemed both economically and physically despite listening to their elites.
|
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--- 28760392
|
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>>28760383
|
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>"trail of tears" type plan of relocating them to a different country
|
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+
they called it the trail of tears not because they were tears of joy you know, it was a fuckin death march.
|
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--- 28760399
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>>28757872 (OP)
|
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Nietzsche.
|
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>>28760392
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Yeah I know, but unlike the trail of tears were natives were they were being sent to some inhospitable piece of land, the Germans actively tried to send them to other parts of europe/Palestine only to be told fuck off, which escalated to the camps because they thought they'd get subverted by them once again. It would've been like if America went to war with Japan twice and during the second bout they recamped the Japanese out of fear of collusion with the enemy
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>>28757872 (OP)
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Hitler wasn't a philosopher. He borrowed the "eternal struggle" from existentialists like Nietzsche. Nazism is a failed, bastard mixture of ideas, perfect for today's losers.
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>>28757872 (OP)
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Hitler was a fascist not a socialist. They are polar opposites. Fascism is conservative unlike Socialism.
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>>28760383
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>send the rich jews to camps
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He sent all Jews to the gas chambers, even if they were WW1 vets like him. Truly one of the most dishonest, despicable vermin to ever exist.
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>>28760399
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>>28760454
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This. Read Nietzche.
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>>28760506
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>Hitler was a fascist not a socialist
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Huh? The dude was clearly a socialist, his socialism just extended to ethnic Germans as opposed to something like communism where it's more party/class structured
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>>28760506
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Marxists don't own the term "socialism" btw
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>>28760725
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(Different anon here)
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>dishonest, despicable vermin to ever exist.
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Basically a politican.
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Not a fan of the guy either, but something that always intrigued me is that people ignorantly hate hitler because its easier to hate him then understand his logical conclusions, am I saying his logical conclusions were right? No, but this guy wasn't stupid, he literally convinced an entire nation to support him under the assumption that he will do good for his people, and so he did, till he lost the war.
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If you’re not a racist take a hard turn left politically speaking. All that dwells in men like this is hate and the desire to subjugate on arbitrary grounds. Ask yourself who it is you truly have more in common with in this wide world, very unlikely it’s with fascists even if you happen to have been born in a group with their own past or present supremacy delusion.
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--- 28757941
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>If all the women that you ask out reject you, then it's you. Not the system, not them, not some arbitrary condition but YOU.
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Is he correct?
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--- 28757966
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Yes, to some extent. If you're in a culture that doesn't welcome you, then no
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--- 28757969
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I would agree. You're either not attractive enough or your standards are too high or perhaps your social ability is shit.
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--- 28757971
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>>28757941 (OP)
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It is probably not you as a human being, but you as the way you present yourself when you ask them. Act like a creep and it doesn't matter whether you actually are one or not
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--- 28757990
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Whether or not it's true - Pragmatically speaking, the only thing you can change is yourself. Anyone can talk to women, see what works and what doesn't, and use that to alter their behavior in future interactions.
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--- 28758040
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>>28757941 (OP)
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That doesn't sound like something he would say, unless he upped his Benzos
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--- 28758046
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Yes, but most anons will interpret through a vulnerable narcissistic lens and assume he’s blaming their surface level identity/status like face, body, sexual history and money.
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The point is lost on the people is is trying to reach.
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--- 28758047
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>>28757990
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>Anyone can talk to women
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Except for Schooler.
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--- 28758066
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even a broken clock is right twice a day
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--- 28758074
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>>28758040
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nah that's a vintage jbp take
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--- 28758122
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>>28757941 (OP)
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yes. something(s) about you need to be changed
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--- 28758141
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>>28758074
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modern peterson would be like
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>if women wear make-up at work then the canadian government should force them to get married with youuuu~[sobs]
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--- 28758243
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It depends. Maybe you're just asking people out in wrong way, which I guess counts as being (you) but self improvement and changing (you) won't fix it
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>>28757990
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>>28758047
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The thing is that what doesn't work with women is that they cannot speak to someone outside of school or their friend groups. It doesn't matter how phenomenal you are if you aren't speaking to them through these 2 ways they cannot handle socializing. Notice how no one could ever write "what works and what doesn't" in regards to actual verbal communication, they didn't do it, they cannot do it because then they'd have to acknowledge that I'm right and there's nothing that can work outside of school/meetup with friend.
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No one on the planet could ever write what could be said to a woman outside of these 2 ways to successfully ask them out, because asking out is something can only happen once you already know a person well.
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What people don't understand is that the approachtrannies humiliation fetishistic rituals of "harassing 1000000s of strangers" hoping that one of them just goes out with a stranger works will always fail because the method itself is just wrong and doesn't let the girl know (you) so she cannot reject or accept you as she doesn't know you, she just knows the method of harassing a stranger, that's what she's rejecting
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But in school she can speak to you longer, you can get to know each other and then she can make assessment whenever she wants to go with you or not. The approachtrannies will always fail and will always get upset about being asked what would they say because they fundamentally do not understand human interaction or process of going out with someone.
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--- 28758277
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hes completely wrong
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completely ignoring the role of the system is just as bad as blaming all of your problems on it
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but hes a liberal, of course he is individualistic and of course he believes in the magical panacea of self improvement
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--- 28758279
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>>28758243
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HE SAID THE LINE!!!
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--- 28758284
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>>28758279
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I feel kinda bad for him desu
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--- 28758303
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>>28758284
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I'm almost positive he is either a troll or a bot.
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--- 28758305
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Yes, but as a man who is utterly concerned with the visual (almost retardedly visually focused, to the point that I've seen guys try to marry whores just because she put on a sundress and started smiling more), you will mistakenly attribute it to how you look. It's far more likely the problem with you is social and not visual. Visual is a component to women, but only a component.
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--- 28758338
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>>28757941 (OP)
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>Is he correct?
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Yes.
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--- 28758341
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>>28757969
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>or your standards are too high
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No such thing, either you like the girl or not.
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--- 28758410
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Of course he's correct.
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If you ask out 109 women and get rejected by all of them, what is the common factor here?
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And it might even be something as simple as you constantly ask out the wrong women. But that'd still be on you at that point.
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--- 28758418
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Yes and no. Obviously men who are continually rejected clearly haven't understood why they get rejected (usually extremely high standards that they themselves don't meet in the eyes of such women) and thus continue to fail. However, when 30 years ago some women would be interested in you, the insanely easy access to high quality men gives the average girl no reason to choose anyone average or even slightly above average. Why would they want to settle? If a 6/10 man had such freedom to fuck and settle down with any girl he wanted, would he choose a 6/10 woman in his ballpark lookswise regardless of personality? Fuck no.
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But even then, men who truly want a partner and not a hole shouldn't settle for some hambeast if he doesn't love her and has no desire to be faithful and caring. Sadly the system allows total sexual liberation for women for the benefit of specific classes leaving the common man to pick up the scraps and become bitter and jaded. Globalization of dating and romantic partnerships have unequivocally aided the depopulation of the West because this gap between access to affection between women and men has made both sexes even more tense towards each other thereby promoting celibacy and child-free lifestyles.
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|
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tl;dr incel culture and online dating have been a prime vehicle for depopulation and it'll continue as long as enough people have standards for a long-term partner.
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--- 28758473
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>>28757941 (OP)
|
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Cool it down with your antisemitism bro.
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--- 28758541
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>>28758418
|
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Peterson said that women that come across you, such as your mates in HS or College or share your hobbies, not that you aim too high to ask out some pop start stacy or something. Just a partner to develop with.
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--- 28758701
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>>28757941 (OP)
|
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He's not wrong. You need some responsibility. It's the 20% to 80% rule. Look at your life and evaluate yourself truthfully, work on yourself and actually have fun with it. Also notice the crowd, do they accept you? Are they rude to others? Sometimes rejection can be freeing. The truth sets us free, and rejection forces us to move with reality and actuality.
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--- 28759875
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>>28757941 (OP)
|
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It’s not my fault I’m a manlet but it’s not their fault I’m not attractive in their eyes. This is how their brains are wired.
|
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|
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So yes, I agree with him. Unfortunately there is nothing I can do about it.
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--- 28759893
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>>28758243
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I've spent so much time on this board that I can tell schooler's posts just by the the sheer paragraphs alone. I don't even to see like "quit your job" or "that conversation never happened"
|
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as soon as someone just dumps a wall of text out of nowhere like that, it's schooler.
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--- 28759945
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>>28757941 (OP)
|
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Hes right that the person being rejected is the problem, but that doesnt mean they have any control over it. It is often not a person's actions, behaviors, or personality that gets them rejected, but their genetics.
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--- 28759953
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>>28757941 (OP)
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> Is he correct?
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Mostly. It means you're asking people who aren't receptive. Which also means you don't really understand when people are and are not receptive.
|
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It's probably a communication problem you have, and possibly a quality problem you have.
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Both are things you can do something about btw.
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--- 28759957
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>>28757941 (OP)
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nah i think im just asking out the wrong women
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--- 28760019
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Jordan Peterson got famous very rapidly for no real reason. Coincidently he's a staunch Jew/Israeli supporter
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--- 28760117
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Except the problem is actually the system.
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--- 28760130
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>>28760019
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>for no real reason
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nah the reason is fairly simple he just jumped in on the "intellectual dark web" trend by saying that women should be thrown in jail for not having sex with incels or whatever and also trans people shouldn't have pronouns or something, and he's been on the joe rogan podcast like 57 times since then.
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--- 28760141
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>>28758418
|
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Studies have shown that most of the time incels do not have extremely high standards and may actually rate themselves lower than their external ratings.
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--- 28760158
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>>28760141
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>Studies have shown that most of the time incels do not have extremely high standards
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thanks for the laugh fren
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--- 28760162
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Probably more you than anyone else
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--- 28760166
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>>28760158
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Yes I know you're going to deny everything I say but the studies are out there if you care to look for them.
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People just want to assume a "just world" fallacy for everything because that's how this fucking society is.
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--- 28760167
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>>28760130
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His book, or books, became NYT bestsellers. That doesnt happen to a literal who unless without a coordinated purchasing campaign behind it. He was shoehorned into his public role to be an outspoken supporter if Jews/Zionism
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--- 28760177
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>>28758047
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kek
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the eternal stoodent
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i remember him
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--- 28760186
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>>28757941 (OP)
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>Thanks, internet dad. It's all my fault. I am going back to cleaning my room and looksmaxing. There is millions of ugly girls out there. They can't reject me all, right? If they do I guess I am going to kill myself because after all it is my fault for being born as a genetic dead end. I should have been just more attractive and confident like Chad.
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--- 28760194
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>>28760186
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Fogot pic
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--- 28760196
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>>28760130
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>t. Didn't see any of Peterson's lectures
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He is actually really tame. He actually supports using alternate pronouns he just didn't like that one law that compelled it.
|
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--- 28760221
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>>28760196
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he also talks mad shit and then immediately backpedals on it or claims it was out of context or whatever, like curing incels via enforced monogamy.
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>>28760167
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>His book, or books, became NYT bestsellers. That doesnt happen to a literal who
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peterson is a drug addict quack retard, but no actually sometimes book do just take off like that.
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iirc though, first he was like "trans people are the chaos dragons!" or whatever, and then because of that 12 rules became a success.
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also being a NYT best seller is not really that big a deal.
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--- 28760227
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>>28760166
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>the studies are out there if you care to look for them.
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yeah man, where exactly
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--- 28760323
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>>28760227
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If you actually cared and weren't going to dismiss it immediately, it would be a very simple google search to find.
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--- 28760364
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>>28760177
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he's in this very thread
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>>28758243
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and I saw him in a couple of threads today as well.
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he just pops in at random, goes "reeeee women are autistic and conversations aren't real!" and fucks off to another thread
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--- 28760374
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>>28760323
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what should I google?
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--- 28760458
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>>28760374
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>>28760323
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hello??
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|
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I can use microsoft bing instead, if that helps
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--- 28760486
|
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>>28757941 (OP)
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--- 28760498
|
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>>28757941 (OP)
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yeah even jordon peterson, who actually has sympathy for incels, knows it's fucking embarrassing ideology that will only hold men back
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--- 28760502
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The cope and seethe in this thread feeds my soul. Arrogance and ignorance run rampant in this era where even the biggest losers are blinded by pride/ego and are entirely incapable of even acknowledging their own shortcomings, insecurities, and failures. We’re not as great or important as we think we are.
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>>28760374
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>>28760458
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If you can't even figure out the words to google then I have no interest in helping you. You're too low IQ to begin with.
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>>28757941 (OP)
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I mean...yeah, probably. I've tried to be nice and at least talk to guys that were often "rejected" but quickly found myself scrambling to get away from them too. It was always their personality, the way they were talking, that was so off-putting. Not how they looked, sure as hell not what they had because some of them would try to make a big deal about that and it was just such a fucking turn off man. They always blame all kinds of things. But its how they're talking, that's so repulsive. Intolerable. "Get me outta here!!" tier.
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I don't know how to explain it, but typically "incel" types kind of talk the same, and it's a very abrasive almost accusatory tone. They try to be manipulative and it's just so blatant, that you know right away to get away from this guy. Their anger/dissatisfaction with life oozes out. Negativity. Depression. They're talking to you like you're a problem when you've only just met. Nothing about is a good first impression. Not welcoming, warm, friendly, nor kind. When its a guy like that, it'll always be him. But he will always think it's something else.
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--- 28760921
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>>28760866
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checked, but nothing new here.
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>Negativity. Depression
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translation being that as usual women want someone they can take from, and don't want to spend energy on people who actually have problems in their life
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--- 28761063
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>>28760646
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seems like you're the one who doesn't care then
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--- 28761079
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>>28760921
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why should random women fix your personal problems?
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Damn, that's clever. Did he come up with this breakthrough himself, or did he read it in some obscure book somewhere? Also, why are you attributing this grade school tier common knowledge to this guy, you absolute autistic sperg? I can see why women want nothing to do with a borderline retard like you.
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--- 28761256
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>>28761079
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>why should strangers care about each other ?
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--- 28761280
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>>28761256
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so random women should fix your emotional problems because you think this is good for a just society?
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--- 28761295
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>>28761256
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>why should I fix my own problems?
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--- 28761302
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>>28761256
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I mean they should, like if I see someone being mugged or something I'll intervene or if they just ACK and fall over half dead from a heart attack I'll call an ambulance etc.
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but I don't expect a random chick to solve my personal problems
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--- 28761358
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>>28757941 (OP)
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He also called MGTOWS pathetic weasels, then backpedaled and apologized after learning about the problems that exist in society today regarding men and women.
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Dr. Jordon Peterson is a good person, and I respect what he's trying to do pointing to men themselves as the problem, but he fails to take into account how much power women hold in relationships today, and how emasculating of a position a man is put in today when choosing to get married.
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Men do not have authority in relationships anymore, and he fails to reference this, and offer a remedy for people, which is very disappointing. Perhaps that's on the horizon with the looming problem of people not having chidlren, perhaps he'll start speaking about it, and the topic will bleed into men's rights and talk about the problems of the courts. I'm surprised he hasn't talked about the terrible reality of common law marriage that is extremely common in canada. It's a thing in a few states in the USA, but in Canada it's considered a part of life that if you live with someone for a time, you're considered legally married to them, even if you don't sign the contract.
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Watch out guys, Don't cohabitate, don't get married, and only have kids in coparenting relationships if you reeally want to have kids. I recommend cutting it all out and living as a bachelor, but it's your choice at the end of the day, just don't women or the government take away all your rights. Marriage in God's eyes is not Marriage in the church or courts, though it still should be a contracted arrangement, so there's no questionable legality that you could be held accountable for later if not taken care of right away.
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>>28760921
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Therapy costs money for a reason. But that's not what I meant at all.
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Best example I can give is a guy I met maybe 2 weeks ago. He was clearly avoided, but I thought maybe he was just a reclusive quiet geek who just being misunderstood because introverts are almost always misunderstood-people assume we're super anti-social and mean, when in reality we're just used to being in our minds. So maybe this guy was just misunderstood-BIG nope. He was truly just an insufferable asshole. Holy shit man. The tone in his voice was distrustful. Like "what do YOU want?" and he made little snide accusatory comments too, as if he wanted me to prove myself to him. Huh?? I'm saying hello, not asking for your hand in marriage you weirdo.
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I dont know if its autism, but these types for the life of them cannot wrap their heads around pleasant first impressions. They just act awful, angry, and mean right off the bat, and then shoot their eyebrows to their foreheads in surprise when you rightfully back off and get away from them. The signal they're sending is a strong "stay away from me" and when it works, theyre confused and even more angry about it. Well, learn how to send a "nice to meet you!" instead, perhaps. Then people will actually stay and want to get to know you.
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--- 28761602
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>>28761358
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>then backpedaled
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he does that for about 95% of everything he ever says
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--- 28761626
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>>28761602
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I haven't heard him backpedal on other things, and I've listened to him for a long time. Can you name some examples? You might just be confusing his Canadian tendencies to apologize and be overtly polite defaultly as backpedaling, he doesn't do a lot of it as far as I've concerned wit his lectures and/or speeches.
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--- 28761638
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>>28761589
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Was this in a work environment? Or a date? If this was at work anyone who is smart would avoid a young foid in the workplace. I would just tell you I’m busy though.
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--- 28762953
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Jordan Peterson looks cute here. However, I hate some of his hypocrisy. An interesting and outspoken man.
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--- 28762980
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Ah, but you are mistaken, foolish human! The dating system is rigged by the globalist elite to keep attractive women trapped in a cycle of hedonism and promiscuity. They are purposefully spreading misinformation that personality and confidence matter, when the truth is that only sheer brute genetics determines a man's prospects. If a man fails at dating, it is by design, not due to any flaw within himself. The system is stacked against him from the start!
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--- 28762993
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>>28757990
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>Pragmatically speaking, the only thing you can change is yourself.
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mostly this.
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the only really manifest thing bitching about the system is you may find some camaraderie among the discontent, but thats all. you're unlikely to change the system.
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And the only manifest thing about bitching about them is the ones whom that might have a positive affect on will be crahazy
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--- 28763037
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>>28762980
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The thing is, how did some people get so guillible and so what was told "attractive"? You know taking off your clothes on camera for $$$ isn't attractive!
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>The system is stacked against him from the start!
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So these men, what are they gonna do? Go Rambo?
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--- 28763055
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>>28761626
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It's not so much outright backpedaling, it's more that he'll say something with clear implications, and then when anyone tries to push back he'll say "oh that's not what I *really* meant, I actually meant this other thing that's totally inoffensive, you just misunderstood me." It's happened enough times that I'm fairly certain he does this shit as a deliberate bait-and-switch tactic.
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--- 28763067
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>>28758279
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Honestly, you can laugh at him all you want but I am the same way and I'm male. The people who use dating apps are all desperate people and most of the time its just for hookups. A couple women asked me out via proxy in hs and I turned them down because I didn't know who the fuck they were and they weren't even in the same class as me
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--- 28763089
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You want to know why dating apps depress the hell out of me? Because all the women on there seem incredibly needy and desperate! "Like oh hey, I just got out of a 7 year relationship and I'm really looking to expand my horizons. Swipe right if you want to watch me cry into a tub of chocolate ice cream this weekend!"
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And those high school dating stories, don't get me started! "Hey Billy, Samantha from homeroom says you're cute and wanted me to ask you out for her. She's really shy you know." Are you kidding me? I don't even know who Samantha is! For all I know she's the ugly girl that always sits in the back and never talks. No way I'm going on a date by proxy, find your own damn dates!
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Kids these days have it so easy with Tinder and Bumble. Back in my day, if a girl wanted to ask you out she damn well did it herself! None of this "asking out via best friend" crap. If a girl liked you, you knew it because she'd chase your ass down and pin you to the lockers after school screaming "go out with me or I'm telling everyone you have a little pee-pee!" The direct approach, I like it! None of these mind games that dating apps have turned into.
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--- 28763100
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>>28763089
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Unless you're really good looking and do it in person, the chances of successfully asking someone out that you don't know is almost 0
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--- 28763123
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>>28763100
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So only attractive people deserve love and connection? What about personality and shared interests?
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What makes a romantic spark nowadays anyway? Is it really just physical attraction?
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Have our dating standards become Too unrealistic?
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When did dating become so transactional and scored like a game show?
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Is authenticity and vulnerability truly lost forever?
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Is online dating distorting our perception of relationships or was it always this complicated?
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--- 28763129
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>>28763100
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Listen. That didn't happen. That's just creepy AF
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--- 28763142
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>>28757941 (OP)
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no its not ive gotten rejected a lot, and women reject on a whim
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then i see them going out with tyrone tier ugloids low IQs
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women are shit at choosing men
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also if you just ask a girl out and she doesnt know you the chance is simply highly likely that her first reaction will be no, no matter who you are
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juden peterstein is not in the dating game so he should stfu
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--- 28763143
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>>28763123
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Don't complicate yourself. Have some standards. It's understandable that you have preferences on your physical attraction but we all in our sane and mind that are capable of intelligent things know that your behavior matters too. I at least, I find that it matters 100%
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--- 28763152
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>>28759945
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>Hes right that the person being rejected is the problem
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no
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also guarantee he never said this
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--- 28763165
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>>28763123
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I'm not saying what people deserve or not, its a cruel dog eat dog world. I'm just telling it how it is.
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>>28763129
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What didn't happen? That I was asked out by a couple desperate people that I didn't even know or attractive people having a higher chance of successfully asking someone out that they don't even know?
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--- 28763169
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>>28763143
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>Don't complicate yourself. Have some standards. It's understandable that you have preferences on your physical attraction but we all in our sane and mind that are capable of intelligent things know that your behavior matters too. I at least, I find that it matters 100%
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•Looks are everything.
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•Personality is subjective.
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•Kindness is overrated.
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>>28763165
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I have different experience... Or different morality
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--- 28763177
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>>28763169
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>Looks are everything.
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>Kindness is overrated.
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Not to me.
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--- 28763182
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>>28757941 (OP)
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i've never been rejected, only had a girl ghost me the day of the date (i went with a friend instead) The problem is what happens after, of my 3 dates, nothing happened after since they lost interest. Well, that's that...
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>>28760130
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It actually seems to me that he got springboarded towards awareness because he was among the first well known cases of college students shouting down a questionable speaker. The reactionaries ran with it because they still think serious problems are going to be solved with decorum and obviously radical mean people are the enemy always. He can speak quite well and he is right about things sometimes and he appears at least to have good intentions but we were always going to get here today with his transphobia and conspiratorial thinking and sharing cockmilking porn on twitter as if it was really something happening in China. Ultimately his biggest boon was being visible and consistent saying that he cared about men in a world where that’s unfortunately rare but his advice for people is so jumbled and weird. One minute he’s tearing up about how not to fall for ideology and the next he’s doing Bible session and advocating capitalist dogma
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>>28757941 (OP)
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Maybe it's (You) in the sense that you're asking out the wrong women?
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>>28757941 (OP)
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No
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>>28761626
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the enforced monogamy statement is the best example, the thing about women wearing lipstick at work, he said sometthing more recently about how like rape laws were better in the 1200s or something when women were property
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and lately he's been posting crazy nonsense on twitter like 400 times a day so it's all sand in the storm impossible to keep track of everything
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--- 28759272
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G.I.O.Y.C
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--- 28760622
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>>28760615
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yeah nobody care faggot
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--- 28760638
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>>28759272 (OP)
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that pic.. shit about to go down in here
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--- 28760658
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>>28760622
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Go back to poll.
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--- 28760660
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my fucking period hurts i’m crying in pain i broke up with my partner of 7 years who we dated since i was 18 and have to come to terms that he was emotionally abusive and he hasnt even tried to reach out since. i fucking hate everything rn
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--- 28760664
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>>28760622
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Go back to /pol/.
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--- 28760669
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>>28760660
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ahahaahahahaahahahahahah
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--- 28760814
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>>28760660
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Yeah periods are the worse. You should use aspirin and a heating pad. Fell better soon.
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--- 28760820
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>>28760814
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I mean feel better soon.
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--- 28761126
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>>28760622
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What they say?
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--- 28761142
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>>28760660
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"Period hurts"
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I thought it was the uterus and stomach that hurts?
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--- 28761168
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>>28760660
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Have you always had painful periods? I know my cramps became steadily worse after my mid twenties. even after I take a few aspirin in days one and two it hurts to stand up for long periods of time.
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--- 28761202
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>>28761142
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Should we tell him?
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--- 28761278
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>>28759272 (OP)
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I don't think people realize how bad things are going to get.
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--- 28761315
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Let me at least suck a titty. 25 years and no touch from a woman during the Kali yuga and coming apocalypse is the worst trade deal in the history of trade deals
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--- 28761335
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>>28761202
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No
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--- 28761369
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Any femanons looking for a lustful outing. I have a 7 incher and a PS2 and 10000 dollars
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--- 28761382
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>>28761369
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Me
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--- 28761389
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>>28761369
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I can prove all 3
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--- 28761412
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>>28761382
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Wait really. Give email.
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--- 28761417
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>>28761412
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ASL?
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--- 28761426
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>>28761417
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25, M, MA USA
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--- 28761466
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>>28761369
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>>28761382
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damn i was a ps2 away from success this whole time lmao
|
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--- 28761481
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>>28761466
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She wasn't serious hence why she stopped responding bruh.
|
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--- 28761494
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>>28761481
|
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life is too cruel bro
|
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i bet if we had a wii wed be drowning in bitches
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--- 28761495
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I hate myself so much. Every time I think about how I was in the past I just want to die.
|
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--- 28761496
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The mental agony doesn't stop. I want to kms because even hellfire sounds more comfortable than having my mind be in constant overload.
|
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--- 28761505
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>>28761496
|
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I like to walk outside or train bjj so you can't be alone with those thoughts. That's what will do you in. Try taking a break from reminiscing on shit you can't change and try to strive for changing the things you can. Only you can be 100% honest with yourself
|
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--- 28761509
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I miss you…
|
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--- 28761513
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>>28761505
|
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Not that anon, but does that shit really help you? I can't stop thinking about past mistakes and future fears, and drowning in fear and self-loathing.
|
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--- 28761521
|
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I miss me too, but I'm not coming back and we just have to accept that. Things can never be the same again.
|
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--- 28761528
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>>28761521
|
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Who is this for?
|
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--- 28761535
|
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>>28761513
|
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Dude believe me. I'm fucked up but would probably be dead if I didn't invest in some self help shit and working out and takings supps and at least walking a bit outside. It doesn't even have to be a couple feet. Just bare feet in the soil and deep breaths but preferably in a nice vista, on a hike. Whatever it may be. We weren't meant to be inside all the time. I. Know this is bro psychology and shit but it's what gets me through my fucked up life. And herbal tea and sleep.
|
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--- 28761544
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>>28761535
|
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Not sure what your particular damage is, but I appreciate the advice.
|
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|
101 |
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Have actually started therapy, and do go for walks a few times a week, still feel like I'm going insane. Or already did.
|
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--- 28761557
|
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>>28761528
|
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Nobody here I don't think. Mostly myself. Just wish I could have something to look forward to again.
|
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--- 28761563
|
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>>28761544
|
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One more note and I'll be done. The body and mind aren't separate. The brain is a muscle that needs refinement, rest but also challenge to keep that sliver of sanity. Well so is every other part of your body, if it's not preoccupied it will influence the brain negatively. Good job in at least starting a routine. That's one of the most important things
|
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--- 28761657
|
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Coming to terms with the fact that I'm prone to sexual harassment
|
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--- 28761677
|
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>>28761657
|
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Committing it or reciving it
|
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--- 28761701
|
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my first ever painting . this is greeus integer surrealism minimalism .
|
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--- 28761702
|
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>>28761677
|
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commuting it
|
118 |
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--- 28761724
|
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>>28761701
|
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Looks like genuine shit. Consider another method with more effort. Too much of this squiggle nonsense passed off as art. Study Loomis
|
121 |
+
--- 28761732
|
122 |
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Trying to quit the nicotine. Wish me luck bros.
|
123 |
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GF has been losing respect I think due to me being open to her too much. What do I do people? Close off?
|
124 |
+
--- 28761747
|
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>>28761701
|
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This would be good if you were an elephant
|
127 |
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--- 28761758
|
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wow
|
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--- 28761761
|
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>>28761758
|
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wrath of the lich king
|
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--- 28761767
|
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>>28761747
|
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take my fucking angry upvote you pos
|
135 |
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--- 28761772
|
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+
>>28761701
|
137 |
+
reev voyage inreality painting
|
138 |
+
--- 28761823
|
139 |
+
>>28761701
|
140 |
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frkij experimental kin struggle painting
|
141 |
+
--- 28761848
|
142 |
+
Every day, suicide seems more and more appealing
|
143 |
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--- 28761849
|
144 |
+
>>28761761
|
145 |
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very nice desu . have a preference for bladefist
|
146 |
+
--- 28761856
|
147 |
+
>>28761521
|
148 |
+
Yes they can. But you dont want that. Just admit it
|
149 |
+
--- 28761861
|
150 |
+
Miss my uncle. My aunt a d her controlling BF making me sooo angry
|
151 |
+
--- 28761867
|
152 |
+
>>28761823
|
153 |
+
oh eoe
|
154 |
+
--- 28761887
|
155 |
+
>>28761521
|
156 |
+
you just don’t even want to try
|
157 |
+
--- 28761891
|
158 |
+
>>28761701
|
159 |
+
deev experimental surrealism painting
|
160 |
+
--- 28761912
|
161 |
+
>>28761867
|
162 |
+
jej
|
163 |
+
--- 28761915
|
164 |
+
Idk how I feel about having my pussy to referred to as “magic”. Does this mean I just am I more passionate?
|
165 |
+
--- 28761916
|
166 |
+
You have once chance to catch me while I'm submissive. Play your cards right if you want a sex pet. Cuck me if you can.
|
167 |
+
--- 28761920
|
168 |
+
i fucking hate it when you say things like that. i want your kids the most of all. stop fucking saying those things because i'll never get to have what i want the most in the world with you. probably because i'm too short and not athletic and i'm too weak for you i guess. sorry.
|
169 |
+
why are you like this. i'm in love with you
|
170 |
+
--- 28761922
|
171 |
+
>>28761701
|
172 |
+
frijkjs experimental minimalism painting
|
173 |
+
--- 28761923
|
174 |
+
The people I hang out with are painfully shy and it's honestly becoming too much. I want to have fun and banter but it feels like I'm just babysitting people with depression and am always walking on eggshells. Maybe it's just me, but I simply cannot find friends who are fun to talk to but also not low-inhibition addicts.
|
175 |
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--- 28761957
|
176 |
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>>28761920
|
177 |
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Then have my babies, goofy. Chances are I'm actually really attracted to you.
|
178 |
+
--- 28761970
|
179 |
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>>28761957
|
180 |
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i would give you 10 kids if you would let me
|
181 |
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but i think you think my genes aren't good enough. kms
|
182 |
+
--- 28761981
|
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>>28761970
|
184 |
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If your initials are right I will dm you now.
|
185 |
+
--- 28761996
|
186 |
+
>>28761920
|
187 |
+
Say things like what
|
188 |
+
--- 28762025
|
189 |
+
>>28761701
|
190 |
+
greeji experimental war mural minimalism painting
|
191 |
+
--- 28762027
|
192 |
+
i wanna drown in your arms is that okay
|
193 |
+
https://youtu.be/3cAluJfljuA [Embed]
|
194 |
+
--- 28762043
|
195 |
+
>>28761426
|
196 |
+
arelexc (at) gmail (dot) com
|
197 |
+
--- 28762044
|
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+
>>28761701
|
199 |
+
vxsjkls experimental minimalism painting
|
200 |
+
--- 28762065
|
201 |
+
>>28761970
|
202 |
+
Text me tonight.
|
203 |
+
--- 28762129
|
204 |
+
>>28761701
|
205 |
+
greejjji experimental minimalism painting
|
206 |
+
--- 28762139
|
207 |
+
>>28761701
|
208 |
+
rjijijhs experimental minimalist surrealism painting
|
209 |
+
--- 28762216
|
210 |
+
I am completely miserable and unhappy with my life
|
211 |
+
|
212 |
+
Should I quit everything and be a vagrant and road trip across the country y/n
|
213 |
+
--- 28762225
|
214 |
+
>>28762216
|
215 |
+
Figure out why you're miserable first. A lot of people make the decision to make a big move only to find the misery was inside them all along and moving to new york or trekking in nepal did nothing to help them.
|
216 |
+
--- 28762260
|
217 |
+
>>28760660
|
218 |
+
>tell man to fuck off
|
219 |
+
>he does
|
220 |
+
>still not happy
|
221 |
+
--- 28762271
|
222 |
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my life would be so much easier if i wasn't in love with you lol i wish i could snap out of it and just be independent
|
223 |
+
--- 28762571
|
224 |
+
I was excited for the poem, thanks for brutalizing my illusions and dreams. =(
|
225 |
+
--- 28762573
|
226 |
+
I think the paint overall better fits your style. Have you considered using more colors?
|
227 |
+
--- 28762576
|
228 |
+
I don't know if I can trust anyone again or love.
|
229 |
+
--- 28762587
|
230 |
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You have shown me that I am not allow to love. You are just like them, only knows how to hurt. I'll be alone like I am always am is better to stay away. You did it this time, I hope your proud of yourself. BYE
|
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--- 28762607
|
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+
>>28761891
|
233 |
+
>>28762573
|
234 |
+
Big fan of this one in particular
|
235 |
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--- 28762621
|
236 |
+
>>28761369
|
237 |
+
Sounds like a good time, where you at? What are you doing with the $1000, showing me a good time or what?
|
238 |
+
--- 28762622
|
239 |
+
Maybe I really like the relief? Apart from the obvious reason.
|
240 |
+
--- 28762649
|
241 |
+
>>28761701
|
242 |
+
neev new age minimalism engagement
|
243 |
+
--- 28762658
|
244 |
+
>>28761701
|
245 |
+
giji inferal modernism ideaism
|
246 |
+
--- 28762665
|
247 |
+
>>28761701
|
248 |
+
giji experimental reality brutalism ideaism
|
249 |
+
--- 28762669
|
250 |
+
>>28761701
|
251 |
+
ij experimental minimalism expressionism
|
252 |
+
--- 28762672
|
253 |
+
>>28761701
|
254 |
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german experimental reality mural abstract ideaism
|
255 |
+
--- 28762677
|
256 |
+
>>28762573
|
257 |
+
yes . I decided to do a single color series for my first time & will incorporate more later .
|
258 |
+
--- 28762683
|
259 |
+
>>28762677
|
260 |
+
Keep at it. Maybe not here eventually but you know
|
261 |
+
--- 28762684
|
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+
>>28762607
|
263 |
+
thankyou greatly appreciated
|
264 |
+
--- 28762691
|
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im projecting love feelings onto my married friend that i fuck. he shows more consideration and tenderness through action than anyone ever has towards me
|
266 |
+
my fiance is a scammer with no job and throws a tantrum when i ask him to get his ged in our late 20s
|
267 |
+
i cant cum
|
268 |
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im not even good enough to make my friend want to leave his wife. i dont even want him like that - but i want him to want me like that.
|
269 |
+
life sucks rn
|
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+
--- 28762701
|
271 |
+
hello
|
272 |
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--- 28762746
|
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>>28761923
|
274 |
+
I feel this. Hung out with a friend all day today and it was like I had to keep him from having a breakdown every 5 minutes. If I could be sure I was helping then I'd feel better about it, but with these situations you're always influencing their bad mood somehow
|
275 |
+
--- 28762782
|
276 |
+
I kinda like to stretch the haribo gummy bears out before I eat them. Honestly if you don't stretch them to the point of tearing, they kinda go right back to their original shape. Fun. Interesting. Just very intriguing. Curious little things.
|
277 |
+
--- 28762785
|
278 |
+
The only person who I feel even remotely more energized from interacting was with is my fiancee. Asides from her the only person who normally doesn't steal energy away from me when interacting with is my sister. I don't have children yet but the older I get the more I realize I just don't give an unconditional fuck about anyone else. I'll also be more happy with life if the nukes fly. Other humans are a potential threat and enemy. I don't tell anyone in my life this since everyone tells me they look up to me and that I greatly help them, but I don't feel the same way about them.
|
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--- 28762799
|
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+
Is it wrong to just once forget about everything and just take it easy?
|
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+
--- 28762806
|
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>>28762799
|
283 |
+
No. Go in peace fren. Forget about the last and be in peace
|
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+
--- 28762833
|
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+
Shh. You're supposed to be sleeping.
|
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+
--- 28762836
|
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+
>>28762833
|
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Sleep if for the weak
|
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+
--- 28762846
|
290 |
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I'm only smart enough to realize most people are smarter than me.
|
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+
--- 28762858
|
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+
it's over
|
293 |
+
--- 28762860
|
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+
>>28762799
|
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+
What would be wrong with it?
|
296 |
+
--- 28762861
|
297 |
+
Gotye play it again
|
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+
|
299 |
+
Ya that’s the stuff
|
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+
--- 28762890
|
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>>28762782
|
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Have you zero empathy? Put yourself in their little gummy shoes and walk a mile, and try to see things through what would be their eyeballs. Imagine getting stretched, arms and limbs possibly tearing, and literally being tortured right before some giant girl consumes your entire body into her mouth. Your last thoughts are of the cute, yellow gummy bear girl from the same factory tray you bonded with and felt what you can only describe as true luv. Sadly you got sorted into separate packs, but you remember her everlasting smile. She was your gummy mate. You start to pray that she doesn't meet a similar torturous state as you, but then everything goes black mid-prayer as you enter the void that is your torturer's mouth
|
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--- 28762896
|
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>>28762890
|
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They liquid
|
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--- 28762905
|
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>>28762890
|
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>>28762896
|
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Goomy beaers
|
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--- 28762908
|
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>>28762890
|
312 |
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This is my fetish.
|
313 |
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God I wish I was a gummy bear right now.
|
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+
--- 28762912
|
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Auwowwooooooo
|
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--- 28762916
|
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>>28762908
|
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Be careful what you wish for, Anon. If you were a gummy bear, I would totally eat you. Typing that scenario up made me crave some of those delicious little bears
|
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--- 28762921
|
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If you text me tonight....I will give you the best orgasm youve ever had.
|
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--- 28762932
|
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>>28762921
|
323 |
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Sleep sounds better
|
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--- 28762941
|
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>>28762916
|
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Augh fuck I'm gonna fart
|
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--- 28762943
|
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>>28762941
|
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Whoa whoa whoa
|
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Don't get weird with it wtf
|
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--- 28762947
|
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>>28762941
|
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Do it, Anon! You're fully justified in this, it's self defense!
|
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--- 28762948
|
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>>28762932
|
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How you gon sleep when im fucking you so good?
|
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--- 28762952
|
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>>28762932
|
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Dont know what youre missing
|
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--- 28762961
|
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i had a panic attack yesterday and burned a bridge. i don't really care about this bridge but it did remind me that i don't have that many friends. where do people go to get friends that aren't sociopaths
|
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--- 28762964
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>>28762941
|
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Do a flip
|
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--- 28762969
|
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>>28762964
|
347 |
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360 Poot Flip!
|
348 |
+
600
|
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--- 28762970
|
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KEK ME HARDER
|
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--- 28762979
|
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>>28762961
|
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Why did you burn it, Anon? And what caused the panic?
|
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--- 28763003
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th elayers oH tHE LAYERS YOU JUST WOULNT GETYOU WOULDEUNDERSTAB THAT THOSE ALL THOSE LAYERS THE YOU WOULGNT GET WOULDNT GET THE LAYERS
|
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+
--- 28763010
|
357 |
+
The only layers I see are the 6 feet of dirt layered over your coffin, friend.
|
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+
|
359 |
+
It's over.
|
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+
--- 28763011
|
361 |
+
If you think you have adhd and want to try nootropics before you try those scary sounding pharmaceutical drugs, don't. They don't do shit. The scary sounding pharmaceutical drugs do a lot more. Just don't abuse them and you'll be fine.
|
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+
--- 28763042
|
363 |
+
i wish you would commit and love me the way I love you. but I guess you were ruined by that other girl.
|
364 |
+
it hurts because I'll never truly have you. if I had one wish I would make you commit to me
|
365 |
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--- 28763058
|
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>>28763042
|
367 |
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they chose somebody else. there is nothing more to it.
|
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+
|
369 |
+
i know what its like to be led on. it doesnt mean that they had feelings for you. you just happened to have something that they wanted in the moment. nothing more.
|
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--- 28763145
|
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>>28763042
|
372 |
+
=?
|
373 |
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--- 28763209
|
374 |
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I what????? ?
|
375 |
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--- 28763216
|
376 |
+
back on my bullshit again *cracks fingers*
|
377 |
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--- 28763304
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>>28763010
|
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+
What makes you say that indirectly in a general sense and is it okay if it made me laugh
|
380 |
+
--- 28763314
|
381 |
+
At the end of the day I just really don't want to accept anything that I have to accept, good or bad.
|
382 |
+
--- 28763434
|
383 |
+
Think I might scream in my car for fun on the way home
|
384 |
+
--- 28763460
|
385 |
+
I understand now how older people can be so wise. There’s some tragedies that the young haven’t fully experienced so don’t have the tools to more rapidly or wholly recover. A truly broken heart for example.
|
386 |
+
--- 28763492
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>>28763434
|
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Scream one for me please <3
|
389 |
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--- 28763500
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>>28763492
|
391 |
+
One for anonymous, got it
|
392 |
+
--- 28763552
|
393 |
+
I wish you would respond when I try and be nice to you. Just ignoring me makes me not wanna bother you because I feel like I’m annoying you or something. Even though we’re dating you’re so distant from me now. You don’t ever let me in to see how you’re doing and feeling.
|
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+
|
395 |
+
And any time I want to hang out it’s excuse after excuse. Just say if you don’t like me anymore. Just don’t keep me dangling here.
|
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+
--- 28763560
|
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>>28759272 (OP)
|
398 |
+
I know you don't respect him. We have more chemistry.
|
399 |
+
|
400 |
+
Why do you even stay with him? Just run to me when you're ready.
|
401 |
+
--- 28763563
|
402 |
+
Why don't webm open on this board they work everywhere else I go
|
403 |
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--- 28763585
|
404 |
+
When me and my two brothers had to share the family computer as kids we had a huge computer desk that had power buttons built into the desk. You could turn off the computer by pressing a button on the side of the desk. Anyways when the time would run out and one of us wasn't getting off fast enough the other would hover their finger over the button and say like a robot "Get off or turn off" That phrase is seared into my brain we'd repeat it at each other over and over GET OFF OR TURN OFF GET OFF OR TURN OFF then eventually we'd hold down the button (if you kept it held down the computer wouldn't turn off but once released it would turn off) The pure adrenaline rush trying to finish a game while my little brother is sitting there grinning with his finger depressed on that fucking button was intense
|
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+
--- 28763589
|
406 |
+
god i fucking hate this shithole chink town i live in, it feels like my access to the internet and my friends could be taken away any time by this incompetent fucking gook ass government. i suck ass at chinese even though i was born and raised in chinkland. and i cant make any friends with the normal chinese kids because i dont keep up with chinese trends, theres no fucking hope of me ever moving to another country because i dont think i can even get a job here because of my lackluster chinese. i would have never had slave away studying for the exams if i didnt live in this shithole because i barley understand the language. worse thing is after 30 or so more years the shithole town i live in is going to be repossessed by the CCP, unless america swoops in and beats the shit out of those chinkoids i think i'll kill myself when that happens
|
407 |
+
--- 28763595
|
408 |
+
It sucks to not be moved on from a ghosting. I need to be. It was never something I could control.
|
409 |
+
--- 28763606
|
410 |
+
>>28763595
|
411 |
+
You've got a good mindset it's true we can't control others only our reactions
|
412 |
+
--- 28763633
|
413 |
+
>>28763606
|
414 |
+
The problem is emotion. Memory of the sheer happiness and an at home kind of feeling. I hope I have that kind of thing again.
|
415 |
+
--- 28763674
|
416 |
+
I like cookies so much bros
|
417 |
+
--- 28763702
|
418 |
+
>>28763674
|
419 |
+
Quit punching holes in the wall Kyle
|
420 |
+
--- 28763732
|
421 |
+
>>28763674
|
422 |
+
Me too. I'm glad I picked up baking to make them
|
423 |
+
--- 28763754
|
424 |
+
Man.
|
425 |
+
--- 28763755
|
426 |
+
>>28763702
|
427 |
+
--- 28763771
|
428 |
+
I love getting high on my own supply (rubbing my pussy and smelling my fingers)
|
429 |
+
--- 28763797
|
430 |
+
Can’t sleep. I hate that at least let me rest human body
|
431 |
+
--- 28763821
|
432 |
+
Maybe I just obsessively refresh youtube for another 30 minutes and not watch anything since I'm in my bed and no longer have my headphones on, and maybe that's just my life from now on until I put my computer in a dumpster
|
433 |
+
--- 28763824
|
434 |
+
>>28763821
|
435 |
+
I'd rather that than online video game addiction
|
436 |
+
--- 28763838
|
437 |
+
I can tell when someone is playing dumb in their replies to me and that they will never agree with me but instead of giving up like they want I get more and more verbose and explain myself and they have to become more creative. It's fun when they actually play with me and we get a fake discussion going back and forth like verbal tennis. But I hate when they just give up seeing I'm not getting mad or dismissing them and they in turn dismiss me and resort to namecalling. So YOU can play but others can't? No fun. Play with me or don't respond
|
438 |
+
--- 28763864
|
439 |
+
>>28763838
|
440 |
+
Can I play with your balls
|
441 |
+
--- 28763870
|
442 |
+
>>28763864
|
443 |
+
I'm female
|
444 |
+
--- 28763875
|
445 |
+
>>28763870
|
446 |
+
Oh never mind then. I'm sorry for bothering you ma'am
|
447 |
+
--- 28763879
|
448 |
+
I don't even know what I want anymore. It's not even a bad sort of thing like how I wanted to run it to the ground, it's just utterly meaningless and completely unreal and I just feel dead.
|
449 |
+
--- 28763902
|
450 |
+
>>28761496
|
451 |
+
Bro I felt just like this for years, and it came to a head almost exactly a year ago. I hated myself so much that I didn't even think I was worthy of being helped, but I sought help at the behest of my parents (who I'm very lucky to have). I went to a local Psychiatric APRN and she prescribed me Lexapro. I must've had a chemical imbalance the whole time, because slowly but surely, the fog cleared from my head, and I became more able to live with the past, present, and future. Life hasn't become easier, but I've become stronger. I was lucky that I was able to get the help I needed, as it's not nearly as simple for most people. However, you never know if you don't try. Don't give up, anon.
|
452 |
+
--- 28763908
|
453 |
+
Be patient, wait for the right time. God is with you.
|
454 |
+
--- 28763909
|
455 |
+
>>28763771
|
456 |
+
That's my story. I'm a man and I had a son in law. Now my son in law is against me. It's partially because of your mother, and the other half is from, is is probably your fault. Maybe if you paid attention and you pulled your nose out of those gay harry potter harlequins that you read until 4 in the morning when you're stuffing your envelope, like you owe it something, things would be different.
|
457 |
+
--- 28763921
|
458 |
+
>>28763909
|
459 |
+
>mfw I stay up til 4am playing hp
|
460 |
+
Are you gangstalking me
|
461 |
+
Let me blogpost about sniffing my pussy in peace perp
|
462 |
+
--- 28763945
|
463 |
+
things seem more stupid than usual lately, is this just me?
|
464 |
+
--- 28763966
|
465 |
+
>>28763945
|
466 |
+
No bro take that bud light stuff for example. Or people not recognizing Musk and Trump as personally incapable of selfless action and loyalty. It’s fucked
|
467 |
+
--- 28763989
|
468 |
+
>>28763966
|
469 |
+
what bud light stuff
|
470 |
+
--- 28764007
|
471 |
+
>>28763989
|
472 |
+
They did a promotion with a trans influencer not even an item you could buy on shelves and people lost it started boycotting. But the influencer is rather inoffensive it’s only her identity that offended and a lot of the people switching to another type of beer picked brands that were owned by bud’s parent company anyway.
|
473 |
+
--- 28764016
|
474 |
+
>>28764007
|
475 |
+
that's really stupid and hilarious lol. i hope more things like this keep happening
|
476 |
+
--- 28764036
|
477 |
+
>>28764007
|
478 |
+
>the influencer is rather inoffensive
|
479 |
+
He's the faggiest flamboyant fag to ever fag it feels like a bit. He angers liberals and conservatives alike.
|
480 |
+
--- 28764062
|
481 |
+
I have intrusive pedophilic and ga thoughts all the time and I want hem to go away and they won't. I want to die.
|
482 |
+
--- 28764085
|
483 |
+
>>28764062
|
484 |
+
are the pedo and gay thoughts separate or are you implying you want to diddle little boys only? are you normally into adult women otherwise?
|
485 |
+
--- 28764091
|
486 |
+
>>28764085
|
487 |
+
I'm only into adult women, but somewhere about 3 years ago my brain broke and just won't stop forcing the images into my head. My proof is tha only adult women give me boners.
|
488 |
+
--- 28764100
|
489 |
+
>>28764091
|
490 |
+
it sounds like you have ocd. are you aware?
|
491 |
+
--- 28764112
|
492 |
+
>>28764100
|
493 |
+
I've considered it as a possibility but I've never been diagnosed.
|
494 |
+
--- 28764115
|
495 |
+
>>28764007
|
496 |
+
I did my research on brands libtard
|
497 |
+
--- 28764134
|
498 |
+
>>28764112
|
499 |
+
if it doesn't come with compulsions, like you need to actually do something to get rid of the thoughts, then it's possible you have pure o, but it's still ocd. there are meds to treat it if you want to go that route. i know ocd people who got rid of intrusive thoughts from medication but it takes a while to find a suitable one for them
|
500 |
+
--- 28764150
|
501 |
+
>>28764134
|
502 |
+
I'll look into it, thanks nigger.
|
503 |
+
--- 28764151
|
504 |
+
>>28764062
|
505 |
+
Google homosexual compulsive disorder
|
506 |
+
--- 28764167
|
507 |
+
Deliverance has come!
|
508 |
+
--- 28764168
|
509 |
+
the daddy issues in me loves men with mommy issues… like.. what can i do..
|
510 |
+
--- 28764183
|
511 |
+
like something about them i’m attracted to even though its probably toxic like my ex. like yes hate fuck me and let me hold you and be the feminine figure you never had..
|
512 |
+
--- 28764185
|
513 |
+
>>28764168
|
514 |
+
Wtf is that a sign of daddy issues? I <3 men with mommy issues for some reason, I wish I didn't lmao
|
515 |
+
--- 28764191
|
516 |
+
>>28764115
|
517 |
+
Oh I’m much worse than a liberal bubba
|
518 |
+
--- 28764211
|
519 |
+
I hate people that make being mentally ill their entire personality and they think it makes them quirky. Have some fucking shame. We need to bring shame back. It's not cute that you identify with bpd and act like a fucking attentionwhore all the time. Maybe sort yourself out instead of expecting everybody else to find it endearing. You're pretty but not That pretty, you need to grow the fuck up. You aren't impressing or shocking anybody you don't come off as the tortured soul you wish you did. You just seem like a brat
|
520 |
+
--- 28764227
|
521 |
+
>>28764185
|
522 |
+
i’m honestly not sure. maybe its just personality, maybe its a combo of specific type of daddy and mommy issues lol
|
523 |
+
--- 28764287
|
524 |
+
>>28764211
|
525 |
+
blah blah blaaa
|
526 |
+
--- 28764643
|
527 |
+
might just rope at this point i will never be good enough
|
528 |
+
i know a lot of men would kill to have what i give you but i don't want anybody else
|
529 |
+
--- 28764653
|
530 |
+
i want to lash out at you and tell you how pathetic you are and how lucky you are to have me and that no other girl would ever love you because you are fucking creepy and weird but i will hold back because for some reason i still love you
|
531 |
+
--- 28764694
|
532 |
+
I don't have many friends, I'm about to ask a coworker out, can you all wish me luck?
|
533 |
+
--- 28764696
|
534 |
+
>>28764643
|
535 |
+
Good enough is not the right way to think about it imo, compatible or not is the way to go. I am very sorry that you are feeling so down but maybe if they make you feel that way it’s alright to consider them incompatible on your terms
|
536 |
+
--- 28764699
|
537 |
+
When we make each other smile they wish that they were geeks in love
|
538 |
+
--- 28764717
|
539 |
+
I can’t help you if you don’t let me in. I can’t be your boyfriend if you never tell me how you’re feeling or what you’re doing. It’s not a relationship at that point.
|
540 |
+
--- 28764767
|
541 |
+
>>28764694
|
542 |
+
She's been liking my posts and PP on FB, that's a good sign right?
|
543 |
+
--- 28764770
|
544 |
+
If only you could have sung for me always. I hope you’re still singing
|
545 |
+
--- 28764774
|
546 |
+
>>28764696
|
547 |
+
i'm going to talk to him about it tonight
|
548 |
+
--- 28764783
|
549 |
+
>>28764694
|
550 |
+
Oh sorry anon I got distracted. Good luck and consider it a success no matter what happens if you can do it. The fear is just a feeling try to stay present and do your thing
|
551 |
+
--- 28764819
|
552 |
+
>>28764767
|
553 |
+
thats a good sign, good luck!
|
554 |
+
--- 28764824
|
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+
fizzy
|
556 |
+
--- 28764831
|
557 |
+
lifting
|
558 |
+
--- 28764846
|
559 |
+
last night i went through my deceased family members things, while i was visiting a living one for dinner. turns out, she wrote a poem about something terrible that impacted me as a kid, found it in her poetry and photo album.
|
560 |
+
the way she worded it made me feel seen in a way i hadnt in almost two decades. for a situation that i was instructed not to talk about, she understood the gravity of it all.
|
561 |
+
the last poem i read before i left was her wanting time for herself. that perhaps it'll come when she was laid to rest. im still feeling all kinds of ways about it the next day, but im glad i read it. i miss her.
|
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+
--- 28764875
|
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+
>>28764819
|
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+
>>28764783
|
565 |
+
Thanks both
|
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+
--- 28764877
|
567 |
+
Inaction and lacking a sense of urgency has always been one of my biggest weaknesses.
|
568 |
+
--- 28764908
|
569 |
+
It took me a really long time to figure out what I wanted to do and then I did that and was left frustrated. I worry that now it’s too late. If you ever read a biography of anyone great, 9/10 times they really got moving in their 20s. I worry that I missed that window so the race was over before I knew it had started.
|
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--- 28764955
|
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+
>>28761701
|
572 |
+
jij inferal modernism drawing
|
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+
--- 28764964
|
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+
>>28761701
|
575 |
+
reij experimental reserved modernism expressionism
|
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+
--- 28764972
|
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+
>>28761701
|
578 |
+
german experimental abstract minimalism ideaism
|
579 |
+
--- 28764979
|
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+
>>28761701
|
581 |
+
japanese experimental minimalism engagement
|
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+
--- 28764986
|
583 |
+
>>28764846
|
584 |
+
It's a sin to lie, and twice a sin to lie to family.
|
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+
--- 28764988
|
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+
>>28761701
|
587 |
+
czechian experimental abstract modernism ideaism
|
588 |
+
--- 28765026
|
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+
>>28764877
|
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+
>>28764908
|
591 |
+
The pages of a calendar flip a little bit faster than most people are ready for. Most don't get the 200+ years it takes to put the world together, and those that do don't bother to write autobiographies.
|
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+
--- 28765163
|
593 |
+
I did not know that statuefags ! I guess I can begin sculpting with marble so much earlier than previously thought . very intriguing !!!!!!!
|
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+
--- 28765164
|
595 |
+
Omniscience is knowing the story arc of the medium from front to back, omnipresence is being able to forward and backward it's progression, omnipotence is being able to modify the thing in it.
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--- 28759998
|
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backstory
|
4 |
+
>just got done with first week of classes
|
5 |
+
>one of them is 400 level so not as many people
|
6 |
+
>still held in bigger classroom so everyone has room to stretch out
|
7 |
+
>decide to sit close to the front so i can have an entire row to myself
|
8 |
+
>few minutes before class starts one last student walks in
|
9 |
+
>massive hook nose
|
10 |
+
>full body black peacoat
|
11 |
+
>and a fedora on top of his unkempt wavy hair
|
12 |
+
>i quietly snicker to myself as he scans the room as i always get a kick out of seeing living stereotypes in action
|
13 |
+
>starts to walk over to me
|
14 |
+
>my heart drops at the thought of him sitting in my row but i've left a six seat buffer zone just for a situation like this
|
15 |
+
>sits directly next to me
|
16 |
+
>wtf
|
17 |
+
>guy says nothing as he obnoxiously pulls out his massive binder and begins clipping and unclipping it
|
18 |
+
>i roll my eyes but keep my composure as i'm sure he'll simmer down once class begins
|
19 |
+
>i was so fucking wrong
|
20 |
+
>rest of class consists of more annoying bs
|
21 |
+
>he's an actual mouth breather and smells like my grandparent's attic
|
22 |
+
>interrupts the prof every few minutes with some of his scholarly insights
|
23 |
+
>fidgets constantly shifting in his seat, picking his skin, and tapping his foot
|
24 |
+
>i wince every time he adjusts himself and his peacoat brushes against me
|
25 |
+
>at one point i ask him quietly and politely to please stop tapping his foot as it's shaking the neighboring seats but he ignores me and keeps stimming
|
26 |
+
>after the longest two hours of my life i resolved to move the fuck across the classroom next lecture so i would never have to go through that again
|
27 |
+
>two days later have next class
|
28 |
+
>make good on my plan and sit on the complete opposite side of the room in different row
|
29 |
+
>minute before class starts fedora guy enters
|
30 |
+
>i'm dumbfounded as without hesitating he walks directly to my new spot and plops down next to me AGAIN and begins his annoying as fuck binder clipping ritual
|
31 |
+
--- 28760000
|
32 |
+
This guys has to be fucking with me, right? and if so, how do I make it stop? Straight up telling him to fuck off is out because I know if I do he’ll just double down because he enjoys making people uncomfortable like most of these dipshits. Skipping class or showing up late so he’s already seated somewhere is out since I only get two absences for the term and the prof is extremely punctual and locks the doors as soon as class starts. making friends with other classmates to have them be a buffer on both sides is out because half of them are ESLs and the other half will think i'm some kind of antisocial asshole. And finally straight up kicking his ass is out since I’m so close to my degree and I’m not throwing it all away just to put some obnoxious fedora fag in his place. Still there has to be some way, right? Right??
|
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+
--- 28760041
|
34 |
+
>>28759998 (OP)
|
35 |
+
Show up later and make sure to find seats away from him until m'sir gets the picture.
|
36 |
+
--- 28760048
|
37 |
+
>>28760041
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>Skipping class or showing up late so he’s already seated somewhere is out since I only get two absences for the term and the prof is extremely punctual and locks the doors as soon as class starts.
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can't :/
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--- 28760106
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Just start talking really excessively about Catholicism and how he should try it.
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--- 28760174
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>>28760048
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That's not what I said. You show up when everyone else does, AFTER fedora chode. You find a seat between two other people. You take it. M'Sir can't take a seat next to you now. Do this until the problem is resolved.
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--- 28760207
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>>28760174
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>AFTER fedora chode
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I hear ya but the guy literally shows up a minute before the start of class like clockwork. It feels super intentional and I'm starting to think he does this shit to some poor soul every class he's in.
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>You find a seat between two other people
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Also like I mentioned it's a big room with a small population. No one sits with anyone else and even if I did there'd still be an open seat next to me that he would surely take
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This shit seems so hopeless, man
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--- 28760211
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>>28759998 (OP)
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The only way to fight trolls is to troll them harder so they find another target. Either do >>28760106 or find something he is very passionate about and troll him about that
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--- 28760234
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Just get up and move next time he sits next to you, if he follows you confront him. Don't try and get into an autism measuring contest like these dipshits are suggesting
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--- 28760289
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>>28760234
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this is probably my best option but i still don't think it would work. if we're talking autism measuring contests my prof takes the gold
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>guy values punctuality more than anything to the point where he locks the doors and second the lecture starts
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>at this time he also immediatly begins the lesson and any type of disruption after this moment is met with a conniption fit
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>some guys phone went off on thursday and he ripped his head off because of it
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so if i get up and move i know i'll be seen as a disruption and i really don't want to piss off the guy grading my assignments
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like i said, hopeless. i'm gonna have to endure 10 weeks of this shit
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--- 28762327
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>>28760289
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dont give up, fuckin sit next to another person and tell them the guy is insane or something, like make a person buffer or something. keep moving around and seeing if the dickweed keeps following you, honestly sounds like a horrible situation im so sorry anon
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--- 28763309
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>>28759998 (OP)
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are u retarded? just let him sit first and then you enter the class its really not hard
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and you call yourself an intellectual academic
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ridic
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--- 28763350
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>>28759998 (OP)
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Is this college? This guy has autism by the way so give him some honest advice. Talk to him about his body odor, poor life decisions and odd behavior. Or if you are a heartless monster point and laugh at your new personal lolcow.
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Hopefully he takes your advice because lolcows never want to take advice or improve any aspect of their life.
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--- 28763365
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>>28759998 (OP)
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If this escalates get in contact with the school's authorities and put in your complaint of harassment.
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--- 28763367
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>>28759998 (OP)
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Why are you making up stories? For attention?
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--- 28763406
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>>28760289
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|
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firstly, no offence, the guy has clearly been drawn to you because he instinctually relates to you
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>hopeless. i'm gonna have to endure 10 weeks of this shit
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secondly, as much offence as you wanna take, what are you fucking talking about? I know we are on a chan, but ffs. Have you ever confronted anyone ever about anything?
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|
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If the guy tries to sit next to you again tell him to fuck off, if he ignores you then he's obviously more mentally ill than you first thought so just move to another seat, if he follows you then loudly tell him to stop following you which will 1. embarrass him enough for him to retreat into his retard shell and leave you and everyone else alone (before this evolves into a latch on situation) 2. be a sign to your peers to stay away from him and to respect you as someone who respects himself. If your prof makes a big thing out of it just take it on the chin, then catch prof after the lecture and explain the situation, if the MR stays glued to you OUTSIDE the class then confront him firmly then speak to a prof you trust and have action put in place to keep him away from you. Relationships like that are one-sided and can evolve into minor stalking. Just stand up for yourself. You are literally at school to learn how to function as a human being, this is a learning experience.
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life is not nearly as hard as u think it is. stand up for yourself you mushy freak
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--- 28763441
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>sit somewhere you don't want to sit
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>euphoric male sits down next to you.
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>get up and move to your preferred seat.
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>profit.
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-----
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--- 28760519
|
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When I began dating the woman who is now my girlfriend, she was very straightforward with me, and I appreciated that. She said it was all about money, that I wasn't her type of man, but she needed the money to pay for her education, as she had debt from college. I respected her honesty and promised to pay for such bills as long she provided sex. She said it didn't matter how I looked, as long as i worked hard and paid for her college bills, she was going to let me sleep with her and be loyal to me and our arrangement.
|
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+
|
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+
When she graduated one year and eight months later, I thought it was over. She stopped asking for money. And then she found a nice job and started her own career. But instead of stopping talking, we kept the relationship. Why? I never asked. I just let it be because I felt the very foundations of our relationship was gone, and if I pointed out the big elephant in the room, "hey, why are we still together? You already graduated," the relationship was going to end in that exact moment.
|
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+
|
7 |
+
When she stopped asking for money, the dynamic in our relationship turned 180°. And somehow, now things were different.
|
8 |
+
|
9 |
+
She began buying me new clothes and asking me to change my entire wardrobe. She began introducing me to her stupid friends, who I hate. And now she wants me to meet her parents and silbings...
|
10 |
+
|
11 |
+
At this point, we have been together for over two years and five months. But I never thought of this as something serious. And now she is asking me to meet her parents??!! Again, I don't want to point out the big blue elephant in the room, "why are we still together"? I sort of just wanted to enjoy it until it lasted or she found someone else. But I'm getting scared. This is becoming more and more serious.
|
12 |
+
|
13 |
+
Besides meeting her parents, she now wants me to lose weight, and I comply like an idiot. I honestly don't want to lose weight. What should I do? Should I finally ask the question?
|
14 |
+
|
15 |
+
"Why are we still together?"
|
16 |
+
--- 28760544
|
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+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
18 |
+
Sounds like she fell in love with you. She shouldn’t be telling you to lose weight though. That’s emotional abuse. Does she have any other abusive behavior?
|
19 |
+
--- 28760608
|
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+
>>28760544
|
21 |
+
>Sounds like she fell in love with you.
|
22 |
+
Nice joke anon
|
23 |
+
>She shouldn’t be telling you to lose weight though.
|
24 |
+
No she shouldn't
|
25 |
+
>That’s emotional abuse. Does she have any other abusive behavior?
|
26 |
+
Yes, she when she stopped asking for money I sort of lost the right to demand sex everytime I wanted. We still do it but only when she in the mood. Like once or twice a week.
|
27 |
+
--- 28760836
|
28 |
+
>>28760608
|
29 |
+
>No sex = Abuse
|
30 |
+
Lel
|
31 |
+
--- 28760868
|
32 |
+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
33 |
+
If you're happy with the relationship, don't bring it up. Sounds like she's just doing the same you did to her.
|
34 |
+
--- 28760886
|
35 |
+
>>28760544
|
36 |
+
>That’s emotional abuse
|
37 |
+
Fuck off and fuck YOU, stop being so fragile
|
38 |
+
I cannot believe the modern couple can't communicate such trivial shit to each other, jesus
|
39 |
+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
40 |
+
>>28760608
|
41 |
+
She probably caught feelings, accepted you for who you are and essentially got you into the average relationship
|
42 |
+
Dude, just talk to her, why is it so hard?
|
43 |
+
>Should I finally ask the question?
|
44 |
+
Yes, do it, it's a starting point to understand yourselves
|
45 |
+
She may hate it but it's necessary
|
46 |
+
Don't want to lose weight? Don't want to be in this relationship? Would rather keep paying for sex? You DO want to stay in the relationship but would rather have more frequent sex?
|
47 |
+
TALK TO HER, it's that simple
|
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+
--- 28760954
|
49 |
+
Don't call people stupid, you're really in a glasshouse and stone situation there.
|
50 |
+
--- 28761003
|
51 |
+
Shes turning you into someone who doesnt need to pay for sex. She likes your personality and the inner you, and is trying to make you get your shit together. You should be thanking God that this is your situation. Lose weight, dress better, get somewhat fit at a gym, and enjoy life, you dumb son of a bitch.
|
52 |
+
--- 28761021
|
53 |
+
>>28761003
|
54 |
+
This. If you love her, put a ring on her.
|
55 |
+
--- 28761024
|
56 |
+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
57 |
+
> Should I finally ask the question?
|
58 |
+
>"Why are we still together?"
|
59 |
+
No that's a neurotic feminine question. the answer for all relationships is "because it suits both parties".
|
60 |
+
Most don't last to 2 years never mind beyond, so you're on borrowed time any way.
|
61 |
+
Don't sweat it, just roll with the flow.
|
62 |
+
--- 28761035
|
63 |
+
Was she depressed/disassociated/weird at the beginning of the relationship? Was she like a cat in the rain and just wanted a safe warm home? Like did her father kick her out or something like that?
|
64 |
+
|
65 |
+
Other than that, sex is very important in relationships, so it seems like you did alright. Otherwise she wouldn't have stayed with you and caught feels.
|
66 |
+
|
67 |
+
>I honestly don't want to lose weight. What should I do?
|
68 |
+
lose weight, she wants to turn you into a respectable boyfriend, who doesn't beg women for relationships by offering to pay them for everything
|
69 |
+
--- 28761089
|
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+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
71 |
+
you're beyond pathetic, so I guess she's with you out of pity partially.
|
72 |
+
The dynamic hasn't changed in that respect at all.
|
73 |
+
If you didn't like her, or thought you could do better it would be over already, and yet it isn't.
|
74 |
+
So there you go.
|
75 |
+
--- 28761113
|
76 |
+
>>28760519 (OP)
|
77 |
+
>tfw no reverse gold digger gf
|
78 |
+
--- 28761165
|
79 |
+
>>28760544
|
80 |
+
>telling someone to be healthy and not an affront to the sight, smell, touch and hearing is abuse
|
81 |
+
do amerisharts really? fucking hilarious.
|
82 |
+
--- 28761748
|
83 |
+
>>28760868
|
84 |
+
Happy... I don't know, comfortable? I don't know if im "happy" but i don't hate it. She is nice to me most of the time, we have fought a few times already, but most of the times we do fine together. I hate to admit it but she push me to be more ambitious. I don't have the natural drive to 'self improve' or do things for myself. But she manage to get the best out of me. I suppose she makes me happy at some level
|
85 |
+
>>28760886
|
86 |
+
>She probably caught feelings, accepted you for who you are
|
87 |
+
I don't believe in such idealized notions anon
|
88 |
+
>Don't want to lose weight?
|
89 |
+
No
|
90 |
+
>Don't want to be in this relationship?
|
91 |
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I don't know, but if she dissapeared from my life tomorrow i would be sad, for how long? I don't know. I don't want to rationalize my feelings for her
|
92 |
+
>You DO want to stay in the relationship but would rather have more frequent sex?
|
93 |
+
Its not even about sex anymore, it started as something sexual, then a matter of company, i did not wanted to be alone. But now? I dont know the reason, probably I'm just possessive of her. I don't want anyone else but me to have her
|
94 |
+
>TALK TO HER, it's that simple
|
95 |
+
I suppose that's the logical answer, i already knew that. I'm just a coward to address such topic
|
96 |
+
>>28760954
|
97 |
+
I suppose
|
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>>28761003
|
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She is not doing some charity job, I have given her as much as she has given to me, and I'm not talking about money but emotional support and stability in her life
|
100 |
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>>28761024
|
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+
I can't ignore the situation forever
|
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--- 28761763
|
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>>28760519 (OP)
|
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I recommend you kill yourself
|
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+
--- 28761794
|
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+
>>28761035
|
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+
>Was she depressed/disassociated/weird at the beginning of the relationship
|
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+
|
109 |
+
I mean besides her financial struggles she was an emotional wreck, she never had a dad in her life, and one of her ex boyfriends, one who she deeply loved, always treated her as garbage, he cheated on her and beaten her up, he shamed her because of her body, including her small breasts, her weight and the shape of her vagina. She sort of developed issues regarding her body because of him.
|
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|
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I'm not saying im any better than that guy. I have my flaws and often try to push her away emotionally speaking, but i have never abused her, emotionally or physically. She often complain because our relationship is pretty "monotonous and boring" (as she describe it) but not even once she has complained about the way i treat her. Last January she lost her parrot and I skipped my job that day because she needed my shoulder. She didn't asked me to, i just did it because i wanted to. I do care about her and her feelings. But i don't think that entitles me to her love. I know she doesn't love me. I think she simply likes the stability i bring to her life, not financially speaking but emotionally. But I'm constantly afraid that she will find someone better and jump to the next guy.
|
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>>28761089
|
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+
I suppose you are right
|
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--- 28761808
|
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>>28760544
|
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>She shouldn’t be telling you to lose weight though. That’s emotional abuse.
|
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+
Fatass detected
|
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--- 28763040
|
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+
>>28761748
|
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+
>I'm just a coward to address such topic
|
121 |
+
No need to be too hard on yourself - I'm in a relationship too and I know how damn hard it is to openly communicate about delicate topics.
|
122 |
+
It ALWAYS pays off though, so the sooner you do it the better
|
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+
--- 28763093
|
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+
how fat are you
|
125 |
+
bmi level etc
|
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--- 28763187
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>>28761794
|
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>I know she doesn't love me. I think she simply likes the stability i bring to her lif
|
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+
dude ill say it as the only redpilled person on here
|
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+
women are sort of like animals, if they get fucked a lot by the same dude, they start 'falling in love' with the guy, its like sex bonds them to this dude.
|
131 |
+
so yes she probably wants to stay and be in a relationship with you now. she also hopes that she wont get abused again you know.
|
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+
youve basically invested your money into a gf partner
|
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+
is she hot though?
|
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--- 28765100
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>>28760519 (OP)
|
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She's making it official so she can milk you even more in the future. Knowing her parents comes first, then comes a wedding, then you're fucked. You got attached to a gold digger, congratulations.
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-----
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--- 28760589
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HTGWG is by men, for men, about women. Anything related to getting (and dealing with) women goes here. All anons are welcome to ask questions from more experienced anons, share experiences, get a second opinion, and give updates on advice received. It doesn't matter what you're struggling with, we know how hard it can be, we got you brah.
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>Topics discussed:
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●Approaching
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●Dating apps and texting
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●Having sex and getting to that point
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●Reading signals
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●Getting and maintaining gf
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●Etc
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>READ THIS NEW POSTERS:
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New posters are encouraged to share their latest experience with women, be it an attempt to approach, a date, a cute girl from school, or just a girl you saw somewhere and thought was cute, but hesitated to go and talk to her. Also read the FAQ before asking questions.
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>HOW TO ASK FOR ADVICE:
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Reminder that context is important. If you're asking for advice don't just ask 'This girl ghosted me, why?', we can't understand what your situation is like. Try to help other anons understand so they can help you, add as much (useful) context as possible:
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●Age
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●Experience with women/social skills
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●Context ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out and .....", what your relationship is with the girl, how long have you known her, screenshots or outline of conversation if any, etc)
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●Question
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>FAQ & Resources:
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https://pastebin.com/gKwGwANV
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>Thread Template:
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https://pastebin.com/tzFxW0eb
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Previous thread:
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>>28735373 →
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--- 28760606
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How do I be good to women and treat them well?
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--- 28760632
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>>28760606
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You probably already know how to do that.
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--- 28760639
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What to do if women simply don't find you attractive?
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--- 28760645
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>>28760606
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https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/28752890/#28752928
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--- 28760655
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>>28760639
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https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKIaJfW2hUswZ9v6UjY7umDDO2eDrbXOA
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JyiDypPrSV8 [Embed]
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LNFWmA2pmOk [Embed]
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--- 28760701
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Yo, check this
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I would *DO* that filly, DO her right in the puuuuuuuusssayyyyy, and hop out the window before she gets my name and number
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--- 28760705
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>>28760655
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Shitty broscience.
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--- 28761025
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What's the strategy for dating musclegirls? I spend 90% of my time at the gym nowadays and I see a few fit chicks that I wanna try. What do I talk to them about? How do I impress them? How do I get them interested?
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>Inb4 muh sterile womb
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fat women are fucking useless. I want a woman who I can have an actual reason to respect.
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--- 28761124
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>>28761025
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>musclegirl
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>woman who I can respect
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Yeah I’m going to diagnose you will the Big Gay
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--- 28761490
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I matched with this girl and we had good convos with her carrying the convo over like two days. I asked her to grab a drink at the end and she said she wouldnt drink much since she usually doesnt drink. I said sure np and asked for her number and got ghosted. Where did I mess up here? Should I have kept the convo going? Seemed like she was down to talk more, but once I asked her out she was eh. I would've suggested something else, but I wanted to drink.
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--- 28761575
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Saturday night, boys. Spend just a few hours away from your screen and go do something irl with or near other people.
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--- 28761584
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I'm going for a coffee date on Wednesday what should I talk about?
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--- 28761594
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>>28761124
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It's got a semi working female anatomy with none of the weaknesses. It's not gay it's optimal.
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--- 28761629
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>>28761575
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Spent the last 4 hours talking with 2 female friends about random shit. Feels good.
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--- 28761648
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>>28761629
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>talking with 2 female friends about random shit
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are you gay? are they uggos or something? why no face-fucking?
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--- 28761704
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>>28761575
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I'm scared of going by myself 2bqh.
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--- 28761735
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I met this girl ten years older than me (I'm 22) at a bar last night. We found out we both go to the same rock climbing gym and she asked if I was going to the event they were holding tonight. Long story short she asks for my number and says I'll see her there. We boulder together for about an hour or so tonight, shootin the shit and having fun. She did those extreme downward dog yoga stretches and sipped from my water bottle when I offered. She left to go hang out with her other girlfriends but not before hugging me for the second time that night and asking me to let her know the next time I'm climbing so she can join me.
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So, naturally, how do I escalate from here?
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--- 28761829
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>>28761704
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Just a few hours. You are mortal, and life is wasted by delaying
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--- 28761854
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I have a friend who I’m at least somewhat interested in making my girlfriend. I have yet to ask her in any direct way because, I want her to be happy more than I want her. If she smiles and laughs around me now, I don’t want that to change once she finds out that I want her in my bed. Maybe I’m just rationalizing being scared of rejection, maybe I’m playing some long game to get her slightly more alone and seduce her, maybe I’m doing something else. Idk anymore.
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For lack of a better term, she’s send the following “mixed signals”
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>I offer to help her study and she doesn’t turn me down, but never follows up.
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>She regularly text me for homework answers, but also does seem to attempt work on her own.
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>I invite her to a concert. She considers for a second and says no because it’s a loud crowded event.
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>I invite her to a movie and she says she’s busy.
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>recently she’s been spending hours talking about her hobbies with me.
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>she mentioned a small playground nearby and we spend an afternoon climbing shit and talking together.
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>she keeps saying she’s short around me despite being shoulder height.
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>She never hangs out with me in a group setting, only when we’re alone in public.
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Idk weather I should give up and settle for friends or if I can actually pull this off.
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--- 28761865
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Does the D.E.N.N.I.S system work irl?
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--- 28761909
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>>28761829
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And what do I do then anon
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--- 28762026
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Should you be thinking about women when you're depressed and suicidal? The answer is probably no, but this is my natural state.
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--- 28762053
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Damn, are some of us just hopeless?
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I felt like texting co-worker who's been chatting with me quite a few times today at work.
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I didn't hit on her and I never gave her any compliments either.
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Context:
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>She's very skinny
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>she has a noticeable bump on her nose
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>she has no boobs nor ass whatsoever and doesn't have the nicest voice either
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Yet I texted her anyway because she seems chill.
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This what I texted her:
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>"Her name", today's shift went by super fast
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>I bet you're partying right now
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Then she texted me the following:
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>Yeah, today's shift went by fast
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>Yes, I'm partying :)
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>Okay, have a good night
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....
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She literally cut me off instantly...
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This isn't the first time I got rejected.
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Am I just some muscular ogre that isn't meant to have girls as friends, a girlfriend or even a fwb?
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Jesus Christ, this is depressing.
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Even this girl who clearly isn't pretty is probably getting fucked by some other guy...
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Anons, be honest with me Anons:
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Am I just one of those guys who's meant to never partner?
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--- 28762076
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>>28762053
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Meant to say Anons once
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--- 28762213
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If you live in a major metropolitan meme city but your immediate neighborhood only has boomers and uggos, what do you do?
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--- 28762251
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>>28761909
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Go to a bar, sit at the bar, order a drink, and say hello to the person next to you. Have a basic ass small talk convo about Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams (aka FORD). Or fuck it, tell the person next to you that you have awful social anxiety and don't know how to start a conversation but you're so tired of sitting home alone every weekend. See what happens. Better than another weekend sitting on your computer and moping. You can't get any lower, as of now you are actually better off dead than alive and wasting resources
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--- 28762265
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>>28762213
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Drive to another neighborhood. Or get on the bus. Or ride a bike. Or take an uber. Or fucking walk to another neighborhood.
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Honestly man you are probably too socially stunted to pickup a girl anyways. Your main goal should be surviving a social setting of any kind.
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--- 28762266
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literally gonna die bitchless
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>over for me bros
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--- 28762368
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>>28762053
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>I just some muscular ogre
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at least you're not some skinny goblin
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dont worry, you'll find someone
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--- 28762369
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>>28762053
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Nothing about that exchange implies you're hopeless. I can infer and hypothesize all day, but it's all guesswork.
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>she's a girl who likes to party
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>you're an anon
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This I think is enough evidence to assume you're too boring, too timid, low confidence, don't have enough irl fun and don't communicate with enough fun to keep her interested. But that doesn't imply hopeless, because all of those things can be worked on if you're willing to suffer through the growing pains. It might be over with this particular girl, but not for all girls.
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--- 28762467
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Should I consider an escort? I haven't kissed a woman since college.
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t. 27yo careercel
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--- 28762496
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>>28761124
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this lol. homos in denial
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--- 28762502
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>>28761575
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i’m at a bar bro. chatted up a cutie from out of town but her friend cock blocked me. i need something to do now before i recoup
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--- 28762506
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>>28762467
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>time to neck
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--- 28762510
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>>28761854
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You ask her out on a date, not just bouldering. Throw some light flirtation in there throughout the night to clearly show interest in her outside of something simply friendly and let the chemistry between you two take care of the rest.
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>>28761854
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You need to weigh out your options and if you actually want to date this girl then make your feelings known to her in a non awkward/anxiety inducing way. Be calm in the way you bring it up, and just express your attraction to them and desire to be more than just friends. Be confident in your words and actions, and if it doesn't work out then it's not a big deal. There are other girls out there who would be willing to reciprocate your feelings and provide you with what you're looking for.
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>>28762053
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Bro what you said is awkward as fuck, there is no follow up opportunity for any sort of intriguing conversation. "I bet you're partying right now" sounds like some passive aggressive accusatory emo text. You need to be inquisitive, confident, and exciting to talk to, gotta work on your ability to be charming through text and irl.
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--- 28762521
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How do I be attractive, meet girls, and express sexual interest?
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Pic related.
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--- 28762550
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>>28762521
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Start lifting if you don't already, it will boost your confidence and make you more physically attractive. Meet girls online, in person, it doesn't matter where, just put yourself out there. If I were you I'd go on /soc/ and practice talking to girls there. Stop focusing on talking about interests and get to know them as a person, keep conversations fun, lighthearted, and exciting. Do not ask them to describe themselves, or tell you about their interests, those are terrible questions to ask. When the chemistry feels right start flirting and if they reciprocate then you can slowly move into more risque topics.
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--- 28762570
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>>28761735
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>>28762510
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That first response was intended for (you)
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--- 28762574
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It's incredible that I just found out this is a glowie thread. A very gay one but a glowie one nonetheless.
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There are several psychology majors "specialist" hired by the government to assist this shit trying to "de-radicalize", which would be good, except that they are clearly biased and avoid reality in order to be politically correct.
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I can't fucking believe that between all boards, the one I found out was being actually intervened was this fucking thread. Holy kek.
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How is it going glowniggers? I see you.
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--- 28762655
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>>28762550
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>Start lifting if you don't already, it will boost your confidence and make you more physically attractive.
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I'm going to start from next week.
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>Meet girls online, in person, it doesn't matter where, just put yourself out there. If I were you I'd go on /soc/ and practice talking to girls there.
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I did on /soc/, briefly, many moons ago. She was crazy.
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I'm actually looking to meet people in real life, do you have any ideas on that?
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>Stop focusing on talking about interests and get to know them as a person, keep conversations fun, lighthearted, and exciting. Do not ask them to describe themselves, or tell you about their interests, those are terrible questions to ask.
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I thought the general idea from a lot of self-help books I've read is to show genuine interest?
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>When the chemistry feels right start flirting and if they reciprocate then you can slowly move into more risque topics.
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Okay, thanks, but this is the hardest for me to conceive. I don't know how I'd do this without looking very awkward.
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--- 28762673
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>>28762506
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I'd rather not, since I can currently afford American hoes. It's not real, but I'd really like to get my dick wet again
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--- 28762748
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>>28762574
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wow, cia wants us to have gfs and be happy
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amazing
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--- 28762765
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>>28762655
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>I did on /soc/, briefly, many moons ago. She was crazy.
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Crazy usually = higher sex drive, and what you really want is to gain experience so don't let that deter you. It'll teach you how to be dynamic, socially flexible, and give you the ability to adapt to the person you're talking to. Plus you need the experience to draw from, you can't get good at something without feeling it out and testing out different approaches. Go back to /soc/, post your contact, and wait for girls to add you. Put effort into your post and make yourself seem fun to talk to. If you don't know how to, look at all the incel seethe posts and it'll give you an idea of what not to do. I posted on there a few months back and had 8 adds from girls, half of which were good looking girls who were willing to get sexual to varying degrees. There are great girls there, but a lot of them lurk and only add the guys who seem exciting to talk to rather than posting their contact and getting flooded.
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>I'm actually looking to meet people in real life, do you have any ideas on that?
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Bars, clubs, and lounges are a great place so you can get a few drinks in and lose some inhibitions and loosen up. Approach girls, introduce yourself and flat out say "hey I saw you from across the room and thought you were really cute and wanted to introduce myself. My name's x, what's yours?" A compliment and some flattery will also help you along the way
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>I thought the general idea from a lot of self-help books I've read is to show genuine interest?
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If you are genuinely curious it'll show, if you're awkwardly trying to feign it then you're not gonna have a fun time. Meeting new girls should be fun and exciting, let that shine through. Relate when possible and be charismatic/energetic without taking yourself too seriously, crack a joke about yourself and don't feel scared to crack a light joke about them as well.
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--- 28762789
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36 year old dateless khv here. not very outgoing, most of the women I interact with are 20 year old coworkers.
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Asked an older coworker friend on a date today.
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She says "im sort of seeing somebody"
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I dont think shes lying about it because last week i saw her being driven to work by some dude.
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is there any hope here? Should I just drop it and try to move on?
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--- 28762810
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>>28762789
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There is 0 hope, you should drop it and move on. That reply is a clear rejection
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--- 28762835
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>>28762765
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>I posted on there a few months back and had 8 adds from girls, half of which were good looking girls who were willing to get sexual to varying degrees. There are great girls there, but a lot of them lurk and only add the guys who seem exciting to talk to rather than posting their contact and getting flooded.
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Did you post your face on /soc/ too? But fair. That's a good point, I'm most lacking in experience at this point in my life.
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I'm working myself up on going to a club/lounge but I don't really have anybody to go with. The only time I went to a bar socially was with my uncle a few years back.
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>If you are genuinely curious it'll show, if you're awkwardly trying to feign it then you're not gonna have a fun time. Meeting new girls should be fun and exciting, let that shine through. Relate when possible and be charismatic/energetic without taking yourself too seriously, crack a joke about yourself and don't feel scared to crack a light joke about them as well.
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I try to do that, last Thursday I talked with female coworker about inane shit like her past experience and what she did before starting the current role during lunch. Not to sound very pathetic, but she was the first young woman I've talked to in almost seven years in a friendly, non-business kind of way.
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--- 28762859
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>>28762510
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I've been throwing around light flirtation since I met her, though I can't say its been all that reciprocated outside of her hugging, stretching, and drinking my water in front of me. She told me it's funny she met me at a bar because she's not much of a drinker. I will presumably see her again Monday when I hit that gym again, and I plan on asking her out on a real date after that. It's worth mentioning that I don't intend on anything serious with this girl. I want to casually date and that's it.
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--- 28762903
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>>28762835
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No I didn't post a picture, I just described myself in fun, comical ways, as well as painting a picture of my dominant nature with subtle nuances. I am a decent looking guy though and that helped me out when we did eventually swap pics. If you can build a great personality, it can make up for bad looks. You just need to find a girl who doesn't care about looks much, which is more common than you think.
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--- 28762926
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>>28762903
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>If you can build a great personality, it can make up for bad looks.
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I don't believe I'm bad looking, apart from maybe to blackpillers. I've had two girls interested in me in the past when I looked a lot worst than I do now and I just started my looksmaxxing journey.
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My only real long-term problems are my lack of charm and ability to actually meet women (numbers game etc). I can talk to people fine I guess but I'm not likable or at least as charismatic as I'd like to be.
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--- 28763005
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>>28762810
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its useful to get such an adamant stance on this. thanks for the advice.
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--- 28763329
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There's this nice girl I'm in a talking stage with online. She randomly mentioned about wanting to marry a foreigner to be rich and don't have any worries about mortgages. Uhhh should I ghost her? She has a car and I'm poor. I don't think she meant this to be an insult...
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--- 28763425
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I was talking to this cute girl. She knows a lot of stuff, a cute girl wouldnt. Everything was going well until I went and asked her if she browses this site. She said no, and later told me that she had something to do. She hasnt replied since yesterday. Is it over?
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--- 28763433
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>>28763425
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>I went and asked her if she browses this site
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--- 28763458
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>>28763425
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>She knows a lot of stuff, a cute girl wouldnt.
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Such as?
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--- 28763642
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>>28763433
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>>28763458
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Shes kinda racist, knows some memes from here and other questionable things that I don't want to talk about... So yeah, she acts like she browses this site. Am I stupid or did she only learn those from other sites?
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--- 28763664
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>>28761648
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They're not my type, neither am i theirs.
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--- 28763725
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I haven't done any daygame since last summer. I did maybe 70 daygame approaches or something last summer, then I got stuck, couldn't do any more approaches, don't know why. Tomorrow I will go to a park and I think I will try to start doing daygame again.
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--- 28763803
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I cut down on smoking to only "party smoke", but I'm struggling how to define "party smoking". I guess the important thing is that you don't smoke daily. Like tomorrow I will probably smoke in the park. Technically it's not a party but it feels a little special to me. Plus technically I never go to parties, I just go to bars/clubs. I will probably try smoking a cigar again, last time a girl approached me for a lighter, and in half a year of daily smoking no girl ever approached me for a lighter outside clubs. So maybe smoking a cigar is the trick.
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--- 28763817
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>>28763803
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You shouldn't smoke at all.
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--- 28763832
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>>28763817
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faggot
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--- 28763861
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No girl is too good for me. Tomorrow I will start doing daygame again.
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--- 28763862
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>>28762053
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She either panicked or didn't had enough interest to stop and be the guy to focus texting on a party. Perhaps try going to the gym more and becomd more conventionally attraktive, you know to avoid lack of care or negative interpretation reactions more often. Spme people simply don't date other people from work.
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--- 28763877
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>>28763832
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Enjoy death at 60s.
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--- 28763890
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>>28763832
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Stop smoking man, you can do it.
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--- 28763956
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>>28762369
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>But that doesn't imply hopeless, because all of those things can be worked on
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How?
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>if you're willing to suffer through the growing pains.
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I am.
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--- 28763969
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If a girl is kinda interested, like willing to go out with me, but only if there isn't anything else she could be doing, how much should I back off? Should I ignore her completely for a few days or drop her the occasional text?
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I'm talking to multiple girls, but she's the furthest I've come to a date so far.
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--- 28763982
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>>28761865
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no
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--- 28763986
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I... I want to hold a girls hand!
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And kiss her on the lips!!!
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--- 28764069
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>>28763986
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Get in line.
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--- 28764076
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>>28764069
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No! I will fight to the front!
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I want to hug a girl even if I die!
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--- 28764087
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>>28764076
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I'd like to see you try.
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--- 28764165
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>>28760589 (OP)
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Did these threads help even a single (1) anon or is incels giving virgins dating advice a stupid dumbfuck idea like I told you so
|
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>hardmode: no generic advice
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--- 28764221
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Girl I met from Hinge looks even better than her pictures and we got along really well. I feel like the luckiest man alive. I can't wait for the second date. I feel so good, bros.
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>>28764165
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Define generic and I might agree with you. There's some generic advice here that would get your post removed on other sites, so this is really the only place clueless anons would ever see it.
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--- 28764230
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>>28763642
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I was going to say yes, but now it's more complicated. She's probably worried you're a virgin incel, so do something to show youre not an asshole (or what she would think an asshole is). If you want to be happy and healthy, you should distance yourself from this site. If you can't, pretend you don't use this site.
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--- 28764393
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>>28764165
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No I got laid last month and I’d be lying if I said lurking itt since nov hasn’t helped. There are other anons that have received good advice. Ultimately, it’s on the anon as to whether he uses the advice properly or not. I was an incel before last month and I was privy to all of the excuses incels make and would use them myself. It really is just about having a confident mental frame and applying yourself while also making sure you hit the gym and get a job (not for women but for yourself). It’s really that simple it’s just hard to apply for anons who have never been in a gym and have no friends
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--- 28764490
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>>28764221
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Common sense/normie advice. Examples include
|
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>go outside your house to encounter humans
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>approach people to talk to them
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>don't say you're a nazi
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That shit can be encountered anywhere else. Did someone actually get laid with cold-approaching, open sexism, or other 4chan specific advice other people will not give you?
|
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>>28764393
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I count that as generic advice, but if you encountered it because of these threads that still makes them useful. Ok, fine, whatever. you win
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--- 28764527
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>>28761490
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bump
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--- 28764548
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What are you meant to do if women simply find you unattractive?
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>inb4 "looksmaxx"
|
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Been there, done it. I can't break the glass ceiling of my genetics. Women still don't care that I exist. I might as well be invisible to them. I don't know what you expect me in my position to do? Women either find you attractive or not, and yes I use that term collectively, because women are incredibly homogenous in nature.
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--- 28764578
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>>28764548
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Haven't you asked this before?
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--- 28764588
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>>28764578
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Everything gets asked before.
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--- 28764595
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>>28764588
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Yeah but by different people, I've seen you around before a few times.
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--- 28764601
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>>28760606
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You only spank them when they earn beatings.
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--- 28764705
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I'm going to ask out a coworker next time we are alone, wish me luck
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--- 28764732
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>>28764705
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Good luck bro
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--- 28764778
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>>28764230
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She still hasn't replied, anon...
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--- 28764784
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>>28764732
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Thanks, she's been liking my posts and PP on FB, that's a good sign right?
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--- 28764835
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>>28764548
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Lower your standards.
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Target ugly, fat women that get no attention from men and give them attention.
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It's your only option.
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--- 28764873
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>>28764784
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People still use facebook?
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--- 28764891
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>>28764873
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I only use it to keep in touch with friends and coworkers
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--- 28764959
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I realize that years ago, I somehow got myself into a mental Catch-22...
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1. I convinced myself that if I show any interest in a woman, even something simple like maintaining eye contact, then I'll seem needy and desperate, and she won't want anything to do with me
|
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+
2. But if I don't show any interest at all, then she'll (rightly) think that I'm not interested
|
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I know this is stupid and doesn't make any sense... but now whenever I meet a woman I'm interested in, I always feign disinterest, even though that guarantees result #2 and has never worked...
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--- 28764963
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>>28760589 (OP)
|
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Whats the best and rizziest way to ask a girl i know out on ig on a date? I never see her in person but she is super interested in me when we do meet.
|
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--- 28764978
|
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30 yo wizard checking in.
|
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Going on a first date in a few hours. Never went on a date before 30, this will now be 5th woman I'll have gone on a date with.
|
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No doubt I'll mess things up again but no longer feel nervous and I've been learning from past mistakes.
|
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+
Anyways gonna go do a quick workout before getting a shower and getting ready to go.
|
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--- 28765090
|
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>>28764835
|
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+
>Lower your standards
|
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Impossible.
|
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--- 28765133
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>>28762265
|
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>Drive to another neighborhood. Or get on the bus. Or ride a bike. Or take an uber. Or fucking walk to another neighborhood.
|
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+
The city I’m in doesn’t have good transportation and waking isn’t an opinion when the city is huge
|
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+
>Honestly man you are probably too socially stunted to pickup a girl anyways. Your main goal should be surviving a social setting of any kind.
|
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+
What part of “there’s no women in my area” don’t you understand? It’s literally boomers and ugly older roasties. I’m 21 and can’t find anyone my age or younger
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--- 28760647
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I can't be with someone that had a long (5 year in this case) relationship before.
|
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+
|
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+
I've tried my best but I think I'm at my limit. She's perfect, she's funny, smart, pretty, similar hobbies, understanding but the constant reminders of the past relationship sting.
|
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+
|
7 |
+
He was her one and only relationship, her first and only everything, the person she did everything with since both of them didn't have many friends, the person closest to her for 5 years of critical social development and generally development as a human, from 16 to 21 when he broke up with her.
|
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|
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She'll never get over it, not him but it as in the relationship, they still and will always share mutual friends, he'll always be the person she connected to with the most because he was her one and only in the most troublesome years mentally.
|
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+
|
11 |
+
They'll always be forced to hang together at parties of mutuals, he will always be part of the friend group that's invited to hang out, he will always come up in conversation, it's at the point where it's futile to even ask about something she did in the past because it always involves him; from watching a movie to going ice skating.
|
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+
|
13 |
+
I'll always have mini panic attacks whenever I see him in one of their friend group chats or full blown ones when she's out with the friend group he's a part of. The guy even has a whole different girlfriend now, doesn't help with my feelings.
|
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+
|
15 |
+
She'll never be able to hate him or let go.
|
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+
|
17 |
+
She didn't do anything wrong, I'm the unhealthy one here with this being such a big problem but I can't take it. I wish she had a normal average romantic life like me, 3 girlfriends of warrying lengths from 3 months to 1.5 years, hell even double that would be better, but she didn't.
|
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+
|
19 |
+
How do I deal with these feelings, will it ever stop eating away at me?
|
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+
--- 28760657
|
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+
And going to say it again, yes the problem is in me and not her.
|
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+
|
23 |
+
If it was a perfect world and I could have everything my way I'd like her to cut all contact but she'll always have the mutual friends.
|
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+
|
25 |
+
I just wish he doesn't exist he lives in my mind rent free.
|
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+
--- 28760666
|
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+
>>28760647 (OP)
|
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+
Except that they broke up. Which means she doesn’t want to be with him.
|
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+
--- 28760674
|
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+
>>28760647 (OP)
|
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+
It's a blackpill but what you've said is 100% correct.
|
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+
--- 28760688
|
33 |
+
>>28760666
|
34 |
+
That's the catch
|
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+
|
36 |
+
He broke up with her and it was completely one sided, she did not want it to end and he did because he wasn't ready to settle and didn't see her as someone he's going to spend the rest of his life with
|
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+
--- 28760744
|
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+
>>28760647 (OP)
|
39 |
+
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iat0URhKUOw [Embed]
|
40 |
+
--- 28760759
|
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+
>>28760647 (OP)
|
42 |
+
>will it ever stop eating away at me?
|
43 |
+
no
|
44 |
+
--- 28760762
|
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+
>>28760744
|
46 |
+
I'm more jealous of the effects it has on the present, she's still seeing him and she always will because of the friends.
|
47 |
+
If he stopped existing altogether in her life I'd be fine
|
48 |
+
--- 28760776
|
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+
>>28760762
|
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+
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e8tlE7M4ejU [Embed]
|
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+
--- 28760791
|
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+
>>28760776
|
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+
I wouldn't call it cheating, she truly is in love with me, more so than I am with her sadly.
|
54 |
+
She sees the flaws of the past relationships and "knows her worth now" as she says. I don't think choosing between getting back with him magically and being with me would be such an easy choice for her right now.
|
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+
--- 28761083
|
56 |
+
bump
|
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+
--- 28761109
|
58 |
+
>>28760647 (OP)
|
59 |
+
I could do it. I love the girl enough, and I know I could do way better than the previous guy.
|
60 |
+
|
61 |
+
Only a matter of time.
|
62 |
+
--- 28761182
|
63 |
+
>>28761109
|
64 |
+
But I feel like if we don't have a relationship as long as theirs was I'll fail and I'll never live up to him.
|
65 |
+
Another thing that's bugging me is that.. the guy really seems like a jerk.. I understand how you love someone and are blinded by them changing and becoming a bad person yet it doesn't change my feelings. I feel like I'm way better than him and like I'm competing with someone that had it easy putting in 0 effort and being a jerk yet who succeeded
|
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+
--- 28761290
|
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+
>>28761182
|
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+
With that attitude you won't make it. Work on yourself and be there for her.
|
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+
--- 28761299
|
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+
>>28761290
|
71 |
+
I am there for her but my feelings also matter and I have to do something about myself feeling this way
|
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+
--- 28761323
|
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+
>>28761299
|
74 |
+
Don't date her if she's not over her ex.
|
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+
--- 28761342
|
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+
>>28761323
|
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+
She can never be completely over it like I said in the OP.
|
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+
It's just the nature of it, she didn't do anything wrong.
|
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+
--- 28761349
|
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+
>>28761342
|
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+
Then find someone else.
|
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+
--- 28761405
|
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+
>>28761349
|
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+
Well someone has got to love her sometime she isn't just doomed because of her past, how do I become a person capable of that,
|
85 |
+
thats the point
|
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+
--- 28761415
|
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+
ok, so, i was in a relationship with someone for 7.5 years. we met at the tail end of us being 18. The last 2 years were very on and off (lets be real the whole thing was), but anyway, i’m 26 now. I probably won’t date another guy until i’m sure he makes me feel safe and he’s marriage material.who knows…
|
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+
|
89 |
+
so anyways, i’ve had the thoughts you’re describing here in this post as well. like what if i never forget him? what if i always think back to him even if i find someone new that makes me happy?
|
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+
|
91 |
+
but here’s the thing. i don’t know, bc it hasnt been enough time for me to fully move on. but all the shortcomings? all the lacks? all the toxic moments? i wouldn’t miss those. and the younger version of me is gone. in many ways i think i can turn into a better version of myself, more me. and i’d be lying if i said i haven’t had a lot of sad moments in the relationship where I imagined the idea of someone else.
|
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+
|
93 |
+
So if you fulfill her, if she heals, if she’s more her, older, more mature, don’t think this way. Tons of people are married for 10+ years only to get divorced and hate each other or wish each other well but fall in love again. And the love should ideally be more genuine, and healthy:
|
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+
|
95 |
+
Talk to her about how she feels, seriously. Get her to be honest. And see if the relationship will be worth it for you both.
|
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+
--- 28761429
|
97 |
+
either that or she needs to find someone who has also been on a similar boat so they understand. and you date someone more compatible with you history too.
|
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+
--- 28762268
|
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+
>>28761415
|
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+
>>28761429
|
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+
I cannot take a peak into her mind to know for sure stuff liek that.
|
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+
|
103 |
+
We did talk about it a few times, it just kinda feels left open at the end.
|
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+
I know she loves me I really do, and I see she tries really hard but then something stupid happens.
|
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+
|
106 |
+
like a recent example, a friend of hers making a group chat inviting the friend group to hang out and out of the 7-8 people there, her included, is her ex.
|
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+
It just hits me, the realization that he will always be there and will always be a part of her life really sucks, even her declining it out of any reason valid or not (of course without my input) I don't feel better because it will happen again and she will from time to time hang with him in those groups, he is just chained to those friend groups and if she wants to keep them she has to accept him as a part of it.
|
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+
|
109 |
+
I try to be supportive and pretend like I don't care, for example if the event above happens and she says no because we already talked about hanging out that day I'd say "oh but if you want to hang with friends do say I won't be mad". I try to show her that I don't care but I do and it pains me.
|
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+
|
111 |
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That's just a portion of it, at this point I can't ask about any gifts she got, any object that comes in pairs and she has only one, any vacation she took, any movie she watched or game she played in the last ~6 years (they broke up about a year ago, we've been together for 5 months).. it all leads back to him and the worst thing is that she realized this, because I did say how she sometimes brings him out of the blue randomly to compare us (in a positive light but still don't like it) and is now trying to minimize it by hiding stuff.
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The phrase "I did that with *ex's name*" is more and more becoming "I didn't do that alone". Other example she goes to a friend bday party, ex is there, she tells me about everyone that's there because I know most of them and just leaves out the ex by name even though she knows I know he was there.
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Yeha man she's molded to him
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His impression will never leave her. She will always be in a relationship with him. I wouldn't even entertain the idea of dating someone who had sex 5000 times with their first love. What exactly is the point?
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I'm in a city full of military men and bodybuilders. More single men than anywhere else in the country. I get very low quality matches on tinder and every girl seems to have a meat market mentality. Should I just move?
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>>28760711 (OP)
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Or you could get fit
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>>28760737
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I'm in good shape, I've been in the gym for 8 months but I won't look like these guys for another 6 months at least
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>>28760711 (OP)
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Unavailable guys and roidtrannies? How will you ever compete?!
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I must live in a different universe.
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I'm
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>obese
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>over 40
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>poor
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>literally a cripple
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>NEET
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>no driver's license
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...the list goes on.
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Don't use online dating, never hit on a woman in my life. I've got no problem getting dates, intelligent and attractive women 15-20 years my junior.
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Sorry, I don't know how you can switch over.
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>>28760711 (OP)
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Fuck femboys
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>>28761737
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How?
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--- 28760955
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Fair warning this is gonna be a pretty long and autistic post. Just skip over parts that don't apply to you.
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Answer everything as if I followed it with something like "why or why not?" "If so, what/which?" and/or "can you explain in detail? If so, please do".
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>For anyone who has been adopted (presumably by caring adoptive parents in a fairly good situation): how do you feel about your adoptive parents? Do you think you love them the same as you would a biological parent? What age were you adopted?
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>For anyone who is choosing to not have a child and whose choice does not hinge solely on the world we'd be leaving a child or similar lines of reason: what are your reasons? I'd prefer a bit more than just "well, I just don't want them".
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Rest of this post is for parents or guardians of children if I'm lucky enough to find any.
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>Adopters: how old was your adoptive child when you adopted them?
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>It would be nice to get perspectives from people who have both adopted AND had a biological kid, but I can't expect that. Do you strongly feel your bond with your adoptive child is similar to a biological child?
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>Optional (well they all are but I don't wanna force this): do you, love aside, privately regret having or adopting a child? Are there things that would make you regret it less? I'm assuming finance is up there.
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|
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Lastly, do you think people who say they don't want kids are missing something? As a parent, can you relate to the idea of wanting bio kids out of fear of death? Do you believe the idea of needing biological kids is merely a social construction obsessing obsessing over evolution and "biological imperative"?
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>Inb4 some stupid incel post
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Yes; I know its doubtful I'll get any responses from here let alone any that are useful.
|
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--- 28761604
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>>28760955 (OP)
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People think it's a natural progression in life and they are in a way expected by society to have kids. Even if they love their kids plenty mothers regret having them. You are sacrificing your career, time, money and ultimately your life to raising good humans that will grow up to be productive members of society. In the olden days people would have children so they can have somebody to take care of them in the old age and kids were used for labour around the house or family farm. Now we have pensions, laws against child labour and modern life is different. There is no reason to have children today. People have them just because everybody around them does and asks them about it so they feel pressured. That and unprotected sex.
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|
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Personally I think if you don't have your life in order you shouldn't even think about it. I am a bad person so I know I could not be a good father. Being a parent is a huge sacrifice and responsibility. I can't bring a new soul in the world of suffering. Eugenics are necessary for improvement and health of the species. Bad living, bad people and bad breeding results in spiritual and physical ugliness and sickness. I only want what is good, virtues and beautiful.
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>>28760955 (OP)
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I have no idea why you'd come to 4chan and ask a bunch of teenage KHVs about adoption and parenthood. Its like going to a hoarder's house to ask them about organization tips.
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>>28761616
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I know, but its too hard to ask.
|
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>>28761604
|
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>Personally I think if you don't have your life in order you shouldn't even think about it
|
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|
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Anon, this is going to sound strange, but believe it or not I do NOT have the luxury of not thinking about the future given my situation. I H A V E to think about if I would EVER want kids, not just if I want them right now...
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--- 28761754
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>>28761660
|
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>I do NOT have the luxury of not thinking about the future
|
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I never said that. I simply thought about my parents and people around me who are good people but they have their own flaws, past traumas and mistakes. Most people should not have kids but have them anyway and then the kids together with everybody else have to suffer. Just because you have a woman, good job, lots of money and a house doesn't mean you are ready.
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--- 28761800
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>>28761660
|
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>>28761604
|
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>>28760955 (OP)
|
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Okay, so I need a little more detail, it seems.
|
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|
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I have a rare non-inheritable disorder related to my testicles and have a choice now: either I go through some medical procedures that render me permanently infertile now but will otherwise make me happier and healthier despite a long recovery process depending on how far we feel we need to go with it, or I risk taking a 3+ month blow to my sanity with some terrible medication (an SSRI being one) and even a chance of dying in order to preserve my ability to reproduce, spend a fuckton of money to bank my sperm just in case, then go through with the procedures. I will be physically healthy after the meds are out of my system, but there will be psychological repercussions at very least.
|
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|
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However, because I have had some severe mental illnesses and hypochondria in the past and have very little support network, I am in a situation where there are extra steps; I need to convince a therapist I am of sound mind to consent to surgery. Thanks to covid and how the surgery requires multiple specializations and since I'm not exactly a great lier, I need to come to terms with this as quickly as possible so I'm not lying too much in order to get the surgical parts of the procedure done sooner.
|
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--- 28761836
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>>28761754
|
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+
Missed this post while I was typing.
|
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+
|
57 |
+
But there is a chance I would be ready?
|
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+
Okay now I'm confused. I thought your premise was that I dont need to think about it right now, but as I told you, I don't have a choice.
|
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|
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+
See >>28761800
|
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--- 28762243
|
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>>28761800
|
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>posts on anime on 4chan
|
64 |
+
>had some severe mental illnesses and hypochondria in the past
|
65 |
+
>has a rare non-inheritable disorder related to his testicles
|
66 |
+
>very little support network
|
67 |
+
Does that sound like a good quality parent or husband material?
|
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+
|
69 |
+
Assuming the best case scenario you take the medication, don't die and get some psychological repercussion, are sure you would actually use the preserved sperm in the future? Not only that but even if you find a good chick that wants kids with you, how capable would you be to provide for her and the child considering the fact that you have past mental issues + psychological repercussions of medication + you wasted a fuckton money on preserving the sperm? In other words are you ready to take the risks when the first option will make you in your own words "happier and healthier despite a long recovery process"? I can't answer this for you but IMO I would choose the safer option because your happiness and health are not guaranteed even if you have children in the future. It's sacrifice, stress and requires a lot of resources.
|
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--- 28762442
|
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>>28762243
|
72 |
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Alright fine. I guess it makes no difference at this point.
|
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+
|
74 |
+
|
75 |
+
I made up all that shit. My actual issue is not that severe. The take away is that
|
76 |
+
>I have a choice between happiness sooner or happiness later
|
77 |
+
>Without choosing happiness now, I might go through trauma
|
78 |
+
>When I choose happiness, I will be infertile
|
79 |
+
>If I choose happiness later, I could be fertile
|
80 |
+
>Actually the cost wont totally cripple me, itll just be annoying.
|
81 |
+
|
82 |
+
I am not mentally ill. I have some issues I guess, but not as many as you may think. I think once I am done with what I am doing, I will be psychologically and physically healthy enough to maybe have kids down the road and no one can make any of these decisions except me. I am on my way to a degree that will... Look it doesn't fucking matter.I'm not asking any of you if I am fit to be a parent, I am asking about the question before that. Obviously, I need to think about if Im fit to be a parent.
|
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+
But I may lose this ability to choose that you, my dear bucket crab, take so much for granted that you're even more miserable than me somehow.
|
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+
|
85 |
+
Incidentally, you're making me want children more just because I hate people who say I cant so much and you'll probably just go on about some shit I've heard a thousand times before. Common advice that you think makes sense, but it doesn't.
|
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|
87 |
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Im trying to divorce this from me as a person and to get less direct advice because none of you... fucking normies... seem to understand how advice and perspective giving should work
|
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|
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+
Your focusing on the wrong shit.
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--- 28762600
|
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>>28762442
|
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I would genuinely like to help you but I can only tell you what you need to hear and not what you want to hear. At the end of the day it seems like you already made the choice and just want others to tell you what you already know for confirmation.
|
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+
>you're making me want children more just because I hate people who say I cant
|
94 |
+
You can do what you want. If you are aware of the consequences and still determined then go for it. Nothing I or anybody else says could effect your final decision.
|
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+
--- 28763059
|
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>>28762243
|
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>>28762600
|
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|
99 |
+
Alright fuck it. Fuck it for real this time.
|
100 |
+
Its just that the safer option is to stop the estrogen, bank my sperm, and start again, but its so hard and that's why I came here because I doubt there's many people on my regular internet places talking about having kids....I find the cis people, maybe they know something at least. They can't answer all my questions, but its something.
|
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|
102 |
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I dont know. Im finding that I'm inexorably approaching the need for bottom surgery, but there's insane waitlists that are years out because there's not enough doctors specializing but waitlists arent the most predictable thing in the world. Ive had bad experience trying for letters and perhaps people can understand why I'm antsy to come to decision on fertility, but I really haven't.
|
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|
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Ok now I wait and see what kinda responses I'll really get, if any. I.moght get some very predictable negative responses now that I've basically spelled it out. Oh well. We'll see I guess.
|
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+
|
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I'm here to get help exploring the idea from other peoples perspective, but not be told no or yes because of my situation. But then this is 4chan.and anon seems to mean well at least.
|
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|
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+
Still, although I'm posting /afv/ I could really use some less direct. Im just hear to ask for people's perspectives having had or adopted childre.
|
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--- 28763223
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>>28763059
|
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+
>Cant delete it now.
|
112 |
+
Fuck.
|
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--- 28763545
|
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>>28760955 (OP)
|
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+
what's appalling to me is the lack of concern for the child who is to be born. i mean people talk about it like it's buying a tv. but that child will grow up to inherit a world of pain and death and you're doing that to him/her for your own shortsighted notions about what it means to be alive. read better never to have been by david benatar.
|
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--- 28764583
|
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>>28762442
|
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>>28763059
|
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+
lmao
|
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+
>I am not mentally ill
|
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+
sure
|
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stay away from kids you fucking tranny creep
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I'm a 24yo neet anon. Never worked a day in my life. Parents sent me to a good uni and I got an electrical engineering degree which I never used because I was too autistic to pass the interviews. It's been two years without a job, so i think I would be blacklisted from most companies (for work related to my major) due to the resume gap. Mom keeps begging me to apply to jobs but im too terrified of doing more interviews.
|
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|
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My cat just passed away a couple days ago. I grew up with that cat, and he was like my only friend. His passing has me feeling very introspective lately. I think im ready to get off my ass and do something with my life, but im still too scared to get a job. Are there any jobs suited for autistic retards like myself? I dont mind doing blue collar wagie work. I just need something that requires miminal social interaction and without an extensive interview process. But preferably some "side hustle" type of job that i can do full time. I do have some programmimg experience from uni (c mostly) and automotive skills if that helps.
|
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>>28761283 (OP)
|
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that's not what blacklisted means. just get a job. it doesn't even have to be engineering.
|
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--- 28761313
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>>28761283 (OP)
|
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oh and if you're actually autistic maybe you need some career support from a social worker. just don't let them sell you short and have you working at mcdonalds because if you passed engineering school that's below you.
|
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--- 28761325
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>>28761301
|
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I know. I just thought it sounded cool
|
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--- 28761326
|
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I'm just creative in my cv, couple years freelancing as event organizer and DJ. Never had a problem with that.
|
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--- 28761350
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>>28761313
|
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Interesting. I guess it would help if they could just place me into a job.
|
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|
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Ive never been diagnosed, but its pretty obvious to me based on my lifelong behavior and personality issues
|
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--- 28761359
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>>28761350
|
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You probably need help if you're that turrified of an interview.
|
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--- 28761381
|
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>>28761359
|
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Probably. The only reason why i didnt just work at mcdonalds this whole entire time is because of the interview.
|
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--- 28761418
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>>28761283 (OP)
|
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Just apply. I got a job with a resume gap. It's not the end of the world.
|
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--- 28761435
|
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>>28761381
|
33 |
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in my experience the path of least resistance leads to ruin
|
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--- 28761572
|
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You can always make stuff up. Say that the resume gap is due to major heath problems or something like that. Alternatively you could try get some experience to fill the gap a bit before job hunting; maybe like an internship or a short course or volunteering related to your field.
|
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|
37 |
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I'm a bit like you. Got depressed after graduating and never worked a day in anything related to my major. Assumed I had no chance of success in the business world, let alone any hope of passing an interview due to extreme shyness, social anxiety and lack of social skills. Spent about 4 years doing nothing and am now working at a fast food shop.
|
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|
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I think getting just about any job would help you build some confidence and get some experience that would help you move on to something better.
|
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--- 28761845
|
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>>28761418
|
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+
how long was your gap?
|
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+
--- 28761857
|
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+
>>28761572
|
45 |
+
wow im sorry to hear that anon. do you have plans to move on to a different job?
|
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--- 28761866
|
47 |
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>>28761435
|
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yes this is true
|
49 |
+
--- 28762200
|
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>>28761857
|
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Yeah I've been trying to do an EE degree actually but mood issues have been getting in the way. Not sure I really want to spend another 3 years doing an undergraduate and racking up all that debt. I might try get into avionics instead.
|
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--- 28762230
|
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>>28762200
|
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|
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i wanted to get into avionics as well. one of my most recent failed interviews was for an avionics position. i hope you can succeed anon. i dont want us to be losers anymore. it's so sad and lonely
|
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|
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do you stay with mom and dad? also what was your major?
|
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--- 28762682
|
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>>28762230
|
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Do you want to get into the engineering side or the maintenance side of it? Avionics sounds interesting. I'm thinking I'll do a pre-apprenticeship course and that should hopefully make getting a job straightforward. Good luck to you too.
|
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|
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Yeah I live with mum. Did an accounting degree. I always had the thought "how am I going to actually succeed as an accountant when I can barely talk to people" in the back of my mind, but I guess it was easiest to just keep at it, and leave that problem for when it came time to get a job.
|
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--- 28762702
|
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Rip catto. I don't have any actual advice but I feel for you my nigga. Good luck out there, wagmi
|
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--- 28762739
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>>28761283 (OP)
|
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>>28761283 (OP)
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If this is not larp you are incredibly gifted since EE is very hard.
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Your whole life depend on those job interviews.
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Just xanax yourself through them.
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Tell a doctor you have panic attacks before interviews. Just google the rest.
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>>28761283 (OP)
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I was a NEET at some point in my life. What helped me was that I know that employers want someone to do practical stuff for them, and that I kept learning by myself and applying that knowledge. What does that mean? I learned about computers, programming, networks and security. In the meantime, I fixed computers and smartphones while selling random electronic devices like radios and other Chinese crap. The first helped me keep updated, while the second helped me build confidence, talk to people, keep myself busy and sane. In the end, talking yo people with whom I share interests (in telegram and other chat apps) was what helped get a job.
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Regarding interviews: don't be nervous. You have to remind yourself that a job is only a job. You go there, do your stuff for 8 hours a day or whatever and then go back home. And they ask you to do something practical, like writing small, specific parts of a program or whatever. And since you have no experience, you are allowed to ask questions, make mistakes and so on. They, just like you, are humans after all. The process of building stuff is difficult and long, usually, and you are there only to help with that, nothing else. Be realistic and pragmatic, and realize that there is nothing to be anxious or scared about.
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Also, remember: almost no one likes working. Don't make their decision more difficult, make it easy for employers to select you.
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>>28762682
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Yeah i meant the engineering side. But at this point, going the technician route seems interesting.
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And i had the same thought process ever since high school. I remember thinking "how am i supposed to get a job in an office surrounded by other people when i am basically nonverbal", but i just left that problem for later thinking I'd kms before then.
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>>28762702
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Thank you anon
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Holy fuck, and here I thought I was introverted
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>>28763421
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Thank you anon.
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>>28763661
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I think the thing I realise now is that being able to converse well isn't that important. Like I'll never have the gift of the gab or be successful in a job that requires me to be like that, but otherwise, so long as you can do your job and communicate where required to it's not a huge deal. And the more you get exposed to it the easier it gets.
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Has anybody ever managed to quit porn/masturbation for life? Is it possible?
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>>28761365 (OP)
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this all or nothing "for life" requirement is likely an enemy of success. instead of focusing on not cooming, focus on doing things of value with your existence and then cooming will take a backseat.
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No lol
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no most stuff u here online about no fap in unrealsitc u should at most not jerk off for 2 or 3 weeks and then at the end of said week realese urself even starting at 1 week is very good
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>>28761365 (OP)
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https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/26894925/#26895014
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>>28761365 (OP)
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Here, me. How? Well, I just did.
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>>28761365 (OP)
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Stop jerking your own meat off it's shameful
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>>28761365 (OP)
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I'm on day 16. The key is to masturbate like twice a week to get it out of your system (without using porn, you can do it bro). No-porn is superior to no-fap.
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I just want to shoot my seed in a fertile tight goth tomboy womb and die in a fuckin meadow.
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>>28761598
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you sound like an absolute moron
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>>28761606
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You look like this
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>>28761365 (OP)
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When i try to quit fap I end up fucking absolute hambeasts and trannies
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If I don't fap for a week, I end up having sex dreams so what's the point.l
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>>28761365 (OP)
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it's manageable, two weeks of no fap and i was just following basic stuff, the urges really calmed down and it feels nice
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>>28761365 (OP)
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Haven't jacked off for a month so far, but have looked at porn once every week or so. When I have urges I look at porn and realize why I'm quitting to begin with and stop.
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Castrate yourself and become a eunuch. Or you could just masturbate sometimes and develop a healthier elationship with your sexuality.
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>>28761820
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I want wet dreams, but I can't get them even if I quit for a week, how do you manage to reach that point?
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Just jack off without watching porn. Nofap is so fucking stupid.
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>>28761820
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I find wet dreams really pleasant. I usually wakeup during ejaculation and can remember the dream for a little bit. Often its some area of my psychology which I hadn't explored.
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One time I fucked my gf and still had a wet dream where i spooged on her. She thought it was hot as fuck, but I could never admit I wasn't dreaming about her.
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>>28761820
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Wet dreams are alright, but I do NOT want to constantly wake up with creamy underwear
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Quitting masturbation for life is like quitting drinking water or jumping when you're shocked by something. It's a central part of mammalian existence. Just have sex for fuck sake. Even Mike Tyson was masturbated when he was 25 and fucking every woman on Earth.
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i quit porn. last summer. i’m 8 months in. will i make it for life? i hope so. i will not quit masturbation.
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>>28761365 (OP)
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I do. I got in touch with religion. Also, I started to have job. So... I have to finish my job or risk being fired for temporary nut
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>>28761365 (OP)
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I think i did it, i just got to get the last 5% done,
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>>28762699
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>Mike Tyson was masturbated
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lol
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yes, get a wife
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is suicide my only option?
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i escaped 4chan. i made friends into fitness i spent years working out, nice haircuts, clothes. i turned everything around and did the impossible after years of starving and working out.
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then i started balding. that was it. no more girls no more sex no more nothing. it snapped and broke my mind and i ruined my life. i did everything right i went from a loser to a chad then lost it all immediately after.
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now i’m a fat friendless neet loser.
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>>28761371 (OP)
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it definitely broke your mind or your success with women wasn't really all that. I usually get laid with a shitty buzzcut that I did in my bathroom and I'm the type of guy who is a bit too ugly and short for dating apps. your whole shit sounds very superficial. just be cool.
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>>28761371 (OP)
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>I was balding and that made me fat
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also that is retarded
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I shaved all my hair off last year, it made no difference. That problem is in your head, not on it.
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>>28761396
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fuck off retard. kys.
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>>28761408
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no seriously you only the most schizophrenic moron would ever think that they became fat because they went bald.
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>>28761371 (OP)
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Go to therapy
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>>28761371 (OP)
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I went bald at 25, I still get pussy.
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>>28761371 (OP)
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Being bald doesn't stop you getting women, your attitude does.
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>>28761371 (OP)
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Ive had so many bald people inside of me they get so much sex
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Why didn't you just hop on Fin?
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>>28761371 (OP)
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Lots of bald people have great lives. If you really can't get over your lack of hair, get a hair system or a hair transplant
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>>28761371 (OP)
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It sounds more like you got fat than bald.
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Is there any good reason to join TikTok and Instagram?
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>>28761372 (OP)
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No. Social media is mind-poison that appeals to the most vapid, narcissistic, small-minded people. Even if your goal was to "appear normal", the types of people you'd attract by engaging with that, or not attract by refusing to, aren't worth your time.
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not in the slightest unless you are in like 10th grade
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I personally use them to stay in touch with my retarded surroundings and fit it, try it, most "non-normies le based 4channers here" will advise you not to. Though just downloading tiktok and seeing what others see there can be somewhat benificial for your socialization
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>>28761372 (OP)
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Not really. If a high-strung social life doesn't suit you, better not.
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I myself have an IG but quit after not being able to stomach immorality and crazy night life. Not all Instagrammers are like this tho, but the most popular ones, well, you guessed it, party all night.
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I am a Portuguese Canadian computer engineer from Southern Ontario with 2 YOE (not including co-op positions) as a silicon design engineer at a major company.
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I have a job offer from an American company based in Austin, Texas. If I accept the job, my salary will be 130K USD + stock options & benefits. I would be moving there on a TN visa but if I do move there I intend to finesse my way to a Green Card.
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I have also been considering moving to Germany. I do not have any job offers from companies based in Germany right now but in addition to being a citizen of Canada I am also a citizen of Portugal and therefore have EU citizenship so getting a job in Germany should be simple.
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Should I move to Texas or Germany? I am a 25-year-old single male in good physical health. I was diagnosed with autism and ADHD-PI in childhood. I have been on and off Vyvanse for almost all my life. I occasionally see a psychiatrist and psychotherapist. My net worth is roughly 500K CAD. I have few social connections in Canada.
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>>28761436 (OP)
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USA no question.
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Germany is fucked economically. industry is moving out, and what tech they have is going to follow.
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>>28761436 (OP)
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US first then move later. You can make more money in the US. I feel you on the EU thing, but you should make money and gain exp first. Make as much money as you can then work on moving later. You'll be in a better spot financially than if you went to Germany or somewhere else first.
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>>28761436 (OP)
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>Austin, Texas.
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Fuck that. EXPENSIVE AF and you will probably get raped or killed as it is one of the more dangerous cities in the USA, or die of heat stroke.
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>>28761436 (OP)
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>130K USD
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that's poverty-tier income for Austin.
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>>28761436 (OP)
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Obligatory https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YsNRnZRgg8 [Embed]
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She is a centralist and in her early 50s. I know that with the right words said the right way, she would come to terms with the truth, but I don't know how to go about it.
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>>28761556 (OP)
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Show her this.
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>>28761556 (OP)
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Redpill through actions, not words
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>>28761556 (OP)
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>the jews
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have you considered that (they) want you to blame the jews so you never find out who it really is?
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also no. you sound like you have this whole speech prepared, you're gonna sound like a fucking retard, which you are.
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I can save you both a lot of time here and remind you that it’s not Jews but greedy people. Take a look at capitalism in your country, do you really think that’s gonna be reformed if your particular boogeyman is final solutioned? You really believe that hierarchical vacuum won’t just be refilled?
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>>28763513
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Jews are notorious throughout history for their sociopathic greed and in group preference. Nobody else tries to fuck over the rest of the population with the relentless surgical precision of the jews. It's a pathology, whether it's due to the ideology of Judaism, or heredity, or all of the above.
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>>28763526
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Ever heard of colonialism?
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>>28761556 (OP)
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She's right. You're wrong.
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>>28761564
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>2013
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>>28761556 (OP)
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https://youtu.be/Ja0TXbKQQ1M [Embed]
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Can you lift your way out of depression?
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>>28761593 (OP)
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Lmao this nigga depressed in the most prosperous period on human history
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>>28761599
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Prosperous for Babylon.
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>>28761593 (OP)
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Yes, I did in 2015.
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I would also put some long runs in there too.
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Also, concentrate on your nutrition, if you find it difficult to eat try soft foods like Greek yoghurt and soups.
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>>28761593 (OP)
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maybe
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for me it was running, lifting I only do because muscles, I get no pleasure from lifting or even after it I just get it over and done with, I run for hours though.
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>>28761599
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the cool thing about actual depression is that you can have everything be going right or even perfect in your life but you still feel like running off a rooftop or indeed feel very little or nothing at all.
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If you're just sad because your gf broke up with you or your job sucks or you're a based incel or something and other circumstances that can be changed and when it does you're not longer sad - that's not depression. That's just being sad because a sad thing happened or there's something shitty in your everyday life.
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--- 28762581
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For me it's climbing my way out of depression
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Too bad I'm too autistic to make climbing friends
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>>28761593 (OP)
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Kind of. It will make it easier to find the motivation to live. Something about lifting just makes you happier to be human and be alive. The best way to get out of depression is to keep active, keep outside, and interact with other people.
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>>28762581
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Don't know why I felt the need to say this, but you will figure things out. You will be rewarded for all the pain you endure.
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>>28761593 (OP)
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No but it's a great cope, I love it.
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Also, people treats you way better if you're fit so that's a nice bonus
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>>28761637
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>people who have real tangible problems aren't depressed, they're just sad
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is this to say that depression is fake or is that saying having tangible problems is fake
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>>28762721
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lol
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I feel like I've wasted my entire life living regret to regret. Can anyone relate? What's the solution?
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>>28761618 (OP)
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Die out
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https://derpibooru.org/1473772
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stop regrerting because as you said regret only breeds regret. start fixing your self and enjoy life, even if you can't get what you want, try to appreciate what you have instead of regretting
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>>28761624
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>>28732933 →
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>>28761924
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YOU’LL BE BURNED AT THE FUCKING STAKE
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>>28762845
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Do you regret missing so many threads?
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>>28763194
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YOU'LL BE STABBED IN THE FUCKING THROAT
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There’s this guy I work with, who’s part of my friend group. He’s pretty flaky, enjoys clubbing, and is a pretty big dudebro sort of personality. Just a normie, but I’m very attracted to him. He’s got a feminine aspect to him that I like. He has a beautiful face and hair. And even though his personality is normie in many ways, I still find it cute. I was thinking of inviting him over for a movie, then laying it on him that I’m into guys, and was wondering if he felt the same way about me. What do y’all think?
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Also I’m not out and am worried somewhat about him telling the people at the company I work for about my sexuality.
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>>28761665
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Just ask bro.
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No balls
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Bump
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>>28761651 (OP)
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>hen laying it on him that I’m into guys
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OP is faggot
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>>28761959
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Not OP but what if he thinks I'm ugly or shit cause I don't wanna stroke his ego
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>>28763756
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pussy is scared to be called ugly huh
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>>28761651 (OP)
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What if he doesn't like men though?
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>>28763843
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That's not an issue. OP is not confessing for the other person's sake but for his.
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>>28763843
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OP here. Then that’ll be what it’ll be. I’m mostly worried about him outing me carelessly to my company. I’m wondering if I should even do this.
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>>28763852
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Somewhat. Would mostly just feel remiss if I didn’t at least attempt to do this. He’s really beautiful, and if he is bi then maybe this could be a good experience for both of us.
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>>28763866
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Can you lie that you've never tried it with men and would like to try out? Instead of using a label?
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>>28761651 (OP)
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Neck yourself faggot
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>>28763898
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Wouldn’t that be dishonest? I would feel manipulative if I framed it as
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>haha I’m just experimenting too
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I’ve been with both men and women before. Not going to reveal my whole sexual history to him right off the bat however.
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>>28763940
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Why are you scared of being outed then?
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Do you leave in East Europe or something?
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>>28763940
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Anyway it's for the sake of your own happiness do what you think you need.
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If that does not put you in danger that's even better, but sometimes risk taking is worth it.
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Good luck.
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>>28763957
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I’m bisexual, and I feel that people hate bi men more than any LGBT group, besides maybe trans women. Straight cis women largely refuse to date bi men, despite the vast majority of men being alright with dating bi women. Gays and lesbians don’t view you as real LGBT, even if they won’t outright say it. Bi men are stereotyped as incels who’re prison gay, or gross and STD riddled, or creeps who are so horny they’ll screw anything.
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So I’d rather just not lose all hope of getting a cis girlfriend in the future, and have people view me negatively for being bi. Hence why I’m not out.
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>>28763985
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You're trying very hard to come up with reasons to feel oppressed here, let's say hypothetically your friend outs you to your work, what do you think would happen?
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>>28764012
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Kind of sounds like you projecting there. I never once said I was oppressed. I just don’t want to reveal my sexuality for various reasons.
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>>28764033
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Answer the question. Are you afraid that people at work think you're gay? Yet you want to have a romantic relationship with that friends of yours? Make up your mind
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>>28764050
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>you afraid that people at work think you're gay?
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Yes. And yeah I still want this with my friend. I don’t see why I can’t have both.
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>>28764072
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Sure you can have both, so don't be a pussy about it. If you really desire him that much then how you label yourself and how other people label you should be the least of your worries
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>>28761651 (OP)
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Nvm, I didn't read your post desu. When you're hanging out just slap his ass and see what he does.
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>>28764097
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What you’re saying doesn’t make sense though. You’re saying I can have both, but what I want is to not out myself and be with this guy.
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>>28764187
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You can't control whether he will out you as gay or not. Will that stop you from trying the experience? I dunno, at least be happy that you tried it out with both sexes, didn't help you figure out what was your sexuality apparently, but I'm not gonna judge anymore. Sorry for not being helpful.
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>>28763985
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everything you said is true but that doesn't mean you shouldn't just ask him out
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that being said both homo men and straight women will judge you for being bi
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never tell a straight girl you're bi
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but you can tell a homo you're bi, although he will probably think you're a fake gay and will dump him in the long term because pussy > dick. you'd need to do more effort to show him you love his dick
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>>28764250
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Fag here, not touching any man who has had his wiener in a femoid
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how can i get a bunch of ass holes on quads and dirt bikes in my town arrested? i live in a hillbilly town and these same as holes ride by my house basically all day every day. even late at night right outside my window.
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can i make anonymous police reports saying i’ve seen them drinking or something? they seem to have no job because they do this shit every day and they are probably on some drug half the time.
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>>28761654 (OP)
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in before OP winds up being dragged behind a 4wheeler.
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I once heard about a guy who strung up some wires on a trail like that
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You probably shouldn't do something bad like that ok
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>>28761654 (OP)
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Do you know these people personally? Either way doesn't really matter, the first thing you do is suck it up during the daytime, because that's a normal time to be dragging ass, and maybe you need to learn to have that kind of fun too. At night, your town or county should have a noise ordinance, or similar ordinance relating to disturbances, so find it and call the sheriff to complain. Video them doing it at night, or anything else that might be illegal like riding on public roads, and file a complaint.
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>>28761654 (OP)
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There are really only two things you can do when dealing with an obnoxious asshole: make an appeal to the local authority or take matters into your own hands.
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>>28761654 (OP)
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Mind yer own businez city slicker
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Homemade spike strips
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>>28761715
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To add to this, I would highly suggest appealing to the authorities FIRST before taking the matter into your own hands because you really don’t want to take action yourself unless absolutely necessary.
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>>28761941
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Agreed buy or make some road spikes
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How do I stop being a manchild? I'm almost 30 but am so far behind my peers. I'm not married and have never had a long term relationship, have no kids, live with roommates instead of on my own, have never graduated college, work a low paying job, have shit credit...and on top of all that I feel mentally immature, like I'm closer to someone a 1/3 my age in terms of emotional maturity. What can I do to catch up?
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>>28761656 (OP)
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>and on top of all that I feel mentally immature, like I'm closer to someone a 1/3 my age in terms of emotional maturity.
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Date younger. Hit up some high school hangouts.
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>>28761656 (OP)
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>almost 30 but am so far behind my peers. I'm not married and have never had a long term relationship, have no kids, live with roommates instead of on my own, have never graduated college, work a low paying job, have shit credit...and on top of all that I feel mentally immature, like I'm closer to someone a 1/3 my age in terms of emotional maturity
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Other than the credit, i feel you. I'm in the same position. I'm still in college.
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>>28761668
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Anon I don't see how dating a teenager would fix my many problems, in fact it would probably create more problems
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bump
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>>28761656 (OP)
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Living alone is extremely difficult for our generation, I wouldn't beat yourself up for that. The housing market is just too shit. Same with the job market. Not to mention having kids in 2023 is just an idiotic thing to do when you look at how fucked their future is.
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My 1 year relationship ended about 2.5 months ago. While everything was fine, she said that she was bored with me and wanted to break up with me. The week we broke up, they fell in love with a boy I hated. This was my first serious relationship and I still haven't really gotten over it. Every few days I have minor seizures (maybe I can post a video of it). My body is shaking for 10-15 minutes and I need to take a break from whatever I'm busy with and do breathing exercises. I flirted with a few much prettier girls, but I didn't feel like I really liked any of them, so I broke up because I didn't want to hurt them. I can't have feelings for anyone. Also, there is very little time left for my university exam right now and I need to find a solution to this urgently. Do you have any recommendations, I feel like the girl passed through my life. I was a student who could do a degree, but now my classes are getting worse. Please share with me if you have any useful advice, I need support.
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the best advice I can give you is to focus on yourself and change your mindset. understand how men and women behavior operate to process your loss. once you got that, you will see how you were used and emotionally manipulated by this random woman. I would recommend a certain guy in this topic but people would cancel me.
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>>28761692 (OP)
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Anyone who "gets bored" is entirely uninterested in commitment. The point of a relationship is consistency & support (I say this having been married 11 years). It will hurt for a while, but it was always going to end this way with a girl with that mindset.
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>>28761692 (OP)
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Distract yourself by listening to music, going for a walk, playing some short game or something when this happens. And visit a psychologist. Maybe your uni can provide one for free or something.
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How the hell do you guys keep your hornyness in check? I’m 21 and have never been so sexually frustrated I constantly look at Instagram and porn just to see beautiful women. I can’t stands it no mo
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>>28761759 (OP)
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I jerk off once in the morning and once before bed
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>>28761759 (OP)
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i'm 22 and jerked off only once this month, i blocked all of the porn sites i know, deleted whatever social media app that allows nsfw content, and blocked all of the hot Instagram chicks i know, whenever i have a boner i take a cold shower or just ignore it and occupy myself with other stuff, staying outside helps too or just surrounding yourself with people, i recommend picking up a hobby or going to the gym too, it's not impossible to quit porn anon, it just requires commitment and great mental strength
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>>28761802
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oh and if you're lazy you can just use cold water on your penis for a bit, trust me it kills boners
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>>28761802
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>>28761807
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what's wrong with nofap ?
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>>28761759 (OP)
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I get my gf to milk my balls dry
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>>28761813
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It's horrible for your body.
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>Verification not required.
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Are fearful avoidants the niggers of attachment styles?
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Why do you say that?
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>>28761897 (OP)
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no, all but secure are unpleasant to experience.
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Any movies about Fearful Avoidant style?
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>>28761905
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Because they only like you if you don't like them but their lives are a fucking mess even if you figure out how to capture them.
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>>28761942
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Secure are the best, they won't bombard you with messages but don't think less of you for showing affection
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>>28761987
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>Because they only like you if you don't like them but their lives are a fucking mess even if you figure out how to capture them.
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It's weird to see you write this down here in front of everyone like this but it doesn't help
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>>28761897 (OP)
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I'm Dismissive-Avoidant.
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>>28761897 (OP)
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Yes
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>>28761897 (OP)
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Hm. I used to be fearful but now I'm dismissive
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>>28761897 (OP)
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No, niggers are not capable of introspection whereas fearful avoidants are extremely neurotic
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>>28761942
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boooooring
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My gf is dismissive-avoidant, which gets the most shit online from people (mostly people trying to get their ex back and failing), but I kinda like not feeling like I have to text her every day and we're comfortable giving eachother space
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Apparently I'm Dismissive-Avoidant. Hmm...
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>>28761897 (OP)
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I'm dismissive.
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>>28763971
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>>28763981
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>>28763983
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Is Dismissive-Avoidant really common among girls?
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>>28763992
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The ones on 4chan maybe.
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>>28763992
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It stems from childhood, I don't think gender plays a huge role in determining attachment style. The avoidant types are the least common of the 4 as well.
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Ok so technically not a 1 night stand but soon enough into dating that it basically is
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we'd been dating a few weeks had sex and our contraception failed, she was also meant to have a hard time getting preggers but apparantly not this time.
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She wants to keep the baby, mostly out of fear or her not being able to have another, that she pictured around this age she'd have one anyway(shes 26) and she promised her dead nan she'd never abort.
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problem is, she tried to kill herself like a week before we started dating due to leaving a 6 year long relationship where he beat her off from another relationship where she was beaten, additionally she was raped as a teen and that court case has just started become a thing as she came forward recently.
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bla bla bla inflation
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all in all, worst possible time to h ave kids fiancially, worst possible reason to have kids - family preasure and fear and im pretty sure shes no way in the right frame of mind to make this decision at all.
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now im 33, i dont mind having a kid, i was preparing to have one with my ex-wife anyway, though we had recently broke up too, so theres that.
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Im happy to step up,
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but i want to try and make the relationship work due to all the stats that accompany this
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but she is just shutting down, she relied so much of booze to come out of her shell that now shes quiet and i've no clue if its due to depression or just general quietness.
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we tried moving intogether, but she couldnt get comfortable so shes moving in with her parents, but they are so far away that im pretty sure i'll never see her or see her very rarely and thats before the kid is born.
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she's in this mindset that she can raise the kid because she can drop it off on family members, but im in the boat of "we should be able to do it as a couple and only use them as a privialge not an expectation"
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she isn't really talking about baby stuff or even trying to make plans
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shes not even eating enough to support her self, nevermind a kid.
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1/2
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>>28761990 (OP)
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2/2
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Honestly it feels like shes trying to have a misscarrage but she seems so into the idea that i dont believe that either..
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Shes kind of forcing me into the dead-beat-dad position, just giving them money
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as i'll be unable to see them due to transport and work issues
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and then i'd suffer all the shit that comes with that when im the only one that seems to be trying to make this work both as a couple and for the child!
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my preference would just be an abortion because its clear shes not read, im certainly not in a great place , though as i said i'll m ake changes - i just have preferences to the logistics of the situation
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but if shes not going to fully commit to a kid and not abort, then all shes going to do is fuck up the kid and wish she had an ab ortion when we have some fucked up spurge.
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I dunno what i need here guys
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how do i make a relationship work? im sure shes just freaking out atm and will be a good mother once she has a head straight, if i have to have a kid i want a relationship with her too, we were getting on great before this.
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what do i do when she moves away and decides not to move back and keep him from me? Its not like i can be a single dad, i need to work and my family isnt as massive and u sed to this shit as mine.
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is there a path for me? a miscarrage isnt out of the realms of possibility and a dark part of me k inda hopes it will happen because shes clearly not actually putting effort in and i dont want some fucke dup kid i need to spend my life looking after all because she wasnt seeing sense when she had the option to get rid of it.
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Is there hope? do i have a way to make this work? if so, how??
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literally no support for men that want to be there but are being edged out by a girl thats being fucked up, its all "step uP" "be a man" "give everything you have to her and your problems are worthless"
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>>28761990 (OP)
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Pregnant women act really dumb, its not really her fault but she should not be acting THAT dumb. Best you can do is keep the mindset you have and push for something that works for you both. Hopefully afterwards she will come around and warm up to your plan. How have your talks taken place? An actual sitdown and deep chat?
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>>28761990 (OP)
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>>28762016
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Don't assume you're the only person she was fucking. Because you weren't committed, she was most likely fucking other people. That's the game. Her getting pregnant is unfortunate, but that's life.
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What do you do? You get a paternity test. As soon as the kid is born (technically yes, there are paternity tests that can be done in utero, but they carry a risk for miscarriage), do the blood test to see who the father is. If it's you, great. Be the best father you can. If not, walk away because it's not your problem. Do not sign the birth certificate until you've done the paternity test and have the results no matter how hard she pushes you. Paternity fraud is a huge problem and is big business for women. You're probably the only person who has their shit together out of all the people she was fucking.
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And how do you know she didn't poke holes in the condom. Women are fucking devious when it comes to this shit.
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>>28762038
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I've tried to have a few, so far i think we've had 2 really
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but for the most part she just says "yeah"
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"fine"
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a lot
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she doesnt really talk, or maybe shes shutting down.
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God i wish i was doing this with my ex-wife , i could read her like a book.
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part of the issue is i have no idea whats happening with her
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--- 28762112
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everything about this is a fucking shit show and will end shitty
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--- 28762123
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>>28762073
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I did tend to do that
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i had no idea i could refuse to sign the certifcate though
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the guilt of the si tuation may get to me, though i did say i wanted a test as soon as it was born and she agreed.
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Im pretty sure im the only person she was seeing, but there is a level of mistrust there, maybe its just hope.
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I do think i was the only person, but pretty much my plan is that
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i do want to try and get a relationship going and i am worried how that might jepodize it..but relying on social contract is a thing in toxic people i guess
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--- 28762149
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>>28762112
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yeah thats pretty much the long and short of it
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kind of a relief to know its as a bad as i think it is and im not over reacting
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--- 28762168
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Maybe look into adoption?
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--- 28762194
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>>28762168
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I expect if she carries it to term, she'll want to keep it.
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and the family will likely not let her set it for adoption anyway
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if she does something really retarded, like kill herself after its born, yeah i'll likely set it for adoption, though even that i really dont want to do...i'll feel like im more inclinded to look after it then.
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probably a dumb thought
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--- 28762353
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>>28761990 (OP)
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>>28762016
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First of all. Calm down.
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Even if she doesn't eat well, life finds a way.
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There are plenty of testimonies out there of underweight women, even with complex issues such as severe IDA (with hemoglobin levels under 10 g/dL of iron before pregnancy), who still had healthy babies. You can make you on research on the topic and find trustable sources.
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Miscarriage won't happen unless she wants to die from inanition and take the baby with her.
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Second. Finding out about an unintended pregnancy can be one of the scariest moments of a woman’s life, and she may be in shock trying to accept her life has changed forever.
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However, you might consider that women who have difficulties getting pregnant tend to have miscarriages naturally. I don't want to give you fake hopes about it, but it's a tendency. It's not like it's going to happen for sure and all your problems will be solved.
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The whole situation sounds fucked-up. It's like what she has with you is a rebound relationship she may be regretting. But you both need to communicate better because it's clear that you don't know what she's thinking and what she really wants. She may be hiding her feelings because she doesn't want to raise a baby alone or doesn't have the money, etc. There can be plenty of reasons. It seems like she won't open up to you because maybe, you don't know each other too well or for a long time, and then all this suddenly happened. I don't know. I'm just speculating.
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You need, first, to know where her heart is. Is it with you? Is it with the asshole who used to beat her? Would she rather be single after thinking about all that happened?
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If you want the relationship to work for real, why don't you seek professional help? I doubt here we have qualified anons who can help you here because not even you seem to know what your girlfriend is thinking about the situation at all.
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--- 28762386
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>>28762073
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This. Red flags galore here.
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>>28762353
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thats all great, thanks.
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I was thinking a lot of the same , though im here out of desperation really, but honetly /adv/ tends to have the better part of this board so it does somtimes come with real advice.
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i definitly think she needs therapy in general, but it might be an idea for us botht o seek it together.
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i didn;t mention that she did offer me the "you dont need to be there " but i feel thats just a platitude really.
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it is a fucked up situation, i'll keep trying to talk to her, though everyhtime it ry she tends to not really reply.
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i know for sure shes in shock, i dont know how to get her to acknowledge that though.
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>>28761990 (OP)
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holy shit dude your life sounds really fucked up not sure why you would get with a girl like this in the first place (control your urges) but if its any consolation raising kids isn't as money intensive as people make it out to be they just have higher expectations for what they need to give their child. As long as you love them and try your best they'll forgive you.
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>>28762875
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thanks , that is reassureing
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im pretty sure i can afford it solo, i just want her to be the sort of parent im going to be . im hoping shes just in shock, which is why shes not taking it a seriously as me
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>>28761990 (OP)
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>she relied so much of booze to come out of her shell that now shes quiet and i've no clue if its due to depression or just general quietnes
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god damn nigger,
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stop abusing the poor girl you knew what you were doing going into this. accept her decision and get her off the booze and feed her with better food so ur kid wont be retarded, man up OP
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>>28762016
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>my preference would just be an abortion because its clear shes not read,
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shouldnt have fucked her then you prick. stop abusing poor women you bastard
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>>28762907
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are you in love with her?
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bc the sane advice would be to start looking for another partner
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whatever happens to the pregnancy and kid happens, but please don't devote yourself to her after that bs
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>>28761990 (OP)
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>wants to have kid with a one-night stand
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once you start taking note of how many lies are fed to you on a daily basis and get a good idea of who lies and doesnt lie in the media, you wont have to worry so much about being manipulated. dont look too much into it and go down any deep ass rabbit holes, even worse if theyre true cuz they can turn you extremist. old corporations and media outlets lie the most, as they have far more to gain from your ignorance
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form an ideology, stick to it, whenever something doesn't align with what you think it's propaganda
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not joking, I'm serious. It's easier to compare everything you see with a single set of beliefs you have rather than having to question every single thing you see while questioning your beliefs
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>>28762009 (OP)
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Learn History. The bad guys all use the same techniques.
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>>28762009 (OP)
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you should recognize that virtually any idea can be framed as propagandistic and instead be wary of anyone attempting to tell you they know what is best. That is the best course of action, think for yourself and critically analyze any message being fed to you.
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>>28762009 (OP)
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Watch Destiny Debates on YouTube
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https://youtube.com/watch?v=QB2TSFwa8Rc [Embed]
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--- 28764424
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Realized it’s kinda weird to ask this question on a site filled with propaganda
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>>28762009 (OP)
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Every political message or media you encounter is propaganda by its very nature. Ignorance is also propaganda. Echochamber are propaganda. Believing the government is propaganda, Overly distrusting the government is propaganda. History is propaganda. cooked (not raw) statistics are propaganda. "Buy My Book/Youtuber/Podcast" is propaganda. Your friends will influence your beliefs so they're also propaganda
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My advice? Think for yourself. Does this make sense for (You), do you care enough to change it?
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My better advice? No you don't. You aren't going to rallies, your vote doesn't matter, Are you willing to become a terrorist? Is the current outrage even fucking related to you are you getting mad over shit that literally doesn't effect you, or is otherwise too large and powerful to stop? Why are you even thinking thinking about this? Understand you cannot cannot change the world. You are not making some noble sacrifice by being stressed and paranoid. Do you remember the last time politics made you happy? really think about this.
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Grill.
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>>28762009 (OP)
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By choosing to have principled moral stances that aren't influenced by the beliefs or opinions of others, but are based upon your internal moral compass. By remaining skeptical of all things, including or especially those that align with your biases, and remaining critical of yourself and your own beliefs. By using your own perspective to determine the truth in a matter, but remaining open to, and even seeking out, challenges to those conceptions. By choosing to do what you know to be right in spite of, or without regard to, the views of others. By holding to your confidence in yourself as a good person, and not devolving to the hate that is demanded from you. By remaining steadfast, and refusing to get caught in the whirlwinds of society. By being a good man, a strong man, and letting the world rage around you, but not tear you down. Propaganda is hinged upon the evocation of an emotion artificially. Don't let yourself feel a way because of the influences you indulge in, instead choose how you feel deliberately, and never fall for the fallacy of the extremes. Love those who hate you, because hate is a burden, and to love is to truly know and understand, it is empathy, which in its purest form is immune to the influence of hate.
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how do i be this cool?
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>>28762045 (OP)
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homestuck
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Dont persue terezi
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>>28762045 (OP)
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Just stop giving a fuck
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Are you the person who just posted to /cgl/ about how you're gonna start davemaxxing?
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>>28764378
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>>28762045 (OP)
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Is it true that homestuckers are so mentally broken that they can't be baited
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OK I am going to make one more thread about this because it has never solved my problem but here it is.
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When I am at work, or in public, or situations where there are children. I literally believe I am a pedophile and that I want to fuck kids. I imagine fucking them. I behave awkwardly around kids and parents. I have trouble thinking about anything except for kid fucking. Literally my whole day is plagued with pedophilia from start to end.
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When it's time to go home, I get back to my apartment and try to look at loli porn. Totally disinterested. I don't even want to look at it. End up busting to some other normal porno with adult actors.
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I must stop thinking about pedophilia. However every time I am around others the only thing I can think about is racial slurs and pedoshit. Constantly. Sounds like OCD right? It probably is, but I am determined to not go to a doctor about this, and also determined to get over this problem without medication.
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Can anyone offer any kind of solution about how to think about something else? If I try holding back the thoughts it feels like my head is going to burst.
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>>28762092 (OP)
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I give it a 99% chance it's OCD. I mean regardless if you're an actual pedophile but just aren't into lolis you clearly know it's wrong so w/e.
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I know you said you wanted to solve this without doctors/medication, but honestly you should really consider it. Zoloft can help with OCD thoughts in my experience. OCD can be difficult to deal with without such tools.
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What you could do is not exactly describe the issue as you have here, but explain that your fear that you are a pedophile is overwhelming to you and negatively impacting your life. You don't have to admit to actual intrusive thoughts of kid fucking to get treatment.
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>>28762092 (OP)
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Literally stop watching porn and anime.
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I have been going on dates for the past month about every weekend or so with a girl I matched with on a dating app. We share quite a few common interests and get along really well. I can tell she's very much into me. She's almost paralyzed with anxiety and has admitted to problems with depression, currently medicated for it. Her profile also included pictures of her as bald, which she still is. Before the first date, I was completely unaware of the reason or cause for this, but I thought she looked cute on her photos and decided to just go with it and see what happens organically, rather than ask. She later admitted that she has a disorder where she pulls her hair out, and now for the past few years has elected to shave her head so that she cannot pull her hair out. I also found out in person that she's gained quite a bit of weight in comparison to the images on her profile. Despite this, I went on a total of three dates with her so far. She is literally the definition of the "aspie weeb waifu" gf that most channers fantasize about having, but I have to admit I feel myself lacking physical attraction to her, in part because of her bald head. I feel like I would be much more attracted to her if she had hair, but I don't know how to bring the subject up to her without killing any remaining self esteem she still has. Do I try to stick it out with her and find out if she'll get better, or just break it off? Appreciate any words of wisdom.
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If she's as emotionally damaged as you say, get her emotionally attached to you then force her to work out and wear a wig. Tell her you'll leave her if she doesn't. You gotta be in this for like 6 months though first.
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Damn. Some of you are sooo desperate it defies reason.
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>>28762134 (OP)
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I listened to a pretty long discussion about this on NPR some months ago. It's just one of those quirks of human behavior. I'm not sure what the root cause is but I would guess that it involves some kind of anxiety feedback loop. Anxiety = pull hair, which leads to more anxiety which means more pulled hair. Some people even eat their hair. Very unusual but a lot of people suffer from this condition. Some people you think are balding may in fact be pulling their hair out compulsively. Idk how to help but you can look up the NPR bit to understand it better.
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>>28762314
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Yeah I was reading about it the other night. She really put me off the other week when she expressed not really being interested in re-growing her hair. Shaving her head already comes off as sort of a "bandaid" solution to the disorder, rather than digging into resolving the actual issue. Maybe its just my mindset, but if I were in her shoes I would want to build up to being able to regrow my hair, not embrace just letting it control/dominate my appearance. I'm not sure how bad she has it, but I imagine it must've been pretty severe for her to shave her head.
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>>28762249
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I have a feeling if I asked her to wear a wig, she'd probably do it. She's very attached/clingy already towards me. I imagine most people don't give her much of a chance because of her hair situation.
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>>28762134 (OP)
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anon have you for once thought not about you but also about her???
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the action is easy, she does this bc she has problems and feels bad, make her feel good and well and appreciated and care for her health etc and she wont be a mental wreck that pulls her hair out anymore
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cant believe people are so fucking retarded
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>>28762134 (OP)
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>medicated
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>>28763298
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>I can fix her
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This kind of thinking will find OP married to an emotional basket case of a slampig, Society enables women's bad behavior. If she's this fucked up he should bail.
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>>28764660
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this, shes a total loss
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>>28763298
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a substantial improvement cannot be expected
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Am I not allowed to have a vice? I cant smoke weed or drink they both make my chronic stress and anxiety much worse. I can't enjoy junk food without getting addicted and ruining the way i look. I cant have sex regularly, dating life is shit because of my anxiety and stress. What the fuck am i supposed to do to take a break from my high stress lonely shitty life?
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>>28762151
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This is bad advice
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>>28762157
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sure.
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>>28762135 (OP)
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Lift weights, go on a run, hike, take up a sport. Exercise gets you high.
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>>28762191
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>more work
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thanks anon!
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>>28762208
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You could just go outside and walk, it doesn’t need to be strenuous. I find strenuous workouts really stress relieving though desu.
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>>28762208
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>22
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>Live in Canada
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>Currently live on my own
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>Failed Uni no degree
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How do I do it?
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Im currently doing a code bootcamp and have 4 month coding job starting next month paying 18hr at a really small company. But after that, I don't know what to do next. Ive heard getting programming work without a degree is hard in canada and if I want a degree my only option is a online uni. I like coding but I wonder if its worth it at this point. What is the smartest thing I could do right now? Should I invest in other skills? If so what?
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No response?
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coding is the entrance, the next step is status and relations.
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>>28762257 (OP)
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You live in Canada so you'll probably be alright. I was always a fuckup in school too but I was already working at 22 prettymuch,but it sounds like you're going to walk away with more training than I have and I'm alright currently in The USA which despite being Taxachusetts has a fraction the social nets.
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>>28762828
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Do you have recommendations to build status and (especially) relationships/connections. Typically college helps with that.
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>>28762857
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Ok thats good to know. Tho i am still worried about my financial future with my prospects. I dont want be working at walmart at 27.
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I can't leave the house nor can I fight him. He acts like an ass and I'll gtfo as soon as I get a girl. Wat do?
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You need to assert dominance. What you need to do is look him straight in the eye take two fingers and shove them up his ass. Then push him onto the ground and butt f*** him. That'll show him who's Man of the House
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How do I go back to being my normal autistic self? Not caring about what other people thought of me and getting hyperfixations?
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>>28762385 (OP)
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Can't put the twinkie back in the wrapper, anon. Plato's allegory of the cave, no man steps in the same river twice, all that. Can't go back to ignorance.
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Going hermit mode is the only way
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Bump
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>>28762385 (OP)
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You need to learn to like yourself, and, if you don't, to change yourself to become someone you like. Only when you actually like who you are will you not need to seek outside validation, and the only reason you seek it or put value into it is because you don't.
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>>28762427
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Is there anything on this goddamn earth that isn't fucking shit.
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>>28764163
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As my dad always says, "if it wasn't for beer and pussy I wouldn't have anything to live for!"
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>>28764163
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You can find any number of reasons to be unhappy if you're looking for them. Happiness is a choice, anon. It's a perspective, and one that you have to deliberately adopt in order to obtain it. There's plenty to be positive about, and, like the man who misses the forest for the trees, it's right under your nose, you're just ignoring it to focus on that which makes you unhappy. If you would only move your eyes away for a moment, you'd see what you missed before. It's fallacious thinking that the world is so bad, or that it's worse now than before, or that things are so hopeless, and most of that reasoning comes from what you allow yourself to be exposed to. The only one holding that dark cloud over your vision is you.
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>>28762385 (OP)
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It’s more than doable.
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>>28764149
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This anon is correct
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You will stop sizing yourself to others, their judgements, when you begin to prize yourself. Once you have stopped waging wars on yourself and you have that breakthrough of self love, you will win everything. Because you are quite literally everything to yourself. Some people try to emulate this and it comes out as narcissism and abusiveness. Most people go from the cradle to the grave never finding out. And very few actually find it.
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Once they find it, that’s it. End credits roll, new game+ time. You enjoy the rest of life now knowing what you hadn’t known before. That is yourself.
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There is a reason why most people cringe or flinch or mock the following sentence: “Just be yourself.”
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What would you say about a boy and a girl being casual online friends for coming up on two years now and having sent each other, on average, 140 messages per day over that time period? They're not flirting, it's just chit chat. Further context: 57% of the messages are from the boy, and it's even higher if you could take his many deleted messages into account; the boy is a single incel and the girl is engaged; the girl has basically ghosted the boy for a periods of weeks or months on a few occasions; the girl claims to be "lonely," but it seems like she only feels that way when her boyfriend isn't with her (they're long-distance); the girl was an e-whore when she was like 12-14 and she often says she misses having simps to fuck with and have drama with; finally, this girl is literally autistic. Perhaps the boy has, from time to time, felt romantically attracted to this girl despite his wish not to be. Recently, he foolishly told her that he has a crush on her and felt guilty about it and she said it's ok as long as he doesn't bother her about it. She told him that her IRL friend that she still sees also confessed to her, and she presumably told him the same thing. I believe her boyfriend knows all this, by the way. What would you say to this boy? He doesn't want to let her go so don't say he should stop talking to her. He's not delusional enough to think she'll leave her fiancé for him, he just likes having her as a friend because he has no other friends.
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Sounds like retarded e-lationship insanity that exists solely on the computer. None of it is real until you meet in real life and have sex.
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>>28762387 (OP)
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Btw recently this boy has been fantasizing about violent revenge against this girl for rejecting him. It's irrational and insane but sometimes he likes thinking about either murdering her, raping and murdering her, or just flying to her country to break into her apartment when she's off on holiday to smell her bed and download the contents of her laptop hopefully. He would never do anything like that but he likes the idea because it makes him feel powerful instead of weak and pathetic. But he doesn't want to hurt or scare her so it's merely a fantasy.
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OH, one more crucial detail perhaps: she hid the fact that she has a boyfriend from him for months before he was able to find out from cyberstalking her. She said she's just a private person but he wonders if that's the fully truth.
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>>28762399
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She's frigid from what she tells me and she seems fanatically committed to this guy. Not gonna happen. But yeah you're right. I hate sex so much sometimes it feels like a sick invention designed to exclude me from society and make me feel worthless.
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>>28762399
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I was coincidentally going to be traveling near her country and I asked if I could stay at her place for a few days and she resoundingly rejected the idea lol
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>>28762387 (OP)
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The boy is a codependent simp who needs to get it together.
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>>28762422
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No shit. You told her you were interested in her romantically and she has a fiance.
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>>28762435
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No this was before I confessed.
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>>28762433
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Wdym by codependent?
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I don't really wanna kiss her because that feels wrong and like rape but I want her to look at me and smile!!
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>>28762387 (OP)
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Stop torturing yourself. Move on, nothing will ever realistically come of this. You can find someone in real life.
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>>28762387 (OP)
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This sounds dangerously close to a girl I knew online. Could you please respond to this if you please? I have some questions.
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Two years............ 140 messages a day.....
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How do you ever hope to find a girl or even just friends while you're wasting so much time orbiting this girl?
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>>28762387 (OP)
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I would say that's nice, I'm glad you have a friend. Stop deleting your messages though, only faggot ass bitches delete their messages
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>>28762408
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Get over it you faggot
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Online relationships dont mean anything. You shouldve learned this as a teenager
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>>28765055
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>Online relationships dont mean anything
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I met my best friend online 19 years ago. I've only met him IRL one time and that was when I went to his wedding back in 2015. That means I knew him 11 years before I met him in person. That relationship has always meant a lot to me..
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Hell, the same dude met his wife online and knew her for years before eventually meeting IRL
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>>28765104
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Ok well it works for some outliers, clearly not you
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Considering youre trying to get "violent revenge" because your e gf ignored you shows that this shit is NOT FOR YOU
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