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A condition in which I was disgusted followed when I lost money on my way home from the college.

When I was a child I hid under the sheets out of fear of darkness.

Being made to look like a fool by a girl.

An argument that grew out of an ordinary conversation with a person very close to me, when we should have been having a good time together.

My girlfriend gave me some feed-back and I understood that it meant that our relationship was about to turn even closer.

When my father asked me if I was a communist, at the same time he made it clear that I should no longer see myself as his daughter.

Finding out that the university police was afraid to stop the foreign students playing loud music (China's shame).

I wrote a bad letter to someone concerning our relationship which we created ourselves.

When my brother went to shoot wild ducks, I feared that the boat would overturn and he would drown or that the gun would accidentally go off.

When I betrayed my former girlfriend.

There was a lot of irritation between me and a person who lives in the same house where I live. Suddenly it became too much for me and I accused him of several things.

When I got a low grade in an administration course.

When I had to give a speech about some historical event, to an audiece of about 200 people my own age whom I did not know.

I was ashamed when my friend and I were cross with each other till we apologized to each other.

When it was found that I had gone out of the school premises without permisssion and at the wrong time.

I was about to begin a journey in a car with an acquaintance of mine.

Getting slightly intoxicated at the 1984 I.C.C. Ball.

This morning I spent a lot of time on my toilet and missed the train to the university. My mother told me that I spent more time than a woman on my toilet. I felt a mixed emotion of shame and anger.

When we were at home, my husband and I, he made a remark about something I had done, in a perfectly friendly manner. My deed had been unjust and I knew that my husband was right, therefore my sense of shame.

I was on this amusement park ride at Marriots Great America. It went way up in the air and then around and around. Heights are not my favorite spots in life.

Staying alone in the dark.

I was afraid when my boyfriend came home because my parents disapproved him of his coming home. I thought they would chase me out of the house.

When I learnt that my offer to study at the university had been withdrawn and so I would not get hostel accomodation at UNZA, even though I registered as a student later.

People spitting in railway stations.

I was very sad when I had to leave persons with whom I had a very intense relationship I also had to leave the environment which was part of this.

When my father passed away.

During a family reunion, they started talking about me wearing an ear-ring.

At the age of 12 years I always had to take care of my little brother and sister I never could sleep then. I always imagined creepy men sneaking into our house.

When I was baby-sitting at my cousin's place, I tried to have a pleasant time and did not really take care of the child. I do not care very much about children.

When I got separated from my first love.

I had a short lasting sexual relationship with someone I didn't love.

I had to go to the doctor's because of a veneral disease. I told the doctor that I must have been infected by my boy-friend. This was not true, but I was ashamed to tell the truth.

Day I received my T.E. score and acceptance into my chosen course.

When present boyfriend's mother approached my parents and self - to leave her son alone - as she did not want me for a future daughter-in-law.

The time I was at secondary school during the holiday I appeared to my father while heavily drunk and I talked nonsense like in some sort of carefree.

Failing an examination.

Before taking an exam.

When my mother treats me as a 10-year old boy.

Shame I feel when I am not properly dressed.

After having left the company of someone who gave me a lot of support and made me laugh, found myself alone for days on end.

My roommate talking and shaking her bed at night.

Finding out my grades at the end of my freshman year.

It was last September when I felt very sad. It was when I heard that I was not selected to study in the University of Malawi.

After a one year's stay abroad, I returned home. I was even more glad to see how much my family was pleased to see me.

Being mistreated by other people.

We had a birthday party with 5 friends. One of us frequently used hard drugs. On the party I discovered that the other 3 friends also used them. While we agreed we would help the big user to stop using it.

When I had had the possibility to act or to do certain activity better but I had not done it because of reluctance or carelessness.

Person talking about a situation while eating.

When I was told that my friend's wife had cancer.

When finally I found a place to live, I felt relieved, predicting changes in my life, and I became happy.

In the 12/83 my boyfriend asked me to forget him, as it would be easy.

When I heard that a good friend had committed suicide.

I felt guilt when I betrayed the person whom I loved.

I felt disgust as a result of one of my midterms - I thought I had prepared well for it, but the end result wasn't what I had expected.

I had fear when I was left alone at the bus depot at night. I had problems of how to move to this place.

I was to take part in a cocktail party on the occasion of our national holiday as a servant.

I felt very guilty when I tried to teach swimming to my younger brother, as I myself could not swim very well and my brother had started sinking to the bottom, however my elder brother saved him.

I was accused of a misdemeanour, unjustly.

I had an appointment with a good friend. He came 3 hours later than we agreed upon. During the last hour of waiting I was afraid something might had happened, because usally he is in time.

When my last relation broke up.

Riding through a bush fire on an island of Australia - on a pushbike as a little boy - all alone, lost and surrounded by smouldering wood and flame.

When somebody suddenly said something (about me) at a wrong moment and I didn't agree (at that exact moment I was needing an extremely positive word).

My sister forgot to bring presents for my birthday, I was rude to her.

When I was going downhill on skis, and fell down twice the first time.

A close married friend has just had his first child.

When some people, including me, are treated in a way which equates them to an animal or a thing.

Some time ago I promised to meet an acquaintance of mine and to carry him some promised papers. I haven't done it until this day. Now I feel quite awkward when I meet him.

A good friend of mine told me in comfidence that once he had tried to commit suicide. To meet him you wouldn't think so. I told another friend of mine about this when she was feeling depressed about her twin brother's suicide. I broke a bond of confidentiality.

A friend came to visit me and I was not there.

Forced to fill in a questionnaire.

A friend once reacted childishly (he is 23 yearrs old) to my not responding in his favour to a request, that is: he asked me for some money I refused, and his reaction was quite childish.

A relative of mine had come to see my husband to talk to him about a problem concerning his sister and me. I was angry because this relative of mine did not dare to speak to me and instead spoke to my husband. I got to know about it later the same day.

For example, when I have promised something but I haven't fulfilled it.

The first time I left home.

I have a new born child.

[ When some people act very important in any situation.]

A reoccurring fear that something will happen to my relatives.

After 10 days of hard work and having suffered many changes I passed my last exam.

When I was selected for the university.

It was when we were beaten or lost the football match by 5-1 and then I scored the third goal to my own side.

When I hurt a person's feelings.

Stopped at a Fast Food shop with friends and a few locals wanted to fight us for no apparent reason. They hit and picked on one of my friends.

When I beat up my son for having beaten up his sister.

I was walking home with a friend at night along a quiet street. Something started rustling in the bush : it was an exhibitionist.

One time I was injured when I was playing football at School in Blantyre. I was brought to the hospital while my leg was totally swollen. The x-rays confirmed there was no fracture but collection of blood n the muscles. I feared when they started to incise the swollen part with surgical blade.

I got into an argument with a photographer for whom I had to pose twelve times, over a period of four weeks, before I could get a snap of mine. Every time the film was processed my snap did not come out although the others did.

I felt very disgusted at a friend to whom I had given a Psychology book to read, and she did not care to give me back the book during the exams.

About my girlfriend's sister who is a viper as I discovered some time ago.

Left alone in the biology building surrounded by empty buildings.

Yelled at my parents for not buying me a car like other parents.

To see damaged lettuce (with worms) in the icebox.

Not succeeding in a cross-country skiing competition, which I intended to win.

My friend half-teasingly called me a bad nickname. I felt insulted and kicked his hip in anger. I was stable later and did not feel angry at him. In fact I was afraid that the other friends who were with us would think that I was an intolerant person. However I could not apologize, so I pretended that nothing had happened and smiled when I left. My friend did not say anything but just watched me leave.

My mother, my sister and I were sitting in the sitting room and watching a film on TV. My father came home drunk and told us to turn off. When we did not do that he switched off the fuse and started shouting. We were sitting in the dark and I was afraid that he would do us a harm.

The thought of having to read a boring book of 400 pages in English.

I am afraid before an exam or colloquium.

When my lover and I felt like we had gone full circle. And our relationship was new, fresh, vital etc. once again.

When I as a Pakeha (white) new Zealander, was just as racially prejudiced as other people whom I had condemned.

One day I took my playmates to the river to swim and play. One of them was epileptic so he drowned into the water. I felt guilty because it was me who took them there.

Going to CAL not knowing anyone.