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I think the two of them are very close lol | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzcjlTQzVqMDlQdHlQanVoc0ZXTjJKcXFWcmdYdHBBVE5TMmVVcEd2cDlTTHNMQWtPTUk3amY5Q3p5VnE3M1V6T0NCUWlyUmtWTlYtYTJpMUFZTHpfLXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cnVqczMtcE5YaGxITm45OE5EUFZPYkxsd3RvcTdoNnZQZFBRb0kyZjRoQVZsMGxGT0RJVFdoQ3FLTlFaWHR1bWw0VWNVYXpvVXpqNnpZS0gyQTlrWEM1TlFvU2ljamZCUG54S0lJcU03RmI2cGNkRVloZGVtNjRmZGoxSG1pLVJQemtlNzNzNDZqMGVsbU5SYTBRUWVnME8zOURRYTlxQl9vSjcxS09SN1Etd25nQzZQczZuN1NsRVNNNmlGYzBLN0VzdHFYR3RsaHhhZ1Z3RTlaaXhOZz09 |
Hi guys, brand new member here and brand new 1st time dad. My LO was born yesterday at 4:59PM. At time of birth I sobbed because duh. (No offense to anyone who didn't!)
My fiancé is 12 years older than me and the love of my life and this is her second child. First child is 11.
Me, myself, I've always been very independent, big dreamer, big goals, love my video games and my friends etc.
Very shortly after my LO's birth, I began to feel regret, stress, fear, and I sobbed at least 4 times to friends and family about my life being over, it's never gonna be the same, about losing my video games, my big career dreams and losing her, us losing our relationship. I see so many negative experiences of people never connecting with their spouse till the baby is 18 or how one man bluntly said: "If you love your freedom, don't have kids." When my Fiancé announced her pregnancy I was very excited and a little nervous of course.
In addition my fiancé has an 11 year old, came i to his life when he was 8, and he's amazing. Loves having a little brother, is excited and wants to be all over him.
As I stated earlier I feel all these negative emotions and guilt for having them too. I know postpartum for men isn't discussed a lot.
I spoke with a nurse who was SUPER sweet and invested in my story and gave great advice and we are leaving the hospital today which is great because I'm stir crazy now.
Basically I'm going up and down on a rollercoaster between feeling like: "My life is over, my relationship, friendships, dreams are over" and "I can do this, I can have it all, life will be joyous." My fiancé is also a ROCKSTAR who always reassures me we can have the life we want and we will be ok and she'd never let my dreams fade. And we can still have fun. I just still want to be me too.
I'd really love to hear any positive advice or guidance and honest journeys. Thank you very much guys ❤️ | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYUd0VGpEMFV1bnhrR1hseWdETFV0NVdMZHFlUEMyRWNOdE4xTnNYTkVZMGZVb0VHakdOT1E1Y0hYNHVqQ3lrMWVMcWo5YzY5Uk85dUdYRXp2bUk3WEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0QWV5blQ1bHRJa1NfeWlEczlYOUhBNUgtQ2kySnZwT3VoY2xlUDRpRjNKQ1MyTWhNbTNYa0gzRE9oZ2lDM0NHSHhxTnpDcmVCZnBnY3JEb1hBWTVJTEJSWGpGU3QxaWd5c0tCRXgxaEtxVXNtNkFhc3h2T1B3OWpGRG5KQ000UGExTnNsSE5jVHVYUk52MkxVYnRja3dBR3d0Mm5ySkFaaHNYZk5IVF9zYWNBPQ== |
Merely a possibility. Only you have enough information and access to estimate the probabilities.
I went by his eagerness to be a sperm donor and by that out of nowhere and dubious "families were being expanded in different ways all the time". | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUWxRX0p5QUhtcGwtTUJhN295Qjk3bkRCVWFBT2RtN2xxQlIwVlVMaFB0YlRfQVppZHJCLUxlMkMzNWVsRWlZaVI2R1lRUFVxb2FZZmVFMXFMdkJKWF90ZDhrTVRjYVNIYm1yUjhVa0YzOE09 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VmZBbDIzRlJ1ZUg4WXhKZGJfak9XbFJuNHdlMWotbGRNQ09hcmtDOFdFcmtNQ1RicUpubjNmTU50bUhmUmN5NnhVQ3Z5VzZWd0xDVlZfRW9nYWItcExLT1FHckl4WVV1b1dCLTFUNUhQYlBRNTF0X215V1RLazBWMGJzTnBjMmxUOHhlNGEwZWVfNHZoR3p5RktNLTRZSDFacC1XT3lyc2V1ODZZUWFyMlJmUEVIRFVEY0w2czRiUXVSRW9MQkg5Z3o1T3lqYjhxbmFJb05aczExaGtvZz09 |
I can’t emphasize it enough, *you will not regret this*
I did just notice that you’re pregnant so they might not be best for right now - a little high in front (which has been perfect for me postpartum). My favorites during pregnancy were the low cotton ones from Target, or the stretchy “grow with me” (not cotton) high waisted from Kindred Bravely | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbnR3Uk9lSlBTSnM5dzhPOWNHYW83RDlXOFQ2UXRRdnFoRGthVXFOTG1ib3JLRjV0aml0OGgwMGtRRGRKYlpMbkFBYnVfLWFvblFXWHp5LXNvcER5emc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0QUZMSDVkcnVNTFBJUng3TjlKZVpPbDV5VFI2c0JTQUlnTnFmaWJFVG9ZczdGXy1rNmJfcGQ2UDRWUmtsbGJXcHdxemtfM1dhLXFtdWxsWTM5dkUxMkdEY0tjQTJqT2pfZEduYzc2REJuUEJJTVRrWk5zT2hrNV9Eck9DNU11dzNYZGV2MF9HUklZaklmUGlza0hZV203T2F5S09oZGhkYnRGOXF6MXZaNXIxNnVYZEYyM2U4NDZxTGdGVE9Uc1hnZlUzSFhNMWtMd0FPcHMyQ0xMOTl4Zz09 |
You deserve so much better. The destruction of this family unit is her failure, not yours | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbkJVNVgzaWxaM0hNb2hpemtqWE9IdmlfQmFuXzg4dk43RHZULTd0cENYcFBrT1NhVE5TZzJJVWJHMC03R21rcDlPckVnYzdIOV96WFNXSUluSElUWHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0b2JoY29GTGg3VkcwcVRGLVkzVjZJUk4xU1dpbXk2R1JaN2dKQURhcnZVanItZFN5VWtBdWNOb2NYLVRpMjVVOTc4YVpFaUhPTk1JQm5rM2t0NldRcHp2c1dCTS16SFhUUF9vMkpUaDRzUnpVNnNSY1hrWDc2WlpWWnh4bFRBX0hma2Q1LUVjbjdQWGJsdHU3OVRybFVpQk1qdnFBXzdjcFljTkt1N083VVU5bmp2eGhpR3F5YlBoeUNRSk9jX0praXNseDRycVg5aHRreF8xY3FGZ0h0Zz09 |
If he doesn't see anything wrong with his behavior then he is a callous cold hearted person. You need to move on and do it quickly. You are wasting your time thinking this behavior will change. It's all about him and he has no respect for you. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMUh3Y3VfSjBhVVc0Yl93dzY5QUpleVpjWGJYRGdNbDZJTXI1NnRwdjMxVWlXdzhFZ1F6ZzFEZHBWZnZmd3ZOWnY4bUVCT1BCZTVLYkc2bHp5VmhwaWtuRzk2T2Ixd1hWYVdCbjQ5ZDhVOWs9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bV80MUJJYURIV3VLVS05N0VlMFFxOFd2REM3d1hRQmpaYmpvMk42aXp6NzNza0lrTTc4WmFDVUpocmJXdkpqSExWNmZTSUtGbUVKTHJvck55V0g3clhaWncxQVRWTzgyWGhyMHRmLTZFZmpLUnJZb1l3S2V6TWQ5N243N3RiY2pYZTYxRTNCRWs5VTliZkVCc3BCSTNVTFRSdXdpbHJRS21OT0xOWHljNlpSbUJwY21WMnhKeGNpc01GS2s5N3dWTmF0X2cyU0p1S0pNbDJiMW95TzBXUT09 |
They broke up for a year and it didn’t involve that man. Whoever she dates after is her business unless she is dating his dad. Whoever cares needs to find better things to do with their lives | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUEc4cGMyOFFScTJ0MElwbU4tWC1LQ3dQLTJGYm1pQ3NGUmVlb3FrUEUzcm5fMWJ2SlBxNkpXX21OZkJxcW1jR3RWbVByT2E2R3JBVGpZN2NzUzljWVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0aDA1TTBoMXZtckRjd1BZanFOYUMyUkJkVFBUVWRtd2ZRYUpEOFpRLWV3Zkg5NDlZSnRLdjJMc3lTb2lBVkwxOUZZSDR3MGJRdDNCMFI3QndtZzVQVTU4a1c2VE56Nm1ZNVB5X2JfUm0xZE4wVFQzM1JEc1hMTlR0aFdBNFFyLXM2Y0RsbFl5bjhXbUFqN2VLa08xRTFGOTRIWUpaajRGUnNnc2lTWlU2MEltM1hlOFVieTY2TFNxb1dmN1VDRjh5aXptLUpOOElVcEttN29HaGhlZ01pZz09 |
OP should never waste time on this | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYzQ0UEpUbkZfUkN2U1JZYV9ZY2RkVmFwMTJZOFJ1Q0h1MTRNS1NVZFFkOHI3NktDOWtlb0E4RzJORkZEeDNCRUZ5M1E4MVY2QTdXV2VnMEJCYWlIQnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0WG5uQXpPSmRha1RSY1FjV1hnUGN1TnJ5aHE1LTJ6WGFaaGZHTVNXMl9aT1dTWE1xUTBOaEhsNm5OaXdSaTZsdDlMR2ZqNkNZMjNianRQU3N1Q1VSNkR2d1FDT1ktTnRKenAzaXBfdnY4aVNxRThJQmt0WGs0MFpYRVNmS3B0aGlxb2R5VnpaUW1lZy14bFBCZGhVcjhUTEYtT05ycUNkMHdvZW9MaTZfWXJ5R1Z3OG1DTW1DdFBaLXpHRFB1WWpOYU5BRjQ2U2c5UUUzUmI1dG02Nzh2dz09 |
NTA this wasn’t a red flag. Red flags warn us of danger. He is already doing the abusive part that red flags warn you about. I hope you leave him. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza3FsNHhGV2FNRmdhb2NFTEdMd2l5Z19aaW9OT3EtbGtpZW5zaGxDc0JaZDdWSFJjUkNGcUxsSHNXa2ZLYUhCbUlhTEc2dlJDdjE5T3g0N1ZWUk9Ec3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0M2ZQUXppZ3c5RzFJakY1OXY5bUEtSVZZMDk1czJmeXFkWWowUHdLSFp3Wm1ORXNxejFxVjM2anpJMC1ZajMzb0M5dVJHUkRySVV4bUxqMEVBVlkzNFBpeThxZk85NzBudlNkeHFDWWN5TlZVbF9wR01TMHdYc0FwRTk3dWJ0a3hoX0VlVHpLTGZlMmNLc3NaZVZfNWs0Rl8ybjV2TUFNUGJpWjM0NnpwUVE1RVpVeGhXajdYV3dsSW1YOE9xZnVpMXl4NVpsUjY0WENtSzFrVXBhN2tkdz09 |
Absolutely to everything you've written, especially your last sentence. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRmVRNWlBZmJMOHlZT0dQWkwtSjMxSFNXZ29xeHhBQ2RIclVXSXM3akZ3RURaWHgzeElhczNmc21TTS1aeFAxdHJibTBXR1hWalNveFY4V1AybGlLTEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0dy1vaUcyTlhEeElDb2hnMFROTDI3LVVMZzktRkdWdVZDNERYQlp6dkw2QmlCdFlTS0JZOUpOdUw5TXhPck0yMFlLUWRJUFZtSGZjMzJXZWp1Yno3YnZXbE83VlEybzB2anJmcUxwVXdVa1hYRkFBcXpfNDQzWU9sajcwMEl5Ylc1VkhsRlJsWW5KbW5fSnhid0VTc3p1bHFPdFVtQ196aElXSmY0V0VTMzZacV90OENOSEJDTkw3cXJmNktRdkZCbHFUVktXS3p2S2ZfWjRKYzM4UXcwQT09 |
oh sweet another blatant bot post | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMThEU3FmX3JpTWFnRUNadmtiazBhOWRmZjNfeFJic1l0ZkQyV1B4U2RrN2VhMWkxT25PbTN2N01tOHh3V2dTcks0Sm5VUXQwTmw4NjhobzlLSFU5MGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cUFfREFYeFh1TnNXaENUSWhvNGpWNjJpWUZfNTRaUElzaWVzdlhiQzUzaHVfd3RqaDJVY2hzV3FWLUNwLWJCeVJDN1pMWldLeUhYUGtIZEtLRUNVeUh2N01lcTVSbFFzQnAzc2JtWVc1Rko2c1hVZV95TmFheW9FRlkzS2lWM1hBcFMzOGJqYVpwVzNVVDJ2cHhVSVNlY0JVR3k4T3BfRTBOT0VMbVVzcnRKSi00YjhiOUZfcnZQTElYUkZjcS1KenpFanlGcEJnVWw0QVJyZTA4YlB2UT09 |
2 hands plus 2 feet? Not like she'll ever admit to any of it. I'll never know 100%, other than she undeniably has cheated repeatedly.
The funny thing is the last one was a lesbian and she's not even gay, she just got pressured into it. The stupidest one ended it. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzaEVfd3FIb0htNnBPbF9Ea1FncUU0QzJqZ0ZSMzY4X28wRW1xZDhndmIxeGUzeHZvMzZiODhDVmdybHJSOVhrOWRXVkxMWGdpb1RKQUhBTmdpWHpmSWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0YVY4aDJnTnRjU1MwV1BHcV9fYjFOeWxvM1NRVnpTYlZFc05fNGgyMjhObEhYb1R2dWk1b2VtLVA3LXhDRlNsVldQLURuSDBBTGk3My1QWWh2T1M3aGtwYTBfeVlPSGlodnl2ZDFfenE3SU5wak9TWGJ0MDhocjVITktzSDJ6S2ZRWWplT2NYSGZmUFpyNmtnVjlpQzZYdXpfWXdqQjFNT1UzaUVJbnJGUkhHMTR5UG5ya3FNbGxWMF96eWIzWS02dElrQ2RjYlhaSGRySkVrZjdtVXBCdz09 |
NTA
The condition for your child having his last name was that he marry you. He agreed. He hasn't proposed and refuses to. Time to get the name change. He may not have integrity to keep his word, but you should. If he's hurt, he can now feel how you do. This has everything to do with commitment, and if he's not going to commit, why would you commit to him by giving a shared child his last name if he's not going to share it with you, the mother of his child?
He's never going to marry you. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMlR0LXNmU0JjVUZ0aVNqZ1ZsTFZ0aEcwVGptXy1uREVGM2JvRXFqd2dTTDhEamFHQlhPeU16NTFueEdWLVoxYVpSSFNmcUxMN0NsaHpPaEphNUdsTHhEM0pteExUQjN1V0dPMnIycnNCYUE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0TExZQTB3cnpEYXNiUVVsU05JSWV0Znhka1BaemVEbkQyWU9qS2dCcnRTR2wzdEp3WEprSTNIZTJGRlVNME42eXA0LUhlWnNZUVphbFpJd3ZRbnJ6RGdybXZscy1xb3I5Z1U4ZXFwcC1lWFczRlZkeTRlel9EWThnTGZOVGRXWXp2eEJTRzU4d1M0RU1vci1JUGJwa2hqSWY3cE9SWVVnZDhaQzduaTBibzJJVkJaeW1sLV9iUzFzTk5xNUpUbHZPWVpHc3ZDdW9SQjlBOXVsYWlHbVJadz09 |
Her love for her little sister shines through very clearly in everything you've written. I'm so sorry that your family is going through this. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZXNBTkJyVUlrSURubGZBaXA1a2tlYzVoNFZxaE9aekQ1MXY5ME8ydmJJY3ZCSm5wRXlsZlFXbEdiQmxBWjN5eWc5V1kxMjVua3pacWdFdkNvalFtME5rMkxST0JHTWtLWjJwWGhDcFZ4OUk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0UmdqMGdEdFNmcE9DemJGNnRZclFqc0NvOElEc1ZCeXQxdi1OUlNjVTZOa0U1dlFnWkhfN3EtNlBYeFJBb2x0M3V5UHpZMHlLbFBRS0piS1NscWZjNHpscHJtQ0FBMkxTVDhuUXIzTDNmTGpTNWV5WEhyU1hPTkhiTXlFaXJjbDVMZHYwX2czRm1pMmlNcGdhT1gtQ0RrN2lrMXBFbVBrLUJ6cWtGY2xWcGZBZEFxbS1lUlo3VjZJbDRyZW05Zk5wYkx4bFFsV09qYlhFRmFZTmEya2t3QT09 |
Do you think she’s doing this only for herself? Has she tried to use your refusal as a way to put a wedge between you and your dad? | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzN2huLWRvYldfRFB2NURmY3UyWk43VENzQjZBQlQ4M3NKU2Ezc0tScVkzc0Z4N1dZVkMzeU43UWUwV1FLX3hDS2RhbFdPN2xyaGJOLTJ4V0FMS29kWWttaTlNbmNHTWl4SGQteG10cmRLTkk9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0emFUM0VmZUhUcjQwR3IycDRDd2FqWWI2RGdNcEJ0d0NqYjNGVUJ0b3o1NTExMmRaMXR3YWJiTFgyV1UxaDJJRFRDTkpwUFFDcTNPN0xPYTVOTHdRZ0lpaGhMUjVMZ3RVaDdNanpfWmlza3AzTVlDOWlSODN3NTBlTFdSUnkzNzRtU1RlaEFNRE5jTDYtOTl1cG9mdE1ZbDU5UFN5R3NxNTBOVXVSTmwxRVliTmRHcFl3WW5pZTFfaS1DY2lLSm5nZDBvYk1kQ19hbHJ4bHhtU1dzZkp3UT09 |
You set an incredibly reasonable boundary and your sister threw a snit and ruined her own experience.
Shame on your sister and your mom. They can take on the burdens of hosting.
Nta don't doubt yourself. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQmp5ZC1mQ283RVZDNm9GQVJ5d0hXc0c3Tm1DVW1vZkVJR0JFQWo3WVlDVnRURW9VUnRsQ2RubXFxbTBrUFFRTTBfaFdIWHk4bG5RTzJaWjBrTFZFSlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bVpkQ0NZNVk5RlI4Zm5aRUdCS3cxV2s5dHVTQ2o4RlJzMjllNmhGMkhtbk9LYThGM3RCVDlqemQtckxlUjl6NWUwOTJhdndZVTlKU0xnRlU1YXFtVi1yc1hmTWprRDNjMXZ2NnpHdXczcVFfUFBDTHBTaHR1cVJNRGJUV0QyWUtWbFNSMllsejFLM1F1UGxLZ0sxeDY5bjhGVk5FelpJY0dHM0FaMmZCc25YZmZVM3dkMU1uZ3EyUnBTQ0xaNkktXzhmSTF4Sk1OcGxVaWs1RXpHV2ktQT09 |
Forget him. He is not important.
Ask yourself why you put up with it. Be kind to yourself in your answers, and if that's difficult ask yourself what you would say if were a good friend who put up with this.
When he said you just plan parties, you could have said and you just play with numbers so at least I know how to make people happy. But you didn't because you are not the asshole. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTTFBbHdDejV0dExESS1LeDhVN1RzNzRrVFkwRjNsQzhFNnBBZWVFZmNRNTdzdmZQMWl5TnJkal9WU2RPM0QtbElvWlNzc3RYMnJLZUtTa3BiTjF2TWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0aDJqTk8tQmFvSEtPc1hzWHZZSTlfTG9GcGl0NnFCNHpKYlV4UF95RE5IVjJVaDk3S3BhejhQY3czR3ZGVFpUVml3VDZsTkZCa1Zfemc0aDN4bW00WGN5R2NyRGM4NnBnOTNIanZyVDl5Y2kxamlnY1dwREdtV3ZCd3BGd0k3dlBGaktTMHN2endtRkowWUhvalN3MzZjOVExa18xQmVrek5FZHFMVC1MNlpUUkh2UXZGZk1IS252eGhKXzhSQ1lCSTZ1Q0JzckhicGJlRi1UTzJ6WVRQdz09 |
NTA. False accusations are one of the most horrible things any person can do to another. She and her family need to feel as much pain as you can possible inflict on them, consequences be damned.
I, a very, very, *very* gay man, who was severely traumatized by an attempted rape (perpetrated by a woman), was falsely accuse of sexual assault many years ago. I was traumatized and abused, just like you were. I was with other friends and in a totally different city when she claimed it happened. It didn’t matter.
I was close to suicide before the police got the accuser’s besties to admit that she had made it all up because she had the hots for me and she was angry that I wasn’t interested in her. I was in psychotherapy for years dealing with the trauma and you likely will be, too.
No. Definitely NTA. People, especially parents, need to fully understand that the consequences of false accusations are extreme and long-lasting. Many guys *have* died by suicide over false accusations. Dump all these people, your wife, too, if she’s not supportive of you, and start a new life with people that deserve you. These people don’t. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNnFQWTRiVmNIRThxQ0xjMlROYjVrSEtDbjg2VWZvd1lXUGdUQTZlWC1GX0wyLXJyaFp3WWljLUpWSmJUNk96dEZ2cWRjd2FmbTJNQm5ZMktTdWVqZXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bWpabHpqMTdDSjVlUDNCLTA4TDMyWk5JX1k0QlFCQnpxWllQWjluUXlsOHdLb0N5MzlVb1JkUGtHeDRNMHlzajNITlA4VWNfLTBWOWoxTU9ZaEloTzZ2RUppLXhIb3Y0TEZwUGpBVThzUVRZZXZUOGxfQXFXQ2RIYVpCMGhSNjRrRDlOODhseE1lMmJyMWNzd1Vjb2N2NVRDdlJITElBSnRWdTBGaTNkZEZQbzZ4QlowZWMzLTROYWVHdFdub3RBcGJsN0hPdHh3eWExd1dXaU5Samdjdz09 |
Thank for proving my point - the ‚other‘ women you mentioned are a very small subset of all women, namely women whose main ‚capital‘ is their body, and their bodies need to be in peak shape for them to earn their livelihood. They are not average SAH moms, they hire personal trainers, nannies, household help, etc. or they have SAH husbands or other family members taking care of the kids and household. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzMnRqY0sxTi11dWFQY2dGcUN4b3ZFT2JVRjd1M2wxSnBiZW53SFQ5NE9sZl81ZWdvZDJiVjZ3eVptcmtXT3dxOHRkZDNHVW5qcU5iT2pqY3NzY2FiSFhIamVmTEJwdlNOMjlRbVdXeHphcXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0TmF6bFdjTXgxRWtJY1NMS1RTRV9tdU9COVRkcTJCZ3pXSjdRaE5fSXFUTHRWdHBOcm1mNUk3ZHVybjE2cWx5UXRYdHdQc1I4eEhQSWVOTFRHeDA4UHpkeFF3UHpXWlZ1Z0NETmZoM1FSUzB2dmxnck1vdlJ0Z2hZM3gzQWRmSklhdU1aMFFjelMySzFvWWpsRnprTWQ2dlEyWWtvTVJYdFVjek9fWmpBWjNuVEhHeUpZTk5CTGlzSDAyeDRlSGlHU2RzdU9GUmZwbmpMQ3YyYlZQTWVmQT09 |
Lol, you're not completely wrong about that...but at least I'm not the guy who has been treating my wife like craponly to decide she wasn't crying out of pain after I spent more time cleaning my own house than I did on apologizing to her in person so I could listening to how she feels and validating her emotions. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzLUtJVVJ6M3BkWFJtdUZ2ZXpLcWVWT1ZfbmVhNzNKRFFuVWFHQ1lqSVFRUXFaZDNycnJhQXZXRlRFNHZRNTR0Z1Q0NVI3ZmxPd0Vic1l4TUNzOWNob2d0a0w5VmF5SmFBWVJqSi1LUTR6UW89 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VWFEQ2t2Z2xCSFVZWnVjOTNrSnJndGxhWWMyUEQ3cFJpWFFMSWhuXzZUdzVaaDcwWjJLd0FrVHFQTnp3RWZDbW90U0lJdjEwVTFCeV9IU2FfWkJsXy03UU9PX082THVKWnp4RnZJQ0UzOUVmY25mTEpIeURZZWNCd0F0RXlUaS1NMkJzOFFEOVl3Z2pnOXRHcVhpYzlNNWExVFNGMHNIdUNwbjdDM0NCel9rPQ== |
Telling him what he should have on HIS timeline is NOT a boundary. You don’t get to control other people and call it is boundary. That is not at all how that works and what a boundary means. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYm41QUVpY3htajlkdXQ3Y25uOVNzRHZLLTRrTGFLVklpNGZYQy1nTkFtS1hPUlRibmtRTUNFd1cyX2FocGFHMUQ0MWk1VG9oaS05b0ZJQzZBanlMOEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZFl6QjVud05EU3lzU2lDTUZnYWhkd2R5TE9NcWtwWlVEQks0Mk9ITFIxTGNsTndUX25jVHRsVlMwdTBQeVhmZFNUNnFudnRZUWJFZzFURlRpbkRkT2dwem5vY29yUWxOSVVKRll3Uk1lMXJHTEVra0FGbTJPZlJJZjZ2QWRTQ3dnekNpSEFRRnRkNnVRZWV2bXpobkpyam0xYjFTZkNobzcwZGQxNHY3VVpXcTV0cG56YmhtRlV6R01aeWRyTkRIenFXQUlDUktfbFl2U1I4VUItUWhKQT09 |
As dads, we’re pulled in a million directions—work, family, housework, and the endless needs of others. Somewhere in the chaos, our well-being becomes an afterthought. I used to believe I needed hours to care for myself, but I’ve learned that small, intentional habits can create a huge shift.
The mornings have become sacred for me—before the house stirs before the day takes over. If you’re in the trenches of fatherhood and feel like there’s no time for yourself, here’s how I carve out a little space to reset:
1. **Move & Breathe** Every morning, I start with movement. It might be a walk outside, stretching, or just standing in the backyard for a few minutes of fresh air. Moving my body early clears my head, grounds me, and reminds me that I can handle the day ahead—no matter what chaos awaits.
2. **Journaling** I take five minutes to put pen to paper. Sometimes it’s a simple list of things I’m grateful for, other times it’s unloading the stress I’m carrying. Journaling isn’t about writing something perfect—it’s about creating clarity in a messy life.
3. **Learning** Whether it’s a chapter of a book or an audiobook during my commute, I try to feed my mind with something positive. Right now, I’m diving into resources on mindset and habit-building, but it doesn’t have to be that specific. The point is to prioritize growth, even if it’s just 10 minutes.
None of these are monumental, but they’re transformative. They remind me I’m not just surviving the day—I’m showing up for my family and myself.
Dads, if you feel stuck or overwhelmed, start small. Five minutes here and there might not seem like much, but consistency makes the difference.
What habits or routines have helped you reclaim a little time for yourself? | r/daddit | post | r/daddit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzSUpTUWtxUlNPQXF6T0pEOG9LY0ZvdGxGSExMUmZXZVBhMGQ5YWdNNHI0NHRRdUUwcDFEY1JUM2cxSVNQblFJTVFnVS1BX1haYy1VdURqNG10cmZ1bXI3eUZmNGMwQzdQVmpvSUhFaTY4aXM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VW9lcERRbkZ2blY0c1BjRXRpQmZ0YWc3VFNoT20xWVBkcHQtQkdpTEhPb294Qlk2TTd2NVRnUzVybkZJcGlqN05OMEFuaUVlcUVHYTE4WVktUHZ0cm43eTJQTWlsWm9pZ2d2UDV2VGd0aUlqVm5oOXVob0M5MXRxWHVucEtSZ3hlTVQtQ2xSOEVVcnYtdkdOWHd4VlgzWXltZVBpLTllMUFQS0JmSjlHS1c0VUtzc0R3dzdNZUFEZ2FkUEl2ajJW |
That got worse and worse as I read it. If you want to be with a guy that has no respect for you and can’t apologize when he was in the wrong, you need to toughen up and be ready with some comebacks for WHEN he disrespects you in front of friends/family/coworkers/in public again. Bc it will happen again. I would’ve walked right out too! Even my ex husband that wasn’t very “words of affirmation” and very, very critical would brag about how I worked all day before coming to an event. How I stand for 12 hours a day, then go to the gym. Or how I deal with crazy situations. I work in a boring healthcare job and they did fun military stuff. But you’d think I was the most interesting and smart person in the room bc of how he spoke about me. Bc I was a reflection of him. Why would your partner want to tell everyone that you basically do nothing for work, make or contribute no money, and then throw you under the bus with a private story to humiliate you? My sister has never had a job, doesn’t drive, and is in her mid 20s. She takes care of the home/cooks and cleans and they’re okay with that dynamic. His job has a lot of social events so I’m sure people ask her all the time what she does for work. He would never say that she just sits at home all day. She has hobbies like designing and baking so he praises that! His coworkers love her bc he speaks highly of her and she’s a nice person, PLUS she has the time (and now new kitchen tools thanks to Christmas) to bake all their favorites that they wouldn’t normally get 😂 Point is, your partner should be lifting you up to others. Imagine what he’s saying when you’re not around. I’m saying this as a 28 year old that’s divorced and feeling like my times been wasted. Don’t waste any more time on this asshole!! | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYjZZdVRkUkJfdmFybDR3VkJmQTB0NXhhOEszay01bkhyYWtYWmhwUkdySW5rbEhYZ09kN3ltOVNkNUdhWDRBRmp5QXpveGlXQll6VUFkSzZyQVZzUExPMm5McHM0dFdBeDhZQ25jVXhMLXM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0aU9hT1hZOFF3Um1rWllMc2h5WEhkc2NTdmJvZU9CaFktQ3JWQzB0cDV3UkNFb1dRd2NqTVBuNFlwdzgxbG9HSXgzTWdneXREVTl2S0dZOTVUdVNvN196dUdGQXVNazBZUVdDX0FEUE5jXzJKUEU2RkZEdFliRWRFekRHbExxT2M4YjNicllDblM5Zi1WMmFFQmtCbWtkWXBRMDEwYzFxSVc5NWxZM2VtR3pmSEV3a040Q1VNMXZCY2xLRlRmYlNSOHFkWVVTbTNRbm14bTB1OUFEa2tMdz09 |
NTA..I think it would be weird if you didn't press charges. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzSDZxenFTNTgxaWw4dGVaVTEwMXpYN3psalRpQXZSM3hWaGRRYVphVTNqbWlzZDBSZTJ1d1lLck16M09JQ1N6V1RBWTFQQVk5UW13dmpsUXhjMnIyQUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0blY3bXZkQ1F4RG9CVUxpNVlBWVJTcWtRbUtQdTkySE1MUThtdVlhT0JHbFRkWjFfb1RfQ19FU2RrQ3lwRXVSZDN6X2dZbEFjTG1mMlZWVFVKMkMwMTZ0bDc2NF9iZllXUnZGMWpWQzgtM3VCUENPa2RxTFFFVEFGSkxYem1peXEzUnNrdFBXN3dKTEVDZGx0SnZDTkZuRXZRckFZSE1MMTdfMk9PZ0w5NkIwQ2R0eFFNZmkycWxpVXFUSHdGckRkcnFpRmZtRFpUYWZmMGF6MV9YbzNUZz09 |
How he treated you is a big fat "No" in any relationship. Putting people down, anyone, is neither witty nor endearing. Considering that his coworkers were all going along with it says even more about that situation. I can understand not wanting to make ripples by staying silent, but the fact that he told an embarrassing story that you explicitly asked him not to is so out of line. I've been in a relationship like that and never again. My husband wouldn't dream of doing such a thing. Well, at least he would read the signal and stop. The fact that he chose 'the boys' over you is very telling. You deserve so much better and should not have sat through that last story. You have him two chances. Three strikes, you're out is definitely more than enough. Be strong. Know that you should not have to deal with that in any situation from anybody. Take care. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzLXp5RHVIdE5OUDNZaDhWZlBqUldEbGxEZ3Zia3RaSDZYSEtJOVBLYXRzeWtXZ1FrNTdOY3dzQjUzcS1PUzBWY0lubjQ2VHFYcFpVbzJQaFppMER2Rmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0MUJiRkVyeVhNRTlHX0xRU3RQM2JHQy16M1hsWnlWcE5Pc3JMd2sxVnFkdkpxY1FqZmVpREwyOVhfWS02UklPOVpjMzBHNmF6ZWRJQ21ESGIyR0dGT0R3RUxfRklWTkNWcGNYb1hDMTBWaFdFS3EwTmNMYW1MSWxjTVNpNzMtQUJhelpqR3ZiaTJ1cEcyZUtLV3dmWkIwZGc2VEZ1aW04dHRpMFd6ZWgzX1VHUHIxeWVhZkJPVFBnV3lkX2I3bGJyS2ljMUc0cHR0QXp4SzBDR1J5REpvUT09 |
Girl wtf? You get bit and you’re apologizing? | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWXRwZHBuUUxnV1dsS0x6dm5nRTliaVM2SGFFNEpCaXJSWG1PR0RTQ0JPbnBPT0JRN1dObkhlQS1aZ3hVT0ZseFpHZFpyOE8zZTNrZE5wQVRfeWJYN2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZGdGTVYwb1djc2piY19ER3hzWEUyQlNIRVRLYVFvRGpicEVfTkVOWUo1VTlKQTdBTjNQSjMxdjd4NFZOVkIzR0pfRTFXV2lFMlNYTlJHcWlEcFphOGVBeDNsVXI5Q3BGR192ZXNMdGxtZlBZX0NQV2V2bTBXcVcxdDNUWWVqQ05kbzF4azVYOHlBOFZLVE04eUd3aXpKZEU4MV9vVnBjcGhGeng2LUhYVXNzOXAtSnlxSy1lVmI0TTZmaEZNNFhZSzZUcmlRLWl3d3NXT0FpdklCb1ZkZz09 |
Ruin them | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzU1d1MXgzTlg3TVdXNW44LUNJQUVJcV80UFJnTkpSVmVfYUMycjctRThwR213YzZRc2NOQjJ3bVRaRnBZY1ZjRzR0eFZ6Z3llZTlmbDFQcm4waTVrQnpERWpmN0d2UDdxeUUxeHFsYXJWbnc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cU1QRTRPX1dKcUs4SWNXYU9QbVRLX1l6OC0wUmdkV19jUkxNQlQ2dWtPQlFZNjQxMXo2Tzg3cUltOENtQkV5bkhlYlNGSHQ5cjN3TVl0U0ZYZXEzc0xSZlNIaF9qX1Jyb0NyRElscV9vZ1dHaVpVeDZ6WkVQQno5U0JEUzdhdU50MmROeHdSejJ3b0k0ZnFaTGRQcGxYU01rZEM0aWVaUUVqTVNkSUFIdHk4SGpidzc4QmsxMGJ5TWJFcEpNdHd0X3RKQ1NweHprdTRNVmVFLTN3YjNydz09 |
NTA but your boyfriend sure is.
You get to decide if you are going to tolerate him treating you like this. If you stay, you’re showing him it’s okay.
I can’t imaging he has so many other redeeming qualities that he’s worth it. I can’t imaging he promise that you’ll look back and be so glad you left and also wonder why you didn’t do it sooner.
BTW event planning is a tough job. You should be proud of that career. Not everyone can do it well. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzY0dwU2dVWGNDTkU3MS1FcF94eENSampHbjBIbGhaR0c3blgxeVdMVzg1LWdyc3dfZlZjaXd4NHVjOW5HNk05Sm1FdVozekN3ekxNWUMzb29kQ0tKdFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0TTFGVHM4aUdmR3ppcExPS2VuMWVPWTcxUzE5UUdBNDVfM1RneUJxNXVQYjFGZXJtX2dvcW5DR1BwSGtSRjNHa2NDWE1ENXJuQmQ1cEgzcUJOWmtINmtLVlBlOUlnSGV4MzJGWUJ5WlNPNFhfcFdzTEp4bXZZT2VFRHAyb2w0cVgtTWxGaF80dE9mX18tbjJaX0F4U0psdVp6YmdxSmgwV21EelppRWRSQ3M0OXpBUWo1Tm5uZ3lmRFBXdHNUdjBkNDF5YjV3bEtzMmVhZ3k2YTk2UGYtQT09 |
NTA. eating, self care and movies in a hotel sounds chill and i don’t blame you | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYUNxQmpRZ3hSMURxQjhrUWlPd1duT2tGWjZVRU9yU29YN1pJTjZZWE8wSUpRVmx6T1o0OXJwMVhyOFdhWW15c1NrQVBJY3JiMXJRRW1DWDQxbHhrQXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0dzExSWNsTW13RFlJQlRkUm0xUlNYT0NBVFRDWTVLNzlBTTFtODFQbDhZU1lzcTVzbFlseGJ3MXM3WUZzVXB2THFzUUFxN0FZRFYtRGNnTmxZQlpCUXV5MHNRSWJxTnE2YmhDcUQ1VGVjanhhVEVTYmxGdnFSaTNTd1ppOTRQaUpsemR5VWNvbWE1a0I1aEwtS19TNTVPb2ZXWDlkVG9XY0xpcURINTRzclVHc3FfbjVoUl9STG5XWTdsSDNlcmpmckFfTUdOd1Mya09QdHNFeEdNSXJnUT09 |
This is a really good idea, take some space for you both to think about it. You're both young and trying to figure out big things. Its not easy. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzS3lOQUNscnExdGdQUWhubXBycXNRVlJ6Ym1JTkJaSnk3b0VYRGhueUpjcU1xR2dEUl9ubnRmWGRta3dKRkVPb2RLT0NtNEtpT3htSE1ySDJ4TWJFbWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0eFVwaktYd3FmV1M1YjRobzhlbXFaRm1adXU5ZlFyOWx4SkF6WTliQjF0cUs4UF85dVVESkVnN2czU1dWWmp4VHlEdGQxQ1ExVHJySldIclJMU3hycExXWUh1U0lNU1F0OFFsc3dqZUdtVVFLQVR4SUZRQ1N0dmJrZWVrdzhabm54cXhGdlh0Vi1GbkdBaFhOMmdTODRLU2xyZk5GMG1Hb0JLd0FoWExjOUZhbkJ3N1lhNkNUTzlmVVMxdUxwTExLaFE0QTdNcDBXLXdCUDQwZzlxYnhNQT09 |
Do what you got to do, then move away and on from every single one of them. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUGgweC1MMVBPb0UzaXdNcmpHRVVJdF9UMFhxN1AzNUZreGlobUxNRE5SZW1tYXo4REQ5TWM4eFU4VFhfLVFxeV91V3czdXBmSUlKOVA1RVlkUUtCbWloc3hJRVA5N0RVZWtIOWMzc21mcEU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0QUV3bUdfUVRfU0E0Y05Ick8tek9BV3ZSLVlRUTNUbzJ1SzIyamQ1X290TFBPclZtMDhxRnVtM3hDY1doaFd1djlqdkhDZFRjZGNSUWduanYxV2xDNzcxUmlxMDYzcjIyR052WF8xa1I2Ni11THJtNjQ1NHN6MGVBcUljTUNVb3BDYTROMlZkYjQ4dWxQcWVETU5HallQYlBwQlZEQzJIZklrOWViOHJqUEZpRTdaNjlqV0Etd2xXbnktM191S20xT3lMZThaQ3Z4WDZJN3V1eXlPcVVYQT09 |
NTA. I would have lost it at seeing my picture in a frame that said Mommy’s Girl. That’s way over the line imo. I k ow you don’t want to cause problems for your dad but it’s better to bring this up now and calmly tell him your concerns and that you need his help intervening. Explain that you’re open to a relationship with her but it’s not going to be the kind she wants and that any relationship with her needs to happen organically. The more she tries to force this on you, the more you’re going to resent her and distance yourself. I think it’s better to address this now because she’s going to keep pushing and one day you may just snap and nothing will be discussed in a calm way. She has it coming to her if it does, but it will make things harder for your dad in the long run. Good luck. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza0wydnFFZkROQWRPUDBCcTcwWDRRYTZCb3JhR0VNbDZjYXRUYTg3N0ZFVDE1NWMwU2lheU9GVFZ6UkJ3SFFHWjR3WFhmTFV2Uy1WekMwS1Y3SDc4LXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0SFFlMzBqUjBvbUMtYkFBbjZzcmNvWmNEZGxZUWM3M3FhbU8xckJCRG5DU09WNWJvVk10YkxtbnRZbDMybEFzMDQyanNqUk9WNUdQVG53TVhTbVN3NDNFeUdibWt5SlF1MFFWS0taUXo5OTBfR1FYUi1HcjVMaXJ6NFpSbHAxSm9WcFNnUGdScERCWlptc1h2dkxOZEJUODdKdzJKMzUtWnlXMmhUQTVTN1IyYjdBclZHc0tpbFJMYm5mRnlDYkNPQ2FVV0IxOEw3OHVad3M0QXZGcE5Jdz09 |
Dude… checked your post history… I don’t even need to look at what you’ve commented other than this.
You need to take a real good look at yourself and see that you need to make a change. I feel sorry for you.
Anyways, hope you improve, it’s on you if you want to change to be a better person… welp.. goodbye now!! | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNkxMaXJPU3NUN21WU3ZqVmtaMXJLY2hEM3NyRE9hOWlXcUY0YXJFYVBldDFicmloRDhSSi1Uc3dva25EdWF3Z21xY0YzVVRudDcyWWU5SGJsLTU1SVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0SU55a0Mtcnljb0hqX3JIUXJ3OXYyN2p0OXpfSWtDYjFTTm1ORWtzZ2NXMVNmNGI2MWNvdmZMTW9INGVhTFpmTkxfZzlHVUtYVEw3akNDeWp5WGhVT19vYkM1V1J4ZDdLWFloN3V4WUtmcTVHclVSRzhRR1NBT3JZaUROb1B6QTVRZlFsUmJEaU43UkJaSHdSTGQyMUxMTVRLME5HQXF6NUszanRJZXBKNjRWNlNVa2Zjb2F5ME5jZ29YUDV0Uzd3bVJRUUVTN3p2MU9TbENaOW1qNVRGUT09 |
NTA. Tell him he can shove his '' expected apologies'' up his ass. And then leave his sorry crappy ass.
1- He probably said worse things than "jokes" about you to his co-workers if they went "stiff" after you introduced yourself to them.
2- He clearly doesn't value your job at all and think it's just a hobby compared to his. And he's a piece of shit for demeaning it and belittling you for it, even more when it's done publicly with the means to humiliate you. He's not a partner if he puts you down just so he feels higher than you.
3- He doesn't respect you! You clearly told him you never wanted that story to be known by anybody that wasn't there that day. He crossed a clear boundary you had.
4- He turned the situation around and tried to make YOU feel guilty when he was the one that fucked up.
Leave now and never look back. Hope Karma gets him one day.
Wishing you all the best OP. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdGJKUUFEZkR0Q1ZER2JnbmhCTUlGVVhJZWdOVFVwUEU4RHFwNGdkOFJoS0JMalBnVDRjRmZ0ZU1xYjRCekNOM0Y3ODd1QzdHOEJaMHJRVHMzWUUtZ3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0MXFZUTdqWjhITmg2eHNDUnJwb2lSeTRhVEc2T0prS19jYk9wdDdwSWd6M1ZRal9qSExBQkJSVkE1cTZKU1liZDVmbE5jelF6SzJVcHpLWnZqWU1yVmVDQ2d0YzgzelNhMlBOWnBKWk9sTXN0UmNMaGJrVF9lMWktbEdGVnd4Uk1XTzZuYjdQZnl0SVVxeUVKMWxxakNOc1E5aXJsaE9QM1J3YmQ0T0NyMm1tbXhYb29STmk4STViaGZ1d1lZOWs4VWJIWHp6UHFKRl95LVFzeDAyd3I0Zz09 |
I get that this is very stereotypical Reddit advice but he sounds like an insecure little man. Best thing is to dump his ass. Especially if you asked him to not tell that story. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVEtGR1FZQ2N4VWhVQ1o4M2hvQVNQdUNEWGVxSHZGZjRwdjExTGFZSVFrbEttXzJYRWJhMnk4UlVPUWJVRDdfMkNjVlJLQ3ZtNERLVGpmd2h0MGRGLUZmMUVzZUg2MC1lT2ZUUEtWZnhlRWc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VUQ1Nm9BVnd2QTk5MzRqV1VINUwxWFN5TEVEOXRqRm5GVG1GUk5iVC1Db0pSeXhPLUg4OE1JZTRIWk1ONDZ0NzI0X3dtTEctQ2pUUjFiM05zTVRud0ZNWElnTGluSE1RVGVYaWJQcTJlU0ZFSzlDanFOeDlJaG1Pa1dCVENpaEY4cWhiekVQOTlHQTFoQ1pzcndDQ3BLOGgxclI1MlBaVnp5dUthRHlBSnQ5a0MzdWdrLXplUzMzaXhMMFpGQlFWeV9YVFUtRTVqMWtjSHR5b29lQXZLQT09 |
I'm so mad that vaccines are considered political!? It's not political to not want your child to end up in the hospital or with lifelong effects. I hope.your partner gets on the right side because in the middle is not it.
Are they vaccinated?
I hate this timeline. | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeGFZcGhEOXI2ZUItZ2Zfc2hVZzRSRkI5dDkxYzlYRFNHWTZZUDI2ck9xWDZiT0xEWkZvVkJxMmJ2M2ZhVV96WS1PbG5JS2loVkNyRTBGc0JkbnpaUEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bFhxZzRMMEhIUTRFSktzMlp6cDhHXzRyRjBQT0NzWEV5MGthX1Q3bVkyUmNZbnFaTGV2V2JSbzlCdFFWV1NFQlRlZTdBVU5FRzVDOU5qVkJ4REN3X0R2ZEo4cFlVdXJ1WkRZS3ItdHpOdndrcE9wRG00UDFTUVlZY2tub1RQWVJXcW02WURIeG4zNVlhd3JGcHNlbVdhcVpDTjBGZktwa2IxX1FaZW9vVllnc1FIa2U2MFktV3NPenNzR3JYbDlfRUtiUWhoaEpqUTFRUHhvVEl1cHNRUT09 |
Best QB in the league. | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVkpLdFVxYmUwdnROWHNydkoyS2QwYi1kbU5Jb0MzMjl5VXN4OEtiRXg0MkR0UXVwZmlyOHRmS3NaaS1TN21MQWw3MTZoTTA3RmhCdEYtZGt6R0pkaXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0dDQ4ajNpMVBBQU1QdENhRGVpVnJzMWxPQXAzblZ3d3ZiSGZmN1dERTFUaURqOU0wVFRtczNPZlFwSG5aMGVCY0ZhNjBVcHh2cU43TUowRDlieHRSM0VxNEgxTExidjZaQ2FYNEtmQTc5dWxRVHZnUG9iUnJrcjVFdUEtRjN4dnBlUk1ETDBYWTlWVEF1NldhbFlic1FHejY1ZE8tN3EtRDJlaGhobnVHWGNOT1hKbTFkek9GVVh5SjlLWDJhMU1UOHk0NkRDSUxDOWh4bGctYlA3RGZ1QT09 |
You should tell FIL that each time he wants to see his granddaughter, it will cost 5000.00. Y'all will be paid back in just 6 visits!! | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzLVl3Z0JSYVViWmY3SWY2NVlNbGZmeVdYR25VRWx5S2d3VWJxdDJ0UHNfM21HWFdLdnJMS3RuLUpZeTV3UUgyTUdseGVSNEw3ejlKLUJVakk2M0IzbWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0LWlKZXU1NWJoNnhpY2lfTmZCX0hibXRUYjBGaWN0TXZYOXBpRjh0Z1VoeXljZ0hUY25tT0J1SkZWNmkzbXpIQlgwTjBlYWtaMFRUaTdTZ09PSldLcENsV0JRRHRkcEFZamRtSXlETS1SMmtwdVJGdk52U3hSZFFaNUlsekF5M2VrRllZLWZWNUU5TmI0VzVfcFFQcERic0FJU21IeFRGN1lMTURoaml0UGVNLVMzVENpTF9xZVJtNTVzY3prcTR5blk0cXYwVmZzRm9vakp6VERoUTJjUT09 |
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|-|-|-|-| | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUXBzQVVlOGx6a2VZTHZUTl9nbUx1R0N3dWdITmJwRmpSN2sxUnlkb3hmcUtHNjZkQ3V1UWxkT1Rna3k4cUNjdnJrNURGNHJmcVl1bkQ0NGlOalFCWnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0QnRXQjBYYXQ4dGNONEtpWWh0VnFsNkxfenBOUVhnTmNjdlh2eVM2UnZLZFhvNEFHRjIwdzhwMENsRE1hRC1Dc2JhWDZtc3cxcW5xZl9hdTQwdWQ5dm9nTjF1UF9wRWY4c3F4OC1GSXJGWExfWFptWExJLXdVcEZPWXk0cTNaUmlkWTRMUnRMYW15a3k5dDlhZ1l2TVhzd3g0WnFRZzQzTDdiRDJSNk9JMEp3MzFyTEdkc1BtSC1BeWpJWEFsUnZZYUVoQV9EUGtRaGxxYWtDMWdHNTJJZz09 |
I can see they went with a cel shaded style which isn't a bad choice on it's own, but why leave out dynamic lighting and shadows? Without the shadows it looks weird. The legend of Zelda tears of the kingdom looks so much more eye catching than this, and it's only due to lighting and shadows. | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZTNrOEpXOGdVZnA3OXJCSy1nUUhJa0NwaDJSV2lGWFBlV1JDdUFRb2w2dFZFYlJ6Nkt4anYwZW5NUzdiSndWS3pRb2x1R2dwQVJyLVhmeF9zQ1otR2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0SnJDSWtrQkFBNkdkSnVXUURaWko4ZWw1cVlRZ0tiQ1ZnUVNIX1VFdU82WTQ3UDdUdHA5OGhEYW1NN0thU2V0TW84SWRWeXFTekFMcVgzM1U0MGN5T2Zuak5vZ3p2eFNuTzl3TmFPcFBqa0p3WFIzZUlGUG1pQW1UakRwRTZKUGhQdjhmOFpTbEZWYjZkV1l0a2Q0YVE4SEl2cFJieHJqa1ZyQzNrOGhEem5sSk8tRGRfOS1NajB0MnlLS2gxZ0tTb2lkNFBvR3FiVURkMk14OFgza3pJdz09 |
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You are **absolutely NTA** for walking out. Here's why:
1. **Public Disrespect**: Your boyfriend’s behavior was not just inconsiderate—it was outright disrespectful. By belittling your profession, interrupting you when you tried to speak, and sharing an embarrassing story you explicitly asked him not to, he repeatedly disrespected your boundaries and dignity.
2. **Repeated Violations**: This wasn’t a one-off comment. He made multiple remarks throughout the evening, showing a consistent lack of regard for your feelings. When someone repeatedly crosses boundaries, walking away is a reasonable and healthy response.
3. **Gaslighting**: When you communicated your discomfort, he dismissed it by saying, “Don’t be so uptight—it’s all in good fun.” Invalidating your feelings and painting you as the problem is a classic form of gaslighting, which is a manipulative behavior.
4. **Embarrassment in Front of His Coworkers**: You walked out because he made you feel small and humiliated, not the other way around. If anyone caused a scene or embarrassment, it was him—not you.
5. **Refusing to Apologize**: His refusal to take responsibility or show remorse shows a lack of empathy and emotional maturity. Doubling down and blaming you for his inappropriate behavior is unfair and concerning.
# Next Steps:
1. **Evaluate the Relationship**: Ask yourself if this is a pattern of behavior or a one-time event. Does he often undermine you or dismiss your feelings? Respect is a cornerstone of healthy relationships, and this incident raises serious red flags.
2. **Stand Firm on Your Boundaries**: You deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, especially by someone who is supposed to care for you.
3. **Have a Discussion (if you feel it's worth it)**: If you want to salvage the relationship, insist on a serious conversation where your feelings are taken seriously. If he continues to refuse to apologize or see his wrongdoing, you may want to reevaluate the relationship.
You walking out was an act of self-respect. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbldLNUZHTXdVN3ZwRG1wNTRoZ0ZlaFdVWVhIWFdrRGhRd21ZbjQ1RVBodXUwT3lEU3hDM09NY3dLMndhMTVudTBmNnhyZDdfejVoR3ExM2xnOUJRMEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bG5TSkRmTjU3T3VjcWw0akphMWJUeTFSQkhBMnY2ZnNfNzhBZ2hJT2NEeVI2TzBfVFpqa0FBc09ObmlsaVhsSlp1VmI4eWlRWll5Q21aR0hHUDJTaUlYdTk1OHhudDNPSGVkSUdTRVczNjRSSmRxeVhTVzlVQVRqODREQ0JQZDB4NFlVSF9HVmJlemJaSkhYYm1DSlhPYjFJaHlfcUlxUHFKMmdBR25mWC1QR1NRMlI1TXR2N0JNLW1VWU1JQzdxNlhrRUJFMUxTQlQ2OG8wN3pLODE0Zz09 |
Also, keep in mind that if you were to stay with this POS, you’d be setting yourself up to be subjected to financial abuse, in addition to the verbal and emotional abuse you are already experiencing. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdk5tb25ZVEVPaU1PWURjRW1tTzVwTFd4MXhJRlpqUkgwVVhNSHR3dDhWWE9GblR3VWUwU25UZ0RUVHg0RzF5aWtaZXZSbTNjSjhqT2VIQjFObkJXcVdxUU9zNFZzTEVEVTRaRFZKVy1pU3c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZW1DTW1UeHBPM3I4WWlXWlNrM2lEc1M4amRxYlQ5ZkdBRTRzM1BoRDNSN1NNRUpUZnJXWlFsZzN0N0xqYzVSdDBWYkMwWi1LQXJLTjlubWw5ZHc3MGFlOUVyMk1UWGcyU3JYZndFcGx4a0ZfMHZwdzA1X0dVQXdqUW40NXFrdHIxd2FJNmlXM3YyNEM2YTJrSlhzNFJYV1hmenJrS0hRb1RBY0J1NG4yYW5VNXZERm52WFdXbzV5aUUzWnA4ZHBCQWVNdUNhRlJLTEw2UzlQU2l6NGNlQT09 |
She can blame it on trauma all she likes but the truth is she does not want to be held accountable. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzb3hhYmMzUlBMazZZWTIwck02cUJNQW1KMUpfXzE5Uk9XOGpWMXRFTzY0S0dKWVNxTnJKNkJIYjdEb3FCX1RuMW1Rbl9RemRJYktvN2N0bDVtRVhLLWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VjVYVXM2V3BISllrMU10M05NdWJ1U2NZQ1pUY0RyZUNWcEdKVVVyd1NlOVJHQ2o0bjB2eGg4eDd5czl6V0UxN09CanlucUc2YkJXYkh3YVNlVDhGMF9jQW4wdFI2SmdQUzJDZUNfWThmclVjZnA4V3lZVTFQU2lfbDNOUWxxeEg3d213R09GMHZheUdrZG5KS2doT0laR0RQQmlFbXFSZ01IRXhSTmwyMFlKRnFxZ0VMclp0dWkyVGQwRkFGd2xLUy1ick1IZkdXekdXN29MUE1DcU55Zz09 |
Honestly, I don't care if she's just a kid. She knows right from wrong. I would most definitely go after her and everyone who defamed and slandered you. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzd1hpOW5Uckl3cE5BdWxxYVl6OW9PYXFnc0lGZjl5d1R2bUdpSlpYQUlhNEJOZlhNa1ktZVdvdnhFenc4Sm11cUw1VTBSWWczSUhEZkZGejZ2YUxnVEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0dFJSSmhGdWVyUjJLbWxlN1J2azlrX3EwelJBRXFrYWw0MTh1OElGdTc3ek5jMjJ6R3hWdVNMckIzN2FZTnZFbEt4NWhwcUNFb2dmd2Y2Q3VmRk00QTQtd1NUYWVrVFpOcENoN3pPU3lYLVlqbzNmYXNCb0xkRktQc1BzTy1BWG5ES3FodTE3ZWluSnNSQ3hKQzU4eDVBLWs0Y3ZGR2plY3VDYld5M2dJcTRXWllKeWs1Tnc5alNWZk1YbXVUX08yaFQ5SUpHWmE3SUVRTEY0R2tFemd3Zz09 |
NTA. You need to press charges and damn the consequences for the kid and family. The kid needs to realise she's stuffed up majorly, and it might help stop another brat from pulling the same trick for 'fun'.
Also, people are too quick to say 'no smoke without fire' and still believe it.
You must do this to clear your name fully, and anyone who doesn't support you is in denial about the impact it's had on you, or maybe is still suspicious that something really did happen. You need to cut them out as well. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUjNreDFIVlJsR1NoSGlxcXctUmsxdkw0T2tEY1pTYUwtcTZscnB6V1FWaS1kMFlFX0gwY0JmNENfSHdpZ3l1VHNxR1VuNjFVV0lXS1pvYzRYdkFPRFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZGd3aUlNMTl0eV9sSFNzM1ZGTXZsSGQ2bUVWZC1VLXRqd3RCNDZMMHcwM2RUZWw1dlE1czNXUjJKTVFUSzE0UHhna3pIUUxQNzhVb1d3VzFkWDRraGxXelpMdmVTQjVEeF9xWWVQN3p1ZGlfVUNuS0RYTU9NTzMyUjRxd05XbUtuZVlqcGNSY19WRVZOZnVfV2tQaHZDYmdjMGp3enEzbmN2UHY3R2lUOUo3MkVlbzFkZWNRdFgzWE9IN3Zjc0o4bWxTU3Q2UFQ5Rk9CS3g1MWxwWWdSUT09 |
What do you mean? | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUGVoelNYc3lnTDlneUtJNzA0cGhnS0FROWdneFJaYUpYRU1SLUdhMFV4ZHA4NllOSFQ5U3pIcERhN3RBVVpGMlAzWlhpSm5sdE5kRXctX0h1d3dVUjVPeDVtMEFnUkwyLWFickF5UUUwZGM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cE9rNGt4eG5oQk04UzFyLUVPem02R0ZKRm5DN1A2OTZSZ3haUU5sbnc0OXp6UG1rY2QxQVdCRllaTi1uSHZod2NvWERGWnM4N2FyYllENURtcm1YUUROYUR1VkhmOXFBYjhxQXRHbHZPWVl5M2JJUklzTFFHRE9nMmZ6aXlNWTVPRTFpUXZwaWNCTEc3M0lubzFXWXkyQzRDak1WbHVNNTNLZWZDb1BRb0FCMFQzQjRNSHVza1JtSFBkcFJMZ2VuRTlKQUxoc0xCSnRXWjBLMkI3MXppZz09 |
He thinks that what he’s bringing to the table is his big “finance” paycheck.
In my opinion, there is no more useless and harmful job in this world than being a corporate finance bro. They create nothing useful, but they, somehow, think they’re the most important folks in the world. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFza3pkRk9oMF9QNUdBRFZxcFlMM2NXRXBzSF96WVdoY3hBUzN6QXVzRG9NaHZKNjRwcnh0c2JpLXE3RlVjMG9jS2FRRC14VUhRQnVKY2x4enhpQTZCTWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0RXoyZzBmWVh3WHQ4LVdlTlFHLXpnNjViYUZ4TVFUdWw4S054ODFhZk5SNFl2ZXhtU2JPN3Z2ZF95VVFmWmRmQ01vNmttMXRhQWlKdjgxN3d0ajZOa1FiZm1BQzV5Z2R6MTJyYlZnNVhKZXlIT3dzT2xPbE1DcEl5QTMyRExZQUpKbDE2UTJnWjYzSnJoaTRGWlZWek13QkJhMEZ3OVhTYjZIZ3UwdnJoMXM5OHRVbkdGWEltTnVySTBiUzBYeXFVNW4zTDNjX0ZvcmFIOTU1SHpLanZtdz09 |
Thank you for this!! Yea I think accepting it and seeking help is still what needs to happen. He seems to think all he’s doing is reacting to stressors around him and not actively disengaging from nighttime responsibilities. Fortunately the newborn phase is over but we’re still dealing with the separate sleep situations like he has PTSD from me having a normal new mom moment and getting frustrated in the middle of the night. | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbzNIZm1kSGVVQnExSWRBdTdtd0pOYXktcDFhUE9ONFo2ZnU3ejlhSjR1TG1UblJQYlpjaXN2TnM2aEwzNnJWQjlHX3A3QnRfWGVVNTJYT0pvZWF0c0lRdkdadllIalVWTThVZ09iLVQ2aEE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0RF9MZHFXQlRGWjBiUzBwaEJCSVhNTGlqMGczZ1BwbjBIWHh0cTBvMFhPSU55RWgzc2cyQmV1MXU1LV96ZjNzSGEtRXpZMFNJM3hXeWNRdFJ6MmdCdkpXdXRGTHlxT2RmU2lLM05jYW9CaVpjMHoxSmVPNHREUnllZHRIUVNQcHI0YXdtUlZ6MGJIblRuTVdZV3J4WTZfSno4em1MbEtVakthTURRc3ViUHhSeTMyczNfNVY2V2lJSnN6SXRsdTR4YnJQaXgwcmJkYW1LcWxrclFHb0M3QT09 |
NTA- If you have to ask it, you know you're not the problem, it's him. I have a feeling he has a way of treating you that possibly conditions you to put up with his bullying..maybe even abuse. He tears you down to feel powerful over you, and to belittle you. Doing so shrinks your confidence and can make you more tolerant and even submissive to his bullying. His first reaction to you being hurt and walking away to protect yourself was anger, not concerned, not an ounce of sorry or remorse..nothing except his ego being bruised.
People like that don't change for the better, it only gets worse. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzc1huOFVuWF8xS2NwNnREZm1IVGl1WVpuN1Y2c2N5dEhYaEppbFNDNXFaUTZPX0FpMk8tbTFXYUl0Q0w0QnhqZWV1QS1HU09RVDdmdzFSNEhBR0VwVlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0c2lGRkM5Mm1hdW11VklvTzRZY0wtZjhuWTZodHZLSU90VTFVZ1RMQjczeHR2Sng0YUdIR2FjUV80S1RPVy1yRUl5bjM5ZVcyVXJ4QmZBRFdCbWFSVTR3ZnRjVmFxeVAtRVZfNkc5TlZlb2VBWkszX2tJUktoeE1vRDlxd3pKME80T2Nna3NDUzdLdzFjRG1seEZFV0tGQWZQc0VOempoVGxoMkd3ODAwOHpBOF9USW5IeTZ3V0pqR0FhWnJKeEF6VUV6dW9BWHJnWFRNSW13QkxlR29Jdz09 |
At 17 OP is soon going to become a legal adult and already physically capable of becoming a mother herself. It’s a little late to start a “mommy and me” relationship with a woman she met while she was a high school student. The best option is good friends. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYTNOQnZwYnMtcEVYM0wySEhacUsyYmVNeTFScUVERk5vamxOV240OFpreWl2ZGJzV3o4TDVweEl2VlFnZ3J5azU2dGh0d2VBZEgtaVF2cVVRLVVibWdfdUR1TUI3WTFPM1pyLUdLdjJyOUU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Z3htdjBuUUVwaWJDR3phdC1ONkRTSTBfTkRZNk52RE5BTnB4Vnh4UHpPeVBHLVdjSDRKWFZsLXJBYkpjVE5zenhQVzk1MXRMRzFCOXJBNWhjTXFzUllNeVI0TTc2S2VZaVdRTkk5djdvaExhSzhxel9raUJONFd1Q1daZU5GWlpUckdYczgzOFNDZzJ5aUhpdG5GaExsUnFnampGdm9EVnEwNHl1Rnk5ekFCSkFiTl92SDNOWnUtWnJjVVhpVFlwZTA1SGxJVVNtT2pwZU9EZzFUX3o4dz09 |
YTA, not for choosing not to hang out with people who yell at you, but for deciding that you'll only be her friend if she tells you everything.
People who were SA'd are often not believed, so it's possible that she's telling the truth, even if it seems unlikely. It's also possible that she's telling a half-truth, and that someone SA'd her and she's too afraid of the person to say who actually did it. You don't know what actually happened, but there's a strong possibility that she is traumatized, and you're not entitled to the details of the most terrible thing that can happen to someone. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeVItQ3lZcmd6dldQN2RjVVhUMmowd1NzbnA2OFBKd2hHRlZfcmV6QTNIZHNfSGZ5Y1U0aHNuNjlGcE9HWkE0aDlRdk4zaTRLTHhlamRTQTFoMDRfOUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0RENVWnU1LS1naUtBOXg1N0lfTmVFXzhSUnFvSWhqb0pORWo4S0VXUFRYOWVnblhTOGRYTVV4WjBkWEJncEhfWlEtUjN3eFc2dUVtWS1fLWoxQmM0cG1ubWdCemxILU9ZS1NRaHBqaWRseDd4Rk9GY25xZ0N3Z3MwYnNhbFhOWHJsdGRKc1pNSDVxRXFTNVU5QUFNZkMyREZSRW82QzZ6LXdiNTc5VkxUMFF6aGVhNDBNamNZeHdUV05pUDNYQ29S |
It's not about being ancient. The whole idea of why you should be married before you have kids was used as a stigma to shame women. We've fortunately moved away from that somewhat but we should have not really run away from the fact that there are good reasons to be married before you have kids that have nothing to do with sex and purity and religion and crap...like especially legally, but also in making sure that you are with someone who is capable of making a commitment. Obviously this doesn't necessarily apply in the cases of unplanned pregnancies but if you are planning kids, it is typically smart to get married first. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQ0phRmM1YThUcVN6TzdPLWpyT1kxRmZieGRLdWpZbl96NkhTNVBtYV9kMkVQUklZWmpTLWJQb195M1ZYVFItOWdZZlhpbVp1bDJ3NU9icE5HbTJGQnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0eGFuZmRSTkFET3JmRmIwaUQ2M2lHYkdVWlVNS2k4cmVWN1B1NVRJYTFpbGNMb0dkZ2J5ZXpoQ2kyaVMzbG9OX2lWbXJzQmhKOTF6VGlCOGtKWldVdHdNUXl4WTNQbW9RX29ZamRpV3BXZkRDTkdoellFUldmMllYbmFrZnRlQXp4a0k0UHFSVWFmS19hQ2VWWFI1MU5Cd0dPYUlwWERpVmNPZ011eVBFVm10R1BoMW1fSmNWMXRNVHZTT0VNQk4zbS1ZaE5hYUlFUG1BelQwS2Y4ckNZUT09 |
PRESS CHARGES! You will NOT be the asshole for doing that. She is old enough to know right from wrong and did something that was not only wrong, but life-destroying. Pressing charges will not put her in prison or some correctional facility (so don't worry about that), but it will teach her that there are consequences of her actions. Once she is in trouble and her family is in trouble, she and the rest of them will learn that there's a price to pay for what they did. Pressing charges also makes it clear to others, and teens, that there ARE ramifications for making false accusations. Without charges, kids can reason that they're immune. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzM0NhWXplS0thVVlVbDVfcDRBVFFsWmU3cUlpUXdoTkJONmhJaU42RWU1bHcyUVFQTkc0TEFIdlhwNWRYaXh5cXFEOTFXRUZTSGtIeU9DcWJnM0Utbmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VThrOWN2RXdQODJ5MklsS1Ryb1ZiWnBMNzNDTGh6ZWdodHpOQWNlNTQyVDJkRlcyYUZpdFhJc0JmNVg5bGdjOUVoeHE5R0ZjQUFJa2xCYTBSaldqR1N1eU1sdDYxV0w3M3lRNWk0VXhuYkNsb2k4c2JwS1Bvb0tNZHV0b0Z1Y1JpM29ESzZZMUYwbzE0aWRobmtuZVNtRFRtR3BKdUQ4TkJOUVUwSGFsN05mVU4xV0lyN0NxQ240R24yM2g1RGgzUlg4MFNQdUo1WEcxVWg0SHlMdU1LZz09 |
When you talked to Claire, did you clearly explain how her actions specifically impacted you and the group, or was the focus more on her using her trauma as an excuse? | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzR195MGNSb2w1MTByTEtnSzZ5a0ZycF9NVlo2cXVLNU80SG1iSHA1MFluUEh3NjVPNWlzbEE1SjNJV21xME55eFNWOHVHTld6QU9yTDBXcUxESDBuVHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0d2ZURnFuVkVfbGc4V1cwc1Q3VHpaVFhUc3kwaks3dEU1WDUyZmFleXBuaXB0Q2ZMWmZtNl9HdlRoUVIyUEpndHdMSTRlOVhfb25JSlEwWF8yMnR2Z3FxdF9fU0NibUxKdnV5X1VYbzJuMzlpSlJuYnJRSmNHRER6aFJZWmJTcllySWFMUGNyUW1BeWdmckE0dXVaWkdKcEowYktvaU1VRVZwNlJrWjltLUhGYjllU2xhY2Q3TU9nZ1B5M29OUnBOclZNVU02amFJMFRBUmJpOG93V1VLZz09 |
kid probably saw it as a joke orp rank from social media. actions have consequences | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVlc0U2lyNWpaV05US2tqaGc1LVhxRGZUdGZwRGFjcVJuaTY4dVNRdnNHUkFjbEZENjhvdE1QLXFwcEFBM3Q4QjdsRFp3Skl3UEZXSnp6UzFqTFp1VWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cm1QMUQ0di04cnFOZjRHcE5seTk2VmVQVDZoaWp0ZUk4NnVFRU0zSXl5NzFWVzZINThWOVJGYm9HS3dNSThWakhvNEJ1NlBOQk5zYzNXbm9SN21FNzkzWnlLaE9BVk9ma0IxRzRxd1ZTMzkxQkM5WHJPTjdWNjBiQk1OSVVLQ2ZlWUwtUV9QbFRQa29PZmIyQzhSLXpTN0JkeTBFaF9SODkweXVQNWVhQ2N3TDVobnYxS0N2WW54dVY0U1V2RWowZC13ZTVoY2tuTWUxTTZjWEY2TWZrUT09 |
What a piece of shit. NCAA should ban him. | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUnhJdlRWd2RGME5NbkhwU09CVUc5djY1YjRURk84ZDRKVS1FdENSMjZyVGtKUm9wWXdWZlFhWkdiUkI2TlROb3l0SHd6QXdOOHNrWGZEbUQwZmZGMEE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0U3YtRkM0UF90RzZKd2FVTEdFZnNSQnQ4X04yVUhUdkUzZk5yQnBwaF9VMVdPWEpvQXlWendZazlCTlBQVDBnS0R4aktCZEE1N3hNQzRHamJ0M3pjTWgybUdGNWVUZ3hvcmVPY19wWHVMUHdwV3JHVF9CME9YbmJNZjBqb3l6enNIcnBVOFZ3X1ZtZkFLVEFtV1JxakFRMnVrT01vd2JHR0JoYkRVQmxYZ2c4dFdVajRyclhmaFpLX2tmeThNTnAyR0NiR3NnLTRDb1pEZms5VmFIYVdPZz09 |
What in the actual fuck! I’d call him trash but my bin would get offended. | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzamlWa0JKVHVoNWhpUWlTWTVhampBSlc1M0lIeEZmYVlNb1FDS1NpWVFOQVA2X0QtckdqeWpKdWp5NmM3TUFkX044aDlCcW1QbDFMbVY3T0JkWlh1d2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0QUdRbkJfVzFycEdmWDRTUDBld2RQRGtCWEYzUVVreWlmc2hCRmMtMDJURnozVjdYemFTeERYZlc5Y2dWRzhSVTZHVllkakx3eWtGdHUtZ3hpUFdCZVRtSFFVU3RCdFJqRFRJVUhQbkRVLWs0dnktdzJxeTc2WjNSV3VEYVRWUHFPdVB5ZmhHQTN2UUttSDZxYlhDaU1BX3Rnel8zYWo4dDFxRXc1bDhGMGZFTE41X2dLN2RwRWVwMmd4REpwb01MV1VPZFUzUlJZTjBCcXZNX3ZEZmpWZz09 |
Oof. Sorry this happened to you. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOTVMV0IyTUVnMWx3Z0dIOTZGNEV6b0p4YXFYcnM0SVhMZTFfTWdndDNMUU5BMmdlbFJKUmkxN0RSZEZpd0ZRaW5qRGFIUlA1THdRU2NWM1ExM3V1Z0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZE15Ynh3N0cyZDVkNlRGVF9QdnJNb2RNZDJjdUFJdUt2REY4SWNfUE9ZRGJTZWRBbVAtMW02VW9tckNrYldudnBfZ3g4X3VnckUwU1RrWm9hMk54UV93LTdlQWJTLVBNZkRnLUYyckQzTV9RM3N2bjVxcmI3Mm14MlJlczY1bFFFYmdzR2ZtX1VpUVFsNWdGemladnFDQ243djRPVENKNExGXzhYOG9mdUphOHJ5ZURkX0J5YWFWbnFBM05XcjBsYXpxcG5GQ3BPTlJLbWJIZEpJdnpzUT09 |
It's OK I'm pretty sure I'm half to blame I could have tried a lot harder to find them I could have gone to court and so on | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeVVXa0JLRkJlaU5qR3FZamJqTjhVX083Mkt4cFNmem5RZnpQeXhLaHltaTQxYTlXUHlmZVhiVHBCTGlPMWVkNTZ2SWMxdzNRRW5IQnd1X2tjVnN5TkE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0X21fcTZ0MnJSVUdBYkItYlE4WUpnTFE4cmJFZ0JGVWVoS1F2RW5rYXJUZlpHOWxkLXdtLTlJRjVXdElTdU5BX1RfNV9hdmphdUwtVnJFaHVGemxIX0tlalpsenlpWDNyUXlSWGRicnQ0bG11cG43YjQ2Y1VvSHNPUUJzcTBQVzBEYXJrTm1hcC1fTUlqMktKSzJDQjhnRHU3aFUtVlB2V3QtNlR6eXk1ODAyTVk3dm9iV3RVRzRyal9LQnV2ODZfSE9wam1qS2pnMXc5a0NJODVlTU5oZz09 |
I didn’t take a penny from my family to finish my college education.
Worked 3 jobs, signed up for all the grants and FA that I was eligible for and the rest was loans.
100% debt free and making 300k plus for the last few years.
Your son will do fine with 95k 😂 | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeWgxUjhHbFpMYWhtdWprWnBUTUVXbF9zWTEyd05SNElMODRfTGVYV2JnOFlhZE9YUUFkUHV0SU5IQjU3a2toalA5cUJMNjg3T3hyVXNkZDF6OVIzbFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0c2t4QXRsQ0J3VDcxYmc1SDlyaXNOdWEyWjJ2ejcwRnNrSTFNVGlBdlFWZ0ZGTEJqYkJmV1B6dkgtT3lkYTFyS2NxRGJrNGtVNjZ0cllwWVExaTRmbzc3bGctaThyN0N5Y3cwSjZlQmFSVzVnUzdmSG5xZGpTUVBaNzR0ZkNqWnZKV2lYOVc5dUdYV1JWS1JoZTBBdkpRMGdnQ0hNTEhaNzYyV3hFa0NPQlJ4TEJpYzlRb3BWckJ1SmZMNVFiUWNrejlKaF81RFJhU0MxWWhNTFl1UXM0dz09 |
I've never been to those countries so obviously can't speak from experience, but I would imagine that the whole "legal and regulated" part keeps human trafficking in those countries to a minimum. Why would there need to be a black market for a "service" that is perfectly legal and accessible?
To put it another way - Since we're all against human trafficking (I can assume), I would think that any rational person would be able to agree that legalization and regulation would be the best way to combat the "market" that human traffickers take advantage of.
But hey, I guess people can and will continue to stick their heads in the sand and just hope that bad people will stop doing bad things, and that we can just police it a bit harder to make it stop.
These kinds of people also believe that "The War on ~~Drugs~~ People™" in the U.S. is a good thing that was successful. | r/iama | comment | r/IAmA | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNjM5d0NfRklGaUJBRHVNcWt1QU9oTlhYZkNYMWZyazhobzVlb1NENXUzeGdSZ2p6dmdJX29fUHJNUS1lWEQxYXNVY3VyUGtXVENaVkJxc09aRTBGWUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0YWY5RThDNFhDSC1oSnR5WmlxeUdtRktaS1hZTExZN0JjQlp2TEhjN1hKTVhZT3pRd1NqN3FydGJxZ1JEaXVXNU9lNW9aSGVXSEJUcFZKeWN1RXJsdUppWlJDc1QyR3lHVzF6TXRpSW1yRXBmRGM2NGczREt0T3RKbVNGVnVKams4a2NPR1NlQWRsYmNTcXJpcnF3YTE3dEVuWk1Fei0yMmJrUkFPU0ZiY0JzPQ== |
Even Tonya Harding would find that distasteful. Lol | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzd2RHTUpqUDdXVlZ1VzFOR1c1RDRZVVl1cFZpUTlneFVUUEJyeE5UcVRBN2ZtaTlCcnc3dnQ5dUpWbjAyTWl3Ym1oeE9zWGVjX2xYOXRHbGpuUGFIMnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0X3REVmNwQVBoV3JoVjlneXNpM0c3ZjVlZFZVczZZRjRpd1hBbnVXeVhKRzZFWjdCbUptUEU4bm9JZmo4V01JUVhDOXFsZ01NWHdmUlBkdHJOOWFmY1NaSjVQWm5ONHpKRndJSE45UjFSNHNFeFVvTnZBM2pfRDVzSWszeWhXdXRvWmNBbWdMRFNzRjBuZVdDVFgtYjRUOHh6MVgwcjM3a1pYXy1haVpGNVZYQUJDbU1JQlExSVJkYUdQTjJCNXhKRjRDZ2p4OFZJaEgtTk1rWWJTRG1QZz09 |
Go for scorched earth.
Kid or no kid, lies HAVE to have consequences. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRXlUQ3I3QlJEVVRJWTZRVzR0a3RNczk5c294Um5nRDRxRFpZeG9JUkZpWVB5RkR4ZjAzZzU4QU9IamFoVnVDNjFua0FkMGFRMG9aWEdoMlg1NTJVQ3VMUmQzSEdJWVVuUDZvUnF6VnZhaDA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0R2dwaHFmd3ZPSk5uS2g0bEJ4Zkc0RjItLXk3b2E4U2ZIempZbllwTEVZT2ZwR0x2MHVmdmRBdTgydFhZRFZpZUp3Y0FhdVFqVXYxbHNES0ZCdmpVTDhNWktsZngtenhsOEVvTmdXQUtfcHJLcGRpUjBUZnViRlFXejUwRHBDRnpXbndZbzNjQXZOeWZIR2kzUktwSWhIQjJuZDVOSkVuWDNxektZaldSMnh4SFlQZEU4b1Z1TVJjTkR1LWJzYTYzcDE0TmNaTjZnYWpLUldpWmwtNGxaZz09 |
My dms beg to differ | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWGRxNl93TlN0dFJseXA0bFFMd0xwSFBKa0pFd2hxZFB4MnoyenowZXg2eE5BV294LVZkOFp0S2g1dHducTZUalNxS3Ztc1NBQ1BmRURGYzZJZXVBRVg1MXJ0VE5qNndSdzZLTi12eWJJX2s9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0UE5QZmhKeTB5QXhCWlFneWFkMGx4eGR0V1F1SzE4S2pqbVhLVzlyTTZtOFNVYVl1eXhzb1gzSGQ5XzRRdXFLSGFtSEktLTBMUFNRb1BpZDB6YmM4cGlQVEVmLW5tWjBjMkQ3eW9FRlFZUzZmQVp3eXN4UjlmTmE3M3pacnNqRzU0cTlOdXBQZnVMZ0JsdElYRGtQZkFGeUdnZlk2X01fYWRGbXlROWhxb2xKcVBiTFN0RHNJSzhwczcwdVp0am9ZNUVBQk1DbFZtODBhRHlGY24tRFlnUT09 |
LIIIIGHT ESH here tbh.
Yeah, generally telling married people you don't know that well that you're crushing on them (and further, admittedly not expecting them to DO anything with this new info), is self-centered and unnecessary 100 out of 100 times.
But it almost reads like because this isn't a crush but a personal sexual awakening for you, you've added additional moral/social \*meaning\* to it that elevates it from a minor crush to something that MUST BE SHARED and that people should be receptive to hear.
(Genuine) congrats on your journey of self-discovery; but that doesn't give you license to ignore social niceties and be surprised by the result.
And on the spouse's part. Obviously, there's no need to respond by texting someone nasty things in the way you describe. In fact, there are \*plenty\* of better, healthier ways to handle it than she chose. So, certainly, she could have handled it better too. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWTJnZGlYck1UdDRQREhzalA3YTVFX2kxX3dZNi02OTh6Q0tqNlJCb2RzLTJpRWRZcVRFOVF0Y3kyaG1rNVdRWlV6LS10dXJkaVB1WUxJQ1h4RW5OcXc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZWd6Ym9iZUlQTE5aY3VNbW9VaV8wTERBek1xTF92bndYTTFKWXVnMkUwLWpOVHYwS2dtdDRCTnljNVRzbHhtdXUyNHRGSzYwR2xCTTJTU05YcnVhOTdVOEprR01fakhpNmV2TTlvN19tLWRBd2w2c2I0RmN3bDVYZmdmRWdfUkIwYzQwY2oza0Z3bDY2WEJTWTRrUGZzRHkyVzFJdWw2dHdWSDREUVVNX2NlU0c2d0RUQmpzdTFBcmZ4aEQxM2o0eDlCa05RY1YzRDhzOERMd0EzZkNydz09 |
I get what you mean. It’s weird that men are horrified by having sex with other men in the threesome, but expect us to want to be with another woman in the equation. Unless I have told you that I’m bi, then you should take that as a no. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZ3ZodFdPcXNaRHFuZ2wtS0hXRnVTdXlFWWVpcGRYOTB5TjBRMndhWEdMbzVFdGhxdGNBaVdoMkhqVFh3ZDh0Rng2aFRMaXhDWmdHeDhkNjAwb2VqZVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0WXN2LWlfQ2M3SVd1X0FVSFJkaWV1RVFxWUdDeV9PYnNXT3VuM1V1d0htMzRVeWNCdGJiUnI3RGZXSUxzTm56Y0txdTM3RVJ1STZjaXJEZVBDeEJqcmp0eFZZY0VsQlhFSlFPdkRtSHYwaTdoUllQTVJDTlZoaVhuNTJZTlJNUGc4WUVNYWxuWGwwVzdlUl9IRkpTSC1wcERCX0RpNjAyZ1QxS2ZkSGpZQ2djZGZSbXdLTUt5dXlETE5qTHRXbHFxMnRqNks2TVlMZE84OC16S21zdnZqQT09 |
NTA, protect your daughter. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzTFJZODlhb0o2dTBfSmJWdjRfZW5scUw1ZVg1cDc3VkpnSjJYZW9meUlhNGM4RW1Cam81cktkY0Q3aE9qcUplMXdQWTI4Wm1TeTNZdnpBWjhxMGs4Rmc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VklLOHg1YS1ycnk2SnBKSTZjSlhZdjJVaWpnZ3p4anp0a0FZMDR0MmFLdGNrMTJsTGRCZGU1a2NTWnJEYy1fd2wyWU5MRWc3UGV1UmRWZTN2TjlpR0NhUDdyZFBNejVxclN6QWFOMmpjcHRaT2d4WFdzS3BoY1VNM2FnRDhCbHRqR1FicHZuYnJlbVQ3Mk5IYlhwcEs2TVZJaHBWOFphNU5SR3pqajBHbzJ3QTJFaXN4LVpqWTdVYTMxT1hUazJieVRYQUdIaVdIRUpBYjZXcnhTQ2NwZz09 |
He betrayed you | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzbDBZcFU0SnJiaG1jRTNUVW5tbEdib2xEVHYtVzNTM1RxblA1dUxnNlpOVi1DalVjcEpPVUhZaDNENnpQMVA0enhTWERIcXV5TTdicDRCUjlnbEhIRVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bHFXRzl6VWZqa3E4OTlINmJRLTFhUzdlUUl3VDZydFZVbUVkUThhR0txSW9abzVtSklpSkFHU2lsaE5VWjY2cHBDak5iOGM5TGMzejR3S2xoZHMxa01JcVBEa21Za1FrNmNaZ3ZlRTQzUzN2MjIzbWt5Q3VYZVBxVlBLUkJPeDdSaGVaX3FGS3M2S0J4ZkZ4TlR5U1o0ZTlia1hYSVAxM1lkTUY2NjJPMTNYZmpjYTRFMjR6dFd0dGdTS3FmX2Nta0VaVWNkZkVwNlVtSWZkUktuQ2RPZz09 |
She let you pay for the apartment she wanted. When she got it looking good she asked you to move out. She NEVER really expected you to take 'everything' you bought. Poor baby, got what she deserved. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzcGppX243Z2N1bm1VUG4yR0dnYmpDUDY4bmZXSnB2b0VWc3pOWjhzWTB6bVhfZmducTdyS3RRZVRPTE1KX1N4akkxcnRsWE8zOVdzejVUaV9QWlQtd2pPa0tvaWo3aWlEVFE0NjQ4enViY289 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ekxhYWxVZU1seFhOU3NLVnp4MkJVekhRMDF2b1haTTJTVjVwMnRIVTNFUWd1OTVnOUk3SG1SZUNERFlXSER6YkZxR2ZPdWtNZ0pmLXZLU2xoMWZ6Q2lLMkJrX1lmV0RsTlNrSGpSSDBNQm9rUHlldkE2eERBcDRqbVdtWVd3bGNsN2tVUm05b2JFUEoyVmIwajVJR0k1aTd3MkNQWjEtV09IaDJmSDBWZVJFSE4ycnU5di0zN2RNY1ExUXk1Vy0xajZpZ1Vpd0ppRjNBX2w1ODVYNWo3UT09 |
This is an Ai story……. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzNHN1YmRReGI2SHFIRG45LVR4N2hreXFMUF9oYnBlMTRvbWx1WV9VdGdnakVoRVo3SG1iQ2RsNk1yTXJWVVRuZEFwT09DZUV1RjNvWHVkUm13ZGo2SUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bjJkeWdlYWtacGRaRVFiMm1pNW5jeXUwOUZOcXR1bVZTNnZlMXA3bEZVaW5feFVNVWNGNzFoQTNOZVo5RFUtMlJPM1huNV9wXy1rNGxqODRyOU04Slk1TUZmaklxSkZodUU0NXRoM0NGdW8yTS1HeG1ncmlfSC0wd2huUUZ3dl9DQ1o0RFBka1hXVVFTRWwzOC1KQjFTWEwtempkbExxVkhUc0hLMnJMWFhEbEd5dXRYLUthNTRSdXJKbC13dkNRUmI3NHc1bFJJZk5ueXQ0NUFUd09QQT09 |
Is this a new thing with the latest batch of teens?
This is the second story in a week on here that a teen made up a SA accusation and ruined an adult male relative’s life. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzVV9PbUFCSy1RaDk1SE92QTdVN21ocnVoMEUwaEhlVGdGczItQlNSb1oyUG16bmpvb1kxcG1JZDEwZ2tqR0pQVjQwQnZPY0ZvNFhtY1lLWnZQRGx5OUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0OWZ4bDR2SUVkOWhVWUk0SndvMnRHY1hlQlZ3TFJaLWdrbE1KV19uSzlCRnloQWQ1OE5iQk5NWlBhUmNJak54RFVZdUJselRvcGZTc1F6NXlNOVVMM1lUNnROTURLSFRrckpDTk9VWlpNRkVZUGxrWHJmNU1TU1ljQV9GOG50QmRGRURwR3YxSTljQk9Jd2pabUw0c09pT1ZPekNpaExrLUp1UzM0TExxci1NRDJRTHgxOE1HT3pzU2dmWkhiWGl5YlZ2TVFyeUlmLU00MFF4MXFGTnp3QT09 |
She should have just said I want to give you a BJ and left out the behavior part. With that said, I probably would have given her the benefit of the doubt she was not intending to make it transactional and just wanted to please you. Unless this is a good/bad typical behavior. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzenRZdWtaendFZnFjc2ZBZlZPd3V5WHdQWXh3NVdjQS1yd1lpRUFxWVVPX2FMUzZzSkNTVDdFN2lsV0pRNlVEYWpuTWhWQTE2cGlwYXQxODQ4elV6Yjh2Rk80TlFoQ01RaHJBcHZZa0JURzQ9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZHVRb3k3RnBuN1dTcVdCb0JTdXFKNFZiR2R0MEpOYnAxbGVSaW5WeG9lZDR1bEJmM1BHclFpUFA5bVlqTV9IS2Z4SkhmTXdoeS10NFVIeS0zS2pVRGJHSHAyYlZEclFJaTlkcnRlV1JDZm5xdkR2U1FYYUMtRmN0RzVPNUU3MDZsM29KaXVwV3VmOC1mWFduTjBXVTlpTklCMlRhZGFsdXNldVJMT256My1hZXNoVnFTdThLS0MzRldRaW0xaVFwOXpJRGhIamFndncxYnBET0ZNNWtYUT09 |
I am always in therapy. 😂😂 I have ADHD and 4 anxiety disorders. And no living family. But my therapy allowance usually runs out around Halloween and then I have to wait until the New Year to start back. So, like, obviously Reddit was my next best bet. 😬🤷♀️⚠️ | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYlFlQXBVVkNzVTRtNzdQZmotTldob2RzUUdEb3hBYmt5Q2hkYVo5d0oxbzVReEk2LVY2UXVIS2V4NUJ5RzN2Sm5BZWlfUnZrbnJ1ZTBOdl9VSVlUcTR2WjVqaGRjY21qQmJieF9laEoxQzA9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZnI2YlhMVXNvdkl2NHJxRHI2NGZ1S2xWZUhjQVFsVDBBWl81RlAxU1NnSXJPTGFvRDNvZnNiN29PRHlFWDhhd053b2FDNUwwUXBjcGZkdVRFUzl3ZmRTX1ZUaFRhNjZlVWJ5YWhtTXJKcTZKWFlwMDlBVHFxaTE0Wk9sbFh6aGFDVkxfSUpIaXdWMmZpOE9pVUFSak9GY0hLSG8wTUVKTVd2aVQ1ZlBVSnpBcHM4U0pGdFFhb1JWaG5vRWJfMlZjemkwcWdUZXl2OWE3OWt4V2lCWXRGZz09 |
Tell me what ya gonna do then other than running the mouth. I already got air fares booked and you don’t even know when or where I’m going. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUGlmcm5scW1SZzlEZW5DaHRqWVVIWV9IQ3FiMEs3MjdtTm5GTHMycHBXUFlSUGJycWZzN2FEZzU2a0hjSlZ0RXh6Sk5BUk92c0tKZkJOMlNGMFlMMWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0c3F0UGhFa21GMWdoQXlKM3JWZkV4UU1sWktPSHU1VWFwazVKdXdNeXh3dFhXWTUzTWloZVNwZlA1cmNMZ1hDeEV2aXF4VHVPZmk3N2J1NmNHeVZTX3hXZ1lOVzkybjNXREFBRmRKdnRlT2ZvckVrakhmaFJnQmV5aHRZX0c0cjhacGpGNVMxb3BRNHpWUFhLd0pKX3ZiSmVVd0M2ZWowLXBTZTFQMFhhVHhwMXYxMU1YakQwRjN3VmstUUtwV1d4 |
Happy to hear you are doing better and congratulations in turning your life around. It must have been very difficult for you after what happened but good on you for overcoming all that. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzY2RsRHdJRThzWHFoZHhBTWdYd1hFbzhCeG9XOTZ4ZzRvREt3Tl9wWXBIaWZmRzgyMVZwV3V4dklsYmxMOU83SDNFYkNnNzVyQWxIOTdDd19hUEczU0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0XzA0dWlMZmhGTEloMEIxbVdwaS02QzNGYkJJS25MaEdxN3REZVFlZDZPSFcxamlIZk1Cb0JfX3FDSUtGdE9rcThGLWgtVmt5OGZOa1NVWUpBcktrT2ZwU1ZMcXUtWUpuTk9peUl4enFvUTdNb1V1am1OVnpqeVprcFlRRlVDVE9LeGRBZFhxaUlUMkF2T0VVZVE5Z19oYTNNeE1INm9tSVJ3djJVR0Q4RDVsdEJHMEdLbzdGYXJNbWI1ZVBCcWtWQjI5N0V6Z202VHBKbExvX3RhUkdmdz09 |
NTA; not the right thing to do (hitting snout) but that’s fine. A dog that bit like that has to go. It can’t be near your kids or you or your dogs | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdU1LRUhNeW1yZVVGbzVWMUo3amNBSWFfamxjNVlaWUZrRGZqYVJDLS1kVmNZMl9RZjIybllIdVIwWU5PVWNwQ1BTeXVkRnZIaHhCa0l5MDhSQ2ZxdFE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Z1RENmFQak9VcFZWT3k5aU5GOXcyaDNRV1ZrenFEbHNHaDVVQWpIOGZqMG9vX2YtcW1IS0JYajBpSTRuLVBpTmVEQ3BTREdJMHJZM3ctOTlrXzBKbHZidURaQTItdS1nWkNaWjM4cEJkbXR3LWRjTnoydzAtRGdrVE9UbFpNZ3VPR29kTWN4Z3dyV3VnX01ER0pUZlFYWG45Q0QyVElaYjBrd2N0cGFONWl1aC02ZTV2SGg2eTZvYTJscVNyN2dOdl9hVXpEc3M1d3FSOVFld2FOZGlJUT09 |
NTA,change the name. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
But YWBTA if you stick around. He doesn't value you enough to marry you,he told that loud and clear. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzQl9ZdmVGSEJaVDA5VjBkRUxEYzE2c1ZyOHpBbUxfdkhaZUF3UUVEZDVzRTlwMktVNTIxQTIyeDVLLTQ3VjZQSU9HZWcweF93VF9MRGxLMFpHMDhiMUE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0dExRV3hnVHdYZjRERXdJaWpzTWpCRTZCRzFWNDZkU2NFV3Y4OTd6aEFmeTM1blA1N1d4bUhNX3RvZ0RHSlB3d2tjQ1BpZmJNY2RqblB4enBwdUFuM28wYWhIcF9IM01jLUFzc29sV0RCaTRhZlNtdEpWMzlzbjhIQXg1YnN2b3FnV3dFM0ZFaElZQVNiajJ3RVVnLWZNYWRjdkZqZ21FS1JBUjN0MS10WUF1WDRXVXc0Y0FJWWF4VHA1N3dvcWxIaDlmU01DOWlKclRhUDNUcHF3YTBDdz09 |
Thank you brother. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUUZrZEZ3RTM5R0FxZ2R0dUZJVUxkbkl6c29wa2doOUF5VEQzN2hHWGIzaUZPUXBOQ2c0aFgyR0p5TGFUZnJNdTdkdV9BaHhpS2Rubk4tUGtvWmNmV2c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VnA3ZVRFQm12cl8xTU9Ham03VUVQTEhyaVg2UzZnMnc2VlFKQW1SVUFONTNsTnA3LU40VWZ3QWxQUUI4V3A2VVh1Q1VFQzkxM0F1NW43b25YU2ZfVWMtRUh5NGRvUDV3bHBtdmxRZHBIRUsyakNBRTNmMXZ0cXZkV0lxOEswaEY2T1kxTE1hVWxkdlRZZndpeS1XNEloZlN6bENKaFlkMUNuMWdpcDNxZjlxeTNTNnJGS19SZE1aVXFzUUZnTmFwMVdUa2FTVmlHNzVVSHI4QVVocjRnUT09 |
Because she’s completed a compulsion done to alleviate the anxiety her obsessions are causing | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzaXE4Z1FFOXJ2LWhPQTZVSzRFWi1XNkF4OFdUMUNkcWRMYzVwODYwYko3TlhSZXA1XzVPREJvbGF6a1V5T0JFV0xYLXhncm9Pejdaa3hYN0cwNi13VlZkNlVSOG1JcEU3dmw4LWc0eFVxcTg9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZXcxejdBNFJUZm5tWUZtaUxDcURRNDI0d2ktXzBYVUlRREVJSUR5LWxPVjdRZWZyN3ZwZmFlVHVkS0tIdkM3b0Y1RUc5ZVVjR0dlQ01FTF9yY1M4RVQ2TXdkejdhUWF6SlFQalFWcHNBNFNwaDd6di1ibUNqc3dIcXBwb1hCQk1GQzRKZ243YklqYjhyR2dSbzhxdlE0b3ltbnBYWWxIQ3ZDcVhwNzQ0bnp3RGJoV3Q2R21rY0F4Zi1YU3BNTk5ia1ZvZ01vd0Fua0J5c3p2S0JULXdnQT09 |
I agree with you. I need to be very transparent and honest and tell her about all this
We are close, and she has always wanted what’s best for me as well. She’s the one that set me up with the last girl I dated
This should be a conversation we can have rationally | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzenhBVHczY2RmQjE5cUV0dmpXazFGLS00VDRxVUJ1LW4xaGs2VXpGSFhmcDRxVHVaMkhSN0Rlc1o1RDdNMXltQUpoa0c5b3pWSHZPYTh6VnhrNkFfUGc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0RkNPMTgyMDlyU01SWWs1emRybUt2SVJCRnVPRGEzRFIyNzVlak5Manl6bDVvN0hUdll3V0MwTGF0MGNSRWpobjJZZEVHQ3ZkV2pxXzNnb2JtMmFUMno0eWx4bjVLUGJUcWZjd213ajl6RHkzelA1aEhYYl8tMFFfTWhlaTZ2NUIzQU1MWXlRRWtPeDUwREUyT3VEN1BpOHNZcnR6NnE5TXgxQW5hNmUwN1ZBRFJKNTdPZmdLY0wwejQ1MDdhZDZYS2k2bThNSTUxT1J4NVZvRXV1bVQ3Zz09 |
This is creepy AF.
You're a grown woman. Your father and brother shouldn't be invading your space like that, this is coming off as weirdly sexual, considering the previous comments made about a woman's place.
You shouldn't be sharing a room with your adult brother and father. Where is your mother?
NTA.
Keep away from them. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzZi16UUMtTFVtVFVsMkVYVGJqY1FGb01GRXR6bk94Sk0ycVZ1ZzBqLXRZLWhmamRVaUxnMlM1T0lfa0xQbzdFaFFveUdZUkVVVEZfVW93TU9vNVFHc09ScHo2THpUZldadE5SXzJyWlRiYUE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VTlmZnpwVDVxU3JRNFpiRS1TTTM4eE5tcjRNaS0zU1RiR0tGN2hyOGY1VEVmWTdWSHFrVHVQalM1RjFKZ253aGhQR3RoVHZjOTlnUlhueVQ0bzl4LUdqNk94UlVSTEpzYnZlY2ZoXzZxd3pRTEh1RjVNb2VhX183RGtqbi1jQlBxUVpYZTJxT3MzRnlvWXYtSHVPSTFweWVnaDBKbkJkTEUxSGItOS1jaFNYQ19MYmJxRWNTYlVlRGN0blBGWm1rX0pMYTF0b0tndERfeWtWdEdjVnRWUT09 |
NTA you've set your kid up with an amazing amount of money for his future. He should feel grateful and blessed for even having the funds to probably graduate debt free if he plays his cards right. I got fuck all when I moved out and it was one of the biggest reasons I left college after 1 semester and haven't been back even 11 years later. I can't afford college and I don't want student loans. My wife on the other hand was a great student and got many scholarships along with starting at a community College. She's a debt free graduate and that's an amazing feat. Tell your son to shop around, look at costs seriously and remember that deciding on a major and a college is a huge commitment | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzV0dmdGxnb0hyTDhJSEtYbGY1R0xSQXQtRW9jZVUxdGFpa0ZpcFlva0Q5OGNWMG1aMGZWOXVTVEV6VC1tNHp6VXh0dlFyc2w0b1JOUGg4MnBtTFNlRGRSOXhaWUJGU1hWTndJNVRJdW0zZ289 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0VjM2VU95cTRHdHVMaEZHZHZxaGl0anplTGd6SlRMbURoNU56YmtYZjJQTlZrUDFXZlZVc0xDMGZhZE9rcng4QlVKMk9OeVVqSi12TjZST25mX0dNMkI4cTdjSXVNb1VOWEp2N1gzTHdVckE1cHNhSGptQ2hhZFFWMVlsY3pXcVh6OFg4cy1hQVZLT0dfMnFIdTI2amdPa3FDUjhBLUo0aGcxaGtOemdHa3hIbjNmNXFyN1dKVUlxeGRGaFp1WVlrQ1hjdjNlcVdUWkUzbW5YUkZ4d0F6UT09 |
There's not. Honey, he doesn't even like you. You deserve so much better. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUjcyLUk4M2M0cmdBMmgxSTNSMnRpWGFVUFZlbUltVVpVaEZPbUdrTjRWUTNGNDRNazUtMVk3Tm5FckhWOXRJVUVZTy1GNTUxVGQ0TGd1S3FQWHFhM0E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bUVaZUJPa05MX3NlUmlnUURKa3Q3WTZVUkhGQXV0SkdIMm9vV3FveUhFd1dDT0w0MVV1R281LVFmMHlMVTl5OXRON3duT3NzRFVmNmM5SEg4R2hWTVlJekxLZjZZNnl0TG1CMGI5eE1kRFlvS0U5NGEyRm1IbGtETHRzRTJRMkZieG1zUlFkRjh2b3JFd1RSczVSaV8wUHRqSHZPRThoekVjTUR5bS1ENHRGYjI4aVFmV0tfektwSm1UQVNJUGpYY0o5TDRMdG1WSHFRU3pxRURrNkF0UT09 |
No you aren’t the A | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzWVQ2bmpLQnlrcWk2S2lrNTBkc2VYenZxWWxwUW9aT0JsQXFyZk1xelFLUXVJQjlZTGR4UDdRWUZ1bWFfV0xqRUNEczZOVTZjYU1hcm44S1ZBb0xVc3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0ZGl6SUgxeGVSclU1WG5EdWFBMFdoRVJrM3BlaVdDczdxQ0hfaEY4OGtoZ21qYlJDOVUwU19EMTRuT2dzNEF6OWNXMXo0M3V4YXB2M0daU0gtZk9pZDBEOGk2TlRGYVBWbm1ZUF9FeElsQ3lNM3JEVUZIbVM2TDFkYTJBWlhyN2lHU2tzYUN1WnhkOEZ1WmlCejRSMDFPbG13MnplUkk1b04xR2xwMmVfR19OTkFjdy1uM3JCd3VwZlRYZnF3MXZYUl8wei03S1VLUk91eDZpdVBmVE5Kdz09 |
She's not just a kid. She's 12 years old. Her parents should have put a stop to the bullshit and done proper investigations to make sure someone they were supposed to be close to was on the up and up. Sue that kid, sue that dad, and sue everyone else you can. You got your job back, but to what end? People will always talk about it, now that the lie has been told. Your future will be impacted no matter what. You gotta get back some of what you are owed, even if that buries that family in financial and legal issues for years to come. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzaE9FZTBON1hTdS1taWllYnV3YWRCWlZTRUNRNWZkM0xxVUQxSW1xdDU2NVBieWtKWW96aDgxdEJLZjdmdWY1ei1DNktwTy1ZVzJLWkp2UmNNWXJCR1E9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0aFEwaEg4Mk9MZTZmeERaaUVqd0ljWWY2ZzEtYmp5bjY0ZjQ0SHoyMS1Qb05aTmhzZjJPTVdhdE91SHY0ek8wLWotSXVrWVQtTW8wOHlNbDNFSWQ2Mkh4QjliOGExQ1VIT0hfN1BzSXdESS1xQldkUkdtc2hQbnh6OHZVempDclFULW0zVnJHYzBVZ21WenBsVE4wQ3doM29PSDBSMGRFa2RrLWR1VWRHUDJSVDFERXpTd3pwRnRhUW9qZmJxaTNkamYxZExsSkxnbDEweWJMTEkzM3F2Zz09 |
Ask your dad if he’d like a video of his next prostate exam. Ask Lena if she’d like a video of herself waxing her vajayjay. Maybe they’ll get the point. | r/aitah | comment | r/AITAH | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRnpIZ2dEVUFtRW9UWHlLSXhUdXlBUVgzQ3gtaklrQzFQMlJGX0xlLWY3SDM2eXV3X3E2RkgtMUJ5NmlzSDUyWElJZ05kRTZPYl9JeFFobnAxZTB6M0gxNVNoeVE5QnhyX2NWZU82VU1tWk09 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0bFc3WU81Zk4wQl90c1pOVFJ5eXNSVXBvWWpRNGJ6TnJyazNpeVpHejRWWU5xS2hjVzI4M0RaZUFjNjduT0M5NXJPMFJ5U0Y0R2UxNUJBNVcwMmluMEtnVDJ5WjJTRGRxTVVsbkh0OTNVMXhCeGo0NURtNGpQRmFZa1IycThubGx0d01aM2FISVFGSERSVms0WG5oYW5FZVhmSEo2UGZ0cjY3YTJSZ0JKVi1VdjhYWkVQWGVVY0RMNXlvc0hDMC1Vc25ESTVvQXB4T01CVFhtVHd3a2UwUT09 |
Forget the flub. What the hell was that pop tart presentation? Wut the fuck lmao | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdXdENDBYYzVuTVh6bVF2eEdQMjVvMVBQWVJPSkpseFNaTUhRMmhjQ0tmcjZxbmVnZEl5UzBKbXpfVlJhaG1jaFp2S0lrb3h5SDNmbkdueGwtcHhJQkF2UmFXRE1nWnNBRFk3V1g2VC1YV2c9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Ty16amFCWnFUS3dEd0JhdnJmeDl5WW1DLVEyQU4wNVozNUxKMFhpaFhhVXdPRklXLTcyVTBRaTYxMmVWc0lMTExZTnZPa04tdTh1LXBIVFNPcDd0cWUtS1NBeTQ5LVZuTmxhZzUtN2tCSzY1dEp0NEFZdGNiaFFFS1FxTnlPbXpRS2UxVmhRZ3ZMREcxTjMzSFpNYVdNc2NOV3BsOEl0bXpFN3ZzR1ZFbjJWVUxEZlJxNjJIWmZMTjlqREVhVHVLNnpNUzM0WGxPZUVLOHRRNXlTaENOQT09 |
So the 59 yo that shouldve lwarned some form of akills by now gets catered to as the 17 month old with no emotional regulation skills gets yelled at and that's not corrected?
I would not force my child to interact with those people. If you want a relationship with them, you should leave kids and hubby out of it.
Yes you were in the wrong. | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOEs2MExBTjlEZE1MVm5wQU1oelFJR0FDRDdwbjJTVmtZSnYxN0gzOXdKcWZjOG5xRGxBbEtCUFRENWRPdFdoX3ZSMFk0LWgzbjBES2JxNFJGOWhVRWc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0c0RLN1dsZ0xKSVZiUVJDSE9VcWJlLU1Dei1hcURXcWJFS0k4Y0VpUHY2RWNoS0NDbUVjc05aZWNtalBxNmtKNUFhVk1qQTZKRE84TUpZcUxXREtpd2hfazREUVVHSG9OZjVBdHhhbFJ2aG92cFU2a3dtcWUxR1RTYnVZYkNjUk9ZMFBEYVZ1eDhLNU9QQk1EMVd0eEJ4MjVFZWJzbkhjZ1d1RUxNODRrZXYwXzJ1dG1Ua05sMHlmYkVnc2NzRHVFSmZHYnhwUXgzdVBFNXlzSlZyQ2ladz09 |
Thank you 💖 hoping things get better from here | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzRnJfd2t6MTVITTJzNWN4LTVVbmF0NGFFRGJlUEhJcXI3ZHpYeERvYjVOZUp2ZjhmQmtENXFXejVXVWNSRDk1OUZRSVNkdDhBZmY1VHc5emczREFGY1N4Zl96TVJkZ0V2eDNwb2FOUm5WZEE9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0UkN1RlhCZ1daMjdncm1aN191SGtMYmV3WHF5eF81RlJjMW9lOXZENkp4T1d4ZHhjbkxySVlocS02R3d3bkVYY3RqaUpHVUJLSnFHU3RTenJneW1LcUZwQjlMRC01aU9jQVY0WVN6ZXBZWkxTTUFSRGkzd1lWY0FqUGRfLXp5WXJXenFpaldfXzJWYUJmRjUzbUNDR2EtTWJNTjlCYnZ2QXd2d1JWVDd2dEpWMGt0cVBGZjl6SDA3MjNXQUd3QkI1UXVFcE5aakRpTlJxa0JCZkNheHlOQT09 |
It was fantastic, I’d recommend watching 2 or 3 more episodes to see if it grows on you. If not, it might just not be for you. | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzV2xFSklPQUJ4RndnUno5NHRDWHlucEtwMWtDWlV0RGtaOXZhOW5qUFlqMngyQmtQVjQxVlB4TVUtZEpKTkdJaXctWnR4MkxOcVdSVmhHbGtHSlJMeHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0NkdlaDBIdWRCNUp0UmZRdlNIeXBVYnpFUi1Sb3F0aE9VX2pucy1XSEtPc0JsUHlCMTVFczQ3OXFRMlFkdTM0RWQyNzhOVzFLV1RHMjR2MFBjWjkwbGtFVUp4RGltVnVLZEV2dDBrS1MxRHhWRDdGRXAzdVZjcTV2T1JmRDJSSTh5dTIzQUdYQjRXQ3FPUEJPN3hJdzRxQlJ2MVhLeEE0TDMwTENQVGFmMndMb0hVM01CdVFzSjZrQkdUNW1PWnpzc2gwOVR3ZFBrNVVtaUZpYU5ZekdsUT09 |
Woah woah woah don’t bring daddy mahomes into this😐 | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzeVJ5QTFKN0NianRCTkJaMlpoeTg5NUVDTEZGeGUzSnFwR3FRcHRFbTdvODZjM0cydERFSEFtLXlpSDBqRjRlQjUwT1EzYkFlVUhwWEJqSmRINFVaM3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0cU1acFVUUTN0bzNYWUhRZTBvT1E4NWhaQmxmajJuSjlTVVFxVG5GUzBtd1k0UFBsODlBaXlBbEt3U0hzbnExNGJXclFKd1NENFpUVmVhY3VOdVh1Y0JZZUUyRFVuME04ZDQ4cVdKdThHbmViS3FzYnZIQ0s4MmhGNnE3a3g3c3BmSFFKRm1QM05oY2JrVmFTWkV1SjZjcDlRTk9fd3VHWGxTbFQwTUl4RlgyR2gwUTJFTVF5WVZxMkV3LTd2M0kwdGRiZ0U3eFE1RUFsU0dBbFRJaU5zdz09 |
I'm not promoting it but offer an alternative viewpoint since I watched the VICE documentary on Amsterdams Red Light Districts. It does help bring down violence against prostitutes by a massive amount as there is a perception of protection and openness. The women are self employed unlike most other places where a pimp is involved who can be a sex trafficker. They also pay full taxes on their earnings and it's all white income. Men and Trans folk are also service providers in these districts, albeit with a purple light. The underlying notion is that prostitution is the world's oldest profession and it's never going away. Best way to ensure no one is hurt is to regulate it, collect taxes and provide govt support to the participating citizens. Ofcourse there may be loopholes being abused by bad actors despite all this which can never be discounted. | r/iama | comment | r/IAmA | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzcTZ6d0s4UENReThEeGxrYk00cVVuVTMwb1pGZGZZbXIxck9RaTZBRmtWeFZwTWlENGhMT2FUcmZ0aGxockl6OWZuRzBabmJqTUYtX1p2aXVaR2dVUVE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Q0JsWFhCYVN1TU9JOHdKZEZPY3pQX0Jsb2JXeTBNbHo4OVNsdHduaHl0TnNTNFBpd2JfOTdfaHBnOTlwT0ZHV2NmWURiQlV5dXFUZDhxSndralZHdlNGM0M2bGNudTcwcXhOaWxmemd3REJRb3N4MU5LUUJGcHp2X3NsekdmQlBRVWdGSGlobUVrRXdDVF9Jakd6ZlR6bUdERlQ5Sl96WUhjamxvUm13dzJrPQ== |
then build a submarine and go fishing with cameron. | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYjc3Z1M3WUxyaVdLWmlSLWQybU1CakR0YTNSQUFIdEY3SmZibzR4WWNvV2V4aUxHdHVKWUZvcWFVT3hlU3E1TGVUcWtqaHpEMlV5OTU0d09HWjZfWlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0R3ZmLTVIY1FHM0c2SDROZnBuV1p2a2dCazg0QUN0bkhxMGJzV3BFUGlFZTJidVhfcmlsNWxKdHUzeFd4cnNqUEdMQkVDdGQyZFBpV3NhRDNHQlJmREJJMnZkQmowVlZ0Y09vRlVucWVVNVFIelpSTDc3akV0bDN0YnV5Ym8yaEIwcjBoUHZLQlBGZjlkOW5NS0RvT0FQbE1aRWxETjIxSmZyTVktZXlubml0bkxDNHlUVFlBQlYxdk9ORm1UQndUaXZ5OE9GRHg5VXk3clA0RURHUEtpQT09 |
I guess you could start sticking then with rusty nails. 💁🏼♀️ | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzYXFTem1uaDg1TlpralVBVHBTdzhJSmZBeTNoU19Tc0RXcUszWVF4TEZEUXF1MzdEVlNkaVR6ZEhETzltUDBaRjczaHVFeFo0VV9OakVsMjZlN3ZNQlE9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0UmsxSmlxS3R2UGh0LWhZN0k2cGZiSE1GOUNzWTBPV1MwX3Jia1FGWWpBZ0NxZWtNT1JLeWotTmlHVnZFZ01RYVJibmh1YnJrc1lkT0t0eFQ2RnN5VENrRjhYeUVJS2VQNm51VnFGbzJkdXE1ak1PRjJDM1BHbW1yZ2RNbFdqZVBNZlJGcVpCS0c4UnRhVmxfRjhRRFlCc3gyRjEySDJSNktaUGIxVTktcXZhVjBfTlk1YmQ0NVFqUWJ6eU9pa1JFX1JzWEE5c0gyMnV0VDZUeEs0OHJsUT09 |
I think we should do both individual and couples. Thank you!!!!!! | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdDJlUW40TlR3MnpCOFRnaVVhUFd4bk1vcDNROU5sUGNvRzdnY3NmeE9PajZOVzRHQmt4MTRnZ2pzdmFnXzlrRFJZd1ZaZmdPODk1RHBPMnFoNkc5VWhFdDEtU2dJVkkydWoyeEpNRmRmeVU9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0MVRUaDJZU28zYTVmUDlnMEFkRGJoa0NxN21GOWV4NmNObl9odkZoMmd2OTVuaWNiUXBvU2QxYXFRYnlZRFNkY011VUNJNVJwcHFzMEFGU2VGNVl1eGVIa0ZGVEJMMGpYQk1HZDRsR1pFVjJLQnc1QmtTTzJVODN6dHVYVE9INk9FTVlmcnZCYTFLNUtTUlhuRVZtXzE1UWkzSTFEYXlOWEtwUmk2ekJteXd2ZGJQZUNTTWlKT0FnQ2ZnMFRicW9HSFlEaW5mVm1lYnlCS0J2WTA5YlZCUT09 |
Well, numbers don't end at 70 | r/sports | comment | r/sports | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzSzZ1NWNLQUhyc3U4QlJxRmwybUtDaHJmTXhRT3hMenZ3UXRXZFF0OVNqcXYwTEFZQ05DTFBCX2wxRUdKRks4QVBpZS1ZWE9RVXJVbGlJcFlLN3JrdHc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0SnZyTWFlZnkyNEpNNGpnYzZsX29PWTc1Yk9zQU5WR0Fjb0lWcUdpc1U4bDBCWEFtY0wyMzU2ZXpIWUpEWWNMdkgyeGFFUHloMjZpTFZYNzE3Ulk5TDk5T1VOZnRjeERoY0JWZ2dKM1h2WU81cjNLUzlaNTZ2Ylp2SnFNLU5tRFlacUEzeXhQV2J1RldhVnoxYWpCY1k2M21hY256QlJVSzZkSFc4WnNvV1JFVk5QcWlQOHd6aHZ2VlhhTWhUclJaVXZCeFFRSkplSFp6OHlyNnhpYmlEZz09 |
What are these rumours?
Also there are less than 10 episodes of the show left after he dies so I'm not sure his opinions on his co-stars really matter here. He praises Hatcher in this article for what it's worth. | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzOVpUSlhoTnVsMnVHSU5JR0ZDbmRVVTlsN2szWHVsYjZYYWUyamhFdHRSam5SZjc3ZE9oVXBLTU1Ld3FwNGw5aGFGVWkwVDVodmM2bUVYa0FSdUtvYnc9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0SUVYOTY4ZkU5Tk85QlNpd1FOcFNoMWFnWFY5V181Wkp0YmVtVVpxeUlvRE5XMzNPQVBMYjJWY1o5c1k4MlBVMUU5bEZ6M2g3OG5CZVozN2RxOWhzbkhUSXpXeWc5NVBFdEFqX2xZbFhJWDYwY0tFUXpZUERYZ0YtbDk2bFItWlNBTFRFc1ZMQ0l4YUFUT1M1c3Y4b3lfVVZINVB5d1J1V0YwOE5yYlB5bHQ4ZTVBZm9DaV9SYnlyUFkzZkxsaUVFWl9HLTJEMG5ZcWsyLW14S181ZkhDUT09 |
Damn, every time I think I have an original thought. | r/television | comment | r/television | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzUGI4V2tQOGk0dmttZmlWQVNrMmhYWkJHS1NoRUJzQjU1Z2J3TUVhWEhEaUp6SnRleUpRNmJTdGF0czduaXVzWDM2blBHVmRLa0QtYWNYNWgtRlJNR0swbXFob3h2LW4weVZDbHdRTXdaMmM9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Ujh6enF5THp4T2swYnh3WnVVc1dTeXVzaXJnMl9qWjBLVmwxNVF3UVRMMF9OcDVLU0RBZFZfdXhfZHRJdG1yTklVSkVxSzZqYW9aTzNjOEZMYVdEaWFuT0tuMy05OFM2aXRmaTNIb2dsVkw2MW9zQzBGMzlVdnMzWWowM1huSEktalNCTGpCRmtaVk4zM2E1d3VIY0lBWDlVaEt2ZHpxMUdfN3ZUcGVmMUJGYUZHYVp1RFNFbml6QVJ3NUQ5ZnF1SWpUb2J4bi1Wa2RZOUg2ZTV6d0Y0UT09 |
Your child’s safety is more important than any adult’s hurt feelings. | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzcmtCWU9aZDFCNlhfY3pQTFhMdWZvRlBDNGY4TFk0UFRmM0p0dzBoUFNsRlFFVUZpbU5oWTRyUUZjcjM1YnJpOHJ4cFlUV2dOd1ZVUFJ5bmxVbEw3Y3c9PQ== | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0Y0wxWTNkLTZUTHZSalFLeUJUOUpJcXdVRjROU2tVYWpEUS13T2phUVVDSFFQY0hBYWszMXQ2T21ZR0x0Q1pjT01wSXZoNXpnQVgydmg2dHhTSkJXeG0xdEg5S3ZsN3NZZkVtUlVQbGZXWXNsc0F1X1lTbGVvWkVITDh6b0tPNmdPY2UtVGFsdVhfSUxPTGRIMEJMR043TEVLZUtOR0xqckwtZl96ZTY0LXJTdVFzanctVUUyWVdEampUNS0xR0JIT05PZFFZWlVLRDNGTzh0QnIyemxtQT09 |
How did you nightwean ? I have a hard time of « just doing it » | r/mommit | comment | r/Mommit | 2024-12-29 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWFzdnF0VFpTNVQ3VVpFR2F6Z2NPRzZTNjhXXzVRQ3Jtek1BbjU1TkJsMk4wUXgwVGh1YmZzX3V3SXFFSFc0V2N5Y3BDLVM0b3VjYW5ER3Y3VlktRll4VjZHRkRucDNvdTVFRW05SkN5eFkzdXc9 | Z0FBQUFBQm5jYWF0TFJiUG8yN29mTTQ0VWEtbnFWUFdvS3Y5N3d5d2xFdXpHQVFmUUNuQkYxZjA2T0FPajRKcWp5QWNudlpFeEVjeE82WFhjb0d5a2hSaDc1OE0yR3VlSXBnTGtHdDVFQ0NveXBmcWxmTjJVQVFoZWFYbHpQNTB5dXZlTDRpRjM2UHZsV25HbHdkNXR1ZU81RVlGZWxYZDUyS0s0bmJISVVTRF9QeVNMLS1ybXBlaHFIR2Jsa1B5Q0tlTVRuUG9udjIw |