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My brother works with carpenters. They get jobs that can last anywhere from a few days to a few months. When he works those monthly jobs he does get paid inbetween months and sends a little bit of money but not enough to pay a bill. When he gets home from one of those jobs he does have a lot of money but he never pays a bill. Instead he spends it all on a long distance girlfriend. For the few days jobs he always claims that it's not enough to put towards a bill. My sister works for above minimum wage plus commission. She claims she gets paid a little over $400 every two weeks. She refuses to let us know what she actually gets paid. She pays rent but it's usually just $90 or $100. She says she can't pay much because she has to pay for health and car insurance plus daycare. You might be thinking she's doing all she can because she has a baby, right? Well, what if I told you that this was the situation BEFORE she got pregnant? Also she helps pay her husband's rent after he kicked her out. And she refuses to sue for child support. So she's basically using all of her money to pay a deadbeat dad and won't take money from him. Me and my mother are struggling to pay bills while they eat our food, use up our heat, electricity and water. Asking for money results in them catching an attitude and (maybe) giving us a few dollars. I want to kick them out but my mother doesn't. I told her if we don't kick them out we should at least lay down a few rules.

My brother and sister are lazy and out of love with me and my mom. They're using our money to pay their deadbeat dad. We're struggling to pay bills. What should we do?

Sister doesn't pay bills and I want to kick them out. Mother is okay with it.**

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My brother works with carpenters. They get jobs that can last anywhere from a few days to a few months. When he works those monthly jobs he does get paid inbetween months and sends a little bit of money but not enough to pay a bill. When he gets home from one of those jobs he does have a lot of money but he never pays a bill. Instead he spends it all on a long distance girlfriend. For the few days jobs he always claims that it's not enough to put towards a bill. My sister works for above minimum wage plus commission. She claims she gets paid a little over $400 every two weeks. She refuses to let us know what she actually gets paid. She pays rent but it's usually just $90 or $100. She says she can't pay much because she has to pay for health and car insurance plus daycare. You might be thinking she's doing all she can because she has a baby, right? Well, what if I told you that this was the situation BEFORE she got pregnant? Also she helps pay her husband's rent after he kicked her out. And she refuses to sue for child support. So she's basically using all of her money to pay a deadbeat dad and won't take money from him. Me and my mother are struggling to pay bills while they eat our food, use up our heat, electricity and water. Asking for money results in them catching an attitude and (maybe) giving us a few dollars. I want to kick them out but my mother doesn't. I told her if we don't kick them out we should at least lay down a few rules. TL;DR:

My brother and sister are lazy and out of love with me and my mom. They're using our money to pay their deadbeat dad. We're struggling to pay bills. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My brother works with carpenters. They get jobs that can last anywhere from a few days to a few months. When he works those monthly jobs he does get paid inbetween months and sends a little bit of money but not enough to pay a bill. When he gets home from one of those jobs he does have a lot of money but he never pays a bill. Instead he spends it all on a long distance girlfriend. For the few days jobs he always claims that it's not enough to put towards a bill. My sister works for above minimum wage plus commission. She claims she gets paid a little over $400 every two weeks. She refuses to let us know what she actually gets paid. She pays rent but it's usually just $90 or $100. She says she can't pay much because she has to pay for health and car insurance plus daycare. You might be thinking she's doing all she can because she has a baby, right? Well, what if I told you that this was the situation BEFORE she got pregnant? Also she helps pay her husband's rent after he kicked her out. And she refuses to sue for child support. So she's basically using all of her money to pay a deadbeat dad and won't take money from him. Me and my mother are struggling to pay bills while they eat our food, use up our heat, electricity and water. Asking for money results in them catching an attitude and (maybe) giving us a few dollars. I want to kick them out but my mother doesn't. I told her if we don't kick them out we should at least lay down a few rules. TL;DR: My brother and sister are lazy and out of love with me and my mom. They're using our money to pay their deadbeat dad. We're struggling to pay bills. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My brother works with carpenters. They get jobs that can last anywhere from a few days to a few months. When he works those monthly jobs he does get paid inbetween months and sends a little bit of money but not enough to pay a bill. When he gets home from one of those jobs he does have a lot of money but he never pays a bill. Instead he spends it all on a long distance girlfriend. For the few days jobs he always claims that it's not enough to put towards a bill. My sister works for above minimum wage plus commission. She claims she gets paid a little over $400 every two weeks. She refuses to let us know what she actually gets paid. She pays rent but it's usually just $90 or $100. She says she can't pay much because she has to pay for health and car insurance plus daycare. You might be thinking she's doing all she can because she has a baby, right? Well, what if I told you that this was the situation BEFORE she got pregnant? Also she helps pay her husband's rent after he kicked her out. And she refuses to sue for child support. So she's basically using all of her money to pay a deadbeat dad and won't take money from him. Me and my mother are struggling to pay bills while they eat our food, use up our heat, electricity and water. Asking for money results in them catching an attitude and (maybe) giving us a few dollars. I want to kick them out but my mother doesn't. I told her if we don't kick them out we should at least lay down a few rules. TL;DR: Sister doesn't pay bills and I want to kick them out. Mother is okay with it.**<|endoftext|>

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I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. Aside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't.

cheated on my wife multiple times and want to stop. Where do I go from here?

I've cheated on my wife but want to stop. Don't know what to do.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. Aside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't. TL;DR:

cheated on my wife multiple times and want to stop. Where do I go from here?<|endoftext|>

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I've cheated on my wife but want to stop. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. Aside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't. TL;DR: cheated on my wife multiple times and want to stop. Where do I go from here?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've cheated numerous times over the course of our relationship. First was a friend that I was close with. Second was a one nighter and this most recent has been more like a relationship. I'm more worried about this last one and the potential impact on my wife. Myself and the other woman are both married with a kid and understand each other's situation. But yet we don't stop. We have tried I call it off numerous times but it hasn't worked out. Aside from going to therapy, idk where to go from here. I want the cheating to end but I find myself falling back in the similar routine, making crappy excuses and focusing on things that I shouldn't. TL;DR: I've cheated on my wife but want to stop. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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I would used to say it'd be bound to crash and burn. I'm still only a kid, I'm 17, and fit into the group I said shouldn't worry about relationships. Well, that's changed. There's this girl I **really** like, and I already know she likes me to. No, she hasn't SAID so, yet, but it's the way she acts and what everyone is saying. I'm extremely good at reading body language, for example, and everyone has thought for the past month or two we've been dating. The problem is, though...we're both new to this, and we both have poor social lives. I finally got the courage to tell her last Thursday that I like her. She got too nervous to say anything, and I left. Friday I asked if she'd want to talk about it next week, when she got back to town, since she was leaving for the weekend. She tried to hide a smile and said "I don't know, maybe." Today, following the advice of a school social worker that has pulled us each aside more than once and asked if we liked the other (an observation she made :P), I told the girl that, since she's nervous and afraid, to not worry, and that I won't pry, and to say something when she feels more comfortable. I don't know what else to do, really, and we don't see each other at school very much, pretty much only lunch... I've had trouble sleeping a few nights because I can't stop *thinking* about her, especially last night. I don't think I slept at all last night, I was so nervous and anxious.

I like a girl, I'm really nervous about it, and I don't want to ruin it. What should I do?

What should I say/do? Should I just wait, now, and see if she'll get the courage to say something? She seems almost deathly afraid to talk about it, she gets *so* nervous...

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I would used to say it'd be bound to crash and burn. I'm still only a kid, I'm 17, and fit into the group I said shouldn't worry about relationships. Well, that's changed. There's this girl I **really** like, and I already know she likes me to. No, she hasn't SAID so, yet, but it's the way she acts and what everyone is saying. I'm extremely good at reading body language, for example, and everyone has thought for the past month or two we've been dating. The problem is, though...we're both new to this, and we both have poor social lives. I finally got the courage to tell her last Thursday that I like her. She got too nervous to say anything, and I left. Friday I asked if she'd want to talk about it next week, when she got back to town, since she was leaving for the weekend. She tried to hide a smile and said "I don't know, maybe." Today, following the advice of a school social worker that has pulled us each aside more than once and asked if we liked the other (an observation she made :P), I told the girl that, since she's nervous and afraid, to not worry, and that I won't pry, and to say something when she feels more comfortable. I don't know what else to do, really, and we don't see each other at school very much, pretty much only lunch... I've had trouble sleeping a few nights because I can't stop *thinking* about her, especially last night. I don't think I slept at all last night, I was so nervous and anxious. TL;DR:

I like a girl, I'm really nervous about it, and I don't want to ruin it. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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What should I say/do? Should I just wait, now, and see if she'll get the courage to say something? She seems almost deathly afraid to talk about it, she gets *so* nervous...<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I would used to say it'd be bound to crash and burn. I'm still only a kid, I'm 17, and fit into the group I said shouldn't worry about relationships. Well, that's changed. There's this girl I **really** like, and I already know she likes me to. No, she hasn't SAID so, yet, but it's the way she acts and what everyone is saying. I'm extremely good at reading body language, for example, and everyone has thought for the past month or two we've been dating. The problem is, though...we're both new to this, and we both have poor social lives. I finally got the courage to tell her last Thursday that I like her. She got too nervous to say anything, and I left. Friday I asked if she'd want to talk about it next week, when she got back to town, since she was leaving for the weekend. She tried to hide a smile and said "I don't know, maybe." Today, following the advice of a school social worker that has pulled us each aside more than once and asked if we liked the other (an observation she made :P), I told the girl that, since she's nervous and afraid, to not worry, and that I won't pry, and to say something when she feels more comfortable. I don't know what else to do, really, and we don't see each other at school very much, pretty much only lunch... I've had trouble sleeping a few nights because I can't stop *thinking* about her, especially last night. I don't think I slept at all last night, I was so nervous and anxious. TL;DR: I like a girl, I'm really nervous about it, and I don't want to ruin it. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I would used to say it'd be bound to crash and burn. I'm still only a kid, I'm 17, and fit into the group I said shouldn't worry about relationships. Well, that's changed. There's this girl I **really** like, and I already know she likes me to. No, she hasn't SAID so, yet, but it's the way she acts and what everyone is saying. I'm extremely good at reading body language, for example, and everyone has thought for the past month or two we've been dating. The problem is, though...we're both new to this, and we both have poor social lives. I finally got the courage to tell her last Thursday that I like her. She got too nervous to say anything, and I left. Friday I asked if she'd want to talk about it next week, when she got back to town, since she was leaving for the weekend. She tried to hide a smile and said "I don't know, maybe." Today, following the advice of a school social worker that has pulled us each aside more than once and asked if we liked the other (an observation she made :P), I told the girl that, since she's nervous and afraid, to not worry, and that I won't pry, and to say something when she feels more comfortable. I don't know what else to do, really, and we don't see each other at school very much, pretty much only lunch... I've had trouble sleeping a few nights because I can't stop *thinking* about her, especially last night. I don't think I slept at all last night, I was so nervous and anxious. TL;DR: What should I say/do? Should I just wait, now, and see if she'll get the courage to say something? She seems almost deathly afraid to talk about it, she gets *so* nervous...<|endoftext|>

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Things had been rocky for my boyfriend and I for a couple of months, but we were able to both get to a place where everything was perfect. The rockiness stemmed mostly from communication issues. I would express that his behavior hurt me and he would get mad at me for "accusing him" of things and it just led to argument after argument. I finally decided I couldn't change him and just decided to work around the fact that he wouldn't apologize or take my concerns seriously. Once I essentially "gave up," the relationship became perfect and he was communicating better and even apologizing when he hurt me. The fighting lasted July - the beginning of August and by the end of August, the relationship was amazing again. While we were fighting, I messaged a guy on Facebook to be petty and get back at my boyfriend. I never thought to delete the messages and I forgot that they were there for a while. My boyfriend discovered them earlier this week and got all of my stuff out of his apartment immediately after. He pretty much dumped me without telling me he was dumping me. I understand that he was mad and doesn't owe me an explanation, but I can't believe he is throwing away two years over Facebook messages! I have caught him saying racist things about me to his friends and he has girlfriends that he sneaks off to hang out with and I always let him explain himself. It just bothers me that he won't even give me a second chance after I've given him a million chances. What I did was wrong, but I didn't physically cheat on him and our relationship was in such a good place when he found those messages.

I hurt my boyfriend via petty social media messages after giving him a chance to apologize for his actions, and now he is throwing away two years over it. What should I do?

I hurt my boyfriend through petty behavior and he dumps me without explanation. He won't even give me a second chance. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things had been rocky for my boyfriend and I for a couple of months, but we were able to both get to a place where everything was perfect. The rockiness stemmed mostly from communication issues. I would express that his behavior hurt me and he would get mad at me for "accusing him" of things and it just led to argument after argument. I finally decided I couldn't change him and just decided to work around the fact that he wouldn't apologize or take my concerns seriously. Once I essentially "gave up," the relationship became perfect and he was communicating better and even apologizing when he hurt me. The fighting lasted July - the beginning of August and by the end of August, the relationship was amazing again. While we were fighting, I messaged a guy on Facebook to be petty and get back at my boyfriend. I never thought to delete the messages and I forgot that they were there for a while. My boyfriend discovered them earlier this week and got all of my stuff out of his apartment immediately after. He pretty much dumped me without telling me he was dumping me. I understand that he was mad and doesn't owe me an explanation, but I can't believe he is throwing away two years over Facebook messages! I have caught him saying racist things about me to his friends and he has girlfriends that he sneaks off to hang out with and I always let him explain himself. It just bothers me that he won't even give me a second chance after I've given him a million chances. What I did was wrong, but I didn't physically cheat on him and our relationship was in such a good place when he found those messages. TL;DR:

I hurt my boyfriend via petty social media messages after giving him a chance to apologize for his actions, and now he is throwing away two years over it. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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I hurt my boyfriend through petty behavior and he dumps me without explanation. He won't even give me a second chance. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things had been rocky for my boyfriend and I for a couple of months, but we were able to both get to a place where everything was perfect. The rockiness stemmed mostly from communication issues. I would express that his behavior hurt me and he would get mad at me for "accusing him" of things and it just led to argument after argument. I finally decided I couldn't change him and just decided to work around the fact that he wouldn't apologize or take my concerns seriously. Once I essentially "gave up," the relationship became perfect and he was communicating better and even apologizing when he hurt me. The fighting lasted July - the beginning of August and by the end of August, the relationship was amazing again. While we were fighting, I messaged a guy on Facebook to be petty and get back at my boyfriend. I never thought to delete the messages and I forgot that they were there for a while. My boyfriend discovered them earlier this week and got all of my stuff out of his apartment immediately after. He pretty much dumped me without telling me he was dumping me. I understand that he was mad and doesn't owe me an explanation, but I can't believe he is throwing away two years over Facebook messages! I have caught him saying racist things about me to his friends and he has girlfriends that he sneaks off to hang out with and I always let him explain himself. It just bothers me that he won't even give me a second chance after I've given him a million chances. What I did was wrong, but I didn't physically cheat on him and our relationship was in such a good place when he found those messages. TL;DR: I hurt my boyfriend via petty social media messages after giving him a chance to apologize for his actions, and now he is throwing away two years over it. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things had been rocky for my boyfriend and I for a couple of months, but we were able to both get to a place where everything was perfect. The rockiness stemmed mostly from communication issues. I would express that his behavior hurt me and he would get mad at me for "accusing him" of things and it just led to argument after argument. I finally decided I couldn't change him and just decided to work around the fact that he wouldn't apologize or take my concerns seriously. Once I essentially "gave up," the relationship became perfect and he was communicating better and even apologizing when he hurt me. The fighting lasted July - the beginning of August and by the end of August, the relationship was amazing again. While we were fighting, I messaged a guy on Facebook to be petty and get back at my boyfriend. I never thought to delete the messages and I forgot that they were there for a while. My boyfriend discovered them earlier this week and got all of my stuff out of his apartment immediately after. He pretty much dumped me without telling me he was dumping me. I understand that he was mad and doesn't owe me an explanation, but I can't believe he is throwing away two years over Facebook messages! I have caught him saying racist things about me to his friends and he has girlfriends that he sneaks off to hang out with and I always let him explain himself. It just bothers me that he won't even give me a second chance after I've given him a million chances. What I did was wrong, but I didn't physically cheat on him and our relationship was in such a good place when he found those messages. TL;DR: I hurt my boyfriend through petty behavior and he dumps me without explanation. He won't even give me a second chance. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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After college graduation, I got a job at a start-up in the tech industry. Unfortunately as you may know, many start-ups fail. After about 1.5 years working there, I was out of a job. My closest friend at that job was Beth. Beth and I decided we were going to make a team effort at finding new jobs, since we knew we were going to be applying at the same jobs anyway. We have very similar experiences and backgrounds. She and I were incredibly diligent with our job search. I can't stress this enough. I had written six unique cover letters and resumes that served as templates--they highlighted my experiences in ways that catered to the jobs I was applying. Each template had a label and a description. When I applied for a job, I would read the description, match that to whichever template was the most suited, and applied, etc. Beth did the same thing with hers. We also were incredibly diligent at editing each others resume/cover letters for spelling errors. I know that I read mine over and over and over again, since we all know grammar mistakes are the quickest way to get your job application sent to the trash. So, here's what happened. It has been six months. I've been incredibly unsuccessful at landing a job, while Beth got one almost immediately. Even though I was unemployed, Beth helped me all the time, reading over my letters, sending out recommendations on my behalf, everything. Well, guess what? Beth sabotaged me. In my cover letters, she snuck in a "you're not really reading this, fuck you" just smack dab in the middle of my letter. This was AFTER I had poured over every detail for spelling errors. Since I discovered this, I tried to confront her about it, and she has been avoiding me ever since. Is there anything I can do? I have literally applied for HUNDREDS of positions, and I'm worried that I'm just permanently blacklisted. I'm so angry and so hurt.

My friend and I applied for jobs at the same time. She sabotaged me with a "fuck you" in my cover letters. Is there anything I can do?

My friend, who was supposed to be helping me get a job, sabotaged me intentionally by sneaking in "you're not really reading this, fuck you". I haven't heard back from a single place because of this. What do I do?

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My friend and I applied for jobs at the same time. She sabotaged me with a "fuck you" in my cover letters. Is there anything I can do?<|endoftext|>

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My friend, who was supposed to be helping me get a job, sabotaged me intentionally by sneaking in "you're not really reading this, fuck you". I haven't heard back from a single place because of this. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: After college graduation, I got a job at a start-up in the tech industry. Unfortunately as you may know, many start-ups fail. After about 1.5 years working there, I was out of a job. My closest friend at that job was Beth. Beth and I decided we were going to make a team effort at finding new jobs, since we knew we were going to be applying at the same jobs anyway. We have very similar experiences and backgrounds. She and I were incredibly diligent with our job search. I can't stress this enough. I had written six unique cover letters and resumes that served as templates--they highlighted my experiences in ways that catered to the jobs I was applying. Each template had a label and a description. When I applied for a job, I would read the description, match that to whichever template was the most suited, and applied, etc. Beth did the same thing with hers. We also were incredibly diligent at editing each others resume/cover letters for spelling errors. I know that I read mine over and over and over again, since we all know grammar mistakes are the quickest way to get your job application sent to the trash. So, here's what happened. It has been six months. I've been incredibly unsuccessful at landing a job, while Beth got one almost immediately. Even though I was unemployed, Beth helped me all the time, reading over my letters, sending out recommendations on my behalf, everything. Well, guess what? Beth sabotaged me. In my cover letters, she snuck in a "you're not really reading this, fuck you" just smack dab in the middle of my letter. This was AFTER I had poured over every detail for spelling errors. Since I discovered this, I tried to confront her about it, and she has been avoiding me ever since. Is there anything I can do? I have literally applied for HUNDREDS of positions, and I'm worried that I'm just permanently blacklisted. I'm so angry and so hurt. TL;DR: My friend and I applied for jobs at the same time. She sabotaged me with a "fuck you" in my cover letters. Is there anything I can do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: After college graduation, I got a job at a start-up in the tech industry. Unfortunately as you may know, many start-ups fail. After about 1.5 years working there, I was out of a job. My closest friend at that job was Beth. Beth and I decided we were going to make a team effort at finding new jobs, since we knew we were going to be applying at the same jobs anyway. We have very similar experiences and backgrounds. She and I were incredibly diligent with our job search. I can't stress this enough. I had written six unique cover letters and resumes that served as templates--they highlighted my experiences in ways that catered to the jobs I was applying. Each template had a label and a description. When I applied for a job, I would read the description, match that to whichever template was the most suited, and applied, etc. Beth did the same thing with hers. We also were incredibly diligent at editing each others resume/cover letters for spelling errors. I know that I read mine over and over and over again, since we all know grammar mistakes are the quickest way to get your job application sent to the trash. So, here's what happened. It has been six months. I've been incredibly unsuccessful at landing a job, while Beth got one almost immediately. Even though I was unemployed, Beth helped me all the time, reading over my letters, sending out recommendations on my behalf, everything. Well, guess what? Beth sabotaged me. In my cover letters, she snuck in a "you're not really reading this, fuck you" just smack dab in the middle of my letter. This was AFTER I had poured over every detail for spelling errors. Since I discovered this, I tried to confront her about it, and she has been avoiding me ever since. Is there anything I can do? I have literally applied for HUNDREDS of positions, and I'm worried that I'm just permanently blacklisted. I'm so angry and so hurt. TL;DR: My friend, who was supposed to be helping me get a job, sabotaged me intentionally by sneaking in "you're not really reading this, fuck you". I haven't heard back from a single place because of this. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I discovered my girlfriend was (only emotionally - allegedly) cheating on me for months. I confronted her, lots of tears and talking, she seemed legitimately sorry, etc etc... I tried to forgive her and we tried to move on, but more lies surfaced - no big ones, but enough for me to give up on her. We have a close, shared circle of friends. The question is now: should I just say we separated, or should I also mention her betrayal? Part of me still loves her, cares a lot about her and thinks she should learn to be honest and tell herself when people ask - punishing her won't help things, another part of me just wants revenge and thinks that she brought it on herself and that she deserves her reputation to burn down to ground. I've never been in this position before and I honestly don't know the "right" thing to do. I feel very disoriented.

Should I tell people I broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me, or should I just tell we broke up?

GF cheated on me, I confronted her, she admitted, she didn't tell me, we broke up, I'm confused...

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I discovered my girlfriend was (only emotionally - allegedly) cheating on me for months. I confronted her, lots of tears and talking, she seemed legitimately sorry, etc etc... I tried to forgive her and we tried to move on, but more lies surfaced - no big ones, but enough for me to give up on her. We have a close, shared circle of friends. The question is now: should I just say we separated, or should I also mention her betrayal? Part of me still loves her, cares a lot about her and thinks she should learn to be honest and tell herself when people ask - punishing her won't help things, another part of me just wants revenge and thinks that she brought it on herself and that she deserves her reputation to burn down to ground. I've never been in this position before and I honestly don't know the "right" thing to do. I feel very disoriented. TL;DR:

Should I tell people I broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me, or should I just tell we broke up?<|endoftext|>

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GF cheated on me, I confronted her, she admitted, she didn't tell me, we broke up, I'm confused...<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I discovered my girlfriend was (only emotionally - allegedly) cheating on me for months. I confronted her, lots of tears and talking, she seemed legitimately sorry, etc etc... I tried to forgive her and we tried to move on, but more lies surfaced - no big ones, but enough for me to give up on her. We have a close, shared circle of friends. The question is now: should I just say we separated, or should I also mention her betrayal? Part of me still loves her, cares a lot about her and thinks she should learn to be honest and tell herself when people ask - punishing her won't help things, another part of me just wants revenge and thinks that she brought it on herself and that she deserves her reputation to burn down to ground. I've never been in this position before and I honestly don't know the "right" thing to do. I feel very disoriented. TL;DR: Should I tell people I broke up with my girlfriend because she cheated on me, or should I just tell we broke up?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I discovered my girlfriend was (only emotionally - allegedly) cheating on me for months. I confronted her, lots of tears and talking, she seemed legitimately sorry, etc etc... I tried to forgive her and we tried to move on, but more lies surfaced - no big ones, but enough for me to give up on her. We have a close, shared circle of friends. The question is now: should I just say we separated, or should I also mention her betrayal? Part of me still loves her, cares a lot about her and thinks she should learn to be honest and tell herself when people ask - punishing her won't help things, another part of me just wants revenge and thinks that she brought it on herself and that she deserves her reputation to burn down to ground. I've never been in this position before and I honestly don't know the "right" thing to do. I feel very disoriented. TL;DR: GF cheated on me, I confronted her, she admitted, she didn't tell me, we broke up, I'm confused...<|endoftext|>

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So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense.

met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.

Met girl, fall in love with her, don't know what to do

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR:

met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.<|endoftext|>

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Met girl, fall in love with her, don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR: met girl, hooked up with her, got too attached, she tried killing herself, I'm so lost.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, met this girl at the beginning of April, we hit it off, eventually go on a date, connect with her better than anyone I've ever met, we hook up a couple of times, I get too attached, she stops talking to me, only, I can't stop thinking about her. Luckily, she starts talking to me again, we start hanging out again, only it seems more serious this time. Things seems to be going well then bang, she tries to kill herself (long story, not related to me). She lives thankfully, I go and visit her in the hospital until she gets transferred to a mental health facility, where only the patients can call you, you can't call the patients. I send her letters all of the time, only I haven't heard from her in a week, and I realize I'm desperately in love with this girl. I don't know now if she even wants to be with me when she gets out. I've been drinking a lot more than I should be at this point, I've even taken up smoking just to calm my nerves. The question is, what the fuck do I do? I should say as I type this, I'm completely drunk, so hopefully this makes sense. TL;DR: Met girl, fall in love with her, don't know what to do<|endoftext|>

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Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale.

Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community

Ann Coulter doesn't deserve a place on Reddit, they chose to censor her, not to meet her expectations. This is an example of the values that Reddit has become.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR:

Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community<|endoftext|>

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Ann Coulter doesn't deserve a place on Reddit, they chose to censor her, not to meet her expectations. This is an example of the values that Reddit has become.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR: Ann Coulter's AMA was censored, not censored by the community<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Before the accusations of censorship go any further, we all have to acknowledge that downvotes are not the same thing as suppression of speech. Everything that was said in the AMA is still there, you can look it up and read it all you want. You may have to open some comments to be able to see them, but you *will* see them. No one has removed, blocked or otherwise prevented you from seeing them, and unless Coulter deletes them herself, they will remain there as long as Reddit exists. *"But they downvoted her to oblivion!"* Yes they did, and by doing so stated clearly and decisively that a platform for her to get more attention was not contributing to the community dialogue or discussion. The only thing she was deprived of was a spot on the frontpage. *"So if you disagree with someone they should just be downvoted?"* The fact that people disagree with her, and the fact that she did not contribute to the community discussion, are not mutually exclusive. I disagree with a lot of things Dick Cheney says, but I would upvote an AMA because that contributes something new to the community. All Ann Coulture had to offer was sarcasm, derision, and political sensationalism. I'm sure it's true that people went into the AMA knowing that, and it's very likely most of the downvotes came without even giving the AMA a chance, but that doesn't mean they were wrong. Coulter has built fame on the reputation of being hostile, divisive, and disrespectful, and Reddit decided that didn't deserve a featured spot on the front page. *"But Reddiquette..."* Reddiquette was followed, this is what it looks like on a large scale. TL;DR: Ann Coulter doesn't deserve a place on Reddit, they chose to censor her, not to meet her expectations. This is an example of the values that Reddit has become.<|endoftext|>

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Hi guys, I'm having a relationship with this girl for several months now. We are in love and everything is wonderful. The problem is that she is still technically involved in a relationship with her ex. They're having problems for something like 8 months now, and now that she found me she wants to stay with me. At the same time, the relationship with her ex lasted 12 years. He told her that if she's going to leave him for another guy that's fine for him, but in that case he will cut all the contacts with her. She said that, even if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't simply lose him after 12 years. She would like to have him in her life, even as a friend. Now she doesn't know what to do and she told me that she may get back with her ex just to keep him in her life, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that he's like a brother for her. What I'm thinking is: if she really loves me, shouldn't I be the first person in her life? I get it, they've been together for 12 years, but if now she's really in love with me, the desire to be with me should be stronger than everything. And even if the ex would be okay to stay in touch with her, should I be okay with that? I really don't know. What should I do? What should I tell her? I really don't know why you should want to stay in a realtionship without love just to keep a person in your life at all costs.

She wants to stay in a relationship with her ex, even though she doesn't love him anymore, because he's a brother to her.

She's still in a relationship with her ex, they've been together for 12 years. She wants to stay in a relationship with me, but she loves him and he loves her. She said she would stay with me just to be with him, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't just lose him.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, I'm having a relationship with this girl for several months now. We are in love and everything is wonderful. The problem is that she is still technically involved in a relationship with her ex. They're having problems for something like 8 months now, and now that she found me she wants to stay with me. At the same time, the relationship with her ex lasted 12 years. He told her that if she's going to leave him for another guy that's fine for him, but in that case he will cut all the contacts with her. She said that, even if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't simply lose him after 12 years. She would like to have him in her life, even as a friend. Now she doesn't know what to do and she told me that she may get back with her ex just to keep him in her life, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that he's like a brother for her. What I'm thinking is: if she really loves me, shouldn't I be the first person in her life? I get it, they've been together for 12 years, but if now she's really in love with me, the desire to be with me should be stronger than everything. And even if the ex would be okay to stay in touch with her, should I be okay with that? I really don't know. What should I do? What should I tell her? I really don't know why you should want to stay in a realtionship without love just to keep a person in your life at all costs. TL;DR:

She wants to stay in a relationship with her ex, even though she doesn't love him anymore, because he's a brother to her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, I'm having a relationship with this girl for several months now. We are in love and everything is wonderful. The problem is that she is still technically involved in a relationship with her ex. They're having problems for something like 8 months now, and now that she found me she wants to stay with me. At the same time, the relationship with her ex lasted 12 years. He told her that if she's going to leave him for another guy that's fine for him, but in that case he will cut all the contacts with her. She said that, even if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't simply lose him after 12 years. She would like to have him in her life, even as a friend. Now she doesn't know what to do and she told me that she may get back with her ex just to keep him in her life, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that he's like a brother for her. What I'm thinking is: if she really loves me, shouldn't I be the first person in her life? I get it, they've been together for 12 years, but if now she's really in love with me, the desire to be with me should be stronger than everything. And even if the ex would be okay to stay in touch with her, should I be okay with that? I really don't know. What should I do? What should I tell her? I really don't know why you should want to stay in a realtionship without love just to keep a person in your life at all costs. TL;DR: She wants to stay in a relationship with her ex, even though she doesn't love him anymore, because he's a brother to her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi guys, I'm having a relationship with this girl for several months now. We are in love and everything is wonderful. The problem is that she is still technically involved in a relationship with her ex. They're having problems for something like 8 months now, and now that she found me she wants to stay with me. At the same time, the relationship with her ex lasted 12 years. He told her that if she's going to leave him for another guy that's fine for him, but in that case he will cut all the contacts with her. She said that, even if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't simply lose him after 12 years. She would like to have him in her life, even as a friend. Now she doesn't know what to do and she told me that she may get back with her ex just to keep him in her life, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that he's like a brother for her. What I'm thinking is: if she really loves me, shouldn't I be the first person in her life? I get it, they've been together for 12 years, but if now she's really in love with me, the desire to be with me should be stronger than everything. And even if the ex would be okay to stay in touch with her, should I be okay with that? I really don't know. What should I do? What should I tell her? I really don't know why you should want to stay in a realtionship without love just to keep a person in your life at all costs. TL;DR: She's still in a relationship with her ex, they've been together for 12 years. She wants to stay in a relationship with me, but she loves him and he loves her. She said she would stay with me just to be with him, even if that means living a relationship without love. She says that if she doesn't love him anymore, she can't just lose him.<|endoftext|>

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The company I have been working for for the past 8 months has been doing very sketchy stuff. I know I need to get out of the situation, but I fear if I leave I will never see my money. This is the only reason I am still working for them. Here's a small list of some of the things they do: * Not paying employees for weeks at a time * Having me pay taxes and then not issuing me a w4 and claiming they will reimburse me for the taxes I payed and it will be like I was payed under the table the whole time. * The last checks they gave out they told all the employees to go to a check cashing place, not our banks, because the checks will bounce, but this way we still get money. * They knowingly working illegal immigrants. * They knowingly give out bad checks to purchase things. They are so bad with money I have to pay for gas when I drive the company truck and they reimburse me sometimes as far as 2 months later. I am fed up with it. As of right now they owe me ~$3000 from paychecks, ~$1500 in the taxes and ~$500 in gas money. It is to the point where the only reason I eat is because I have befriended a food cart and the owner fronts me the food and I pay them when I get paid. I can get them to say out loud that they haven't payed me or the other employees. I am thinking of recording it so I can press charges. What things do I need to get them to admit to so that I can press charges? Will having my time cards they haven't collected help? Will statements from other employees help? I'm really at a loss here and would appreciate any help you can give!

It's looking like I wont get paid for work I have been doing, what do I need to record/gather to be able to press charges and prove my claim?

I need to get my money from this company I work for and will not stop working for them until I do. I need to use evidence to get my wages or get them to admit to the wrong they've done.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The company I have been working for for the past 8 months has been doing very sketchy stuff. I know I need to get out of the situation, but I fear if I leave I will never see my money. This is the only reason I am still working for them. Here's a small list of some of the things they do: * Not paying employees for weeks at a time * Having me pay taxes and then not issuing me a w4 and claiming they will reimburse me for the taxes I payed and it will be like I was payed under the table the whole time. * The last checks they gave out they told all the employees to go to a check cashing place, not our banks, because the checks will bounce, but this way we still get money. * They knowingly working illegal immigrants. * They knowingly give out bad checks to purchase things. They are so bad with money I have to pay for gas when I drive the company truck and they reimburse me sometimes as far as 2 months later. I am fed up with it. As of right now they owe me ~$3000 from paychecks, ~$1500 in the taxes and ~$500 in gas money. It is to the point where the only reason I eat is because I have befriended a food cart and the owner fronts me the food and I pay them when I get paid. I can get them to say out loud that they haven't payed me or the other employees. I am thinking of recording it so I can press charges. What things do I need to get them to admit to so that I can press charges? Will having my time cards they haven't collected help? Will statements from other employees help? I'm really at a loss here and would appreciate any help you can give! TL;DR:

It's looking like I wont get paid for work I have been doing, what do I need to record/gather to be able to press charges and prove my claim?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The company I have been working for for the past 8 months has been doing very sketchy stuff. I know I need to get out of the situation, but I fear if I leave I will never see my money. This is the only reason I am still working for them. Here's a small list of some of the things they do: * Not paying employees for weeks at a time * Having me pay taxes and then not issuing me a w4 and claiming they will reimburse me for the taxes I payed and it will be like I was payed under the table the whole time. * The last checks they gave out they told all the employees to go to a check cashing place, not our banks, because the checks will bounce, but this way we still get money. * They knowingly working illegal immigrants. * They knowingly give out bad checks to purchase things. They are so bad with money I have to pay for gas when I drive the company truck and they reimburse me sometimes as far as 2 months later. I am fed up with it. As of right now they owe me ~$3000 from paychecks, ~$1500 in the taxes and ~$500 in gas money. It is to the point where the only reason I eat is because I have befriended a food cart and the owner fronts me the food and I pay them when I get paid. I can get them to say out loud that they haven't payed me or the other employees. I am thinking of recording it so I can press charges. What things do I need to get them to admit to so that I can press charges? Will having my time cards they haven't collected help? Will statements from other employees help? I'm really at a loss here and would appreciate any help you can give! TL;DR: It's looking like I wont get paid for work I have been doing, what do I need to record/gather to be able to press charges and prove my claim?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The company I have been working for for the past 8 months has been doing very sketchy stuff. I know I need to get out of the situation, but I fear if I leave I will never see my money. This is the only reason I am still working for them. Here's a small list of some of the things they do: * Not paying employees for weeks at a time * Having me pay taxes and then not issuing me a w4 and claiming they will reimburse me for the taxes I payed and it will be like I was payed under the table the whole time. * The last checks they gave out they told all the employees to go to a check cashing place, not our banks, because the checks will bounce, but this way we still get money. * They knowingly working illegal immigrants. * They knowingly give out bad checks to purchase things. They are so bad with money I have to pay for gas when I drive the company truck and they reimburse me sometimes as far as 2 months later. I am fed up with it. As of right now they owe me ~$3000 from paychecks, ~$1500 in the taxes and ~$500 in gas money. It is to the point where the only reason I eat is because I have befriended a food cart and the owner fronts me the food and I pay them when I get paid. I can get them to say out loud that they haven't payed me or the other employees. I am thinking of recording it so I can press charges. What things do I need to get them to admit to so that I can press charges? Will having my time cards they haven't collected help? Will statements from other employees help? I'm really at a loss here and would appreciate any help you can give! TL;DR: I need to get my money from this company I work for and will not stop working for them until I do. I need to use evidence to get my wages or get them to admit to the wrong they've done.<|endoftext|>

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As the title says, last night my boyfriend kissed one of his male friends at a party we were both at. I don't care if he's bisexual, but if he's dating me he shouldn't be kissing anybody else regardless of gender, but he doesn't see it that way. He described it as "lad bantz". I also have a problem with his best friend- 17F- her and I have never got on, and he told me that whenever he's friends with her he can't help but really like her (they weren't really talking when he told me this) and they have a history together- not sure exactly what as he won't elaborate. I don't mind him being best friends with a girl, as my best friend is a boy so it would be hypocritical. I'm more worried about the comment he made and the fact that he's really secretive about when he's spending time with her, to the point where he lies to me about it and I find out through other people. When I told him how I feel about their friendship- not looking for him to choose between us, I just wanted to be open about how I felt- he basically told me that I was being irrational and stupid. He also told me that when we have sex he thinks about other girls and I would have also thought that was nothing if it wasn't for the way he was acting when he told me that, like it was a really big secret and a big deal.

Boyfriend kissed another girl at a party, I'm uncomfortable with him kissing anyone else at a party. He doesn't see a problem with the fact that he likes his best friend so much.

My boyfriend kissed another man in front of me and I'm worried that he'll tell me what he did and I'll think he's lying about it. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As the title says, last night my boyfriend kissed one of his male friends at a party we were both at. I don't care if he's bisexual, but if he's dating me he shouldn't be kissing anybody else regardless of gender, but he doesn't see it that way. He described it as "lad bantz". I also have a problem with his best friend- 17F- her and I have never got on, and he told me that whenever he's friends with her he can't help but really like her (they weren't really talking when he told me this) and they have a history together- not sure exactly what as he won't elaborate. I don't mind him being best friends with a girl, as my best friend is a boy so it would be hypocritical. I'm more worried about the comment he made and the fact that he's really secretive about when he's spending time with her, to the point where he lies to me about it and I find out through other people. When I told him how I feel about their friendship- not looking for him to choose between us, I just wanted to be open about how I felt- he basically told me that I was being irrational and stupid. He also told me that when we have sex he thinks about other girls and I would have also thought that was nothing if it wasn't for the way he was acting when he told me that, like it was a really big secret and a big deal. TL;DR:

Boyfriend kissed another girl at a party, I'm uncomfortable with him kissing anyone else at a party. He doesn't see a problem with the fact that he likes his best friend so much.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend kissed another man in front of me and I'm worried that he'll tell me what he did and I'll think he's lying about it. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As the title says, last night my boyfriend kissed one of his male friends at a party we were both at. I don't care if he's bisexual, but if he's dating me he shouldn't be kissing anybody else regardless of gender, but he doesn't see it that way. He described it as "lad bantz". I also have a problem with his best friend- 17F- her and I have never got on, and he told me that whenever he's friends with her he can't help but really like her (they weren't really talking when he told me this) and they have a history together- not sure exactly what as he won't elaborate. I don't mind him being best friends with a girl, as my best friend is a boy so it would be hypocritical. I'm more worried about the comment he made and the fact that he's really secretive about when he's spending time with her, to the point where he lies to me about it and I find out through other people. When I told him how I feel about their friendship- not looking for him to choose between us, I just wanted to be open about how I felt- he basically told me that I was being irrational and stupid. He also told me that when we have sex he thinks about other girls and I would have also thought that was nothing if it wasn't for the way he was acting when he told me that, like it was a really big secret and a big deal. TL;DR: Boyfriend kissed another girl at a party, I'm uncomfortable with him kissing anyone else at a party. He doesn't see a problem with the fact that he likes his best friend so much.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As the title says, last night my boyfriend kissed one of his male friends at a party we were both at. I don't care if he's bisexual, but if he's dating me he shouldn't be kissing anybody else regardless of gender, but he doesn't see it that way. He described it as "lad bantz". I also have a problem with his best friend- 17F- her and I have never got on, and he told me that whenever he's friends with her he can't help but really like her (they weren't really talking when he told me this) and they have a history together- not sure exactly what as he won't elaborate. I don't mind him being best friends with a girl, as my best friend is a boy so it would be hypocritical. I'm more worried about the comment he made and the fact that he's really secretive about when he's spending time with her, to the point where he lies to me about it and I find out through other people. When I told him how I feel about their friendship- not looking for him to choose between us, I just wanted to be open about how I felt- he basically told me that I was being irrational and stupid. He also told me that when we have sex he thinks about other girls and I would have also thought that was nothing if it wasn't for the way he was acting when he told me that, like it was a really big secret and a big deal. TL;DR: My boyfriend kissed another man in front of me and I'm worried that he'll tell me what he did and I'll think he's lying about it. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend is in the US and I am studying abroad for a semester in the UK. We've been dating for almost 7 months, and he recently flew over to celebrate our 6th month anniversary (romantic weekend, etc). Basically he's fantastic, and I want to make Valentine's Day great for him (it's his first with a girlfriend, and our first together). I'm a student, so unfortunately I don't have tons of cash, but want to do something special. I'm traveling to Ireland this weekend, so I was thinking of picking up a Claddagh ring, but thought it might be too feminine. I'd greatly appreciate your help, guys!

Boyfriend's an ocean away and I want to make Valentine's Day epic for him. Any ideas on what to get him for valentine's day?

I need to buy some Claddagh ring for my boyfriend in the US, we just had our 6th month anniversary, and I want to make it special. I'm getting it in Ireland this weekend.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is in the US and I am studying abroad for a semester in the UK. We've been dating for almost 7 months, and he recently flew over to celebrate our 6th month anniversary (romantic weekend, etc). Basically he's fantastic, and I want to make Valentine's Day great for him (it's his first with a girlfriend, and our first together). I'm a student, so unfortunately I don't have tons of cash, but want to do something special. I'm traveling to Ireland this weekend, so I was thinking of picking up a Claddagh ring, but thought it might be too feminine. I'd greatly appreciate your help, guys! TL;DR:

Boyfriend's an ocean away and I want to make Valentine's Day epic for him. Any ideas on what to get him for valentine's day?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is in the US and I am studying abroad for a semester in the UK. We've been dating for almost 7 months, and he recently flew over to celebrate our 6th month anniversary (romantic weekend, etc). Basically he's fantastic, and I want to make Valentine's Day great for him (it's his first with a girlfriend, and our first together). I'm a student, so unfortunately I don't have tons of cash, but want to do something special. I'm traveling to Ireland this weekend, so I was thinking of picking up a Claddagh ring, but thought it might be too feminine. I'd greatly appreciate your help, guys! TL;DR: Boyfriend's an ocean away and I want to make Valentine's Day epic for him. Any ideas on what to get him for valentine's day?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend is in the US and I am studying abroad for a semester in the UK. We've been dating for almost 7 months, and he recently flew over to celebrate our 6th month anniversary (romantic weekend, etc). Basically he's fantastic, and I want to make Valentine's Day great for him (it's his first with a girlfriend, and our first together). I'm a student, so unfortunately I don't have tons of cash, but want to do something special. I'm traveling to Ireland this weekend, so I was thinking of picking up a Claddagh ring, but thought it might be too feminine. I'd greatly appreciate your help, guys! TL;DR: I need to buy some Claddagh ring for my boyfriend in the US, we just had our 6th month anniversary, and I want to make it special. I'm getting it in Ireland this weekend.<|endoftext|>

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So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life?

I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.

I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR:

I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR: I dont know how to react to a girl who likes a guy friend in a new relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm a relatively socially withdrawn college student, I spend a lot of my time alone because I find it painfully difficult to meet people and start meaningful relationships. Recently I mustered the courage to ask a girl in one of my classes out, and a few weeks later were getting along just fine hanging out a few times a week we've kissed and slept in the same bed a few times. My issue is that she has this guy friend, for the life of me I have no idea if I'm just being a jealous lonely idiot but I cant help but shake the feeling that she likes him. Last week I was hanging out with them when she sat on his lap and acted all flirty around him, later apologizing when she saw that I could not hide my disgust but today after i went to a campus event with her and told her i wont be able to see her for a few days she let slip that shes going to hang out with him tonight while I go back to my room alone. I feel soo very shitty and I dont know if i should text her or talk to her to let her know how i feel or ask her if she does like him and im wasting my time, or not say anything in fear of ruining a new relationship I really want/need in my life? TL;DR: I feel like my new girlfriend likes me, should I tell her or just ignore it? EDIT: The guy(s) friend is just a friend, i dont think its a big deal and only have one friend.<|endoftext|>

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To be brief, I'm a student/musician who has some problems it seems with maintaining romantic interests. I feel like I constantly put out but never receive much back. It's like I go through this cycle of having a person obtain a strong interest in me but lose it very quickly. I mean, they're interested enough to actively want to hang out and sleep with me for a time (Like a month or so), but they inevitably just seem to lose interest and back away. My dating history isn't exactly very much. I had two serious relationships in high school and then was seeing someone last fall. In the past year I've been diagnosed with depression and I still suffer from it pretty frequently though I'm doing better at finding coping methods to help myself. I suppose I would describe myself as sometimes being a pushover but also someone who can be extremely supportive and not make others feel uncomfortable. I've also recently given up drinking/drugs. I'm not sure if what I'm going through is just a normal experience for people my age or if I actively push people away by doing something. I don't really expect much of people and I kind of like to take things easy myself but I just feel like I'm always putting out more than I'm getting back and it inherently effects my mental health.

I feel like I push people away by being emotionally unavailable, but I don't know if that's always something that happens to people my age or if it's just something that's been a case to me recently.

I don't know how to be more receptive to romantic interests because I always put out more than I'm receiving.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To be brief, I'm a student/musician who has some problems it seems with maintaining romantic interests. I feel like I constantly put out but never receive much back. It's like I go through this cycle of having a person obtain a strong interest in me but lose it very quickly. I mean, they're interested enough to actively want to hang out and sleep with me for a time (Like a month or so), but they inevitably just seem to lose interest and back away. My dating history isn't exactly very much. I had two serious relationships in high school and then was seeing someone last fall. In the past year I've been diagnosed with depression and I still suffer from it pretty frequently though I'm doing better at finding coping methods to help myself. I suppose I would describe myself as sometimes being a pushover but also someone who can be extremely supportive and not make others feel uncomfortable. I've also recently given up drinking/drugs. I'm not sure if what I'm going through is just a normal experience for people my age or if I actively push people away by doing something. I don't really expect much of people and I kind of like to take things easy myself but I just feel like I'm always putting out more than I'm getting back and it inherently effects my mental health. TL;DR:

I feel like I push people away by being emotionally unavailable, but I don't know if that's always something that happens to people my age or if it's just something that's been a case to me recently.<|endoftext|>

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I don't know how to be more receptive to romantic interests because I always put out more than I'm receiving.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To be brief, I'm a student/musician who has some problems it seems with maintaining romantic interests. I feel like I constantly put out but never receive much back. It's like I go through this cycle of having a person obtain a strong interest in me but lose it very quickly. I mean, they're interested enough to actively want to hang out and sleep with me for a time (Like a month or so), but they inevitably just seem to lose interest and back away. My dating history isn't exactly very much. I had two serious relationships in high school and then was seeing someone last fall. In the past year I've been diagnosed with depression and I still suffer from it pretty frequently though I'm doing better at finding coping methods to help myself. I suppose I would describe myself as sometimes being a pushover but also someone who can be extremely supportive and not make others feel uncomfortable. I've also recently given up drinking/drugs. I'm not sure if what I'm going through is just a normal experience for people my age or if I actively push people away by doing something. I don't really expect much of people and I kind of like to take things easy myself but I just feel like I'm always putting out more than I'm getting back and it inherently effects my mental health. TL;DR: I feel like I push people away by being emotionally unavailable, but I don't know if that's always something that happens to people my age or if it's just something that's been a case to me recently.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To be brief, I'm a student/musician who has some problems it seems with maintaining romantic interests. I feel like I constantly put out but never receive much back. It's like I go through this cycle of having a person obtain a strong interest in me but lose it very quickly. I mean, they're interested enough to actively want to hang out and sleep with me for a time (Like a month or so), but they inevitably just seem to lose interest and back away. My dating history isn't exactly very much. I had two serious relationships in high school and then was seeing someone last fall. In the past year I've been diagnosed with depression and I still suffer from it pretty frequently though I'm doing better at finding coping methods to help myself. I suppose I would describe myself as sometimes being a pushover but also someone who can be extremely supportive and not make others feel uncomfortable. I've also recently given up drinking/drugs. I'm not sure if what I'm going through is just a normal experience for people my age or if I actively push people away by doing something. I don't really expect much of people and I kind of like to take things easy myself but I just feel like I'm always putting out more than I'm getting back and it inherently effects my mental health. TL;DR: I don't know how to be more receptive to romantic interests because I always put out more than I'm receiving.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 2nd year student in college, and I met this really pretty ginger girl. We've been getting really close, and I like her, and she seems to like me. We are always in my room with me either playing Portal or watching movies. I'd make a move, but she has a boyfriend. I don't have a problem with this guy, and I've never met him, but he sounds like a cool guy. The other night, we were watching a movie and I started to scratch her head, and she was saying how good it felt, and how she wanted me to do the same to her back. I was hesitant at first, but I did end up giving her a very long back rub which ended with us cuddling while watching the movie. I wouldn't normally feel bad about doing that, but I really like her, and I want to make a move even knowing she has a boyfriend, and this is the second time I've done something like that (my now ex cheated with her then boyfriend with me). So, Reddit, I feel like a home-wrecker and a bad person even though I think I'm a good guy (I really am a nice guy who isn't an asshole to everyone)... Am I a bad person?

Really like a girl who has boyfriends, hit on her back, cuddling, want to make a move, feel like a home wrecker or bad person?

Really like this girl, she has boyfriend, I've given her a back rub twice, wondering if I should be a bad person for doing that or not.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 2nd year student in college, and I met this really pretty ginger girl. We've been getting really close, and I like her, and she seems to like me. We are always in my room with me either playing Portal or watching movies. I'd make a move, but she has a boyfriend. I don't have a problem with this guy, and I've never met him, but he sounds like a cool guy. The other night, we were watching a movie and I started to scratch her head, and she was saying how good it felt, and how she wanted me to do the same to her back. I was hesitant at first, but I did end up giving her a very long back rub which ended with us cuddling while watching the movie. I wouldn't normally feel bad about doing that, but I really like her, and I want to make a move even knowing she has a boyfriend, and this is the second time I've done something like that (my now ex cheated with her then boyfriend with me). So, Reddit, I feel like a home-wrecker and a bad person even though I think I'm a good guy (I really am a nice guy who isn't an asshole to everyone)... Am I a bad person? TL;DR:

Really like a girl who has boyfriends, hit on her back, cuddling, want to make a move, feel like a home wrecker or bad person?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 2nd year student in college, and I met this really pretty ginger girl. We've been getting really close, and I like her, and she seems to like me. We are always in my room with me either playing Portal or watching movies. I'd make a move, but she has a boyfriend. I don't have a problem with this guy, and I've never met him, but he sounds like a cool guy. The other night, we were watching a movie and I started to scratch her head, and she was saying how good it felt, and how she wanted me to do the same to her back. I was hesitant at first, but I did end up giving her a very long back rub which ended with us cuddling while watching the movie. I wouldn't normally feel bad about doing that, but I really like her, and I want to make a move even knowing she has a boyfriend, and this is the second time I've done something like that (my now ex cheated with her then boyfriend with me). So, Reddit, I feel like a home-wrecker and a bad person even though I think I'm a good guy (I really am a nice guy who isn't an asshole to everyone)... Am I a bad person? TL;DR: Really like a girl who has boyfriends, hit on her back, cuddling, want to make a move, feel like a home wrecker or bad person?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 2nd year student in college, and I met this really pretty ginger girl. We've been getting really close, and I like her, and she seems to like me. We are always in my room with me either playing Portal or watching movies. I'd make a move, but she has a boyfriend. I don't have a problem with this guy, and I've never met him, but he sounds like a cool guy. The other night, we were watching a movie and I started to scratch her head, and she was saying how good it felt, and how she wanted me to do the same to her back. I was hesitant at first, but I did end up giving her a very long back rub which ended with us cuddling while watching the movie. I wouldn't normally feel bad about doing that, but I really like her, and I want to make a move even knowing she has a boyfriend, and this is the second time I've done something like that (my now ex cheated with her then boyfriend with me). So, Reddit, I feel like a home-wrecker and a bad person even though I think I'm a good guy (I really am a nice guy who isn't an asshole to everyone)... Am I a bad person? TL;DR: Really like this girl, she has boyfriend, I've given her a back rub twice, wondering if I should be a bad person for doing that or not.<|endoftext|>

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Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and I just graduated high school this year. She still has two years to go but after that we have no idea what we are going to do. She wants to leave the state we are in because she hates it here, (Florida) and would want to go to a different state for college, if she can. I personally don't really care where I go for college because I'm staying in florida for the two years to get my AA anyway and transfer to a four year college. Everything has been fine, we don't usually fight very often and we communicate whenever we do have a problem with each other. Yesterday though, I was talking to her and she had told me that she doesn't expect anything from the relationship we have, and that shes not sure if she should have faith in it lasting. Hearing that honestly just made my heart hurt. She says she loves me and she wants me to stay in her life and will try in this relationship and she just wants to enjoy me while she still can, but she doesn't know if she should have faith. When I asked her why she said something like "only 10% of high school relationships turn into marriage and sometimes the marriages don't last." I'm honestly very attached to her as is right now so I honestly don't know how to handle that. She was very apologetic (she noticed it obviously made me pretty sad) and everything ad we made up but it still just bugs me. I don't know what to do. If she has no faith in us lasting, what's the point in even going on then? This is also my first relationship so yeah.

Girlfriend of 8 months doesn't seem to have faith we will last, says she loves me and wants to enjoy me while she still can, not sure if I should try to salvage the relationship.

Girlfriend of 8 months says she doesn't know if she should have faith in our relationship because of past experiences. Need advice on how to cope.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and I just graduated high school this year. She still has two years to go but after that we have no idea what we are going to do. She wants to leave the state we are in because she hates it here, (Florida) and would want to go to a different state for college, if she can. I personally don't really care where I go for college because I'm staying in florida for the two years to get my AA anyway and transfer to a four year college. Everything has been fine, we don't usually fight very often and we communicate whenever we do have a problem with each other. Yesterday though, I was talking to her and she had told me that she doesn't expect anything from the relationship we have, and that shes not sure if she should have faith in it lasting. Hearing that honestly just made my heart hurt. She says she loves me and she wants me to stay in her life and will try in this relationship and she just wants to enjoy me while she still can, but she doesn't know if she should have faith. When I asked her why she said something like "only 10% of high school relationships turn into marriage and sometimes the marriages don't last." I'm honestly very attached to her as is right now so I honestly don't know how to handle that. She was very apologetic (she noticed it obviously made me pretty sad) and everything ad we made up but it still just bugs me. I don't know what to do. If she has no faith in us lasting, what's the point in even going on then? This is also my first relationship so yeah. TL;DR:

Girlfriend of 8 months doesn't seem to have faith we will last, says she loves me and wants to enjoy me while she still can, not sure if I should try to salvage the relationship.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend of 8 months says she doesn't know if she should have faith in our relationship because of past experiences. Need advice on how to cope.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and I just graduated high school this year. She still has two years to go but after that we have no idea what we are going to do. She wants to leave the state we are in because she hates it here, (Florida) and would want to go to a different state for college, if she can. I personally don't really care where I go for college because I'm staying in florida for the two years to get my AA anyway and transfer to a four year college. Everything has been fine, we don't usually fight very often and we communicate whenever we do have a problem with each other. Yesterday though, I was talking to her and she had told me that she doesn't expect anything from the relationship we have, and that shes not sure if she should have faith in it lasting. Hearing that honestly just made my heart hurt. She says she loves me and she wants me to stay in her life and will try in this relationship and she just wants to enjoy me while she still can, but she doesn't know if she should have faith. When I asked her why she said something like "only 10% of high school relationships turn into marriage and sometimes the marriages don't last." I'm honestly very attached to her as is right now so I honestly don't know how to handle that. She was very apologetic (she noticed it obviously made me pretty sad) and everything ad we made up but it still just bugs me. I don't know what to do. If she has no faith in us lasting, what's the point in even going on then? This is also my first relationship so yeah. TL;DR: Girlfriend of 8 months doesn't seem to have faith we will last, says she loves me and wants to enjoy me while she still can, not sure if I should try to salvage the relationship.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now and I just graduated high school this year. She still has two years to go but after that we have no idea what we are going to do. She wants to leave the state we are in because she hates it here, (Florida) and would want to go to a different state for college, if she can. I personally don't really care where I go for college because I'm staying in florida for the two years to get my AA anyway and transfer to a four year college. Everything has been fine, we don't usually fight very often and we communicate whenever we do have a problem with each other. Yesterday though, I was talking to her and she had told me that she doesn't expect anything from the relationship we have, and that shes not sure if she should have faith in it lasting. Hearing that honestly just made my heart hurt. She says she loves me and she wants me to stay in her life and will try in this relationship and she just wants to enjoy me while she still can, but she doesn't know if she should have faith. When I asked her why she said something like "only 10% of high school relationships turn into marriage and sometimes the marriages don't last." I'm honestly very attached to her as is right now so I honestly don't know how to handle that. She was very apologetic (she noticed it obviously made me pretty sad) and everything ad we made up but it still just bugs me. I don't know what to do. If she has no faith in us lasting, what's the point in even going on then? This is also my first relationship so yeah. TL;DR: Girlfriend of 8 months says she doesn't know if she should have faith in our relationship because of past experiences. Need advice on how to cope.<|endoftext|>

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My mother and father have recently divorced over the last 2-3 years, she is filled with resentment and anger. Over the weekend my fiancee and I got engaged and we have already started talking to the family about venues and engagement parties to be held when we are back in town. My mother is refusing to attend any events where my father and his family will be present. She will not even address the situation with me. I suggested we hold the wedding at our family cottage and she told me neither her nor her extended family would attend should we choose to hold it there, because it's his property (which used to be her cottage as well). Since she refuses to attend parties where him or his family is present we can no longer use a venue that is free, and we will have to organize multiple engagement parties. Is it fair that we have to accommodate her? If we don't accommodate her she has made herself clear she will not be having any part in our wedding, which sounds like the nail in the coffin between mine and my mothers relationship. I feel hurt that this is mine and my fiancees "big event" and she will not consider attending any events where my fathers family is present.

Mother refuses to attend any engagement parties or wedding events where my fathers family will be present. Mother is now refusing to consider the possibility of a wedding at our family cottage, due to the presence of my father.

My mother refuses to take part in any events where my father and his family will be present. She does not want to talk to me about it and I'm upset she won't participate.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mother and father have recently divorced over the last 2-3 years, she is filled with resentment and anger. Over the weekend my fiancee and I got engaged and we have already started talking to the family about venues and engagement parties to be held when we are back in town. My mother is refusing to attend any events where my father and his family will be present. She will not even address the situation with me. I suggested we hold the wedding at our family cottage and she told me neither her nor her extended family would attend should we choose to hold it there, because it's his property (which used to be her cottage as well). Since she refuses to attend parties where him or his family is present we can no longer use a venue that is free, and we will have to organize multiple engagement parties. Is it fair that we have to accommodate her? If we don't accommodate her she has made herself clear she will not be having any part in our wedding, which sounds like the nail in the coffin between mine and my mothers relationship. I feel hurt that this is mine and my fiancees "big event" and she will not consider attending any events where my fathers family is present. TL;DR:

Mother refuses to attend any engagement parties or wedding events where my fathers family will be present. Mother is now refusing to consider the possibility of a wedding at our family cottage, due to the presence of my father.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mother and father have recently divorced over the last 2-3 years, she is filled with resentment and anger. Over the weekend my fiancee and I got engaged and we have already started talking to the family about venues and engagement parties to be held when we are back in town. My mother is refusing to attend any events where my father and his family will be present. She will not even address the situation with me. I suggested we hold the wedding at our family cottage and she told me neither her nor her extended family would attend should we choose to hold it there, because it's his property (which used to be her cottage as well). Since she refuses to attend parties where him or his family is present we can no longer use a venue that is free, and we will have to organize multiple engagement parties. Is it fair that we have to accommodate her? If we don't accommodate her she has made herself clear she will not be having any part in our wedding, which sounds like the nail in the coffin between mine and my mothers relationship. I feel hurt that this is mine and my fiancees "big event" and she will not consider attending any events where my fathers family is present. TL;DR: Mother refuses to attend any engagement parties or wedding events where my fathers family will be present. Mother is now refusing to consider the possibility of a wedding at our family cottage, due to the presence of my father.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mother and father have recently divorced over the last 2-3 years, she is filled with resentment and anger. Over the weekend my fiancee and I got engaged and we have already started talking to the family about venues and engagement parties to be held when we are back in town. My mother is refusing to attend any events where my father and his family will be present. She will not even address the situation with me. I suggested we hold the wedding at our family cottage and she told me neither her nor her extended family would attend should we choose to hold it there, because it's his property (which used to be her cottage as well). Since she refuses to attend parties where him or his family is present we can no longer use a venue that is free, and we will have to organize multiple engagement parties. Is it fair that we have to accommodate her? If we don't accommodate her she has made herself clear she will not be having any part in our wedding, which sounds like the nail in the coffin between mine and my mothers relationship. I feel hurt that this is mine and my fiancees "big event" and she will not consider attending any events where my fathers family is present. TL;DR: My mother refuses to take part in any events where my father and his family will be present. She does not want to talk to me about it and I'm upset she won't participate.<|endoftext|>

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My wife and I recently got our first dog together, a shih tzu-bichon mix, currently 4 months old. Potty training is going well, but she inevitably has a few slip-ups now and then. My in-laws always tell me I should rub her nose in it and scold her so she knows not to do it. I always think this sounds cruel and ignorant to do. And I know most trainers, as well as the majority of this subreddit, says that dogs don't think that way. The dog doesn't connect the punishment to the accident, and all that's happening is they are learning to fear you. But my in-laws' dog virtually NEVER has accidents. The few times it does, you can tell it feels really bad. It seems like their dog did make the connection between the punishment and the accidents. I'm not considering using this method, but my mother-in-law brings it up all the time, so I just would like more information.

What is your rebuttal to the claim, "Negative reinforcement for housebreaking worked great for me!"

My in-laws' dog almost always has accidents. Is this a big reason for them to choose to rub their dog's nose in house accidents with scolding?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I recently got our first dog together, a shih tzu-bichon mix, currently 4 months old. Potty training is going well, but she inevitably has a few slip-ups now and then. My in-laws always tell me I should rub her nose in it and scold her so she knows not to do it. I always think this sounds cruel and ignorant to do. And I know most trainers, as well as the majority of this subreddit, says that dogs don't think that way. The dog doesn't connect the punishment to the accident, and all that's happening is they are learning to fear you. But my in-laws' dog virtually NEVER has accidents. The few times it does, you can tell it feels really bad. It seems like their dog did make the connection between the punishment and the accidents. I'm not considering using this method, but my mother-in-law brings it up all the time, so I just would like more information. TL;DR:

What is your rebuttal to the claim, "Negative reinforcement for housebreaking worked great for me!"<|endoftext|>

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My in-laws' dog almost always has accidents. Is this a big reason for them to choose to rub their dog's nose in house accidents with scolding?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I recently got our first dog together, a shih tzu-bichon mix, currently 4 months old. Potty training is going well, but she inevitably has a few slip-ups now and then. My in-laws always tell me I should rub her nose in it and scold her so she knows not to do it. I always think this sounds cruel and ignorant to do. And I know most trainers, as well as the majority of this subreddit, says that dogs don't think that way. The dog doesn't connect the punishment to the accident, and all that's happening is they are learning to fear you. But my in-laws' dog virtually NEVER has accidents. The few times it does, you can tell it feels really bad. It seems like their dog did make the connection between the punishment and the accidents. I'm not considering using this method, but my mother-in-law brings it up all the time, so I just would like more information. TL;DR: What is your rebuttal to the claim, "Negative reinforcement for housebreaking worked great for me!"<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I recently got our first dog together, a shih tzu-bichon mix, currently 4 months old. Potty training is going well, but she inevitably has a few slip-ups now and then. My in-laws always tell me I should rub her nose in it and scold her so she knows not to do it. I always think this sounds cruel and ignorant to do. And I know most trainers, as well as the majority of this subreddit, says that dogs don't think that way. The dog doesn't connect the punishment to the accident, and all that's happening is they are learning to fear you. But my in-laws' dog virtually NEVER has accidents. The few times it does, you can tell it feels really bad. It seems like their dog did make the connection between the punishment and the accidents. I'm not considering using this method, but my mother-in-law brings it up all the time, so I just would like more information. TL;DR: My in-laws' dog almost always has accidents. Is this a big reason for them to choose to rub their dog's nose in house accidents with scolding?<|endoftext|>

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Hi all. My girlfriend has been training to be a teacher for the last few years. She's now within the very last month of placement, but she's struggling. Admittedly, she's not the most organised person and gets hugely emotionally invested in situations without thinking through them rationally. She also suffers from depression. I am a hard worker, but have always been very lucky with my career. I've never really had to deal with heavy failure myself, although I would say I am someone who can understand other people's perspectives well. Last night she confessed she fears she may fail and that this would be the "end of her life". I expressed that there were many people in life (citing examples of both people I know and celebrities) who still manage to find jobs and build careers without certification (I am one of them; I never went to college) and that just because you may not do the job you initially looked to do, it didn't mean you had no options (Again, I always wanted to work in film, now I work in marketing but I'm very happy). I fear she may go into a serious slump and hurt herself if she feels any more "worthless". She escapes her stresses by going out at any opportunity to party and socialize, despite her huge workload. She does have a counsellor, but I doubt she opens up to them as much as she does to me. I'm good at giving her lots of positive reinforcement, being there for her and helping her with these feelings, but if she fails - I fear it will be too much for even me to handle. What do I do, Reddit?

My girlfriend is in the last month of placement, she may fail to get the job she's looking for - what can I do to help her through the next few months?

My Girlfriend has a huge amount of potential, but she may not be up to the task and may lose her job. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all. My girlfriend has been training to be a teacher for the last few years. She's now within the very last month of placement, but she's struggling. Admittedly, she's not the most organised person and gets hugely emotionally invested in situations without thinking through them rationally. She also suffers from depression. I am a hard worker, but have always been very lucky with my career. I've never really had to deal with heavy failure myself, although I would say I am someone who can understand other people's perspectives well. Last night she confessed she fears she may fail and that this would be the "end of her life". I expressed that there were many people in life (citing examples of both people I know and celebrities) who still manage to find jobs and build careers without certification (I am one of them; I never went to college) and that just because you may not do the job you initially looked to do, it didn't mean you had no options (Again, I always wanted to work in film, now I work in marketing but I'm very happy). I fear she may go into a serious slump and hurt herself if she feels any more "worthless". She escapes her stresses by going out at any opportunity to party and socialize, despite her huge workload. She does have a counsellor, but I doubt she opens up to them as much as she does to me. I'm good at giving her lots of positive reinforcement, being there for her and helping her with these feelings, but if she fails - I fear it will be too much for even me to handle. What do I do, Reddit? TL;DR:

My girlfriend is in the last month of placement, she may fail to get the job she's looking for - what can I do to help her through the next few months?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all. My girlfriend has been training to be a teacher for the last few years. She's now within the very last month of placement, but she's struggling. Admittedly, she's not the most organised person and gets hugely emotionally invested in situations without thinking through them rationally. She also suffers from depression. I am a hard worker, but have always been very lucky with my career. I've never really had to deal with heavy failure myself, although I would say I am someone who can understand other people's perspectives well. Last night she confessed she fears she may fail and that this would be the "end of her life". I expressed that there were many people in life (citing examples of both people I know and celebrities) who still manage to find jobs and build careers without certification (I am one of them; I never went to college) and that just because you may not do the job you initially looked to do, it didn't mean you had no options (Again, I always wanted to work in film, now I work in marketing but I'm very happy). I fear she may go into a serious slump and hurt herself if she feels any more "worthless". She escapes her stresses by going out at any opportunity to party and socialize, despite her huge workload. She does have a counsellor, but I doubt she opens up to them as much as she does to me. I'm good at giving her lots of positive reinforcement, being there for her and helping her with these feelings, but if she fails - I fear it will be too much for even me to handle. What do I do, Reddit? TL;DR: My girlfriend is in the last month of placement, she may fail to get the job she's looking for - what can I do to help her through the next few months?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all. My girlfriend has been training to be a teacher for the last few years. She's now within the very last month of placement, but she's struggling. Admittedly, she's not the most organised person and gets hugely emotionally invested in situations without thinking through them rationally. She also suffers from depression. I am a hard worker, but have always been very lucky with my career. I've never really had to deal with heavy failure myself, although I would say I am someone who can understand other people's perspectives well. Last night she confessed she fears she may fail and that this would be the "end of her life". I expressed that there were many people in life (citing examples of both people I know and celebrities) who still manage to find jobs and build careers without certification (I am one of them; I never went to college) and that just because you may not do the job you initially looked to do, it didn't mean you had no options (Again, I always wanted to work in film, now I work in marketing but I'm very happy). I fear she may go into a serious slump and hurt herself if she feels any more "worthless". She escapes her stresses by going out at any opportunity to party and socialize, despite her huge workload. She does have a counsellor, but I doubt she opens up to them as much as she does to me. I'm good at giving her lots of positive reinforcement, being there for her and helping her with these feelings, but if she fails - I fear it will be too much for even me to handle. What do I do, Reddit? TL;DR: My Girlfriend has a huge amount of potential, but she may not be up to the task and may lose her job. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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The text posted was this "‎***URGENT*** We are at situation critical here friends. We aren’t doing a paws out the door this week; there have been only a couple of adoptions but again we have been absolutely slammed with dumpings and surrenders. In 1 day alone we had 17 dogs come in…we have not gone a day without getting a dog in for over a week. Despite begging people to please understand and be patient, their need to get rid of their animal is obviously so much more important than the fact we have nowhere to put them as they are waiting until the Boss has gone in the house and either dumping them out the front or chaining them to the fence…I think at the last count the Boss had about 20-odd dogs living in the house with her purely because every single kennel is full and many are doubled up. You may notice that we haven’t uploaded any new photos in a while? Well that is because there are SOOOOOOOOO many dogs that our first priority has to be taking care of their primary needs; time for taking photos is a luxury we simply don’t have right now but rest assured our numbers have doubled, the adoptions are down and if you like what we do and what us to keep doing it then we seriously, genuinely need help to find homes. We have about half a dozen new residents to list tonight and will also be adding them to this main album…even if you don’t normally share, please we are pleading with you; please, please, please share. We like to think of ourselves as camels in the desert for these animals but everyone knows you can only load a camel up with so many straws before the back will break…"

17 stray dogs were dumped at the small shelter I adopted my cat from in a single day. We are at breaking point and need to find homes for them all. How can I ask for help?

Please share this page and help us find homes for these animals until we can find them homes for them.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The text posted was this "‎***URGENT*** We are at situation critical here friends. We aren’t doing a paws out the door this week; there have been only a couple of adoptions but again we have been absolutely slammed with dumpings and surrenders. In 1 day alone we had 17 dogs come in…we have not gone a day without getting a dog in for over a week. Despite begging people to please understand and be patient, their need to get rid of their animal is obviously so much more important than the fact we have nowhere to put them as they are waiting until the Boss has gone in the house and either dumping them out the front or chaining them to the fence…I think at the last count the Boss had about 20-odd dogs living in the house with her purely because every single kennel is full and many are doubled up. You may notice that we haven’t uploaded any new photos in a while? Well that is because there are SOOOOOOOOO many dogs that our first priority has to be taking care of their primary needs; time for taking photos is a luxury we simply don’t have right now but rest assured our numbers have doubled, the adoptions are down and if you like what we do and what us to keep doing it then we seriously, genuinely need help to find homes. We have about half a dozen new residents to list tonight and will also be adding them to this main album…even if you don’t normally share, please we are pleading with you; please, please, please share. We like to think of ourselves as camels in the desert for these animals but everyone knows you can only load a camel up with so many straws before the back will break…" TL;DR:

17 stray dogs were dumped at the small shelter I adopted my cat from in a single day. We are at breaking point and need to find homes for them all. How can I ask for help?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The text posted was this "‎***URGENT*** We are at situation critical here friends. We aren’t doing a paws out the door this week; there have been only a couple of adoptions but again we have been absolutely slammed with dumpings and surrenders. In 1 day alone we had 17 dogs come in…we have not gone a day without getting a dog in for over a week. Despite begging people to please understand and be patient, their need to get rid of their animal is obviously so much more important than the fact we have nowhere to put them as they are waiting until the Boss has gone in the house and either dumping them out the front or chaining them to the fence…I think at the last count the Boss had about 20-odd dogs living in the house with her purely because every single kennel is full and many are doubled up. You may notice that we haven’t uploaded any new photos in a while? Well that is because there are SOOOOOOOOO many dogs that our first priority has to be taking care of their primary needs; time for taking photos is a luxury we simply don’t have right now but rest assured our numbers have doubled, the adoptions are down and if you like what we do and what us to keep doing it then we seriously, genuinely need help to find homes. We have about half a dozen new residents to list tonight and will also be adding them to this main album…even if you don’t normally share, please we are pleading with you; please, please, please share. We like to think of ourselves as camels in the desert for these animals but everyone knows you can only load a camel up with so many straws before the back will break…" TL;DR: 17 stray dogs were dumped at the small shelter I adopted my cat from in a single day. We are at breaking point and need to find homes for them all. How can I ask for help?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The text posted was this "‎***URGENT*** We are at situation critical here friends. We aren’t doing a paws out the door this week; there have been only a couple of adoptions but again we have been absolutely slammed with dumpings and surrenders. In 1 day alone we had 17 dogs come in…we have not gone a day without getting a dog in for over a week. Despite begging people to please understand and be patient, their need to get rid of their animal is obviously so much more important than the fact we have nowhere to put them as they are waiting until the Boss has gone in the house and either dumping them out the front or chaining them to the fence…I think at the last count the Boss had about 20-odd dogs living in the house with her purely because every single kennel is full and many are doubled up. You may notice that we haven’t uploaded any new photos in a while? Well that is because there are SOOOOOOOOO many dogs that our first priority has to be taking care of their primary needs; time for taking photos is a luxury we simply don’t have right now but rest assured our numbers have doubled, the adoptions are down and if you like what we do and what us to keep doing it then we seriously, genuinely need help to find homes. We have about half a dozen new residents to list tonight and will also be adding them to this main album…even if you don’t normally share, please we are pleading with you; please, please, please share. We like to think of ourselves as camels in the desert for these animals but everyone knows you can only load a camel up with so many straws before the back will break…" TL;DR: Please share this page and help us find homes for these animals until we can find them homes for them.<|endoftext|>

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I'll try to be brief since it's difficult typing on a phone. Basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago, I know it's a short time but I'm developing feelings for her in a way I haven't in a very long time. I've also noticed her physical affection has waned for the last 3 times we've seen each other, though her texting and messaging has remained constant, and I'm starting to grow concerned that she's losing interest. Anyway, what I'm seeking counsel about is, when should I bring this up with her? See, I have what is arguably the most important exam in my life this coming Friday, I've put off starting a diet until after it for fear it will affect my ability to concentrate. So this thing has me a bit concerned and anxious, but I'm dealing with it ok, sort of. I still need to study quite a bit and I fear that if I ask her to say what's up to me and it turns out to be the worst case scenario, I'll be depressed and sulking and it will affect my grade...but if it turns out to be some stupid fear of mine I'll be super relieved and Will be able to go 100% back to study. She's also leaving for vacation on the day of my exam so I won't be able to talk to her for two weeks. What should I do?

I'm developing feelings for a girl I met 3 weeks ago, she's already going away for a vacation and I'm worried about how I'll feel if I bring it up with her.

I have a bit of a crush on a girl who's leaving for vacation the day of my exam, can't tell if she's interested in me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to be brief since it's difficult typing on a phone. Basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago, I know it's a short time but I'm developing feelings for her in a way I haven't in a very long time. I've also noticed her physical affection has waned for the last 3 times we've seen each other, though her texting and messaging has remained constant, and I'm starting to grow concerned that she's losing interest. Anyway, what I'm seeking counsel about is, when should I bring this up with her? See, I have what is arguably the most important exam in my life this coming Friday, I've put off starting a diet until after it for fear it will affect my ability to concentrate. So this thing has me a bit concerned and anxious, but I'm dealing with it ok, sort of. I still need to study quite a bit and I fear that if I ask her to say what's up to me and it turns out to be the worst case scenario, I'll be depressed and sulking and it will affect my grade...but if it turns out to be some stupid fear of mine I'll be super relieved and Will be able to go 100% back to study. She's also leaving for vacation on the day of my exam so I won't be able to talk to her for two weeks. What should I do? TL;DR:

I'm developing feelings for a girl I met 3 weeks ago, she's already going away for a vacation and I'm worried about how I'll feel if I bring it up with her.<|endoftext|>

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I have a bit of a crush on a girl who's leaving for vacation the day of my exam, can't tell if she's interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to be brief since it's difficult typing on a phone. Basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago, I know it's a short time but I'm developing feelings for her in a way I haven't in a very long time. I've also noticed her physical affection has waned for the last 3 times we've seen each other, though her texting and messaging has remained constant, and I'm starting to grow concerned that she's losing interest. Anyway, what I'm seeking counsel about is, when should I bring this up with her? See, I have what is arguably the most important exam in my life this coming Friday, I've put off starting a diet until after it for fear it will affect my ability to concentrate. So this thing has me a bit concerned and anxious, but I'm dealing with it ok, sort of. I still need to study quite a bit and I fear that if I ask her to say what's up to me and it turns out to be the worst case scenario, I'll be depressed and sulking and it will affect my grade...but if it turns out to be some stupid fear of mine I'll be super relieved and Will be able to go 100% back to study. She's also leaving for vacation on the day of my exam so I won't be able to talk to her for two weeks. What should I do? TL;DR: I'm developing feelings for a girl I met 3 weeks ago, she's already going away for a vacation and I'm worried about how I'll feel if I bring it up with her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to be brief since it's difficult typing on a phone. Basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago, I know it's a short time but I'm developing feelings for her in a way I haven't in a very long time. I've also noticed her physical affection has waned for the last 3 times we've seen each other, though her texting and messaging has remained constant, and I'm starting to grow concerned that she's losing interest. Anyway, what I'm seeking counsel about is, when should I bring this up with her? See, I have what is arguably the most important exam in my life this coming Friday, I've put off starting a diet until after it for fear it will affect my ability to concentrate. So this thing has me a bit concerned and anxious, but I'm dealing with it ok, sort of. I still need to study quite a bit and I fear that if I ask her to say what's up to me and it turns out to be the worst case scenario, I'll be depressed and sulking and it will affect my grade...but if it turns out to be some stupid fear of mine I'll be super relieved and Will be able to go 100% back to study. She's also leaving for vacation on the day of my exam so I won't be able to talk to her for two weeks. What should I do? TL;DR: I have a bit of a crush on a girl who's leaving for vacation the day of my exam, can't tell if she's interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated.

I need a name for a book series just for the book's name.

I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR:

I need a name for a book series just for the book's name.<|endoftext|>

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I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: I need a name for a book series just for the book's name.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.<|endoftext|>

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It started off as a joke (i'm kind of straight and have no interest in seeing anything like that performed by either males or females) and it's now a reality. One second she said she's checking prices and then the next she tells me she bought the tickets. Here's the thing: it's for her birthday. I don't want to let her down, but at the same time, I'm extremely uncomfortable with the setting and kind of miffed that she essentially locked me in the damn thing without asking me if I was serious it available first. I don't know how to tell her, especially due to the short notice. I also don't know how my girlfriend would react to the whole thing. Advice, please? Helpful advice. I trust you.

Friend bought front row tickets for her birthday to see male strippers. I have no interest in seeing that performance but don't know how to tell her.

My friend bought front row tickets for her birthday and I'm scared, especially about her reaction if I turn her down.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It started off as a joke (i'm kind of straight and have no interest in seeing anything like that performed by either males or females) and it's now a reality. One second she said she's checking prices and then the next she tells me she bought the tickets. Here's the thing: it's for her birthday. I don't want to let her down, but at the same time, I'm extremely uncomfortable with the setting and kind of miffed that she essentially locked me in the damn thing without asking me if I was serious it available first. I don't know how to tell her, especially due to the short notice. I also don't know how my girlfriend would react to the whole thing. Advice, please? Helpful advice. I trust you. TL;DR:

Friend bought front row tickets for her birthday to see male strippers. I have no interest in seeing that performance but don't know how to tell her.<|endoftext|>

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My friend bought front row tickets for her birthday and I'm scared, especially about her reaction if I turn her down.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It started off as a joke (i'm kind of straight and have no interest in seeing anything like that performed by either males or females) and it's now a reality. One second she said she's checking prices and then the next she tells me she bought the tickets. Here's the thing: it's for her birthday. I don't want to let her down, but at the same time, I'm extremely uncomfortable with the setting and kind of miffed that she essentially locked me in the damn thing without asking me if I was serious it available first. I don't know how to tell her, especially due to the short notice. I also don't know how my girlfriend would react to the whole thing. Advice, please? Helpful advice. I trust you. TL;DR: Friend bought front row tickets for her birthday to see male strippers. I have no interest in seeing that performance but don't know how to tell her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It started off as a joke (i'm kind of straight and have no interest in seeing anything like that performed by either males or females) and it's now a reality. One second she said she's checking prices and then the next she tells me she bought the tickets. Here's the thing: it's for her birthday. I don't want to let her down, but at the same time, I'm extremely uncomfortable with the setting and kind of miffed that she essentially locked me in the damn thing without asking me if I was serious it available first. I don't know how to tell her, especially due to the short notice. I also don't know how my girlfriend would react to the whole thing. Advice, please? Helpful advice. I trust you. TL;DR: My friend bought front row tickets for her birthday and I'm scared, especially about her reaction if I turn her down.<|endoftext|>

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I'm 19M while she's just become 18. We've been going out for over a year now, but we've known each other for a very long time. One thing I never really knew about her was that she has very low self confidence, even after all those years. Lately, though, it's become very prominent that she's not ok with herself. To be honest, I find flaws in her, just like I see flaws in everyone else, but she thinks she's all flaws. One argument we got into recently was that she got jealous of one of my exes who had bigger breasts than she did. More than anything, I love my girlfriend's so much more, but she can't see why. Then there was this one girl, a good friend (Now they're not so friendly.) of hers that had a crush on me. There was quite a bit of drama in the past, but it subsided. A week ago, it came back because the same friend still has a crush on me. My girlfriend got mad because her friend wants to know ALL the details about me, even the sexy ones, as if she wants to live our relationship through her. That makes my girlfriend very uncomfortable, and jealous. (of course it does) But then she brings up the fact that there have been a lot of girls in the past that liked me and wanted to get with me, but don't take the fact I'm going out with her into consideration. It makes her feel like crap, and useless. (For the lack of a better term.) And Lately, now that she's going into college, she feels even worse about herself! She had taken a placement exam in the past and didn't pass into calculus. She gets so frustrated in herself, and she tells me that because I'm a math/physics major, she feels even more intimidated by it. So she took the placement exam and did WORSE because she feels like she's fucking terrible, which isn't true. I don't know what to do. I hate not knowing what to do. I feel like I can't make her happy with anything...

my girlfriend has low self confidence, and is extremely jealous of other girls. She's starting to feel like she can't make me happy. What should I do?

Girlfriend has very low self confidence. She's getting a lot of jealous feelings and feels like she's a bad person for it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 19M while she's just become 18. We've been going out for over a year now, but we've known each other for a very long time. One thing I never really knew about her was that she has very low self confidence, even after all those years. Lately, though, it's become very prominent that she's not ok with herself. To be honest, I find flaws in her, just like I see flaws in everyone else, but she thinks she's all flaws. One argument we got into recently was that she got jealous of one of my exes who had bigger breasts than she did. More than anything, I love my girlfriend's so much more, but she can't see why. Then there was this one girl, a good friend (Now they're not so friendly.) of hers that had a crush on me. There was quite a bit of drama in the past, but it subsided. A week ago, it came back because the same friend still has a crush on me. My girlfriend got mad because her friend wants to know ALL the details about me, even the sexy ones, as if she wants to live our relationship through her. That makes my girlfriend very uncomfortable, and jealous. (of course it does) But then she brings up the fact that there have been a lot of girls in the past that liked me and wanted to get with me, but don't take the fact I'm going out with her into consideration. It makes her feel like crap, and useless. (For the lack of a better term.) And Lately, now that she's going into college, she feels even worse about herself! She had taken a placement exam in the past and didn't pass into calculus. She gets so frustrated in herself, and she tells me that because I'm a math/physics major, she feels even more intimidated by it. So she took the placement exam and did WORSE because she feels like she's fucking terrible, which isn't true. I don't know what to do. I hate not knowing what to do. I feel like I can't make her happy with anything... TL;DR:

my girlfriend has low self confidence, and is extremely jealous of other girls. She's starting to feel like she can't make me happy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend has very low self confidence. She's getting a lot of jealous feelings and feels like she's a bad person for it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 19M while she's just become 18. We've been going out for over a year now, but we've known each other for a very long time. One thing I never really knew about her was that she has very low self confidence, even after all those years. Lately, though, it's become very prominent that she's not ok with herself. To be honest, I find flaws in her, just like I see flaws in everyone else, but she thinks she's all flaws. One argument we got into recently was that she got jealous of one of my exes who had bigger breasts than she did. More than anything, I love my girlfriend's so much more, but she can't see why. Then there was this one girl, a good friend (Now they're not so friendly.) of hers that had a crush on me. There was quite a bit of drama in the past, but it subsided. A week ago, it came back because the same friend still has a crush on me. My girlfriend got mad because her friend wants to know ALL the details about me, even the sexy ones, as if she wants to live our relationship through her. That makes my girlfriend very uncomfortable, and jealous. (of course it does) But then she brings up the fact that there have been a lot of girls in the past that liked me and wanted to get with me, but don't take the fact I'm going out with her into consideration. It makes her feel like crap, and useless. (For the lack of a better term.) And Lately, now that she's going into college, she feels even worse about herself! She had taken a placement exam in the past and didn't pass into calculus. She gets so frustrated in herself, and she tells me that because I'm a math/physics major, she feels even more intimidated by it. So she took the placement exam and did WORSE because she feels like she's fucking terrible, which isn't true. I don't know what to do. I hate not knowing what to do. I feel like I can't make her happy with anything... TL;DR: my girlfriend has low self confidence, and is extremely jealous of other girls. She's starting to feel like she can't make me happy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm 19M while she's just become 18. We've been going out for over a year now, but we've known each other for a very long time. One thing I never really knew about her was that she has very low self confidence, even after all those years. Lately, though, it's become very prominent that she's not ok with herself. To be honest, I find flaws in her, just like I see flaws in everyone else, but she thinks she's all flaws. One argument we got into recently was that she got jealous of one of my exes who had bigger breasts than she did. More than anything, I love my girlfriend's so much more, but she can't see why. Then there was this one girl, a good friend (Now they're not so friendly.) of hers that had a crush on me. There was quite a bit of drama in the past, but it subsided. A week ago, it came back because the same friend still has a crush on me. My girlfriend got mad because her friend wants to know ALL the details about me, even the sexy ones, as if she wants to live our relationship through her. That makes my girlfriend very uncomfortable, and jealous. (of course it does) But then she brings up the fact that there have been a lot of girls in the past that liked me and wanted to get with me, but don't take the fact I'm going out with her into consideration. It makes her feel like crap, and useless. (For the lack of a better term.) And Lately, now that she's going into college, she feels even worse about herself! She had taken a placement exam in the past and didn't pass into calculus. She gets so frustrated in herself, and she tells me that because I'm a math/physics major, she feels even more intimidated by it. So she took the placement exam and did WORSE because she feels like she's fucking terrible, which isn't true. I don't know what to do. I hate not knowing what to do. I feel like I can't make her happy with anything... TL;DR: Girlfriend has very low self confidence. She's getting a lot of jealous feelings and feels like she's a bad person for it.<|endoftext|>

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I've been with this girl for around 3 years, and I would say that she is my first love. However, over the past few months, I've noticed a distinct lack of communication between the two of us, and it certainly feels like we're drifting apart. This is a big deal as she currently attends university 30 miles away. 2 weeks ago, she explained to me that she feels like we have outgrown each other, and that we're too young to be tied down to each other, but also said, and I quote, "If I'd have met you in 5 years time we'd be married by now". I tried to talk to her and tried to create a plan with her to work on some of the problems we have been having, and telling her that I think we can make this relationship work, but she seemed dead set on breaking up. The last time I saw her was Friday, in which she came to my place and we just talked about how she felt and why she thought this was the best course of action, and we left everything amicably, laughing and joking when I walked her back to the train station. Fast forward to this morning, she calls me, evidently upset and crying, and tells me that last night she went out clubbing and got off with a guy she met there. She then goes on to tell me that she feels like she's made a massive mistake, that she now realizes she really loves me, and says "she'll do anything to get back with me" I genuinely have no idea what to do. I really love this girl, and I wanted to make this work, but now that she's gone and done this, I feel like she's just feeling guilty? I'm sort of 50/50 on whether or not to get back together with her, and I've told her that I'll let her know when I'm ready. I really hope that someone who's been in a similar situation can give some much needed advice.

Girlfriend of 3 years breaks up with me, then kisses another guy and now wants to get back together, I'm not sure what to do.

Girlfriend broke up with me, got with someone else, now she wants me back. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for around 3 years, and I would say that she is my first love. However, over the past few months, I've noticed a distinct lack of communication between the two of us, and it certainly feels like we're drifting apart. This is a big deal as she currently attends university 30 miles away. 2 weeks ago, she explained to me that she feels like we have outgrown each other, and that we're too young to be tied down to each other, but also said, and I quote, "If I'd have met you in 5 years time we'd be married by now". I tried to talk to her and tried to create a plan with her to work on some of the problems we have been having, and telling her that I think we can make this relationship work, but she seemed dead set on breaking up. The last time I saw her was Friday, in which she came to my place and we just talked about how she felt and why she thought this was the best course of action, and we left everything amicably, laughing and joking when I walked her back to the train station. Fast forward to this morning, she calls me, evidently upset and crying, and tells me that last night she went out clubbing and got off with a guy she met there. She then goes on to tell me that she feels like she's made a massive mistake, that she now realizes she really loves me, and says "she'll do anything to get back with me" I genuinely have no idea what to do. I really love this girl, and I wanted to make this work, but now that she's gone and done this, I feel like she's just feeling guilty? I'm sort of 50/50 on whether or not to get back together with her, and I've told her that I'll let her know when I'm ready. I really hope that someone who's been in a similar situation can give some much needed advice. TL;DR:

Girlfriend of 3 years breaks up with me, then kisses another guy and now wants to get back together, I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend broke up with me, got with someone else, now she wants me back. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for around 3 years, and I would say that she is my first love. However, over the past few months, I've noticed a distinct lack of communication between the two of us, and it certainly feels like we're drifting apart. This is a big deal as she currently attends university 30 miles away. 2 weeks ago, she explained to me that she feels like we have outgrown each other, and that we're too young to be tied down to each other, but also said, and I quote, "If I'd have met you in 5 years time we'd be married by now". I tried to talk to her and tried to create a plan with her to work on some of the problems we have been having, and telling her that I think we can make this relationship work, but she seemed dead set on breaking up. The last time I saw her was Friday, in which she came to my place and we just talked about how she felt and why she thought this was the best course of action, and we left everything amicably, laughing and joking when I walked her back to the train station. Fast forward to this morning, she calls me, evidently upset and crying, and tells me that last night she went out clubbing and got off with a guy she met there. She then goes on to tell me that she feels like she's made a massive mistake, that she now realizes she really loves me, and says "she'll do anything to get back with me" I genuinely have no idea what to do. I really love this girl, and I wanted to make this work, but now that she's gone and done this, I feel like she's just feeling guilty? I'm sort of 50/50 on whether or not to get back together with her, and I've told her that I'll let her know when I'm ready. I really hope that someone who's been in a similar situation can give some much needed advice. TL;DR: Girlfriend of 3 years breaks up with me, then kisses another guy and now wants to get back together, I'm not sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with this girl for around 3 years, and I would say that she is my first love. However, over the past few months, I've noticed a distinct lack of communication between the two of us, and it certainly feels like we're drifting apart. This is a big deal as she currently attends university 30 miles away. 2 weeks ago, she explained to me that she feels like we have outgrown each other, and that we're too young to be tied down to each other, but also said, and I quote, "If I'd have met you in 5 years time we'd be married by now". I tried to talk to her and tried to create a plan with her to work on some of the problems we have been having, and telling her that I think we can make this relationship work, but she seemed dead set on breaking up. The last time I saw her was Friday, in which she came to my place and we just talked about how she felt and why she thought this was the best course of action, and we left everything amicably, laughing and joking when I walked her back to the train station. Fast forward to this morning, she calls me, evidently upset and crying, and tells me that last night she went out clubbing and got off with a guy she met there. She then goes on to tell me that she feels like she's made a massive mistake, that she now realizes she really loves me, and says "she'll do anything to get back with me" I genuinely have no idea what to do. I really love this girl, and I wanted to make this work, but now that she's gone and done this, I feel like she's just feeling guilty? I'm sort of 50/50 on whether or not to get back together with her, and I've told her that I'll let her know when I'm ready. I really hope that someone who's been in a similar situation can give some much needed advice. TL;DR: Girlfriend broke up with me, got with someone else, now she wants me back. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject?

husband becomes angry and accuses me of an affair when ever I openly grieve about my recently deceased friend who made a pass at me (once while drunk). How can I explain to him that I need his support ?

My husband and I have been close friends for 7 years. After his death, my husband has been very angry and distant, and I need advice on how to talk to him about the subject.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR:

husband becomes angry and accuses me of an affair when ever I openly grieve about my recently deceased friend who made a pass at me (once while drunk). How can I explain to him that I need his support ?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR: husband becomes angry and accuses me of an affair when ever I openly grieve about my recently deceased friend who made a pass at me (once while drunk). How can I explain to him that I need his support ?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been married to my husband for 3 years, it's been wonderful, I couldn't ask for a better man to spend my life with. He has always gotten along very well with my friends, one friend in particular, Adam. Adam and I have been close friends for about 7 years, but we grew up in the same small town, and went to the same high school. We never had a sexual relationship, but we were very close, the best of friends. After high school we ended up moving to opposite ends of the country, but still kept in touch and occasionally visited. This past Christmas, my husband had to work. I decided to go visit my parents back in my hometown. Adam was also home visiting family, so we went out to the bar. We had a bit too much to drink and Adam tried to kiss me. I turned him away, and he didn't persist, and I didn't really think anything of it. When I returned home, I felt guilty about what had happened and I told my husband. He was pretty angry, but figured there was nothing really to worry about. Three days later, Adam was killed in a car accident. I've never been more upset in my life, I could barely handle all of the emotion I was feeling. My husband was initially very supportive, and I was so grateful. As soon as I came back from Adam's funeral, my husband began acting strangely whenever I mentioned Adam. At first he'd just ignore me when I began to sob or when I wanted to talk. Then he became angry and would scream at me, and accuse me of having an affair with Adam. That's pretty much how it has been since December. I don't really have anyone here where I live to talk to about my loss, and it's been bothering me. I really need my husband to understand that there was no sexual relationship between Adam and I. One drunken mistake shouldn't erase all of the years of friendship. Every time I try to bring up this issue with my husband, he gets very angry. Am I being unreasonable in trying to talk to him about my feelings on this subject? TL;DR: My husband and I have been close friends for 7 years. After his death, my husband has been very angry and distant, and I need advice on how to talk to him about the subject.<|endoftext|>

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Nerd fuck up: I'm responsible for the website for an upcoming conference at my university. Our site is hosted through AWS - Amazon Web Services - a cloud server/database/etc provider. In February they asked me to run some queries on our registration information for marketing research purposes. So I exported them from the registration website and into a MySQL database instance that I set up on AWS. This was late at night and I apparently managed to scroll to db.m3.xlarge instead of db.t1.micro. I'm the only one with access to the account and it's hooked to my credit card. Today I go to check my statement for this period and I see a $250 charge for AWS. So I rush to check what the heck we could be paying that much for. I get into the account, check the billing, and I've accrued another $420 since that first statement. I spent maybe half an hour in that database and ran maybe a dozen queries. Pretty expensive marketing research.

TIFU by going to Amazon to run some database queries, got in the database instead and racked up a couple hundred bucks in steep AWS charges.

Invented a typo, fucked up the billing of my AWS account and ran up a monster bill for a marketing research project.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Nerd fuck up: I'm responsible for the website for an upcoming conference at my university. Our site is hosted through AWS - Amazon Web Services - a cloud server/database/etc provider. In February they asked me to run some queries on our registration information for marketing research purposes. So I exported them from the registration website and into a MySQL database instance that I set up on AWS. This was late at night and I apparently managed to scroll to db.m3.xlarge instead of db.t1.micro. I'm the only one with access to the account and it's hooked to my credit card. Today I go to check my statement for this period and I see a $250 charge for AWS. So I rush to check what the heck we could be paying that much for. I get into the account, check the billing, and I've accrued another $420 since that first statement. I spent maybe half an hour in that database and ran maybe a dozen queries. Pretty expensive marketing research. TL;DR:

TIFU by going to Amazon to run some database queries, got in the database instead and racked up a couple hundred bucks in steep AWS charges.<|endoftext|>

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Invented a typo, fucked up the billing of my AWS account and ran up a monster bill for a marketing research project.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Nerd fuck up: I'm responsible for the website for an upcoming conference at my university. Our site is hosted through AWS - Amazon Web Services - a cloud server/database/etc provider. In February they asked me to run some queries on our registration information for marketing research purposes. So I exported them from the registration website and into a MySQL database instance that I set up on AWS. This was late at night and I apparently managed to scroll to db.m3.xlarge instead of db.t1.micro. I'm the only one with access to the account and it's hooked to my credit card. Today I go to check my statement for this period and I see a $250 charge for AWS. So I rush to check what the heck we could be paying that much for. I get into the account, check the billing, and I've accrued another $420 since that first statement. I spent maybe half an hour in that database and ran maybe a dozen queries. Pretty expensive marketing research. TL;DR: TIFU by going to Amazon to run some database queries, got in the database instead and racked up a couple hundred bucks in steep AWS charges.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Nerd fuck up: I'm responsible for the website for an upcoming conference at my university. Our site is hosted through AWS - Amazon Web Services - a cloud server/database/etc provider. In February they asked me to run some queries on our registration information for marketing research purposes. So I exported them from the registration website and into a MySQL database instance that I set up on AWS. This was late at night and I apparently managed to scroll to db.m3.xlarge instead of db.t1.micro. I'm the only one with access to the account and it's hooked to my credit card. Today I go to check my statement for this period and I see a $250 charge for AWS. So I rush to check what the heck we could be paying that much for. I get into the account, check the billing, and I've accrued another $420 since that first statement. I spent maybe half an hour in that database and ran maybe a dozen queries. Pretty expensive marketing research. TL;DR: Invented a typo, fucked up the billing of my AWS account and ran up a monster bill for a marketing research project.<|endoftext|>

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We've had our ups and downs, but overall it's been a truly great relationship. We get along fantastically, and we make each other laugh constantly. But I've felt like, for the past couple of years, the affection has been pretty one-sided. I brought this up four days ago, and she confessed that she doesn't feel any sort of romantic love for me anymore, and that it's been that way since the birth of our son in 2009. I just don't know what to do. I feel like the bottom's dropped out, and the woman that I had planned to spend the rest of my life with doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's a horrible, awful feeling. We've been trying to make it work, in between bouts of sobbing. She wants to see a counselor, which I of course agreed to, but can a counselor really make someone fall back in love with you? As of right now, I'm living with my parents. Eventually, I'll get an apartment, and we'll just try dating again. Living together was just too hard, because we both still get along really well. We'll still hug and kiss, but it's not real. It feels like we're still good, but nothing's changed on her end. We're best friends, and I know there's no going back to that if we split. That may be one of the hardest things to think about. Not only am I losing my wife, but also my very best friend who I love with all of my heart. What the hell do I do? How can I make someone love me again? I'm a wreck.

wife says she's fallen out of love with me, even though we still get along great. What do I do?

Wife and I don't get along very well anymore. What do I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've had our ups and downs, but overall it's been a truly great relationship. We get along fantastically, and we make each other laugh constantly. But I've felt like, for the past couple of years, the affection has been pretty one-sided. I brought this up four days ago, and she confessed that she doesn't feel any sort of romantic love for me anymore, and that it's been that way since the birth of our son in 2009. I just don't know what to do. I feel like the bottom's dropped out, and the woman that I had planned to spend the rest of my life with doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's a horrible, awful feeling. We've been trying to make it work, in between bouts of sobbing. She wants to see a counselor, which I of course agreed to, but can a counselor really make someone fall back in love with you? As of right now, I'm living with my parents. Eventually, I'll get an apartment, and we'll just try dating again. Living together was just too hard, because we both still get along really well. We'll still hug and kiss, but it's not real. It feels like we're still good, but nothing's changed on her end. We're best friends, and I know there's no going back to that if we split. That may be one of the hardest things to think about. Not only am I losing my wife, but also my very best friend who I love with all of my heart. What the hell do I do? How can I make someone love me again? I'm a wreck. TL;DR:

wife says she's fallen out of love with me, even though we still get along great. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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Wife and I don't get along very well anymore. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've had our ups and downs, but overall it's been a truly great relationship. We get along fantastically, and we make each other laugh constantly. But I've felt like, for the past couple of years, the affection has been pretty one-sided. I brought this up four days ago, and she confessed that she doesn't feel any sort of romantic love for me anymore, and that it's been that way since the birth of our son in 2009. I just don't know what to do. I feel like the bottom's dropped out, and the woman that I had planned to spend the rest of my life with doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's a horrible, awful feeling. We've been trying to make it work, in between bouts of sobbing. She wants to see a counselor, which I of course agreed to, but can a counselor really make someone fall back in love with you? As of right now, I'm living with my parents. Eventually, I'll get an apartment, and we'll just try dating again. Living together was just too hard, because we both still get along really well. We'll still hug and kiss, but it's not real. It feels like we're still good, but nothing's changed on her end. We're best friends, and I know there's no going back to that if we split. That may be one of the hardest things to think about. Not only am I losing my wife, but also my very best friend who I love with all of my heart. What the hell do I do? How can I make someone love me again? I'm a wreck. TL;DR: wife says she's fallen out of love with me, even though we still get along great. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've had our ups and downs, but overall it's been a truly great relationship. We get along fantastically, and we make each other laugh constantly. But I've felt like, for the past couple of years, the affection has been pretty one-sided. I brought this up four days ago, and she confessed that she doesn't feel any sort of romantic love for me anymore, and that it's been that way since the birth of our son in 2009. I just don't know what to do. I feel like the bottom's dropped out, and the woman that I had planned to spend the rest of my life with doesn't want to be with me anymore. It's a horrible, awful feeling. We've been trying to make it work, in between bouts of sobbing. She wants to see a counselor, which I of course agreed to, but can a counselor really make someone fall back in love with you? As of right now, I'm living with my parents. Eventually, I'll get an apartment, and we'll just try dating again. Living together was just too hard, because we both still get along really well. We'll still hug and kiss, but it's not real. It feels like we're still good, but nothing's changed on her end. We're best friends, and I know there's no going back to that if we split. That may be one of the hardest things to think about. Not only am I losing my wife, but also my very best friend who I love with all of my heart. What the hell do I do? How can I make someone love me again? I'm a wreck. TL;DR: Wife and I don't get along very well anymore. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

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Hi reddit.. I need some help to figure out if this is normal or if I'm just being too sensitive. Basically, we've been together for 2 and a half years, lived together for the past 6 months. Since the beginning of our relationship, he used to hurt me physically every now and then out of fun/jokes, and I guess I didn't look much into it. It increased in frequency as our relationship progressed, and since moving in together in the past 6 months this happens on a daily basis. For example, he will do things such as lightly pinch me, punch, bite, drag or push me around. It's pretty "light" I suppose, but sometimes it does hurt a bit. I have sometimes asked him to stop the behaviour, but he just brushes it off and reiterates that it's just for fun. He also jokes about hurting me, but without actually physically doing it. Lately I just can't get my head around it... is this normal for a significant other to joke like this? Am I just being overly sensitive or overthinking it since we've moved in together? We have a great relationship otherwise and usually never get into serious arguments. I just need a second opinion.... thanks in advance everyone!

boyfriend hurts me on a regular basis, jokes about it, and I'm wondering if this is normal or if I'm just overly sensitive.

Boyfriend hurts me physically with little or no warning, jokes about hurting me but doesn't actually do it. Is this normal?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi reddit.. I need some help to figure out if this is normal or if I'm just being too sensitive. Basically, we've been together for 2 and a half years, lived together for the past 6 months. Since the beginning of our relationship, he used to hurt me physically every now and then out of fun/jokes, and I guess I didn't look much into it. It increased in frequency as our relationship progressed, and since moving in together in the past 6 months this happens on a daily basis. For example, he will do things such as lightly pinch me, punch, bite, drag or push me around. It's pretty "light" I suppose, but sometimes it does hurt a bit. I have sometimes asked him to stop the behaviour, but he just brushes it off and reiterates that it's just for fun. He also jokes about hurting me, but without actually physically doing it. Lately I just can't get my head around it... is this normal for a significant other to joke like this? Am I just being overly sensitive or overthinking it since we've moved in together? We have a great relationship otherwise and usually never get into serious arguments. I just need a second opinion.... thanks in advance everyone! TL;DR:

boyfriend hurts me on a regular basis, jokes about it, and I'm wondering if this is normal or if I'm just overly sensitive.<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend hurts me physically with little or no warning, jokes about hurting me but doesn't actually do it. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi reddit.. I need some help to figure out if this is normal or if I'm just being too sensitive. Basically, we've been together for 2 and a half years, lived together for the past 6 months. Since the beginning of our relationship, he used to hurt me physically every now and then out of fun/jokes, and I guess I didn't look much into it. It increased in frequency as our relationship progressed, and since moving in together in the past 6 months this happens on a daily basis. For example, he will do things such as lightly pinch me, punch, bite, drag or push me around. It's pretty "light" I suppose, but sometimes it does hurt a bit. I have sometimes asked him to stop the behaviour, but he just brushes it off and reiterates that it's just for fun. He also jokes about hurting me, but without actually physically doing it. Lately I just can't get my head around it... is this normal for a significant other to joke like this? Am I just being overly sensitive or overthinking it since we've moved in together? We have a great relationship otherwise and usually never get into serious arguments. I just need a second opinion.... thanks in advance everyone! TL;DR: boyfriend hurts me on a regular basis, jokes about it, and I'm wondering if this is normal or if I'm just overly sensitive.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi reddit.. I need some help to figure out if this is normal or if I'm just being too sensitive. Basically, we've been together for 2 and a half years, lived together for the past 6 months. Since the beginning of our relationship, he used to hurt me physically every now and then out of fun/jokes, and I guess I didn't look much into it. It increased in frequency as our relationship progressed, and since moving in together in the past 6 months this happens on a daily basis. For example, he will do things such as lightly pinch me, punch, bite, drag or push me around. It's pretty "light" I suppose, but sometimes it does hurt a bit. I have sometimes asked him to stop the behaviour, but he just brushes it off and reiterates that it's just for fun. He also jokes about hurting me, but without actually physically doing it. Lately I just can't get my head around it... is this normal for a significant other to joke like this? Am I just being overly sensitive or overthinking it since we've moved in together? We have a great relationship otherwise and usually never get into serious arguments. I just need a second opinion.... thanks in advance everyone! TL;DR: Boyfriend hurts me physically with little or no warning, jokes about hurting me but doesn't actually do it. Is this normal?<|endoftext|>

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I have been very good friends with this girl for a while, and it seemed like there was very little sexual tension between us before the past month or two. Things began to heat up between us, with both of us lamenting our relationship status and how we felt lonely and horny. As we became closer, we started realizing that we both really identified with each other and even made frequent jokes about how we are "exactly the same person", because our life situations and personalities are so similar and mesh so well with each other. This culminated about two weeks ago, when we both ended up admitting to each other than we wouldn't mind a purely sexual relationship between the two of us since we were both so horny. Now I don't know where we stand. I don't know how I feel about her--I've never really even been in a real relationship in my life. I'm attracted to her, and I care about her a lot--but I'm not sure where the line is drawn from a FWB situation with a close friend to a relationship. I know she's also confused about her feelings about me, and we haven't even had full on sex with each other yet (although we certainly have been very frisky and had some enjoyable sexual encounters with each other). What makes a "relationship" exactly? What is the difference between friends having sex and a couple? I don't know how to define this and I'm really confused myself, so please ask for any additional information and I'll clarify in the comments.

Are we FWBs, or having a relationship?

Two of my best friends [17 F] and I [16 M] entered a FWB situation two weeks ago and now we're wondering about our relationship situation.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been very good friends with this girl for a while, and it seemed like there was very little sexual tension between us before the past month or two. Things began to heat up between us, with both of us lamenting our relationship status and how we felt lonely and horny. As we became closer, we started realizing that we both really identified with each other and even made frequent jokes about how we are "exactly the same person", because our life situations and personalities are so similar and mesh so well with each other. This culminated about two weeks ago, when we both ended up admitting to each other than we wouldn't mind a purely sexual relationship between the two of us since we were both so horny. Now I don't know where we stand. I don't know how I feel about her--I've never really even been in a real relationship in my life. I'm attracted to her, and I care about her a lot--but I'm not sure where the line is drawn from a FWB situation with a close friend to a relationship. I know she's also confused about her feelings about me, and we haven't even had full on sex with each other yet (although we certainly have been very frisky and had some enjoyable sexual encounters with each other). What makes a "relationship" exactly? What is the difference between friends having sex and a couple? I don't know how to define this and I'm really confused myself, so please ask for any additional information and I'll clarify in the comments. TL;DR:

Are we FWBs, or having a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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Two of my best friends [17 F] and I [16 M] entered a FWB situation two weeks ago and now we're wondering about our relationship situation.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been very good friends with this girl for a while, and it seemed like there was very little sexual tension between us before the past month or two. Things began to heat up between us, with both of us lamenting our relationship status and how we felt lonely and horny. As we became closer, we started realizing that we both really identified with each other and even made frequent jokes about how we are "exactly the same person", because our life situations and personalities are so similar and mesh so well with each other. This culminated about two weeks ago, when we both ended up admitting to each other than we wouldn't mind a purely sexual relationship between the two of us since we were both so horny. Now I don't know where we stand. I don't know how I feel about her--I've never really even been in a real relationship in my life. I'm attracted to her, and I care about her a lot--but I'm not sure where the line is drawn from a FWB situation with a close friend to a relationship. I know she's also confused about her feelings about me, and we haven't even had full on sex with each other yet (although we certainly have been very frisky and had some enjoyable sexual encounters with each other). What makes a "relationship" exactly? What is the difference between friends having sex and a couple? I don't know how to define this and I'm really confused myself, so please ask for any additional information and I'll clarify in the comments. TL;DR: Are we FWBs, or having a relationship?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been very good friends with this girl for a while, and it seemed like there was very little sexual tension between us before the past month or two. Things began to heat up between us, with both of us lamenting our relationship status and how we felt lonely and horny. As we became closer, we started realizing that we both really identified with each other and even made frequent jokes about how we are "exactly the same person", because our life situations and personalities are so similar and mesh so well with each other. This culminated about two weeks ago, when we both ended up admitting to each other than we wouldn't mind a purely sexual relationship between the two of us since we were both so horny. Now I don't know where we stand. I don't know how I feel about her--I've never really even been in a real relationship in my life. I'm attracted to her, and I care about her a lot--but I'm not sure where the line is drawn from a FWB situation with a close friend to a relationship. I know she's also confused about her feelings about me, and we haven't even had full on sex with each other yet (although we certainly have been very frisky and had some enjoyable sexual encounters with each other). What makes a "relationship" exactly? What is the difference between friends having sex and a couple? I don't know how to define this and I'm really confused myself, so please ask for any additional information and I'll clarify in the comments. TL;DR: Two of my best friends [17 F] and I [16 M] entered a FWB situation two weeks ago and now we're wondering about our relationship situation.<|endoftext|>

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So a little while back, I was thinking about hilarious/impossible ways SOPA, etc. could come down... and figured, what if they were openly supported by CP rings? Obviously CP is a dangerous material in so many reasons. But isn't the biggest issue with it (IANAEthicsMajor) the actual exploitation of children abused to create the materials? A single pedophile could, as seen in the past, um, create his own materials. But isn't the foremost problem, as is the case with most contrabands, gang related? As I understand it, the reason CP maintains such a presence is not because everyone on the internet is closet pedo and there is a huge demand for it, but because these organizations are making a profit out of the few that are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money for it. There are already too many resources out there. Everyone to his own, but as long as there are no victims. Let them look through the plethora of the materials already online. If sharing and possession becomes legal, it would only be so much easier to acquire the materials for them. From this point on, the CP organizations won't have a market (theoretical, theoretical) to sell their goods any longer, and will eventually have to find different niche to fill. OR... they will openly support SOPA to stop their "IP" from being pirated. Then bring out the "A vote for SOPA is a vote for CP" card. I am aware there are SO many things wrong with this. I just wanted to see where this would lead. IS there any value to this? Is there a way to carry this on without, well, being an immoral, idiotic bastard? Again, I know nothing about the industry nor the complications it brings...

I'm afraid of the consequences of having a free market in child pornography, but I'm also afraid of the consequences of having one.

There is no legitimate market for CP. It isn't even legal to possess anymore. Is it even possible to carry on this way?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little while back, I was thinking about hilarious/impossible ways SOPA, etc. could come down... and figured, what if they were openly supported by CP rings? Obviously CP is a dangerous material in so many reasons. But isn't the biggest issue with it (IANAEthicsMajor) the actual exploitation of children abused to create the materials? A single pedophile could, as seen in the past, um, create his own materials. But isn't the foremost problem, as is the case with most contrabands, gang related? As I understand it, the reason CP maintains such a presence is not because everyone on the internet is closet pedo and there is a huge demand for it, but because these organizations are making a profit out of the few that are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money for it. There are already too many resources out there. Everyone to his own, but as long as there are no victims. Let them look through the plethora of the materials already online. If sharing and possession becomes legal, it would only be so much easier to acquire the materials for them. From this point on, the CP organizations won't have a market (theoretical, theoretical) to sell their goods any longer, and will eventually have to find different niche to fill. OR... they will openly support SOPA to stop their "IP" from being pirated. Then bring out the "A vote for SOPA is a vote for CP" card. I am aware there are SO many things wrong with this. I just wanted to see where this would lead. IS there any value to this? Is there a way to carry this on without, well, being an immoral, idiotic bastard? Again, I know nothing about the industry nor the complications it brings... TL;DR:

I'm afraid of the consequences of having a free market in child pornography, but I'm also afraid of the consequences of having one.<|endoftext|>

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There is no legitimate market for CP. It isn't even legal to possess anymore. Is it even possible to carry on this way?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little while back, I was thinking about hilarious/impossible ways SOPA, etc. could come down... and figured, what if they were openly supported by CP rings? Obviously CP is a dangerous material in so many reasons. But isn't the biggest issue with it (IANAEthicsMajor) the actual exploitation of children abused to create the materials? A single pedophile could, as seen in the past, um, create his own materials. But isn't the foremost problem, as is the case with most contrabands, gang related? As I understand it, the reason CP maintains such a presence is not because everyone on the internet is closet pedo and there is a huge demand for it, but because these organizations are making a profit out of the few that are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money for it. There are already too many resources out there. Everyone to his own, but as long as there are no victims. Let them look through the plethora of the materials already online. If sharing and possession becomes legal, it would only be so much easier to acquire the materials for them. From this point on, the CP organizations won't have a market (theoretical, theoretical) to sell their goods any longer, and will eventually have to find different niche to fill. OR... they will openly support SOPA to stop their "IP" from being pirated. Then bring out the "A vote for SOPA is a vote for CP" card. I am aware there are SO many things wrong with this. I just wanted to see where this would lead. IS there any value to this? Is there a way to carry this on without, well, being an immoral, idiotic bastard? Again, I know nothing about the industry nor the complications it brings... TL;DR: I'm afraid of the consequences of having a free market in child pornography, but I'm also afraid of the consequences of having one.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a little while back, I was thinking about hilarious/impossible ways SOPA, etc. could come down... and figured, what if they were openly supported by CP rings? Obviously CP is a dangerous material in so many reasons. But isn't the biggest issue with it (IANAEthicsMajor) the actual exploitation of children abused to create the materials? A single pedophile could, as seen in the past, um, create his own materials. But isn't the foremost problem, as is the case with most contrabands, gang related? As I understand it, the reason CP maintains such a presence is not because everyone on the internet is closet pedo and there is a huge demand for it, but because these organizations are making a profit out of the few that are willing to pay ridiculous amounts of money for it. There are already too many resources out there. Everyone to his own, but as long as there are no victims. Let them look through the plethora of the materials already online. If sharing and possession becomes legal, it would only be so much easier to acquire the materials for them. From this point on, the CP organizations won't have a market (theoretical, theoretical) to sell their goods any longer, and will eventually have to find different niche to fill. OR... they will openly support SOPA to stop their "IP" from being pirated. Then bring out the "A vote for SOPA is a vote for CP" card. I am aware there are SO many things wrong with this. I just wanted to see where this would lead. IS there any value to this? Is there a way to carry this on without, well, being an immoral, idiotic bastard? Again, I know nothing about the industry nor the complications it brings... TL;DR: There is no legitimate market for CP. It isn't even legal to possess anymore. Is it even possible to carry on this way?<|endoftext|>

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I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise. I am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible. This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was. I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do. I love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable. If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info.

Ex gf left me for her ex and now wants me back after I start seeing someone else. I'm torn on what to do.

Ex girlfriend and I are seeing each other, but Shelly feels like I cheated on her. I started seeing a new girl, but I am conflicted between Shelly and Amber.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise. I am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible. This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was. I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do. I love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable. If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info. TL;DR:

Ex gf left me for her ex and now wants me back after I start seeing someone else. I'm torn on what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise. I am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible. This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was. I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do. I love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable. If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info. TL;DR: Ex gf left me for her ex and now wants me back after I start seeing someone else. I'm torn on what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I apologize for the length of this and will try to keep it concise. I am not sure what I should do. I dated this girl, Shelly, for a year. Shelly was divorcing her husband and has two kids. We were madly in love. The story book feeling, everything you can imagine, etc. She makes me feel like anything is possible. This all changed when she felt like I had cheated by talking to a friend of mine, who was a female. Shelly is a very jealous girl. We stayed together even though Shelly felt hurt and betrayed. A few months went by and Shelly left me for her ex husband and father of her children. Over the course of this year, Shelly and I have went back and forth about getting back together, but she never could commit to leaving her ex husband now boyfriend(Not sure what you call that). Finally I gave up and began seeing other people and acting single as I was. I met a girl, Amber, who is very nice and we get along great. It's the start of a new relationship and is going well. This is where it gets complicated. Now Shelly is completely enamored with me again and wants to be with me. I absolutely LOVE the idea of being with Shelly again, but I don't know if I can get past all of the hurt she's caused me this year. Additionally, Amber seems like a great girl on her own. I feel like I'm stuck in the middle and I don't know what to do. I love Shelly and always will. We are absolutely crazy about each other in every way possible. Emotionally and physically. The problem is she's hurt me like no one else ever has before. Amber is a great girl, but it's too soon to tell how things would really go with her. I know Amber is falling hard for me, and I started falling for her but now I feel emotionally unavailable. If you have any questions I can clarify let me know, I may be missing some important info. TL;DR: Ex girlfriend and I are seeing each other, but Shelly feels like I cheated on her. I started seeing a new girl, but I am conflicted between Shelly and Amber.<|endoftext|>

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We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her. Anyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help.

I told my girlfriend I don't like texting her, now what?

I don't like text messaging and I told my girlfriend I don't like it. Now what?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her. Anyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help. TL;DR:

I told my girlfriend I don't like texting her, now what?<|endoftext|>

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I don't like text messaging and I told my girlfriend I don't like it. Now what?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her. Anyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help. TL;DR: I told my girlfriend I don't like texting her, now what?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been dating for almost two years and we see each other almost everyday (we are in our last year of high school, I understand if you stop reading now). I already told her that texting her and talking to her are two different things to me, which is the truth. When I text her, I don't really feel like I'm really talking to her. Anyways, I don't know what to do at this point. What do we do? I'd imagine she doesn't really understand the idea that texting her and talking to her are different for me, so it's a sensitive topic. Thank you so much for the help. TL;DR: I don't like text messaging and I told my girlfriend I don't like it. Now what?<|endoftext|>

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So I've ordered this veggie burger at Burger King because I'm a vegetarian and I usually don't enjoy the taste of meat. It was a take out, so I took it and went back home. When I got home, I realised that they made a mistake and gave me a double cheeseburger!!! Of course I was angry, but of course I ate it anyway. I mean, the meat's already here. The cow will be dead anyway if I eat it or not. And I would still be hungry if I'd throw it out. So I ate it. AND IT WAS MOTHERFUCKING DELICIOUS.

I am a vegetarian who hates meat and gets very angry when I eat it.

I'm a vegetarian and I ate a double cheeseburger because I'm a vegetarian.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've ordered this veggie burger at Burger King because I'm a vegetarian and I usually don't enjoy the taste of meat. It was a take out, so I took it and went back home. When I got home, I realised that they made a mistake and gave me a double cheeseburger!!! Of course I was angry, but of course I ate it anyway. I mean, the meat's already here. The cow will be dead anyway if I eat it or not. And I would still be hungry if I'd throw it out. So I ate it. AND IT WAS MOTHERFUCKING DELICIOUS. TL;DR:

I am a vegetarian who hates meat and gets very angry when I eat it.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a vegetarian and I ate a double cheeseburger because I'm a vegetarian.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've ordered this veggie burger at Burger King because I'm a vegetarian and I usually don't enjoy the taste of meat. It was a take out, so I took it and went back home. When I got home, I realised that they made a mistake and gave me a double cheeseburger!!! Of course I was angry, but of course I ate it anyway. I mean, the meat's already here. The cow will be dead anyway if I eat it or not. And I would still be hungry if I'd throw it out. So I ate it. AND IT WAS MOTHERFUCKING DELICIOUS. TL;DR: I am a vegetarian who hates meat and gets very angry when I eat it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've ordered this veggie burger at Burger King because I'm a vegetarian and I usually don't enjoy the taste of meat. It was a take out, so I took it and went back home. When I got home, I realised that they made a mistake and gave me a double cheeseburger!!! Of course I was angry, but of course I ate it anyway. I mean, the meat's already here. The cow will be dead anyway if I eat it or not. And I would still be hungry if I'd throw it out. So I ate it. AND IT WAS MOTHERFUCKING DELICIOUS. TL;DR: I'm a vegetarian and I ate a double cheeseburger because I'm a vegetarian.<|endoftext|>

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Let me give you a little background on my relationship. I met my boyfriend (Jack) when we were living at school together. He was a business major and I am pre-med. We go to school in California not too far from where I grew up and where my entire family lives. Jack on the other hand lives across the country and has no family in the area. We’ve been dating for about two years. When we first met things were great! But I just don’t feel the way I used to about our relationship. I hated going two days without seeing him, now it will be two weeks and I don’t even miss him. We used to text 24/7, but now it feels like such a chore to text him because I really don’t have anything to talk about. When he asks why I’m being distant I blame it on being super busy applying for med school. The reason I feel like we can’t break up is because I am all he has here. He decided to stay in California for graduate school and I am 99% sure the only reason he did that is because of me. I know he doesn’t like living here because he complains about it a lot and says how he can’t wait till he can move back home (still a few years till he finishes his program though). The problem is he wants me to go with him. I could NEVER live on the east coast; my entire family is here in California. I have no intention on leaving them and moving across the country with him, but I also know there is no way he would ever permanently move here. We broke up once before for a month but ended up getting back together. I am starting to think now that the only reason I got back with him is because I missed the idea of being with someone, not necessarily missed being with him. Help reddit I feel stuck. I don’t know how to break up with him. He really doesn’t have anyone else here. He has some “friends” from school but no one that he really hangs out with, all of his good friends live back home which is another reason he wants to move back there.

My boyfriend decided to go to grad school thousands of miles from home because of me, and now I want to end the relationship but don’t know how.

Been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he wants to move away to go to school. I want to go with him because I love him, but also don't feel the same way.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me give you a little background on my relationship. I met my boyfriend (Jack) when we were living at school together. He was a business major and I am pre-med. We go to school in California not too far from where I grew up and where my entire family lives. Jack on the other hand lives across the country and has no family in the area. We’ve been dating for about two years. When we first met things were great! But I just don’t feel the way I used to about our relationship. I hated going two days without seeing him, now it will be two weeks and I don’t even miss him. We used to text 24/7, but now it feels like such a chore to text him because I really don’t have anything to talk about. When he asks why I’m being distant I blame it on being super busy applying for med school. The reason I feel like we can’t break up is because I am all he has here. He decided to stay in California for graduate school and I am 99% sure the only reason he did that is because of me. I know he doesn’t like living here because he complains about it a lot and says how he can’t wait till he can move back home (still a few years till he finishes his program though). The problem is he wants me to go with him. I could NEVER live on the east coast; my entire family is here in California. I have no intention on leaving them and moving across the country with him, but I also know there is no way he would ever permanently move here. We broke up once before for a month but ended up getting back together. I am starting to think now that the only reason I got back with him is because I missed the idea of being with someone, not necessarily missed being with him. Help reddit I feel stuck. I don’t know how to break up with him. He really doesn’t have anyone else here. He has some “friends” from school but no one that he really hangs out with, all of his good friends live back home which is another reason he wants to move back there. TL;DR:

My boyfriend decided to go to grad school thousands of miles from home because of me, and now I want to end the relationship but don’t know how.<|endoftext|>

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Been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he wants to move away to go to school. I want to go with him because I love him, but also don't feel the same way.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me give you a little background on my relationship. I met my boyfriend (Jack) when we were living at school together. He was a business major and I am pre-med. We go to school in California not too far from where I grew up and where my entire family lives. Jack on the other hand lives across the country and has no family in the area. We’ve been dating for about two years. When we first met things were great! But I just don’t feel the way I used to about our relationship. I hated going two days without seeing him, now it will be two weeks and I don’t even miss him. We used to text 24/7, but now it feels like such a chore to text him because I really don’t have anything to talk about. When he asks why I’m being distant I blame it on being super busy applying for med school. The reason I feel like we can’t break up is because I am all he has here. He decided to stay in California for graduate school and I am 99% sure the only reason he did that is because of me. I know he doesn’t like living here because he complains about it a lot and says how he can’t wait till he can move back home (still a few years till he finishes his program though). The problem is he wants me to go with him. I could NEVER live on the east coast; my entire family is here in California. I have no intention on leaving them and moving across the country with him, but I also know there is no way he would ever permanently move here. We broke up once before for a month but ended up getting back together. I am starting to think now that the only reason I got back with him is because I missed the idea of being with someone, not necessarily missed being with him. Help reddit I feel stuck. I don’t know how to break up with him. He really doesn’t have anyone else here. He has some “friends” from school but no one that he really hangs out with, all of his good friends live back home which is another reason he wants to move back there. TL;DR: My boyfriend decided to go to grad school thousands of miles from home because of me, and now I want to end the relationship but don’t know how.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Let me give you a little background on my relationship. I met my boyfriend (Jack) when we were living at school together. He was a business major and I am pre-med. We go to school in California not too far from where I grew up and where my entire family lives. Jack on the other hand lives across the country and has no family in the area. We’ve been dating for about two years. When we first met things were great! But I just don’t feel the way I used to about our relationship. I hated going two days without seeing him, now it will be two weeks and I don’t even miss him. We used to text 24/7, but now it feels like such a chore to text him because I really don’t have anything to talk about. When he asks why I’m being distant I blame it on being super busy applying for med school. The reason I feel like we can’t break up is because I am all he has here. He decided to stay in California for graduate school and I am 99% sure the only reason he did that is because of me. I know he doesn’t like living here because he complains about it a lot and says how he can’t wait till he can move back home (still a few years till he finishes his program though). The problem is he wants me to go with him. I could NEVER live on the east coast; my entire family is here in California. I have no intention on leaving them and moving across the country with him, but I also know there is no way he would ever permanently move here. We broke up once before for a month but ended up getting back together. I am starting to think now that the only reason I got back with him is because I missed the idea of being with someone, not necessarily missed being with him. Help reddit I feel stuck. I don’t know how to break up with him. He really doesn’t have anyone else here. He has some “friends” from school but no one that he really hangs out with, all of his good friends live back home which is another reason he wants to move back there. TL;DR: Been seeing my boyfriend for two years, he wants to move away to go to school. I want to go with him because I love him, but also don't feel the same way.<|endoftext|>

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Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying.

Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.

Tell me how you and/ or a family member were treated in Wal-Mart.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR:

Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR: Want's to boycott Wal-Mart because I had loved ones worked in there and were treated very harshly while we customers do not know the truth.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Have any of you folks worked or had someone you know worked in Wal-Mart? If you/ they did, pause and give a brief thought of how you were treated in there. I don't know about but I know three people I knew were treated harshly and get paid to nearly little amount. My Mom had to endure stress by staying after hours because she works hard and strictly. Her paycheck is just only around $400 per month for a full time job. Her breaks only lasted 15 minutes and she can't just rush things up. My sister only applied to a different Wal-Mart for part-time only(she goes to college) and she only has a choice by either stay after hours and screw-up her school time schedule, or work in normal hours. Obviously she picked for normal hours but for the pas 2 months, she still hasn't received her paycheck, TWICE. Now on to my friend, he needs money so he can pay up for health care to his ill mother and if possible, get accepted to a local college. The man works 18 hours a day and never takes breaks, his only source of food is just a bottle of water, nothing else. I'm very tired to see my family endure hell. My sister recently snapped after she got home. She is still not payed. Luckily my mom quit and now works as a high school custodian and she has no regrets. As for my friend...I have no idea. So Reddit, I want to boycott Wal-Mart because it's not fair if our money we spend does not go towards the hard working employees who provided us help and assistance. I know I will get downvoted for saying this but I need your help to boycott Wal-Mart. If the people you know or yourself had endured this problem, then you might understand what I'm saying. TL;DR: Tell me how you and/ or a family member were treated in Wal-Mart.<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me

girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.

GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me TL;DR:

girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me TL;DR: girlfriend went to college and found new group of friends. Seldom calls except for once in morning or night. She threatened to break up with me if I don't be happier.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend of 9 months went to college a week ago. At the start of our relationship I gave up all of my friends and relationships to be with her and this summer we spent every day together. Now that she is at college I don't have anyone to talk to and she only calls me at about 1 AM every day and once in the morning. Every time she has called i have been sad and generally depressed feeling because she has made a whole group of new people that she uses to substitute me (her words) so she doesn't miss me. I on the other hand don't have anyone right now and she has been choosing time with her friends over calling me. The latest example is that she didn't call me at 1:00 because she had to play uno with her friends. Now she says my sadness is making her unhappy and she will break up with me if I dont get over it. I love this girl more than anything but now she says I can only call her once a day till I learn to be happy. Please help me TL;DR: GF of 9 months goes to college, tells me i can't talk to her till I learn to be happy without her, now says she will break up with me if I don't get over my sadness.<|endoftext|>

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I've gotten myself quite a bit of cash and I've been spending it on a lot of legitimate things like clothes, food, and I've been helping out with my moms medical bills. My friend is taking my cash because he knows I'm also using a good sum of it on OxyContin. He says he's more than willing to give it back if he's sure I'm not buying any oxy with it. He's my closest friend and we've been friends since I was like 12, so I don't want to resort to violence or get rid of him as a friend. How can I convince him to stop taking my cash?

really close friend is taking my cash I'm using to help pay my moms medical bills with, since he knows I'm also using it for drugs. Unsure of how to get him to stop.

Friend is taking my cash for OxyContin. I'm worried about how to convince him to stop.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've gotten myself quite a bit of cash and I've been spending it on a lot of legitimate things like clothes, food, and I've been helping out with my moms medical bills. My friend is taking my cash because he knows I'm also using a good sum of it on OxyContin. He says he's more than willing to give it back if he's sure I'm not buying any oxy with it. He's my closest friend and we've been friends since I was like 12, so I don't want to resort to violence or get rid of him as a friend. How can I convince him to stop taking my cash? TL;DR:

really close friend is taking my cash I'm using to help pay my moms medical bills with, since he knows I'm also using it for drugs. Unsure of how to get him to stop.<|endoftext|>

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Friend is taking my cash for OxyContin. I'm worried about how to convince him to stop.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've gotten myself quite a bit of cash and I've been spending it on a lot of legitimate things like clothes, food, and I've been helping out with my moms medical bills. My friend is taking my cash because he knows I'm also using a good sum of it on OxyContin. He says he's more than willing to give it back if he's sure I'm not buying any oxy with it. He's my closest friend and we've been friends since I was like 12, so I don't want to resort to violence or get rid of him as a friend. How can I convince him to stop taking my cash? TL;DR: really close friend is taking my cash I'm using to help pay my moms medical bills with, since he knows I'm also using it for drugs. Unsure of how to get him to stop.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've gotten myself quite a bit of cash and I've been spending it on a lot of legitimate things like clothes, food, and I've been helping out with my moms medical bills. My friend is taking my cash because he knows I'm also using a good sum of it on OxyContin. He says he's more than willing to give it back if he's sure I'm not buying any oxy with it. He's my closest friend and we've been friends since I was like 12, so I don't want to resort to violence or get rid of him as a friend. How can I convince him to stop taking my cash? TL;DR: Friend is taking my cash for OxyContin. I'm worried about how to convince him to stop.<|endoftext|>

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Back Story: Four months ago I learned that my wife of 4 years was cheating on me. This was not a onetime "accidental" thing. According to the information I can gather, it was going on for a minimum of 6 months, with regular weekly meetings. In an attempt to understand, and to reconcile, I agreed to couple's counseling. She promised that all communication with the man would stop, that I would never have anything to worry about again, and that she was going to be completely upfront and honest with me. Counseling was going well. We had our ups and downs, but the overarching trend was positive, hopeful. Fast forward to the day before Valentine's Day. I happen to wake up at 1:30am to find her sending an email to the same guy she was having the affair with. They were planning a rendezvous for that day while I was at work. I flipped the FUCK out, packed some bags and walked out. To further complicate the situation, the man she was fucking is a coworker of mine (someone I once called friend) and someone I have to see at least two or three times a week. And here is where the "Subtle Revenge" comes in. I absolutely must save face at work so I can't react the way I want to. I am hoping to live vicariously through my fellow reddit trolls. Revenge is a dish best served cold ... and in small agonizing bites. What are some of the ways you have subtly fucked with someone without drawing attention to yourself?

Wife of 4 years had a 6 month affair with a coworker (former friend) of mine. I still have to work with him and need to live through your stories of subtle revenge.

My wife of 4 years is cheating on me. I have to see her coworker everyday. How do I get her back so I can live vicariously through reddit?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: Four months ago I learned that my wife of 4 years was cheating on me. This was not a onetime "accidental" thing. According to the information I can gather, it was going on for a minimum of 6 months, with regular weekly meetings. In an attempt to understand, and to reconcile, I agreed to couple's counseling. She promised that all communication with the man would stop, that I would never have anything to worry about again, and that she was going to be completely upfront and honest with me. Counseling was going well. We had our ups and downs, but the overarching trend was positive, hopeful. Fast forward to the day before Valentine's Day. I happen to wake up at 1:30am to find her sending an email to the same guy she was having the affair with. They were planning a rendezvous for that day while I was at work. I flipped the FUCK out, packed some bags and walked out. To further complicate the situation, the man she was fucking is a coworker of mine (someone I once called friend) and someone I have to see at least two or three times a week. And here is where the "Subtle Revenge" comes in. I absolutely must save face at work so I can't react the way I want to. I am hoping to live vicariously through my fellow reddit trolls. Revenge is a dish best served cold... and in small agonizing bites. What are some of the ways you have subtly fucked with someone without drawing attention to yourself? TL;DR:

Wife of 4 years had a 6 month affair with a coworker (former friend) of mine. I still have to work with him and need to live through your stories of subtle revenge.<|endoftext|>

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My wife of 4 years is cheating on me. I have to see her coworker everyday. How do I get her back so I can live vicariously through reddit?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: Four months ago I learned that my wife of 4 years was cheating on me. This was not a onetime "accidental" thing. According to the information I can gather, it was going on for a minimum of 6 months, with regular weekly meetings. In an attempt to understand, and to reconcile, I agreed to couple's counseling. She promised that all communication with the man would stop, that I would never have anything to worry about again, and that she was going to be completely upfront and honest with me. Counseling was going well. We had our ups and downs, but the overarching trend was positive, hopeful. Fast forward to the day before Valentine's Day. I happen to wake up at 1:30am to find her sending an email to the same guy she was having the affair with. They were planning a rendezvous for that day while I was at work. I flipped the FUCK out, packed some bags and walked out. To further complicate the situation, the man she was fucking is a coworker of mine (someone I once called friend) and someone I have to see at least two or three times a week. And here is where the "Subtle Revenge" comes in. I absolutely must save face at work so I can't react the way I want to. I am hoping to live vicariously through my fellow reddit trolls. Revenge is a dish best served cold... and in small agonizing bites. What are some of the ways you have subtly fucked with someone without drawing attention to yourself? TL;DR: Wife of 4 years had a 6 month affair with a coworker (former friend) of mine. I still have to work with him and need to live through your stories of subtle revenge.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Back Story: Four months ago I learned that my wife of 4 years was cheating on me. This was not a onetime "accidental" thing. According to the information I can gather, it was going on for a minimum of 6 months, with regular weekly meetings. In an attempt to understand, and to reconcile, I agreed to couple's counseling. She promised that all communication with the man would stop, that I would never have anything to worry about again, and that she was going to be completely upfront and honest with me. Counseling was going well. We had our ups and downs, but the overarching trend was positive, hopeful. Fast forward to the day before Valentine's Day. I happen to wake up at 1:30am to find her sending an email to the same guy she was having the affair with. They were planning a rendezvous for that day while I was at work. I flipped the FUCK out, packed some bags and walked out. To further complicate the situation, the man she was fucking is a coworker of mine (someone I once called friend) and someone I have to see at least two or three times a week. And here is where the "Subtle Revenge" comes in. I absolutely must save face at work so I can't react the way I want to. I am hoping to live vicariously through my fellow reddit trolls. Revenge is a dish best served cold... and in small agonizing bites. What are some of the ways you have subtly fucked with someone without drawing attention to yourself? TL;DR: My wife of 4 years is cheating on me. I have to see her coworker everyday. How do I get her back so I can live vicariously through reddit?<|endoftext|>

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Hey, r/relationships :) A close friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. The problem: he's amazingly accomplished and I feel like I've got little to offer in return. He's a scholarship student, he's on the regional council for our local UN Youth group, he got into law school, he's an accomplished athlete etc. Me? I do a bit of freelance illustration work but not regularly (I'm not quite at a professional level yet) - and that's about all I've got. We're both science students (he's a law-science conjoint) and that feels like it's about it. My friend keeps reiterating that he's not the kind of guy who cares about this kind of stuff. Even if this is true, I'm not quite sure how my friend would drop my name in a conversation while they're away on law school's team-building camp together. They're not sorted onto the same team and they're not particularly chummy with one other so their time together is likely limited. Any suggestions for how I should go about this? Thanks in advance your time!

My close friend offered to put in a good word for me to my super accomplished crush, they're not tight and I'm not nearly as accomplished as he is - suggestions on what she could say and how to drop it into the convo?

My friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. I'm not quite sure what to do.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, r/relationships :) A close friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. The problem: he's amazingly accomplished and I feel like I've got little to offer in return. He's a scholarship student, he's on the regional council for our local UN Youth group, he got into law school, he's an accomplished athlete etc. Me? I do a bit of freelance illustration work but not regularly (I'm not quite at a professional level yet) - and that's about all I've got. We're both science students (he's a law-science conjoint) and that feels like it's about it. My friend keeps reiterating that he's not the kind of guy who cares about this kind of stuff. Even if this is true, I'm not quite sure how my friend would drop my name in a conversation while they're away on law school's team-building camp together. They're not sorted onto the same team and they're not particularly chummy with one other so their time together is likely limited. Any suggestions for how I should go about this? Thanks in advance your time! TL;DR:

My close friend offered to put in a good word for me to my super accomplished crush, they're not tight and I'm not nearly as accomplished as he is - suggestions on what she could say and how to drop it into the convo?<|endoftext|>

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My friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. I'm not quite sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, r/relationships :) A close friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. The problem: he's amazingly accomplished and I feel like I've got little to offer in return. He's a scholarship student, he's on the regional council for our local UN Youth group, he got into law school, he's an accomplished athlete etc. Me? I do a bit of freelance illustration work but not regularly (I'm not quite at a professional level yet) - and that's about all I've got. We're both science students (he's a law-science conjoint) and that feels like it's about it. My friend keeps reiterating that he's not the kind of guy who cares about this kind of stuff. Even if this is true, I'm not quite sure how my friend would drop my name in a conversation while they're away on law school's team-building camp together. They're not sorted onto the same team and they're not particularly chummy with one other so their time together is likely limited. Any suggestions for how I should go about this? Thanks in advance your time! TL;DR: My close friend offered to put in a good word for me to my super accomplished crush, they're not tight and I'm not nearly as accomplished as he is - suggestions on what she could say and how to drop it into the convo?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, r/relationships :) A close friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. The problem: he's amazingly accomplished and I feel like I've got little to offer in return. He's a scholarship student, he's on the regional council for our local UN Youth group, he got into law school, he's an accomplished athlete etc. Me? I do a bit of freelance illustration work but not regularly (I'm not quite at a professional level yet) - and that's about all I've got. We're both science students (he's a law-science conjoint) and that feels like it's about it. My friend keeps reiterating that he's not the kind of guy who cares about this kind of stuff. Even if this is true, I'm not quite sure how my friend would drop my name in a conversation while they're away on law school's team-building camp together. They're not sorted onto the same team and they're not particularly chummy with one other so their time together is likely limited. Any suggestions for how I should go about this? Thanks in advance your time! TL;DR: My friend offered to put in a good word for me to a guy I'm interested in. I'm not quite sure what to do.<|endoftext|>

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Long story short--I had previously posted a few months ago in PF. My (29F) boyfriend (31M) of 1 year has 268K of student debt plus about 10K of credit card debt. He makes close to 90K a year. When I posted previously, my boyfriend had the attitude of "I'll just pay the minimums and then it'll be forgiven after 20 years". So we broke up. About a month later he came back with a big plan and we got back together. Things were going great, until recently when he's been touting his presidential pick saying "They're just going to get rid of student loans and forgive them all and I won't have to slave away forever". His attitude (not so much his politics) are really starting to irk me. I don't have problems with loan forgiveness, but to simply just bank on having all your loans forgiven? He hasnt even tried to pay anything above his minimums. It makes me feel like he wouldn't honor commitments. Here he is, he signed for these loans, but he has no intention of wanting to repay them EVEN THOUGH its what helped get him his job. It makes me feel like if he can get out of anything, he will try to. I am NOT against student loan forgiveness--I even have a few loans myself, but I am actively trying to pay them while I am in school. I tried explaining to him that he signed a contract, but he just keeps touting the same line "well it'll all just be forgiven anyway" which makes me feel like he is falling back into his old tricks of not paying anything above what he has to. Before I thought there was hope for us. Again, its not so much his politics but it just upsets me that he feels he can treat contracts like this. Would he do the same for marriage? Its starting to put a strain on me, feeling like he will try to get out of anything he can.

SO (31M) signs loan contract, promotes himself for getting rid of loan debt, yet won't help pay even though it helped him get job. Is this a deal breaker or just a case of me making the wrong decision?

Boyfriend has 268K of student debt and 10K of credit card debt. Will this be a deal breaker? Should I just suck it up and try to remain friends?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short--I had previously posted a few months ago in PF. My (29F) boyfriend (31M) of 1 year has 268K of student debt plus about 10K of credit card debt. He makes close to 90K a year. When I posted previously, my boyfriend had the attitude of "I'll just pay the minimums and then it'll be forgiven after 20 years". So we broke up. About a month later he came back with a big plan and we got back together. Things were going great, until recently when he's been touting his presidential pick saying "They're just going to get rid of student loans and forgive them all and I won't have to slave away forever". His attitude (not so much his politics) are really starting to irk me. I don't have problems with loan forgiveness, but to simply just bank on having all your loans forgiven? He hasnt even tried to pay anything above his minimums. It makes me feel like he wouldn't honor commitments. Here he is, he signed for these loans, but he has no intention of wanting to repay them EVEN THOUGH its what helped get him his job. It makes me feel like if he can get out of anything, he will try to. I am NOT against student loan forgiveness--I even have a few loans myself, but I am actively trying to pay them while I am in school. I tried explaining to him that he signed a contract, but he just keeps touting the same line "well it'll all just be forgiven anyway" which makes me feel like he is falling back into his old tricks of not paying anything above what he has to. Before I thought there was hope for us. Again, its not so much his politics but it just upsets me that he feels he can treat contracts like this. Would he do the same for marriage? Its starting to put a strain on me, feeling like he will try to get out of anything he can. TL;DR:

SO (31M) signs loan contract, promotes himself for getting rid of loan debt, yet won't help pay even though it helped him get job. Is this a deal breaker or just a case of me making the wrong decision?<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend has 268K of student debt and 10K of credit card debt. Will this be a deal breaker? Should I just suck it up and try to remain friends?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short--I had previously posted a few months ago in PF. My (29F) boyfriend (31M) of 1 year has 268K of student debt plus about 10K of credit card debt. He makes close to 90K a year. When I posted previously, my boyfriend had the attitude of "I'll just pay the minimums and then it'll be forgiven after 20 years". So we broke up. About a month later he came back with a big plan and we got back together. Things were going great, until recently when he's been touting his presidential pick saying "They're just going to get rid of student loans and forgive them all and I won't have to slave away forever". His attitude (not so much his politics) are really starting to irk me. I don't have problems with loan forgiveness, but to simply just bank on having all your loans forgiven? He hasnt even tried to pay anything above his minimums. It makes me feel like he wouldn't honor commitments. Here he is, he signed for these loans, but he has no intention of wanting to repay them EVEN THOUGH its what helped get him his job. It makes me feel like if he can get out of anything, he will try to. I am NOT against student loan forgiveness--I even have a few loans myself, but I am actively trying to pay them while I am in school. I tried explaining to him that he signed a contract, but he just keeps touting the same line "well it'll all just be forgiven anyway" which makes me feel like he is falling back into his old tricks of not paying anything above what he has to. Before I thought there was hope for us. Again, its not so much his politics but it just upsets me that he feels he can treat contracts like this. Would he do the same for marriage? Its starting to put a strain on me, feeling like he will try to get out of anything he can. TL;DR: SO (31M) signs loan contract, promotes himself for getting rid of loan debt, yet won't help pay even though it helped him get job. Is this a deal breaker or just a case of me making the wrong decision?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long story short--I had previously posted a few months ago in PF. My (29F) boyfriend (31M) of 1 year has 268K of student debt plus about 10K of credit card debt. He makes close to 90K a year. When I posted previously, my boyfriend had the attitude of "I'll just pay the minimums and then it'll be forgiven after 20 years". So we broke up. About a month later he came back with a big plan and we got back together. Things were going great, until recently when he's been touting his presidential pick saying "They're just going to get rid of student loans and forgive them all and I won't have to slave away forever". His attitude (not so much his politics) are really starting to irk me. I don't have problems with loan forgiveness, but to simply just bank on having all your loans forgiven? He hasnt even tried to pay anything above his minimums. It makes me feel like he wouldn't honor commitments. Here he is, he signed for these loans, but he has no intention of wanting to repay them EVEN THOUGH its what helped get him his job. It makes me feel like if he can get out of anything, he will try to. I am NOT against student loan forgiveness--I even have a few loans myself, but I am actively trying to pay them while I am in school. I tried explaining to him that he signed a contract, but he just keeps touting the same line "well it'll all just be forgiven anyway" which makes me feel like he is falling back into his old tricks of not paying anything above what he has to. Before I thought there was hope for us. Again, its not so much his politics but it just upsets me that he feels he can treat contracts like this. Would he do the same for marriage? Its starting to put a strain on me, feeling like he will try to get out of anything he can. TL;DR: Boyfriend has 268K of student debt and 10K of credit card debt. Will this be a deal breaker? Should I just suck it up and try to remain friends?<|endoftext|>

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This morning, I was walking between terminals in the Minneapolis airport. A bunch of us got stuck behind a group of 8 teenage girls slowly walking side by side. Side by side, 8 deep! I fly over 100 times a year, but I'd never seen anything like this - a human traffic jam caused by 8 oblivious idiots. 8 obliviots. More than two dozen people and an airport cart driving an elderly woman frustratedly walked behind them. They ignored people's polite requests of "excuse me", angry pleas of "I have a flight to catch!" and even the beeping of the cart. And this was not a mall or a park - this was an airport, where delaying someone else by even a minute can destroy their day. Meanwhile, they loudly gabbed about what cute boys they liked - as if sticking to script from an Archie comic. While they physically blocked the entire hallway, they were emotionally two-dimensional. Finally, the hall widened enough for us to walk around them. I hung back and let everyone else go ahead of me, as I had some leeway before my connecting flight. As the mess cleared, I walked by the gaggle, then stopped in front of them, turned around, and said, "I think it's wonderful that there are still teenage girls willing to hang out with a friend who is clearly so much uglier than the rest of the group". And then I kept walking. I didn't even get to the end of the hall before I heard them fighting about who I meant. For the sake of the people on whatever flight they're eventually on, I hope they're now giving each other the silent treatment.

8 teenage girls blocked an entire airport hallway in the world's most expensive "girl-group" lip service.

8 spoiled brat girls got stuck at the airport due to their immaturity and obliviousness, and I'd like to know how I can help them.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning, I was walking between terminals in the Minneapolis airport. A bunch of us got stuck behind a group of 8 teenage girls slowly walking side by side. Side by side, 8 deep! I fly over 100 times a year, but I'd never seen anything like this - a human traffic jam caused by 8 oblivious idiots. 8 obliviots. More than two dozen people and an airport cart driving an elderly woman frustratedly walked behind them. They ignored people's polite requests of "excuse me", angry pleas of "I have a flight to catch!" and even the beeping of the cart. And this was not a mall or a park - this was an airport, where delaying someone else by even a minute can destroy their day. Meanwhile, they loudly gabbed about what cute boys they liked - as if sticking to script from an Archie comic. While they physically blocked the entire hallway, they were emotionally two-dimensional. Finally, the hall widened enough for us to walk around them. I hung back and let everyone else go ahead of me, as I had some leeway before my connecting flight. As the mess cleared, I walked by the gaggle, then stopped in front of them, turned around, and said, "I think it's wonderful that there are still teenage girls willing to hang out with a friend who is clearly so much uglier than the rest of the group". And then I kept walking. I didn't even get to the end of the hall before I heard them fighting about who I meant. For the sake of the people on whatever flight they're eventually on, I hope they're now giving each other the silent treatment. TL;DR:

8 teenage girls blocked an entire airport hallway in the world's most expensive "girl-group" lip service.<|endoftext|>

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8 spoiled brat girls got stuck at the airport due to their immaturity and obliviousness, and I'd like to know how I can help them.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning, I was walking between terminals in the Minneapolis airport. A bunch of us got stuck behind a group of 8 teenage girls slowly walking side by side. Side by side, 8 deep! I fly over 100 times a year, but I'd never seen anything like this - a human traffic jam caused by 8 oblivious idiots. 8 obliviots. More than two dozen people and an airport cart driving an elderly woman frustratedly walked behind them. They ignored people's polite requests of "excuse me", angry pleas of "I have a flight to catch!" and even the beeping of the cart. And this was not a mall or a park - this was an airport, where delaying someone else by even a minute can destroy their day. Meanwhile, they loudly gabbed about what cute boys they liked - as if sticking to script from an Archie comic. While they physically blocked the entire hallway, they were emotionally two-dimensional. Finally, the hall widened enough for us to walk around them. I hung back and let everyone else go ahead of me, as I had some leeway before my connecting flight. As the mess cleared, I walked by the gaggle, then stopped in front of them, turned around, and said, "I think it's wonderful that there are still teenage girls willing to hang out with a friend who is clearly so much uglier than the rest of the group". And then I kept walking. I didn't even get to the end of the hall before I heard them fighting about who I meant. For the sake of the people on whatever flight they're eventually on, I hope they're now giving each other the silent treatment. TL;DR: 8 teenage girls blocked an entire airport hallway in the world's most expensive "girl-group" lip service.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning, I was walking between terminals in the Minneapolis airport. A bunch of us got stuck behind a group of 8 teenage girls slowly walking side by side. Side by side, 8 deep! I fly over 100 times a year, but I'd never seen anything like this - a human traffic jam caused by 8 oblivious idiots. 8 obliviots. More than two dozen people and an airport cart driving an elderly woman frustratedly walked behind them. They ignored people's polite requests of "excuse me", angry pleas of "I have a flight to catch!" and even the beeping of the cart. And this was not a mall or a park - this was an airport, where delaying someone else by even a minute can destroy their day. Meanwhile, they loudly gabbed about what cute boys they liked - as if sticking to script from an Archie comic. While they physically blocked the entire hallway, they were emotionally two-dimensional. Finally, the hall widened enough for us to walk around them. I hung back and let everyone else go ahead of me, as I had some leeway before my connecting flight. As the mess cleared, I walked by the gaggle, then stopped in front of them, turned around, and said, "I think it's wonderful that there are still teenage girls willing to hang out with a friend who is clearly so much uglier than the rest of the group". And then I kept walking. I didn't even get to the end of the hall before I heard them fighting about who I meant. For the sake of the people on whatever flight they're eventually on, I hope they're now giving each other the silent treatment. TL;DR: 8 spoiled brat girls got stuck at the airport due to their immaturity and obliviousness, and I'd like to know how I can help them.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend and I have had lots of ups and downs over the past two years including having a nearly one year old daughter. Things have lately become quite turbulent and while they are at a cease fire as of right now, can flare up. Reading some of his messages to others recently, he has said to them about how he is going to take me off the lease, and take my daughter away. How likely is he to do this? I'm the one that works and pays for everything. The vehicle we share is also mine. Technically, he has no job, no house, and no vehicle. He wants to take away the baby because he says I am mentally unstable. I need to know how to protect myself in the case he feels the need to start things up again.

Boyfriend and I almost constantly fighting; he wants to kick me our and take our infant even though I am the one that is paying all the bills.

Boyfriend wants to take my baby away and kick me out of my apartment. How likely is he to do this?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have had lots of ups and downs over the past two years including having a nearly one year old daughter. Things have lately become quite turbulent and while they are at a cease fire as of right now, can flare up. Reading some of his messages to others recently, he has said to them about how he is going to take me off the lease, and take my daughter away. How likely is he to do this? I'm the one that works and pays for everything. The vehicle we share is also mine. Technically, he has no job, no house, and no vehicle. He wants to take away the baby because he says I am mentally unstable. I need to know how to protect myself in the case he feels the need to start things up again. TL;DR:

Boyfriend and I almost constantly fighting; he wants to kick me our and take our infant even though I am the one that is paying all the bills.<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend wants to take my baby away and kick me out of my apartment. How likely is he to do this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have had lots of ups and downs over the past two years including having a nearly one year old daughter. Things have lately become quite turbulent and while they are at a cease fire as of right now, can flare up. Reading some of his messages to others recently, he has said to them about how he is going to take me off the lease, and take my daughter away. How likely is he to do this? I'm the one that works and pays for everything. The vehicle we share is also mine. Technically, he has no job, no house, and no vehicle. He wants to take away the baby because he says I am mentally unstable. I need to know how to protect myself in the case he feels the need to start things up again. TL;DR: Boyfriend and I almost constantly fighting; he wants to kick me our and take our infant even though I am the one that is paying all the bills.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend and I have had lots of ups and downs over the past two years including having a nearly one year old daughter. Things have lately become quite turbulent and while they are at a cease fire as of right now, can flare up. Reading some of his messages to others recently, he has said to them about how he is going to take me off the lease, and take my daughter away. How likely is he to do this? I'm the one that works and pays for everything. The vehicle we share is also mine. Technically, he has no job, no house, and no vehicle. He wants to take away the baby because he says I am mentally unstable. I need to know how to protect myself in the case he feels the need to start things up again. TL;DR: Boyfriend wants to take my baby away and kick me out of my apartment. How likely is he to do this?<|endoftext|>

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Last Sunday I went out with a few girlfriends and my partner (David). We all ended up having a big night with a few too many drinks. One of my girlfriends (Hayley) ended up coming back to our place and crashing. All three of us slept in mine and David's bed which is queen size, so quite generous. I know it was a bit silly to sleep in the same bed but I never thought it would be an issue. When us girls have sleepovers there are usually four of us on a bed (no biggie). Well.. just as we were falling asleep I felt my boob being touched. I asked who was touching me but no one answered. I also felt my friend Hayley (who was in the middle by my choice) push into me a few times. All of a sudden my friend Hayley asks if she can have another bed to sleep in. I said okay but then we all fell sleep because we were boozy. The next day David is acting all guilty and weird.. He is hanging around while I'm doing my makeup and generally acting a bit odd. I go to work, whatever. He visits me at work for lunch and then admits he felt a bit guilty about being so close to Hayley and that it was a bad idea to sleep in the same bed and we should have thought about it more. At this point I am starting to freak out a little.. what the hell is going on? I ask him if he did anything inappropriate and he says no. He keeps reassuring me that he didn't do anything bad he just feels guilty about the intimacy of the arrangement. Today I spoke to my friend Hayley and she said that he touched her ass a bit and pushed his boner on her a little. He also used her hand to touch my boob. Then we fell asleep. She said she didn't mind at all etc. My problem is do I believe this? I'm not sure if I am being dramatic about this? I feel confused and upset. Also-- I feel like an idiot about the arrangements. Ugh. I don't know.

Boyfriend and I slept in the same bed and I felt my boob being touched/pushed/used by a friend who was in the middle.

Boyfriend seemed to be showing off his dick to my friend and then I felt a little bit of boob touching. Now I'm feeling like an idiot.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last Sunday I went out with a few girlfriends and my partner (David). We all ended up having a big night with a few too many drinks. One of my girlfriends (Hayley) ended up coming back to our place and crashing. All three of us slept in mine and David's bed which is queen size, so quite generous. I know it was a bit silly to sleep in the same bed but I never thought it would be an issue. When us girls have sleepovers there are usually four of us on a bed (no biggie). Well.. just as we were falling asleep I felt my boob being touched. I asked who was touching me but no one answered. I also felt my friend Hayley (who was in the middle by my choice) push into me a few times. All of a sudden my friend Hayley asks if she can have another bed to sleep in. I said okay but then we all fell sleep because we were boozy. The next day David is acting all guilty and weird.. He is hanging around while I'm doing my makeup and generally acting a bit odd. I go to work, whatever. He visits me at work for lunch and then admits he felt a bit guilty about being so close to Hayley and that it was a bad idea to sleep in the same bed and we should have thought about it more. At this point I am starting to freak out a little.. what the hell is going on? I ask him if he did anything inappropriate and he says no. He keeps reassuring me that he didn't do anything bad he just feels guilty about the intimacy of the arrangement. Today I spoke to my friend Hayley and she said that he touched her ass a bit and pushed his boner on her a little. He also used her hand to touch my boob. Then we fell asleep. She said she didn't mind at all etc. My problem is do I believe this? I'm not sure if I am being dramatic about this? I feel confused and upset. Also-- I feel like an idiot about the arrangements. Ugh. I don't know. TL;DR:

Boyfriend and I slept in the same bed and I felt my boob being touched/pushed/used by a friend who was in the middle.<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend seemed to be showing off his dick to my friend and then I felt a little bit of boob touching. Now I'm feeling like an idiot.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last Sunday I went out with a few girlfriends and my partner (David). We all ended up having a big night with a few too many drinks. One of my girlfriends (Hayley) ended up coming back to our place and crashing. All three of us slept in mine and David's bed which is queen size, so quite generous. I know it was a bit silly to sleep in the same bed but I never thought it would be an issue. When us girls have sleepovers there are usually four of us on a bed (no biggie). Well.. just as we were falling asleep I felt my boob being touched. I asked who was touching me but no one answered. I also felt my friend Hayley (who was in the middle by my choice) push into me a few times. All of a sudden my friend Hayley asks if she can have another bed to sleep in. I said okay but then we all fell sleep because we were boozy. The next day David is acting all guilty and weird.. He is hanging around while I'm doing my makeup and generally acting a bit odd. I go to work, whatever. He visits me at work for lunch and then admits he felt a bit guilty about being so close to Hayley and that it was a bad idea to sleep in the same bed and we should have thought about it more. At this point I am starting to freak out a little.. what the hell is going on? I ask him if he did anything inappropriate and he says no. He keeps reassuring me that he didn't do anything bad he just feels guilty about the intimacy of the arrangement. Today I spoke to my friend Hayley and she said that he touched her ass a bit and pushed his boner on her a little. He also used her hand to touch my boob. Then we fell asleep. She said she didn't mind at all etc. My problem is do I believe this? I'm not sure if I am being dramatic about this? I feel confused and upset. Also-- I feel like an idiot about the arrangements. Ugh. I don't know. TL;DR: Boyfriend and I slept in the same bed and I felt my boob being touched/pushed/used by a friend who was in the middle.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Last Sunday I went out with a few girlfriends and my partner (David). We all ended up having a big night with a few too many drinks. One of my girlfriends (Hayley) ended up coming back to our place and crashing. All three of us slept in mine and David's bed which is queen size, so quite generous. I know it was a bit silly to sleep in the same bed but I never thought it would be an issue. When us girls have sleepovers there are usually four of us on a bed (no biggie). Well.. just as we were falling asleep I felt my boob being touched. I asked who was touching me but no one answered. I also felt my friend Hayley (who was in the middle by my choice) push into me a few times. All of a sudden my friend Hayley asks if she can have another bed to sleep in. I said okay but then we all fell sleep because we were boozy. The next day David is acting all guilty and weird.. He is hanging around while I'm doing my makeup and generally acting a bit odd. I go to work, whatever. He visits me at work for lunch and then admits he felt a bit guilty about being so close to Hayley and that it was a bad idea to sleep in the same bed and we should have thought about it more. At this point I am starting to freak out a little.. what the hell is going on? I ask him if he did anything inappropriate and he says no. He keeps reassuring me that he didn't do anything bad he just feels guilty about the intimacy of the arrangement. Today I spoke to my friend Hayley and she said that he touched her ass a bit and pushed his boner on her a little. He also used her hand to touch my boob. Then we fell asleep. She said she didn't mind at all etc. My problem is do I believe this? I'm not sure if I am being dramatic about this? I feel confused and upset. Also-- I feel like an idiot about the arrangements. Ugh. I don't know. TL;DR: Boyfriend seemed to be showing off his dick to my friend and then I felt a little bit of boob touching. Now I'm feeling like an idiot.<|endoftext|>

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My mom offered for my boyfriend to attend Thanksgiving with me, which was surprising, but also letting me know she's accepting him and inviting him to family gatherings. My boyfriend has a habit of smoking cigarettes. I told him when we go, nobody smokes and they all hate it so he won't be able to smoke, as it is not appropriate or polite. He then nonchalantly said "fuck that, I'm not going somewhere that I am restricted at" Then he proceeded to say how he wants to get drunk and (maybe) high and pig out on a Thanksgiving feast. His personality is somewhat douchey but never like this statement he made..

My boyfriend doesn't want to come to Thanksgiving because of rules where the holiday is being hosted at. I'm fine spending Thanksgiving without him, but am nervous this behavior is something that will keep happening in the future. What should i do?!

boyfriend doesn't want to come to family Thanksgiving because of "restrictions"

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mom offered for my boyfriend to attend Thanksgiving with me, which was surprising, but also letting me know she's accepting him and inviting him to family gatherings. My boyfriend has a habit of smoking cigarettes. I told him when we go, nobody smokes and they all hate it so he won't be able to smoke, as it is not appropriate or polite. He then nonchalantly said "fuck that, I'm not going somewhere that I am restricted at" Then he proceeded to say how he wants to get drunk and (maybe) high and pig out on a Thanksgiving feast. His personality is somewhat douchey but never like this statement he made.. TL;DR:

My boyfriend doesn't want to come to Thanksgiving because of rules where the holiday is being hosted at. I'm fine spending Thanksgiving without him, but am nervous this behavior is something that will keep happening in the future. What should i do?!<|endoftext|>

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boyfriend doesn't want to come to family Thanksgiving because of "restrictions"<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mom offered for my boyfriend to attend Thanksgiving with me, which was surprising, but also letting me know she's accepting him and inviting him to family gatherings. My boyfriend has a habit of smoking cigarettes. I told him when we go, nobody smokes and they all hate it so he won't be able to smoke, as it is not appropriate or polite. He then nonchalantly said "fuck that, I'm not going somewhere that I am restricted at" Then he proceeded to say how he wants to get drunk and (maybe) high and pig out on a Thanksgiving feast. His personality is somewhat douchey but never like this statement he made.. TL;DR: My boyfriend doesn't want to come to Thanksgiving because of rules where the holiday is being hosted at. I'm fine spending Thanksgiving without him, but am nervous this behavior is something that will keep happening in the future. What should i do?!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My mom offered for my boyfriend to attend Thanksgiving with me, which was surprising, but also letting me know she's accepting him and inviting him to family gatherings. My boyfriend has a habit of smoking cigarettes. I told him when we go, nobody smokes and they all hate it so he won't be able to smoke, as it is not appropriate or polite. He then nonchalantly said "fuck that, I'm not going somewhere that I am restricted at" Then he proceeded to say how he wants to get drunk and (maybe) high and pig out on a Thanksgiving feast. His personality is somewhat douchey but never like this statement he made.. TL;DR: boyfriend doesn't want to come to family Thanksgiving because of "restrictions"<|endoftext|>

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I have known him for 4 years and recently he asked me out on a date. I knew he liked me but it was kinda out of nowhere. He has been my best friend and I can tell him anything. He has always been like a brother to me. For some reason other people we know think that we would be perfect together. I don't feel the same way. I keep getting this guilty feeling when I talk to other guys or think of the future. So basically I am asking how can I stop feeling guilty. And most importantly how can I move past this and keep being friends. I feel so awkward now.

Friend asked me out on a date. I don't feel the same way. Now its awkward and I feel guilty.

My best friend asked me on a date and I don't feel the same about him. How do I fix this?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known him for 4 years and recently he asked me out on a date. I knew he liked me but it was kinda out of nowhere. He has been my best friend and I can tell him anything. He has always been like a brother to me. For some reason other people we know think that we would be perfect together. I don't feel the same way. I keep getting this guilty feeling when I talk to other guys or think of the future. So basically I am asking how can I stop feeling guilty. And most importantly how can I move past this and keep being friends. I feel so awkward now. TL;DR:

Friend asked me out on a date. I don't feel the same way. Now its awkward and I feel guilty.<|endoftext|>

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My best friend asked me on a date and I don't feel the same about him. How do I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known him for 4 years and recently he asked me out on a date. I knew he liked me but it was kinda out of nowhere. He has been my best friend and I can tell him anything. He has always been like a brother to me. For some reason other people we know think that we would be perfect together. I don't feel the same way. I keep getting this guilty feeling when I talk to other guys or think of the future. So basically I am asking how can I stop feeling guilty. And most importantly how can I move past this and keep being friends. I feel so awkward now. TL;DR: Friend asked me out on a date. I don't feel the same way. Now its awkward and I feel guilty.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have known him for 4 years and recently he asked me out on a date. I knew he liked me but it was kinda out of nowhere. He has been my best friend and I can tell him anything. He has always been like a brother to me. For some reason other people we know think that we would be perfect together. I don't feel the same way. I keep getting this guilty feeling when I talk to other guys or think of the future. So basically I am asking how can I stop feeling guilty. And most importantly how can I move past this and keep being friends. I feel so awkward now. TL;DR: My best friend asked me on a date and I don't feel the same about him. How do I fix this?<|endoftext|>

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To begin, our relationship started off kind of rocky with her texting other guys and me going through depression, we got past that and I believe it stopped. During the rest of our relationship she peeked through my phone and computer twice for reasons unknown. We got past all of that too. We've come close to breaking up about 3 times in the past but she begged and pleaded to stay together and we did. It's been awhile since we have come close to breaking up again but recently I've just found myself unsure of the relationship. I have bad trust issues now when she goes out because of how things began and We've talked about all of that and I've just been told "Don't worry, I love you and only you blah blah blah..." and I'm beginning to find her very vain and attention hungry, at the same time recently she really hasn't done anything wrong but with me being a straight-edge guy after going through a drug addiction and my father being an abusive alcoholic asked her theoretically what she would do If I asked her to stop drinking and she said she saw no reason because she doesn't do it to excess. While I agree, I have just found myself sad recently and I can't stop thinking about everything that's gone wrong with our relationship and I've been feeling unsure about the future. On top of all of this financially I am not that well off at the moment but am working towards becoming better due to my own past and feel bad when time comes around to buy gifts because I know what she really wants and I can't give her that. I feel as if all the issues with the relationship are because of me and they are all in my head. Any advice?

Starting to become unsure about my relationship due to past issues and financial issues. Feel as if all the problems are in my head and don't think about the relationship objectively anymore. Need advice!

Been through rough times with my SO of 15 months. Recently started feeling unsure of our future due to past issues and economic circumstances. Need advice/help/motivation to do better.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To begin, our relationship started off kind of rocky with her texting other guys and me going through depression, we got past that and I believe it stopped. During the rest of our relationship she peeked through my phone and computer twice for reasons unknown. We got past all of that too. We've come close to breaking up about 3 times in the past but she begged and pleaded to stay together and we did. It's been awhile since we have come close to breaking up again but recently I've just found myself unsure of the relationship. I have bad trust issues now when she goes out because of how things began and We've talked about all of that and I've just been told "Don't worry, I love you and only you blah blah blah..." and I'm beginning to find her very vain and attention hungry, at the same time recently she really hasn't done anything wrong but with me being a straight-edge guy after going through a drug addiction and my father being an abusive alcoholic asked her theoretically what she would do If I asked her to stop drinking and she said she saw no reason because she doesn't do it to excess. While I agree, I have just found myself sad recently and I can't stop thinking about everything that's gone wrong with our relationship and I've been feeling unsure about the future. On top of all of this financially I am not that well off at the moment but am working towards becoming better due to my own past and feel bad when time comes around to buy gifts because I know what she really wants and I can't give her that. I feel as if all the issues with the relationship are because of me and they are all in my head. Any advice? TL;DR:

Starting to become unsure about my relationship due to past issues and financial issues. Feel as if all the problems are in my head and don't think about the relationship objectively anymore. Need advice!<|endoftext|>

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Been through rough times with my SO of 15 months. Recently started feeling unsure of our future due to past issues and economic circumstances. Need advice/help/motivation to do better.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To begin, our relationship started off kind of rocky with her texting other guys and me going through depression, we got past that and I believe it stopped. During the rest of our relationship she peeked through my phone and computer twice for reasons unknown. We got past all of that too. We've come close to breaking up about 3 times in the past but she begged and pleaded to stay together and we did. It's been awhile since we have come close to breaking up again but recently I've just found myself unsure of the relationship. I have bad trust issues now when she goes out because of how things began and We've talked about all of that and I've just been told "Don't worry, I love you and only you blah blah blah..." and I'm beginning to find her very vain and attention hungry, at the same time recently she really hasn't done anything wrong but with me being a straight-edge guy after going through a drug addiction and my father being an abusive alcoholic asked her theoretically what she would do If I asked her to stop drinking and she said she saw no reason because she doesn't do it to excess. While I agree, I have just found myself sad recently and I can't stop thinking about everything that's gone wrong with our relationship and I've been feeling unsure about the future. On top of all of this financially I am not that well off at the moment but am working towards becoming better due to my own past and feel bad when time comes around to buy gifts because I know what she really wants and I can't give her that. I feel as if all the issues with the relationship are because of me and they are all in my head. Any advice? TL;DR: Starting to become unsure about my relationship due to past issues and financial issues. Feel as if all the problems are in my head and don't think about the relationship objectively anymore. Need advice!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: To begin, our relationship started off kind of rocky with her texting other guys and me going through depression, we got past that and I believe it stopped. During the rest of our relationship she peeked through my phone and computer twice for reasons unknown. We got past all of that too. We've come close to breaking up about 3 times in the past but she begged and pleaded to stay together and we did. It's been awhile since we have come close to breaking up again but recently I've just found myself unsure of the relationship. I have bad trust issues now when she goes out because of how things began and We've talked about all of that and I've just been told "Don't worry, I love you and only you blah blah blah..." and I'm beginning to find her very vain and attention hungry, at the same time recently she really hasn't done anything wrong but with me being a straight-edge guy after going through a drug addiction and my father being an abusive alcoholic asked her theoretically what she would do If I asked her to stop drinking and she said she saw no reason because she doesn't do it to excess. While I agree, I have just found myself sad recently and I can't stop thinking about everything that's gone wrong with our relationship and I've been feeling unsure about the future. On top of all of this financially I am not that well off at the moment but am working towards becoming better due to my own past and feel bad when time comes around to buy gifts because I know what she really wants and I can't give her that. I feel as if all the issues with the relationship are because of me and they are all in my head. Any advice? TL;DR: Been through rough times with my SO of 15 months. Recently started feeling unsure of our future due to past issues and economic circumstances. Need advice/help/motivation to do better.<|endoftext|>

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Since I was young, I've imagined scenarios where I get hurt, be it emotionally or physically, while people basically react to it. I think about these scenarios so constantly I'm starting to think it should be called fantasizing. I go as far as imagining myself finding my SO cheating on me, and I just think about all the different ways I would react to it. At this point I constantly think about how I would be killed or how I would kill myself and how people would react to it. I have a good family life, and my relationship with my SO is okay. I have great friends. Nothing is really wrong with my life, but I did just get over a few months of depression(?) during which I was cutting and constantly thinking of suicide. This isn't normal, right? Why am I like this? How can I stop myself from these thoughts?

I like to think of different scenarios where I get hurt and/or die and how friends/family/SO/public would react to it. What is wrong with me.

I constantly think of bad scenarios and imagine how I would react to them.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Since I was young, I've imagined scenarios where I get hurt, be it emotionally or physically, while people basically react to it. I think about these scenarios so constantly I'm starting to think it should be called fantasizing. I go as far as imagining myself finding my SO cheating on me, and I just think about all the different ways I would react to it. At this point I constantly think about how I would be killed or how I would kill myself and how people would react to it. I have a good family life, and my relationship with my SO is okay. I have great friends. Nothing is really wrong with my life, but I did just get over a few months of depression(?) during which I was cutting and constantly thinking of suicide. This isn't normal, right? Why am I like this? How can I stop myself from these thoughts? TL;DR:

I like to think of different scenarios where I get hurt and/or die and how friends/family/SO/public would react to it. What is wrong with me.<|endoftext|>

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I constantly think of bad scenarios and imagine how I would react to them.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Since I was young, I've imagined scenarios where I get hurt, be it emotionally or physically, while people basically react to it. I think about these scenarios so constantly I'm starting to think it should be called fantasizing. I go as far as imagining myself finding my SO cheating on me, and I just think about all the different ways I would react to it. At this point I constantly think about how I would be killed or how I would kill myself and how people would react to it. I have a good family life, and my relationship with my SO is okay. I have great friends. Nothing is really wrong with my life, but I did just get over a few months of depression(?) during which I was cutting and constantly thinking of suicide. This isn't normal, right? Why am I like this? How can I stop myself from these thoughts? TL;DR: I like to think of different scenarios where I get hurt and/or die and how friends/family/SO/public would react to it. What is wrong with me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Since I was young, I've imagined scenarios where I get hurt, be it emotionally or physically, while people basically react to it. I think about these scenarios so constantly I'm starting to think it should be called fantasizing. I go as far as imagining myself finding my SO cheating on me, and I just think about all the different ways I would react to it. At this point I constantly think about how I would be killed or how I would kill myself and how people would react to it. I have a good family life, and my relationship with my SO is okay. I have great friends. Nothing is really wrong with my life, but I did just get over a few months of depression(?) during which I was cutting and constantly thinking of suicide. This isn't normal, right? Why am I like this? How can I stop myself from these thoughts? TL;DR: I constantly think of bad scenarios and imagine how I would react to them.<|endoftext|>

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So, I work in Hollywood. Post-Production. Our receptionist is leaving in June to go to school, or at least, trying to. Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year. I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck.

Receptionist is leaving work to go to school, but can't get enough money to live off of. She makes just enough not to qualify for Finical Aid.

receptionist is leaving Hollywood in June to go to school. Has to take out a loan, but not enough to pay for school. Need help on how to help her out.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I work in Hollywood. Post-Production. Our receptionist is leaving in June to go to school, or at least, trying to. Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year. I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck. TL;DR:

Receptionist is leaving work to go to school, but can't get enough money to live off of. She makes just enough not to qualify for Finical Aid.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I work in Hollywood. Post-Production. Our receptionist is leaving in June to go to school, or at least, trying to. Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year. I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck. TL;DR: Receptionist is leaving work to go to school, but can't get enough money to live off of. She makes just enough not to qualify for Finical Aid.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, I work in Hollywood. Post-Production. Our receptionist is leaving in June to go to school, or at least, trying to. Basically, she makes just enough money to not qualify for Finical Aid, but not enough to take out a solid student loan. She has been applying for ridiculous scholar ships and just basically freaking out. I don't know too much about the numbers, but she can only take so much out on a loan, and after paying for school, she would only have like $13,000 to live on for a year. I was hoping that someone might have been in a similar situation and could help shed some light. Sorry my details suck. TL;DR: receptionist is leaving Hollywood in June to go to school. Has to take out a loan, but not enough to pay for school. Need help on how to help her out.<|endoftext|>

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So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this?

My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?

Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this? TL;DR:

My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this? TL;DR: My girlfriend cheated on me, and she really regrets it, but I still love her and she still loves me. Should we try and work it out?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So, last night I was on the phone with my girlfriend of 5ish months because she was acting very upset, but wouldn't tell me why. After an hour or so, she finally told me what was wrong. A week earlier, she had gone to hang out with an ex-boyfriend of hers without telling me, and he ended up kissing her and doing other things (not sex, though) without her permission. But she also said she didn't try to stop it. From what she said, it sounds like she had no intentions of doing anything, but when one thing led to another, she didn't stop it. But, she says she feels very bad and regrets it very much. And I believe that she's sorry and regrets it, I really do. I was extremely upset. Her ex-boyfriend is a close friend of mine, and I haven't yelled at a friend like that in awhile. I told him to stay away from her and never talk to her again. And then I talked on the phone with her for another couple hours with her, trying to work things out. I'm not sure how I feel, but she really wants to make things right. She's promised me she'll never do something like it again, and I honestly believe her. I'm in love with this girl (don't try and say it's only teenage love, that's something to me and she matters to me) and I don't want to completely give up on her, but I'm also very hurt. Does Reddit think that we can work things out and have a healthy relationship after this? TL;DR: Girlfriend cheated on me and is sorry. I love her, does the world not revolve around me?<|endoftext|>

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Some background information: My girlfriend and I share the same hometown, but we live 6 hours away from our families. I have an okay relationship with my parents, but I am definitely much more independent than they would like / than they perceive children of their friends to be / than my younger siblings. I am not financially dependent on them. I would say my parents and I are on pretty friendly terms, but there are a couple of sources of annoyance: they interject unwanted opinions about how I conduct myself, which I think to some extent is typical of parents of adult children, but it has led to me being a bit distant to avoid it. There has also been some drama about the frequency and length of time I spend there--I visit a few times a year but they would like me to stay longer and come more and travel with them on vacations, etc. I try to be polite when declining, but they are very insistent on occasion, and once or twice this has ended in tears or accusations. Anyway, my girlfriend and I usually come up together and visit (save on gas, etc.) but this time due to her work, it is too difficult to get time off. I also would feel bad leaving her alone in a strange city during the holiday, when my family is large enough that they will be able to manage without me. I'm looking for a polite way to let them know that I won't be coming. This may not be possible, as prior experience suggests they may try to pay for flights, reschedule the day, guilt me into coming alone, attempt to negotiate for a longer visit during Christmas, tell me that plenty of other children are happy to visit their parents during Thanksgiving, etc. Obviously I can start off just explaining the situation with the girlfriend's job, and I am perfectly willing to be rude if it is necessary to decline without accepting future obligations. But I am not really sure how to react to the pleading/manipulative stage of the discussion without just saying "I'm sorry, I'm not coming, please stop talking about it."

Parents want me to visit them for Thanksgiving, and have already gone over the topic with the girlfriend. How do I let them down (politely)?

My parents are very insistent on coming to visit me, I'm not sure how to explain my feelings of dislocation while still being polite.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background information: My girlfriend and I share the same hometown, but we live 6 hours away from our families. I have an okay relationship with my parents, but I am definitely much more independent than they would like / than they perceive children of their friends to be / than my younger siblings. I am not financially dependent on them. I would say my parents and I are on pretty friendly terms, but there are a couple of sources of annoyance: they interject unwanted opinions about how I conduct myself, which I think to some extent is typical of parents of adult children, but it has led to me being a bit distant to avoid it. There has also been some drama about the frequency and length of time I spend there--I visit a few times a year but they would like me to stay longer and come more and travel with them on vacations, etc. I try to be polite when declining, but they are very insistent on occasion, and once or twice this has ended in tears or accusations. Anyway, my girlfriend and I usually come up together and visit (save on gas, etc.) but this time due to her work, it is too difficult to get time off. I also would feel bad leaving her alone in a strange city during the holiday, when my family is large enough that they will be able to manage without me. I'm looking for a polite way to let them know that I won't be coming. This may not be possible, as prior experience suggests they may try to pay for flights, reschedule the day, guilt me into coming alone, attempt to negotiate for a longer visit during Christmas, tell me that plenty of other children are happy to visit their parents during Thanksgiving, etc. Obviously I can start off just explaining the situation with the girlfriend's job, and I am perfectly willing to be rude if it is necessary to decline without accepting future obligations. But I am not really sure how to react to the pleading/manipulative stage of the discussion without just saying "I'm sorry, I'm not coming, please stop talking about it." TL;DR:

Parents want me to visit them for Thanksgiving, and have already gone over the topic with the girlfriend. How do I let them down (politely)?<|endoftext|>

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My parents are very insistent on coming to visit me, I'm not sure how to explain my feelings of dislocation while still being polite.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background information: My girlfriend and I share the same hometown, but we live 6 hours away from our families. I have an okay relationship with my parents, but I am definitely much more independent than they would like / than they perceive children of their friends to be / than my younger siblings. I am not financially dependent on them. I would say my parents and I are on pretty friendly terms, but there are a couple of sources of annoyance: they interject unwanted opinions about how I conduct myself, which I think to some extent is typical of parents of adult children, but it has led to me being a bit distant to avoid it. There has also been some drama about the frequency and length of time I spend there--I visit a few times a year but they would like me to stay longer and come more and travel with them on vacations, etc. I try to be polite when declining, but they are very insistent on occasion, and once or twice this has ended in tears or accusations. Anyway, my girlfriend and I usually come up together and visit (save on gas, etc.) but this time due to her work, it is too difficult to get time off. I also would feel bad leaving her alone in a strange city during the holiday, when my family is large enough that they will be able to manage without me. I'm looking for a polite way to let them know that I won't be coming. This may not be possible, as prior experience suggests they may try to pay for flights, reschedule the day, guilt me into coming alone, attempt to negotiate for a longer visit during Christmas, tell me that plenty of other children are happy to visit their parents during Thanksgiving, etc. Obviously I can start off just explaining the situation with the girlfriend's job, and I am perfectly willing to be rude if it is necessary to decline without accepting future obligations. But I am not really sure how to react to the pleading/manipulative stage of the discussion without just saying "I'm sorry, I'm not coming, please stop talking about it." TL;DR: Parents want me to visit them for Thanksgiving, and have already gone over the topic with the girlfriend. How do I let them down (politely)?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some background information: My girlfriend and I share the same hometown, but we live 6 hours away from our families. I have an okay relationship with my parents, but I am definitely much more independent than they would like / than they perceive children of their friends to be / than my younger siblings. I am not financially dependent on them. I would say my parents and I are on pretty friendly terms, but there are a couple of sources of annoyance: they interject unwanted opinions about how I conduct myself, which I think to some extent is typical of parents of adult children, but it has led to me being a bit distant to avoid it. There has also been some drama about the frequency and length of time I spend there--I visit a few times a year but they would like me to stay longer and come more and travel with them on vacations, etc. I try to be polite when declining, but they are very insistent on occasion, and once or twice this has ended in tears or accusations. Anyway, my girlfriend and I usually come up together and visit (save on gas, etc.) but this time due to her work, it is too difficult to get time off. I also would feel bad leaving her alone in a strange city during the holiday, when my family is large enough that they will be able to manage without me. I'm looking for a polite way to let them know that I won't be coming. This may not be possible, as prior experience suggests they may try to pay for flights, reschedule the day, guilt me into coming alone, attempt to negotiate for a longer visit during Christmas, tell me that plenty of other children are happy to visit their parents during Thanksgiving, etc. Obviously I can start off just explaining the situation with the girlfriend's job, and I am perfectly willing to be rude if it is necessary to decline without accepting future obligations. But I am not really sure how to react to the pleading/manipulative stage of the discussion without just saying "I'm sorry, I'm not coming, please stop talking about it." TL;DR: My parents are very insistent on coming to visit me, I'm not sure how to explain my feelings of dislocation while still being polite.<|endoftext|>

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my life turned upside down due to religion/culture in my family because of a mistake i did in highschool when they discovered that I chat with a few schoolmates(mostly girls but some boys) and online friends on a chatapp and now i was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet. i was cut ties with all my school friends and any friend i make new because of their lack of trust in me. i don't know how to get that trust back because it's really hard with them. i want to at least be able to enjoy myself again and play games but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them.

religion/culture in my family caused me to turn away from friends and online friends, i want to find them again and be able to play games with them but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them now. i don't know what to do.

I was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet for two years because of religion and culture in my family. I want to at least be able to enjoy myself again, but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. what can i do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: my life turned upside down due to religion/culture in my family because of a mistake i did in highschool when they discovered that I chat with a few schoolmates(mostly girls but some boys) and online friends on a chatapp and now i was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet. i was cut ties with all my school friends and any friend i make new because of their lack of trust in me. i don't know how to get that trust back because it's really hard with them. i want to at least be able to enjoy myself again and play games but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. TL;DR:

religion/culture in my family caused me to turn away from friends and online friends, i want to find them again and be able to play games with them but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them now. i don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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I was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet for two years because of religion and culture in my family. I want to at least be able to enjoy myself again, but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: my life turned upside down due to religion/culture in my family because of a mistake i did in highschool when they discovered that I chat with a few schoolmates(mostly girls but some boys) and online friends on a chatapp and now i was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet. i was cut ties with all my school friends and any friend i make new because of their lack of trust in me. i don't know how to get that trust back because it's really hard with them. i want to at least be able to enjoy myself again and play games but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. TL;DR: religion/culture in my family caused me to turn away from friends and online friends, i want to find them again and be able to play games with them but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them now. i don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: my life turned upside down due to religion/culture in my family because of a mistake i did in highschool when they discovered that I chat with a few schoolmates(mostly girls but some boys) and online friends on a chatapp and now i was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet. i was cut ties with all my school friends and any friend i make new because of their lack of trust in me. i don't know how to get that trust back because it's really hard with them. i want to at least be able to enjoy myself again and play games but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. TL;DR: I was forced to quit a game and gave up my phone and tablet for two years because of religion and culture in my family. I want to at least be able to enjoy myself again, but i'm too scared to face them or talk to them. what can i do?<|endoftext|>

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Personally I had a brief "crisis of faith" (sort of) recently. Personally I am not religious but the idea of nothing after death is a little terrifying to me. While I may not necessarily believe in a god or an afterlife, agnosticism appeals to me because the *idea* that there might be something else out there is nice to just have filed away in the back of my mind. I have nothing against atheism or atheists, and as someone with a science background and long-term plans to pursue a career in genetic and evolutionary science my belief system may seem backwards...but agnosticism seems logical to me from a scientific perspective. Without any evidence we cannot prove or disprove some sort of "higher being" some place, somewhere in the vastness of the universe. That is where I stand, but I am interested to see how other people came to decide between complete disbelief or a stance of uncertainty.

I was briefly atheist due to spiritual concerns, now agnostic due to science. What led you to atheism or agnosticism as opposed to complete disbelief?

atheism vs agnosticism, what led you to atheism/agnosticism? or vice versa. what facts/assumptions did you rely on/hope to rely on to make a decision?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Personally I had a brief "crisis of faith" (sort of) recently. Personally I am not religious but the idea of nothing after death is a little terrifying to me. While I may not necessarily believe in a god or an afterlife, agnosticism appeals to me because the *idea* that there might be something else out there is nice to just have filed away in the back of my mind. I have nothing against atheism or atheists, and as someone with a science background and long-term plans to pursue a career in genetic and evolutionary science my belief system may seem backwards...but agnosticism seems logical to me from a scientific perspective. Without any evidence we cannot prove or disprove some sort of "higher being" some place, somewhere in the vastness of the universe. That is where I stand, but I am interested to see how other people came to decide between complete disbelief or a stance of uncertainty. TL;DR:

I was briefly atheist due to spiritual concerns, now agnostic due to science. What led you to atheism or agnosticism as opposed to complete disbelief?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Personally I had a brief "crisis of faith" (sort of) recently. Personally I am not religious but the idea of nothing after death is a little terrifying to me. While I may not necessarily believe in a god or an afterlife, agnosticism appeals to me because the *idea* that there might be something else out there is nice to just have filed away in the back of my mind. I have nothing against atheism or atheists, and as someone with a science background and long-term plans to pursue a career in genetic and evolutionary science my belief system may seem backwards...but agnosticism seems logical to me from a scientific perspective. Without any evidence we cannot prove or disprove some sort of "higher being" some place, somewhere in the vastness of the universe. That is where I stand, but I am interested to see how other people came to decide between complete disbelief or a stance of uncertainty. TL;DR: I was briefly atheist due to spiritual concerns, now agnostic due to science. What led you to atheism or agnosticism as opposed to complete disbelief?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Personally I had a brief "crisis of faith" (sort of) recently. Personally I am not religious but the idea of nothing after death is a little terrifying to me. While I may not necessarily believe in a god or an afterlife, agnosticism appeals to me because the *idea* that there might be something else out there is nice to just have filed away in the back of my mind. I have nothing against atheism or atheists, and as someone with a science background and long-term plans to pursue a career in genetic and evolutionary science my belief system may seem backwards...but agnosticism seems logical to me from a scientific perspective. Without any evidence we cannot prove or disprove some sort of "higher being" some place, somewhere in the vastness of the universe. That is where I stand, but I am interested to see how other people came to decide between complete disbelief or a stance of uncertainty. TL;DR: atheism vs agnosticism, what led you to atheism/agnosticism? or vice versa. what facts/assumptions did you rely on/hope to rely on to make a decision?<|endoftext|>

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I don't know if this was THE defining moment but it was one of them. My group of friends and I took a party bus to our prom. We all were drinking before at a friends house for a couple hours and then the bus picked about 30 of us up and brought us to our prom at an events place the next town over. We brought a few 30 packs and a couple bottles of booze with us on the bus and by the time we got there we'd finished it all. Hammered would be an understatement. We got to the prom and somehow all of us got inside, but not for long. Within minutes one of us was puking in the bathroom and my date and I were asked to leave. About 20 minutes after that the principles called everyone into the hallway and started breathalyzing everyone that was on the bus. All of us were kicked out, suspended for the remainder of the school year (about two weeks) and none of us were allowed to walk at our graduation. Worth it. Those two weeks were fantastic.

party bus brings about 30 drunk friends to prom, we get kicked out and suspended for the rest of the school year. Worth it.

Went to prom and almost got drunk, got kicked out, suspended for 2 weeks, and were allowed to walk at graduation.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this was THE defining moment but it was one of them. My group of friends and I took a party bus to our prom. We all were drinking before at a friends house for a couple hours and then the bus picked about 30 of us up and brought us to our prom at an events place the next town over. We brought a few 30 packs and a couple bottles of booze with us on the bus and by the time we got there we'd finished it all. Hammered would be an understatement. We got to the prom and somehow all of us got inside, but not for long. Within minutes one of us was puking in the bathroom and my date and I were asked to leave. About 20 minutes after that the principles called everyone into the hallway and started breathalyzing everyone that was on the bus. All of us were kicked out, suspended for the remainder of the school year (about two weeks) and none of us were allowed to walk at our graduation. Worth it. Those two weeks were fantastic. TL;DR:

party bus brings about 30 drunk friends to prom, we get kicked out and suspended for the rest of the school year. Worth it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this was THE defining moment but it was one of them. My group of friends and I took a party bus to our prom. We all were drinking before at a friends house for a couple hours and then the bus picked about 30 of us up and brought us to our prom at an events place the next town over. We brought a few 30 packs and a couple bottles of booze with us on the bus and by the time we got there we'd finished it all. Hammered would be an understatement. We got to the prom and somehow all of us got inside, but not for long. Within minutes one of us was puking in the bathroom and my date and I were asked to leave. About 20 minutes after that the principles called everyone into the hallway and started breathalyzing everyone that was on the bus. All of us were kicked out, suspended for the remainder of the school year (about two weeks) and none of us were allowed to walk at our graduation. Worth it. Those two weeks were fantastic. TL;DR: party bus brings about 30 drunk friends to prom, we get kicked out and suspended for the rest of the school year. Worth it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this was THE defining moment but it was one of them. My group of friends and I took a party bus to our prom. We all were drinking before at a friends house for a couple hours and then the bus picked about 30 of us up and brought us to our prom at an events place the next town over. We brought a few 30 packs and a couple bottles of booze with us on the bus and by the time we got there we'd finished it all. Hammered would be an understatement. We got to the prom and somehow all of us got inside, but not for long. Within minutes one of us was puking in the bathroom and my date and I were asked to leave. About 20 minutes after that the principles called everyone into the hallway and started breathalyzing everyone that was on the bus. All of us were kicked out, suspended for the remainder of the school year (about two weeks) and none of us were allowed to walk at our graduation. Worth it. Those two weeks were fantastic. TL;DR: Went to prom and almost got drunk, got kicked out, suspended for 2 weeks, and were allowed to walk at graduation.<|endoftext|>

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Here's the down low: I met this girl camping earlier this summer, and we hit it off really well. She was unhappily married, and was about to move out of state to live with her husband. Anyway, we spent the whole week before she left together. She said things like "I've never been with someone that treats me as good as you" and "I've never been so happy with anyone before". We fell hard and fast for each other. She told me that she was planning on getting a divorce and moving back, and asked if I would wait for her, and I said that I would. So two months later she's back, and unmarried. She gives me a surprise visit. I was the first to see her when she got back she told me. Here's the kicker.. She already has a new "Man". We stayed in contact with each other while she was gone, and I had no reason to believe that she "seeing" someone else while she was making me believe that once she got back she'd be mine. So pretty much I was led on, and now I'm really disappointed, and really fucking pissed. I would like to see some opinions. I'm 26. She's 22.

met girl camping, hit it off really well, she's already got new man. disappointed, feeling like shit. would like some opinions/opinions on situation. wtf do i do? help please.

meet girl camping, hit it off well, she gets back married and moves out of state, later learns she has new man, still shows interest despite.. disappointment. should i be?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's the down low: I met this girl camping earlier this summer, and we hit it off really well. She was unhappily married, and was about to move out of state to live with her husband. Anyway, we spent the whole week before she left together. She said things like "I've never been with someone that treats me as good as you" and "I've never been so happy with anyone before". We fell hard and fast for each other. She told me that she was planning on getting a divorce and moving back, and asked if I would wait for her, and I said that I would. So two months later she's back, and unmarried. She gives me a surprise visit. I was the first to see her when she got back she told me. Here's the kicker.. She already has a new "Man". We stayed in contact with each other while she was gone, and I had no reason to believe that she "seeing" someone else while she was making me believe that once she got back she'd be mine. So pretty much I was led on, and now I'm really disappointed, and really fucking pissed. I would like to see some opinions. I'm 26. She's 22. TL;DR:

met girl camping, hit it off really well, she's already got new man. disappointed, feeling like shit. would like some opinions/opinions on situation. wtf do i do? help please.<|endoftext|>

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meet girl camping, hit it off well, she gets back married and moves out of state, later learns she has new man, still shows interest despite.. disappointment. should i be?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's the down low: I met this girl camping earlier this summer, and we hit it off really well. She was unhappily married, and was about to move out of state to live with her husband. Anyway, we spent the whole week before she left together. She said things like "I've never been with someone that treats me as good as you" and "I've never been so happy with anyone before". We fell hard and fast for each other. She told me that she was planning on getting a divorce and moving back, and asked if I would wait for her, and I said that I would. So two months later she's back, and unmarried. She gives me a surprise visit. I was the first to see her when she got back she told me. Here's the kicker.. She already has a new "Man". We stayed in contact with each other while she was gone, and I had no reason to believe that she "seeing" someone else while she was making me believe that once she got back she'd be mine. So pretty much I was led on, and now I'm really disappointed, and really fucking pissed. I would like to see some opinions. I'm 26. She's 22. TL;DR: met girl camping, hit it off really well, she's already got new man. disappointed, feeling like shit. would like some opinions/opinions on situation. wtf do i do? help please.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's the down low: I met this girl camping earlier this summer, and we hit it off really well. She was unhappily married, and was about to move out of state to live with her husband. Anyway, we spent the whole week before she left together. She said things like "I've never been with someone that treats me as good as you" and "I've never been so happy with anyone before". We fell hard and fast for each other. She told me that she was planning on getting a divorce and moving back, and asked if I would wait for her, and I said that I would. So two months later she's back, and unmarried. She gives me a surprise visit. I was the first to see her when she got back she told me. Here's the kicker.. She already has a new "Man". We stayed in contact with each other while she was gone, and I had no reason to believe that she "seeing" someone else while she was making me believe that once she got back she'd be mine. So pretty much I was led on, and now I'm really disappointed, and really fucking pissed. I would like to see some opinions. I'm 26. She's 22. TL;DR: meet girl camping, hit it off well, she gets back married and moves out of state, later learns she has new man, still shows interest despite.. disappointment. should i be?<|endoftext|>

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We have been seeing each other for almost a year, at first everything was just incredible but the last few moths the difficulties for my SO have been piling up and I have no clue how to support her through some of the situations she is faced with. She has a history of mental illness and substance abuse in her family. She is an alcoholic with a history of drug use ( mostly ecstacy and cocaine) but has her situation well under control. Her mother is in the hospital with bipolar and she is left to support her two siblings alone on a low income job. When she shares her problems with me I often respond by trying to relate to them, often sharing personal stories. This does not go over well as it seems self centered and narcissistic on my party. I am trying to understand her issues and help her but it is difficult because my life experience is very different and she does not talk much. My SO will be going to college in September and has good prospects for the future but there is a lot weighing her down. Her brother recently has tried heroin and liked it, they are both worried and he needs to be pulled out of his before he is consumed. I do not know how to support her through this. Please help.

My SO has a history of mental illness and substance abuse and I need to know how to support her through some of the hard times she experiences.

SO is going through hard times with her drug use, family issues, and mental illness. I need help to help support her.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have been seeing each other for almost a year, at first everything was just incredible but the last few moths the difficulties for my SO have been piling up and I have no clue how to support her through some of the situations she is faced with. She has a history of mental illness and substance abuse in her family. She is an alcoholic with a history of drug use ( mostly ecstacy and cocaine) but has her situation well under control. Her mother is in the hospital with bipolar and she is left to support her two siblings alone on a low income job. When she shares her problems with me I often respond by trying to relate to them, often sharing personal stories. This does not go over well as it seems self centered and narcissistic on my party. I am trying to understand her issues and help her but it is difficult because my life experience is very different and she does not talk much. My SO will be going to college in September and has good prospects for the future but there is a lot weighing her down. Her brother recently has tried heroin and liked it, they are both worried and he needs to be pulled out of his before he is consumed. I do not know how to support her through this. Please help. TL;DR:

My SO has a history of mental illness and substance abuse and I need to know how to support her through some of the hard times she experiences.<|endoftext|>

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SO is going through hard times with her drug use, family issues, and mental illness. I need help to help support her.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have been seeing each other for almost a year, at first everything was just incredible but the last few moths the difficulties for my SO have been piling up and I have no clue how to support her through some of the situations she is faced with. She has a history of mental illness and substance abuse in her family. She is an alcoholic with a history of drug use ( mostly ecstacy and cocaine) but has her situation well under control. Her mother is in the hospital with bipolar and she is left to support her two siblings alone on a low income job. When she shares her problems with me I often respond by trying to relate to them, often sharing personal stories. This does not go over well as it seems self centered and narcissistic on my party. I am trying to understand her issues and help her but it is difficult because my life experience is very different and she does not talk much. My SO will be going to college in September and has good prospects for the future but there is a lot weighing her down. Her brother recently has tried heroin and liked it, they are both worried and he needs to be pulled out of his before he is consumed. I do not know how to support her through this. Please help. TL;DR: My SO has a history of mental illness and substance abuse and I need to know how to support her through some of the hard times she experiences.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We have been seeing each other for almost a year, at first everything was just incredible but the last few moths the difficulties for my SO have been piling up and I have no clue how to support her through some of the situations she is faced with. She has a history of mental illness and substance abuse in her family. She is an alcoholic with a history of drug use ( mostly ecstacy and cocaine) but has her situation well under control. Her mother is in the hospital with bipolar and she is left to support her two siblings alone on a low income job. When she shares her problems with me I often respond by trying to relate to them, often sharing personal stories. This does not go over well as it seems self centered and narcissistic on my party. I am trying to understand her issues and help her but it is difficult because my life experience is very different and she does not talk much. My SO will be going to college in September and has good prospects for the future but there is a lot weighing her down. Her brother recently has tried heroin and liked it, they are both worried and he needs to be pulled out of his before he is consumed. I do not know how to support her through this. Please help. TL;DR: SO is going through hard times with her drug use, family issues, and mental illness. I need help to help support her.<|endoftext|>

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So I go to a university and currently am living off campus. A girl who goes to my school also lives in the same apartment complex by herself and we met at the beginning of this semester. She basically went up to me and asked if I lived at the same apartment complex while we were both at the school gym. She wanted to walk back and she gave me her number. Fast forward a week or two and I invited her out to picnic by the apartment pool with my roommates and we had a good time. After the picnic she asked what I was doing and I was busy, but we hung out late that night. Since then I have texted her on occasion and hung-out with her some nights. Over spring break she sent me a text of florida while I was up visiting my folks in the northeast and was teasing me for having much nicer weather. I got sick and decided not to respond and five days later she asked if she was not smart enough to be friends with me (she is an athlete, but in no way dumb). I said no, not at all and since then she has asked what I was doing some nights and we've watched movies together (not at the theaters) and just hung out and talked. I asked her out last minute when I found out about a cool art opening and she wanted to go, but her parents were in town. She asked if I could go another day with her, but I have been to busy to go back. Also of note is that according to some of my friends she is a bit crazy and they tell me to "hit it and quit it", but I have a good time with her and want to date her. What I am getting at is that I normally don't have issues with reading women and I'm probably one of the more attractive guys that isn't an athlete (I don't want to sound narcissistic), but I don't know if she just wants company because she lives in a single or if she actually has a romantic interest in me.

Girl who lives in apartment complex by herself hangs out with me and asks about my plans for the night sometimes, but I can't read her and I am not sure if she is romantically interested in me.

Met girl at school, she lives by herself and I spent a lot of time with her. She wants to be friends but I think she might just be interested in me.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I go to a university and currently am living off campus. A girl who goes to my school also lives in the same apartment complex by herself and we met at the beginning of this semester. She basically went up to me and asked if I lived at the same apartment complex while we were both at the school gym. She wanted to walk back and she gave me her number. Fast forward a week or two and I invited her out to picnic by the apartment pool with my roommates and we had a good time. After the picnic she asked what I was doing and I was busy, but we hung out late that night. Since then I have texted her on occasion and hung-out with her some nights. Over spring break she sent me a text of florida while I was up visiting my folks in the northeast and was teasing me for having much nicer weather. I got sick and decided not to respond and five days later she asked if she was not smart enough to be friends with me (she is an athlete, but in no way dumb). I said no, not at all and since then she has asked what I was doing some nights and we've watched movies together (not at the theaters) and just hung out and talked. I asked her out last minute when I found out about a cool art opening and she wanted to go, but her parents were in town. She asked if I could go another day with her, but I have been to busy to go back. Also of note is that according to some of my friends she is a bit crazy and they tell me to "hit it and quit it", but I have a good time with her and want to date her. What I am getting at is that I normally don't have issues with reading women and I'm probably one of the more attractive guys that isn't an athlete (I don't want to sound narcissistic), but I don't know if she just wants company because she lives in a single or if she actually has a romantic interest in me. TL;DR:

Girl who lives in apartment complex by herself hangs out with me and asks about my plans for the night sometimes, but I can't read her and I am not sure if she is romantically interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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Met girl at school, she lives by herself and I spent a lot of time with her. She wants to be friends but I think she might just be interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I go to a university and currently am living off campus. A girl who goes to my school also lives in the same apartment complex by herself and we met at the beginning of this semester. She basically went up to me and asked if I lived at the same apartment complex while we were both at the school gym. She wanted to walk back and she gave me her number. Fast forward a week or two and I invited her out to picnic by the apartment pool with my roommates and we had a good time. After the picnic she asked what I was doing and I was busy, but we hung out late that night. Since then I have texted her on occasion and hung-out with her some nights. Over spring break she sent me a text of florida while I was up visiting my folks in the northeast and was teasing me for having much nicer weather. I got sick and decided not to respond and five days later she asked if she was not smart enough to be friends with me (she is an athlete, but in no way dumb). I said no, not at all and since then she has asked what I was doing some nights and we've watched movies together (not at the theaters) and just hung out and talked. I asked her out last minute when I found out about a cool art opening and she wanted to go, but her parents were in town. She asked if I could go another day with her, but I have been to busy to go back. Also of note is that according to some of my friends she is a bit crazy and they tell me to "hit it and quit it", but I have a good time with her and want to date her. What I am getting at is that I normally don't have issues with reading women and I'm probably one of the more attractive guys that isn't an athlete (I don't want to sound narcissistic), but I don't know if she just wants company because she lives in a single or if she actually has a romantic interest in me. TL;DR: Girl who lives in apartment complex by herself hangs out with me and asks about my plans for the night sometimes, but I can't read her and I am not sure if she is romantically interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I go to a university and currently am living off campus. A girl who goes to my school also lives in the same apartment complex by herself and we met at the beginning of this semester. She basically went up to me and asked if I lived at the same apartment complex while we were both at the school gym. She wanted to walk back and she gave me her number. Fast forward a week or two and I invited her out to picnic by the apartment pool with my roommates and we had a good time. After the picnic she asked what I was doing and I was busy, but we hung out late that night. Since then I have texted her on occasion and hung-out with her some nights. Over spring break she sent me a text of florida while I was up visiting my folks in the northeast and was teasing me for having much nicer weather. I got sick and decided not to respond and five days later she asked if she was not smart enough to be friends with me (she is an athlete, but in no way dumb). I said no, not at all and since then she has asked what I was doing some nights and we've watched movies together (not at the theaters) and just hung out and talked. I asked her out last minute when I found out about a cool art opening and she wanted to go, but her parents were in town. She asked if I could go another day with her, but I have been to busy to go back. Also of note is that according to some of my friends she is a bit crazy and they tell me to "hit it and quit it", but I have a good time with her and want to date her. What I am getting at is that I normally don't have issues with reading women and I'm probably one of the more attractive guys that isn't an athlete (I don't want to sound narcissistic), but I don't know if she just wants company because she lives in a single or if she actually has a romantic interest in me. TL;DR: Met girl at school, she lives by herself and I spent a lot of time with her. She wants to be friends but I think she might just be interested in me.<|endoftext|>

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I am an 18 year old, male, college freshman who has been in one serious relationship so far (3 years long in high school). We broke up shortly after I came to college. Anyway, I've been looking around for a relationship and I met this girl on my floor who is everything I could ever want. I mean, she's beautiful, smart, kind, and she has the same religious views and values as I do. (She's also 18 and a freshman if that matters). We hit it off this last weekend and everything seemed to be going great. However, there's a problem: She was home schooled, and has never had a boyfriend or been in any kind of relationship before. Last night, she said that she's not ready for a relationship yet, and while I think that's honestly what she means, should I be worried that it's just code for "I don't like you like you like me"? What I want to know is how to approach this situation. I don't want to end up in the "friend-zone," but I don't want to pretend like she doesn't exist either. She did say that she might be open to the possibility of a relationship next semester. Any and all advice is appreciated! Thanks.

College freshman male wants a relationship with home schooled female who said she "isn't mature enough/ready for a relationship." Not sure how to approach the situation until she is ready to date.

I met this girl I would like to be in a relationship with, but she's home schooled and has never had a boyfriend before. Help me avoid the friend zone!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am an 18 year old, male, college freshman who has been in one serious relationship so far (3 years long in high school). We broke up shortly after I came to college. Anyway, I've been looking around for a relationship and I met this girl on my floor who is everything I could ever want. I mean, she's beautiful, smart, kind, and she has the same religious views and values as I do. (She's also 18 and a freshman if that matters). We hit it off this last weekend and everything seemed to be going great. However, there's a problem: She was home schooled, and has never had a boyfriend or been in any kind of relationship before. Last night, she said that she's not ready for a relationship yet, and while I think that's honestly what she means, should I be worried that it's just code for "I don't like you like you like me"? What I want to know is how to approach this situation. I don't want to end up in the "friend-zone," but I don't want to pretend like she doesn't exist either. She did say that she might be open to the possibility of a relationship next semester. Any and all advice is appreciated! Thanks. TL;DR:

College freshman male wants a relationship with home schooled female who said she "isn't mature enough/ready for a relationship." Not sure how to approach the situation until she is ready to date.<|endoftext|>

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I met this girl I would like to be in a relationship with, but she's home schooled and has never had a boyfriend before. Help me avoid the friend zone!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am an 18 year old, male, college freshman who has been in one serious relationship so far (3 years long in high school). We broke up shortly after I came to college. Anyway, I've been looking around for a relationship and I met this girl on my floor who is everything I could ever want. I mean, she's beautiful, smart, kind, and she has the same religious views and values as I do. (She's also 18 and a freshman if that matters). We hit it off this last weekend and everything seemed to be going great. However, there's a problem: She was home schooled, and has never had a boyfriend or been in any kind of relationship before. Last night, she said that she's not ready for a relationship yet, and while I think that's honestly what she means, should I be worried that it's just code for "I don't like you like you like me"? What I want to know is how to approach this situation. I don't want to end up in the "friend-zone," but I don't want to pretend like she doesn't exist either. She did say that she might be open to the possibility of a relationship next semester. Any and all advice is appreciated! Thanks. TL;DR: College freshman male wants a relationship with home schooled female who said she "isn't mature enough/ready for a relationship." Not sure how to approach the situation until she is ready to date.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am an 18 year old, male, college freshman who has been in one serious relationship so far (3 years long in high school). We broke up shortly after I came to college. Anyway, I've been looking around for a relationship and I met this girl on my floor who is everything I could ever want. I mean, she's beautiful, smart, kind, and she has the same religious views and values as I do. (She's also 18 and a freshman if that matters). We hit it off this last weekend and everything seemed to be going great. However, there's a problem: She was home schooled, and has never had a boyfriend or been in any kind of relationship before. Last night, she said that she's not ready for a relationship yet, and while I think that's honestly what she means, should I be worried that it's just code for "I don't like you like you like me"? What I want to know is how to approach this situation. I don't want to end up in the "friend-zone," but I don't want to pretend like she doesn't exist either. She did say that she might be open to the possibility of a relationship next semester. Any and all advice is appreciated! Thanks. TL;DR: I met this girl I would like to be in a relationship with, but she's home schooled and has never had a boyfriend before. Help me avoid the friend zone!<|endoftext|>

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I'm a bridesmaid at one of my best friend's wedding one month from tomorrow. Three of the other bridesmaids and I have all known each other and the bride for 15+ years, and she and her groom are finally tying the knot after 12 years. The MOH and I have expressed the desire to conspire a surprise for them, but we suck at coming up with ideas! We're all pretty scattered around and have fairly busy schedules, so we only see/talk to each other maybe a couple of times a month (if that), so it's been a couple of weeks since we first mentioned doing something. We originally thought of doing something on the wedding day that could be cute, but nothing that would spoil or steal the spotlight from them. Just something to show them how much we love and appreciate being a part of their lives and how happy we are for them! I also remember seeing someone mention here how the bridesmaids each sent a message to the bride in the days leading up to the wedding, one day for each year the bride & groom had been together. I'd love something like that too, and it might be a little more discreet than a display on the actual day. This could also help them lighten up a little from the most stressful time before the wedding (although they're very down-to-earth, stress-free people, but it would still be nice).

Want to know what kind of cute/fun surprise to send to the groom and the bridesmaids of my friend's wedding, without spoiling anything or ruining any private time they might have on the day!

What's a cool/fun/scary/ ect. surprise that can be done from the bridesmaids during the wedding? Any suggestions would be nice!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a bridesmaid at one of my best friend's wedding one month from tomorrow. Three of the other bridesmaids and I have all known each other and the bride for 15+ years, and she and her groom are finally tying the knot after 12 years. The MOH and I have expressed the desire to conspire a surprise for them, but we suck at coming up with ideas! We're all pretty scattered around and have fairly busy schedules, so we only see/talk to each other maybe a couple of times a month (if that), so it's been a couple of weeks since we first mentioned doing something. We originally thought of doing something on the wedding day that could be cute, but nothing that would spoil or steal the spotlight from them. Just something to show them how much we love and appreciate being a part of their lives and how happy we are for them! I also remember seeing someone mention here how the bridesmaids each sent a message to the bride in the days leading up to the wedding, one day for each year the bride & groom had been together. I'd love something like that too, and it might be a little more discreet than a display on the actual day. This could also help them lighten up a little from the most stressful time before the wedding (although they're very down-to-earth, stress-free people, but it would still be nice). TL;DR:

Want to know what kind of cute/fun surprise to send to the groom and the bridesmaids of my friend's wedding, without spoiling anything or ruining any private time they might have on the day!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a bridesmaid at one of my best friend's wedding one month from tomorrow. Three of the other bridesmaids and I have all known each other and the bride for 15+ years, and she and her groom are finally tying the knot after 12 years. The MOH and I have expressed the desire to conspire a surprise for them, but we suck at coming up with ideas! We're all pretty scattered around and have fairly busy schedules, so we only see/talk to each other maybe a couple of times a month (if that), so it's been a couple of weeks since we first mentioned doing something. We originally thought of doing something on the wedding day that could be cute, but nothing that would spoil or steal the spotlight from them. Just something to show them how much we love and appreciate being a part of their lives and how happy we are for them! I also remember seeing someone mention here how the bridesmaids each sent a message to the bride in the days leading up to the wedding, one day for each year the bride & groom had been together. I'd love something like that too, and it might be a little more discreet than a display on the actual day. This could also help them lighten up a little from the most stressful time before the wedding (although they're very down-to-earth, stress-free people, but it would still be nice). TL;DR: Want to know what kind of cute/fun surprise to send to the groom and the bridesmaids of my friend's wedding, without spoiling anything or ruining any private time they might have on the day!<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a bridesmaid at one of my best friend's wedding one month from tomorrow. Three of the other bridesmaids and I have all known each other and the bride for 15+ years, and she and her groom are finally tying the knot after 12 years. The MOH and I have expressed the desire to conspire a surprise for them, but we suck at coming up with ideas! We're all pretty scattered around and have fairly busy schedules, so we only see/talk to each other maybe a couple of times a month (if that), so it's been a couple of weeks since we first mentioned doing something. We originally thought of doing something on the wedding day that could be cute, but nothing that would spoil or steal the spotlight from them. Just something to show them how much we love and appreciate being a part of their lives and how happy we are for them! I also remember seeing someone mention here how the bridesmaids each sent a message to the bride in the days leading up to the wedding, one day for each year the bride & groom had been together. I'd love something like that too, and it might be a little more discreet than a display on the actual day. This could also help them lighten up a little from the most stressful time before the wedding (although they're very down-to-earth, stress-free people, but it would still be nice). TL;DR: What's a cool/fun/scary/ ect. surprise that can be done from the bridesmaids during the wedding? Any suggestions would be nice!<|endoftext|>

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Title says it all for the most part. Money wouldn't be an issue between the two of us, and we would get along just fine as we have been for years. The issue or conflict I am having is the fact that mentally and maturity wise, we are not the same. I was planning on moving out by myself and have only me to worry about. He currently lives with his dad and doesn't make enough to sustain himself, which is why he wants a roommate instead of being with his dad for another lease. As much as having a roommate would help out with the bills and save me money, I have been eager to live on my own. I've lived with my now ex for about 4 months and currently living with another roommate for about 4 months as well. I do not mind having a roommate, but I would like to take a break from that and be on my own. I am conflicted on what to do. I've know this guy for years and we do get along with each other, but I don't want to live with him since I want to live on my own. If he can't find a roommate by the time his lease is up (in May), he will have to move again with his dad, which he doesn't want to do. What do you guys think is the best thing to do?

Friend wants to become roommate, I don't want to live with him, I am conflicted on what to do.

My friend wants us to be roommates, but I don't want to live with him. He is financially stable and has a good job.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Title says it all for the most part. Money wouldn't be an issue between the two of us, and we would get along just fine as we have been for years. The issue or conflict I am having is the fact that mentally and maturity wise, we are not the same. I was planning on moving out by myself and have only me to worry about. He currently lives with his dad and doesn't make enough to sustain himself, which is why he wants a roommate instead of being with his dad for another lease. As much as having a roommate would help out with the bills and save me money, I have been eager to live on my own. I've lived with my now ex for about 4 months and currently living with another roommate for about 4 months as well. I do not mind having a roommate, but I would like to take a break from that and be on my own. I am conflicted on what to do. I've know this guy for years and we do get along with each other, but I don't want to live with him since I want to live on my own. If he can't find a roommate by the time his lease is up (in May), he will have to move again with his dad, which he doesn't want to do. What do you guys think is the best thing to do? TL;DR:

Friend wants to become roommate, I don't want to live with him, I am conflicted on what to do.<|endoftext|>

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My friend wants us to be roommates, but I don't want to live with him. He is financially stable and has a good job.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Title says it all for the most part. Money wouldn't be an issue between the two of us, and we would get along just fine as we have been for years. The issue or conflict I am having is the fact that mentally and maturity wise, we are not the same. I was planning on moving out by myself and have only me to worry about. He currently lives with his dad and doesn't make enough to sustain himself, which is why he wants a roommate instead of being with his dad for another lease. As much as having a roommate would help out with the bills and save me money, I have been eager to live on my own. I've lived with my now ex for about 4 months and currently living with another roommate for about 4 months as well. I do not mind having a roommate, but I would like to take a break from that and be on my own. I am conflicted on what to do. I've know this guy for years and we do get along with each other, but I don't want to live with him since I want to live on my own. If he can't find a roommate by the time his lease is up (in May), he will have to move again with his dad, which he doesn't want to do. What do you guys think is the best thing to do? TL;DR: Friend wants to become roommate, I don't want to live with him, I am conflicted on what to do.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Title says it all for the most part. Money wouldn't be an issue between the two of us, and we would get along just fine as we have been for years. The issue or conflict I am having is the fact that mentally and maturity wise, we are not the same. I was planning on moving out by myself and have only me to worry about. He currently lives with his dad and doesn't make enough to sustain himself, which is why he wants a roommate instead of being with his dad for another lease. As much as having a roommate would help out with the bills and save me money, I have been eager to live on my own. I've lived with my now ex for about 4 months and currently living with another roommate for about 4 months as well. I do not mind having a roommate, but I would like to take a break from that and be on my own. I am conflicted on what to do. I've know this guy for years and we do get along with each other, but I don't want to live with him since I want to live on my own. If he can't find a roommate by the time his lease is up (in May), he will have to move again with his dad, which he doesn't want to do. What do you guys think is the best thing to do? TL;DR: My friend wants us to be roommates, but I don't want to live with him. He is financially stable and has a good job.<|endoftext|>

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My girlfriend (25f) and I (24m) have almost completely opposite relationship histories. She has had many "lovers" while she is practically my first. We have been together for 3 months and things are getting pretty serious. (To the point where we're talking about moving in together) I really love this girl, but at the same time I can't really be sure she is the right one if I've never had the wrong one. We've talked about this and talked about taking a break and maybe seeing other people, but neither of us want to do that to each other. (Especially on my end, I couldn't see anyone else with the way I feel about her) It also bothers me that she has been with so many other guys while she is my first and I wish there were more experiences she could have with me together for the first time. And I feel like I'm having to compete with all these past lovers in every way, even though she has told me I'm the one she wants and none of them made her feel like I do. It also hurts my trust with her a lot considering a lot of those "lovers" were hookups because she was "lonely", and what happens if she gets lonely when I'm not around?

girlfriend and I have completely opposite relationship history, debating if it's worth continuing despite trust issues and worries about competing past lovers.

gf and i have completely opposite relationship histories. don't know if right one or wrong one. competing past lovers hurt trust and trust and relationship. pls halp

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (25f) and I (24m) have almost completely opposite relationship histories. She has had many "lovers" while she is practically my first. We have been together for 3 months and things are getting pretty serious. (To the point where we're talking about moving in together) I really love this girl, but at the same time I can't really be sure she is the right one if I've never had the wrong one. We've talked about this and talked about taking a break and maybe seeing other people, but neither of us want to do that to each other. (Especially on my end, I couldn't see anyone else with the way I feel about her) It also bothers me that she has been with so many other guys while she is my first and I wish there were more experiences she could have with me together for the first time. And I feel like I'm having to compete with all these past lovers in every way, even though she has told me I'm the one she wants and none of them made her feel like I do. It also hurts my trust with her a lot considering a lot of those "lovers" were hookups because she was "lonely", and what happens if she gets lonely when I'm not around? TL;DR:

girlfriend and I have completely opposite relationship history, debating if it's worth continuing despite trust issues and worries about competing past lovers.<|endoftext|>

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gf and i have completely opposite relationship histories. don't know if right one or wrong one. competing past lovers hurt trust and trust and relationship. pls halp<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (25f) and I (24m) have almost completely opposite relationship histories. She has had many "lovers" while she is practically my first. We have been together for 3 months and things are getting pretty serious. (To the point where we're talking about moving in together) I really love this girl, but at the same time I can't really be sure she is the right one if I've never had the wrong one. We've talked about this and talked about taking a break and maybe seeing other people, but neither of us want to do that to each other. (Especially on my end, I couldn't see anyone else with the way I feel about her) It also bothers me that she has been with so many other guys while she is my first and I wish there were more experiences she could have with me together for the first time. And I feel like I'm having to compete with all these past lovers in every way, even though she has told me I'm the one she wants and none of them made her feel like I do. It also hurts my trust with her a lot considering a lot of those "lovers" were hookups because she was "lonely", and what happens if she gets lonely when I'm not around? TL;DR: girlfriend and I have completely opposite relationship history, debating if it's worth continuing despite trust issues and worries about competing past lovers.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (25f) and I (24m) have almost completely opposite relationship histories. She has had many "lovers" while she is practically my first. We have been together for 3 months and things are getting pretty serious. (To the point where we're talking about moving in together) I really love this girl, but at the same time I can't really be sure she is the right one if I've never had the wrong one. We've talked about this and talked about taking a break and maybe seeing other people, but neither of us want to do that to each other. (Especially on my end, I couldn't see anyone else with the way I feel about her) It also bothers me that she has been with so many other guys while she is my first and I wish there were more experiences she could have with me together for the first time. And I feel like I'm having to compete with all these past lovers in every way, even though she has told me I'm the one she wants and none of them made her feel like I do. It also hurts my trust with her a lot considering a lot of those "lovers" were hookups because she was "lonely", and what happens if she gets lonely when I'm not around? TL;DR: gf and i have completely opposite relationship histories. don't know if right one or wrong one. competing past lovers hurt trust and trust and relationship. pls halp<|endoftext|>

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**Quick Background**: As the title states, we've been together for 7 years dating back to High School. She's also my first and only girlfriend. I'm currently a 5^th year senior studying Economics and she's an online grad student in Clinical Psychology. I'll refer to my girlfriend as "Gina". \\ **Dilemma**: For the first 6 years of our relationship, we rarely ever argued. However, over the last year, we've been arguing more and more frequently and we're nearing the breaking point of our relationship. \ Before we started arguing, we spent nearly every day together. We would usually sit around watching TV and enjoy each other's company or go to the mall or thrift store or things of that nature. For the most part, it was my favorite thing to do and I loved every minute of it. Recently, I haven't enjoyed some of those same activities as much as I used to and it's affecting our relationship. \ Over the past year, I've spent a lot more time with my friends than I did when I first started dating Gina. In fact, back in high school and early college, I rarely spent time with the few friends I had as I was/am fairly introverted and socially awkward. I only found solace in being with Gina. But I now have a few close friends and I really enjoy hanging out with them. So much so that I often find myself generally having more fun with my friends than with Gina. As a result, I became more and more reluctant to spending time with Gina especially when I was already hanging out with my friends. I recently admitted as much to her, and she was understandably distraught. I still love her very much and want to spent the rest of my life with her, so I'm willing to do whatever it takes to right the ship. \ That's the basic gist of our problem, but there's more to mention. I'll save you time and provide them as needed in any subsequent conversations. \

I like being with my friends more than my gf of 7 years. I still love her dearly and want to do whatever I can to save our relationship.

It's time to break up with my girlfriend of 7 years. I want to spend the rest of my life with her but more than that, I want her to enjoy my time with her friends again. How do I do that?

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I like being with my friends more than my gf of 7 years. I still love her dearly and want to do whatever I can to save our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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It's time to break up with my girlfriend of 7 years. I want to spend the rest of my life with her but more than that, I want her to enjoy my time with her friends again. How do I do that?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **Quick Background**: As the title states, we've been together for 7 years dating back to High School. She's also my first and only girlfriend. I'm currently a 5^th year senior studying Economics and she's an online grad student in Clinical Psychology. I'll refer to my girlfriend as "Gina". \\ **Dilemma**: For the first 6 years of our relationship, we rarely ever argued. However, over the last year, we've been arguing more and more frequently and we're nearing the breaking point of our relationship. \ Before we started arguing, we spent nearly every day together. We would usually sit around watching TV and enjoy each other's company or go to the mall or thrift store or things of that nature. For the most part, it was my favorite thing to do and I loved every minute of it. Recently, I haven't enjoyed some of those same activities as much as I used to and it's affecting our relationship. \ Over the past year, I've spent a lot more time with my friends than I did when I first started dating Gina. In fact, back in high school and early college, I rarely spent time with the few friends I had as I was/am fairly introverted and socially awkward. I only found solace in being with Gina. But I now have a few close friends and I really enjoy hanging out with them. So much so that I often find myself generally having more fun with my friends than with Gina. As a result, I became more and more reluctant to spending time with Gina especially when I was already hanging out with my friends. I recently admitted as much to her, and she was understandably distraught. I still love her very much and want to spent the rest of my life with her, so I'm willing to do whatever it takes to right the ship. \ That's the basic gist of our problem, but there's more to mention. I'll save you time and provide them as needed in any subsequent conversations. \ TL;DR: I like being with my friends more than my gf of 7 years. I still love her dearly and want to do whatever I can to save our relationship.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **Quick Background**: As the title states, we've been together for 7 years dating back to High School. She's also my first and only girlfriend. I'm currently a 5^th year senior studying Economics and she's an online grad student in Clinical Psychology. I'll refer to my girlfriend as "Gina". \\ **Dilemma**: For the first 6 years of our relationship, we rarely ever argued. However, over the last year, we've been arguing more and more frequently and we're nearing the breaking point of our relationship. \ Before we started arguing, we spent nearly every day together. We would usually sit around watching TV and enjoy each other's company or go to the mall or thrift store or things of that nature. For the most part, it was my favorite thing to do and I loved every minute of it. Recently, I haven't enjoyed some of those same activities as much as I used to and it's affecting our relationship. \ Over the past year, I've spent a lot more time with my friends than I did when I first started dating Gina. In fact, back in high school and early college, I rarely spent time with the few friends I had as I was/am fairly introverted and socially awkward. I only found solace in being with Gina. But I now have a few close friends and I really enjoy hanging out with them. So much so that I often find myself generally having more fun with my friends than with Gina. As a result, I became more and more reluctant to spending time with Gina especially when I was already hanging out with my friends. I recently admitted as much to her, and she was understandably distraught. I still love her very much and want to spent the rest of my life with her, so I'm willing to do whatever it takes to right the ship. \ That's the basic gist of our problem, but there's more to mention. I'll save you time and provide them as needed in any subsequent conversations. \ TL;DR: It's time to break up with my girlfriend of 7 years. I want to spend the rest of my life with her but more than that, I want her to enjoy my time with her friends again. How do I do that?<|endoftext|>

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Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff. Well fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things. I quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. I want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of "space" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do... Any advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time!

Ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago, tried to remain friends but over-think/over-analyze things and ended up regretting it, need advice on how to mend a friendship.

I asked my ex for some space after the break up, and now I feel awkward with her and don't know how to help it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff. Well fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things. I quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. I want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of "space" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do... Any advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time! TL;DR:

Ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago, tried to remain friends but over-think/over-analyze things and ended up regretting it, need advice on how to mend a friendship.<|endoftext|>

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I asked my ex for some space after the break up, and now I feel awkward with her and don't know how to help it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff. Well fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things. I quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. I want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of "space" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do... Any advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time! TL;DR: Ex and I broke up 3 weeks ago, tried to remain friends but over-think/over-analyze things and ended up regretting it, need advice on how to mend a friendship.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there! I'm new here but I'd like some advice. So my now ex-girlfriend and I had broken up about 3 weeks ago because of how we were both busy and couldn't really see each other outside of school, but she was very indirect about it. (It ended in me thinking that we were just on a break but after a while, I figured out that by break she meant breaking up.) She still wanted to remain friends and walk with me to classes and chat and stuff. Well fast forward to two weeks after the break up (when I realized that she broke up with me and it wasn't just a break). I felt kind of overwhelmed and began to over-think things. A mutual friend had told me that she did the same thing to her last boyfriend (asking for space, saying that she wanted to get back together) but never did. This thought caused me to over-think even more and I felt utterly confused. So the following day, I asked my ex for some space, saying that I was going through some things. I quickly regretted it, I guess because of how foreign it felt and how I didn't fully understand the meaning of space until it was given to me. I tried talking to her 2 days after I asked for space to swallow my pride and ask for my friend back. But when I sat down with her to tell her, we kept being interrupted and I guess that point never got across. I feel so awkward with her now, since I see her everyday. I want to be on good terms with her, but I don't know how to get out of "space" and how to mend a friendship. She's a great person and I'd rather have a friend than no one at all. I just don't know what to do... Any advice would be very helpful, thank you for your time! TL;DR: I asked my ex for some space after the break up, and now I feel awkward with her and don't know how to help it.<|endoftext|>

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As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated.

What is the name of a book series of magic?

I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR:

What is the name of a book series of magic?<|endoftext|>

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I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: What is the name of a book series of magic?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: As a kid I started reading a book series, but I need your help in remembering what it is called. I was about "magicians" in a post apocalyptic world, who searched city ruins for, what is now, modern technology. However they lost most knowledge of the tech in this great catasptrophy. These magicians were identified by an earring the wore with a blue ball. I remember it started off with some street rat sneaking into a mage's house and getting caught and the mage taking him under his wing after creating some voodoo doll to threaten the boy, then dismantling it. Any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: I need help remembering a book series called "The Magicians". It was published in the late 70's or early 80's.<|endoftext|>

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Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. Our relationship has really been amazing though. He has opened me up emotionally and I've never met someone like him in my life. I really want things to work and I can see him being with me in the future, but the way this is going is making me uneasy. What I'm really looking for is advice on what to do. My boyfriend seems insecure about the way our relationship is. How can I fix this?

My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?

My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. Our relationship has really been amazing though. He has opened me up emotionally and I've never met someone like him in my life. I really want things to work and I can see him being with me in the future, but the way this is going is making me uneasy. What I'm really looking for is advice on what to do. My boyfriend seems insecure about the way our relationship is. How can I fix this? TL;DR:

My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. Our relationship has really been amazing though. He has opened me up emotionally and I've never met someone like him in my life. I really want things to work and I can see him being with me in the future, but the way this is going is making me uneasy. What I'm really looking for is advice on what to do. My boyfriend seems insecure about the way our relationship is. How can I fix this? TL;DR: My boyfriend made out with a friend of his in the middle of our relationship, now our relationship is rocky and I can't figure out how to heal it. Advice?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, I've never posted to Reddit before! My boyfriend lives in a pretty heavily populated city on the northeast and I've been considering moving in with him after being long-distance for a few months (since January). Our relationship has been rocky but I really love him. In March my boyfriend half revealed to me that he made out with a good friend of his in June of last year (practically in the middle of our relationship). We've been struggling with being monogamous lately. I've given my opinion that I think an open relationship would be better for both of us. Since we started dating I've had times when I drunkenly make out with other people (mainly girls) and have thoughts about being with others, which has convoluted our conversations and turned our relationship bitter. He won't let us be in an open relationship because he said "you'll just hook up with more people than me." Because he hasn't made many friends in the new area where he lives. He's even gone to the point of getting sick and not eating for a couple of days when he found out that I knew he cheated. I felt emotionally betrayed, humiliated and utterly disgusted so I didn't want to care. I also feel like I must admit that his friends here (he used to live here and moved recently) have been making moves on me. I don't necessarily push them away, but my boyfriend found that one of our mutual friends has been trying to sleep with me. We haven't slept together, but my boyfriend has been getting really pushy and tense because of this. He asks me where I am all the time, he asks me who I sit next to when we go out to bars, and even who I talk to. It's gotten a little ridiculous, but I get where he is coming from. Our relationship has really been amazing though. He has opened me up emotionally and I've never met someone like him in my life. I really want things to work and I can see him being with me in the future, but the way this is going is making me uneasy. What I'm really looking for is advice on what to do. My boyfriend seems insecure about the way our relationship is. How can I fix this? TL;DR: My boyfriend has made out with a girl a year ago while we were dating. I've been cheating on him with other people. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

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Been pretty rocky with several issues, mainly boiling down to her sudden realization that she wants to skip town and start a music career (that she has been seriously working on off and on for about 6 months). Of course, I contributed to this in my own ways. Obviously there's issues we need working out, but I'm operating on a future with her in it so it's discouraging when she says she doesn't want to go with me. She pretty much told me its because she thinks the counselor will try to talk her out of her goals. Through my employer, I have free sessions with any professional. I'm wondering how to pick a professional from the list given to me, and also how I might be able to get my wife to join me.

my wife doesn't want to go to counseling with me. Im going to go solo if need be. How can I convince her its a good choice, and how do I pick the right professional?***

How can I find a counselor for my wife to join me with when she doesn't want to go through marriage counseling?

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my wife doesn't want to go to counseling with me. Im going to go solo if need be. How can I convince her its a good choice, and how do I pick the right professional?***<|endoftext|>

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How can I find a counselor for my wife to join me with when she doesn't want to go through marriage counseling?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been pretty rocky with several issues, mainly boiling down to her sudden realization that she wants to skip town and start a music career (that she has been seriously working on off and on for about 6 months). Of course, I contributed to this in my own ways. Obviously there's issues we need working out, but I'm operating on a future with her in it so it's discouraging when she says she doesn't want to go with me. She pretty much told me its because she thinks the counselor will try to talk her out of her goals. Through my employer, I have free sessions with any professional. I'm wondering how to pick a professional from the list given to me, and also how I might be able to get my wife to join me. TL;DR: my wife doesn't want to go to counseling with me. Im going to go solo if need be. How can I convince her its a good choice, and how do I pick the right professional?***<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Been pretty rocky with several issues, mainly boiling down to her sudden realization that she wants to skip town and start a music career (that she has been seriously working on off and on for about 6 months). Of course, I contributed to this in my own ways. Obviously there's issues we need working out, but I'm operating on a future with her in it so it's discouraging when she says she doesn't want to go with me. She pretty much told me its because she thinks the counselor will try to talk her out of her goals. Through my employer, I have free sessions with any professional. I'm wondering how to pick a professional from the list given to me, and also how I might be able to get my wife to join me. TL;DR: How can I find a counselor for my wife to join me with when she doesn't want to go through marriage counseling?<|endoftext|>

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About three months ago, I broke up with my gf of about a year and half for reasons I won't get into, it will make this much longer and nothing most haven't heard before. I thought I really wanted to end it with her and I did and at first I didn't really think about her at all, I even got a new gf now but lately she has been coming into my head, been having dreams about her too. In short words, I miss her, idk what I miss from her, maybe I just want to have a friendship with her, I mean apart from the relationship we had, we were friends first. I wouldn't mind trying again but one I have a gf and I'm not going to leave her and two I do not want to play with my exgf feelings, I don't want to lead her on or anything. Should I maybe try to only be friends, or should I keep no contact and eventually I forget her, does anybody have some advice?

I keep thinking about my exgf, should I just try to be friends with her, I sont want to be in a relationship with her though

I miss my exgf, I know it's stupid to say this but I don't want to make things awkward when I start dating again, what should I do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About three months ago, I broke up with my gf of about a year and half for reasons I won't get into, it will make this much longer and nothing most haven't heard before. I thought I really wanted to end it with her and I did and at first I didn't really think about her at all, I even got a new gf now but lately she has been coming into my head, been having dreams about her too. In short words, I miss her, idk what I miss from her, maybe I just want to have a friendship with her, I mean apart from the relationship we had, we were friends first. I wouldn't mind trying again but one I have a gf and I'm not going to leave her and two I do not want to play with my exgf feelings, I don't want to lead her on or anything. Should I maybe try to only be friends, or should I keep no contact and eventually I forget her, does anybody have some advice? TL;DR:

I keep thinking about my exgf, should I just try to be friends with her, I sont want to be in a relationship with her though<|endoftext|>

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I miss my exgf, I know it's stupid to say this but I don't want to make things awkward when I start dating again, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About three months ago, I broke up with my gf of about a year and half for reasons I won't get into, it will make this much longer and nothing most haven't heard before. I thought I really wanted to end it with her and I did and at first I didn't really think about her at all, I even got a new gf now but lately she has been coming into my head, been having dreams about her too. In short words, I miss her, idk what I miss from her, maybe I just want to have a friendship with her, I mean apart from the relationship we had, we were friends first. I wouldn't mind trying again but one I have a gf and I'm not going to leave her and two I do not want to play with my exgf feelings, I don't want to lead her on or anything. Should I maybe try to only be friends, or should I keep no contact and eventually I forget her, does anybody have some advice? TL;DR: I keep thinking about my exgf, should I just try to be friends with her, I sont want to be in a relationship with her though<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About three months ago, I broke up with my gf of about a year and half for reasons I won't get into, it will make this much longer and nothing most haven't heard before. I thought I really wanted to end it with her and I did and at first I didn't really think about her at all, I even got a new gf now but lately she has been coming into my head, been having dreams about her too. In short words, I miss her, idk what I miss from her, maybe I just want to have a friendship with her, I mean apart from the relationship we had, we were friends first. I wouldn't mind trying again but one I have a gf and I'm not going to leave her and two I do not want to play with my exgf feelings, I don't want to lead her on or anything. Should I maybe try to only be friends, or should I keep no contact and eventually I forget her, does anybody have some advice? TL;DR: I miss my exgf, I know it's stupid to say this but I don't want to make things awkward when I start dating again, what should I do?<|endoftext|>

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Okay, I'm going to try to get all of this down in a clear-ish way. My BF [20/M] of almost 5 months broke up with me about three weeks ago, he broke my heart but I'm working past it and I tend to bounce back from hard times pretty easily. This guy [22/M] and I started flirting a bit last week, just went on a unofficial double date tonight. He was... Amazing. Smart, sweet, cute, seemed very into me. We could have kept talking for hours it felt like. Before we started the date I was super nervous that this would just hurt, that I wasn't ready, that I wouldn't like him or he wouldn't like me. That was all entirely gone by the end of the night, and I was left with this feeling that I would be okay getting hurt again because the potential relationship that this could become would be worth it. I leave for a month on August 2, so about a week and a half away. I don't want to start a relationship and then disappear (no cell reception or wifi where I'm going,) and he knows I'm doing this too, but after tonight I just want to see him again. I don't know. I'm confused because I like him, but I also am telling myself not to jump right into something else, but if I leave for a month we certainly won't be jumping into anything, but - but - but there are just so many questions I can't put into words. I am also afraid of being a serial monogamist, of not being able to handle being single, because last year I jumped between guys kind of quickly. Sorry reddit, this is sort of stream-of-consciousness. I guess my question is: do any of you have any advice? Is there a right way?

Went on a great semi-date with guy, am confused about whether I should continue things bc of distance and doubts about compatibility bc of breakup. need some advice plz :)

went on a great semi-date with amazing guy, but am confused because i am afraid of jumping right into something else if i leave for a month. general advice appreciated!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, I'm going to try to get all of this down in a clear-ish way. My BF [20/M] of almost 5 months broke up with me about three weeks ago, he broke my heart but I'm working past it and I tend to bounce back from hard times pretty easily. This guy [22/M] and I started flirting a bit last week, just went on a unofficial double date tonight. He was... Amazing. Smart, sweet, cute, seemed very into me. We could have kept talking for hours it felt like. Before we started the date I was super nervous that this would just hurt, that I wasn't ready, that I wouldn't like him or he wouldn't like me. That was all entirely gone by the end of the night, and I was left with this feeling that I would be okay getting hurt again because the potential relationship that this could become would be worth it. I leave for a month on August 2, so about a week and a half away. I don't want to start a relationship and then disappear (no cell reception or wifi where I'm going,) and he knows I'm doing this too, but after tonight I just want to see him again. I don't know. I'm confused because I like him, but I also am telling myself not to jump right into something else, but if I leave for a month we certainly won't be jumping into anything, but - but - but there are just so many questions I can't put into words. I am also afraid of being a serial monogamist, of not being able to handle being single, because last year I jumped between guys kind of quickly. Sorry reddit, this is sort of stream-of-consciousness. I guess my question is: do any of you have any advice? Is there a right way? TL;DR:

Went on a great semi-date with guy, am confused about whether I should continue things bc of distance and doubts about compatibility bc of breakup. need some advice plz :)<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, I'm going to try to get all of this down in a clear-ish way. My BF [20/M] of almost 5 months broke up with me about three weeks ago, he broke my heart but I'm working past it and I tend to bounce back from hard times pretty easily. This guy [22/M] and I started flirting a bit last week, just went on a unofficial double date tonight. He was... Amazing. Smart, sweet, cute, seemed very into me. We could have kept talking for hours it felt like. Before we started the date I was super nervous that this would just hurt, that I wasn't ready, that I wouldn't like him or he wouldn't like me. That was all entirely gone by the end of the night, and I was left with this feeling that I would be okay getting hurt again because the potential relationship that this could become would be worth it. I leave for a month on August 2, so about a week and a half away. I don't want to start a relationship and then disappear (no cell reception or wifi where I'm going,) and he knows I'm doing this too, but after tonight I just want to see him again. I don't know. I'm confused because I like him, but I also am telling myself not to jump right into something else, but if I leave for a month we certainly won't be jumping into anything, but - but - but there are just so many questions I can't put into words. I am also afraid of being a serial monogamist, of not being able to handle being single, because last year I jumped between guys kind of quickly. Sorry reddit, this is sort of stream-of-consciousness. I guess my question is: do any of you have any advice? Is there a right way? TL;DR: Went on a great semi-date with guy, am confused about whether I should continue things bc of distance and doubts about compatibility bc of breakup. need some advice plz :)<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay, I'm going to try to get all of this down in a clear-ish way. My BF [20/M] of almost 5 months broke up with me about three weeks ago, he broke my heart but I'm working past it and I tend to bounce back from hard times pretty easily. This guy [22/M] and I started flirting a bit last week, just went on a unofficial double date tonight. He was... Amazing. Smart, sweet, cute, seemed very into me. We could have kept talking for hours it felt like. Before we started the date I was super nervous that this would just hurt, that I wasn't ready, that I wouldn't like him or he wouldn't like me. That was all entirely gone by the end of the night, and I was left with this feeling that I would be okay getting hurt again because the potential relationship that this could become would be worth it. I leave for a month on August 2, so about a week and a half away. I don't want to start a relationship and then disappear (no cell reception or wifi where I'm going,) and he knows I'm doing this too, but after tonight I just want to see him again. I don't know. I'm confused because I like him, but I also am telling myself not to jump right into something else, but if I leave for a month we certainly won't be jumping into anything, but - but - but there are just so many questions I can't put into words. I am also afraid of being a serial monogamist, of not being able to handle being single, because last year I jumped between guys kind of quickly. Sorry reddit, this is sort of stream-of-consciousness. I guess my question is: do any of you have any advice? Is there a right way? TL;DR: went on a great semi-date with amazing guy, but am confused because i am afraid of jumping right into something else if i leave for a month. general advice appreciated!<|endoftext|>

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We are both in our mid-30s, heteros, together one year (known each other for three). My boyfriend has known since April 2010 that he needed to find a new job by the end of this August. He only started looking a few months ago and, as a result, he is down to the wire and finally got an offer. This job is far away, in another country, where I cannot work. This new contract is for a year and a half (possibly extendable). We are already long-distance and I can't take another year (or more) apart. He says this is just a year and half and then we can try to coordinate being together. Now I am so angry that he did it this way, I am considering breaking-up. To me, it was just inconsiderate to do this at our age, and I am furious. He refuses to see this as a problem, and when I told him we could have avoided this if he started to look earlier, he gets very upset and says I am criticizing him. (Which I am!) This, to me, it such an obvious and colossal screw up, I don't know how I can get over it and move on if he doesn't acknowledge it and apologize. I warned him this might happen and he just said for me to stop bothering him about finding a job because he was already anxious enough. I have been in his exact situation before and it took me an entire year to find another job that was good enough (we are in the same field, but I am slightly senior to him). Grrrrrr........

BF waited until the last minute to find a job, and I can't take another year apart from him. How do I let it go?

Boyfriend got a new job with me, far away, I can't take another year apart, he would rather not discuss it, I am beyond angry.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We are both in our mid-30s, heteros, together one year (known each other for three). My boyfriend has known since April 2010 that he needed to find a new job by the end of this August. He only started looking a few months ago and, as a result, he is down to the wire and finally got an offer. This job is far away, in another country, where I cannot work. This new contract is for a year and a half (possibly extendable). We are already long-distance and I can't take another year (or more) apart. He says this is just a year and half and then we can try to coordinate being together. Now I am so angry that he did it this way, I am considering breaking-up. To me, it was just inconsiderate to do this at our age, and I am furious. He refuses to see this as a problem, and when I told him we could have avoided this if he started to look earlier, he gets very upset and says I am criticizing him. (Which I am!) This, to me, it such an obvious and colossal screw up, I don't know how I can get over it and move on if he doesn't acknowledge it and apologize. I warned him this might happen and he just said for me to stop bothering him about finding a job because he was already anxious enough. I have been in his exact situation before and it took me an entire year to find another job that was good enough (we are in the same field, but I am slightly senior to him). Grrrrrr........ TL;DR:

BF waited until the last minute to find a job, and I can't take another year apart from him. How do I let it go?<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend got a new job with me, far away, I can't take another year apart, he would rather not discuss it, I am beyond angry.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We are both in our mid-30s, heteros, together one year (known each other for three). My boyfriend has known since April 2010 that he needed to find a new job by the end of this August. He only started looking a few months ago and, as a result, he is down to the wire and finally got an offer. This job is far away, in another country, where I cannot work. This new contract is for a year and a half (possibly extendable). We are already long-distance and I can't take another year (or more) apart. He says this is just a year and half and then we can try to coordinate being together. Now I am so angry that he did it this way, I am considering breaking-up. To me, it was just inconsiderate to do this at our age, and I am furious. He refuses to see this as a problem, and when I told him we could have avoided this if he started to look earlier, he gets very upset and says I am criticizing him. (Which I am!) This, to me, it such an obvious and colossal screw up, I don't know how I can get over it and move on if he doesn't acknowledge it and apologize. I warned him this might happen and he just said for me to stop bothering him about finding a job because he was already anxious enough. I have been in his exact situation before and it took me an entire year to find another job that was good enough (we are in the same field, but I am slightly senior to him). Grrrrrr........ TL;DR: BF waited until the last minute to find a job, and I can't take another year apart from him. How do I let it go?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We are both in our mid-30s, heteros, together one year (known each other for three). My boyfriend has known since April 2010 that he needed to find a new job by the end of this August. He only started looking a few months ago and, as a result, he is down to the wire and finally got an offer. This job is far away, in another country, where I cannot work. This new contract is for a year and a half (possibly extendable). We are already long-distance and I can't take another year (or more) apart. He says this is just a year and half and then we can try to coordinate being together. Now I am so angry that he did it this way, I am considering breaking-up. To me, it was just inconsiderate to do this at our age, and I am furious. He refuses to see this as a problem, and when I told him we could have avoided this if he started to look earlier, he gets very upset and says I am criticizing him. (Which I am!) This, to me, it such an obvious and colossal screw up, I don't know how I can get over it and move on if he doesn't acknowledge it and apologize. I warned him this might happen and he just said for me to stop bothering him about finding a job because he was already anxious enough. I have been in his exact situation before and it took me an entire year to find another job that was good enough (we are in the same field, but I am slightly senior to him). Grrrrrr........ TL;DR: Boyfriend got a new job with me, far away, I can't take another year apart, he would rather not discuss it, I am beyond angry.<|endoftext|>

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When she moved into the school apartment I was living in last year, I told her I'd be okay with sharing some foods, like butter or raw eggs here and there, mustard, some milk, etc. She works at a grocery store and gets a pretty decent discount, and I had assumed that she would mainly be buying her own groceries and that this would be predominantly need-based or asking first. What she actually began to do was eat the foods that I eat on a daily basis like bananas and hard boiled eggs (that I boiled) and take pretty hefty amounts of my produce, baking supplies, and coffee whenever she felt like it (an example: deciding she wants a whole bowl of cooked spinach and cooking the remaining 3/4 of a bag of raw spinach that I use for sandwiches and salads). She would then take forever to replace any of it in spite of where she works, and when she did, it was often not what I had originally purchased and she never bought enough to both replace mine and provide herself with her own source of the food. She once finished off my coffee grounds after previously expressing her distaste for coffee and caffeine, and when she brought home a new canister, it was decaf. Little occurrences like this happened regularly. We'll be living together again soon, and I'm not sure of how to approach the subject. There are foods that she doesn't take without asking, but the ones that she did take regularly are also the foods I eat every day or nearly every day and need to last me the week. She is a very close friend of mine, and I don't want to make things awkward or make her angry at me, but I also don't want her to jump right back into assuming what's mine is hers again.

My roommate/friend eats a lot of my food and doesn't replace it, and I don't know how to handle it.

Roommate ate a lot of my food without replacing it, and has taken to eating a lot of my food without replacing it. How do I talk to her about this?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When she moved into the school apartment I was living in last year, I told her I'd be okay with sharing some foods, like butter or raw eggs here and there, mustard, some milk, etc. She works at a grocery store and gets a pretty decent discount, and I had assumed that she would mainly be buying her own groceries and that this would be predominantly need-based or asking first. What she actually began to do was eat the foods that I eat on a daily basis like bananas and hard boiled eggs (that I boiled) and take pretty hefty amounts of my produce, baking supplies, and coffee whenever she felt like it (an example: deciding she wants a whole bowl of cooked spinach and cooking the remaining 3/4 of a bag of raw spinach that I use for sandwiches and salads). She would then take forever to replace any of it in spite of where she works, and when she did, it was often not what I had originally purchased and she never bought enough to both replace mine and provide herself with her own source of the food. She once finished off my coffee grounds after previously expressing her distaste for coffee and caffeine, and when she brought home a new canister, it was decaf. Little occurrences like this happened regularly. We'll be living together again soon, and I'm not sure of how to approach the subject. There are foods that she doesn't take without asking, but the ones that she did take regularly are also the foods I eat every day or nearly every day and need to last me the week. She is a very close friend of mine, and I don't want to make things awkward or make her angry at me, but I also don't want her to jump right back into assuming what's mine is hers again. TL;DR:

My roommate/friend eats a lot of my food and doesn't replace it, and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When she moved into the school apartment I was living in last year, I told her I'd be okay with sharing some foods, like butter or raw eggs here and there, mustard, some milk, etc. She works at a grocery store and gets a pretty decent discount, and I had assumed that she would mainly be buying her own groceries and that this would be predominantly need-based or asking first. What she actually began to do was eat the foods that I eat on a daily basis like bananas and hard boiled eggs (that I boiled) and take pretty hefty amounts of my produce, baking supplies, and coffee whenever she felt like it (an example: deciding she wants a whole bowl of cooked spinach and cooking the remaining 3/4 of a bag of raw spinach that I use for sandwiches and salads). She would then take forever to replace any of it in spite of where she works, and when she did, it was often not what I had originally purchased and she never bought enough to both replace mine and provide herself with her own source of the food. She once finished off my coffee grounds after previously expressing her distaste for coffee and caffeine, and when she brought home a new canister, it was decaf. Little occurrences like this happened regularly. We'll be living together again soon, and I'm not sure of how to approach the subject. There are foods that she doesn't take without asking, but the ones that she did take regularly are also the foods I eat every day or nearly every day and need to last me the week. She is a very close friend of mine, and I don't want to make things awkward or make her angry at me, but I also don't want her to jump right back into assuming what's mine is hers again. TL;DR: My roommate/friend eats a lot of my food and doesn't replace it, and I don't know how to handle it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: When she moved into the school apartment I was living in last year, I told her I'd be okay with sharing some foods, like butter or raw eggs here and there, mustard, some milk, etc. She works at a grocery store and gets a pretty decent discount, and I had assumed that she would mainly be buying her own groceries and that this would be predominantly need-based or asking first. What she actually began to do was eat the foods that I eat on a daily basis like bananas and hard boiled eggs (that I boiled) and take pretty hefty amounts of my produce, baking supplies, and coffee whenever she felt like it (an example: deciding she wants a whole bowl of cooked spinach and cooking the remaining 3/4 of a bag of raw spinach that I use for sandwiches and salads). She would then take forever to replace any of it in spite of where she works, and when she did, it was often not what I had originally purchased and she never bought enough to both replace mine and provide herself with her own source of the food. She once finished off my coffee grounds after previously expressing her distaste for coffee and caffeine, and when she brought home a new canister, it was decaf. Little occurrences like this happened regularly. We'll be living together again soon, and I'm not sure of how to approach the subject. There are foods that she doesn't take without asking, but the ones that she did take regularly are also the foods I eat every day or nearly every day and need to last me the week. She is a very close friend of mine, and I don't want to make things awkward or make her angry at me, but I also don't want her to jump right back into assuming what's mine is hers again. TL;DR: Roommate ate a lot of my food without replacing it, and has taken to eating a lot of my food without replacing it. How do I talk to her about this?<|endoftext|>

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We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. We had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. It was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other. This u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly. Worst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused. I didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head?

bf and I had an argument, he was inconsiderate and told me he wasnt in love with me anymore, I'm left wondering if I'm being stupid.

got really angry at bf for smoking and wanting to drink. He quickly moved on and said he didnt want to see me anymore.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. We had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. It was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other. This u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly. Worst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused. I didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head? TL;DR:

bf and I had an argument, he was inconsiderate and told me he wasnt in love with me anymore, I'm left wondering if I'm being stupid.<|endoftext|>

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got really angry at bf for smoking and wanting to drink. He quickly moved on and said he didnt want to see me anymore.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. We had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. It was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other. This u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly. Worst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused. I didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head? TL;DR: bf and I had an argument, he was inconsiderate and told me he wasnt in love with me anymore, I'm left wondering if I'm being stupid.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We'd been dating for about 3 months, and last week it came to that inevitable stage where we decide where it is going and if we should continue. He seemed very keen in that he stated he was 100% sure being boyfriend and girlfriend was the right thing and we began looking forward, planning a holiday together in a few months and generally acting the way couples do. We had a great night out together on friday, he was encouraging me to open up and share things with him that I gladly did, feeling secure enough to do that now I knew this was going somewhere. The following day however, we met up quite late and he'd been out drinking with his friend all afternoon and was pretty sloshed by the stage I met with them. He kept lying to me and sneaking off for cigarettes, and after an evening of this I lost my temper a little with him and asked (for the 6th time) if he could please stop doing doing it as it was starting to upset me. It was the first time we'd had any kind of an argument, I felt really bad about it pretty much instantly. I'm generally a very patient person, and hate when I slip up like that. His response was to walk off for one last smoke, then he disappeared. Phone turned off and everything. Three days of silence followed and he eventually sent me a text saying he didnt want to continue seeing me as we werent right for each other. This u-turn came as a big surprise just days after he was professing such good intentions to me, and I'm totally miffed as to how one argument, and very small one at that can spook a person off so quickly. Worst of all was that I had been trying to contact him to talk it through and apologise for my part in losing my temper, but he refused. I didnt think it was such a big deal, people have little tiffs on occasion, but I'm starting to think I might be wrong about that. How would other people handle situations like that? Or do you have any insight as to what could have been going through his head? TL;DR: got really angry at bf for smoking and wanting to drink. He quickly moved on and said he didnt want to see me anymore.<|endoftext|>

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It sounds weird, I know, but it's been oddly great. We were friends, spending time together and talking about our memories of our mutual friend, hanging out more and more, until we finally leap right into our feelings for each other one night, and have been together since. I'm struggling very hard to reconcile this. If she were still alive, he'd be with her, and it's unfair of me to even see it this way. She was a friend, and in both of our minds, she somehow brought two people she cared about together (cheesy but it feels true for us). She will never be back, and yet I am almost envious of her. I feel so much inadequacy whenever he brings her up now, I feel angry with her, I feel angry at myself for being angry at her. Any reminder that he was happy with her, and might not be as happy with me, makes me sad. I feel the need to be everything and more for him, and every time I say something that she'd be cooler about, I beat myself up. As simple as saying while watching a show, "I wouldn't want seafood cooked over an open fire", to which he'll respond that he thinks it sounds cool. I'll instantly think, "She was so outdoorsy and so is he, I bet she'd love it. She was more fun than me". I don't know if this is something to talk about with him. I know it's so unfair to him to feel this way, all he did was lose some one, but it eats at me in little pieces that leave me wondering how I could be good enough. Outside of moments when she's brought up, I feel great about myself and our relationship, and he does everything he can to help me stay there. One mention of her, and the whole night goes south for my psyche. He doesn't know that this is what causes it, he just knows that I don't always feel great about myself and does whatever he can to cheer me up. How do I handle this?

I don't know how to reconcile a deceased ex with my current relationship, and how to talk about this problem, at all. It hurts a lot some days.

My boyfriend of several months was briefly seeing a friend of mine after she died. I am struggling to reconcile this with my own feelings about her, and he knows that his feelings are unfair to me. Is this something to talk about with him

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It sounds weird, I know, but it's been oddly great. We were friends, spending time together and talking about our memories of our mutual friend, hanging out more and more, until we finally leap right into our feelings for each other one night, and have been together since. I'm struggling very hard to reconcile this. If she were still alive, he'd be with her, and it's unfair of me to even see it this way. She was a friend, and in both of our minds, she somehow brought two people she cared about together (cheesy but it feels true for us). She will never be back, and yet I am almost envious of her. I feel so much inadequacy whenever he brings her up now, I feel angry with her, I feel angry at myself for being angry at her. Any reminder that he was happy with her, and might not be as happy with me, makes me sad. I feel the need to be everything and more for him, and every time I say something that she'd be cooler about, I beat myself up. As simple as saying while watching a show, "I wouldn't want seafood cooked over an open fire", to which he'll respond that he thinks it sounds cool. I'll instantly think, "She was so outdoorsy and so is he, I bet she'd love it. She was more fun than me". I don't know if this is something to talk about with him. I know it's so unfair to him to feel this way, all he did was lose some one, but it eats at me in little pieces that leave me wondering how I could be good enough. Outside of moments when she's brought up, I feel great about myself and our relationship, and he does everything he can to help me stay there. One mention of her, and the whole night goes south for my psyche. He doesn't know that this is what causes it, he just knows that I don't always feel great about myself and does whatever he can to cheer me up. How do I handle this? TL;DR:

I don't know how to reconcile a deceased ex with my current relationship, and how to talk about this problem, at all. It hurts a lot some days.<|endoftext|>

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My boyfriend of several months was briefly seeing a friend of mine after she died. I am struggling to reconcile this with my own feelings about her, and he knows that his feelings are unfair to me. Is this something to talk about with him<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It sounds weird, I know, but it's been oddly great. We were friends, spending time together and talking about our memories of our mutual friend, hanging out more and more, until we finally leap right into our feelings for each other one night, and have been together since. I'm struggling very hard to reconcile this. If she were still alive, he'd be with her, and it's unfair of me to even see it this way. She was a friend, and in both of our minds, she somehow brought two people she cared about together (cheesy but it feels true for us). She will never be back, and yet I am almost envious of her. I feel so much inadequacy whenever he brings her up now, I feel angry with her, I feel angry at myself for being angry at her. Any reminder that he was happy with her, and might not be as happy with me, makes me sad. I feel the need to be everything and more for him, and every time I say something that she'd be cooler about, I beat myself up. As simple as saying while watching a show, "I wouldn't want seafood cooked over an open fire", to which he'll respond that he thinks it sounds cool. I'll instantly think, "She was so outdoorsy and so is he, I bet she'd love it. She was more fun than me". I don't know if this is something to talk about with him. I know it's so unfair to him to feel this way, all he did was lose some one, but it eats at me in little pieces that leave me wondering how I could be good enough. Outside of moments when she's brought up, I feel great about myself and our relationship, and he does everything he can to help me stay there. One mention of her, and the whole night goes south for my psyche. He doesn't know that this is what causes it, he just knows that I don't always feel great about myself and does whatever he can to cheer me up. How do I handle this? TL;DR: I don't know how to reconcile a deceased ex with my current relationship, and how to talk about this problem, at all. It hurts a lot some days.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: It sounds weird, I know, but it's been oddly great. We were friends, spending time together and talking about our memories of our mutual friend, hanging out more and more, until we finally leap right into our feelings for each other one night, and have been together since. I'm struggling very hard to reconcile this. If she were still alive, he'd be with her, and it's unfair of me to even see it this way. She was a friend, and in both of our minds, she somehow brought two people she cared about together (cheesy but it feels true for us). She will never be back, and yet I am almost envious of her. I feel so much inadequacy whenever he brings her up now, I feel angry with her, I feel angry at myself for being angry at her. Any reminder that he was happy with her, and might not be as happy with me, makes me sad. I feel the need to be everything and more for him, and every time I say something that she'd be cooler about, I beat myself up. As simple as saying while watching a show, "I wouldn't want seafood cooked over an open fire", to which he'll respond that he thinks it sounds cool. I'll instantly think, "She was so outdoorsy and so is he, I bet she'd love it. She was more fun than me". I don't know if this is something to talk about with him. I know it's so unfair to him to feel this way, all he did was lose some one, but it eats at me in little pieces that leave me wondering how I could be good enough. Outside of moments when she's brought up, I feel great about myself and our relationship, and he does everything he can to help me stay there. One mention of her, and the whole night goes south for my psyche. He doesn't know that this is what causes it, he just knows that I don't always feel great about myself and does whatever he can to cheer me up. How do I handle this? TL;DR: My boyfriend of several months was briefly seeing a friend of mine after she died. I am struggling to reconcile this with my own feelings about her, and he knows that his feelings are unfair to me. Is this something to talk about with him<|endoftext|>

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Long time lurker, you know the drill. Been counting calories and lifting weights for about 5 months, and have had plenty of non-scale-victories in that time. But today...today was something. Right around when I started losing weight I had an interview for an internship that would have been absolutely fantastic for experience as a soon to be college grad. At that time, I weighed a solid 357lbs and had no appropriate clothing to wear to the interview that fit. So I bought a shirt, dress pants, belt (56 waist), and tie at a Big and Tall clothing store. It was the single most degrading experience to plunk down good money for clothing just to fit my roundness. And to boot, I wasn't selected for the internship. Now maybe I was under qualified or they found a better candidate, but I often think back as wonder if the interview would have been different if I was 100lbs lighter. Skip to today and realize that after I bought the outfit for that interview, every instance I've tried on clothing since then has been less than satisfying. But today I was with my girlfriend in an outdoor sporting goods store looking at fleece jackets. I remembered trying on a XXL North Face jacket back in January of this year and it wasn't even close to even zipping up. I saw the same jacket, same size today and figured, "what the hell, let's give this shit a go." I'll be goddamned...it zipped up all the way with some room to spare. Had to buy that fucker on the spot.

I bought an outfit at a big man store 5 months ago; today I bought clothing in a regular store.

I tried on a jacket in a Big and Tall store and failed miserably. Today I tried on a jacket in a sporting goods store and failed miserably. Is there a remote chance that the jacket in the first place was a better fit and that the jacket I tried on today might be a better fit?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long time lurker, you know the drill. Been counting calories and lifting weights for about 5 months, and have had plenty of non-scale-victories in that time. But today...today was something. Right around when I started losing weight I had an interview for an internship that would have been absolutely fantastic for experience as a soon to be college grad. At that time, I weighed a solid 357lbs and had no appropriate clothing to wear to the interview that fit. So I bought a shirt, dress pants, belt (56 waist), and tie at a Big and Tall clothing store. It was the single most degrading experience to plunk down good money for clothing just to fit my roundness. And to boot, I wasn't selected for the internship. Now maybe I was under qualified or they found a better candidate, but I often think back as wonder if the interview would have been different if I was 100lbs lighter. Skip to today and realize that after I bought the outfit for that interview, every instance I've tried on clothing since then has been less than satisfying. But today I was with my girlfriend in an outdoor sporting goods store looking at fleece jackets. I remembered trying on a XXL North Face jacket back in January of this year and it wasn't even close to even zipping up. I saw the same jacket, same size today and figured, "what the hell, let's give this shit a go." I'll be goddamned...it zipped up all the way with some room to spare. Had to buy that fucker on the spot. TL;DR:

I bought an outfit at a big man store 5 months ago; today I bought clothing in a regular store.<|endoftext|>

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I tried on a jacket in a Big and Tall store and failed miserably. Today I tried on a jacket in a sporting goods store and failed miserably. Is there a remote chance that the jacket in the first place was a better fit and that the jacket I tried on today might be a better fit?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long time lurker, you know the drill. Been counting calories and lifting weights for about 5 months, and have had plenty of non-scale-victories in that time. But today...today was something. Right around when I started losing weight I had an interview for an internship that would have been absolutely fantastic for experience as a soon to be college grad. At that time, I weighed a solid 357lbs and had no appropriate clothing to wear to the interview that fit. So I bought a shirt, dress pants, belt (56 waist), and tie at a Big and Tall clothing store. It was the single most degrading experience to plunk down good money for clothing just to fit my roundness. And to boot, I wasn't selected for the internship. Now maybe I was under qualified or they found a better candidate, but I often think back as wonder if the interview would have been different if I was 100lbs lighter. Skip to today and realize that after I bought the outfit for that interview, every instance I've tried on clothing since then has been less than satisfying. But today I was with my girlfriend in an outdoor sporting goods store looking at fleece jackets. I remembered trying on a XXL North Face jacket back in January of this year and it wasn't even close to even zipping up. I saw the same jacket, same size today and figured, "what the hell, let's give this shit a go." I'll be goddamned...it zipped up all the way with some room to spare. Had to buy that fucker on the spot. TL;DR: I bought an outfit at a big man store 5 months ago; today I bought clothing in a regular store.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Long time lurker, you know the drill. Been counting calories and lifting weights for about 5 months, and have had plenty of non-scale-victories in that time. But today...today was something. Right around when I started losing weight I had an interview for an internship that would have been absolutely fantastic for experience as a soon to be college grad. At that time, I weighed a solid 357lbs and had no appropriate clothing to wear to the interview that fit. So I bought a shirt, dress pants, belt (56 waist), and tie at a Big and Tall clothing store. It was the single most degrading experience to plunk down good money for clothing just to fit my roundness. And to boot, I wasn't selected for the internship. Now maybe I was under qualified or they found a better candidate, but I often think back as wonder if the interview would have been different if I was 100lbs lighter. Skip to today and realize that after I bought the outfit for that interview, every instance I've tried on clothing since then has been less than satisfying. But today I was with my girlfriend in an outdoor sporting goods store looking at fleece jackets. I remembered trying on a XXL North Face jacket back in January of this year and it wasn't even close to even zipping up. I saw the same jacket, same size today and figured, "what the hell, let's give this shit a go." I'll be goddamned...it zipped up all the way with some room to spare. Had to buy that fucker on the spot. TL;DR: I tried on a jacket in a Big and Tall store and failed miserably. Today I tried on a jacket in a sporting goods store and failed miserably. Is there a remote chance that the jacket in the first place was a better fit and that the jacket I tried on today might be a better fit?<|endoftext|>

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Hi there I've always meant to take up running and after several failed attempts, have finally taken to it (albeit 4 miles after running 2 months) and I love it. But I'm looking for advice from someone who knows techno/trance. It's not my staple music diet but I love it to run to. There are two songs that really get me stretched out and help me push myself. The songs are 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh . In the first, I guess I like the crescendo, vocals, the thumping bass and the lulls. And of course, the bpm. The live background helps. With the latter, its again the vocals, the crescendo, the beats (love running to the pace). I don't know if these songs are considered good or not and whether or not they are is immaterial; they help me push myself. I am really looking for more songs along this vein and would love some recommendations please

love running to 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh, would love some recommendations along those lines.

love techno/trance music for running, please recommend me some good ones

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there I've always meant to take up running and after several failed attempts, have finally taken to it (albeit 4 miles after running 2 months) and I love it. But I'm looking for advice from someone who knows techno/trance. It's not my staple music diet but I love it to run to. There are two songs that really get me stretched out and help me push myself. The songs are 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh. In the first, I guess I like the crescendo, vocals, the thumping bass and the lulls. And of course, the bpm. The live background helps. With the latter, its again the vocals, the crescendo, the beats (love running to the pace). I don't know if these songs are considered good or not and whether or not they are is immaterial; they help me push myself. I am really looking for more songs along this vein and would love some recommendations please TL;DR:

love running to 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh, would love some recommendations along those lines.<|endoftext|>

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love techno/trance music for running, please recommend me some good ones<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there I've always meant to take up running and after several failed attempts, have finally taken to it (albeit 4 miles after running 2 months) and I love it. But I'm looking for advice from someone who knows techno/trance. It's not my staple music diet but I love it to run to. There are two songs that really get me stretched out and help me push myself. The songs are 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh. In the first, I guess I like the crescendo, vocals, the thumping bass and the lulls. And of course, the bpm. The live background helps. With the latter, its again the vocals, the crescendo, the beats (love running to the pace). I don't know if these songs are considered good or not and whether or not they are is immaterial; they help me push myself. I am really looking for more songs along this vein and would love some recommendations please TL;DR: love running to 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh, would love some recommendations along those lines.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi there I've always meant to take up running and after several failed attempts, have finally taken to it (albeit 4 miles after running 2 months) and I love it. But I'm looking for advice from someone who knows techno/trance. It's not my staple music diet but I love it to run to. There are two songs that really get me stretched out and help me push myself. The songs are 'Operation Blade' by Public Domain and 'Project Infinity 2008' by Guru Josh. In the first, I guess I like the crescendo, vocals, the thumping bass and the lulls. And of course, the bpm. The live background helps. With the latter, its again the vocals, the crescendo, the beats (love running to the pace). I don't know if these songs are considered good or not and whether or not they are is immaterial; they help me push myself. I am really looking for more songs along this vein and would love some recommendations please TL;DR: love techno/trance music for running, please recommend me some good ones<|endoftext|>

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So basically, she texts me last night and decides that we shouldn't be together anymore because it's for the best. Took around 12 hours of talking to her to finally find out she broke up with me because I'm not tall enough to make her feel secure or tiny when she's being held. But she also said there were other issues and I do agree I was pretty dick-like to her sometimes when I didn't get what I want. I felt terrible although I doubt it holds anything against other problems people are having. She wants to remain best friends and I think I could capitalize on that and show her I can in fact change. Or should I simply move on? Thanks in advance.

Girlfriend broke up with me to stay best friends, but she says there were other issues. Should I just move on?

GF broke up with me because I'm not tall enough or tiny. She wants to remain best friends. I think I could. Should I move on?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically, she texts me last night and decides that we shouldn't be together anymore because it's for the best. Took around 12 hours of talking to her to finally find out she broke up with me because I'm not tall enough to make her feel secure or tiny when she's being held. But she also said there were other issues and I do agree I was pretty dick-like to her sometimes when I didn't get what I want. I felt terrible although I doubt it holds anything against other problems people are having. She wants to remain best friends and I think I could capitalize on that and show her I can in fact change. Or should I simply move on? Thanks in advance. TL;DR:

Girlfriend broke up with me to stay best friends, but she says there were other issues. Should I just move on?<|endoftext|>

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GF broke up with me because I'm not tall enough or tiny. She wants to remain best friends. I think I could. Should I move on?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically, she texts me last night and decides that we shouldn't be together anymore because it's for the best. Took around 12 hours of talking to her to finally find out she broke up with me because I'm not tall enough to make her feel secure or tiny when she's being held. But she also said there were other issues and I do agree I was pretty dick-like to her sometimes when I didn't get what I want. I felt terrible although I doubt it holds anything against other problems people are having. She wants to remain best friends and I think I could capitalize on that and show her I can in fact change. Or should I simply move on? Thanks in advance. TL;DR: Girlfriend broke up with me to stay best friends, but she says there were other issues. Should I just move on?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So basically, she texts me last night and decides that we shouldn't be together anymore because it's for the best. Took around 12 hours of talking to her to finally find out she broke up with me because I'm not tall enough to make her feel secure or tiny when she's being held. But she also said there were other issues and I do agree I was pretty dick-like to her sometimes when I didn't get what I want. I felt terrible although I doubt it holds anything against other problems people are having. She wants to remain best friends and I think I could capitalize on that and show her I can in fact change. Or should I simply move on? Thanks in advance. TL;DR: GF broke up with me because I'm not tall enough or tiny. She wants to remain best friends. I think I could. Should I move on?<|endoftext|>

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Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev

been with the best girl for 10 months but im not in love with her anymore. Is that a bad thing?

I think I have fallen out of love with my gf, but I feel like she is perfect.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR:

been with the best girl for 10 months but im not in love with her anymore. Is that a bad thing?<|endoftext|>

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I think I have fallen out of love with my gf, but I feel like she is perfect.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR: been with the best girl for 10 months but im not in love with her anymore. Is that a bad thing?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR: I think I have fallen out of love with my gf, but I feel like she is perfect.<|endoftext|>

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My wife and I were at a family gathering over the weekend. Father in law has a really big thing for blonde women, which is interesting because his wife is brunette. Anyway, he constantly makes comments about attractive blonde women; if I see a blonde woman that I know and chat with her he'll say things (in front of his wife and family) such as "who was THAT?!"; when we were camping a blonde woman at a neighboring camp spot was chatting with us at our site and FIL was openly flirting with her in front of the family, grilled her a burger, and so on. Here's the incident. Last weekend my wife and I were at a big family gathering with her in laws. There were probably 100 people there. There were two little blonde girls there, probably aged 7 and 5. They were dressed up, with curled hair and wearing dresses. The topic came up that my wife's 3rd grader cousin got sent home from school that week because he pulled his pants and underwear down in class as a joke after some other kid had done the same. A few minutes later the two blonde girls walked by and my father in law said "well if the girls in class looked anything like that I would have whipped it out too". Everyone was appalled and laughed in a way like it was totally over the line, like you'd hear from the audience to a really vulgar joke from a comedian. But that was the end of it. As for me I'm pretty disgusted with FIL about this and can't look at him the same now. I don't know what I should do about it.

FIL said a really over the line sexual joke about two little girls and it made me sick and I don't look at him the same now. I'm not sure what to do about it.

Father in law flirts with blonde women, wife and I were at a family gathering.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I were at a family gathering over the weekend. Father in law has a really big thing for blonde women, which is interesting because his wife is brunette. Anyway, he constantly makes comments about attractive blonde women; if I see a blonde woman that I know and chat with her he'll say things (in front of his wife and family) such as "who was THAT?!"; when we were camping a blonde woman at a neighboring camp spot was chatting with us at our site and FIL was openly flirting with her in front of the family, grilled her a burger, and so on. Here's the incident. Last weekend my wife and I were at a big family gathering with her in laws. There were probably 100 people there. There were two little blonde girls there, probably aged 7 and 5. They were dressed up, with curled hair and wearing dresses. The topic came up that my wife's 3rd grader cousin got sent home from school that week because he pulled his pants and underwear down in class as a joke after some other kid had done the same. A few minutes later the two blonde girls walked by and my father in law said "well if the girls in class looked anything like that I would have whipped it out too". Everyone was appalled and laughed in a way like it was totally over the line, like you'd hear from the audience to a really vulgar joke from a comedian. But that was the end of it. As for me I'm pretty disgusted with FIL about this and can't look at him the same now. I don't know what I should do about it. TL;DR:

FIL said a really over the line sexual joke about two little girls and it made me sick and I don't look at him the same now. I'm not sure what to do about it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I were at a family gathering over the weekend. Father in law has a really big thing for blonde women, which is interesting because his wife is brunette. Anyway, he constantly makes comments about attractive blonde women; if I see a blonde woman that I know and chat with her he'll say things (in front of his wife and family) such as "who was THAT?!"; when we were camping a blonde woman at a neighboring camp spot was chatting with us at our site and FIL was openly flirting with her in front of the family, grilled her a burger, and so on. Here's the incident. Last weekend my wife and I were at a big family gathering with her in laws. There were probably 100 people there. There were two little blonde girls there, probably aged 7 and 5. They were dressed up, with curled hair and wearing dresses. The topic came up that my wife's 3rd grader cousin got sent home from school that week because he pulled his pants and underwear down in class as a joke after some other kid had done the same. A few minutes later the two blonde girls walked by and my father in law said "well if the girls in class looked anything like that I would have whipped it out too". Everyone was appalled and laughed in a way like it was totally over the line, like you'd hear from the audience to a really vulgar joke from a comedian. But that was the end of it. As for me I'm pretty disgusted with FIL about this and can't look at him the same now. I don't know what I should do about it. TL;DR: FIL said a really over the line sexual joke about two little girls and it made me sick and I don't look at him the same now. I'm not sure what to do about it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I were at a family gathering over the weekend. Father in law has a really big thing for blonde women, which is interesting because his wife is brunette. Anyway, he constantly makes comments about attractive blonde women; if I see a blonde woman that I know and chat with her he'll say things (in front of his wife and family) such as "who was THAT?!"; when we were camping a blonde woman at a neighboring camp spot was chatting with us at our site and FIL was openly flirting with her in front of the family, grilled her a burger, and so on. Here's the incident. Last weekend my wife and I were at a big family gathering with her in laws. There were probably 100 people there. There were two little blonde girls there, probably aged 7 and 5. They were dressed up, with curled hair and wearing dresses. The topic came up that my wife's 3rd grader cousin got sent home from school that week because he pulled his pants and underwear down in class as a joke after some other kid had done the same. A few minutes later the two blonde girls walked by and my father in law said "well if the girls in class looked anything like that I would have whipped it out too". Everyone was appalled and laughed in a way like it was totally over the line, like you'd hear from the audience to a really vulgar joke from a comedian. But that was the end of it. As for me I'm pretty disgusted with FIL about this and can't look at him the same now. I don't know what I should do about it. TL;DR: Father in law flirts with blonde women, wife and I were at a family gathering.<|endoftext|>

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I am feeling like grade A shit right now, Reddit. I think this feeling has been inside of me for the past 4-5 months but, for whatever reason, it surfaced. And I'm taking it hard. I'm a freshman in college, about to start my fourth week I guess. I'm a music major and am pretty damned busy, but I'm cool with that now. That's where the fun ends. I'm a wreck right now and I can't for the life of me figure out what tripped this. I'm 17, 6'1", 150lbs, and OK looking. Personally, I'm not comfortable with the way I look lots of times. I always feel like I'm too skinny, or too average, or too whatever to actually be noticed by anyone. Despite the 70/30 girl to guy split here, I can't find one girl who's interested in me. Not a damned one. Any girls I've talked to immediately let me know they're not interested. My life at college hasn't been a particularly fun one, just a lot of school work and stuff, looking at girls all the time, and watching my roommate go in and out all the time. But tonight... I played at a concert tonight (trombone for the jazz ensemble), and my family showed up. They took me out to dinner and whatnot and then dropped me off at the dorm. I got inside, hung around for a while, and then started to feel really bad. Not guilty or filled with regret, just really bad. Next thing I know, it's 1:30 and I'm crying. Last time I cried was at my dad's retirement ceremony: basically I don't do it often at all. It's not 4:48 as I'm writing this and I'm still crying. It feels like a build-up over the last few months, but everything seems to be relevant to the past 3 weeks.

Busted my ass at a concert, fine until family came to drop me off. Now crying, like I haven't cried in years.

I'm a 17 year old guy who's crying at 1:30 AM. I wasn't crying during any of the other times I cried. Is there something wrong with me?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am feeling like grade A shit right now, Reddit. I think this feeling has been inside of me for the past 4-5 months but, for whatever reason, it surfaced. And I'm taking it hard. I'm a freshman in college, about to start my fourth week I guess. I'm a music major and am pretty damned busy, but I'm cool with that now. That's where the fun ends. I'm a wreck right now and I can't for the life of me figure out what tripped this. I'm 17, 6'1", 150lbs, and OK looking. Personally, I'm not comfortable with the way I look lots of times. I always feel like I'm too skinny, or too average, or too whatever to actually be noticed by anyone. Despite the 70/30 girl to guy split here, I can't find one girl who's interested in me. Not a damned one. Any girls I've talked to immediately let me know they're not interested. My life at college hasn't been a particularly fun one, just a lot of school work and stuff, looking at girls all the time, and watching my roommate go in and out all the time. But tonight... I played at a concert tonight (trombone for the jazz ensemble), and my family showed up. They took me out to dinner and whatnot and then dropped me off at the dorm. I got inside, hung around for a while, and then started to feel really bad. Not guilty or filled with regret, just really bad. Next thing I know, it's 1:30 and I'm crying. Last time I cried was at my dad's retirement ceremony: basically I don't do it often at all. It's not 4:48 as I'm writing this and I'm still crying. It feels like a build-up over the last few months, but everything seems to be relevant to the past 3 weeks. TL;DR:

Busted my ass at a concert, fine until family came to drop me off. Now crying, like I haven't cried in years.<|endoftext|>

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I'm a 17 year old guy who's crying at 1:30 AM. I wasn't crying during any of the other times I cried. Is there something wrong with me?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am feeling like grade A shit right now, Reddit. I think this feeling has been inside of me for the past 4-5 months but, for whatever reason, it surfaced. And I'm taking it hard. I'm a freshman in college, about to start my fourth week I guess. I'm a music major and am pretty damned busy, but I'm cool with that now. That's where the fun ends. I'm a wreck right now and I can't for the life of me figure out what tripped this. I'm 17, 6'1", 150lbs, and OK looking. Personally, I'm not comfortable with the way I look lots of times. I always feel like I'm too skinny, or too average, or too whatever to actually be noticed by anyone. Despite the 70/30 girl to guy split here, I can't find one girl who's interested in me. Not a damned one. Any girls I've talked to immediately let me know they're not interested. My life at college hasn't been a particularly fun one, just a lot of school work and stuff, looking at girls all the time, and watching my roommate go in and out all the time. But tonight... I played at a concert tonight (trombone for the jazz ensemble), and my family showed up. They took me out to dinner and whatnot and then dropped me off at the dorm. I got inside, hung around for a while, and then started to feel really bad. Not guilty or filled with regret, just really bad. Next thing I know, it's 1:30 and I'm crying. Last time I cried was at my dad's retirement ceremony: basically I don't do it often at all. It's not 4:48 as I'm writing this and I'm still crying. It feels like a build-up over the last few months, but everything seems to be relevant to the past 3 weeks. TL;DR: Busted my ass at a concert, fine until family came to drop me off. Now crying, like I haven't cried in years.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am feeling like grade A shit right now, Reddit. I think this feeling has been inside of me for the past 4-5 months but, for whatever reason, it surfaced. And I'm taking it hard. I'm a freshman in college, about to start my fourth week I guess. I'm a music major and am pretty damned busy, but I'm cool with that now. That's where the fun ends. I'm a wreck right now and I can't for the life of me figure out what tripped this. I'm 17, 6'1", 150lbs, and OK looking. Personally, I'm not comfortable with the way I look lots of times. I always feel like I'm too skinny, or too average, or too whatever to actually be noticed by anyone. Despite the 70/30 girl to guy split here, I can't find one girl who's interested in me. Not a damned one. Any girls I've talked to immediately let me know they're not interested. My life at college hasn't been a particularly fun one, just a lot of school work and stuff, looking at girls all the time, and watching my roommate go in and out all the time. But tonight... I played at a concert tonight (trombone for the jazz ensemble), and my family showed up. They took me out to dinner and whatnot and then dropped me off at the dorm. I got inside, hung around for a while, and then started to feel really bad. Not guilty or filled with regret, just really bad. Next thing I know, it's 1:30 and I'm crying. Last time I cried was at my dad's retirement ceremony: basically I don't do it often at all. It's not 4:48 as I'm writing this and I'm still crying. It feels like a build-up over the last few months, but everything seems to be relevant to the past 3 weeks. TL;DR: I'm a 17 year old guy who's crying at 1:30 AM. I wasn't crying during any of the other times I cried. Is there something wrong with me?<|endoftext|>

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Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. My mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. Problem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. I'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now.

mom's engine light goes on and car seems to be shaking, dealership blames mom, dad may have hit a wall with tolerance for crashes, feeling a little down right now.

Parents fighting over expensive repair bill for engine light, may have history of some accidents with cars, feel like my mom isn't being held accountable for her mistakes. what do i do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. My mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. Problem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. I'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now. TL;DR:

mom's engine light goes on and car seems to be shaking, dealership blames mom, dad may have hit a wall with tolerance for crashes, feeling a little down right now.<|endoftext|>

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Parents fighting over expensive repair bill for engine light, may have history of some accidents with cars, feel like my mom isn't being held accountable for her mistakes. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. My mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. Problem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. I'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now. TL;DR: mom's engine light goes on and car seems to be shaking, dealership blames mom, dad may have hit a wall with tolerance for crashes, feeling a little down right now.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Mom's engine light goes on and the car seems like is shaking, goes back to the dealership and comes back with a $2400 repair bill. My mom isn't the best driver, but when she said that the light came on suddenly in the morning, not as the result of any other incident, then I believe her. Problem is that there has been some history of us being somewhat accident prone with cars, and my dad may have hit a wall in terms of his tolerance for it. While frustrating, he does seem to be placing blame on my mother, even though I feel that she doesn't deserve as much ridicule and embarrassment as my dad may be putting on her. I'm an only child, and sometimes these things may affect me more than some other people, but I'm just feeling a little down right now. TL;DR: Parents fighting over expensive repair bill for engine light, may have history of some accidents with cars, feel like my mom isn't being held accountable for her mistakes. what do i do?<|endoftext|>

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I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial... About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides. We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos. But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome". She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it. One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me. What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that.

long-distance girlfriend insisting me to make video of myself in shower despite my being uncomfortable with it, even if i think it'll be stupid/awkward - no idea what to do?

Long-distance girlfriend of 3 years insist me to make video of me showering with face and everything else visible. Uncomfortable for me, and she tries arguing that she will enjoy watching it.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial... About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides. We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos. But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome". She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it. One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me. What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that. TL;DR:

long-distance girlfriend insisting me to make video of myself in shower despite my being uncomfortable with it, even if i think it'll be stupid/awkward - no idea what to do?<|endoftext|>

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Long-distance girlfriend of 3 years insist me to make video of me showering with face and everything else visible. Uncomfortable for me, and she tries arguing that she will enjoy watching it.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial... About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides. We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos. But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome". She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it. One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me. What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that. TL;DR: long-distance girlfriend insisting me to make video of myself in shower despite my being uncomfortable with it, even if i think it'll be stupid/awkward - no idea what to do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know if this is serious enough to post in this subreddit, so excuse me if you find it trivial... About 3 years ago I found a very kind, funny and pretty girl on the internet. I'm 22, she is near 28. We are chatting regularly, though I noticed that she rarely initiates the conversation - I am almost always first. We are always talking very comfortable from both sides. We try to neutralize lack of physical contact by exchanging pictures. It quickly went from clothed face shots to naked photos of "important parts". I have some definitely not minor shyness issues, but I overcame them for the sake of photos. But lately, she asked me for a rather weird thing - she wants me to make a video of myself in the shower. I instantly thought that it's not going to happen. I am 100% sure it will look very awkward, besides my shyness and my "constant pokerface syndrome". She insist that it takes no time, it's easy to do, and doesn't require any posing and similar things. I tell her that I'm uncomfortable with that, and suggest that I take usual private places pictures instead. She is then confused how is it possible that I'm okay with sending pictures of my dick, but uncomfortable with sending a video of me showering, with face and everything else visible. Maybe it's a fair point, and I can't really explain it. One of her another arguments is that even if I think the video will look stupid or awkward, she will enjoy it. It doesn't really help me in making a decision. In fact, I really don't want to do that, and I suspect that she thinks she somehow deserves that. (Extra info - she didn't say she will make similar video later, but I didn't suggest it either) Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship, but she seems like she doesn't understand it, and insists me to make the vid even if it's uncomfortable for me. What to do? Again sorry if it sounds non-serious. We know each other for quite a while and I prefer to stay in this "relationship", but I will have little to no problems with ending it if she keeps acting like that. TL;DR: Long-distance girlfriend of 3 years insist me to make video of me showering with face and everything else visible. Uncomfortable for me, and she tries arguing that she will enjoy watching it.<|endoftext|>

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Not sure where to post this, so if it's not correct, feel free to delete. I'm not exactly complaining, but I'm not exactly happy either. I've wanted to get a career in STEM since I was able to talk, even if I didn't actually know that what I wanted to do was considered STEM. That being said, why is an advanced history course required to graduate schools in America? (currently in high school) I understand I need to at least know basic history, but it seems like it's drilled into our brains that we must know the history of thousands of years ago through to the present, and in a fair amount of detail. I'm just wondering what the importance is, when I could be taking classes that I enjoy more and probably would get more out of, such as more math and science classes.

I want to be a physicist or an engineer but I have to take a lot of history courses. Why?

I'm not complaining about the history of our country, but I just want to know why we have to know it in such detail.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not sure where to post this, so if it's not correct, feel free to delete. I'm not exactly complaining, but I'm not exactly happy either. I've wanted to get a career in STEM since I was able to talk, even if I didn't actually know that what I wanted to do was considered STEM. That being said, why is an advanced history course required to graduate schools in America? (currently in high school) I understand I need to at least know basic history, but it seems like it's drilled into our brains that we must know the history of thousands of years ago through to the present, and in a fair amount of detail. I'm just wondering what the importance is, when I could be taking classes that I enjoy more and probably would get more out of, such as more math and science classes. TL;DR:

I want to be a physicist or an engineer but I have to take a lot of history courses. Why?<|endoftext|>

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I'm not complaining about the history of our country, but I just want to know why we have to know it in such detail.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not sure where to post this, so if it's not correct, feel free to delete. I'm not exactly complaining, but I'm not exactly happy either. I've wanted to get a career in STEM since I was able to talk, even if I didn't actually know that what I wanted to do was considered STEM. That being said, why is an advanced history course required to graduate schools in America? (currently in high school) I understand I need to at least know basic history, but it seems like it's drilled into our brains that we must know the history of thousands of years ago through to the present, and in a fair amount of detail. I'm just wondering what the importance is, when I could be taking classes that I enjoy more and probably would get more out of, such as more math and science classes. TL;DR: I want to be a physicist or an engineer but I have to take a lot of history courses. Why?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Not sure where to post this, so if it's not correct, feel free to delete. I'm not exactly complaining, but I'm not exactly happy either. I've wanted to get a career in STEM since I was able to talk, even if I didn't actually know that what I wanted to do was considered STEM. That being said, why is an advanced history course required to graduate schools in America? (currently in high school) I understand I need to at least know basic history, but it seems like it's drilled into our brains that we must know the history of thousands of years ago through to the present, and in a fair amount of detail. I'm just wondering what the importance is, when I could be taking classes that I enjoy more and probably would get more out of, such as more math and science classes. TL;DR: I'm not complaining about the history of our country, but I just want to know why we have to know it in such detail.<|endoftext|>

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Hello, So I am the least organised person in the world, and possibly the solar system too. I've been telling anybody who asks 'so, um, now you've graduated whats your plans?' that I'm going to do a working holiday in Australia come february ish time. The problem is that apart from a well-meaning aunty in Perth I have absolutely NO plan, and as of yet, no Visa. Where the heck do I start? I'm pretty casual with travel, I decided to spend a year studying abroad pretty let minute, and will often take last minute trips based on the prices of flights on sky scanner. But I just want to know if it is realistic to try and get a working visa and/ or organise some sort of travel in the next 2 months for an extended solo stay in australia? Names of useful subreddits would be fantastic, as well as names of any travel companies or programmes you know of that might provide me with a bit more structure to this half-baked plan of mine. I have about £1000 in savings and flights are being paid for by my long-suffering yet wonderfully generous parents as a 21st birthday present. I have bar, retail and catering experience, as well an undergraduate degree, enthusiasm, and a head full o'dreams. I would love to be able to work in a hostel with a bar. In my head, that would be perfect, because other than that I'm not sure where on earth I'd be staying. I'm buying somewhat of an open flight from the UK to Aus, I don't know when I'd come back. Very, very flexible. But I do need to work when I'm out there.

I'm going to Australia with no Visa, no plans, no clue on where to stay or how to get a visa. I'm 21, would like to work, and would like some help getting me in touch with more experienced parents and interested employers.

I'm 21 with no clue what to do in australia, looking for help in getting a visa.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, So I am the least organised person in the world, and possibly the solar system too. I've been telling anybody who asks'so, um, now you've graduated whats your plans?' that I'm going to do a working holiday in Australia come february ish time. The problem is that apart from a well-meaning aunty in Perth I have absolutely NO plan, and as of yet, no Visa. Where the heck do I start? I'm pretty casual with travel, I decided to spend a year studying abroad pretty let minute, and will often take last minute trips based on the prices of flights on sky scanner. But I just want to know if it is realistic to try and get a working visa and/ or organise some sort of travel in the next 2 months for an extended solo stay in australia? Names of useful subreddits would be fantastic, as well as names of any travel companies or programmes you know of that might provide me with a bit more structure to this half-baked plan of mine. I have about £1000 in savings and flights are being paid for by my long-suffering yet wonderfully generous parents as a 21st birthday present. I have bar, retail and catering experience, as well an undergraduate degree, enthusiasm, and a head full o'dreams. I would love to be able to work in a hostel with a bar. In my head, that would be perfect, because other than that I'm not sure where on earth I'd be staying. I'm buying somewhat of an open flight from the UK to Aus, I don't know when I'd come back. Very, very flexible. But I do need to work when I'm out there. TL;DR:

I'm going to Australia with no Visa, no plans, no clue on where to stay or how to get a visa. I'm 21, would like to work, and would like some help getting me in touch with more experienced parents and interested employers.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, So I am the least organised person in the world, and possibly the solar system too. I've been telling anybody who asks'so, um, now you've graduated whats your plans?' that I'm going to do a working holiday in Australia come february ish time. The problem is that apart from a well-meaning aunty in Perth I have absolutely NO plan, and as of yet, no Visa. Where the heck do I start? I'm pretty casual with travel, I decided to spend a year studying abroad pretty let minute, and will often take last minute trips based on the prices of flights on sky scanner. But I just want to know if it is realistic to try and get a working visa and/ or organise some sort of travel in the next 2 months for an extended solo stay in australia? Names of useful subreddits would be fantastic, as well as names of any travel companies or programmes you know of that might provide me with a bit more structure to this half-baked plan of mine. I have about £1000 in savings and flights are being paid for by my long-suffering yet wonderfully generous parents as a 21st birthday present. I have bar, retail and catering experience, as well an undergraduate degree, enthusiasm, and a head full o'dreams. I would love to be able to work in a hostel with a bar. In my head, that would be perfect, because other than that I'm not sure where on earth I'd be staying. I'm buying somewhat of an open flight from the UK to Aus, I don't know when I'd come back. Very, very flexible. But I do need to work when I'm out there. TL;DR: I'm going to Australia with no Visa, no plans, no clue on where to stay or how to get a visa. I'm 21, would like to work, and would like some help getting me in touch with more experienced parents and interested employers.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, So I am the least organised person in the world, and possibly the solar system too. I've been telling anybody who asks'so, um, now you've graduated whats your plans?' that I'm going to do a working holiday in Australia come february ish time. The problem is that apart from a well-meaning aunty in Perth I have absolutely NO plan, and as of yet, no Visa. Where the heck do I start? I'm pretty casual with travel, I decided to spend a year studying abroad pretty let minute, and will often take last minute trips based on the prices of flights on sky scanner. But I just want to know if it is realistic to try and get a working visa and/ or organise some sort of travel in the next 2 months for an extended solo stay in australia? Names of useful subreddits would be fantastic, as well as names of any travel companies or programmes you know of that might provide me with a bit more structure to this half-baked plan of mine. I have about £1000 in savings and flights are being paid for by my long-suffering yet wonderfully generous parents as a 21st birthday present. I have bar, retail and catering experience, as well an undergraduate degree, enthusiasm, and a head full o'dreams. I would love to be able to work in a hostel with a bar. In my head, that would be perfect, because other than that I'm not sure where on earth I'd be staying. I'm buying somewhat of an open flight from the UK to Aus, I don't know when I'd come back. Very, very flexible. But I do need to work when I'm out there. TL;DR: I'm 21 with no clue what to do in australia, looking for help in getting a visa.<|endoftext|>

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hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run?

want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way

i am fat and my mom is angry at me for being fat, what can i do to help myself?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR:

want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way<|endoftext|>

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i am fat and my mom is angry at me for being fat, what can i do to help myself?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR: want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR: i am fat and my mom is angry at me for being fat, what can i do to help myself?<|endoftext|>

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So I [M,24] broke up with my girlfriend [F,24] of almost 2 years BEFORE I found out she was pregnant. It wasn't working out, and it got to the point where we were emotionally destroying each other. So I eventually left. I ignored the texts and the phone calls and everything, until one of the text said something along the lines of "This has nothing to do with us breaking up, this is an emergency!". At first I thought it may be some lame attempt to get me to come back, but then I thought it may be something to do with my dog. I go over, and I knew right away what she was gonna say. "I'm pregnant." I tried to be calm, I explained that whatever decision she makes I'll help her through it, because obviously I'm not a scumbag and it takes two to make a baby, but we can't be together anymore because it's just not working out. This is where my question comes in. She texts me constantly throughout the day saying how hard it is to do this without me, and I understand what she means, but I also feel like she's trying to pressure me back into the relationship. I had to move back in with my parents, but I'm still on the lease and the power is in my name, so I'm still paying rent, and power, all on top of the regular bills and dealing with school/work. I don't know what to do. I feel like the shittiest person in the world, I just need someone to talk to or some advice, or someone who's gone through this before. So my question is: WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO REDDIT!? Am I a horrible person? Is there anyone who can offer me some advice?

My Gf [24] is pregnant, she keeps texting me about how hard it is, what the fuck do I do?

Girlfriend and I broke up, now she's fucking pregnant. Idk if which way she's gonna go with it. What the fuck do I do?*

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I [M,24] broke up with my girlfriend [F,24] of almost 2 years BEFORE I found out she was pregnant. It wasn't working out, and it got to the point where we were emotionally destroying each other. So I eventually left. I ignored the texts and the phone calls and everything, until one of the text said something along the lines of "This has nothing to do with us breaking up, this is an emergency!". At first I thought it may be some lame attempt to get me to come back, but then I thought it may be something to do with my dog. I go over, and I knew right away what she was gonna say. "I'm pregnant." I tried to be calm, I explained that whatever decision she makes I'll help her through it, because obviously I'm not a scumbag and it takes two to make a baby, but we can't be together anymore because it's just not working out. This is where my question comes in. She texts me constantly throughout the day saying how hard it is to do this without me, and I understand what she means, but I also feel like she's trying to pressure me back into the relationship. I had to move back in with my parents, but I'm still on the lease and the power is in my name, so I'm still paying rent, and power, all on top of the regular bills and dealing with school/work. I don't know what to do. I feel like the shittiest person in the world, I just need someone to talk to or some advice, or someone who's gone through this before. So my question is: WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO REDDIT!? Am I a horrible person? Is there anyone who can offer me some advice? TL;DR:

My Gf [24] is pregnant, she keeps texting me about how hard it is, what the fuck do I do?<|endoftext|>

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Girlfriend and I broke up, now she's fucking pregnant. Idk if which way she's gonna go with it. What the fuck do I do?*<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I [M,24] broke up with my girlfriend [F,24] of almost 2 years BEFORE I found out she was pregnant. It wasn't working out, and it got to the point where we were emotionally destroying each other. So I eventually left. I ignored the texts and the phone calls and everything, until one of the text said something along the lines of "This has nothing to do with us breaking up, this is an emergency!". At first I thought it may be some lame attempt to get me to come back, but then I thought it may be something to do with my dog. I go over, and I knew right away what she was gonna say. "I'm pregnant." I tried to be calm, I explained that whatever decision she makes I'll help her through it, because obviously I'm not a scumbag and it takes two to make a baby, but we can't be together anymore because it's just not working out. This is where my question comes in. She texts me constantly throughout the day saying how hard it is to do this without me, and I understand what she means, but I also feel like she's trying to pressure me back into the relationship. I had to move back in with my parents, but I'm still on the lease and the power is in my name, so I'm still paying rent, and power, all on top of the regular bills and dealing with school/work. I don't know what to do. I feel like the shittiest person in the world, I just need someone to talk to or some advice, or someone who's gone through this before. So my question is: WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO REDDIT!? Am I a horrible person? Is there anyone who can offer me some advice? TL;DR: My Gf [24] is pregnant, she keeps texting me about how hard it is, what the fuck do I do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I [M,24] broke up with my girlfriend [F,24] of almost 2 years BEFORE I found out she was pregnant. It wasn't working out, and it got to the point where we were emotionally destroying each other. So I eventually left. I ignored the texts and the phone calls and everything, until one of the text said something along the lines of "This has nothing to do with us breaking up, this is an emergency!". At first I thought it may be some lame attempt to get me to come back, but then I thought it may be something to do with my dog. I go over, and I knew right away what she was gonna say. "I'm pregnant." I tried to be calm, I explained that whatever decision she makes I'll help her through it, because obviously I'm not a scumbag and it takes two to make a baby, but we can't be together anymore because it's just not working out. This is where my question comes in. She texts me constantly throughout the day saying how hard it is to do this without me, and I understand what she means, but I also feel like she's trying to pressure me back into the relationship. I had to move back in with my parents, but I'm still on the lease and the power is in my name, so I'm still paying rent, and power, all on top of the regular bills and dealing with school/work. I don't know what to do. I feel like the shittiest person in the world, I just need someone to talk to or some advice, or someone who's gone through this before. So my question is: WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO REDDIT!? Am I a horrible person? Is there anyone who can offer me some advice? TL;DR: Girlfriend and I broke up, now she's fucking pregnant. Idk if which way she's gonna go with it. What the fuck do I do?*<|endoftext|>

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We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future.

insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to finances; hurt and frustrated that I might have insinuated that; need a constructive conversation about finances/what's best for us moving forward.

Might have insinuated that girlfriend is a burden due to my higher earning potential, need to figure out how to talk about finances/financial future before it turns into huge issue...again. Help pls?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR:

insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to finances; hurt and frustrated that I might have insinuated that; need a constructive conversation about finances/what's best for us moving forward.<|endoftext|>

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Might have insinuated that girlfriend is a burden due to my higher earning potential, need to figure out how to talk about finances/financial future before it turns into huge issue...again. Help pls?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR: insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to finances; hurt and frustrated that I might have insinuated that; need a constructive conversation about finances/what's best for us moving forward.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR: Might have insinuated that girlfriend is a burden due to my higher earning potential, need to figure out how to talk about finances/financial future before it turns into huge issue...again. Help pls?<|endoftext|>

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Hey guys! So I, like many college students, work a shitty minimum wage job. But only during the winters, during the summertime (and most of the spring and fall) I work at a kids camp. So here's the problem, just recently we had somebody quit at the camp and they need me to work there more often. Anyways today was one of those days and it just got sprung on me that I had to come in on Thursday. so when I go in on Friday I give one of my managers a heads up that I wont be in the next day because I got called in to work my other job. As I was expecting she got a little pissy and asked me about 5 times if I was sure I couldn't make it in the next day by the end of my shift. At the end of my shift she asks me to call in if I still couldn't make it in. So, doing what I was told I call in and let them know I wouldn't be in an hour before my shift was supposed to start as is standard procedure. Of course at this point they start telling me that I could get fired because I'm refusing to work. I just listen to what she has to say, say okay, I'm sorry, and thank you. So during the inevitable talking to tomorrow I'm going to give them my two weeks because my other job, that I've been at for three years, needs me. Now the biggest problem here is that I have to work again next Saturday and if I tell them I have to work then I'm 90 percent sure I'll be fired. So I guess what I'm asking is if I get fired will that affect my future employment, (I don't have many things on my resume) or is it better to just quit on the spot or something... sorry for the lengthiness I've been up since 6 and its now almost midnight..

Job troubles. Boss tries to fire me over refusal to work. Will that affect future employment, quitting or waiting till I can get another job?

Got called in to work but can't because of other job that needs me next week. Possible lose job if I say that I have to work, and will get fired, to tell them I can't.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys! So I, like many college students, work a shitty minimum wage job. But only during the winters, during the summertime (and most of the spring and fall) I work at a kids camp. So here's the problem, just recently we had somebody quit at the camp and they need me to work there more often. Anyways today was one of those days and it just got sprung on me that I had to come in on Thursday. so when I go in on Friday I give one of my managers a heads up that I wont be in the next day because I got called in to work my other job. As I was expecting she got a little pissy and asked me about 5 times if I was sure I couldn't make it in the next day by the end of my shift. At the end of my shift she asks me to call in if I still couldn't make it in. So, doing what I was told I call in and let them know I wouldn't be in an hour before my shift was supposed to start as is standard procedure. Of course at this point they start telling me that I could get fired because I'm refusing to work. I just listen to what she has to say, say okay, I'm sorry, and thank you. So during the inevitable talking to tomorrow I'm going to give them my two weeks because my other job, that I've been at for three years, needs me. Now the biggest problem here is that I have to work again next Saturday and if I tell them I have to work then I'm 90 percent sure I'll be fired. So I guess what I'm asking is if I get fired will that affect my future employment, (I don't have many things on my resume) or is it better to just quit on the spot or something... sorry for the lengthiness I've been up since 6 and its now almost midnight.. TL;DR:

Job troubles. Boss tries to fire me over refusal to work. Will that affect future employment, quitting or waiting till I can get another job?<|endoftext|>

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Got called in to work but can't because of other job that needs me next week. Possible lose job if I say that I have to work, and will get fired, to tell them I can't.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys! So I, like many college students, work a shitty minimum wage job. But only during the winters, during the summertime (and most of the spring and fall) I work at a kids camp. So here's the problem, just recently we had somebody quit at the camp and they need me to work there more often. Anyways today was one of those days and it just got sprung on me that I had to come in on Thursday. so when I go in on Friday I give one of my managers a heads up that I wont be in the next day because I got called in to work my other job. As I was expecting she got a little pissy and asked me about 5 times if I was sure I couldn't make it in the next day by the end of my shift. At the end of my shift she asks me to call in if I still couldn't make it in. So, doing what I was told I call in and let them know I wouldn't be in an hour before my shift was supposed to start as is standard procedure. Of course at this point they start telling me that I could get fired because I'm refusing to work. I just listen to what she has to say, say okay, I'm sorry, and thank you. So during the inevitable talking to tomorrow I'm going to give them my two weeks because my other job, that I've been at for three years, needs me. Now the biggest problem here is that I have to work again next Saturday and if I tell them I have to work then I'm 90 percent sure I'll be fired. So I guess what I'm asking is if I get fired will that affect my future employment, (I don't have many things on my resume) or is it better to just quit on the spot or something... sorry for the lengthiness I've been up since 6 and its now almost midnight.. TL;DR: Job troubles. Boss tries to fire me over refusal to work. Will that affect future employment, quitting or waiting till I can get another job?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey guys! So I, like many college students, work a shitty minimum wage job. But only during the winters, during the summertime (and most of the spring and fall) I work at a kids camp. So here's the problem, just recently we had somebody quit at the camp and they need me to work there more often. Anyways today was one of those days and it just got sprung on me that I had to come in on Thursday. so when I go in on Friday I give one of my managers a heads up that I wont be in the next day because I got called in to work my other job. As I was expecting she got a little pissy and asked me about 5 times if I was sure I couldn't make it in the next day by the end of my shift. At the end of my shift she asks me to call in if I still couldn't make it in. So, doing what I was told I call in and let them know I wouldn't be in an hour before my shift was supposed to start as is standard procedure. Of course at this point they start telling me that I could get fired because I'm refusing to work. I just listen to what she has to say, say okay, I'm sorry, and thank you. So during the inevitable talking to tomorrow I'm going to give them my two weeks because my other job, that I've been at for three years, needs me. Now the biggest problem here is that I have to work again next Saturday and if I tell them I have to work then I'm 90 percent sure I'll be fired. So I guess what I'm asking is if I get fired will that affect my future employment, (I don't have many things on my resume) or is it better to just quit on the spot or something... sorry for the lengthiness I've been up since 6 and its now almost midnight.. TL;DR: Got called in to work but can't because of other job that needs me next week. Possible lose job if I say that I have to work, and will get fired, to tell them I can't.<|endoftext|>

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Hello! I'm 19 (almost 20), with 2 years of general education in college. At this time, school isn't really doing it for me. I started school in pursuit of a Bachelor's in Computer Science, but have since found myself lacking motivation and direction for school. I've recently started some online programming courses (through Udacity), for which I've found more motivation. I'm still not sure where I want to direct myself career-wise. For the time being, however, I want some employment in the tech field. I've been working in retail for the last 3 years. I make decent money (for retail) at my current job. Thus, I have quite a bit of experience in customer service, and do my job quite well. When it comes to technology, though, I have little-to-no formal experience or education. I've had a passion for technology from a young age. Using software and troubleshooting is almost second nature to me and I learn new concepts quickly. So I ask: with my history, how can I go about getting an entry level Help Desk job to get my feet wet? There is a posting on Indeed for a similar position at a local theme and water park. What should I include in my cover letter? How can I set myself apart from others that do have experience? Am I even cut out for a job like this? If not, what can I do to prepare for it?

how can I get an entry-level IT job with little-to-no formal experience/education?

19 year old with minimal experience or education working retail. What should I include in my cover letter to get a job in tech? Thanks for letting me know!

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello! I'm 19 (almost 20), with 2 years of general education in college. At this time, school isn't really doing it for me. I started school in pursuit of a Bachelor's in Computer Science, but have since found myself lacking motivation and direction for school. I've recently started some online programming courses (through Udacity), for which I've found more motivation. I'm still not sure where I want to direct myself career-wise. For the time being, however, I want some employment in the tech field. I've been working in retail for the last 3 years. I make decent money (for retail) at my current job. Thus, I have quite a bit of experience in customer service, and do my job quite well. When it comes to technology, though, I have little-to-no formal experience or education. I've had a passion for technology from a young age. Using software and troubleshooting is almost second nature to me and I learn new concepts quickly. So I ask: with my history, how can I go about getting an entry level Help Desk job to get my feet wet? There is a posting on Indeed for a similar position at a local theme and water park. What should I include in my cover letter? How can I set myself apart from others that do have experience? Am I even cut out for a job like this? If not, what can I do to prepare for it? TL;DR:

how can I get an entry-level IT job with little-to-no formal experience/education?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello! I'm 19 (almost 20), with 2 years of general education in college. At this time, school isn't really doing it for me. I started school in pursuit of a Bachelor's in Computer Science, but have since found myself lacking motivation and direction for school. I've recently started some online programming courses (through Udacity), for which I've found more motivation. I'm still not sure where I want to direct myself career-wise. For the time being, however, I want some employment in the tech field. I've been working in retail for the last 3 years. I make decent money (for retail) at my current job. Thus, I have quite a bit of experience in customer service, and do my job quite well. When it comes to technology, though, I have little-to-no formal experience or education. I've had a passion for technology from a young age. Using software and troubleshooting is almost second nature to me and I learn new concepts quickly. So I ask: with my history, how can I go about getting an entry level Help Desk job to get my feet wet? There is a posting on Indeed for a similar position at a local theme and water park. What should I include in my cover letter? How can I set myself apart from others that do have experience? Am I even cut out for a job like this? If not, what can I do to prepare for it? TL;DR: how can I get an entry-level IT job with little-to-no formal experience/education?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello! I'm 19 (almost 20), with 2 years of general education in college. At this time, school isn't really doing it for me. I started school in pursuit of a Bachelor's in Computer Science, but have since found myself lacking motivation and direction for school. I've recently started some online programming courses (through Udacity), for which I've found more motivation. I'm still not sure where I want to direct myself career-wise. For the time being, however, I want some employment in the tech field. I've been working in retail for the last 3 years. I make decent money (for retail) at my current job. Thus, I have quite a bit of experience in customer service, and do my job quite well. When it comes to technology, though, I have little-to-no formal experience or education. I've had a passion for technology from a young age. Using software and troubleshooting is almost second nature to me and I learn new concepts quickly. So I ask: with my history, how can I go about getting an entry level Help Desk job to get my feet wet? There is a posting on Indeed for a similar position at a local theme and water park. What should I include in my cover letter? How can I set myself apart from others that do have experience? Am I even cut out for a job like this? If not, what can I do to prepare for it? TL;DR: 19 year old with minimal experience or education working retail. What should I include in my cover letter to get a job in tech? Thanks for letting me know!<|endoftext|>

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We've been together over three years now, love each other, rarely fight and are generally quite happy. This morning I was uploading some photos from my camera to my blog, and when I hit the upload button instead of going straight to my SD card the window opened "pics for phone" (which is my boyfriend's phone pictures file obv), I knew that file existed but I trust him so I don't snoop, plus we have completely different taste in porn so it's usually better if we avoid each other's porn folders. As I was bringing the cursor over to the back button I noticed that the first image in the folder was a girl I went to school with in a bikini, we're not friends so to speak but we knew each other, and my boyfriend knows we went to school together because I told him that when she sent him a friend request on facebook about a year ago, I'm pretty sure he just though she looked hot in the photo or something, but at the same time I'm a little weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone, yet as far as I know no photos of his girlfriend (which up until this point I'd never really thought about or cared about, he sees me naked every day anyway). I'm thinking about asking him about it (I will tell him how I found it) and if maybe he could delete it because it's making me feel weird, but I just want some clarification that I'm not being a psycho hose beast or anything by feeling creeped out by this.

I found my bf's phone pics of a girl I went to school with in a bikini, wondering if I'm being weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone.

Found a photo of my friend on my boyfriend's phone, I have no idea if it's creepy or not, what do?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together over three years now, love each other, rarely fight and are generally quite happy. This morning I was uploading some photos from my camera to my blog, and when I hit the upload button instead of going straight to my SD card the window opened "pics for phone" (which is my boyfriend's phone pictures file obv), I knew that file existed but I trust him so I don't snoop, plus we have completely different taste in porn so it's usually better if we avoid each other's porn folders. As I was bringing the cursor over to the back button I noticed that the first image in the folder was a girl I went to school with in a bikini, we're not friends so to speak but we knew each other, and my boyfriend knows we went to school together because I told him that when she sent him a friend request on facebook about a year ago, I'm pretty sure he just though she looked hot in the photo or something, but at the same time I'm a little weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone, yet as far as I know no photos of his girlfriend (which up until this point I'd never really thought about or cared about, he sees me naked every day anyway). I'm thinking about asking him about it (I will tell him how I found it) and if maybe he could delete it because it's making me feel weird, but I just want some clarification that I'm not being a psycho hose beast or anything by feeling creeped out by this. TL;DR:

I found my bf's phone pics of a girl I went to school with in a bikini, wondering if I'm being weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone.<|endoftext|>

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Found a photo of my friend on my boyfriend's phone, I have no idea if it's creepy or not, what do?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together over three years now, love each other, rarely fight and are generally quite happy. This morning I was uploading some photos from my camera to my blog, and when I hit the upload button instead of going straight to my SD card the window opened "pics for phone" (which is my boyfriend's phone pictures file obv), I knew that file existed but I trust him so I don't snoop, plus we have completely different taste in porn so it's usually better if we avoid each other's porn folders. As I was bringing the cursor over to the back button I noticed that the first image in the folder was a girl I went to school with in a bikini, we're not friends so to speak but we knew each other, and my boyfriend knows we went to school together because I told him that when she sent him a friend request on facebook about a year ago, I'm pretty sure he just though she looked hot in the photo or something, but at the same time I'm a little weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone, yet as far as I know no photos of his girlfriend (which up until this point I'd never really thought about or cared about, he sees me naked every day anyway). I'm thinking about asking him about it (I will tell him how I found it) and if maybe he could delete it because it's making me feel weird, but I just want some clarification that I'm not being a psycho hose beast or anything by feeling creeped out by this. TL;DR: I found my bf's phone pics of a girl I went to school with in a bikini, wondering if I'm being weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together over three years now, love each other, rarely fight and are generally quite happy. This morning I was uploading some photos from my camera to my blog, and when I hit the upload button instead of going straight to my SD card the window opened "pics for phone" (which is my boyfriend's phone pictures file obv), I knew that file existed but I trust him so I don't snoop, plus we have completely different taste in porn so it's usually better if we avoid each other's porn folders. As I was bringing the cursor over to the back button I noticed that the first image in the folder was a girl I went to school with in a bikini, we're not friends so to speak but we knew each other, and my boyfriend knows we went to school together because I told him that when she sent him a friend request on facebook about a year ago, I'm pretty sure he just though she looked hot in the photo or something, but at the same time I'm a little weirded out that he has a photo of someone I kind of know on his phone, yet as far as I know no photos of his girlfriend (which up until this point I'd never really thought about or cared about, he sees me naked every day anyway). I'm thinking about asking him about it (I will tell him how I found it) and if maybe he could delete it because it's making me feel weird, but I just want some clarification that I'm not being a psycho hose beast or anything by feeling creeped out by this. TL;DR: Found a photo of my friend on my boyfriend's phone, I have no idea if it's creepy or not, what do?<|endoftext|>

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Alright so I'm F(21) and I dated him(27) at the beginning of the year for a little over a month. We liked each other but I was leaving the country for 4 months so we cut things off. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, he contacted me and said he wanted to give things a 'go' again. I wasn't opposed to the idea so we agreed to meet up. First date went well and it felt like we picked up where we left off. Second date went well too and we ended up having sex. The thing is, we live about an hour away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. During the time we are apart he is REALLY bad about contact with me. He doesn't initiate any convo at all, but when I initiate he always wants to talk and he told me he was "really into me" and other similar things the last time we were together. So what's going on with his communication? Is he just being a typical guy and acting like he doesn't give a fuck or is this a bad sign? Also, I don't know if it's too soon to casually bring up next time something like "hey, I'd like to hear from you more..." without him thinking I'm crazy. I'm not saying he needs to text/call everyday, but a 'good morning' at a minimum would be nice once a week or something. I'm also wondering if it could be the age difference that plays into the expectations I have as far as communication goes.

F(21) and M(27) recently went on 2 dates, but he doesn't initiate any contact at all. Is it because of the distance or is he just being a dick? What could I say/do to make things better?

New boy isn't making any initiative to communicate, but things are normal when we are together. What does this mean?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so I'm F(21) and I dated him(27) at the beginning of the year for a little over a month. We liked each other but I was leaving the country for 4 months so we cut things off. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, he contacted me and said he wanted to give things a 'go' again. I wasn't opposed to the idea so we agreed to meet up. First date went well and it felt like we picked up where we left off. Second date went well too and we ended up having sex. The thing is, we live about an hour away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. During the time we are apart he is REALLY bad about contact with me. He doesn't initiate any convo at all, but when I initiate he always wants to talk and he told me he was "really into me" and other similar things the last time we were together. So what's going on with his communication? Is he just being a typical guy and acting like he doesn't give a fuck or is this a bad sign? Also, I don't know if it's too soon to casually bring up next time something like "hey, I'd like to hear from you more..." without him thinking I'm crazy. I'm not saying he needs to text/call everyday, but a 'good morning' at a minimum would be nice once a week or something. I'm also wondering if it could be the age difference that plays into the expectations I have as far as communication goes. TL;DR:

F(21) and M(27) recently went on 2 dates, but he doesn't initiate any contact at all. Is it because of the distance or is he just being a dick? What could I say/do to make things better?<|endoftext|>

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New boy isn't making any initiative to communicate, but things are normal when we are together. What does this mean?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so I'm F(21) and I dated him(27) at the beginning of the year for a little over a month. We liked each other but I was leaving the country for 4 months so we cut things off. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, he contacted me and said he wanted to give things a 'go' again. I wasn't opposed to the idea so we agreed to meet up. First date went well and it felt like we picked up where we left off. Second date went well too and we ended up having sex. The thing is, we live about an hour away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. During the time we are apart he is REALLY bad about contact with me. He doesn't initiate any convo at all, but when I initiate he always wants to talk and he told me he was "really into me" and other similar things the last time we were together. So what's going on with his communication? Is he just being a typical guy and acting like he doesn't give a fuck or is this a bad sign? Also, I don't know if it's too soon to casually bring up next time something like "hey, I'd like to hear from you more..." without him thinking I'm crazy. I'm not saying he needs to text/call everyday, but a 'good morning' at a minimum would be nice once a week or something. I'm also wondering if it could be the age difference that plays into the expectations I have as far as communication goes. TL;DR: F(21) and M(27) recently went on 2 dates, but he doesn't initiate any contact at all. Is it because of the distance or is he just being a dick? What could I say/do to make things better?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Alright so I'm F(21) and I dated him(27) at the beginning of the year for a little over a month. We liked each other but I was leaving the country for 4 months so we cut things off. Fast forward to a few weeks ago, he contacted me and said he wanted to give things a 'go' again. I wasn't opposed to the idea so we agreed to meet up. First date went well and it felt like we picked up where we left off. Second date went well too and we ended up having sex. The thing is, we live about an hour away from each other so we only see each other on weekends. During the time we are apart he is REALLY bad about contact with me. He doesn't initiate any convo at all, but when I initiate he always wants to talk and he told me he was "really into me" and other similar things the last time we were together. So what's going on with his communication? Is he just being a typical guy and acting like he doesn't give a fuck or is this a bad sign? Also, I don't know if it's too soon to casually bring up next time something like "hey, I'd like to hear from you more..." without him thinking I'm crazy. I'm not saying he needs to text/call everyday, but a 'good morning' at a minimum would be nice once a week or something. I'm also wondering if it could be the age difference that plays into the expectations I have as far as communication goes. TL;DR: New boy isn't making any initiative to communicate, but things are normal when we are together. What does this mean?<|endoftext|>

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I've spoken about my best friend on here before, she comes from parents with narcissistic tendencies, finds herself in abusive relationships, and makes poor life choices. She and I had a lot of fun when we were 18, partying but now I have settled down, found myself and am engaged. She on the other hand continues to party (dangerously). Normally I wouldn't be irritated by this, but her life choices are causing her grief, drug use is giving her depression, she dates terrible men and has average friendships. I am incredibly honest with her, so when she comes to me with her problems, I tell her straight out. She doesn't ever listen, and I am at a point where I am exhausted as a friend. She only comes to me with problems, we don't see each other in a sober manner, and if I try to speak about anything in my life (good or bad) she ignores it. I have tried about 8 times explaining how I am hurt and exhausted. She apologises but continues to do so. Most recently she sent me a cryptic message which made me question her safety, she didn't speak to me for two days and I found out she was on a bender. I had asked her to be my bridesmaid, but am worried now that she is going to be more drama than fun. What I am asking is, is it worth it trying to keep her around for old times sake? Or cut my losses and let her know that I am backing away from our friendship. We did have good times and I am all that she has. As I am so upfront with her, should I straight up tell her she is no longer in my wedding and taking a step back in my life?

best friend is a wreck, I am tired of being her sounding board, should I cut her from my life?

My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years and are now at a point where I don't want to be a part of her life. Should I cut her out completely?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've spoken about my best friend on here before, she comes from parents with narcissistic tendencies, finds herself in abusive relationships, and makes poor life choices. She and I had a lot of fun when we were 18, partying but now I have settled down, found myself and am engaged. She on the other hand continues to party (dangerously). Normally I wouldn't be irritated by this, but her life choices are causing her grief, drug use is giving her depression, she dates terrible men and has average friendships. I am incredibly honest with her, so when she comes to me with her problems, I tell her straight out. She doesn't ever listen, and I am at a point where I am exhausted as a friend. She only comes to me with problems, we don't see each other in a sober manner, and if I try to speak about anything in my life (good or bad) she ignores it. I have tried about 8 times explaining how I am hurt and exhausted. She apologises but continues to do so. Most recently she sent me a cryptic message which made me question her safety, she didn't speak to me for two days and I found out she was on a bender. I had asked her to be my bridesmaid, but am worried now that she is going to be more drama than fun. What I am asking is, is it worth it trying to keep her around for old times sake? Or cut my losses and let her know that I am backing away from our friendship. We did have good times and I am all that she has. As I am so upfront with her, should I straight up tell her she is no longer in my wedding and taking a step back in my life? TL;DR:

best friend is a wreck, I am tired of being her sounding board, should I cut her from my life? <|endoftext|>

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My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years and are now at a point where I don't want to be a part of her life. Should I cut her out completely?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've spoken about my best friend on here before, she comes from parents with narcissistic tendencies, finds herself in abusive relationships, and makes poor life choices. She and I had a lot of fun when we were 18, partying but now I have settled down, found myself and am engaged. She on the other hand continues to party (dangerously). Normally I wouldn't be irritated by this, but her life choices are causing her grief, drug use is giving her depression, she dates terrible men and has average friendships. I am incredibly honest with her, so when she comes to me with her problems, I tell her straight out. She doesn't ever listen, and I am at a point where I am exhausted as a friend. She only comes to me with problems, we don't see each other in a sober manner, and if I try to speak about anything in my life (good or bad) she ignores it. I have tried about 8 times explaining how I am hurt and exhausted. She apologises but continues to do so. Most recently she sent me a cryptic message which made me question her safety, she didn't speak to me for two days and I found out she was on a bender. I had asked her to be my bridesmaid, but am worried now that she is going to be more drama than fun. What I am asking is, is it worth it trying to keep her around for old times sake? Or cut my losses and let her know that I am backing away from our friendship. We did have good times and I am all that she has. As I am so upfront with her, should I straight up tell her she is no longer in my wedding and taking a step back in my life? TL;DR: best friend is a wreck, I am tired of being her sounding board, should I cut her from my life? <|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've spoken about my best friend on here before, she comes from parents with narcissistic tendencies, finds herself in abusive relationships, and makes poor life choices. She and I had a lot of fun when we were 18, partying but now I have settled down, found myself and am engaged. She on the other hand continues to party (dangerously). Normally I wouldn't be irritated by this, but her life choices are causing her grief, drug use is giving her depression, she dates terrible men and has average friendships. I am incredibly honest with her, so when she comes to me with her problems, I tell her straight out. She doesn't ever listen, and I am at a point where I am exhausted as a friend. She only comes to me with problems, we don't see each other in a sober manner, and if I try to speak about anything in my life (good or bad) she ignores it. I have tried about 8 times explaining how I am hurt and exhausted. She apologises but continues to do so. Most recently she sent me a cryptic message which made me question her safety, she didn't speak to me for two days and I found out she was on a bender. I had asked her to be my bridesmaid, but am worried now that she is going to be more drama than fun. What I am asking is, is it worth it trying to keep her around for old times sake? Or cut my losses and let her know that I am backing away from our friendship. We did have good times and I am all that she has. As I am so upfront with her, should I straight up tell her she is no longer in my wedding and taking a step back in my life? TL;DR: My best friend and I have been friends for 5 years and are now at a point where I don't want to be a part of her life. Should I cut her out completely?<|endoftext|>

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Hi Reddit, I've only had 3 or so marijuana experiences, all peer-pressured, and it feels like these have been detrimental to my mental health. The first time was when I was 16 and my 'best friend' (who started hanging out with a bunch of lowlifes) pressured me into eating a weed brownie. I tripped so extremely hard and did not like it at all. I immediately ended that friendship, but for months it left me with anxiety... I had never been high before and that feeling of looping-memory and being totally unable to control my consciousness left me self-diagnosing myself (horrible thing to do) and continually questioning my mental health by trying to discern what my mind was like before I tried marijuana, and what it is like after. Well, that went away for a few years, and I'm now 23. A little over a month ago I was at a party and my friends girlfriend shoved a weed cookie into my mouth when we were drunk, I ate it, and again I had another bad trip. Since then, the same questions have preoccupied my mind and it's getting frustratingly annoying and causing me to become depressed. I find myself constantly questioning how I felt before I tried weed, and it causes me to overthink existence, consciousness, life, etc. I end up scaring myself by questioning whether I triggered some sort of mental illness, and this has been nothing but bad on my daily life. For instance, even when I'm having a good time with friends, it will dawn on me to question why nobody else I'm with are experiencing these negative thoughts! I have no motivation to do the things I love doing and I constantly just want to sleep. Overall it's a hard feeling to explain... to me it feels like the anxiety you feel when you realize what death is and how it is inevitable. I just want to shake all the bad thoughts and just live my life and I realize that this is all being fabricated in my head. Any advice on how to shake it? Seriously replies appreciated :)

hated my marijuana experiences, and overthinking about how it affects my consciousness has made me depressed.

I have bad trips and questions, what can I do to get rid of them?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, I've only had 3 or so marijuana experiences, all peer-pressured, and it feels like these have been detrimental to my mental health. The first time was when I was 16 and my 'best friend' (who started hanging out with a bunch of lowlifes) pressured me into eating a weed brownie. I tripped so extremely hard and did not like it at all. I immediately ended that friendship, but for months it left me with anxiety... I had never been high before and that feeling of looping-memory and being totally unable to control my consciousness left me self-diagnosing myself (horrible thing to do) and continually questioning my mental health by trying to discern what my mind was like before I tried marijuana, and what it is like after. Well, that went away for a few years, and I'm now 23. A little over a month ago I was at a party and my friends girlfriend shoved a weed cookie into my mouth when we were drunk, I ate it, and again I had another bad trip. Since then, the same questions have preoccupied my mind and it's getting frustratingly annoying and causing me to become depressed. I find myself constantly questioning how I felt before I tried weed, and it causes me to overthink existence, consciousness, life, etc. I end up scaring myself by questioning whether I triggered some sort of mental illness, and this has been nothing but bad on my daily life. For instance, even when I'm having a good time with friends, it will dawn on me to question why nobody else I'm with are experiencing these negative thoughts! I have no motivation to do the things I love doing and I constantly just want to sleep. Overall it's a hard feeling to explain... to me it feels like the anxiety you feel when you realize what death is and how it is inevitable. I just want to shake all the bad thoughts and just live my life and I realize that this is all being fabricated in my head. Any advice on how to shake it? Seriously replies appreciated :) TL;DR:

hated my marijuana experiences, and overthinking about how it affects my consciousness has made me depressed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, I've only had 3 or so marijuana experiences, all peer-pressured, and it feels like these have been detrimental to my mental health. The first time was when I was 16 and my 'best friend' (who started hanging out with a bunch of lowlifes) pressured me into eating a weed brownie. I tripped so extremely hard and did not like it at all. I immediately ended that friendship, but for months it left me with anxiety... I had never been high before and that feeling of looping-memory and being totally unable to control my consciousness left me self-diagnosing myself (horrible thing to do) and continually questioning my mental health by trying to discern what my mind was like before I tried marijuana, and what it is like after. Well, that went away for a few years, and I'm now 23. A little over a month ago I was at a party and my friends girlfriend shoved a weed cookie into my mouth when we were drunk, I ate it, and again I had another bad trip. Since then, the same questions have preoccupied my mind and it's getting frustratingly annoying and causing me to become depressed. I find myself constantly questioning how I felt before I tried weed, and it causes me to overthink existence, consciousness, life, etc. I end up scaring myself by questioning whether I triggered some sort of mental illness, and this has been nothing but bad on my daily life. For instance, even when I'm having a good time with friends, it will dawn on me to question why nobody else I'm with are experiencing these negative thoughts! I have no motivation to do the things I love doing and I constantly just want to sleep. Overall it's a hard feeling to explain... to me it feels like the anxiety you feel when you realize what death is and how it is inevitable. I just want to shake all the bad thoughts and just live my life and I realize that this is all being fabricated in my head. Any advice on how to shake it? Seriously replies appreciated :) TL;DR: hated my marijuana experiences, and overthinking about how it affects my consciousness has made me depressed.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, I've only had 3 or so marijuana experiences, all peer-pressured, and it feels like these have been detrimental to my mental health. The first time was when I was 16 and my 'best friend' (who started hanging out with a bunch of lowlifes) pressured me into eating a weed brownie. I tripped so extremely hard and did not like it at all. I immediately ended that friendship, but for months it left me with anxiety... I had never been high before and that feeling of looping-memory and being totally unable to control my consciousness left me self-diagnosing myself (horrible thing to do) and continually questioning my mental health by trying to discern what my mind was like before I tried marijuana, and what it is like after. Well, that went away for a few years, and I'm now 23. A little over a month ago I was at a party and my friends girlfriend shoved a weed cookie into my mouth when we were drunk, I ate it, and again I had another bad trip. Since then, the same questions have preoccupied my mind and it's getting frustratingly annoying and causing me to become depressed. I find myself constantly questioning how I felt before I tried weed, and it causes me to overthink existence, consciousness, life, etc. I end up scaring myself by questioning whether I triggered some sort of mental illness, and this has been nothing but bad on my daily life. For instance, even when I'm having a good time with friends, it will dawn on me to question why nobody else I'm with are experiencing these negative thoughts! I have no motivation to do the things I love doing and I constantly just want to sleep. Overall it's a hard feeling to explain... to me it feels like the anxiety you feel when you realize what death is and how it is inevitable. I just want to shake all the bad thoughts and just live my life and I realize that this is all being fabricated in my head. Any advice on how to shake it? Seriously replies appreciated :) TL;DR: I have bad trips and questions, what can I do to get rid of them?<|endoftext|>

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And my question is basically do I have a right to be angry about this and is the relationship worth continuing? Details: I've been dating this person for a month and a half now. Apparently boyfriend has had bedbugs for awhile now. I'm unclear as far as how serious he thought the problem is. Also not sure if he was aware of how easily transmittable they are. I feel like he had an idea though, because hold told me he didn't want to tell me about them because I might "freak out." I'm not really sure what that means. I have never "freaked out," that I'm aware of, although I kinda feel like freaking out right now. He has with held info from me before, (on a different subject) saying he didn't want me to "freak out," but now this is the second time this has happened and this is what I mean by is the relationship worth continuing. Because now I have bedbugs, and for those who don't know about these, this is pretty much a nightmare. Also, I don't have the money to pay an exterminator right now. It would take me at least a month, if not more, to save up. Boyfriend is going to borrow money for his extermination. Is it ok if I ask him to pay for mine too? Or at least contribute? Obviously we are going to talk about this more, but so far he just seems to have this attitude like "wow, this is terrible. Good luck with that." Bedbug extermination costs hundreds of dollars. I really like this person, but the mentality of with holding info because he is afraid I'm going to freak out just makes no sense, and I think is pretty unhealthy. I have never reacted towards him with anger. Can anyone lend some insight or perspective towards this way of thinking? Sorry if this post is a little disorganized. Thanks in advance for any replies.

Boyfriend gave me bedbugs, hasn't told me, and I'm wondering if I have a right to be angry and should I end things with him.

Boyfriend gave me bedbugs. He says he doesn't want to tell me due to my "freaking out." Is this an acceptable way to treat someone?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: And my question is basically do I have a right to be angry about this and is the relationship worth continuing? Details: I've been dating this person for a month and a half now. Apparently boyfriend has had bedbugs for awhile now. I'm unclear as far as how serious he thought the problem is. Also not sure if he was aware of how easily transmittable they are. I feel like he had an idea though, because hold told me he didn't want to tell me about them because I might "freak out." I'm not really sure what that means. I have never "freaked out," that I'm aware of, although I kinda feel like freaking out right now. He has with held info from me before, (on a different subject) saying he didn't want me to "freak out," but now this is the second time this has happened and this is what I mean by is the relationship worth continuing. Because now I have bedbugs, and for those who don't know about these, this is pretty much a nightmare. Also, I don't have the money to pay an exterminator right now. It would take me at least a month, if not more, to save up. Boyfriend is going to borrow money for his extermination. Is it ok if I ask him to pay for mine too? Or at least contribute? Obviously we are going to talk about this more, but so far he just seems to have this attitude like "wow, this is terrible. Good luck with that." Bedbug extermination costs hundreds of dollars. I really like this person, but the mentality of with holding info because he is afraid I'm going to freak out just makes no sense, and I think is pretty unhealthy. I have never reacted towards him with anger. Can anyone lend some insight or perspective towards this way of thinking? Sorry if this post is a little disorganized. Thanks in advance for any replies. TL;DR:

Boyfriend gave me bedbugs, hasn't told me, and I'm wondering if I have a right to be angry and should I end things with him.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: And my question is basically do I have a right to be angry about this and is the relationship worth continuing? Details: I've been dating this person for a month and a half now. Apparently boyfriend has had bedbugs for awhile now. I'm unclear as far as how serious he thought the problem is. Also not sure if he was aware of how easily transmittable they are. I feel like he had an idea though, because hold told me he didn't want to tell me about them because I might "freak out." I'm not really sure what that means. I have never "freaked out," that I'm aware of, although I kinda feel like freaking out right now. He has with held info from me before, (on a different subject) saying he didn't want me to "freak out," but now this is the second time this has happened and this is what I mean by is the relationship worth continuing. Because now I have bedbugs, and for those who don't know about these, this is pretty much a nightmare. Also, I don't have the money to pay an exterminator right now. It would take me at least a month, if not more, to save up. Boyfriend is going to borrow money for his extermination. Is it ok if I ask him to pay for mine too? Or at least contribute? Obviously we are going to talk about this more, but so far he just seems to have this attitude like "wow, this is terrible. Good luck with that." Bedbug extermination costs hundreds of dollars. I really like this person, but the mentality of with holding info because he is afraid I'm going to freak out just makes no sense, and I think is pretty unhealthy. I have never reacted towards him with anger. Can anyone lend some insight or perspective towards this way of thinking? Sorry if this post is a little disorganized. Thanks in advance for any replies. TL;DR: Boyfriend gave me bedbugs, hasn't told me, and I'm wondering if I have a right to be angry and should I end things with him.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: And my question is basically do I have a right to be angry about this and is the relationship worth continuing? Details: I've been dating this person for a month and a half now. Apparently boyfriend has had bedbugs for awhile now. I'm unclear as far as how serious he thought the problem is. Also not sure if he was aware of how easily transmittable they are. I feel like he had an idea though, because hold told me he didn't want to tell me about them because I might "freak out." I'm not really sure what that means. I have never "freaked out," that I'm aware of, although I kinda feel like freaking out right now. He has with held info from me before, (on a different subject) saying he didn't want me to "freak out," but now this is the second time this has happened and this is what I mean by is the relationship worth continuing. Because now I have bedbugs, and for those who don't know about these, this is pretty much a nightmare. Also, I don't have the money to pay an exterminator right now. It would take me at least a month, if not more, to save up. Boyfriend is going to borrow money for his extermination. Is it ok if I ask him to pay for mine too? Or at least contribute? Obviously we are going to talk about this more, but so far he just seems to have this attitude like "wow, this is terrible. Good luck with that." Bedbug extermination costs hundreds of dollars. I really like this person, but the mentality of with holding info because he is afraid I'm going to freak out just makes no sense, and I think is pretty unhealthy. I have never reacted towards him with anger. Can anyone lend some insight or perspective towards this way of thinking? Sorry if this post is a little disorganized. Thanks in advance for any replies. TL;DR: Boyfriend gave me bedbugs. He says he doesn't want to tell me due to my "freaking out." Is this an acceptable way to treat someone?<|endoftext|>

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Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited.

Aspergers. Not being asked to hang out, feel like I'm doing something wrong.

I don't get invited to do things with my friends unless I ask them to hang out. I feel like I'm always inviting myself

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited. TL;DR:

Aspergers. Not being asked to hang out, feel like I'm doing something wrong.<|endoftext|>

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I don't get invited to do things with my friends unless I ask them to hang out. I feel like I'm always inviting myself<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited. TL;DR: Aspergers. Not being asked to hang out, feel like I'm doing something wrong.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello all. A little bit of background. I'm a 21 y.o. female with aspergers. They tell me that I'm on the mild side of the spectrum. I'm in my 4th year of college. I was diagnosed when I was 14. It took a couple years of struggling before I felt like I was in a good place. I've never really had a best friend, or really any friends at all. I was rarely asked to hang out and was made fun of at school. In college I met some people and thought I had become pretty good friends with them. They asked me to hang out and I felt I was treated pretty 'normally.' Now, I'm noticing things. Besides my boyfriend and my family, I rarely get texts. I never get asked to hang out directly and when I do, it's my bfs friends asking him to hang out and then he just brings me. My roommates (three of them) all tend to hang out constantly and never invite me to do things unless I ask to go with them. I feel like I'm always inviting myself and I no idea what I'm doing 'wrong' to not get invited. TL;DR: I don't get invited to do things with my friends unless I ask them to hang out. I feel like I'm always inviting myself<|endoftext|>

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I'm confused. Several months ago, a girl (age 21) I met showed a lot of interest in me (age 25). (We are both at a university. I'm a grad student and she is an undergrad.) But not too long after, I said some stupid things, i.e casually asking her about her singleness that she had been mentioning on and off, and phrasing things as if I only saw her as a friend. Yes, I did this even though I was romantically interested. I'm dumb, I know. After that, I get the cold shoulder from her. I figure that if she's gonna reject me, then I want to be rejected in full... so I ask her out and she says she just wants to be friends. Even after that, I get the cold shoulder for the next 5 months. In the past few weeks, things have been turning back around between me and her. During our first eye-to-eye conversation in a long time, I made her smile. Then as we moved away from each other, she abruptly declared that she missed me and gave me a big hug. After that, more eye contact than ever. And all within the next week or so, she will have grabbed my shoulders from behind me in an affectionate massage motion; asked me to go to the grocery store with her during which she was being very cute around me and sliding her arm across my chest as we move past each other; jokingly mocked my beer pong shot at a party, only to then smile and say that she loved me. ...plus a lot of other small things. I still am interested in her and she seems pretty interested in me right now. Plus, V-day is not too far away. But shouldn't I still respect her initial desire to be just friends? It would be pretty pathetic to be rejected twice, but I can't help but think optimistically, too. Advice?

Girl I meet seems interested. I say something dumb. I ask her out and she wants to be just friends even though she continues to ignore me for 5 months. Then after a while, girl says she misses me and begins to act interested again. Respect her initial rejection, or risk another one?

Girl shows interest, I say stupid things, she says stupid things to me, now I am interested in her but she is indifferent.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm confused. Several months ago, a girl (age 21) I met showed a lot of interest in me (age 25). (We are both at a university. I'm a grad student and she is an undergrad.) But not too long after, I said some stupid things, i.e casually asking her about her singleness that she had been mentioning on and off, and phrasing things as if I only saw her as a friend. Yes, I did this even though I was romantically interested. I'm dumb, I know. After that, I get the cold shoulder from her. I figure that if she's gonna reject me, then I want to be rejected in full... so I ask her out and she says she just wants to be friends. Even after that, I get the cold shoulder for the next 5 months. In the past few weeks, things have been turning back around between me and her. During our first eye-to-eye conversation in a long time, I made her smile. Then as we moved away from each other, she abruptly declared that she missed me and gave me a big hug. After that, more eye contact than ever. And all within the next week or so, she will have grabbed my shoulders from behind me in an affectionate massage motion; asked me to go to the grocery store with her during which she was being very cute around me and sliding her arm across my chest as we move past each other; jokingly mocked my beer pong shot at a party, only to then smile and say that she loved me. ...plus a lot of other small things. I still am interested in her and she seems pretty interested in me right now. Plus, V-day is not too far away. But shouldn't I still respect her initial desire to be just friends? It would be pretty pathetic to be rejected twice, but I can't help but think optimistically, too. Advice? TL;DR:

Girl I meet seems interested. I say something dumb. I ask her out and she wants to be just friends even though she continues to ignore me for 5 months. Then after a while, girl says she misses me and begins to act interested again. Respect her initial rejection, or risk another one?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm confused. Several months ago, a girl (age 21) I met showed a lot of interest in me (age 25). (We are both at a university. I'm a grad student and she is an undergrad.) But not too long after, I said some stupid things, i.e casually asking her about her singleness that she had been mentioning on and off, and phrasing things as if I only saw her as a friend. Yes, I did this even though I was romantically interested. I'm dumb, I know. After that, I get the cold shoulder from her. I figure that if she's gonna reject me, then I want to be rejected in full... so I ask her out and she says she just wants to be friends. Even after that, I get the cold shoulder for the next 5 months. In the past few weeks, things have been turning back around between me and her. During our first eye-to-eye conversation in a long time, I made her smile. Then as we moved away from each other, she abruptly declared that she missed me and gave me a big hug. After that, more eye contact than ever. And all within the next week or so, she will have grabbed my shoulders from behind me in an affectionate massage motion; asked me to go to the grocery store with her during which she was being very cute around me and sliding her arm across my chest as we move past each other; jokingly mocked my beer pong shot at a party, only to then smile and say that she loved me. ...plus a lot of other small things. I still am interested in her and she seems pretty interested in me right now. Plus, V-day is not too far away. But shouldn't I still respect her initial desire to be just friends? It would be pretty pathetic to be rejected twice, but I can't help but think optimistically, too. Advice? TL;DR: Girl I meet seems interested. I say something dumb. I ask her out and she wants to be just friends even though she continues to ignore me for 5 months. Then after a while, girl says she misses me and begins to act interested again. Respect her initial rejection, or risk another one?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm confused. Several months ago, a girl (age 21) I met showed a lot of interest in me (age 25). (We are both at a university. I'm a grad student and she is an undergrad.) But not too long after, I said some stupid things, i.e casually asking her about her singleness that she had been mentioning on and off, and phrasing things as if I only saw her as a friend. Yes, I did this even though I was romantically interested. I'm dumb, I know. After that, I get the cold shoulder from her. I figure that if she's gonna reject me, then I want to be rejected in full... so I ask her out and she says she just wants to be friends. Even after that, I get the cold shoulder for the next 5 months. In the past few weeks, things have been turning back around between me and her. During our first eye-to-eye conversation in a long time, I made her smile. Then as we moved away from each other, she abruptly declared that she missed me and gave me a big hug. After that, more eye contact than ever. And all within the next week or so, she will have grabbed my shoulders from behind me in an affectionate massage motion; asked me to go to the grocery store with her during which she was being very cute around me and sliding her arm across my chest as we move past each other; jokingly mocked my beer pong shot at a party, only to then smile and say that she loved me. ...plus a lot of other small things. I still am interested in her and she seems pretty interested in me right now. Plus, V-day is not too far away. But shouldn't I still respect her initial desire to be just friends? It would be pretty pathetic to be rejected twice, but I can't help but think optimistically, too. Advice? TL;DR: Girl shows interest, I say stupid things, she says stupid things to me, now I am interested in her but she is indifferent.<|endoftext|>

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So I recently started college, and I am part of the ROTC scholarship program. I decided to join it because the appeal factor was huge, and I thought it would be awesome and totally worth it. But once I got here, I realized I HATE it. I absolutely dread waking up in the morning when I have anything related to ROTC. It is taking over my life, and due to the practices and physical training sessions, it is withholding me from doing something I actually enjoy- the rowing team. When I called my parents and told them I want to drop, the were extrememly displeased, saying they were relying on the money and think that I haven't given it enough time, and even went as far as threatening to pull me out of college. I don't actually think they will do that though. I realize that it hasn't been a very long amount of time, but the deadline to drop classes is coming up soon and I need to make a decision by then. Am I old enough now to choose what I do in life? Am I right to drop something that I hate, instead of force myself through it? I really need some help, considering I'm a freshman and really have no one to talk to about this.

I hate ROTC, but I need to make a decision on what to do with my life.

I am a freshman in college, and I don't understand how in control of my life I am. Is it possible to drop rowing? EDIT: I am still in college, and don't plan on dropping it

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I recently started college, and I am part of the ROTC scholarship program. I decided to join it because the appeal factor was huge, and I thought it would be awesome and totally worth it. But once I got here, I realized I HATE it. I absolutely dread waking up in the morning when I have anything related to ROTC. It is taking over my life, and due to the practices and physical training sessions, it is withholding me from doing something I actually enjoy- the rowing team. When I called my parents and told them I want to drop, the were extrememly displeased, saying they were relying on the money and think that I haven't given it enough time, and even went as far as threatening to pull me out of college. I don't actually think they will do that though. I realize that it hasn't been a very long amount of time, but the deadline to drop classes is coming up soon and I need to make a decision by then. Am I old enough now to choose what I do in life? Am I right to drop something that I hate, instead of force myself through it? I really need some help, considering I'm a freshman and really have no one to talk to about this. TL;DR:

I hate ROTC, but I need to make a decision on what to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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I am a freshman in college, and I don't understand how in control of my life I am. Is it possible to drop rowing? EDIT: I am still in college, and don't plan on dropping it<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I recently started college, and I am part of the ROTC scholarship program. I decided to join it because the appeal factor was huge, and I thought it would be awesome and totally worth it. But once I got here, I realized I HATE it. I absolutely dread waking up in the morning when I have anything related to ROTC. It is taking over my life, and due to the practices and physical training sessions, it is withholding me from doing something I actually enjoy- the rowing team. When I called my parents and told them I want to drop, the were extrememly displeased, saying they were relying on the money and think that I haven't given it enough time, and even went as far as threatening to pull me out of college. I don't actually think they will do that though. I realize that it hasn't been a very long amount of time, but the deadline to drop classes is coming up soon and I need to make a decision by then. Am I old enough now to choose what I do in life? Am I right to drop something that I hate, instead of force myself through it? I really need some help, considering I'm a freshman and really have no one to talk to about this. TL;DR: I hate ROTC, but I need to make a decision on what to do with my life.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I recently started college, and I am part of the ROTC scholarship program. I decided to join it because the appeal factor was huge, and I thought it would be awesome and totally worth it. But once I got here, I realized I HATE it. I absolutely dread waking up in the morning when I have anything related to ROTC. It is taking over my life, and due to the practices and physical training sessions, it is withholding me from doing something I actually enjoy- the rowing team. When I called my parents and told them I want to drop, the were extrememly displeased, saying they were relying on the money and think that I haven't given it enough time, and even went as far as threatening to pull me out of college. I don't actually think they will do that though. I realize that it hasn't been a very long amount of time, but the deadline to drop classes is coming up soon and I need to make a decision by then. Am I old enough now to choose what I do in life? Am I right to drop something that I hate, instead of force myself through it? I really need some help, considering I'm a freshman and really have no one to talk to about this. TL;DR: I am a freshman in college, and I don't understand how in control of my life I am. Is it possible to drop rowing? EDIT: I am still in college, and don't plan on dropping it<|endoftext|>

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Hello Reddits. First of all I would like to say that I am not asking for a hand out, just some solid advice or a direction. My SO recently got accepted into a masters program in Scotland. However, upon confirmation of tuition costs and housing she is unsure if she is going to be able to pursue her dream, she has been trying for a very long time to get accepted into a school for her masters. I am currently doing my undergrad degree and I just scrape by with my money so I am unable to help her as much as I want. She is of course looking into different types of funding for Canadian students studying in Scotland, but we are very fearful that we simply will not have enough money for her to go. The cost we estimated was apx 30k Canadian per year for her program, which is two years long. So I ask, has anyone been in this situation? How did you get through it? Is there any type of special funding or way to get money that I may not know about?

SO is studying in Scotland for masters program, unsure if she will have enough money to pursue her dream.

Canadian student studying for masters in Scotland has no money for program.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddits. First of all I would like to say that I am not asking for a hand out, just some solid advice or a direction. My SO recently got accepted into a masters program in Scotland. However, upon confirmation of tuition costs and housing she is unsure if she is going to be able to pursue her dream, she has been trying for a very long time to get accepted into a school for her masters. I am currently doing my undergrad degree and I just scrape by with my money so I am unable to help her as much as I want. She is of course looking into different types of funding for Canadian students studying in Scotland, but we are very fearful that we simply will not have enough money for her to go. The cost we estimated was apx 30k Canadian per year for her program, which is two years long. So I ask, has anyone been in this situation? How did you get through it? Is there any type of special funding or way to get money that I may not know about? TL;DR:

SO is studying in Scotland for masters program, unsure if she will have enough money to pursue her dream.<|endoftext|>

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Canadian student studying for masters in Scotland has no money for program.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddits. First of all I would like to say that I am not asking for a hand out, just some solid advice or a direction. My SO recently got accepted into a masters program in Scotland. However, upon confirmation of tuition costs and housing she is unsure if she is going to be able to pursue her dream, she has been trying for a very long time to get accepted into a school for her masters. I am currently doing my undergrad degree and I just scrape by with my money so I am unable to help her as much as I want. She is of course looking into different types of funding for Canadian students studying in Scotland, but we are very fearful that we simply will not have enough money for her to go. The cost we estimated was apx 30k Canadian per year for her program, which is two years long. So I ask, has anyone been in this situation? How did you get through it? Is there any type of special funding or way to get money that I may not know about? TL;DR: SO is studying in Scotland for masters program, unsure if she will have enough money to pursue her dream.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello Reddits. First of all I would like to say that I am not asking for a hand out, just some solid advice or a direction. My SO recently got accepted into a masters program in Scotland. However, upon confirmation of tuition costs and housing she is unsure if she is going to be able to pursue her dream, she has been trying for a very long time to get accepted into a school for her masters. I am currently doing my undergrad degree and I just scrape by with my money so I am unable to help her as much as I want. She is of course looking into different types of funding for Canadian students studying in Scotland, but we are very fearful that we simply will not have enough money for her to go. The cost we estimated was apx 30k Canadian per year for her program, which is two years long. So I ask, has anyone been in this situation? How did you get through it? Is there any type of special funding or way to get money that I may not know about? TL;DR: Canadian student studying for masters in Scotland has no money for program.<|endoftext|>

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Here's a brief relationship story... I fucked up big time. I dumped my girlfriend over a 3 months ago because I felt like I was unhappy with her. Turns out, I was just unhappy with myself and she was the best part of my life. We've been together for 6 years, and next June would have been our 7 year anniversary. I had feelings for someone else within the last year, and I fucked up by constantly seeing that person even though my girlfriend was very understanding of it. She just wanted to get to know her, and would constantly tell me "a crush is a crush" and "a crush is normal as long as you don't do anything inappropriate". She was the most understanding person, and honest to god the nicest girl anyone has ever met. My family loved her and I loved her family. Our parents got along, and we even had the same circle of friends. For the longest time I treated her like shit, and I am so ashamed to admit to it. I would be very mean to her verbally, and I would bring her down constantly because I felt so much better after it. It's a shit thing to do, but I hated myself and I was jealous of her drive. She's not only a beautiful person on the outside, but she was so sweet and caring to me. She would make sure everything was okay with me before she checked in with her self. And I constantly took that for granted. She put up with me even after I cheated on her, and I would constantly lie to her. Sad thing about all of this was she knew I did it and would confront me all the time. While we were together I kept telling myself she was a nag, and she would smother me too much. That I just needed something different in my life... I tried dating that girl I liked after my girlfriend and I broke up and things fell through. I would constantly compare her to my girlfriend. We're friends now, and we still talk often. I know I love her now, and I know how much of her I took advantage of. I made some changes in my life and I won't be that same person.

I stupidly cheated on my girlfriend over a 3 months ago, and then fucked up a relationship infront of family and friends. want my girlfriend back. need advice pls. feel terrible.

cheated on my girlfriend. We're back together now, and I want my old self back. Wondering if anyone has any advice or experience with this situation.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's a brief relationship story... I fucked up big time. I dumped my girlfriend over a 3 months ago because I felt like I was unhappy with her. Turns out, I was just unhappy with myself and she was the best part of my life. We've been together for 6 years, and next June would have been our 7 year anniversary. I had feelings for someone else within the last year, and I fucked up by constantly seeing that person even though my girlfriend was very understanding of it. She just wanted to get to know her, and would constantly tell me "a crush is a crush" and "a crush is normal as long as you don't do anything inappropriate". She was the most understanding person, and honest to god the nicest girl anyone has ever met. My family loved her and I loved her family. Our parents got along, and we even had the same circle of friends. For the longest time I treated her like shit, and I am so ashamed to admit to it. I would be very mean to her verbally, and I would bring her down constantly because I felt so much better after it. It's a shit thing to do, but I hated myself and I was jealous of her drive. She's not only a beautiful person on the outside, but she was so sweet and caring to me. She would make sure everything was okay with me before she checked in with her self. And I constantly took that for granted. She put up with me even after I cheated on her, and I would constantly lie to her. Sad thing about all of this was she knew I did it and would confront me all the time. While we were together I kept telling myself she was a nag, and she would smother me too much. That I just needed something different in my life... I tried dating that girl I liked after my girlfriend and I broke up and things fell through. I would constantly compare her to my girlfriend. We're friends now, and we still talk often. I know I love her now, and I know how much of her I took advantage of. I made some changes in my life and I won't be that same person. TL;DR:

I stupidly cheated on my girlfriend over a 3 months ago, and then fucked up a relationship infront of family and friends. want my girlfriend back. need advice pls. feel terrible.<|endoftext|>

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cheated on my girlfriend. We're back together now, and I want my old self back. Wondering if anyone has any advice or experience with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's a brief relationship story... I fucked up big time. I dumped my girlfriend over a 3 months ago because I felt like I was unhappy with her. Turns out, I was just unhappy with myself and she was the best part of my life. We've been together for 6 years, and next June would have been our 7 year anniversary. I had feelings for someone else within the last year, and I fucked up by constantly seeing that person even though my girlfriend was very understanding of it. She just wanted to get to know her, and would constantly tell me "a crush is a crush" and "a crush is normal as long as you don't do anything inappropriate". She was the most understanding person, and honest to god the nicest girl anyone has ever met. My family loved her and I loved her family. Our parents got along, and we even had the same circle of friends. For the longest time I treated her like shit, and I am so ashamed to admit to it. I would be very mean to her verbally, and I would bring her down constantly because I felt so much better after it. It's a shit thing to do, but I hated myself and I was jealous of her drive. She's not only a beautiful person on the outside, but she was so sweet and caring to me. She would make sure everything was okay with me before she checked in with her self. And I constantly took that for granted. She put up with me even after I cheated on her, and I would constantly lie to her. Sad thing about all of this was she knew I did it and would confront me all the time. While we were together I kept telling myself she was a nag, and she would smother me too much. That I just needed something different in my life... I tried dating that girl I liked after my girlfriend and I broke up and things fell through. I would constantly compare her to my girlfriend. We're friends now, and we still talk often. I know I love her now, and I know how much of her I took advantage of. I made some changes in my life and I won't be that same person. TL;DR: I stupidly cheated on my girlfriend over a 3 months ago, and then fucked up a relationship infront of family and friends. want my girlfriend back. need advice pls. feel terrible.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here's a brief relationship story... I fucked up big time. I dumped my girlfriend over a 3 months ago because I felt like I was unhappy with her. Turns out, I was just unhappy with myself and she was the best part of my life. We've been together for 6 years, and next June would have been our 7 year anniversary. I had feelings for someone else within the last year, and I fucked up by constantly seeing that person even though my girlfriend was very understanding of it. She just wanted to get to know her, and would constantly tell me "a crush is a crush" and "a crush is normal as long as you don't do anything inappropriate". She was the most understanding person, and honest to god the nicest girl anyone has ever met. My family loved her and I loved her family. Our parents got along, and we even had the same circle of friends. For the longest time I treated her like shit, and I am so ashamed to admit to it. I would be very mean to her verbally, and I would bring her down constantly because I felt so much better after it. It's a shit thing to do, but I hated myself and I was jealous of her drive. She's not only a beautiful person on the outside, but she was so sweet and caring to me. She would make sure everything was okay with me before she checked in with her self. And I constantly took that for granted. She put up with me even after I cheated on her, and I would constantly lie to her. Sad thing about all of this was she knew I did it and would confront me all the time. While we were together I kept telling myself she was a nag, and she would smother me too much. That I just needed something different in my life... I tried dating that girl I liked after my girlfriend and I broke up and things fell through. I would constantly compare her to my girlfriend. We're friends now, and we still talk often. I know I love her now, and I know how much of her I took advantage of. I made some changes in my life and I won't be that same person. TL;DR: cheated on my girlfriend. We're back together now, and I want my old self back. Wondering if anyone has any advice or experience with this situation.<|endoftext|>

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So yeah, I knew this girl as an acquaintance for 1.5 years, but never made a move. I hung out with her more and more towards the ends of the previous spring semester, and eventually expressed my feelings to her. She didn't wanna do long distance, but at the same time seemed to like me a lot anyways. Throughout the summer we texted alot and stayed well in touch. Now that school is starting again, I saw her again finally. We hung out at her dorm, and I went for a kiss. It was a fairly smooth timing I think...but it was also my first kiss (for the record, I know she's had at least one boyfriend before me)...I didn't go too aggressively...I didn't use tongue or anything like that...but it seemed subpar to me. I think our lips were not coordinated or something. I briefly/quickly apologized in embarrassment saying I would get better. She said it was fine. I did get to kiss her again later, and it seemed slightly better. I figure with more experience I'll get better...just wondering if my shitty kiss would make a bad impression...like my lack of experience would make me look bad which would make me less attractive begetting less experience? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice.

Had first kiss with a girl I've known for a while. We're both in school now. Would having more experience make me look bad? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice.

I suck at kissing. Wondering how bad that hurt me and how to improve without necessarily having much practice.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So yeah, I knew this girl as an acquaintance for 1.5 years, but never made a move. I hung out with her more and more towards the ends of the previous spring semester, and eventually expressed my feelings to her. She didn't wanna do long distance, but at the same time seemed to like me a lot anyways. Throughout the summer we texted alot and stayed well in touch. Now that school is starting again, I saw her again finally. We hung out at her dorm, and I went for a kiss. It was a fairly smooth timing I think...but it was also my first kiss (for the record, I know she's had at least one boyfriend before me)...I didn't go too aggressively...I didn't use tongue or anything like that...but it seemed subpar to me. I think our lips were not coordinated or something. I briefly/quickly apologized in embarrassment saying I would get better. She said it was fine. I did get to kiss her again later, and it seemed slightly better. I figure with more experience I'll get better...just wondering if my shitty kiss would make a bad impression...like my lack of experience would make me look bad which would make me less attractive begetting less experience? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice. TL;DR:

Had first kiss with a girl I've known for a while. We're both in school now. Would having more experience make me look bad? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice.<|endoftext|>

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I suck at kissing. Wondering how bad that hurt me and how to improve without necessarily having much practice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So yeah, I knew this girl as an acquaintance for 1.5 years, but never made a move. I hung out with her more and more towards the ends of the previous spring semester, and eventually expressed my feelings to her. She didn't wanna do long distance, but at the same time seemed to like me a lot anyways. Throughout the summer we texted alot and stayed well in touch. Now that school is starting again, I saw her again finally. We hung out at her dorm, and I went for a kiss. It was a fairly smooth timing I think...but it was also my first kiss (for the record, I know she's had at least one boyfriend before me)...I didn't go too aggressively...I didn't use tongue or anything like that...but it seemed subpar to me. I think our lips were not coordinated or something. I briefly/quickly apologized in embarrassment saying I would get better. She said it was fine. I did get to kiss her again later, and it seemed slightly better. I figure with more experience I'll get better...just wondering if my shitty kiss would make a bad impression...like my lack of experience would make me look bad which would make me less attractive begetting less experience? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice. TL;DR: Had first kiss with a girl I've known for a while. We're both in school now. Would having more experience make me look bad? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So yeah, I knew this girl as an acquaintance for 1.5 years, but never made a move. I hung out with her more and more towards the ends of the previous spring semester, and eventually expressed my feelings to her. She didn't wanna do long distance, but at the same time seemed to like me a lot anyways. Throughout the summer we texted alot and stayed well in touch. Now that school is starting again, I saw her again finally. We hung out at her dorm, and I went for a kiss. It was a fairly smooth timing I think...but it was also my first kiss (for the record, I know she's had at least one boyfriend before me)...I didn't go too aggressively...I didn't use tongue or anything like that...but it seemed subpar to me. I think our lips were not coordinated or something. I briefly/quickly apologized in embarrassment saying I would get better. She said it was fine. I did get to kiss her again later, and it seemed slightly better. I figure with more experience I'll get better...just wondering if my shitty kiss would make a bad impression...like my lack of experience would make me look bad which would make me less attractive begetting less experience? Also wondering how to kiss better without much practice. TL;DR: I suck at kissing. Wondering how bad that hurt me and how to improve without necessarily having much practice.<|endoftext|>

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Recently, boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. We both agreed that we want something small, wedding at the church, reception at home, close friends/family only, very low-budget, low key. We had both been discussing this excitedly, when he brings up the idea of a smaller budget ring. Now, I know what I want, cut clarity carat, I've priced it to about 3k. I wear very little jewelry, and if this is going to be the one thing I wear for the rest of my life, I want it to be something I love. I brought this up by suggesting we use some of the money we're saving from other things (eg, not renting a hall) to use on the ring. Boyfriend seemed uncomfortable, suggested that it would take him longer to save for a nicer ring, so we would need to wait longer to get married. The thing is, he doesn't *need* to save up for it. I make more than him, and am perfectly willing to pay for the ring. I'm worried that he feels that it should be his "gift" to me, and if he can't get me the ring I want, then he can't support me, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Soon it's not even going to be his money/my money, but our money. He doesn't even need to propose with it, he can propose with a fruit loop for all I care, I just want something a little flashier for the final product. Not even Hope Diamond flashy, but nicer than just a band. How can I bring this up without hurting him?

Boyfriend wants fancy ring, I want something flashier that's thrifty and affordable, but he doesn't need to propose. How do I bring this up?

Boyfriend wants a fancy ring, I want a less fancy ring, not sure how to tell him we need to save money for a ring.

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Recently, boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. We both agreed that we want something small, wedding at the church, reception at home, close friends/family only, very low-budget, low key. We had both been discussing this excitedly, when he brings up the idea of a smaller budget ring. Now, I know what I want, cut clarity carat, I've priced it to about 3k. I wear very little jewelry, and if this is going to be the one thing I wear for the rest of my life, I want it to be something I love. I brought this up by suggesting we use some of the money we're saving from other things (eg, not renting a hall) to use on the ring. Boyfriend seemed uncomfortable, suggested that it would take him longer to save for a nicer ring, so we would need to wait longer to get married. The thing is, he doesn't *need* to save up for it. I make more than him, and am perfectly willing to pay for the ring. I'm worried that he feels that it should be his "gift" to me, and if he can't get me the ring I want, then he can't support me, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Soon it's not even going to be his money/my money, but our money. He doesn't even need to propose with it, he can propose with a fruit loop for all I care, I just want something a little flashier for the final product. Not even Hope Diamond flashy, but nicer than just a band. How can I bring this up without hurting him? TL;DR:

Boyfriend wants fancy ring, I want something flashier that's thrifty and affordable, but he doesn't need to propose. How do I bring this up?<|endoftext|>

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Boyfriend wants a fancy ring, I want a less fancy ring, not sure how to tell him we need to save money for a ring.<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Recently, boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. We both agreed that we want something small, wedding at the church, reception at home, close friends/family only, very low-budget, low key. We had both been discussing this excitedly, when he brings up the idea of a smaller budget ring. Now, I know what I want, cut clarity carat, I've priced it to about 3k. I wear very little jewelry, and if this is going to be the one thing I wear for the rest of my life, I want it to be something I love. I brought this up by suggesting we use some of the money we're saving from other things (eg, not renting a hall) to use on the ring. Boyfriend seemed uncomfortable, suggested that it would take him longer to save for a nicer ring, so we would need to wait longer to get married. The thing is, he doesn't *need* to save up for it. I make more than him, and am perfectly willing to pay for the ring. I'm worried that he feels that it should be his "gift" to me, and if he can't get me the ring I want, then he can't support me, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Soon it's not even going to be his money/my money, but our money. He doesn't even need to propose with it, he can propose with a fruit loop for all I care, I just want something a little flashier for the final product. Not even Hope Diamond flashy, but nicer than just a band. How can I bring this up without hurting him? TL;DR: Boyfriend wants fancy ring, I want something flashier that's thrifty and affordable, but he doesn't need to propose. How do I bring this up?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Recently, boyfriend and I have been discussing marriage. We both agreed that we want something small, wedding at the church, reception at home, close friends/family only, very low-budget, low key. We had both been discussing this excitedly, when he brings up the idea of a smaller budget ring. Now, I know what I want, cut clarity carat, I've priced it to about 3k. I wear very little jewelry, and if this is going to be the one thing I wear for the rest of my life, I want it to be something I love. I brought this up by suggesting we use some of the money we're saving from other things (eg, not renting a hall) to use on the ring. Boyfriend seemed uncomfortable, suggested that it would take him longer to save for a nicer ring, so we would need to wait longer to get married. The thing is, he doesn't *need* to save up for it. I make more than him, and am perfectly willing to pay for the ring. I'm worried that he feels that it should be his "gift" to me, and if he can't get me the ring I want, then he can't support me, but this couldn't be further from the truth. Soon it's not even going to be his money/my money, but our money. He doesn't even need to propose with it, he can propose with a fruit loop for all I care, I just want something a little flashier for the final product. Not even Hope Diamond flashy, but nicer than just a band. How can I bring this up without hurting him? TL;DR: Boyfriend wants a fancy ring, I want a less fancy ring, not sure how to tell him we need to save money for a ring.<|endoftext|>

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So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to?

Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?

Accidentally told my best friend I loved her. Turns out she's not the one. What should I do to make it the same as it used to be?

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to? TL;DR:

Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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Accidentally told my best friend I loved her. Turns out she's not the one. What should I do to make it the same as it used to be?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to? TL;DR: Told my best friend I loved her, turns out she did too. Realized I didn't love her the next morning, kinda broke up. How do I get back to being friends with her?<|endoftext|>

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SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I was hanging out with my best friend, and we were talking about how much we miss each other and all that stuff. So it was 2 at night, and Christmas (so yeah, making stupid decisions is totally fine) In the heat of the moment, as I call it, I told her I loved her. And well turns out, she told me she loved me too. Apparently she had always liked me, but was just too scared to tell me. (She also called me stupid for not getting the hints, but lets not talk about that) The problem is, I don't like her. I realized what I had done the next morning, and I knew it was too late. For the first time ever, I wanted to be in the friend zone again. So the next day I visit her, and tell her that I never thought it through, and It was stupid of me to take such a rash decision. Well as you guessed, she didn't take that too well. First she tried to convince me not to break up... A few hours later she messaged me about how she was going to never express her feelings to anyone ever again, and at the end of the whole thing she started acting as if she's the one who wants to break up (Girls I tell you) The thing is, she's the closest person to me, I care about her so much. I never want to lose her. Frankly I'll never be able to forgive myself if things don't go back to normal. What am I supposed to do to make this the same as it used to? TL;DR: Accidentally told my best friend I loved her. Turns out she's not the one. What should I do to make it the same as it used to be?<|endoftext|>

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