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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: Landlord refuses to give me my deposit until he gets his deposit back. What are my options? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 30 day notice given to subletting landlord for returning deposit, refuses to give me deposit until he receives his deposit back. What are my options? Do I wait? Thanks! Any

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: Need an authentic, kind of detailed, story for an anthropology work. Will be appearing as anonymous. Thanks! EDIT: I'm not looking for a full and awesomeness story, i just want some real human

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: What is your life story, why did you choose this way of living, what do you think about your future? Thank you in advance for any contribution. I'm really looking forward to read your stories! :) **EDIT:**

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me and i dont know what to do. should i say something, or am i being too clingy? help plz. :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my right arm and lost my job. I can't use my arms while standing or sit and use a computer effectively. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm and can't use it for load bearing tasks. Last year I was diagnosed with osteochondritis dissecans and can't use my left arm for standing. I'm

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? Or is it just

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1) Never ride a bike, 2) Put a helmet on the handlebars, 3) Got caught in the wheel, 4) Went flying over handlebars, 5) Landed on my knee

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1) Why does a helmet strap get caught in a bike wheel so easily? 2) What are some other ways a helmet strap can get caught in a bike wheel? 3) How can I avoid

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in the shower room, and the drill instructor told them they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in the shower and the drill instructor allowed it to continue in the navy. Do you have any similar stories? EDIT: Thanks for the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went for a penalty shot, hit my friend in the face and he went into rage. 2. Went out mid, he walked into my shot, died laughing. 3. Lost my rank and a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went out to play football on a field nearby, scored a goal, kicked it hard and hit my friend in the face. His nose started bleeding and he went deep into rage. 2. Played counter

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro Star Wars toys, all disassembled, in a shopping cart, for free. What are some crazy things you've found free in stores? (No Craigslist,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart, for free. What would you do with this loot? What would you build? What do you think i

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Would putting this experience on my resume be a good idea? 2) If so, how would you describe the experience? 3) Would you recommend it? 4) Would you recommend it to someone who was a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Should I put a job on my resume that I hated? 2) If so, what is the best way to talk about it in an interview? 3) What is the best way to talk about it in

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl who doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Wanna hang out with her and see a movie, but I don't have a car. Is it okay to

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl I've been talking to for a few months doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with me playing video

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days of flirting with girl I used to go to school with, when should I make a move? Should I even make a move? Is it too late to ask her out? Is she even interested in me? I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days of flirting with girl I used to go to school with, don't know when to ask for her number or when to ask her out. Worried about dating window closing if I don't make a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy and 2) I'm not sure what to do about it. EDIT: I'm not sure what to do about the fact that I'm unhappy. I'm not sure

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy with my job and 2) I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application and 3) they need me and I don't want to abandon them. What

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship, girl won't have sex with me. It has been almost a year since we have made love. She says she likes sex, but never ever does. What do I do? EDIT: I have asked

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship, girl won't have sex with me despite saying she likes sex and wants to. It has been over a year and she still never will. What do I do? I feel as though I am being wasted

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months with bf, almost said I love you to him, not sure if love is what I'm feeling, what do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months in, almost said I love you to my bf. Wondering if it's love or infatuation. What do you think? Is love a feeling or a choice? Can you choose to love someone? Is love

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend breaks up with me for the third time, states she doesn't love me anymore. I'm confused. What can I do? Any chance of saving this relationship? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend has broken up with me three times in the last six months. Is there any chance of getting back together? I'd love to hear any advice. Thank you. EDIT: I would like to thank

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 y/o male, 22 y/o female, mutual feelings don't exist, is it wrong to continue seeing each other and leading her on? Should i tell her?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18, met a girl on okcupid, 22, the chemistry isn't there for me, is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? Thanks! Edit: i real

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. gf going on trip with single friend. 2. single friend likes to mess around and will likely try to hook up. 3. afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment and will not be able

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: 1. My gf is going to a trip with her single friend and I am afraid that she will be drawn into the bar/club environment and will be drunk and will not remember anything the day after. 2. What should

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 3 weeks into dating a girl, unsure of how much I like her, scared that she will be overly attached to me and make me go through a potential horror breakup if I don't love her. Need advice

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1) I am scared that a girl I am dating will be too attached to me to let me go if I don't love her. 2) I don't know if I should tell her. 3)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year old in relationship with 18 year old, relationship fading. Feelings for another girl. Wondering if I am just trying to find an excuse to end the relationship before pursuing her. What do I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year relationship fading, considering trying to pursue another girl, but feel guilty about it. Wondering if it is justifiable to do so. What should I do? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. Any help i

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship I lost my virginity to a new girl and I am beginning to not trust her. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship with a girl I loved I lost my virginity to a new girl I really like but am beginning to not trust her. How do I get over my ex? What can I do to

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1) Paid for visa well in advance. 2) Got confirmation email. 3) Tried to print letter and wasn't there. 4) No replies from company. 5) Got my visa

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 1. Got my visa. 2. Tried to get it. 3. Got it. 4. Tried to get it. 5. Got it. 6. Tried to get it. 7. Got it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 2 year off and on relationship ended due to her influence of friends. I know it was the right decision. How do I move forward?** EDIT: I just want to say thanks to everyone who has supported me and offered their advice

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 3 year off and on relationship ended due to her friends influence and lack of responsibility. Feeling better then ever. What do you think?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he is in a lot of pain but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, what do I do? Edit: Thanks for all the advice, I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's in a lot of pain but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, advice please? EDIT: I'm sorry I meant to say

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female having trouble opening her fingers after making a fist. Not sure if it's a trigger finger or something else. Need advice on what it might be and if I should bring it up to my doctor. Thank

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening fingers. Not sure if it's trigger finger or something else. Just want some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. Thanks! :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 19F sister is seeing 45M friend of my father. She says she loves him, but I'm not sure it's a good idea. Should I tell my parents? What do I do?**

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 19F sister is seeing 40M friend of my father, she says she loves him, I'm not sure if I should tell my father or let her go. What should I do? EDIT: I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 bored dogs, need games to keep them happy. See them very rarely, want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Need some unusual dog games. Any suggestions? Thanks! EDIT

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 3 dogs are bored and depressed after I leave them alone. I want to keep them happy for as long as possible. Any ideas? Any games? Any toys? Any anything? Any suggestions?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship, not talking as much as we used to, how can I handle this? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Help please! :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship, don't talk as much as we used to, he doesn't seem to want me around anymore. What do I do? Should I even stay? Help me out reddit! :/ I'm

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need to end it but worried about how she will handle it and if I'm a horrible person for being hurt. Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with girl who deals with depression/anxiety. Need to end it but worried about how she will handle it. Need outside perspective on situation. Help pls!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: 1. Is it appropriate to ask a professor to lunch just to be social? 2. If so, what's the best way to go about it? 3. If not, what's the best way to go

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Before anything else: **platonically**. I am absolutely not interested in dating any of my professors. I'm gay, and she's married. I've had a couple of classes with this one professor, and although she's not officially my advisor, that's been the role she's played for the last year: helping me figure out career paths, applications for grad schools, and how to balance school and personal responsibilities. She's supervising an independent study I'm doing this semester, and after we've gone over the work for this week, we'll usually spend some time talking about other things - classes, travel, family, food, etc. I really enjoy talking to her and once all grades are in for the semester, I wondered if if would be appropriate to ask her to have lunch just to be social. I've had dinner with my professors before, but it's always been in the context of traveling and I feel like it might be seen as suspect since it wouldn't be part of a group of people. I'm graduating, so there's no chance of having another class with her. ### Response: 1. Is it appropriate to ask a professor to have lunch just to be social, even if she's not officially my advisor? 2. If so, how should I go about asking her? What's the best

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 18 y/o male, unprotected sex w/out birth control, think she isn't pregnant but want options if she is. Plans to attend college in the fall w/o a child to raise. Any

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I screwed up big time and had unprotected sex with a girl from out of town. She was in the area and we've been texting/calling pretty frequently for the last two months. Anyways, we did the deed without any birth control. I pulled out but I'm not sure if it was in time, so the next day we got her some Next Choice and she took the first dose 10 hours after we did it, then took the second dose 12 hours later. I think our chances that she isn't pregnant are decent, but I'd like some input on options if she is because I can't really talk about it with anyone. She's religious so abortion isn't an option. She's already attending college but if she's pregnant that will really throw a wrench in the works. I'm currently in my last semester of high school and have plans to begin college in the fall. I don't think this is possible for someone who has a child to raise. Are there any military options for me? I have a decent ASVAB score. ### Response: 17 year old male, unprotected sex with out of town female. If she is pregnant what options are there for me? Military option? Any other options? I'm in my last semester of high school and don

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 months relationship, boyfriend's friend let slip that his mother abandoned their family when he was young. Not sure how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. Need advice. Thanks! :) (Also sorry

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I am in a new relationship (4 months) and discovered through my boyfriend's friend that his mother abandoned their family when he was very young. One of his friends let this slip to me after a few drinks at a party. My boyfriend has not told me yet. Previously I knew there has been no contact with his mom and the subject is very touchy. I haven't pushed him to reveal anything. We had spoken about our pasts before, he was upset but said in time he will be able to tell me things and I am ok waiting for him to share. He's also been hurt in former relationships and I think this has really affected him being open with me as he avoids in-depth or emotional conversations. I come from a family where my parents are still together and have no idea how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I care about him very much and want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. ### Response: 4 months relationship, boyfriend's mother abandoned their family when he was young. I am not sure how to approach this or help him feel more at ease with me. I want to make this work. Any help is appreciated. Thank

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: 30 day notice given to subletting landlord for refusing to give me deposit until he receives his. What are my options? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello /r/legaladvice! I posted before asking about my landlord. Situation's done and I've moved out, however, now, the person I'm subletting from is refusing to give me back my deposit until he gets his deposit back. I don't know about his situation and his deposit, but I gave him a few notices saying that I've returned my keys, and it's been 30 days, and I expect a check. His response is that since he has not received his check, he will not give me my deposit until he receives his. What are my options here? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and he is going back home (the middle east, I think) for the summer, so this part slightly worries me. ### Response: Landlord refuses to give me my deposit until he receives his deposit back. What are my options? Do I wait? What's also troubling is that he is from out of the country, and

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: 1. I'm doing an antropology work and i need a real human story. 2. I'm doing it in the street and i need some anonymity. 3. I'm not searching for an

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey! First off, sorry for my bad english, it's not my native language. I don't know if there is any kind of specific reddit for this, so please tell me if there is a better place to post. I'm in college studing arts in Barcelona, and i'm doing an antropology work where i have to search someone to tell me the story of his life. I thought that doing this in the street could be quite troublesome, since people might not want to tell face to face some parts of their life, so i thought that reddit could help me, becouse of the anonymity of internet. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of awesomeness fake story, i just want some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. I know u might be just lazy, so don't even care about ortography or structure of the text; I'll have to translate it into spanish or catalan. I just want to ask for sincerity. Needless to say, you will be appearing as anonymous. ### Response: 1. I'm doing an antropology work and i need some real human, kinda detailed (around 2 - 3 pages), story. 2. I'm not searching for an incredible and full of aw

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf of a year started ignoring me, should i say something or is it too clingy? what should i say? should i even say something? help pls :/ !!! help pls !

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: we've been speaking to eachother practically every day, atleast every few hours for the last 6 months and this morning she just started ignoring me? i see her active on social media yet she doesnt respond to anything i say, which is weird. but im starting to realize just how much we communicate so maybe this is healthy? i dont think ive ever really been in a "healthy" relationship before, my last gf of a year cheated on me the one and only night we decided to go off to separate parties in a year long relationship, and we communicated daily. so should i say something, or... am i being too clingy? ### Response: 6 month relationship, gf started ignoring me, dont know what to do, am i being too clingy? help?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm, can't use it for anything, have dysgraphia, no disability, what should I do? How can I help myself? Thanks. I really appreciate any help you can give me

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey /r/advice. I'm having some life problems, and need some guidance. I feel like I'm stuck in a shitty situation. 5 years ago I broke my right arm and as a result lost my job. Due to complications, I can no longer use it for load bearing tasks like poring milk, lifting items, and driving. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). Luckily it's in my left knee, which allows me to use a cane in my "good" hand to walk. Unfortunately, I can't afford the surgery to correct it. I like to think of myself as smart, however I have dysgraphia. I have a typing speed of about 5 words a minute with 30% accuracy. I have taken computer typing classes but have not improved. I have contacted State and federal disability for help and they have stated that "None of my problems are severe enough to warrant disability". So, I'm officially not disabled. I just can't use my arms whilst standing and I can't use a computer effectively when sitting. I'm trained in construction and auto maintenance. What should I do for work? What's my next step? I'm living off savings and food stamps. ### Response: 5 years ago I broke my arm and can't use it for anything. Last year I was diagnosed with Osteochondritis dissecans (floating chips of bone in the knee). I can

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: 27F/5'10"/SW: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 For the past three weeks, I have bounced between 231-232 without any loss. I know plateaus can happen, but I went through the typical troubleshooting steps to see if I could break it. One of the things I wondered about is if MFP is setting my calorie intake goal too high. Currently it says I should aim for 1330 per day to lose 2 pounds a week. I didn't think anything of it until I saw a post earlier where someone mentioned determining your TDEE on your own. When I did that, it showed my calorie intake should be 1234 per day to lose 2lbs. Both were set to sedentary. Am I confused about something or is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? ### Response: 275 CW: 231 GW: 160 Is MFP setting my calorie intake goal a little too high? Is there a way to calculate my TDEE on my own? Thank

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 30+ year old guy with no helmet on bike. Bike stopped. I flew over handlebars and landed on my knees, left arm, and hip. No head injury. Could have been much worse

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I didn't hurt my head but I got injured in another way. So I rode a bike today, something I rarely do. I grabbed a helmet and put it on the handlebars of the bike. After riding for maybe a quarter mile the strap of the helmet which was hanging down near the wheel got caught in the front wheel. The bike immediately stopped moving and I flew over the handlebars. I landed (hard) on my knees, left arm, and hip. I have no idea how I didn't hit my head, but if I did this may have been a much more serious ordeal. ### Response: 1. I rode a bike today. 2. The helmet got caught in the front wheel and I went flying. 3. I landed pretty hard on my knees, left arm, and hip. 4.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were caught giving/receiving oral in shower room and were told by drill instructor that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where it was deemed normal....

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: In recruit training, SanDiego, 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other intentionally during our shower time. Whether the two were legitimately homosexual or not is out of the question because there was no discreetness about the act whatsoever. We had 3 shower rooms and they had left a couple minutes before everyone else to take their shower. Fastforward a couple of minutes and there out in the open are the two guys giving each other fellatio for everyone to see. Here is the best part about it all...instead of kicking the 2 out of the Marine Corps like they wanted...The drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform these kind of acts where it is deemed normal.....(this is what was said, not in any way a hit to the navy). So Reddit, do you have any similar stories that you have heard of or personally saw? ### Response: 2 males in my platoon were found giving/receiving oral to each other in recruit training and the drill instructor told them that they were both getting a 1 way ticket into the navy where they could perform

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went to play football on a field, scored a goal, kicked it hard and hit my friend in the face. Later that day we played counterstrike and he went out mid, I was playing awp, he

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, this happend not today, but on the weekend. We went out to play football (if you're American, you'll call it soccer) on a field nearby. The game was quite even, noone scored. So we decided to take penalty shots to determine the winner. I went for the shot, kicked it hard and hit my friend straight in the face. His nose startet bleeding and he went deep into rage, while I was feeling sorry and the rest laughed thier ass of. Anyways, later that day, we played counterstrike together. He went out mid, I was playing awp, he walked into my shot, boom teamkill headshot. His rage in Teamspeak went over 9000 while our team (same guys from the football game) died laughing. My friend however got so pissed he ragequitted the game and we lost. This way I lost a good friend and my CSGO rank. ### Response: 1. Went for a penalty shot, hit my friend in the face and he went into rage. 2. Went out mid, he walked into my shot, died laughing. 3. Lost my rank and a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro Star Wars toys, all in one cart, free for whoever wants to put them together. What would you do if you found this? What would you do with it? Would you put it

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last night i went to Walmart to buy my niece a present, on the way out, as I'm walking to my truck i see a giant imperial AT-AT toy (Star Wars fans will know what I'm talking about) along with various other toys, all from Star Wars, disassembled in a shopping cart. As soon as i saw them i walked directly towards the cart, when the parking lot attendant asked me if i wanted to take them, that Some lady took them out of her car, said her husband doesn't need them anymore, all you need to do is put them together. The loot is well worth over 400$ US of Hasbro toys. ### Response: 400$ worth of Hasbro toys, all disassembled, just waiting to be put together, free for anyone who wants them. Where do i find a place like that? I'm a big fan of Star

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1) Should I put a job on my resume even though it was a training/learning experience that didn't work out? 2) If so, how should I describe it? 3) If not, what other relevant

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I wouldn't think to put it on my resume except the experience is extremely relevant for my field. I imagine I will end up talking to my future employer/interviewer about certain experiences that I had and knowledge that I gained from this past job. I actually loved the job and wish that it had worked out better. Unfortunately, I was essentially set up for failure - it was a sink-or-swim type training where management was largely uninvolved. Any sort of outline of job duties/ time management/ expectations were "in the process of being organized" and there were several different supervisory personnel who all had conflicting advice/directions on how to do the job. If I asked a question, I was criticized for not knowing already. If I did things without asking questions and tried to figure it out, I was criticized for not doing things a certain way. Finally, the other employees always cut corners and did crap work in order to finish on time. I have a hard time leaving work without my job being done so I would regularly stay later than others not only because I was actually completing my duties but also because I was completing things that others wouldn't finish. ### Response: 1. Was set up for failure at training job. 2. Learned a lot and gained valuable experience. 3. Would like to know if I should include this on my resume or not. 4. If so,

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16m, 16f, 16m, 16f, 16m, 16m, 16m, 16m, 16m, 16m

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the link for an earlier thread I posted about her She basically doesn't have any friends and will spend all her spring break at home playing video games. I wanna hang out with her, but both of us don't have a car. I live with my grandma 10 minutes away from her house. Would it be weird to ask her to spend a day with us playing video games and eating pizza? Another thing I could do is ask her to go see a movie with me, but I would just meet her there since I'll be going with a bike. Do you guys think it's okay to do that? I also have 0 experience with girls. You can say this is the first girl in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girl who doesn't have any friends and will spend all spring break at home playing video games. Wanna hang out with her and see a movie, but I don't have a car. Is it okay to

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 16m, used to go to school with, started flirting, not sure when to ask for her number or when to ask her out. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I'm

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This girl I used to go to school with messaged me on Facebook asking if I remember her (I kind of do but we never talked in school). We talked more and started flirting a little. This has only been going on for about 3 days but I'm pretty socially inept so I don't know when I should ask for her number or when I should ask her out. I'm worried that there is a dating window and that it will close if I don't make a move. I'm also very self conscious about my body right now and I feel like she wouldn't like me if she saw me irl. ### Response: 3 days into a conversation with a girl and I don't know when to make a move. I'm socially inept and self conscious. I don't know when to make a move. I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm not happy with my job, but I don't want to leave because I love my coworkers and they need me. 2) What do I do? I'm pretty sure I'll end

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Things at work have gotten insane and I just don't like they way many things have been handled. This is a corporate IT job at a Fortune 250 company. My senior developer quit a few weeks ago and I was offered the position, but things have been so insane lately we haven't had time to discuss details. *I'm now solely responsible for a massive, mission-critical application* and that has brought on a lot of anxiety. They need me, and I really don't want to abandon them. We'll be discussing things either tomorrow or next week. I'm not sure what to do here. I'm very unhappy and am pretty sure all the extra responsibility will not help. If they were to offer me a shit ton of money/extras, I'd *consider* waiting it out on the condition that several things change. ### Response: 1) I'm unhappy and 2) I don't know what to do about it. Thanks in advance for any advice. I really appreciate any help you can offer. I'm just looking for a way out

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship with girl, we have sex less than 5 times in almost 1 year. She says she likes sex, but she never ever does. Need advice. Help pls!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This is the run of the mill story. I started dating a girl, we started having sex and it was great. However, three years later, she will not have sex with me. We have made love less than five times in almost 12 months. She keeps making different excuses each time I ask about it. This has been bothering me to no end. I feel as though I am in my sexual prime as far as age and physical ability, and it is being utterly wasted. She says she likes sex, and wants to have sex...but she never ever does. She continually shrugs off my advances. We have talked about it numerous times, and she knows it bothers me. This being said, nothing has changed. I need advice. ### Response: 3 year relationship with no sex. I want it to change. I need advice. What do I do?** EDIT: I have tried talking to her about it, but she always shrugs it off. She knows it both

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months into my first relationship and I'm not sure if I'm in love with my boyfriend. I've never felt this way about anyone. Should I be concerned? Should I keep seeing him? What do I do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So, I've been seeing my boyfriend for 3 months, and I almost said "I love you" to him last time I was with him. We were laying in bed talking and he made a joke about no one loving him. I almost blurted out "but I love you". I've never been in love with a guy. He's my first bf and I have no clue if love is what I'm feeling. I've been infatuated with plenty of guys, but I never almost blurted out I love you to any of them or even thought of the idea of loving them. This guy is different. I feel so comfortable around him, he makes an effort, and treats me very well. ### Response: 3 months into relationship, not sure if I'm in love with bf, never been in love with a guy before. Need advice. Please help! :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16/m and 16/f have been in a relationship for a few months. She has broken it off three times. What do I do? Can it be saved? What does it mean? Help please. :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: As stated in the title, me [16/m] and my girlfriend [16/f] have been in a sort of on and off relationship for a bit under six months. She has broken it off a total of three times now. The first time, she said she was having problems and wouldn't really let me in on them. This lasted for about three weeks. We proceeded to get back together and then she broke it off for a second time, stating that she thought she fixed her problems, but she hadn't. This lasted for about a week and then we got back together for about two weeks. Just a few days ago, she called me up after a date, stating that she didn't love me anymore and just wanted to be friends. We had both said "I love you" to each other and showed many signs of affection multiple times on that same date. I'm incredibly confused. I don't really get whats up and if there is any chance of saving this relationship I'd love to know how to. I understand that we are quite young, this one just feels way different than any relationship I have ever been in before. I'd prefer it stay in my life. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend broke up with me for the third time in a row. I'm confused and would like to know what to do. I'd prefer it stay in my life. Help please. :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 y/o male realising the chemistry isn't there for me after 4 dates with a girl (22) from okcupid, should i continue to see her even though she likes me alot or

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Trying to keep this short, also apologies for spelling as this is all off my poor Nokia phone! Basically, I (18) met a girl on okcupid (22) . I have been on 4 dates with this girl and we got on great from the start and by the second date were acting as if we were a couple almost, the hand holding, kissing, cuddling etc. The problem is I have recently realised as much as i do like this girl the chemistry isn't there for me. Im not how i have been in previous relationships where at the beginning i cant stop thinking about them, or i skip a beat when her name appears on my phone ect. Now, i can tell this girl likes me alot and she has said so herself, and i worry that by continuing to see her (even though i do enjoy it and want to continue) , i may be misleading or leading her on as she may continue to like me more whereas i dont see my feelings increasing for her and i feel maybe i am simply continuing to see her as i don't have a lot of friends due to moving house alot, and i like having somebody to spend my weekends with. So is it wrong or if were both having fun should i let it continue? ### Response: 18 y/o not sure how to stop seeing a girl who likes me alot but the chemistry isn't there. Is it wrong to continue seeing her? Should i tell her? How can i do it?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: gf going on trip with single friend, I am afraid that she will be drawn into the hookup environment and will not be able to control herself. What should I do? Are these thoughts irrational? What should I do?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my gf goes on trips with her married friends, I am not worried much because they most likely to pursue low energy activities. However, this is the first time my gf is going with a single friend and this girl loves to mess around. She will definitely want to go to a bar or a local club to hook up and I am afraid that my gf will be drawn into this environment, especially when she is drunk, she becomes uncontrollable and does not remember anything the day after (even when getting drunk with me). What else is she going to do? Just sit and watch? Are these kind of thoughts irrational? What should I do? ### Response: Girlfriend is going on trip with a single friend who likes to party and hook up. I am afraid that she will be drawn into this environment and be drunk and disorderly. What should I do? Are these thoughts ir

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 3 weeks into dating a girl I am starting to like her but I am scared that she will be way more attached than I am and that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup if I don't love her

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey guys, I need some advice from you. About three weeks ago I started dating a girl knowing that I don't love her, but that I would give her a chance. I am starting to like her, but I am really unsure about how much, while I am pretty sure she is way more serious about this than I am (I feel like she is already having fantasies about a future with me). I seem to be the first guy that treats her like a real person, and I am scared that she will be overly attached to the point where she won't let me go if I couldn't handle it. I care for her and I don't wanna break her heart, but I really am scared that she will make me go through a potential horror breakup of her threatening to harm herself or me if it came to that. I simply don't know her well enough to tell. And I feel like I should tell her about my concerns but I don't know how. What should I do? ### Response: 1. Started dating a girl knowing I don't love her, but starting to like her. Afraid she will make me go through a potential horror breakup if I don't handle it. 2. Don'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 16 year old girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has faded. She is coming back soon, and I feel attracted to another girl. I do not know what to do. I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So she and I have been together since we were 13, and she moved away a while ago. We have been in a long distance relationship for a while but it has began to fade. She already broke up with me a few months ago, but I managed to win her back. She visits only every few months. She will be coming back soon, but I find myself attracted to another girl who I have never even spoken to before. My current girlfriend is great but we barely see each other and she says that her love fades everytime she goes back. We talk every day and she likes all the things I do. I do not know if I am looking for some excuse to end the relationship before her just so I can pursue this other girl (who I have not even talked to yet). So the attraction is superficial to say the least, but I have a deep feeling that if it was not for my morals and conscience, I would have already tried to contact and talk with her. I am stuck. I cannot make an objective decision because if I try to justify our fading relationship it feels like an excuse to try and go pursue this other girl. It might be just a passing thing, and I do not know what to do. ### Response: 15 year relationship with girl, she is coming back soon but I am attracted to another girl. I do not know if I should end the relationship before pursuing her or not. I feel like I am trying to justify it.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after break up with ex, found new girl, lost virginity to her, but beginning to not trust her. Need advice on how to move on and trust her. Help pls!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Ok, 2 months ago I got out of a serious 9 month relationship with a girl I loved and would do anything for and it ended poorly. She broke up with me so she could party and experience other guys and blah blah and for the month after we continued to talk and even discussed being friends with benefits, I eventually saw that she was no longer the girl I had fallen in love with and we had a fight (I called her a whore) and I moved on. I found this new girl and she is amazing. She is funny, sassy, and beautiful and we have been dating for a month and last night I lost my virginity to her but already I am beginning to not trust her. Not because she is not trustworthy but because my ex fucked with me so much I find it hard to trust anyone now (I have ended a few friendships because I was worried they are/were spying on me). I really like this girl and want it to work. ### Response: 2 months after getting out of a serious relationship I lost my virginity to a new girl I really like but I am starting to not trust her. What do I do? How do I fix this? Is it possible to fix?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 10 days before trip, didn't check immigration requirements. Had to pay more than $200 for a visa that didn't arrive. Had to book the next flight on standby. Double curses. Le

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: This happened today. If you didn't know, you need a letter of approval/visa to travel to Vietnam. This can be done easily by any one of the search results from Google. I knew that and paid for my visa well in advance. Got my confirmation email and didn't think twice about it until a couple days before my trip. I went back to my inbox to print out the letter, but it wasn't there. Searched. Nothing. Went through all my email accounts. Nothing. Curses. I emailed the company and tried to Skype them two days before. No replies. Panic mode. I went to another website that offers expedited visas and paid. My letter should've arrived with enough time for me to board. Nope. I emailed the company and they at least got back to me in a timely matter with bad news. Immigration had a meeting so I would get it later. Double curses. I did eventually get my visa and booked the next flight (on standby). ### Response: 10 minutes before leaving for airport for trip, didn't receive visa approval letter. Tried multiple companies and got nothing. Had to book another flight. Bad times. :( Just wanted to share my experience. Learned a

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 2 year off and on relationship ended. I know it was the right decision. How do I move forward? Thanks.** EDIT: Thanks for all the advice. I really appreciate it. I'm going to try and see her

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I finally worked up the courage to break up with my long time girlfriend. We have been on and off for a good portion of three years and she is the only person who I have ever had a real relationship with. Recently she has been hanging out solely with her no life stoner friends and there influence had become evident. Nothing that happened was her fault and she was taking no responsibility for anything ie going to a rave instead of buying a new laptop that she needs for school. I had known it was not going to work out for the last few months but recently she blew up at me for a minuscule thing that is somewhat out of my control. So today I finally sat down with her and ended it. It was difficult to do and I'm not really sure how to move forward considering I have to see her weekly but I know this was the right decision. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest and taking the time to read. ### Response: 2 year off and on relationship ended. I know I made the right decision. How do I move forward? I have to see her weekly. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. =) PS: I know this is not the

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he's in a lot of pain but I don't want to say goodbye too soon, advice please? EDIT: I'm sorry for the wall of

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I need advice on the situation and I figured people in this sub reddit may have already had to make a similar choice or can help me with mine. I have a long hair Persian cat and he is 13 years old, I've had him all these 13 years he was my 4th birthday present. The past week he's been doing nothing but sleep for nearly the whole day, he'll only get up for water every 8hours and he is no longer eating. I took him to the Vet and they ran some blood tests and scans and it turns out he has kidney failure, the final stages of it so theres no 'cure'. The vet said she was amazed at my cats attitude as he is still purring happily but with his current state of kidneys he must be in a lot of pain. Obviously I don't want him to suffer but I don't want to say goodbye too early, advice please? ### Response: 13 year old cat has kidney failure, vet says he is in a lot of pain and I don't want to say goodbye too soon, what do I do?** EDIT: I'm in the UK

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female with trouble opening finger. I think it might be trigger finger. Should I bring it up to my doctor? Any thoughts on what it might be? Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks! :) :) :) :) :)

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hey, /r/askdocs I've had this small problem for a while. I have trouble opening my fingers after making a fist. I'm a 20 year old female. I never paid much attention to it as it doesn't happen very often. I can't say whether it occurs in both hands as I never gave it much thought. I squeeze my hand, as of now my left, and when I try to open it, it slowly opens. I have no pain or tingling, but I have this week feeling though, and it mainly occurs in my middle finger. I looked up trigger finger already not sure it applies as I have no pain. Just wanted some thoughts on what it might be and whether I should bring it up to my doctor. ### Response: 20 year old female having trouble opening her fingers. Not sure if it's a trigger finger or something else. Need thoughts on what it might be. Bring it up to doctor? Thanks. I appreciate any help. :) I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 19F sister is seeing 40M friend of my father. She says she loves him, he says he loves her. What do I do? Should I tell my father? Should I tell her to stop? What

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last week my sister came home after going to her friends way too late. I asked about it, and she went to this guy who is a friend of my father. We also know him a little, and he is a good guy, not someone who would abuse her. She didn't tell my parents, though, but my father suspected something. By the time I'm writing this the following has happened: She went to him twice, lying to my parents where she went. I talked to her, and she says she is in love with him. And vice versa. She also said they were going to tell my father some day. I told my sister I wasn't sure a relationship with him would be a good idea, because of the age difference. Now, are my concerns merely social stigma, or should I do something? Should I tell my father, should I tell my sister she should stop seeing him because it's not right? ### Response: 16 year old sister is seeing a 40+ year old friend of my father. She says she loves him, and he says he loves her. What do I do? I'm not sure if it'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs are bored all the time when I visit, I want to keep them happy and playful for as long as I can. Any ideas for games? Any other suggestions? Any help is appreciated! Thank you

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The quick rundown is that I don't live with my two dogs anymore so I have to make the most of the time that I see them. When I visit, they get really excited for a few hours while I run around and play with them. After a bit, they seem to get really bored and become super depressed. The following days they just mope around bored and depressed -- they already know I'm around, it's not exciting anymore, they're just bored. They don't even play with each other. Occasionally I invent new games for them to play and it's pretty amazing. I played the shell game with my older dog (his name is dante) and it was like he came alive for the first time. After a few hours he was cheery straight through the next day, but after a few repeat games he got bored of that too. I see them so rarely, I want to be able to keep them happy whenever I do show up. Does anyone know of some unusual dog games? ### Response: 2 dogs are bored all the time when I visit, I want to make them happy and give them something to do. What are some unusual games I can play with them? Any suggestions? Thanks! EDIT: I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship with boyfriend, we don't talk much anymore, should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Help pls. :( :( :( :( :( :(

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: When my so and I started dating, we talked constantly every day and saw each other 3-4 days per week. Within these past two weeks, I feel like I have to start conversations with him or else he won't even text or call me. And I see him once a week now. Granted, he doesn't have a car so he can't visit me right now, and I understand that aspect, it just doesn't seem like he wants me around. He tells me he is thinking about us moving in together, but how are we supposed to do that when we don't really communicate at all anymore? I have talked to him before about the distance I feel from us not talking but ask he says is sorry and doesn't really change. Should I be worried? Should I even stay if he can't give me the time of day anymore? Blaghughughughagh. I need advice as to how to handle this. ### Response: 2 years relationship with boyfriend, not talking to each other much anymore, he doesn't want to move in with me, should I worry? Help? Advice? Help please?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response:

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with girl who deals with depression/anxiety. Need help ending it as I feel she is toxic and controlling. Worried about her mental health. Help please!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I (30f) have a friend (25f) and we have been pretty close the last 3 years. She was my maid of honor in my wedding and we hit it off right away quickly becoming best friends. The last few months I have been noticing how incredibly toxic she is. Constantly saying she will do something and then fall through. I catch her lying and she denies it. When her love life is going well, I fall to the sidelines. When I bring things up to her that upset me she always turns it against me. She does this so often that I start to question if I really am a horrible person for being hurt that she is late, doesn't let me know she won't be able to come while I've been waiting, or being thankful enough. I need to find a way to end this relationship, but I worry as she deals with depression/anxiety (as do I) and when another friend finally called it quits she told me how she contemplated sucide. I really just need an outside perspective on this as I've been struggling for awhile. ### Response: 3 year friendship with toxic friend, need to end it but worried about how she will deal with it and if I'm a horrible person for being hurt. Help please!?!?!?!?!?!